So I was an incel myself, for years. But I was not hateful at all going in. I was a naive and innocent kid who just had issues making friends, and getting laid was out of the question. So I found these online communities to commiserate in. But they made me feel horrible about myself and dragged me down to a point of despair where I felt there was no hope. They were extremely cruel, and anytime I tried to be remotely positive, they reassured me my life was hopeless. They did face ratings and urged me to upload my face, and when I did, they told me I was a 3/10 and should never try to be with a woman (this was not targeted bullying at me, they did this with everyone, it was like a cult). They were also obsessed with porn, and would always expose me to degenerate porn that made me upset when I was a teenager (interracial gangbangs, facial abuse, rape porn, cuck porn, etc.) I was suicidal during this period and these were my only social contacts for years, until I finally lucked out and made some IRL friends, and eventually got a gf, which is a miracle. I'm much more well-adjusted now, but I do hold a seething resentment for these incel communities. I can't help but hate these people with my entire soul. When I hear "incel", I feel violent and angry, and I want to beat the fuck out of those people with a metal rod, strangle them until their eyes pop out, then curb stomp them. But I know feeling this way isn't healthy for me and I need to move on. Any good techniques for getting over all that bullshit trauma? I guess it applies to trauma in general.
>>31222388You don't seem well-adjusted to me at all. It seems like you're still externalising your issues, blaming all your problems on online bogeymen rather than coming to terms with your own shortcomings. You deliberately chose to hang out there. You deliberately exposed yourself to their ideas and believed in them.Grow up.
>>31222388Incels are very hate-able. I used to try to help them out, but yeah. They are determined to not only self-sabotage, but sabotage you as well, and they have a gay little community to reinforce each other's behavior. It's very easy to hate people like that.
>>31222388Tl;dr but as you said you went to these people because they are miserable and they are almost all miserable too, what is to be gained from hurting those who are in pain? It won't make them better. There are probably actual evil infiltrators in those communities deliberately spreading demoralisation but you can't easily get revenge on these people, and besides they're already scorned by God because he's surrendered their hearts to demons.Heal yourself, and maybe others. Good luck.
>>31222388>When I hear "incel", I feel violent and angry, and I want to beat the fuck out of those people with a metal rodI feel the same way bro, I feel the same way.
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>>31222404Fpbp
I thank God in the name of Jesus that these frauds' words will just go in one ear and out the other for you… The things that you went through are your gift. You know a side of the discussion not everyone of us knows to nearly that extent. Just keep exposing them. You are a hero. You are already great. Whatever happened to you, you don't have to feel bad about it if the love of God is available. Obviously, you want to benefit from your pioneering work. Go get what is yours. No need to crash out of your lane.
