Need a good book on fetishes, how they are born and how to change them.I got a really embarassing one that I want to get rid of.
>>23319517tell us what it is first
>>23319535It's kind of complicated >into big boobs when I was 13>start looking at breast expansion content.>while I'm browsing, accidentally click on this one video of a guy turning into a woman with big boobs>it's a really shitty comic but the idea fucking terrfies me>now am really scared of losing my dick and growing boobs>at the same time, very turned on cuz breast expansion was hotAnyway, I didn't start jerking off until 3 years later and it was to gender bending content. Still absolutely disgusted with this shit but now it pops up in my head whenever I'm fantasizing about anything cool."Wouldn't it suck if you lost your masculinity and became a big titted bimbo"It's like how sometimes you get this urge to jump off the edge when you're really high up or how you get the idea to stab your whole family to death when you pick up a knife. Really want to get rid of it.
>>23319638Ugh, it’s so tiresome. Can’t you children get real hobbies?
>>23319638What was your relationship like with your mother?
>>23319642I was asked for it jackass. I just wanted a book recommendation.>>23319650This bit doesn't work if I already put Freud up there.
>>23319517scent association therapy helped me get over my foot fetishbasically I trained myself to smell feces whenever I looked at feet only problen now is I'm super into anal
>>23319661It all just seems like an overly complicated castration complex that was fetishized out of fear.
>>23319668Anal WOULD be preferable to this shit
>>23319638tame and harmless, who cares. you're not broken, just go read something enjoyable.
>>23319517I got bored of certain types of porn by consuming them a lot over time
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>>23319710when I was 15 our class went to a college psychology introduction lesson where a big fat lady tutor told us all about Freud and how being afraid of spiders is really a fear of pubic hair which lead to everyone in my class being very annoying for two weeks.
>>23319638>Wouldn't it suck ifWhy do Americans frame their wishes that way? Just say you want it.
>>23319638Lol ok troon
>>23319710To be fair to Freud, this part seems like crucial context:>His fear had grown out of an account he heard from a fellow army officer concerning a Chinese torture method in which a large pot containing a live rat was strapped to the buttocks of the victim, and the rat, encouraged by a red-hot poker, would gnaw its way out through the victim's anus.
>>23319671You need to go back
>>23319517you don't need frued, you need jung... fetishes are inherently tied to your shadow & your anima... and fetishes also shouldn't be totally gotten rid of.. they're part of your shadow and that shadow will stay with you your whole life... as long as you don't let your shadow influence others, i think it's okay to have a fetish or two...that said, the more you grow in life and the more you become spiritually at ease, the stronger your ability to quell your shadow will be. then your fetishes will slowly subside together with other nasty crazy sexual libido & stuff like thatread carl jung... "shadow work" "anima/animus" etc etc
>>23319790thats still a pretty far leap to erotic fantasies
