what does it mean if cis men are consistently attracted to me but other trans people and women of any kind almost never are?>t. mtf bishit
>>35535949giwtwmi just want a bf and women won't leave me alone.
>>35535949it could mean you pass
>>35535949it means you're a dumb whore probably
It means you pass (or at least are close enough) and project femininity in a cisheteronormative way. Trans people are a tiny fraction of the population and are often uncomfortable approaching people who are cis or look cis. There is always the fear of "if I approach them, will they hate me?" Women who are into women are less likely to approach you if you don't queer-code your appearance (hairstyles, clothes, speech patterns, hobbies, etc. associated with WLW and lesbianism). If they approach any woman they're attracted to, they will be rejected 99/100 times. Sometimes, those rejections will be harsh and the woman they're attracted to might even express disgust. If they only approach women they're attracted to who project queerness, it's more likely something will come of it. If you look like a straight cis woman, you're not going to have many trans people or women approaching you.
>>35536033I mean I don’t think I pass personally but what few friends I have are other MtFs (usually transbians or bi and mostly date girls) and I basically dress like an emo kid from 2007. idk if that’s a particularly “straight” look or not.
>>35536089It really isn't, especially in the current year plus nine. You're either unlucky, not in spaces with lots of WLW or trans people, or somehow projecting cisheteronormative femininity in a way that makes queers unsure about approaching you. I don't know, OP. I have the opposite problem where men don't give a shit about me, but I encourage it by being annoying about how queer I am. Now they don't sexually harass me anymore, they just treat me as a lesser being lmao
