>be 21 year old tranner>currently dating 44 year old man>been together for 3 years and live together for 2>he asked me recently if i would be interested in getting married in the near future>love him and get along with him really well>always treated me really well and supports me and we've never argued about anything>feel like getting married to him would be great>also have creeping feeling of the possibility that someone will never ask me to marry them again>feel like this is influencing me heavily and i might be making mistakeshould I go for it?
>>35547652Do it. Don't ruin this opportunity.
It's more like his last chance, not yours. You hold all the power here. Don't abuse it.
>>35547652You will regret it for the rest of your life if you say no.
>>35547652He will die a longtime before you. Twenty years of elderly loneliness is a long time.
>>35547652I had a guy with a similar age gap ( we are both maybe 8 years older than you two) and I said no because I was too embarrassed by dating an older man to say yeshe also wanted to plap a baby into me and I didn't want to deal with that (he didn't know I was trans)
