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Friends and family started asking me when I'm going to marry (I'm 26)
I have no idea what to tell them, I haven't been in a relationship since highschool
Does this happen in your country?
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nah my mother had said multiple times that if she was me she wouldn't have kids either in this garbage world
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>>196485012
I've never been in relationships and live with parents. They started to asking when I get a gf and make some hints they want grandchildren.
I'm 25.
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my parents have caught me masturbating enough times to at least know im not gay
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>>196485736
Keep going anon, how did that happen
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>>196485012
I am 33. My mom and dad has NEVER asked me that.
Back in 2017 I brought my girlfriend (and coworker) home and it took over four fucking hours before my mom realized that we were actually romantically involved. She looked at both of us as if we had grown extra heads.
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>>196485697
Same, I'm 29. I tell them I'll probably die childless. My dad tells me to stop depressing them, and for the other grandparents that's fine, but they keep nagging so tit for tat
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no luckily my sisters have already sharted out a couple of kids so the family name is secured
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>>196486128
Bruh, i told my parents that i can not get kids because my sisters probably will have them, you know what they said?
"Females cant secure a family name"
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>>196486021
Han är så ful..
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>>196486248
>"Females cant secure a family name"
They know some shit, they've preserved to know some ancient shit, we all should probably keep that in mind
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>>196486248
ummm thats not very current year and feminist of them
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>>196486403
sadly they're very conservative
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>>196485012
I am 29, never had a gf. My mom asked me like ten years ago if I was gay, said no and she asked me why I wasn't dating...
Bruh. Had no answer, just "autistic lol".
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>>196485012
whenever they mention it you should ask if they can hook you up with a girl
if yes, good for you. if no, they'll stop asking
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>>196486504
They can but I'm afraid the poor girl will be very disappointed because I am fatass and too lazy to lose weight
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It seems half of sweden is here today
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>>196485012
want to pretend to be each others girlfriends so our parents will shut the fuck up?
not gay stuff
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>>196485012
>he has been a relationship in highschool
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>>196486566
>but I'm afraid the poor girl will be very disappointed
This.
>>196486504
But also if they hook up with someone, that means that is daughter of one of their friends, so everything I would told to this girl could be known by her parents, which means could be known by my parents. That's what I would like to escape. I'm secretive and don't reveal many parts of myself to my parents.
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>>196486566
Are you a fatass for your country's or for western standards?
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>>196486698
it's fine
I'm 99% they won't find anyone, arranged marriages don't exist anymore
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no theyre forcing me to find a job but probably thats next if i start working then they would ask for grandkids but they still dont understand that i will never be normal i sometimes feel sad for them
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>>196485012
28 here. I here the "when will you marry" and "I want grandchildren" bullshit at least twice a week. I'm really fucking tired of it, and I don't see how relationships and children could improve my life so don't even want to bother.
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>>196485012
It hasn't even begun for me.
I'm a mentalcel that can't really communicate with people and women.
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My mom keeps throwing in my face every nice girl I dated and let go. I'm starting to realize I really should have been better.
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>>196485012
>relationship since highschool
mogs me to highshool and back

>in your country?
no, my parents never ask me. They just make fun of me for having a realistic TPE doll gf.
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my mum is more concerned I'm not dead/lying in a gutter somewhere than if I'll ever get married. she knows my life is shit and stopped trying a few years ago now.
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never
i wish they had pressed me to get a gf when i was a kid but they never did
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>>196485012
yes
women don't want a 15cm dicklet like me
it was over since the beginning
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>>196488836
Post doll.
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everyone knows I never will find a man (I am ugly)
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>>196485012
>When I find a girlfriend and date her long enough to find that she is not a horrible bitch and that we are compatible.
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>>196485012
my dad wants me to get a filipina wife since he knows im never going to bother finding anyone myself
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>>196485736
How?
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>>196485012
My parents think i am gay because i like cross dressing and don't talk to women.
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>>196485012
I'm 30 and they stopped asking a while ago
I remember my father telling me they're gonna kick me out of the appartment I live in(which they own) if I don't marry by 30, they never brought it up since
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>>196490817
>flip wife
I don't see the problem.
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im in my thirties and my mom has stopped that, and honestly ive come to the conclusion ill die alone, im too jaded to even try at this point. thankfully my sister is a normal human being and is starting to think about having children so my mom will have grandkids, im happy for that
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>>196491322
No problem with that. Just become the funny uncle.
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too bad my sister wont have any kids because she is a lesbian
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>>196491322
I wish I could relate, my sister hates kids and wants a dog or a cat. She'll probably adopt some poor black nignog once she realizes she's too old for kids. For my parents I'm probably their last and only hope
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>>196485012
Nobody has ever asked me why I don't have a girlfriend or when I'm going to marry and have kids.

They know. They always knew.
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>>196485012
Same age and I also haven't been in a relationship since highschool, and by highschool I mean I've never been in a relationship
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>>196486443
sound based
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IMPOSSIBLE to be an incel in Kazakhstan
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>>196485012
monkey looking bitch still famous on the interwebs
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>>196485012
>Kazakhstan
i hate women too brother
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>>196485012
My 92 year old grandmother basically suggested that I go cum in a random woman so the bloodline can carry on.

She said at dinner:

>I don't see what the holdup is anon, after all, wombs are free!
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>>196485012
Friends don't care. I remember last Christmas/New Year's my family joked about setting me up with one of my aunt's coworker's kids
Since then I've gotten into a relationship of sorts but I don't think that this will be a long term thing.
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My mom sometimes hints that she wants grandchildren (my stepdad puts more pressure on me about "getting a woman" but it's probably more on her behalf) but I don't give a shit, she made very little investment in me and my development as a person and now she wants me to get married and make babbies when I'm entirely unfulfilled and hate basically everything about my life? fuck that
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>>196485012
my mom thinks i'm based enough to get laid all the time for some reason even though i'm a massive incel
whenever i ask to have a serious talk with her the immediate response is "did you get somebody pregnant"
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My parents have never asked me that.
Like ten years ago or something, when I was driving, doing some errands with my dad, after few minutes of silence he asked "are there any nice girls in your class", "some" I replied, "you should try dating one" he continued, "yea" I answered.
That was first and thus far only thing either of my parents have said related to relationships, dating and such.
I dont think they expect anything of that sort from me.
Sometimes I even wonder why we were born, they had us at 39 and 40. I have no idea if my father wanted to be a good parent after his first marriage that ended in divorce or if my mother had some last ditch case of baby rabies.
Frankly I dont even have much interest in relationships or even want kids. Or maybe I'm on a spectrum, I dont know but if that's the case then I can safely call quits because there's snowballs chance in hell for me to be worthwhile in womans eyes.
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>>196485012
My parents used to ask. When I was in college questions if "there were any cute girls in my classes".
Now they don't anymore. Idk why they thought a shut in nerd who only ever plays videogames would ever be a pussy magnet
I guess boomers actually did have it that easy even with women
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shieeeet i've never even touched a women
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>>196486248
Dude. Just tell them to find you a bride from the boonies. Everyone will be happy.
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>>196485081
Wild how euros live in paradise and still think this
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>>196491165
>i like cross dressing
How do your parents know that?
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>>196485012
It's the reason I stopped attending huge gatherings and gatherings with relatives, old people just ask you about the same shit, if you're married or with kids, what your job is and your salary, then the occasional people that try to sell you their side hustle like health insurance, very annoying and useless.
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>>196492819
And he's still alone? How?
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>>196485012
I’m too young for my parents to be asking but it’ll come one day and in 5 years time I’ll be 26 and still never in a relationship
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I was told you couldn’t have a relationship before you became university student and they just let me study and study again.therefore i lost the love ability.and when I was at graduate year they want me to have gf and become they wanna me to marriage to born their grandson or granddaughter.so i refuse because i know I’m ugly nerd.every time i watch myself in the mirror i know i will die alone
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>>196485081
Kek. She's so based.



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