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What suicide methods are most likely to look natural, and not be easily detectable by autopsy? Doesn't matter how painful it is.
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>>26518499
doesn't have to involve another vehicle. just go over 60 and slam into something like a tree too big to hug.

race up the off ramp and cut left and off the overpass.
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>>26517445
This method
https://youtu.be/Gc-ZHNooumQ
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>>26518504
bonus points if you're downtown and can launch yourself into a building from the exit ramp
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>>26518468
don't over think this. they likely won't love you back
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>>26518518
I see. Suicide is the solution.

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How can I get it through my father's head that his troubled past, consisting of a very turbulent and somewhat abusive relationship with my now deceased mother (it's complicated), started working at a young age, and being a romantically lonely guy who yearns for love, doesn't excuse him from being a neglectful alcoholic father who should prioritize my little sister?

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How do I find a MILF gf who would let me watch her pee?
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Get a job at a nursing home.

How hard is it to date a fashion model?
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Not that hard, surprisingly. Most men are stupid when it comes to these kinds of girls, so they never seem to figure out how to handle them, how to approach them, or assume they wouldn't be interested in them and avoid her like the plague. In fact, it's not uncommon to hear models complain about this, and how they have to be the ones to make the first moves on the guy. So their expectations/standards for men tend to be lower than the average girl's.
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>>26518561
>So their expectations/standards for men tend to be lower than the average girl's.
You are correct in all parts except this. They might be more receptive to most guys than the average girl, but they're not making the first move on just any guy.
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>>26518538

dating maybe is easy i think people tend to stay with something that benefits them

so if you're the benefit from someone else, it wont be that hard anon
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>>26518576

>coming from someone thats never dated a fashion model
>dont listen to tan skin 5 foot 7 me
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>>26518571
>but they're not making the first move on just any guy
Nobody makes the first move on just anybody, dipshit. Even those who claim to not have high expectations, and they like meeting as many as people as they can, always have some degree of selectivity in it. It's not possible for ANY human to behave otherwise, this isn't exclusive to dating, friendships, or any other interactions.

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Picrews, toonmes, rate me shit, and hookups go to the /soc/ ATOGA: >>>/soc/31217942
Check FAQ; ask for detail on entries needed
Be concise; use linebreaks
This isn't GIOYC

FAQ:
>What do men/women think about <any trait/interest incl. looks/figure, virginity/bodycount, height, fitness, penis/breasts/butt size/shape, sex act>?
>Do any <men/women> like <a complex on the above>?
There's no one answer, but complexes are a turn-off

>Where do I go on a date?
Coffee is the ideal 1st date, but any of these work: food, drinks, ice cream, froyo, film, zoo, aquarium, museum, gallery, park

>I'm shy/afraid of <people/rejection>

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I would like more input

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>>26518566
Why did not use some of the pics I suggested OP?

How do I know if I’ve found the right religion for me? I don’t really care what others think of my spirituality or beliefs or what religion I do end up belonging to, if any. But I want to be at peace with them and be able to act on them. How do I start to come to understand myself spiritually?
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>>26518463
Think of a way of life you think is the correct one. And orient your religion on how you want to live your life.
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>How do I know if I’ve found the right religion for me?

making it sound like it's a fucking pokemon card lol

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Title. I dont, and have never drunk alcohol but it smells strongly alcoholic. what the fuck is going on?
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also I just showered today
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Just wait till your bo starts smelling like weed.
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Do you eat a lot of fruits?

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I've been living "alone" since almost a year ago in a house formerly used by my dad as storage space. I say alone in quotation marks because of the fact that every time my dad gets pissy at her gf, he always crashes at my place and starts moving stuff around, demands all my attention and starts planning "our next move" only to go back to her place 2 months later and completely forgetting our plans. This has happened around 5 times since I started living here.
The reason I wanted to live alone was to be independent (as independent as one can be in a leased house anyway) and being able to do whatever the fuck I want. But having my dad come and go without warning makes any plans of my own unfeasible, because who knows when/if there's gonna be a next time.
I know that the easy answer is "just move to your own place" but I fear that even if I do it's going to be the same, and I'm afraid to leave him to his own because he has cardiac issues. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
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>>26518238
First ... what do you mean by >demands all my attention and starts planning "our next move" only to go back to her place 2 months later and completely forgetting our plans?

Second do you have like a bad relationship with him or something? He is your old man, he just wants some company with you in those difficult situations.

Try to elaborate more, anon.
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>First ... what do you mean by (...)
Right, I should have been more specific. Whenever he's at home, he starts talking about business stuff, how to get rich and shit, and starts planning stuff like "If we sell this house and this and that we can buy [whatever's popular, last time it was a food truck]" and he wants undivided attention from his speech or he gets real insistent that I should be earning as much as him at his age and so on.
It's not all bad, he likes to watch movies with me too, but sometimes I want to do my own thing, you know?
>Do you have like a bad relationship with him or something?
Not really, I love my old man, but having him around 100% of the time after not being very present in my childhood is suffocating.
The truth is I like seeing him happy like this with me. The issue I have with it is the unpredictability of the whole ordeal. If I knew for sure that he'd stay here and not go "welp sorry son I'm going back to my gf's" for a good while I'd have no issues with it.
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>>26518328
Well some few ideas that are probably obvious: Talk with him, let him know you want to make plans on your own sometimes. It's better if you do it while he isn't spending time in the place, so he may reconsider dropping out suddenly the next time.

It's a matter of communication, making sure your dad understand that you want some space for yourself, like inviting people at your place if that's what you want to do.

Perhaps your dad sees you as a loner so maybe that's why he wants to spend most of the time with you or perhaps he also feels scared of being alone, just be sure to talk with him after he is done fighting with his girlfriend.

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My ex and I had basically identical political opinions and agreed on almost everything.

We thought the same way.

It's really hard to find anyone who can actually follow what I'm saying or is interested in it.

I'm starting to think something is wrong with me. Maybe my ex was just pretending to agree with me or something, I don't know.

Please help, I'm having a really hard time. Any time I start saying any of my thoughts people become dismissive.
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>>26517591
I haven't gone online for a long while, and I do indeed go hiking all the time. These are my beliefs that I have formed myself throughout my life.
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>>26517599
good luck then. if you worry so much about your opinions then your opinions will get in your way every time. god is love and love is the law.
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Sometimes I just need to lowered my ego/pride to make them (women) feel right.
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>>26514507
Aside from you being a LARPing faggot why does it matter you say you're a girl?
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>>26514560
look at all these retards you baited, well done

I'm a white guy exclusively attracted to non white girls.

I don't really favor any race particularly, so long as they aren't white.

My issue is my girlfriend(Latina) noticed this, based on the porn on my PC and my past exes. She asked me outright why I don't have porn of white girls but a variety of races, accused me fetishizing women, and isn't talking to me.

I don't think she's blocked me(yet) and she hasn't undone our relationship status on Facebook so I might be able to salvage this.

I've just never really been into white women, and I've valued my all my previous partners romantically, not just sexually.

What should I say? I dunno what to do.
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>>26516029
>hates white people
>cries about "muh /pol/"
>addicted to pornography to the point he uses it while in a relationship
lmao
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>>26516387
>is due to American white women being bad with monogamy. They're so quick to throwing away relationships rather than try and fix issues.

OP you are dumb as fuck, that's exactly what every single fucking Latina do.
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how have you not talked about your preferences beforehand?
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>>26515826
OP women are the same in any country. They don't really change its just a matter of how stable you men are.
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>>26515826
Same, but I'm not white and only date white women exclusively

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Any advice for continuing conversations on text when he's being dry but you can still tell he's not uninterested? I just suppose it feels unexpected for him but you want to still persist. But I'm scared of running out of things to say or it becoming awkward.

Or just any general tips/pointers for texting guys you're hardly even acquainted with?
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>>26517279
Idk, I only have one friend and we mainly game together. We talk about anything though like what we did that day, politics, news, opinions etc.
Talk about your hobbies, or ask him about his. Do some research on his hobby so you know what to ask about. Share interesting videos to talk about.
When I used to talk to a girl I would think of things during the day and write them down to try and keep her interested. I also did this for activities to do if we ever met. It worked well until we lived together and I ran out of ideas to keep her entertained.
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>>26517307
What am I supposed to do leading up to that though; can't just invite him over right off the bat
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>>26517279
Ask him about his hobbies, then when he told you all his hobbies, ask him for a coffee so he can explain them more to you. Don't be a faggot, do it.
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>>26518482
Yes you can dumbass you're the worst fag in history
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>>26517279
he's busy. Try on another day

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How do I not get depressed by atheism? I was religious my whole life but recently I've been flirting with atheism, but the whole thing makes me depressed. How can you not be if supposedly there's no actual meaning to things, we're reducible to natural laws, there's no objective morality or truth, etc.? How can I cope with this? Or should I just stick to my religious background?
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>>26518380
Well, i agree
>>26518387
Who decides how much worth each live has? Thats subjective. Some people will place the value of their dog over some random humans life, other people will defend a rapist against all other lifeforms. In the end, all you will have are opinions, the idea of objective morality is completely absurd
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>>26515869
Don't know. In my case you can't just go back to religion it's what you believe. It must be comfy believing you're going to heaven and are going to see your dead friends and family one day.
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Basically, we're all just distracting ourselves. Think if it this way. Christianity isn't a better way of living but a specific way of dying. Once you see it, you can never unsee it.
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>Pic Related

For me it was really just a matter of shifting my perspective and being a bit humble.

As far as how to get there, go to therapy so you can put down your baggage, and read up on some stoicism and absurdism. Particularly the Meditations of Marcus Arurelius and anything by Albert Camus.

Once you get that life becomes a blast. If there is no plan, YOU make the plan. If nothing is important, then all that matters is what YOU think is important. It's pure and absolute freedom. Which is scary, and a lot of work, and therefore not for everyone. And that's fine.
After all, you can't fuck anything up. If there's no narrative, you can't ruin its ending.

Also consider being agnostic. I'm do feel that the universe has some sort of guiding hand, but it's utterly unknowable, and doesn't give a shit about us. No more than we care about a microbe. Still doesn't mean the two of us aren't there.
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Ah! So that's the thing with life value: while its subjectivity is in and of itself subjective it does follow a general rule of proximity.

I.E. both you and I will have two distinct rankings of life-values for those lives were interact with, however if we boil those relationship down to general bonds trends tend to immerge. Usually with the relationship we each rank as primary having a higher value over others. Then there are those we assign to secondary groups, tertiary, and on and on until a life becomes an abstraction and therefore worthless form one's perspective.

For example, in my primary group I have my kid. Easy number one. There’s nothing I wouldn’t go through on his behalf. Below that is my best friend, father, and brother. Important all, but less so then my son. From thee it goes other friends and family members, then casual acquaintances, then that’s it an abstraction of a life into a data point.

Granter other folks have a lot more layers then I do, but if you did deep enough no rational person can truthfully say they care about all the faggots on this board then their significant other, or the Butt-fucksions on Alpha Sentari more than people in their home town.

Would you hang around with someone who this overweight?
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>>26516498
Believe and like what you want I don’t care I just want your views and advice
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>>26516064
Thanks dude
>>26516274
Yeah that’s the way desu
>>26516438
Guessing I’m not bear mode lol
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>>26513574
Nah my coworker looks like that and I only talk to him because I have to. The poor guy reeks, and his body is absolutely failing in really awful ways. He also complains a lot. He's really a chill dude sometimes but his fatness has taken over his entire person like a virus
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>>26513574
I never understood how fat people walk will all that fat in front. Do you feel back pain all the time?
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yeah I'm skinny but idgaf. I actually think it's based. just look at the seethe ITT

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I'll never have this cause I'm early 20s balding and not ripped/tall

Whats the point boyos
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Minoxidil can cure baldness and lifting will make you jacked, just do that lol. Make sure you do a blood profile to check up on your endocrine system but start lifting and see if minoxidil is right for your body, some are allergic
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>>26518474
I use minoxidil and finasteride every single day. It won't bring me back to my prime, I'll always have thin hair unless I can somehow get 15k so I can go to HLC clinic in Turkey (because they're the only people that are skilled enough to deal with diffuse thinner transplants)

I'm upset because I've been on finasteride for 2 years when I was too far gone, grew back enough but not enough to look decent with long hair, and when I was 19 I was denied finasteride by this doctor that embarrassed me in front of his pretty female assistant talking about how I'm asking for permanent erectile dysfunction

I could've been saved back then.

I'm on finasteride, minoxidil, and I'm an alcoholic for two years and my elections have not faltered one bit. That fucking doctor ruined my life.
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>>26518491
>>26518474
I'm also a 25 yr old virgin who's had severe social anxiety since the age of 12 and started balding since 15
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The only cure now is MOASS cause I'm not getting fucking whipped around by some asshoke fucking indian nigga paying me minimum wage to do all his niggerwork for 12 months to have to save all that shit just to get some hair so I can get pussy so I can decide "oh pussy ain't all that great" some shit I should've done at 17
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>>26518491
Oh, pobrecíto! Nobody cares how hard you complain. Do something positive about it or be silent.

And she seems to know every Latino male..... Openly flirty,gives out hugs, and blow kisses.

Is this a normal thing for Latinos or has she been round the block?
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>>26518419
Have you smash already?
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It's kinda in the culture to be warm as a latino. That is by giving hugs and kisses on the cheek. Openly flirty idk you might have to bring it up to her if you feel this way.

also >latino
o is for men or group of men and women. You're dating a latina.




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