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This dude has been insulting me for a few years now. I tried to stay calm and ignore him but now he had crossed the line.

I have his pictures, school e-mail adress and phone number. I wanted to get a fake phone number and spam him, log him into some fucked up shit etc. None of that is avaliable in my country.

Should I try something and what should I do??
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You have in front of you a legal and a criminal path.
How dumb are you is really the issue at hand?
Have you tried making contact between your fist and his face
Malted milk balls in his gas tank. Sock full of cement mix flushed in his toilet. Sand dumped into a bathroom drain wont melt with drano and is hard to snake. Or cut his brake line. Could put nair in his shampoo bottle, that's a great one. Could send flowers to his place if he lives with a woman and label it something like " still thinking of you, love rebecca" or something. If he's got a dog you could fed it ground beef with xylitol in it, you can get that on amazon fine. There's tons you could do, get creative and decide just how hard you want to go.
How the fuck is he gonna get into his house faggot?
Well if he doesn't want to break in then he doesn't really give a fuck then does he? He also said "my country" so he could be in some dorm or something, who knows

a general thread for femanons who need advice about communicating, dating and courting men.
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True. It's quite difficult for me to accept but perhaps it wasn't that bad. You look awesome, and you have standards and that's alright as long as you are kind. I think.
I’m about as good looking as Elliot is, I’m fucked aren’t I?
T. Man
>xpensive makeup, facial masks, branded handbags, extreme dieting, anorexia, mental health just for physical beauty, at times it wasn't even for "health" anymore, it's just so you could look enticing even if you're dyin
i hope this is bait else this is a fascinating yet harrowing look into potentially widespread stupidity
>courting men.
Literally doesn’t exist. Women are passive by nature, femininity exalts passivity, and courting is an active process. Shut the fuck up with your bait thread FUCK
feel like i'm gonna die alone because it is so exhausting to try and let someone in only to find out they're not what I am looking for.
Really hard to go the route of talking to many people and then taking a pick.
idk how people manage to have readiness to treat so many as potential person to date.
I pick one and focus on the person that ends up being wrong most of the time.

So I have learned the hard way that I’m actually on the lower end of attractiveness from tinder, some of my mates and here, I have some good quality’s but I can’t even demonstrate them because women are not at all interested in even opening the door. (Not salty at all about that it’s just how it goes)

Where to ugly guys meet girls in this day and age? My job is on call and low public interaction, and I only go to the gym.

After getting broken up with everything that use to be enjoyable is really boring and rather then slowly healing I just keep deteriorating more and more.

My only crutch was drinking heavily to get through some bad nights, but I had to stop that due to very reckless driving at 160km/ph that almost resulted in death and a costly repair. (Late at night on a dead open road, would never put anyone in danger)

Both parents tell me to shut up in there own way when it comes to me asking for advice every time, and to find happyness in myself or stop being a pussy but I legitimately can’t while single, I need to pour my affection into something real, do I really just have to sit around and wait for something to happen and there’s nothing I can do to speed the process up? I feel like the last drops of youth I have are slipping away.

Pic related, one of my worst photos the night after I had to quit drinking.
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Tell us about your success with women then
Like almost anything else it's who you know

Who you know consists of being outside and meeting people
Do not, EVER, use Tinder as a metric on how attractive you are. It was usabel a decade ago, by now it's filled with bots and narcissists who would even ghost GigaChad just to feel good for 5 minutes. You can take a pic from a male model and you will get more positive responses but still be ghosted by 5/10.
It's really not good for your mental health to use it.
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Why do I want to abandon my life so badly?

I'm in my first semester of college, after working a blue collar job for about a year right out of high school. Didn't like blue collar and this first semester of college is making me remember why I did the bare minimum in high school: I fucking hate it.

I want nothing more than to drop everything, cease contact with everyone I know, and wander the world with nothing but the clothes on my back. No deadlines, no schedule, no expectations, I can experience what this world TRULY has to offer; maybe I'm just severely depressed and jaded but I have no interest in what a "normal" life has to offer me.

I bust my ass and stress myself the fuck out through college and for what? More work, more stress, bills to pay. My only rewards will be material goods, which I care nothing for.
TL;DR: Why should I participate in society when I know my only real rewards will be manmade objects? I'm no Einstein, I don't have the capacity to change the world.
It seems good from the first look, but you can be very evil not described for obvious reason. Would wander too myself.
because you are realizing in order to live you are going to have to work and you cant fuck around any more, no more staying home from school to play halo no more letting people know you dont like them

you could find a easy life you just have to make sure you arnt fucking up or fuck up. also most ways of living take work and have to be dealt with day to day, living in the woods? guess what you are hunting and gathering all day and spending time doing shit to live. life is filled with doing shit you may or may not want to be doing at a time

dont want to hunt a deer *dies*
dont want to work to day *dies*
Hunter gatherers only had to work 2-3 days per week to feed their entire extended family

Nice cope though
you would be fucking solo and having to do everything, it doesnt matter unless you actually like doing that shit and that fucking assumes you live in a area that has that fucking many animals or at least big ones, fucking so many american frontier men fucking starved and had to fucking hunt for ever to fucking find shit to feed their starving family

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I want somebody from /mu/ or wherever the fuck else to help make my brother's music for free because he keeps bothering me every fucking second when I don't even have the professional skills to help him make music. I don't know how to compose music, I don't know how to mix and master, and I definitely don't have ideas. He's making me want to kick the shit out of him or murder him because he keeps on bothering me, so I need somebody to help me RIGHT FUCKING NOW.

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why are you alive?
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Cause I want to go travel a bit and wait out till my parents and siblings die before offing myself.
Maybe shit will change and I end up starting a family but I don't think thats going to happen. I have no real interests that matter and girls that would probably be good mothers are not interested in me despite working my ass off to look better. Life feels pointless.
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I'm alive because my mother forgot to take the pill.
>Why don't you shoot yourself?
I want to see society collapse before I go. I feel we are close to the end of an Era. I want to witness it.
racking up good karma for next time. Also waiting for eventual robo gfs to become a thing.
I think/ hope God just finds it funny I'm still alive.
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hey that's nice! frog related

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How does one meditate properly?
How many kinds of meditation are there?
How long should you meditate for?
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More important than focusing on stuff is getting as close to possible to not thinking and having a totally clear mind. Focusing on repetitive external stuff is just a means to that end. One of the teaching styles I was exposed to back then was something like movement meditation, super slow and thoughtful movements that are your way of emptying your mind. Or focusing on breezes and temperature changes on different parts of your body. Or going through every part of your body from your head to your toes and making sure every muscle is relaxed, not tensed. All the while trying not to actually have coherent thoughts and even when those thoughts do come in, guiding your mind back to quiet calm
> How many kinds of meditation are there?
Tons. If you go native, there are all sorts of colorful traditions that are entangled with spiritual beliefs. If you go Westernized-localized, the more modern traditions try to theorycraft the practical techniques into neuroscience theories and findings.

> How does one meditate properly?
It depends on what tradition you ask. The cluster of Western-localized traditions that seem to agree with other the most are the ones that took from the vipassana/mindfulness traditions. So they feel the most peer-reviewed and sensible (although the homeopaths ALSO favorably peer review each other so that's exactly not a foolproof gauge).

They all converge on the basic idea that you can train awareness and focus like a skill or a muscle, and focusing on the breath (or some other arbitrary neutral sensory input) is the most basic training method. Beyond that, they start to diverge, often claiming different benefits from developing the skill/strength or claiming different destinations based on their experience of ENLIGHTENMENT, which is what apparently happens when you take your razor sharp focus ability and shove it into examining some mental mechanism.

> How long should you meditate for?
One account of attaining ENLIGHTENMENT said that it takes as many hours as getting a legit Phd. Efficiency matters: if it takes X hours of willful effort to reach the end goal, it will take 2X hours if you literally 50%-ass your sessions. Many people report benefits even if you don't reach the ENLIGHTENMENT endgame.
>too expensive
most of their materials are available for free online. if you don't want to invest money (and there can be good reason for that) and are too much of a baby to take a written or recorded instruction and try that out to see if it works, then at least start by doing your own background reading and research.
Thanks to everyone for their replies. Last bump
"chan buddhism" is the chinese branch of buddhism from which zen buddhism developed btw. so much of the roots of zen buddhism are still just chan buddhism.
and no, no relation to the chans, chan as in 2chan, 4chan is a japanese word, "chan" in "chan buddhism" is chinese.
chan buddhism in turn derives from indian mahayana buddhism. so you can say that zen buddhism has roots in chan buddhism and mahayana buddhism.

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How can I turn into the exciting bad guy that girls love instead of the boring normal guy that I am?
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>Girls don’t love bad guys
This is a lie.
Shave your head, even if you have good hair.
Grow a beard.
Get a tattoo
Get a motorcycle.
Take up a contact sport; judo, wrestling, boxing, american football, rugby.
In 12 months you'll laugh at the thought you gave a shit what women think.
Girls like dark-triad men who can make up for their behavior with their looks.
Shut up. Men need to be lead on with the carrot on a stick.
probably because you'll be too busy having gay sex with twinks

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>does HRT
>no dad
I need a normie's perspective. What would you think of me if you knew only about these three aspects of me?
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After reading this thread you seem like a very stereotypical gay guy. Because of that I find your word use of normie ironic. Also >>28583006 this isn't how you use "checked", newfriend.
Nutcase obsessed with anime that has little to no friends and is ugly as sin.
Also, probably has no personal hygiene standards.
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>I need a normie's perspective
You won't find that on 4chan, but some important things to consider here:
The vast majority of people will not care about you at all because they will not know you and you will not be in their lives.
The only people who might care about you are the ones who let LGBT people live rent free in their heads 24/7.
The question is inherently pointless because nobody will meet you and only know these 3 things without any other context surrounding you as a person.
I didn't read your discussion with other people in the thread so idk how nuanced you feel your usage of hrt is, but it'll probably depend on how you present yourself. If you're an uwu femboy who wears skirts and makeup and shit, people will just see you the same as any tranny. If you present masc, then you'll probably just be seen as a hyper-flamer faggot. From there, it's just based on however the person you're interacting with sees you.
>inb4 i read the rest of the thread and it's just a troll baiting people by obviously just being a tranny but claiming to still be cis
Do you give good head?
I would assume that you are a prison gay type and years of self-isolation has made you desperate enough to get fucked by men. And as the other anon said, absolutely desperate for attention from any masculine figure.

What is an alternative to pay-pal when it comes to making anonymous, (or mostly anonymous) purchases online?
I decided to use pay-pal to make some questionable purchases recently, and now they've frozen my account and won't
let me delete it either until I submit a photo of my driver's license. They say they're doing this because of "Suspicious purchases",
but they already have my full name, address, e-mail, phone number.... Why do they want my driver's license? I don't want them to
have a photo of the guy that made these embarrassing purchases. I guess my account will stay in permanent limbo, because I'm too
embarrassed to submit my photo.. Any alternatives?

I've tried using gift cards and other prepaid debit cards, most of the sites I use don't accept them.
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>embarrassing purchases
Prepaid cards bought using monero from cakewallet
>I've tried using gift cards and other prepaid debit cards, most of the sites I use don't accept them.

Porn comics on patreon

I was recently rejected by my crush. We are still friends and she even stated she sees me as a brother. I don't want my feelings to ruin our friendship, but I haven't been able to get over her. What should I do?
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I should have clarified that I am not OP, apologies for distracting from his thread, my situation is somewhat different.
Advice still applies I guess
Reading posts like this is depressing. Especially since I seem to be on the same path. It hasn't been nearly as long but even though I've tried to focus on another women I don't think I can get totally over her. She might stay in my heart forever.
Oh man, just wait until you find out about Dante Alighieri and the real life Beatrice Portinari
(He never stopped loving her, even though he was married and had kids with another woman)
I know about that. Also Francesco Petrarch and Laura.
Life experienced old fart with kids and shit here - I can give you a proper advice. Like the kinda advice you get from a craftsmen when asking him about what you should do about renovating your home. I could also teach you how to weld if you needed it.

I don't know about the story of the rejection but theres either 2 things that happened:
She likes you but isn't convinced you got the balls and shit to give her what she needs or you're absolutely not her type and has just been keeping you around for god knows what reasons.

From what I can see there are 2 options, but thinking about them will be hard because you probably can't think straight about this. I've been there too. You should take a week off or something and go some place a bit away like the mountains or the beach or wherever you can go to get a clear head. Do some sports like swimming or hiking. Maybe meet some new people to get shit out of your head. You need to be able to think CLEAR about this.

Then you decide - is that chick a keeper for life or did you just get all sentimental because your dick assumed control?
If she's really what you want and need - speaking mathematically, because what use will she be if you marry her and end up unhappy, end up going to jail because you beat her to death after cheating or with tons of debts after divorce - be a bloody man about it. She say she don't need you? Well Nigga convince her, conquer her and take her - after all she's a woman. She don't even know what she wants. Just don't be all sentimental about it, women can smell that. Be a man about it.

And one pill that's hard to swallow: If you truly love someone and he loves you back you should tell him, but let him go. If he comes back to you, he's gon' be with you forever.

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I had a girlfriend once, and back when we were together 2 years ago she felt like an amazing, caring and supporting person and I showered in love, attention and gifts. Some of the best memories I have are with her. I genuinly loved her.
But we eventually broke up because I wanted sex and she didnt. At the time we broke up I thought this was normal and she just wasnt a sexual person and thus it wouldnt be healthy to force myself into someone I wasnt compatible with. But as time went on I started to question if she was actually using me as a practice bf - because if she wasnt, why didnt she want me? This feeling only got stronger when I discovered her new bf was an absolute chad (>6f, muscular, tanned, rich, you name it).
The more I thought about our relationship, the more I realised - She never posted a pic of us together in her socials, she barely talked to me when her friends were around, small stuff like that.
Then, just yesterday, I found picrel on an incel thread and BOOM - my world shattered. I was never loved.
Idk how to cope with this. My whole self-steem was built around the fact that someone once loved me, but that was a lie. Is there anyone here who has had a similar experience? I'm literally crying right now.
Not every salmon makes it to the spawning grounds on time. You're not alone.
do not waste emotions on a hoe
I've wondered about this with my Ex- I'll never know for sure, haven't talked to her in 4+ years and even if we did reconnect, I'm not sure it matters. You're better off not knowing- What would her saying:
> Sorry anon you were just practice TEE HEE
do to your psyche? All you can do is cherish the memories but realize that person doesn't exist any more. Date other people, improve yourself, and try to forget.

Btw, in that pic you posted- the girls didn't love the chads either, they just loved the emotions and feelings in the moment. It's kind of a weird narcissism/hedonism that some women tend to have. Being chad does not make you immune- Most men in my experience seem to just want *loved* meanwhile Stacy just wants railed, or access to the dudes lambo, or countless other things that he is attached to, and not him. When it comes to sex, if it's not you it's going to be someone else because she has 6 guys in her DMs waiting.
The only mistake you made anon was caring more than she did. A good amount of women ARE sane and don't act like this, but they tend to not be single for very long, and don't try to Chadmax like many modern girls.

I could write more but it's going to get redundant- just lookmax as hard as you can and try to find someone else interested. It gets harder the older you get.

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>be me
>completing a job application online
>Equality & Diversity Monitoring part
>what are you? who do you like to fuck? are you religious?
What do I even say if I am a hetero, white, Christian male?
I can never compete with the darkies. Should I put Muslim from Africa? Can they call me out on the interview?
I am really conserned. Now I have left all to 'Prefer not to say' but this also feels like "I am the fucking white male".
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Just say you're a womyn. What are they gonna do, misgender you?
Just be honest bro, God will help you get a job.

t. You but black
This blew my mind. Thank you Jesus. I won't deny you for a puny application.
You good bro

also a tip:
pray before doing anything, putting him first signifies you prioritize him first before all things
I believe so much, but I am a terrible Christian. Thanx doge.

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>just started making 50k this year
>2 unfinished degrees
>40k in savings (half cash, half in the bank)
>still live with mom
>0 friends
Is there still a chance to get my life back on track or should I give up and accept life as a 4chan loser?
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>Why did you start a different degree though when you went back the second time? Why not just finish the first one?
Hard to explain, but I wanted to avoid the memories I associated with my first degree. If I move out I feel I might have the confidence to continue 1 of the degrees since I'll feel like less of a basement dwelling loser, though I'm not sure which of the 2 I should go for. It was a Biology BS and Math BS.
OP here. I live in 1 of the most expensive cities on Earth and I can't really move given my job.
In Greece people make 600-700 a month
Your point?

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Would going to community college be a good way to get 18 year old pussy? All I want is to fuck 18 or 19 year old pussy and I'm a 29 year old virign except for one limp blowjob. I don't care if she's fat. I'm not taking any classes but I could probably fake it pretty easily. They never asked any questions when I worked nearby and I would go to the cafeteria there because it was cheap. I was thinking of doing that. I never made any friends when I actually went there but I also didn't have a car or job back then. Any advice?
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I just wanted to go to parties with 18 y.o. to 21 y.o. pussy there.
I tried to fuck a fst woman in her 40s I was hoping a younger fat girl would be more palatable.
unless you're american and the drinking age is 27 years old, why not hit up the college bar that's full of 18 year olds?
I don't know how to find those
I'm American.
I'm too ugly for clubs I think.
How hard is it to fuck 21 year old fat women if you're skinny and kinda ugly?
True but they're illegal where I live and a lawyer is more expensive than any whore.
You're afraid to pay for sex but not afraid of a sub-21 year old lying to get booze? You know how common that is? Go get laid and play it cool

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