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i hate this site, it rots my brain, and this board is especially brainwormed and horrible, but i can't stop cumming back to it.
anyway, what are some ways i can integrate into "male socialization"? mannerisms and etiquette, offline and online, that are more subtle and not something obvious like "d00d just sit with your legs open and smell like a man d00d". feels silly to ask this if my brain sex is male but i wasn't socialized in accordance to le socity's expectations of men
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>>35497012
Just do what you want, seriously. You don't have to act out male stereotypes you dislike to be valid
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Just become a chud
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>>35497012
Just try to make male friends and emulate them. Not too overtly, just take a backseat and try to observe.
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>>35497012
I'm a man and I don't give a fuck about what society wants from men. Fuck 'em all sideways with a cherry on top. I'll hold the door open for anyone and they don't need to smile at me, because I'm not doing it to make you feel good about me. I'll cry if I feel emotional and I'm going to be embarrassed about it because I don't like people seeing me emotional, not because men aren't supposed to cry. I'll fuck any hole that'll have me because I'm a horny pervert and I won't fuck any hole that won't have me because I'm not a shithead. Anyone who wants a specific performance is free to go visit a theater.

...so yeah, I'm no good for advice. Sorry.
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>>35497012
Be my gymbro bf fag. I'll show you what's it's like to dude and and do boy stuff
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>>35497067
OP here. I guess you are right but this is probably my only cope i have since i am barred from changing my physical sex right now and i'd like it to be known i'm serious about being a guy. i act more like an insecure beta male if anything, and this is my cope
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>>35497012
look someone in the eyes while you fart and then ask if anyone else smells that while continuing to make eye contact and then blame the person you looked at. threaten someone with a punch and smile if they flinch. learn the many intonations of "that's fuckin bullshit man" and when to use them (in solidarity, at a waiter who spills a drink, at a sad story - all different). learn to play "the penis game" where you take turns saying penis louder until one of you gets scolded. pick your nose while only one person is looking. laugh inappropriately at someone else's minor misfortune. have at least one person around you who cannot stop you from giving them a noogie. pull all your weight on one leg and lean kinda toward but kinda away from someone while you only half look at them as they're speaking to you. pick sports teams to hate for incredibly arbitrary reasons like "the coach fucking sucks" and always bring it up. call jordan peterson "doctor peterson" and disagree with him, but 'respectfully'. get good at doing 'jim face'. get a zippo lighter and become good at flicking it, ask if someone needs a light and produce the flame before they can answer. stifle laughter when someone says any sex joke and look away but only a little bit with eyes half rolled. practice getting good at texas hold 'em and ask if anyone wants to play and then produce a bicycle deck with a "not gay" card backed pattern - don't mention you collect htem, just say you thought this one "looked dope". slurp a little bit (only a little) when you get spaghetti and cough like you're embarrassed when it's too loud but keep doing it. practice elbowing people and see who you can get away with elbowing harder. raise your hands above your head and say "ohhh shitttt lol" whenever someone does something even a little embarrassing, especially if it is someone vulnerable - see if you can get other people to join in (what happened at this point doesn't matter, just escalate the severity of "ohhhh"-ing).
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>>35497012
>>35497111
>feels silly to ask this if my brain sex is male
it's not, that is something you have imagined, probably after seeing other people say similar things
if you haven't taken hormones, don't, I promise you will regret it
I know you're excited by this thing because it's new, like latching onto a new hobby, but tread lightly or you'll ruin yourself
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>>35497111
insecure beta male is still male. do you want to pass or do you want to be a chad?
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>>35497067
>valid
opinion disregard
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>>35497811
Insecure beta males all want to be chads
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>>35497012
hang out with men. repeat. "socializing" is something that is half your active participation, not just how people see/treat you when they first meet you. ive been one of the guys since i was able to speak
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You can't actually call confidence and assertiveness now because it's now sexist (lol) and I'm not telling you to just become but that's where you should start looking.
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>>35497968
*call confidence and assertiveness masculine
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>>35497111
step 1 is recognising 'alpha/beta male' is incel lingo, maybe try staying a hundred miles away from it. trying to be 'ultra manly' or whatever instead of just telling the world to go fuck itself whenever you can is dumb and you should just do whatever you want

brain sex or brain gender is equally silly. acting out a male stereotype for the sake of fitting in is the epitomy of /tttt/ brain worms - in real life no one cares whether you own a toddler smasher of a truck or if you're a gym rat that can beat everyone's asses, unless you have some sort of complex you're projecting in which case that's another issue

being confident and assertive isn't a male thing, it's just a functioning human being thing. just leave this site and go literally anywhere else, it's a transphobic troll ridden shit hole that isn't going to get any better. my point in this is gtfo of here, you are the company you keep. whether you realise it or not you're conditioning yourself socially around /tttt/ in some shape or form by staying here and that is no bueno
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>>35497012
>what are some ways i can integrate into "male socialization"?
be really annoying, make racist and homophobic jokes and fight with your friends for no reason
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:) penngis
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>>35497012
How tall are you and how much do u weigh
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>>35497012
Make a group of male friends irl and try to pick up on things the best you can from spending enough time with them you will learn things
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>>35497012
Talk like this. Always.
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>>35497012
add me on discord if you're still in thread ill like tutor you. im a failed mtf with background in brosocialization and also nothing better to do
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>>35497111
>i'd like it to be known
fembrained
guys just do, not let everyone know so they can get validation
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just be a manipulative piece of shit that makes unfunny jokes
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>>35497012
Just be super paranoid and avoidant of anything that could possibly be seen as flamboyant.
Worked for me 18 yrs
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the womanposting is off the charts here lads
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>>35497012
Men can show off boobs and wear feminine clothing and date straight men
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>>35500903
preech
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>>35497012
its 2024, being a man isnt allowed anymore, everyone has to be a politically correct faggot. Sorry, you transitioned at the wrong time, the daily agenda is all about depriving men of what makes them men.
You literally hit switch team at the worst possible time, its all ogre, whatever you learn about male expectations will be doctored to you by the same people wishing to change them.
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>>35497012
i think this thread proves that the one absolutely malebrained thing is being sure you know exactly what you're talking about when in reality you have no clue
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>>35497012
Paying attention to how you act is fembrained. Men are whatever the fuck they want to be, and if they're confident in it then nobody will question it.

Also this board is what you want it to be. It's only brainwormed and horrible because that's what you take from it. Stop caring about what the retards here say and think, just have some fun with it
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>>35497111
Insecure beta males act like women. You are acting like a woman.
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>>35497012
real men don't ask 4chan trannies how to be a real man bro
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>>35497074
looks like me
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>>35497012
OP here again! I have learned that real men are fucking retarded so I will give myself brain damage to pass like you retards. Thanks for all the replies. Retards
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>>35502483
Note: This doesn't apply to any genuine responses.
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>>35502483
cute
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>>35497012
>what are some ways i can integrate into "male socialization"?
Shouldn't it just come naturally since you're a man on the inside?
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>>35503045
You're right. I'm just extremely autistic so I can't socialize in fuckin general. Women hate me and men are put off by me unless they're equally as strange.
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>>35497012
Just exist lol and your mannerisms, interests and behaviours will change, at least that's what happened to me. Why would you ask this board about socialising? People here are weird and even you admitted that they ''rot your brain''.



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