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Do you guys think losing your virginity with a prostitute only to get experience is a good idea?
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a little background info:

I'm basically an /r9k/ incel but i've been working on myself in the last few years and i got to a point where i could potentially get a gf anytime.. But if i get one, i'd be terrible in bed since i never had sex before, so i tought visiting a prostitute could be very helpful. I've already bookmarked some really decent one but i'm not sure if i really wanna do it...

Should i do it /adv/?
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>>20915334
Uh i did it at age 15 and i regret it. But my best friend did it a month later and said it was one of his good decisions and life and sometimes frequented whores from age 15 to 20.
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>>20915355

Why did you regret it, anon?
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>>20915343
There's a certain appeal of cute innocence to being terrible in bed. If that's your only concern, I wouldn't fret about it.
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>>20915334
>>20915343
Where do I even go to find "escorts"?

Are feminine personality traits something that can be potentially attractive to females, or is it objectively not good? I like to cook, I never try to constantly dominate others but I’ll stand up for myself if I have to, i pay constant attention to my looks (I look quite feminine due to gook genes), im introverted (not to the point of social isolation), and I’m emotional with close friends. I do have some masculine traits such as working out, persistence, and being good at learning new skills
>inb4 ur a faggot
I never rejected the idea of being gay as a possibility, but I honest to god cannot see myself being attracted to men. I can’t even see myself as bi
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>>20915400
Some guys do understand being dominant as being an asshole.
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>>20915395
>masculine girls
I should probably clarify that I do NOT like being dominated which is something that masculine women will try to do. Being submissive is something that I can’t help sometimes but it’s definitely not a preference
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>>20915406
What do you mean by dominating? Like in bed? In conversation? In life decisions ('I do not WANT to move to memphis with you')?
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>>20915381
Stop thinking in these terms.
People are individuals. Meet someone who is right for you and you have a good balance with.
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>>20915416
Life decisions. I haven’t even considered what I like in bed yet

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How can I grow 2 more centimeters if I haven't grown in 2 years ( I'm 18 ) and I'm 169
This is VERY important
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>>20915399
lol in what kind of a shithole do you live?
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>>20915421
Serbia
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>>20915441
That explains a lot
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>>20915136
Stop bitching you can't. Do you want to get into uni or not?
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>>20915399
How the hell can there be a height requirement for a university subject? You're making shit up.

How do you even know if you want a gf at all?
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>>20915336
They showed interest, let yourself feel good about that in the moment and try not to think about where things may/may not go.
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>>20914125
It's not so much if you want "a" gf, but rather if the woman is someone you can see yourself living with.

It's "the" gf that matters.
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>>20915392
Not OP, but that's not what the purpoted "pussy slayer Chad" lifestyle is about, is it? What is that about, then? Is it just a hedonistic dead end? Do Chads even settle for homely gfs, full of past regrets, or do they look back and see glory days?
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>>20915402
Chads only have a leaderboard in mind.
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>>20915402
Pussy slayer Chad isn't a real thing, it's a one-dimensional character that /r9k/ dreamed up as some kind of bogeyman to rationalize their own intellectual superiority.

The "lifestyle" they used as a template was the curious university student that sleeps around because it's easy to do so in that setting.

"Chads" will end up with anyone, just like the rest. Maybe he settles. Maybe he finds a comely woman that has all the qualities he loves. There is no template for what you can and cannot want in a woman. Maybe he yearns every day for his old life, or maybe he's happy for every new day waking up with the wife he has. Maybe what he wants in a woman is obedience, maybe he wants a crazy bitch that gets him going.

If you want to talk about "Chad" lifestyles, it's simply an amorphous twist of the fact that some people bloom early in life, and some bloom late (and a few not at all).
I have a friend that bloomed early and did a lot of "Chad" things when he was 21-28, another that had his "Chad" period 27-34, and I did my "Chad" thing from 21-24 and then again 28-34. I was a nerd in school, played DnD and LAN parties during the weekends if that matters. Oh, and the usual things. I have an average penis, I'm tall, and I'm not rich.
Nowadays I get a lot of attention, girls walk up to me and ask me questions (usually about my height or age), and every now and then someone will slip me a napkin with a number, even though I usually start by mentioning I have a gf.

Furthermore, you can be quite hedonistic even with a gf.

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to give honest answers, don't answer questions.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?

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>have crush on coworker
>i won't see her again after this week
>s-should i ask her to keep in touch or something?
>she probably doesn't even like me romantically
>but you miss 100% of the shots you don't make
what do? how do i ask her out while minimizing the chance of rejection, her making fun of me to her friends and HR issues

>tfw go for coffee with her and other coworker
>she always walks by his side and stands nearer to him
how do i get her to become interested in me?
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>>20913865
She doesn’t ignore your skype messages or emails now does she? And she’s leaving anyways so what do you have to lose by texting her? If she doesn’t respond then you’ll be in the same position that you were already in
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Get off the internet for 2 days. Ask he out when you are less numbed.
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>>20914203
I've tried once before messaging a girl

She was just being nice, never replied to my text

Why would they, they have real friends and probably get hundreds of messages a day

Replying at work is courtesy. Texting is different tbqh

I'll see her in a couple of days. If I don't ask her to connect in person, I'll text her
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>>20899066
>dating a coworker
There's a reason that's often looked down upon OP. If it's a job you care about and plan of keeping in the long run, then don't crap where you eat.
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>>20906719
Best non-advice.
Be the best version of yourself, however!...

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the girl who rejected me when i was in high school invited me to her wedding. what do?
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Tell her to fuck off, or better even, ghost her.
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>>20915067
>normies get sex with someone of their choosing, just by wanting it
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reject her back
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>>20914996
I by no way claim responsibility for your actions nor condone them. Each decision on from now is your own
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>>20915081
>normalfags afraid to use the word fag because it might offended somebody

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Maybe it's just not meant to be.
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>>20915426
This. A lot of people just don't understand the severity of depression.
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>>20915431
yes and no. older generation thinks that if you're physically okay then you're perfectly normal.
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>>20915431
>the severity of depression.
Even though I should seek help, does depression give me a tiny bit of a right (or an excuse) for bad things I've done, like ghosting people or not being always grateful for the favors people claim they have done for me?
For example I'm mad at my parents because for years they have told me I shouldn't see a therapist. But they say that they have done more than enough for me for simple things like my dad driving to pick me up after work. And that it's my fault because I shouldn't have listened to them and should be looking for help 100% myself despite what they say somehow.
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I want to hit someone with a metal pole, watch their blood drip down in small increments, pooling on the damp, cool concrete floor.
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when the pizza so thick cheese gets stuck to the top of the box

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Always had a lump on my dick but jerked it too hard the other day and it was painful for like 2 days. So I go look again and this shit went down:

>See white shit in a hole in the skin
>Decide fuck it I'm gonna squeeze this shit out
>Do it for like 30 minutes
Most of it is just white pus shit
>Suddenly penispain.bat
>The lump pushed up to the hole
>Orange fuck pops out the side of my dick (in pic)

Am I gonna die or something? What the fuck do I do?
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>>20915435
Is it hard or soft? The orange thing, not your benis

My girlfriend is 2 weeks pregnant by home pregnancy test. She is very against abortion and idk how I’d ever face her or her family again if I convinced her to do it.

I’m hoping to go to medical school and become a surgeon. I also come from a family where premarriage babies are entirely forbidden and my mother would be ridiculed (she has been abused by her family all her life). This is problematic here.


What do I do?
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>>20914491
Most of these moralfags replying assume you didn't use protection or your brain, but I'll do the opposite because I'm not a pretentious asshole nor do I condone that. If you 100% plan on leaving her, let her know before she gets to far in so she has a chance to change her mind. Kids with no dad are always slightly fucked up even if it doesnt show on the surface. Putting it up for adoption can provide similar or worse results. Time is of the essence with abortion so I'd do it asap. Also, hopefully her family doesnt already know, and they don't have to. I'm also sorry to hear your family is petty enough to ridicule your mom over something you did. If you do like this girl enough maybe you could bail on them and start over. School and a kid is not impossible but it'll be hard work. I am also a firm believer that having a kid when you don't want one is a bad idea. People who say life is precious usually didn't have any problems growing or any sort of instability. They don't know what its like to grow up in a shitty situation especially with only one parent. Life is cool, but not when youre gonna force hardships on that life no one should have to deal with
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>>20914491
people have done crazier things than go to school while being a parent. especially if they have a dedicated waifu.

if she is down with being a supportive waifu that wants you to succeed as a surgeon, there really isnt a problem here.

if she thinks she can have the baby and also stay in the important busines of the extended kindergarten that is college so she can get a degree for her glorious career in HR; dump the cunt.
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"Accidentally" punch her in the Stomach.
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>>20914491
If abortion isn't an option, you'll simply have to suck it up and take care of the child.

You don't need to throw away your entire career. If i were in your shoes, i'd immediately tell my parents and grandparents about it. Try to garner their support. You and your girlfriend aren't at the point in your lives where you can take full responsibility for your child. If you have a good relationship with your parents, and she does with her parents, you can invite your parents in the raising of this child. They will be happy to help you i promise.
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>>20914491

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Is this a bad-looking ass? How bad? Female, if you can't tell.
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>>20915261
Average...
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>>20915261
>rolling up your granny panties
just get some nicer panties. your ass is fine.
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>>20915261
completely average.
also
>>>/soc/
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>>20915266
>>20915273
These.
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>>20915261
It's average and I like it ;)

will graduate soon, any tips on how to survive life?
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I'm in the same boat, but I know that financial literacy & learning to live a frugal life are CRUCIAL for the future. (make a budget excel sheet to keep track of expenses, for nstance)
Also, getting as much experience as we got the time & energy to do so.
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>>20915410
Nice cat pic, here i just tookpic related.

Also, find something where you feel useful. This will be good for you mentally. Find a partner and care for your friends&family.

Why do girls absolutely despise intelligent men such as me? It's really frustrating having to dumb myself down every time I talk to a girl, so that they wouldn't feel threatened or "creeped out" by my intelligence. Should I just give up on women all together and settle for prostitutes? All the great philosophers talked bad about women also and I'm beginning to think that they were right about everything, especially these days with women when they have thousands if not millions of options, and don't have to settle for one guy.
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>>20915304
It's because the world has made women so liberal.
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>>20915326
You're not making any sense. Even if that were true, which it's not, why would that matter? It sounds like you get all your worldviews from your fellow /pol/ incels. Because actually thinking for yourself is hard.
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>>20914633
This can't be true

Arent most women actually intelligent and not some dumb fucking blonde??
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>>20914631
well what kinda intelligent are you? Are you some Chemist or Programmer or are you the guy who wants do discuss Jean Baudrillard for 4 hours and how it has relevance in the making of a Post Systematic Narrative that's now being perpetuated by mass media conglomerates on a meta level for propaganda purposes paradoxically? Of its the later then yeah, no ones going to want to fuck a dude with no real answers.
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>>20914631
Maybe you dont get any pussy because youre all 'woe is me' 2/3 of my boyfriends have been smarter than me in legit every way (no. of and thickness of books they read, grades they get, difficulty of their majors) and neither of them dumbed themselves down for me or ever explicitly tried to measure our intelligence levels for comparison

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I'm having an arranged marriage with a 16 year old girl I used to babysit, I'm 26. How do I be the best husband possible?
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Women like it when you hit them for their discretions.
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>>20915314
Just because she doesn't want to go into crippling debt or be a wageslave doesn't make her lazy. Makes her smart tbqh.
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>>20912314
>16
>early
well because of normiecunts like you we cant have nice things
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>>20915347
>>20915356
you people are fucking disgusting

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So our adult asses were discording while gaming minecraft of all things, anyway.
My friend just sort of jokingly hinted at a gangbang with us in the discord.
Backstory> At my friends house gaming/chilling.
>We are in discord with 3 other people.
One couple (who he hinted at) and one other friend of his.
Apparently he has a crush on this girl in this couple, and he has hinted at sex with her in a drunk discord conversation a while back.
Her BF and me etc just try to steer the convo in another direction on the occasions that it happen.
He has also jokingly hinted that i should join him in fucking his fiancee.
How do i approach this?.
Deep down i want to fuck most living things,
If he honestly asked me if i wanted to join him in fucking his gf i would, what should i do?.
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>what should i do?

Have some fun? Ffs, it‘s only people rubbing, sucking and licking each other‘s genitals. Why do people make such a big deal out of it?
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Also, nice pic op.
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>>20915134
Reason i ask is because i don't want this group of friends to split up over sex.
And i'm worried that my mind and view of my friends will alter into something permanently negative.
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>>20915125
lone digger?
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>>20915324
Yes.


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