I know it sounds rude or bad, but I'm not a good-looking or even average guy, beauty is subjective but from a point of discussion where it is more or less known who is below this average, how has your experience been? I'm 25 and have never had a bf, I have tried bumble, hinge and tinder and I don't even get dates, a few matches where no one answers my messages or I am unmatched, and grindr, when I started using it, it destroyed my self-esteem, now I'm better but every time I say hi I get blocked or ghosted, even when in my profile I say I'm looking for friends, even those who are looking for friends block me, I guess they're just looking for hot friendsSo I would like to read the experience of my friends who were not gifted with beauty, but perhaps with intelligence.
>>35531938I'm in the same boat as you, only 29. I've made two friends from the apps but it's been two years and I still haven't had a boyfriend yet or even had sex.I'm most likely average but seriously contemplating hiring an escort for my first time lmao
>>35531938>before reading last 4 wordslaughing>after reading last 4 wordslaughing extremely hardloooooool
>>35531938Couldn't be worse, i'm 33 and never got any positive interest, no hookups, no dates, no relationship, despite spending years on the apps. My mental health and self-esteem is in ruins and there's no way out.
>>35531938if you were actually intelligent you'd figure out how to advertise. now on the condition you agree that you're mentally disabled and functionally retarded and never try to pretend like you're intelligent ever again i can share something simple for you. just post in your profile honestly that you're a virgin and looking for someone understanding for your first time and that you're nervous. a virgin hunter will come along and eat you up and maybe you'll even develop a relationship with them.
>>35531938Pretty sure I'm below average in terms of looks, but thankfully it doesn't seem to have held me back too much. Just need to have realistic expectations I think and see people beyond their looks and you hope others will do for you.When I was hooking up in my early 20s (mid 30s now but in a monogamous relationship), I could get meet ups fairly easily. Not with like ripped jocks but had no problem connecting with other average guys. I was pretty clear that I wanted to make friends and wouldn't meet people without chatting online a bit first. That worked well, made some good friends. One eventually became my husband.I tended to connect with guys a little older than me as early 20s guys could be kinda immature and that was great. But my profile was well written I think to show some communication skills, indicated that I enjoyed talking and connecting (as well as discovering gay sex), and that seemed to sift well so I got mostly good guys connecting with me, despite my below average looks.
>>3553193818. Not great. I wouldn't say I look bad in terms of beauty but I have a disability that makes things really bad for me. Before my disability I did get a lot of action tho. Now all I do is do drugs and blame the world for my problems. Constantly wondering if I'm gonna have to settle for less or live alone my entire life.
Maybe you could start by not viewing a homosexual pedophile as your self insert.
>>35531938>tfw gay and an incel I wouldn’t say it’s a good experience
>>35532213kekbet that Griffbussy felt nice tho
>>35531938>how has your experience been?i am 30 and have never had a bf. single digit number of sexual encounters, all were bad and one-time-only. i don't like casual sex
