pre gf has been complaining that i dont take her out on dates. so i was thinking about taking her to long john silver tomorrow. is that okay for dates?
>>31070239Climb to the top of one of the towers that hold up a large suspension bridge. Fantastic view and a risky adventure.
>>31070239Long John Silver's chicken is unironically the worst shit I ever tasted in my life.
>>31070239epic fish date KEK
>>31070239Sounds like she’s been waiting so here’s my quick advice as a woman>You can never fail with pasta.Go to an Italian restaurant, doesn’t have to be fancy, most of them look nice >At home you might wanna give her some candy she likes with a cursi note. Doesn’t have to say much, just show you care.>Sex only if she seems like it. It’s nice to be apreciated without it (idk how abt your sex life but yeah) also you can do it any other day
>>31070239Olive gaurdian, macaroni grill, carabas, cheesecake factory, cracker barrel, and red lobstersThese restraunts are good because they pretend to be fancy but are not
Even coming out the other side believing the societal consensus (or rather, the requirement that no one should object) is 100% correct (not true in my case), just having a more nuanced understanding of the subject is a huge social liability. What if you want to live in a cosmopolitan community and have diverse friends? I don’t want to mask my views for the rest of my life. Can I? It doesn’t help that I have OCD. I secretly yearn for the day this stuff is considered proven and enters the mainstream so that society will reconcile itself with it, and so that this will no longer be an issue for me, even if it means the collapse of society. Any /adv/ice?
>>31070314Okay, that’s good advice, I guess. Thanks.
have sex
>>31070636ok bend over
>>31069678Once you pierce the veil you can't un-pierce it. You are on the path to full 1488, it's just how it goes. That said, you absolutely can have "diverse friends", as you can treat them like individual human beings. If they are good people their race doesn't really matter in their interactions with you, right? Unless they're black and you get in a fight with another black, they will absolutely not side with you.
>>31069678just do what you're told, you're notcut out for full sentient livinghttps://odysee.com/@Realfake_Newsource:9/RFNS-1.21-001-010:7
For context: My nose isn't stuffy, I just want to be able to breathe in oxygen so clearly and so purely, that I transport to another dimension, without the need of drugs. What should I use to achieve this goal?
>>31070242As for using breath to steer one's mind and body into relaxation, see picrel.
>>31070217I mean I kind of thought I had Anosmia but that's self-diagnosed, so it's not really that valid. Anyhow, it wouldn't hurt, to know some general advice about nose+breathing!
>>31070341You are not allowed to post Tomoko if you are not a real girl. A REAL one.
>>31070322Permanent broken nose
>>31070203I have chronic sinusitis it is hell. Take care of your nose so you don’t end up like me. I have to mouth breathe forever, the alternative is suffocating and brain damage
>do men expect sex when you’re in a relationship?>will the average man leave if I don’t have sex with them? I’m a cis girl, pretty sure I’m asexual. Is there anything I can do to maintain a sexless relationship with the average man or should I just stay alone forever?
>>31069832Plenty of men are willing to wait for sex—and these men factually have better marital outcomes than others.The issue is that she’s asexual, which is a total foreign concept to anyone who isn’t also asexual.
>>31070587both + CPTSD and DID (I am in constant suffering)
>>31070458my generation has difficulty with the straight definitions of words, they prefer to make up their own words instead. So you'll have great difficulty convincing them otherwise.
>>31069822Men also have mouths and hands.
>>31070564You're not kidding anyone, you're a bloke in a dress.
I (F19) am a straight mesophile-gerontophile (aka attracted to men over 40). I have a job at a place where there are no such people and am studying at university where I (obviously) can't have relationship with lecturers. I recently am finding out that I never really had a relationship in my entire life and at the same time rediscovering how much am I into older guys. So with that... Could you give me an advice on starting a friendship/relationship with a guy who is in his 40s? Where do I even meet those people in person and how to approach them?
>>31068261this is true, I'm 30 and seeing a 20 y/o and I get judged for it by my mates. at the start it pissed me off a little but now I couldn't care less
>>31067621
>>31067621At bars, usually drinking by themselves. At least that is what I do, although I don't look 40.
I'm a gerontophile too. I'd wait til you're a little older. For now try and go for guys who are younger but really mature, maybe dudes who just graduated and have a serious job.I didn't feel comfy fucking old dudes until I was 23 and had a career. Even then, those relationships were casual and secret. Dilfs aren't good boyfriends but they're a hot fuck.Don't get in an actual relationship and don't get groomed, PLEASE
>>31068261Speak for yourself, I want to be around 19 year old girls
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and the sex is the best I've ever had but I feel like it could be better. He's not good at foreplay or talking dirty, but he is good at the actual fucking. I'm not sure how to explain what I want. I want him to dominate me in a gentle sort of way I guess.My best idea is to get him to read an erotic novel but I think he'd laugh at me...
>>31070584Just tell him. Don't expect him to read your mind. Women always do this for some reason lol.
Just forget it. Men are fully incapable of turning a woman on. Use your fantasy, it us your only option.
>>31070605you sound fucking autistic as shit. Maybe you should do this so he can realize he'd be better off without you.Seriously stupid thread.Imagine if a guy was so autistic that he was making a thread like this, I fucking can't.Not in this dating environment, not in this world.You are retarded.
>>31070688More retarded than my boyfriend who doesn't get it?2 retards in love if u ask me.
>>31070688Women have no problems turning men on because they are not fucking selfish, so a man would not need to make such a thread.
>24>Still live with abusive momIt's over isn't it
>>31070244Plan a journey with Google Maps and either walk to the bus stop/train station or order a folding bicycle on the Internet to get there.
>>31070674Or just book a cab.
>>31070244You got a bus station, right?
>>31070194Also, if you buy a vehicle, especially a beater, then definitely join the automobile association or have insurance that includes roadside assistance.
Your mom can't abuse you if you're a 24-year-old man
This thread is going to read like a madman's ramblings. Sorry about that. I had oneitis for the first time in forever. I don't know what to do about it. >be me>24 years old>unironic phobia of talking to girls>possibly severely depressed for years but undiagnosed - 'you just need purpose!'>get invited to a graduate bootcamp>way out of my league>first year MA around fourth year PhDs>see an incredibly cute girl>whatisthisfeeling.jpg>things happen>power through all kinds of thoughts>establish contact, spend (minimal) time togetherComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Bump.
>>31065416i wish you weren't a tripfag, kinda kills my mood to give you genuine advice... but you sound legit insane so let me help you.but only if you reply within 5 min so i know ur still lurking
I am.
Help me.
I'd give anything to be a normalfag.
>>31070567t. a looser loser
>>31070563I'm a normalfag. My IQ is one point below qualifying for the giga society. Try again, your cope is sad. Social awkwardness comes from a lack of social experience paired with the risk of social rejection and the long term consequences of that in a closed social dynamic. Or autism, autism also creates social awkwardness because autists aren't people. They're only partially made.
>>31070563Dunno, man. I scored 102 on the Mensa online IQ test. I know online tests aren't that reliable, but I must be really average or even below average. Besides, I have met a considerable amount of normalfags who were way more intelligent than me. Actually, I share most of my classes at uni with two of them, and both have better grades, better thinking and better social skills than me. And one of them is a fat faggot, to my surprise when I saw how intelligent and sociable he was.>>31070568Nooo! I'd never do something this cruel to my cat!
>>31070597Normalfags are not on 4chan. Nice try autism incel.
>>31070597>cope>giganot a normalfag nobody is falling for your larp
>>31066926It depends.Are you genuinely suicidal or just le sad?If you don't envisage that life will ever get any better, then embrace the void.
therapy is all u need
fent
>>31066926Physical activity and some contact sport worked for me.
become an adrenaline junkie
Had a conversation with my younger sis and I’m curious to hear opinions…
>>31069447In my experience it's the youngest. That's when they get the hang of it. The oldest is the guinea pig.
>>31069447Mother's love the kid that gave them the worst time raising in a scenario with one or more siblings.
>>31069447Dad's love their daughters the most, moms love their sons the most.
>>31069447I'm the oldest of 4. I wouldn't say I'm the favorite but I would say I got away with a lot more and got to do more extracurriculars because she didn't know what she was doing yet and wasn't burnt out/paying for dance lessons or whatever else for 4 kids.
>>31069447in my case yeah, im younger, im an outcast, family hates me. Ironically my older brother is the only one I get along with.I'm in my 20's and went to visit my grandfather after not seeing him for like 8 years. I'm a 3D freelance artist, still early in my career, don't make a whole lot more than minimum wage as of yet, but I'm competent. But my grandfather got wind that I was poor and told me I was a disappointment and was never going to get anywhere with my life. I left and stopped talking to anyone in my family but my older brother after that.
Does anyone here work as a security guard? How is it and what's the pay like? I just want to make a decent living wage as a retard.
>>31070463Not OP but is it possible to work as freelancer / self employed dude?Thinking of getting a night security job and try to build a business. Since it is programming I need to focus on that shit though.
>>31070475Are you talking about like, working on another job while on the job? Probably depends on the area but generally speaking yeah, you could generally do that without issue. It would work out best if it was a side hustle that you could step away from at least on occasion. Most (but not all) the sites I worked at, I was working solo, so it was very easy to do.If you're talking about doing like freelance security work, I think that would be possible too but I have no idea how that would all work. Probably go into consultation I guess? Not sure if there's a huge market for it, but social engineering/breaking into places and finding weak points in any kind of security would be a fun job to do. Would love to get into that if there's a way.
>>31070463What's going one during that 5% of having to do something? How was the process of becoming a security guard? Even if the pay is low, is it still good enough to live off of?
>>31070519Doing the actual work, which would consist of - doing rounds around the site you're posted at, doing paperwork and documenting everything for the day, writing up any incident reports of unusual things that happened on that shift, or assisting the client with any of their requests, which would be like escorting someone on/off the site, meetings with clients, or anything else. You're basically a beat cop that walks around, observes stuff, and reports it to others if anything unusual is found.>How was the process of becoming a security guard?The process for me was literally applying, getting offered the job, taking a drug test, doing initial paperwork, then doing more certification stuff while on the job to get "certified". If you're 18+ and didn't acquire multiple felonies, you would likely get hired. Driving license might be required for certain jobs, but it's not a dealbreaker if you dont have.>Even if the pay is low, is it still good enough to live off of?I won't delude you, the pay isn't great and while you could get a little studio or a multiple room apartment with some buddies, it's not ideal. I'd consider it a starting job and use the free time you have to either do a side hustle and/or take classes if you can. Use it to build into something greater, IMO. But like I said it's almost always low stress, easy chill work. Don't be like me lol
>>31070569ok thanks
Where can a normal, regular girl find just a regular guy to date?One that's not obsessed with porn, anime or AI girlfriends.
>>31070400Yeah you'll see that but theres also a pivot towards women, specifcally women past their 30s who can't get married.
>>31069301It isn't, and I would seriously question the methodology of any study that claims that it is.
>>31070441So all of them?
>>31070445You haven't even provided one, and all the studies I've seen for the last 15-20 years have shown the opposite.
>>31059346how did no one in this board notice that that "woman" is a tranny?
Ask me anything
>>31069698are you rich? if not, I don't care about you.
>>31069698tell me im pretty.
>>31069923YWNBAW
>>31069698how did you get resurrected?what hell was like?
>>31069698May I punch your brother in the nose?
I've looked through 4000 job listings. 99% are either $12 Warehouse. $12 Retail or $12 Janitor. Some $15 bank teller. IT is oversaturated. 14k applicants for entry level jobs. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
>>31069686dem dere tugjob handshave you considered working at a massage parlor?
>>31069517Network.Cold-applying to jobs is for schlubs.Find a friend or family member in a field you want to work in. Ask to have lunch/coffee/some beers with him and talk about his job. Find out what it's like and see if he can help you break into his field if you're interested.
>>31069517You have to differentiate yourself.Businesses can choose the best candidate, so if you want a job, you'll have to apply to a job, where you are attractive to employers. So if you have no experience in a field, your going to lose to those with experience.So find ways to get experience (internships), or apply for jobs that you already have experience with.
>>31070232U are American so you type generic braindead things
If the sentences weren't structured as ugly as they are I would have accused >>31070232 of copy pasting a GPT response.
