I'm too old to understand this subculture please enlighten melike how do you feel when you larp as an anime character makes you feel like
>>10895583I would give anything to be in his position.
>>10895600Reevaluate your life.
>>10895606Wearing the collar obviously.
>>10895583Am a skinny fat holding guy like that how do I get an asian girl like that?
>>10895583You know when you buy an action figure? This way you can be the action figure. Better example: it’s like wearing a shirt with your favorite character on it. Just taking it a step further.
Isn't cosplay just a sexual kink
>>10895718nah thats lolitaliterally named after a pedophile book
>>10895719name aside, lolitas are the most reactionary puritanical group ive ever seen. the mere thought of sex triggers them, because most of them are undesirable.
>>10895583Do you know about Halloween? Have you ever been to a Halloween party? It's like that. You dress up as a character you like and party and get drunk. Since you're in costume you inhibition is a little lower which allows you be a little more social than normal. It's really not that complex.
>>10895719Oh look, another uninformed cosplayer who has literally no idea what they're talking about but still thinks their opinion is worth something
>>10895805Lolita is dead, get over it.It died 5 years ago once the undesirables and zoomers discovered it
>>10895810People have been saying this for a decade now and its still not true. While there may be less lolitas than at its peak, lolita itself is more widely known and more accessible than ever.
I cosplay mostly because I really enjoy the character, so I can bear through wearing their uncomfortable &/or illogical outfit. I also Craft, so trying to figure out the illogical parts is fun to do. Smaller sliver of cosplaying is "hey that character design looks cool, I want to look cool too."
>>10895583>too oldImagine being old and coming to this husk of a site without experiencing the golden age. If you were an oldfag, I'd say kys in jest, but actually though in your case.
>>10895876just chill and be my egf
Funny, I too just came to this board to try and understand cosplay and fashion. I've found it difficult to make female friends in my life because I don't share their interests, my interests are more male-centric but that poses problems for me as men can't control themselves and fall in love with me constantly which is undesirable for me. I wish to understand why girls like this stuff. I found a somewhat expensive lolita dress for sale at Goodwill recently for 5$, it was my size and I wore it around for a day. I didn't really feel any different wearing it versus wearing anything else.
>>10895906damn why does every girl on cgl write like my ex
>>10895583It is fun and also I want to put a little magic in the lives of children. They are delighted when they see me. I want to become a father one day.>>10895906>men can't control themselves and fall in love with me constantlyThey don't *want* to control themselves. They want a gf. And it takes until they grow up to realize that some girls simply were never an option, like how in vidya the game was never programmed to romance certain characters. It doesn't help that lonely people of either gender will interpret any kind of attention into what they want.
>>10895906the joy should come from deciding to wear it for an event or something. its like putting up a christmas tree. it's no good if you just "Wear it" this is why so many people cosplay only at cons, but the gimmick is to find a "Reason" to wear it. like if you are male centric in your hobbies you could wear it as window dressing to a nechronica game or something.
I like crafting a costume, sewing, woodworking, cutting foam, painting... I like discussing the process with other cosplayers that share my interests. I like dressing up as a handsome character and feeling pretty. I like wearing clothes that I would not wear in my daily life. I like the feeling when you are cosplaying a niche character and find another cosplayer from the same franchise. I like the look in their eyes, how happy they get. I like being able to make friends and meet me people solely because we are both cosplaying the same thing. It's like going to a fandom discord, except it's IRL and it filters all the lazy people that would never put enough effort into anything to get a good looking cosplay.Male, BTW.
kys, that's how...
>>10896119>That Time I Was Reincarnated As A Cosplayer In Another World!
>>10896118>Male, BTWYeah, you kinda gave it away with the "I like crafting" part. Bitches buy their stuff instead. Apologies to the one seamstress on the board.
>>10895583You get a little ego boost when people ask for your picture because they like your cosplay. Double if it's something you worked hard to make. Triple if they're attractive. I used to go to cons solo in normal clothes and take pictures to feel less lonely, but it actually made me feel worse because you're alone in a crowd of happy people trying to make a connection. Once I started cosplaying, people came to me and tried to be my friend. I don't think I've approached anyone at a con in years, now they only come up to me, and I have to dodge my friends sometimes just to get more floor time and meet new people..
>>10895583>I'm too old to understandIt's older than you've been alive.You're just obtuse.
>>10896009Damn, why let every thing remind you of your ex.
>>10895906What are you into interest/hobby-wise? I could risk a ban posting a throwaway of you want chick friends.
>>10895583Always wanted cosplay since I was a kid because I liked to craft! And shapeshift into ur fav character is kinda fun. Loved to watch other cosplay and now I’m adult and can do that too x) I wish I had more money to do some unpopular characters but I’m working on it!
>>10895583I feel like it's a layer of abstraction or proxy layer so I can be at liberty to be more expressive, uninhibited by anxiety.
>>10899331> I wish I had more money to do some unpopular characters if you look like that start an onlyfans
>>10895583>what is a costume party?>what is a costume party with a theme?>where that there is things you really like>and everyone else there likes them too.I'm pretty sure OP is a troll but there's your chain of reasoning as to why it is good.>>10895906have you considered that you are emotionally repressed? that often prevents you from enjoying things.
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>>10895583Me on the right.
I like cosplay because1. I like costume parties with really high-effort costumes2. I like weird peopleAnime cons are kinda like catholic carnival in southern euro countries
>>10895583To look cool
Some people are whores, some people are autistic.It feels nice to wear a suit, or pretend to be some anime/game character for however long - All I dreamed of as a 6 Year Old was being the Cowboy Hat Explorer or the Fuzzy Hooded Monks from Latale, and as an adult with a disposable income I accomplished something that wasn't socially acceptable back then.That's 100% my "autism" - realistically I understand it's a waste of money, but you only get one life and given idd dress up like Sessomaru every fucking day if I could.It's basically anywhere from play to high end fashion/engineering.
>>10895583I got into it to pick up chicks but that didnt/doesn't work so I enjoy the crafting aspect. I don't do a lot of creative stuff but it turns out I'm pretty good with crafting foam and have friends that can help me with cloth. That and cosplaynis an excuse for me to stay in shape. It's easy for me to slide into becoming a fatass playing vidya all day but working on cosplay and staying fit helps that.
>>10895583do you drive something other than a small compact car necessary to get you from point a to b? If you do, like a sports car or a truck, that can be a form of cosplay. You're not a racecar driver, nor are you a roughneck tradesman. >>10896019>They don't *want* to control themselves. They want a gf.and its not a terrible strategy to find someone with common interest to be a more desirable target than otherwise, so its not like its some moral failing to take a shot. But someone with even a reasonable level of attractiveness acting like this should never happen to them is really off-putting.
>>10896009Borderline Personality Disorder, unironically. Look up the narcissist-borderline cycle.
i love making stuff. same as anyone who likes woodworking or spinning pottery.i love anime and japan. but you usually get a ton of crap like weebs who've only seen 2010s mainstream shit and who never learned japanese (i'm far from perfect, but at least i've passed jlpt n1). i like feeling at home with my weeb level at a con. i feel odd at cons if i dont cosplay. and i would love to wear weeb shit like geta every day but that's unacceptable for a white guy so i cosplay semi-traditional characters instead. i like feeling like someone else.secretly i hope if i cosplay at a con someone'll wanna fuck. i've only ever been in serious relationships brought on by love confessions, i'd love to experience a one-night stand.
>>10895583Halloween was always my favorite holiday, guess that carried onto adulthood with better excuses to dress up.
I just do it because I hope it will help me make friends and maybe a gf (male) someday
>>10895906>>10896115way too many larpers and retards itt. you felt nothing wearing it because you bought shitty mass produced chinese crap at goodwill and threw it on like a kid playing dress up. maybe lolita just isn't your style, but you weren't wearing lolita, so how could you know? without investing time into learning about the fashion, its history, and each of its coordination elements, you're going to look like shit. enjoy your $5 poly sack you obnoxious autist. >its like putting up a christmas tree. it's no good if you just "Wear it"lolita fashion is clothing. it's not cosplay. it's designed to be regularly worn. your "reason" to wear it is that it's fucking cute and makes you feel good about yourself. as someone who also has mostly traditionally male hobbies, the way you dress has nothing to do with what you do in your free time. and if some dumbfuck moid giving you a hard time over your frilly dresses makes you want to stop wearing them, then lolita is not the fashion for you.
