>exercise 6x a week (gym, running, climbing)>cook all my food>no junk, no caffeine, no alcohol>8-9 hours of sleep>study every day for my degree>play the violin every day>still feel sad and empty most of my daysWhy?
>>74130381You didn't mention getting any ass.
>>74130381we're social primates. we need regular social and physical contact or we become unhappy. I don't like it much either because people are a pain in the ass
>>74130399Digits confirm, you need to fuck someone.
>>74130381>doesnt mention the porn, masturbation and video game addictions
>>74130381Life doesn't matter anymore and it has become very obvious everywhere you go. You can feel it when you are out in public, no one gives a fuck about anything anymore. Even normies are blackpilled husks now.I go to work and basically just do nothing. I don't give a shit if they fire me, it literally doesn't matter at this point. I'm poor if I'm NEETing and poor if I work full time. This society is pointless.No community, no property, no families, no future.
>>74130399>>74130407Sadly, I am very ugly and a 5'9" manlet so the girls/girlfriend is out of the question, I am destined to die alone. Also, I am already 25 years old and in my first year of college which is very late, my peers are 18, so I can't make any friends. I just have to get through college to get some kind of job and earn money.>>74130427I don't watch porn, I don't jerk off and I quit videogames 4 years ago, I replaced it with playing the violin.
>>74130381relationships are single handedly the most important thing in life. money, career, this and that do fucking nothing. now having money helps with social relationship its hard to get a girlfriend you are toothless genetic dead end neet with no money but you get the point. true fulfilment comes from love. you can NEVER be happy alone. its 100% cope "ohhh im so happy after getting rid off my ex" yeah fucking retard of course, but you will not be happy being alone from age 18 until you are dead.
>>741305335'9" is average height and you can't be that ugly, you have no excuse. Learn some confidence and just keep doing repetitions of talking to /fliting with women until you bag one.
>>74130533>>74130533You're going in with a loser mentality Anon.Fake it till you make it.You need friends, don't be autistic, look to do nice activities with the people around you, in your classes, etc...5'9 is ok. You're not mogging nor getting mogged. Build yourself around charisma.GL
>>74130533I'm not one of those types who thinks women make or break your life but men are definitely made in such a way that you will feel spiritually famished no matter what you do unless you play around with a nice pair of boobs and make a deposit of your DNA in a hot, wet pussy every once in a while. Men need it to mentally bloom like plants need sunshine.
>>74130381maybe you have gender dysphoria anon, it can be serious strain on your mental health and you could consider transitioning, despite the untrue memes, lots of transfolk are a lot happier after transitioning.
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>>74131744Very original and funny anon
>>74130381>still feel sad and empty most of my daysYou need to trick your brains with high and lows to feel good being in normal state
Take the leanpill
>>74130533Checked. You have shit self confidence and projection. At 25 in university with 18 year olds you should be treated like a god. Fake it till you make it (confidence)
>>74130632>Fake it till you make it.>Build yourself around charisma.You're suggesting surgery.
>>74130381Do you have friends or see your family?Get engaged with your community
A U S T RI A NGINGER
>>74130501Usually I’d tell you to fuck off but this is an Austrian ginger thread so good job
Kys austrian ginger
Cause rome is burning motherfucker! THATS WHY!
>>74132063>Dyel calls the whole nation the f-slur
Lack of sun? Lack of purpose? Lack of close connection? Too much screen time?
>>74132086>responding earnestly to the gingerKys
>>74132086How important is close connection?
Kysssss
You need therapy
>>74130381Get your dick sucked
kyssssss
>>74130533>violinfag instrument. play drums or guitar
>>74132119Idk probably important since I feel like crap if I become a shut in
>>74130533What race are you?
>>74130533Bro you can buy the booze.So you instantly can make friends
>>74130381Maybe you're just gay.
Your physical health is not the same as your spiritual health. There is no substitute for God, you can't lift that away. When have you last prayed? A habit of prayer works miracles in your life.
>>74132119Loneliness is worse than smoking 15 cigarettes a day
The answer is always lacking a social life. Social life is the single most important thing to human happiness. Everything else you have, without a social life, is coping.
>>74130533I hate using buzzwords but You sound like the biggest onions boy cuck fag ever. You will never make social connections lmao
What a bunch of bs oh I’m becoming fucked up and evil af because I don’t have a social life but I can’t get a social life because I’m twisted and evil af wtf ?!
>>74131683>maybe you have gender dysphoria anon, it can be serious strain on your mental health and you could consider tr-ACK!
>>74130381no bitches and your life sucks, you're living in a cage and anytime you try to break free there's someone to tell you stop doing that, how do you think you're going to feel?
>>74130381Also 25, finished my eng degree at 22 tho. Being the same age as everyone didn't help at all.Also 5'9 and jackedAlso sad and empty without social connectionsThe sadder you are the less people wanna be around youI think the character I (and probably you) have isn't suitable for having relationships (being routine driven, disciplined, inhibited, patient), woman want funAlso women don't care about your effort if that wasn't obviousYou lift a lot? They don't care unless you're competitiveYou play violin? Any youtube covers with views or paid performances?Notice this pattern with everyone who has women, they are winning at something. Sure some just have the genes/upbringing for it, but women come with winning, that's a factNothing nice to say really, if you're feeling bad there's nothing wrong with you, your(my) life is all toil, no social fun, why would you(I) be content with it, your efforts haven't paid off.So yeah a bit sad, but I know multiple people like this. They were just too shy and not tall enough, they missed their chance with that one girl and never came out of their shell.......,.....You found some pockets of joy, just assume that's the only nice thing life has to offer. I don't know you but I respect you suffering in silence and doing your best
>was a gigafatty in my 20s and college years>drank constantly>suicidal>somehow get out of college with a degree>get a job>live on my own, have car, no debts>been working out for a year>losing weight on a cut>cut out alcohol/sugar>still suicidal>still a loner autist>still no gfI hate this. I know it's my own goddamn fault, and I know I'm too far gone to fix this. I hate myself so fucking much, I hate my past self, I hate my current self too.
>>74130533Intent is everythingWhat is this doom mentality providing you?NothingSo what would be wrong with adopting a delusion of positivity?NothingIt can only get better, fuck the bullshitEmbrace radical happiness
>>74130407not OP but I socialize a LOT and I still feel bad sometimes. it's literally just over a decade of >tfwnogf. it sucks.>>74130533dude 25 isn't even that old, there are plenty of mid 20s dudes in college still having a good time, you're just a retarded faggot, also I would kill billions to be 5'9". fuck you niggaI guess it's b8 anyway though but if not you can still make it I'd say>>74132755gigabasedcan you expand more on this anon
>>74130533>5'9'>manletPlease wake up to reality and be thankful you're not an actual manlet.
>>74132819youre basically me lolim pretty social nowadays but it's all surface level shit. the fact that i'm in my 30s and still a khv will forever limit my happiness. i'm also a turbomanlet.thinking about taking brain altering drugs like Ayahuasca to kill who i am and become someone else
>>74130533>Sadly, I am very ugly and a 5'9" manlet so the girls/girlfriend is out of the question, I am destined to die alone. Also, I am already 25 years old and in my first year of college which is very late, my peers are 18, so I can't make any friends. I just have to get through college to get some kind of job and earn money.Every single post on every single board in 2024. I bet it's even an incel CS degree.
Kyssssss x3>how do new friends not know the Austrian ginger by now
>>74132833I wouldn't even call my social life surface levelI have a solid amount of pretty close friendsnevertheless I am 5'4" and have never had a gf. I kissed someone for the first time just last year at age 24 so there's still some hope I guess
>>74132872Kysssss
Thread bomb bros. Rolling for push-ups
>>74130381you have regimented all the fun out of your life retard
>>74132888Rollin
>>74132892If dubs do 10 push ups NOW>>74132890Rope
>>74132895Rollin
>>74130381I was like this for a month or two, just keep going. socialize with your friends if you can, hardest thing is to push through but once you do youll be grateful that you did
>>74132266>just play the most popular and easy instruments broyou fags who say this every time another instrument is mentioned are fucking insufferable
>>74132956kysssss
>>74132741unironically get to know Jesus Christ
>>74132971I understand if you have a decent paying job mormons will essentially assign you a wife
Kysssssss
>>74133021Please soon
>>74133007True but not what I meant at all
>>74132971How? Just socialize at churches? I’ve had the idea but I don’t know which one I should go to. I’m in the south, so there not an issue of finding one, but I don’t want some megapastor church or some church where some old boomer rants and yells for like an hour. I’d prefer one where they teach you stuff.
Samefags kysssssssss
What the hell is with this autist spamming kysssss
>>74133051Literally just read the Bible. I’m Catholic though so I believe church is a must. Just find your local modest Catholic church. They will be welcoming. The preist is usually willing to answer questions about the faith in his office provided he has free time. Don’t pretend to be religious. Don’t go to church just to socialize. Listen, and actually understand it and you’ll feel at peace.>inb4 catholic pedo jokes
>>74133054>>74133116Kys austrian ginger kysssss
>>74132086>>74132119>>74132461>>74132536>muh loneliness is bad for your healthTired of this dogshit propaganda. If you´re a man then you should thrive when left alone. It´s women who can´t survive alone on a psychological and practical level. Forget the bullshit your mom or female therapist told you about loneliness being bad. She was talking from her own perspective and will never understand how a man is built. No one can tell you what to do or how to feel. You´re the boss of your life YOU make and shape reality when you´re alone.Loneliness = Freedom
>>74133296Based
>>74133296>>74133329You say this as you continue to interact with others online every single day
>>74133620So do those who claim to "suffer" from loneliness.
>>74130533You are breathing reality out of your perception. Your perception is not fucking objective. Stop acting like you fucking get it all. God fucking dammit unless you're genuinely physically deformed or incest levels of ugly, you are not """"'ugly""""" and whatever you're working with can be improved greatly with good fitness and a sensibly-curated wardrobe (ez tip: high-waisted pants improve the shape of both short and fat people. Thank me later.) by the way, 5'9" is average. if you're mad that you're at the leak of the bell curve, the only cunts who care aren't actually worth the bother. oh what, she wants to wear heels? Brother, there are platform shoes for men. who says she's the only one who gets to wear height altering shoes? God fucking dammit this type of talk is infuriating because I know you think you're ugly but you should really be thinking about how you're UNPOLISHED.Look, everyone here is fucking delusional, and you're actually sitting here trying to logic your way through this with blackpill nonsense. That's actually retarded. You're too smart for that. Become delusional in your own favor. ConfidenceMaxing will help in the workplace, your love life, and all other public and social aspects of your life. Mog the world around you.Start small. How about you affirm yourself positively once in a while? Warm your way into acceptance, and then affirm some more until you find what you believe you can be confident in. Then maximize upon those aspects while compensating the rest.You're retarded if you fail to internalize a single word. Attempts to disprove me will be why you're ngmi.
>>74130533gay larp
Sometimes I fantasize about forming a fraternal order out of all of the lonely men out there. Something like freemasonry or the knights of columbus. Y'know, just meet up once a month, have a secret handshake, speak some fake latin, wear robes, larp as cultists and drink a bit. Fuck it, if we're all gonna be alone, then let's be alone together.
>>74130381Do you socialize? Believe it or not, that’s a primal human need, no matter how much of a shut in you are.
>>74130381Because you are not hunting, killing and having a huge family. Your stupid "surrogate hobbies" are not fulfilling.
You fell for the monk mode meme of "preparing for the day my life starts."Yeah any day now anon, your 'true' life will start...>anon on his deathbed at 68 (lonely people die early)any day now....
>>74130533>I'm 5'9 that's why I have no gfMan wtf, I'm 5'7 and married. If you really think you have to be tall to get a gf you have deeper problems and ofc you're gonna be sad no matter if you exercise 6xweek
>>74130381>>74130533I'm starting to realize that the >have sex posters are actually right. You desperately need to socialize. If everything else fails, start playing vidya again and try to meet some friends there.
>>74134514You are not as ugly as I am.
>>74134365Would be based. Include some vidya maybe and I'm signed up.
>>74130381There's no risk involved in your life, men need to risk things to feel like winners. It's that simple, rejection and fail is the training ground of risking something to win big. You either pick something to risk you life for or you stay a content little 'last-man' that you and many other men today remain as until their death.
>>74133296>. Forget the bullshit your mom or female therapist told you about loneliness being bad.source?
>>74134365https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_b-zpSnoHsimagine this but its a LAN party arranged in a circle, maybe a power rack in the centre to sus out inflitrators."you will low bar squat 3pl8, now."
>>74134514>If you really think you have to be tall to get a gfwho's gonna tell him?
Kys lssssssssd
>>74134365Will there be non-homo jerking off to relieve stress?
>>74130381Well have you figured out your goal? Self improvement is good to get yourself up to a great level of baseline skill in several subjects: educated, strong, fit, athletic, cultured and all that.But after a certain point you need to realize what you actually want to do with your life, I mean what is your nature? Your goal? Your dream? What do you want to dedicate your life for? Did you even thought about it? You should start to ask these sorts of questions, if you can’t find the answer outright I recommend you read a few books on actual philosophy(none of this post enlightenment shit) and then go to pray in the church for answers.I cannot tell you what your purpose is but you should know by now.
>>74130381>play violin in public>get gf>fuck gf>be happy
>>74133296A footnote i wanted to add: There's a difference between loneliness and solitude.Most people don't make this distinction. Loneliness is bad for your health, but solitude is not. I am not lonely. I choose when and how i want company, most of the time, i require none.I enjoy solitude, my own company is often enough.
Cuz you pretend to be decent stoic civilian Be nigger you are free
>>74130381Do you enjoy any of that? Or simply do it because that's what you think makes a good life.
I was there too OP once. It changed once i got friends. But that was the hard part, finding friends, or a friend at all....
>>74134558brb just putting all my networth into doggycoin, thanks for the financial advice
>>74130381because you are a fucking loser? Lifting is just one component of a happy life, you are missing the 37 other ones.
>>74136400nothing worth having/while is easy
>>74130381electricity
>>74130399fpbp
>>74134365actually based
>>74133296What social anxiety does to a mf
>>74130381That sounds like such a gay life. Go have some fun you fucking try hard.
Notice how all the fags that say they do this and that kind of self improvement and feel unsatisfied always don't have a girlfriend. It's almost as if you worked on your personality instead and found a soulmate you would stop being a miserable piece of shit, instead you choose to be misogynistic and wallow in misery.
OP I'm in the same boat. I used to be fun but shit happens and now I'm a doomer. I've pushed people away, and have had many easy opportunities to make friends and I've pushed them away also. The friends I made? I push them away also. I don't mind the loneliness, but the idea of being lonely bothers me if you know what I mean. I can be a fun person, like I said I was a fun person, people wanted to be around me and wanted to be like me. But shit happens. I know I'm the problem, I don't like reaching out. I have no advice for you, I'm just venting as well
>>74133296>Loneliness = FreedomSolitude = Freedom
>90+ replies to an Austrian ginger threadYeah. Fuck this board, low iq as they come
>>74130381How much time do you spend outdoors in nature? How much pussy are you getting? How often do you meditate? All of these are important for mental health
>>74130381Yea but ah you fuahkin big though m8?
>>74130381>Why do I still feel bad?>runningVictims always feel bad
>>74132741you're an ugly mentalcel
>>74132266ntaNot for russian ballerinasBut you wouldn’t know
Even if you got all the things you want I doubt you’d be happy. Went from depressed dyel to being able to take a woman home just from dancing with her, the problem is none of this is fulfilling, all of it is meaningless carnal pleasure. You think having all of these things will mean you’re a better person but the real gift of being at that point is that you’ve improved yourself, women are a mystery to be unraveled not necessarily a gift or boon, and not necessary to becoming who you could be. A woman can complete you, that much is true, but you will never be happy until you are happy without having any of the things you think you want now. If there’s anything you could change right now it’s to acknowledge that the struggle is real, being is not easy, but you don’t have to take it all so seriously. You’re going to die one day and this is very likely the only life you’ll get so try to enjoy every minute and fake it until you don’t even realize you’re faking it, it will become a part of you like a habit you unconsciously persist with
>>74130533They don’t get it. But I do. I understand. It sucks being lonely.I wish I could say it goes away over time and I hope it does.
>>74130381Because your ancestors likely grew up in a culturally rich and homogenous small community in a wild and unknown world full of enemies and wonders, and did truly valuable work that was necessary for the survival and thriving of their tribe. They may not have had much, but it was more a matter of technological limitations rather than bureaucratic malice. If they ever got bored of the home life, they could go on a pilgrimmage to distant holy lands, raid the shores of other peoples, fight in battle side by side with their nobles and royalty, trade with alien cultures, discover places that had not been visited, invent things that had never even been considered. A home and a faithful wife was not a unrealistic dream, but a standard. Life was harsher, but also more wondrous and meaningful, and at the end, you knew with certainty that the divine was awaiting you as a reward for your struggles.By comparison, your life is nothing. You are not even a cog in a faceless uncaring machine, you are the grease.
>>74141814I also forgot that they weren't jammed with fifty needles by a jewish doctor the second they crawled out of the womb, nor did they have to worry about fluoride or microplastic or pesticides getting into their water or food. I imagine that would count for something.
>>74141814A good post.
>>74142032For you
>>74134569>being part of the bloatmaxxing riteThe secret handshake is a hook grip
>>74130533>I don't watch porn, I don't jerk off and I quit videogames 4 years agoTry doing that. Nofap is a fucking meme and nothing wrong with playing games. Guarantee you you quit that because some loser twitter personality told you to
>>74133296It's important to be able to withstand periods of isolation as a man and to get used to the fact that very few people will ever really care about youBut truly going decades without any real connections to other people will warp your soul and shorten your lifespan, it's undeniable
