Can i train jiujitsu without doing it with any woman? i think i would have an erection
lol how do you get taken down by a woman? just punch them in the face, like what are they gonna do? sit on your face lol
>>139928It's not that boner inducing, you're usually pretty sore and distracted by the whole>she's cranking my ankles and unless I do something right the fuck now it's either tap time or snap city
Simple. Just don't be anywhere near a female weight class.
>>139928Trained with a Muslim dude that refused to grapple with women for religious reasons and it was fine.Just say you have religious reasons why you aren't allowed to touch women like that and it should be fine.
>>140083How garbage are your nutrition and training habits that women are hurting you? Are all the women at your dojo giant roided-up masculinized freaks like Gabi Garcia?
>>140170This is how a real tomboy looks like, unlike those japanese drawings
>>140170I'm like 125 pounds soaking wet, I'd say the average weight of women training is like 140-160 these days, if not more.
>>140193Eat more. A healthy man should be able to easily overpower a healthy woman his own size.
>>140170not him but its not fun to go 100% against people that i could beat by just physically overpowering them, thats boring. I usually dont use strength and just match movement with movement, which can mean that I get subbed.
>>140199I can agree with that, and that's almost always what I do. However, if he's worried about "being sore" and "snap city" when rolling with women something else is going on. If he were a healthy adult male going easy against normal women he wouldn't be sore from the experience and he'd have enough strength to guard against joint injury when submitting.
>>139928>i think i would have an erectionBe the man unfazed by the vaginal jew, and become a truly dangerous man, unfettered by even his baser urges of pain and pleasure.
>>140218This is the correct opinion.
That doesn't happen irl, you porn addicts. You pretty much forget about everything else when you're grappling.
>>139928you probably won't get a a boner unless you're a teenager because when you're exercising hard you don't usually get boners and if you do just ignore it and nobody will make a big deal.Also, one of the best parts about jiujitsu is being able to grope girls and squeeze their bodies you should try to make your frist few rolls with each girl very "respectful", only use the same amount of strength they use , match their pace , etc. then when you have a sense of how they sparr and what they're comfortable with then you can take aa few liberties. You want to set it up so that you'll be able to roll with them while feeling their body for a long time. Some positions are a lot more gratifying while it being quite natural and normal for you to get a good feel. E.g bodylock pass slidding your head and neck up against their torso as you pass guard. or sprawling then putting your hand around their butt to pull yourself round to their back while they turtle up. Or putting your hand in between their inner thigh to spread them out while they turtle. don't linger. better not to arouse suspicion and have them happy to role with you again and again.
>>140240not when you're rolling with a 100-130lb girl who is so much weaker and smaller than you that it requires no physical exertion on your part match her
>>140286Actual menace to society
>>140286Go to jail
>>140181Most adult tomboys I know irl are just fat.Then again I am american and down south so 70% of all women are fat.If it wasn't for my love of martial arts I wouldn't even bother keeping in shape. Shits demoralizing.
>>140155>Just say you have religious reasons why you aren't allowed to touch women like that and it should be fine.not for longhttps://youtu.be/MVax2D7vYOI
>>140551This kerfuffle with Firas didn't actually change the culture. It's unpopular on Reddit to refuse to roll with women but it's always been unpopular there. Everyday politeness is going to prevent most people from starting a culture war at their gym with some random Muslim dude. Firas did go out of his way to be a dick about it though so he can only blame himself for the backlash. His claim was that if you let your wife or gf roll with men you're a beta male.
>>140554All the mma fighters and coaches who have wives and gfs who train at regular gyms are the real pussies for not calling Firas out after he said that.
>>140596They were overpowered by the truth of his words
>>139928I've rolled with a couple women. Both fairly attractive imo.One I persistently thought "Damn this chick is like a sack of potatoes, she is impossible to shift" (she was fairly hefty) and the other was "look lady, I know you're smaller than me, but you have vastly more experience, do you have to drag your elbows across my face like that? I know it's probably better technique than not, but it's really just unpleasant and feels more like insult than injury."If anything, I'd liken female sparring partners to shiny pokemon. Surprising when you encounter one. But functionally not very interesting.>>140537Hey, take it with a grain of salt.If you're into fat women, down south seems like the place to be.>>140286>Has to put his hands on their bodies.>Can't simply enjoy the body-to-body contact in itself.Weak.>>140170Different anon, and no. But I'd let her dislocate my pelvis any day of the week.Oh to be triangle choked by those thighs
I want to believe that sexualised grappling its something that only chan users incels push and no normal practicing even acknowledge
>>141780My sister stopped going to BJJ class in her town because the guys there kept making crass comments to her while rolling.
>>141780There's multiple pornography websites dedicated to it. Of any particular persuasion you could imagine. Good lucl removing sexuality from something so fundamentally intimate.
>>141784At least in my bjj classes its 100% respect and trying to help each other.>>141795>something so fundamentally intimate.What makes it different from pads or stand-up sparring?Its trying to choke or catch a limb, there is nothing personal about it.
>>140083I used to get boners in highschool wrestling whenever I had to wrestle girls. Use cross face and arm drags to touch their boobs.
>>141829When a man and his wife are physically intimate for procreative purposes are they playing patty-cake standing up at arms length or are they grabbing hold of each other and perhaps taking things to the mat?
>>141835Its a different context.
>>141837Absolutely, but can you see >What makes it different from pads or stand-up sparring?and why a woman wrapping her legs around you might be easier to sexualize than boxing and bag work?
>>139928why not train with women?
>>140083i disagree with this. but then again i havent really had a woman where i had to worry so most of the time i find its pretty weird when rolling with women.>>139928to answer that i wear a groin guard to protect myself from semen demons on the mat
>>142187my mans like *sniff* not tap
>>142187>>142779t.has never had a faceful of actual bad vaginal odorIf it smells bad I'd tap on the spot.
>>142864I never have but then again I don’t date disgusting hags who don’t bathe
I get hard just by looking at women in the streets and yet I've never once felt sexual thoughts while rolling with women. To me is just another thorso, limbs, and neck. The last thing I'm thinking about is sex. Maybe it's because I only train Gi idk
>>142868No I mean when doing sports with girls. They start sweating and it doesn't always smell like flowers and bliss regardless of pheromones.
>>141780Then you’re a retard with no ability to understand or empathise with male psychology
>>142932If a sweaty bjj woman smells bad then she’s a disgusting pig with hygiene issues. Sweaty young women should smell great and usually do
I have been considering how it would feel being intimate with another man, but I don't think I'm ready to jump into Grindr, so I'm thinking about signing up to jiujitsu.
>>143454There is nothing sexual in grappling.
>>143477not him but what if I'm gay and like to get choked
>>143454Well you're already pretty passive aggressive, so that's faggy enough to go to grindr
>>143477i met my gf in juijitsu class
>>143477I am literally banned in the west coast bjj community because i was damn near penetrating bitches with my boner.
There is a guy in my jiujitsu class that is gay, and he also happens to be really farty. He farts often enough while rolling that you just need to roll your eyes like oh boy here we go againSo my question is, is he like this because his asshole is destroyed and he literally just cant keep the thing shut anymore? Like any little pressure on his abdomen easily squeezes out whatever is in there?
>>146391It could be that and/or it could be that he has extra bacteria up his ass producing extra gas.
>>146391Just don't spar with him and tell him why.
>>139928you should only roll with women
>>139928When I used to wrestle in higshcool we would vs girls sometimes there were like 2 on the team. It is hard to not get a boner sometimes especially because its inevitable you will touch a tit sometimes. But that was also when I was a teenager.
>>141832>>149550Oh hey i posted twice lol. This board moves slow I forgot.
A korean girl gave me a foot fetishShe was one of those boneless flexible types and was always tangling me up in weird ways and slapping me in the face with her feet, I would end up smelling them and sometimes they even got in my mouth and were really softHaving a girl handle me like that and shoving her feet in my face awakened some sexual pathways in meOne time she was doing butterfly guard and her feet being in my crotch gave me a huge raging boner so I stopped moving and said sorry I'm having a back spasm I need to take a break, and I gimped off to the side to hide my erection
>>139928Don't you worry, any woman would "rather not" roll with you