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>Interpals
>Tandem
>HelloTalk
>etc.

Did you ever meet anyone from here or have any good experiences or stories?

What's your general experience with those apps?

Previous Interpals Thread: >>2224441
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>>2269722
>met chinese girl on omegle a few years ago
>says she wants to have a relationship with true love bla bla (she hasnt been in one before)
>tells me that I would make my partner happy etc.
>china is closed
It is an abstract kind of feel
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>>2269722
>Did you ever meet anyone from here or have any good experiences or stories?
Only met two girls so far. One I literally just messaged while I was in her city and she was fine to meet up straight away without any feeling me out first. I think its very much just a numbers thing. Got a third one who's pretty thirsty for me I'll be meeting up with soon.

Has anyone used the workaway travel buddies feature? Literally can search for other tourists by when they'll be in certain locations (and you can filter by gender), but they all seem pretty serious and stuck up on their profiles, is there a thriving travel hookup culture there or no?
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>>2269722
I signed up for Tandem after the last thread and I was talking to a qt for like 8 hours straight last night. She's really fun and sweet but I can tell her past will be an issue so it won't go anywhere. It was a bittersweet experience
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>>2269747
>Has anyone used the workaway travel buddies feature?
Which app is this on?
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>>2269821
workaway...


In other news, my interpals account was suspended for no reason, and which I made a new one, it was suspended immediately so I think they might have IP banned me. Neither HelloTalk nor Tandem work on my phone..
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>>2269823
I thought the feature was called "workaway travel buddies" my bad. I've never heard of this app before
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>>2269722
there are 10/10 qt chinks on hellotalk
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>>2269853
They can be a bit needy though. One girl won't shut up now with her chinese teenager problems

It sounds stupid but at their core everyone is the same in the developed world. We go to school. We go to jobs. We eat. You get the point.
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all these chinese chicks on interpals have to be fake right?
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>>2269722
I'm this guy
>>2255460
I made my interpals and Tandem account. It wasn't as grim as I thought it would be. I could flirt with pretty girls just fine, but some do ignore me. I'm running into a couple of problems though.

>1.
With Interpals this Nigerian guy is trying so hard to be my friend. I'm not an asshole so I do talk to him, but he won't leave me alone. He started telling me his life story about his sick mom and how he has to take care of his 5 siblings. He quickly made it clear that he wasn't trying to ask for money, he just wanted someone to talk to. I feel bad and I care, but I just want chicks.

>2
This white guy on /r9k/ was bragging about all the Asian girls he's pulled on Tandem and that made me jealous since all I got was this Mexican chick trying to get me to do her English homework for her. I tried talking to a bunch of girls from SEAsia and none of them replied to me, but when I went to bed 6 of the 10 girls I hit up were all talking to me. I can't reply to them all.
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is tandem mostly asians? or is there a good share of latinas and euros also?
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>>2269933
I exclusively talk to Turkish qts
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I posted before but I met pic related on IP, nearly 1 week of talking and she’s actually very funny for a Russkie. Will meet up in a couple of months in Turkey. She told me she used to be a doctor but it pays shit so she is now a QA engineer.

Intredasting
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>>2269957
I have seen that picture before. She was from Hungary however.
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I'm using HelloTalk and I now I'm friends with a japanese girl. Too bad she has a boyfriend and she doesn't have any friends her age. I think I'm going to switch to english and try to find a qt expat
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>>2270009
Lol. Was she now.
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>>2269957
"QA engineer"
everyone is as engineer in these retard companies, shes a QA monkey who clicks around looking for dumb bugs

she is using u as a passport scheme
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>>2270033
Mate, I’m looking for a bang with a Russian broad and that’s it. I’m not getting married. I’ve been on IP for less than 2 weeks and met a woman in my city as you can see from the last thread
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>>2269899
>double update
It keeps coming. When I first used these two sites I wasn't getting many replies so I got depressed and angry and I panicked and started mass replying. I go to bed and I wake up with 11 different girls on interpals and 6 on Tandem.
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>>2270031
Sorry to bring the bad news, but i'm not kidding. Same picture, from Hungary.
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>>2270042
It’s a good job we had a telegram video call then.
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>>2270043
So did we. Her name is Jennifer and she had a Bachelor in applied Physics, but worked as a Software engineer.
M8!

MATE!
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>>2270037
>waiting months just to bang some heavily used pussy
coomers like you are pathetic
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>>2270046
Stop talking about Jennifer like that. She is a holy woman!
How dare you!!
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>>2270046
You sound a little butt hurt. Sorry it’s annoying people have had more success than you.
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>>2270048
Without kidding, jokes aside, serious now.

You'll never fuck her without giving her something of high value to her. She can fuck any random Vatnik, but only you have something they can not provide.

Think.
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>>2270049
I’ve been through a lot of women to know if something is suspicious. I’ll give it a go and see. If it turns to shit, oh well, there’s millions more fish in the sea.
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>>2270050
Was just kidding, i bless you and Jennifers love henceforth.
Get her, Tiger!
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How do I use tandem? I've gotten like a lot of messages and I don't know what to do
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>>2269722
Is this good to meet central european women?
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Someone help me out, please.
How do I get a discussion going on?

My routine is basically this
>tell them hi
>they say hi back
>ask how they're doing
>they say "fine, & u" I say fine back
>I ask them to tell me about their country
>they either redirect me to google or give me a summary
I don't really know what else to say.
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>>2270071
jesus if you cant hold a basic conversation you have no chance anon
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>>2270057
>>2270071
Pick out something in their profile as a conversation starter instead of saying "hi" that's boring. Say "hey how did you get interested in *insert hobby or language they are learning*" or "hey I saw you liked reading, what's your favourite book/author"
These usually get the ball rolling and if you don't know what to do next maybe it isn't for you. Honestly my better conversations are with girls that messaged me first but they are a bit more timid on tandem than interpals for example so it doesn't happen as often
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>>2270123
>bit more timid on tandem
what this mean
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>>2269957
Anon, don’t do it. I met with a Russian girl in a middle eastern country that I also met on interpals. She looked totally different and later told me she was actually married.
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>>2270308
>later told me she was actually married
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>>2270308
sucks to suck anon, the ruskie i met off ip was great
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>>2270259
on interpals girls send the first message pretty often but on tandem it doesn't happen as much for me
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>>2270364
Really? Seems very opposite to me. I barely got any views and very rarely a msg on Interpals while on Tandem I Chinese or Latina girls used to msg me so often in first few weeks that it was getting tiring to msg so many of them..
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>>2270308
Sorry man, I think I've seen you post before.
We've had video calls already. If she was married and still met me, I'd plow on all the same.
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>>2270372
interesting, I only talk to other Euros and Turks so I wouldn't know about Asians or Latinas desu. What languages did you put down on Tandem?
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>>2270454
The ones with most people mostly. Chinese, Spanish, Portuguese, Russian, Tagalog and Thai. When I put European languages I never got messaged by any Europeans, idk why is that so. Do people talk to Asians there or what or do they simply have too many msgs from other men, I dont know.
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>>2270308
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Who has experience with arab girls on these apps? They're 100 % my type but from my experience it's very hard to fuck them because they almost always live with their parents until they get married and in most of their countries you can't share a hotel room with a girl you're not married to.
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>>2269722
After many, many years of seeing you fags sperg about interpals, I've finally decided to give it a shot. Just signed up. What am I in for boys?
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>>2270520
I got laid from it in 1 week but by sheer total fluke as she was a sex starved mother LOL.

Meeting some cute Russians and Turkish women. I cba with Indians because they're too conservative and a bit boring.

I think you need to make your profile seem innocent enough, add some depth and it doesnt hurt to upload pictures here and there so people will see and interact with you on the news feed.
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>>2270525
whoa holy shit, how do you guys keep up with these chicks? I've been here 30 mins and I have four broads messaging me

I see a lot of chicks looking for "friends". Presumably they're just saying that to not look like whores?
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>>2270528
Basically. Someone said before the reason it works so well is because on dating app there's the conscious notion you're there to date/chat/fuck etc. Here, you're more coy and there's less obvious pressure.

Enjoy it my man.
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>>2270528
where are these girls from

are u white, how attractive, and did u write ur height and if so, what is it
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>>2270549
I shagged this woman from England and she's white. She lived 15 minutes away and I was quite forward..

I'm half Italian (advertise this) but I'm short: 5.7 but workout and have good hair genetics. I'm also early 30s..
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Full seriousness looking for either a Nippon or Goryeo cue tee for marriage and chillends.

Any success stories to go off of here? Positive advice in general?
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>>2270549
>where are they from
Exactly where you'd expect. Singapore, Hong Kong, Philippines, Indonesia. No Thailand (yet)

>are you white
yes
>how attractive
fairly, profile pic attached
>did you write your height
I did now
>if so what is it
184
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>>2270569
I dont know. I'm slowly heating up a convo with a 40 year old in Kyoto to test the waters..

Many seem a bit fake on the Asian side so I'm being choosy with who I speak with.
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>>2270570
Yeah, blonde and approachable looking gj, you'll do well.

I posted this one on the news feed and it got me some messages from people. Also men, lol.
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>>2270579
women appreciate a good smile, this is a bad pic
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>>2270570
I'd recommend taking your height out because it's too date profiley and like the other anon said things work best when under the pretense of just a chatting/language learning place.
Also if you really want to be selective and get a shitload of messages use qt crawler/creeper it visits profiles constantly so you get more views and messages. If you're getting overwhelmed at 4 in 30 mins you might not want this. Enjoy chatting with the qts bro and remember not to get too attached and don't waste your time continuing convos you aren't interested in/with girls you aren't interested in
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>>2270582
I'm too self conscious. I have 3-4 pics..one with me at the gym, it suffices.
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>>2270579
>>2270582
agreed on the smile, I'd also comb the hair. you're basically quite good looking though

what's the protocol on heating things up, getting nudes, meets, etc.? Especially for the women who say they just want "friends" or "language practice"?

Explain to me like you would to a retarded person, I'm a bit of a sperg
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>>2270600
One Russian girl said she loved my hair. I try to go for that anime/indie-ish look. It works for some chicks..

Anyway, I dont use QT Crawler as it didnt work for me (maybe I'm retarded). So, I just have the tab open so I'm 'online' and I check out people's profiles but never initiate. Ever. The viewing thing is good because it means they're curious and my theory is good looking girls are always approached but if you dont message, it might show you have some value. Maybe? Idk, just spit balling.

Just talk about general stuff, like hobbies, travelling, try and relax and be funny. It doesnt always work because of language barrier but try things out.

Then eventually take it to whatsapp/telegram and throw in some complements and it'll go from there.

Russians seem VERY easy imo as a tip. Dont be a jerk, be assertive but nice and give complements.
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>>2270598
got it, removed height.
Given the point about the pretense of chatting and language learning, should I mention "friends" in what I'm looking for? Because that's absolutely what I'm NOT looking for.

Will check out qtcrawler, thanks
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>>2270603
I took out flirting/relationship on mine. Seemed less needy/obvious.
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>>2270601
Thanks anon, qtcrawler looks like you need a bit of tech savvy to use successfully (which I don't have, I'm a TEFLfag) but maybe I can try it out.

I like what you said about not initiating. Do you still get a lot of messages with never initiating?

>>2270605
That's a good idea, but don't you ever get called out on it?
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>>2270607
Never. I especially love women who say they are NOT there for flirting or dating and then they end up flirting anyway. Women are so ridiculous kek.

I've been on there for 20 days, and only 9 or 10 actively. I'd say I get approached with a fresh woman twice a day, sometimes more if I have posted a fresh pic on the news feed for anyone to see.
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>>2270603
like the other anon said taking out flirting/romance is essential because you keep the illusion that they like to have.
Some girls just won't be down to flirt so if that's what you're looking for move on.
Keep in mind that women get an unbelievable amount of messages on these apps. So try your best to keep their interest but if you have to try too hard don't bother because they'll smell the desperation. Just like real life you have to read things and know when to flirt but I've had so many problems with the language barrier when it comes to certain countries because they just assume the worst so that's another pro tip, try to be very clear if their English isn't perfect. Latinas are especially like this I was talking to one for hours in a row and then she just blanked me because she thought a word meant something else. It's tricky at first but you get used to it with time. It sounds like you don't want to initiate much so make sure you view plenty of profiles so they message you, since you're decent looking you shouldn't have a problem
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>>2270610
>Never.
Wow, women really are absurd
>I especially love women who say they are NOT there for flirting or dating and then they end up flirting anyway
really ridiculous. I'm seeing a lot of "here for friends" but then "only accepts messages from firstie dudes in her dating age range"
>>2270616
all of these good ideas. When you say be very clear, like what? *message message* "I think you have a great body" *message message* "do you think I'm handsome?" *message message* "show me your tits" Like that?

I don't mind initiating, but I want to set myself apart from the 10 million guys that message her that day

thanks for explaining bro, like I said I'm retarded
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>>2270621
I meant be clear in the language you use like try not to say things that might get misconstrued. Hard to explain without an example but I can't remember any right now. Some of the women can be crazy like I said I really wanted to visit Italy to this Italian girl and then later in the convo I said "if I ever visit Italy" and she got upset with me because she assumed I was going to visit since I said I really wanted to. Lots of stuff like that.
I wouldn't be that direct to say "show me your tits" and "do you think I'm handsome" sounds like you need their validation which is something you need to avoid. You can say they have a good body if they have pictures up of them at the beach or in a bikini etc and it shouldn't be too weird. "Hey I can see from your pictures you take care of yourself, do you go to the gym?" Could be am opener that accomplishes the same thing without being as direct. Just try your best to read the vibe so when you do flirt you don't come off as a horny virgin
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>>2270610
>women who say they are NOT there for flirting or dating and then they end up flirting anyway.
In my experience (about a year or two now) this is the single best predictor of if they are up for flirting. If they explicitly say in their profile they are not looking for flirting or men then they are almost always the easiest ones to take it sexual with.
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>>2270628
>she assumed I was going to visit since I said I really wanted to
Yeah, I've gotten a couple "when are you coming"'s already

wise, wise. This makes sense. I'm going to remember the gym line.

>>2270630
Good to remember

In your experiences, how easy are Muslim chicks? I think hijabs are hot and would love to get under some of those bedsheets that they wear

I understand Turkish girls are all over interpals, are they easy?
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>>2270633
Turks are very approachable and easy to talk to, in my experience they're either down to have fun or not at all
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I feel these apps are really good for building up some confidence in some of you self conscious autists. So keep working at it bros, we're all gonna make it.
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Reading all your comments, it looks like it's very easy to talk to girls with Interpals. I think I'll do it, but it seems like it's too good to be true and most girls are either catfish or straight up scams. Any actual good experiences?
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>>2269722
So I'm talking to these women from South America and I get the feeling they're fake. Why?

I talk to Latinas all the time in Omegle and I'm lucky if I can find one that speaks English. Yet most of the girls on this site I encounter can type it in very well.
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>>2269899
Hi. I'm the tandem guy from r9k
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>>2269899
I'm black too. I was so scared I'd either be ignored or disrespected but most of the girls there are nice. Talking to this hot Brazilian girl right now (and bombing).

I can get replies just fine, but so far the only girls that approach me and try to keep the convo going when I can't figure out what else to say are the middle eastern and north African girls. Just like in real life.
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If someone is from /r9k/ I find it hard to believe they don't spill their spaghetti and have trouble reading the situation but who knows being black is the bigger issue anyway kek
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>>2270703
Yes its like you're a chad. There are lots of scam accounts but they are very obvious, they normally are accounts from nigeria with very abvious pictures of white pornstars or supermodels with a short bio saying theyre looking for a husband or want to discuss crypto. If you don't fall for nigerian prince emails then you won't fall for them.
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I just got followed by an old russian man on tandem
I'm scared bros
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>>2271020
I ignore every guy except this one guy who's a wrestler because he's a cool dude
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Turkey tandem chiks love white guys!
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>>2271832
You better not be talking to the same Turkish chicks I am
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Met a 30 year old japanese lady, i dated and kissed a week later we fucked. Had another really bad experience where i went to a bar with a girl and her friend was an awful night. Both HelloTalk
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>>2272088
What happened?
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>>2272088
Storytime on both Anon
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I'm really hitting it off with a girl from tandem bros I just went there to have some fun but now it's really deep
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>>2272155
good luck brother
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How long do you wait in asking your qts out after first contacting them. Do you get to know them first or just do it straight away?
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>>2272184
Depends on the situation of course friend, if you feel it's the right time then go for it
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>>2272184
>>2272245
I slightly misread what you were asking so I'll clarify.
I wait until I know there will be good vibes when we meet and then depending on the girl I'll be more direct or more playful about asking and I time asking it to a high point in the conversation.
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I leave my phone on HelloTalk so it says active and after about 20 minutes i legit have too many girls to talk to, never knew these chinese chicks are so obsessed with blonde guys lol
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>>2270569
Status update

Turkish, French, Russian girlas all respond way more positively than I expect. Just bsing and they are spilling spaghetti over dumb jokes it's kinda crazy.

Korean girlas are just flat out leaving my messages unread and flaking on basic chitchat.

Wat da fuk. Send help I want east asianoids not europoids.
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>>2272342
Asians are pretty bland other than asiatic/weeb/gamer culture if you like that. Otherwise the other girls you listed are more fun on average. I also had yellow fever and I learned it through the years. Good fucks though, but so are other women
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>>2272089
>>2272116
Day late but whatever.
The bar night was just awful for me, i sat around with 2 girls i barely knew the japanese one invited me out of the blue i couldn't get any friends to join me so went alone. The jap one had a boyfriend and the british one was out of my league, i stuck around for a few drinks played a drinking game then they went to go off and dance or whatever but i wasn't interested. I just ended up leaving the bar.
The 30 year old was much better (Im 24 for reference) we went on a date in central London, we went to a cafe, a arcade, had some bobba tea and i took her to a bar after as i walked her back to the station and we were saying goodbye i just grabbed her hand and kissed her. A day later she invited me to stay at her place.
I wanted to visit japan which is why i got the app but since japan isn't opening im just going to go thailand.

If you want advice though i'd recomend just shooting the shot early. Both times i met with someone i either asked them to meet up on the day i started chating or she asked me to meet out of the blue
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>>2272688
I hab porcelain doll fever. Something about the look just makes me crazy. I don't care how it is "fake" or whatever.

No explanation as to why I am attractive to whyte wahmen but not the asn wahmen. It is genuinely confounding me. Maybe its an interpals thing, I need to check out these other language apps. Also need to spoof a tinder.
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>>2270071
What the fuck, the memes are true, people actual do this? Holy kek.
Only say 'hi' at the start of a longer message, don't ask them how they are, they are fine, if you want to know something specific about their country, then ask them that specific question, if you don't then don't ask them about their country. You look at their profile and pictures to find something to latch onto to talk about.
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>>2270045
>no more replies

kek
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>>2272706
Why didn't you dance with them? Her being out of your league shouldn't stop you bro.
At least you had a good experience with the 30 yo
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>advertise on tandem that I want to learn chinese
>that gives some zhang from hongkong the mental green light to attempt to call me at 6:30 am
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>>2272887
kek
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Its kind of exhausting to keep up a conversation with every man and woman that tries to message me. How do you guys do it?
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>Going to Germany in September
>Message 7 girls
>5 ignore me, 1 ghosts me after a few days, and the only one who responds to me and writes long messages has a boyfriend

Should I be looking at 30+ women, or does the only girl who keeps responding want me to cuck her boyfriend?
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>>2272942
hehe. thats also my luck with any European girls ( but Im also European lol)
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>>2272989
Damn, I'm a Burger and have been able to use Interpals to meet up and coom in the U.S. Why are European girls so different?
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>>2272940
We don't, just respond and message people yoo want to talk to. Not everyone kek
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Are any of these app good for talking to people of another country before you move there?
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>most of the girls I try to flirt with have boyfriends
You faggots tricked me. This was a waste of time.
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>>2273130
They only have a "boyfriend" when a Chud approaches them. It's over pal.
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>>2273130
Out of all the girls I've messaged and have messaged me only one had a boyfriend and all her pictures were with him anyway. Either you're very unlucky, talking to the wrong girls or you're ugly/boring to chat with
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>>2273057
That is what they are literally are made for.
The chads abusing it to get poon are the exception.
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>>2272299
I don't think blonde has anything to do with it. I'm a half black mutt and get plenty of messages from Chinese girls. The problem is that I don't want Chinese girls messaging me. If I wanted to coom I'd turn on tantan. While I love Chinese culture and language I can already speak that shit extremely well. Vast majority of Chinese even tell me I'm the best foreign Chinese speaker they've met (or think I'm a Chinese person pretending to be a foreigner). The problem is that I want to learn Korean and these people are extremely stuck up. There's a billion Chinese and only 50 million Koreans so there is an incredibly low supply of speakers while a really high demand. Fucking annoying as fuck. I literally am not using the app to coom but finding a real language partner for Korean is close to impossible. Fuck my life.
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>>2272342
>Korean girlas are just flat out leaving my messages unread and flaking on basic chitchat.
Fucking this 10000%.
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>>2269890
If they ask for your WhatsApp? Yes they are fake. The app has a huge bot problem. No idea what they are trying to get out of it.
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tandem seems like a buggy piece of shit so far(the website) .. can you not filter out all the dudes?
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>>2273394
>I'm black
Why is it that there are so many black people on /trv/ but I never saw them travel ever in my life?
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>>2273461
No, which is actually a good thing for us guys looking for girls
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had to let one of my favourite qts go bros
it's a weird feel
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>>2273461
>>2273470
Im tryna make friends with the chad looking guys so we can wingman each other when I visit.

Having more luck with the females, kek it really is like an offshoot dating site for them too I bet.
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>>2273474
This is my experience too kek
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>>2273474
Blog update

I check messages this morning and everyone has responded at once. That makes me feel better, I thought I was repulsive to asians somehow. I am educate them on small town Americana
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>Put Latin down as my language I'm learning
>After 3 months only one guy responds in Latin but I missed him by an entire month
There goes my only comrade on this sea of South East Asians.
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I assume these upscale Asian profiles on tandem are also fake just like interpals? Where they claim to be in the US but speak the most broken English, then of course look like some kpop model in their picture.
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>>2269722
>make interpals account
>don't get replies instantly
>get frustrated and mass reply women
>wake up to 13 different women replying to me
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>>2269722
Any experienced Interpals users?

How can you tell if someone's fake?
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>>2274260
>profile created 3 mins ago
>asian girl picture with tits out
>name is michael
>registered from nigeria
ez
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>>2274291
I actually fell for that. I was so horny for Asian pussy that I almost paid for this weird phone app. I fapped and the clarity hit me and I ghosted the scammer. He deleted the account 4 days later.
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I met a lovely Italian girl on interpals years ago and she was a wonderful friend and person in general. I'd talk to her almost every day. Unfortunately, she slowly started to subscribe to weird woke ideology over the years which caused a falling out between us. Such a waste to throw away a 5 year old friendship over such stupid shit.
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>>2274380
same thing happened to me, she used to be nice and cute but she became obnoxious over time
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so are most of the cuties on tandem legit? it seems like this might become an addiction bros
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>>2269722
I'm on Interpals and this beautiful colombian girl is talking to me. She made her account 10 days ago, though.

The profile pic looks so openly fake (model tier, taking like a photoshoot, only 1 other picture) that I'm convinced she's real because scammers can't be that stupid.

Also, (s?)he hasn't asked me for money yet. I asked her for her twitter and she says she didn't have a phone and needed a while to get the money for it. She didn't ask me for anything. She says when she gets the money we can video chat.
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>>2274755
there are rare times where they're actually just a retarded woman with a shit profile. But it still should be obvious when you see or take to a fake
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>>2274749
Yes they're mostly legit. Don't get too addicted t. knower
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how the fuck did I get banned from tandem? I'm like the least intrusive guy to ever join a language exchange site? Unless all these fuckers that I ghost reported me and it was an auto ban.
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How do I set up a VPN to use with wechat?
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>>2275553
Just make a new account but honestly I have no idea how you got banned. Are you sure you didn't say something that could be considered offensive or some other bullshit
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>meet cute Korean girl
>she sends me a voice message so I know she’s real
>and an Instagram
>and an Instagram video telling me hi
>have the best and longest conversation with her I’ve ever had on that site
>tell her I like her
>….she has a boyfriend
My heart is unironcially breaking right now. My night is ruined and I’m about to cry. WHY do these women talk to men on the internet when they’re already dating someone? Is this some kind of torture or do they seriously believe men can be friends with women?
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>>2276431
only thing that I can think of is that some brazilian girl had "send me your best pick up line" in her profile and I sent her that cheesy ass archeologist line (and she enjoyed it) .. other then that, I didn't even flirt or any shit, just had normal conversation. I'll probably make a new profile eventually, but it's weird as fuck since you know turks/arabs/africans are definitely going full autist on there.
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>>2276663
Attention, that's why.
Doesn't matter if they are Swedish or Korean bro they're still women.
Try keep your chin up and don't think about her too much, just ghost her and move onto a different girl
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>>2276663
>My heart is unironcially breaking right now. My night is ruined and I’m about to cry.
Holy shit bro get yourself together. Not trying to put you down, but you might actually have low test if this is your reaction. A more healthy reaction is raging at being tricked by some whore willing to go behind her man's back.
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>>2276860
It's his own fault for interacting with a feminist whore. If you want a decent woman stick with the three Ms

Muslim
Mormon
Mennonite

Or suffer, yes I know you will choose suffering
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>>2276869
All women are suffering to some degree. Mormons are retarded, Mennonites are retarded, Muslims are inbred foreigners.

Just be a man and grab a foid with a low body count and things do work out. Make sure to be a man, and not act like a crying victim.
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I attract too many underage girls
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>>2276879
You would rather have a roastie and get divorce raped than have a pure female
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>>2276997
Where is your muslim, mormon, or mennonite wife anon?

Oh, you don't have one? Oh, you're a neurotic mess and have convinced yourself of a victim worldview with some autistic ruleset?
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>>2269722
Is Hellotalk any good? I want to talk to Jap and Korean chicks.

Is there a good way to tell if they're real? Both the fakes and the real women use those filters that make them look like idols.
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Do MENA girls like euro guys? Asking for a friend
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>"""""qts"""""
literally every girl you meet on these apps is a 5/10 hobgoblin or mentally unhinged slut that couldn't find a boyfriend in her own country
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>>2279024
how do you know?
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>>2279018
yes
>>2279024
This is just not true, out of the ones that message first sure they're mostly not cute but some are and you have to message the qts if you want to talk to them
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>>2269722
Met this muslim girl. We're sexting but she won't show me anything. Won't even moan for me. Am I just ugly or are muslim girls really that devoted?
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How do I make friends in my target language?
A lot of people are learning Japanese, and I'm a really awkward guy with terrible pictures. I don't think a native speaker would wanna talk to me when they're already getting tons of messages from random foreigners

All I want is to look at the funny bears in Hokkaido and make a fren or two
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This one Chinese girl on Tandem was only talking about investments and crypto and shit. She wanted to practice specific investments and kept pushing to try it. Must be a scam, blocked and deleted her.
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>>2277475
>Talk to Korean chicks
>On Hellotalk
Lol good luck. They are the most snobby women on the site. Always funny when I see poltards talk shit about white women while putting Koreans on a pedestal. Yeah they are hot as fuck, the problem is that they know that and will act like a complete Stacy.
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>>2279924
>male feminist figures out feminist females are trash
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you faggot larpers are pathetic
it makes me laugh how desperate you are, good luck trying to have sex :)
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>>2279507
just message them. its a numbers game. something will stick eventually
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>>2269722
I've been practicing chinese and made some good chick friends on tandem. I'll share some stories
>begin chatting with a computer science phd student that lives in south china
>it's the normal stuff like "what do you study/ do for work"
>have a voice call and it's pretty average
>I decide to ask about her music taste
>she's into chinese punk and emo music
>shit completely throws me off because she is a normal girl that wears pretty dresses
>we start to nerd out hard about music
>I tell her she should check out this band called "Chinese Football" that I like
>she tells me she saw them 2 weeks ago and sends me pic related
>we talk every week now
>she wants to try and study abroad in usa and I'm hoping she manages to get something near me

2nd chick
>we immediately start talking about movies and music
>have a voice call and we connect pretty damn quickly
>she wants to continue talking with me every week because she says our chemistry is rare
>whenever she has a tough day at work she calls me because I help her relax and make her laugh
>texts are great she'll say "thanks for the talk anon. I really enjoyed it"
>I'll reply with "thanks baby (wink kiss emote)"
>she'll call me a stupid fuck
>one call she tell me that I'm really charming so if I visit Beijing who knows what could happen
>pretty much code for "you're gonna get this pussy if you come here"
>she has told me stories of creepy dudes trying to get her to come to their countries
>she tells me she wants to come visit me though

it's a shit ton of fun. don't force shit and just have a good time. even if you aren't really learning a language, people still appreciate help with english. it's honestly a great way to practice talking too if you need
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>>2280099
I'll share one more
3rd chick
>younger chick who has a photo in a bra on her profile (pic related)
>oh shit I better send her a message
>first day we talk about cupcakes and baking, stupid shit
>I'm still wondering why she has a picture of her breasts being pushed out in a bra on a language exchange app
>2nd day I decide, fuck it, I want to know
>mention the picture and ask her "why she is pushing her titty meat in my face in a language learning app"
>it doesn't trigger her the way I though it would
>she explains that she likes the picture and she was worried she wouldn't get attention without it
>I ask her what she wants from the app
>she says to make friends and talk
>tell her that she is only going to get people trying to fuck her with picture
>she deletes it
>we keep talking and become really good friends
>she complains to me about men sexually harassing her all the time
>I do it too, but she said "It's okay when I do it"
>literally call her "big booty" all the time
>she deleted tandem, but we still talk on insta
>she says I'm the only guy she talks to from there
>she's one of those "men hating" girls, but she loves when I say stupid sexual shit to her
>I eventually even told her the reason I started talking to her was because of her titty pic
>still loves me

honestly, I've probably tried talking to more than 100 different people there. you're gonna get a lot of people that lead to nowhere, but you might find a handful you really connect with. my best piece of advice is to move to an audio call quickly. you'll be able to build a connection quickly if there is one. send some audio clips too. that will make it fell more personal quickly
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Whats the strategy on Hello Talk?
>respond in English to posts
>correct English posts
>make my own posts in Japanese
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>>2269722
>Did you ever meet anyone from here or have any good experiences or stories?
I'm now married to a Japanese girl I met on Interpals 4 years ago back when there were daily threads about it on /int/
Don't give up on your dreams
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>>2280309
Fucking nigger. I've talked to 4500 women over the past 5 years and gave up on those bitches long time ago I ave no energy to talk to them.

Where the fuck does everybody even get fucking unicorns when all of mine are vapid shallow thots and asian girls are borderline fucked.

Youre larping
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>>2280103
>she's one of those "men hating" girls
That's quite common in china
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I made an account, messaged some chick a few miles away, and she's going to come visit me in pattaya tomorrow to go to the mall and have some food, then take some pictures at the beach. She's 22, I'm 34.

Start to finish ~30 minutes. I think interpals is just another dating website.
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>>2280309
>>2280099
>>2280430
maybe I'm not only kinda ugly, but socially retarded
I'm getting ghosted by men and women looking for language help
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>>2280545
by 'language help', they mean 'I want to talk to somebody attractive and/or cool'
you might just have bad pictures, try having some taken of you outside and doing something that looks fun (gay, I know)
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>>2280351
lot's of women who are over like 28 are single there. why is this? aren't there way more men there than women? it makes no sense
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>>2276869
Having dated a Mormon for years, please do not recommend them. Their entire community is based on tolerating sex offenders in their midst and tut-tutting anything that might potentially be fun.
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>>2280665
men, especially asian men in asia aren't in the market for 'pen pals'
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>>2280681
Actually now that I think about it they fit in perfectly with 4chan's average demographic
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>>2280665
>better educated than their men
>focus on career meem
>high standards
>feel under pressure by family
>feminism creeping in
This is the shit that fucks up countries. Theyre often still good girls anyway.
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>>2280103
This girl looks fat and ugly though.
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update on my date
it started raining so the girl decided she didn't want to take a 15 minute taxi ride after all
lol, thai women are so flakey
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>>2280712
i gotta say that makes them sound really attractive
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You could be a 5'3 incel Korean man and do better than a 6'2 white chad on interpals
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>>2281188
Wrong. I have qts messaging me out of the blue daily, guys asking me advice on life and fitness and other stuff I have posted.

t. White chad
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>tandem hasn't accepted my account after 24 hours
wtf
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>>2269890
they want to get your phone number so they can try SIM jacking. incase you have cryptocurrencies. or they try to sell you some kind of cryptocurrency scam site.

I offered no cellphone telegram link before but the female didn't want to take it.
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>>2270509
my dutch fren his wife is an iranian girl and they met on interpals.
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>>2282276
Oh I understand now.
Thanks for the tip frend.
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Every time I use these apps I end up in a relationship I don't really want. What is wrong with me
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>>2280103
good insight bro. seconded
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>>2283951
same
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>>2283951
that happens to me every way i've met women
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>>2284208
>>2284228
I've been talking to this one girl for nearly a month now just as friends, not going to let it happen again
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Are there any other sites like this? Literally got so close with a girl and I thought she was my soulmate but she was always sick. I went to the UK to travel but she couldn't meet me right away because she was sick so I got mad and she just cut contact with me,,,after talking every single day for a yera straight and multiple times 2 ours plus on the phone ahh well.

I met some Indian expat i


Other than getting my heartbroken things have been mostly good. Being Australian I have Thai's and Indos in my inbox every day but I just think I'd rather be single. I do better on Interpals than dating apps in Australia where I attract overweight asians and the only white girl who will look at me are literally so big they are two people.

I don't know how to use the QT strip so I just sit online the whole time even though I am not there to attract attention
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>>2276663
you can still fuck her retard. Her boyfriend is almost without a dick if he's Korean.
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>>2284627
Dude you need to literally go outside and touch grass and give up on the idea of females touching your peepee
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>>2284634
I am 37 brah I'd prefer females touching my cock at this age. Also, I work 50 hours a week and gym. I need to stay inside and watch sports, thanks champ
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I'm a an average looking pajeet. Will girls reply to me?
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does qtcreeper still work?
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>>2279745
pretty much every chink on the internet does this, the funny thing is is that most of them are actually women and not trying to scam, they're just bug people that only care about money, so all they talk about is finance and consumerism
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>>2272342
There's like 1000 men for every Korean and Japanese woman. For some reason, retards are obsessed with women from these two countries so they are absolutely overwhelmed.

Pick literally any other country on earth and you'll find a better balance.
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i used to get literal hundreds of qts on interpals message me first and now i don't get any messages unless i make the move first; what went wrong bros? am i just too old now?
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>>2285834
How old champ?
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>>2284627
How common are overweight Asians?
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Oldbros... it's over.
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Has anyone seen Cuban girls in these apps?
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>>2285123
I deleted a flip on Telegram after she mentioned an "online game to earn passive income". Then she messaged me on the site accusing me of being a scammer.
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Goddamit you niggers this is supposed to be the thread for making connections to explore foreign countries, not a pussy dating app.
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>>2280310
>talk to 4500 women
>get along with none of them
I wonder what the common element is here.
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>>2269957
does she have a relative who makes money on the stock exchange?
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Why are turkettes so cute and wholesome bros?
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how are you guys fucking girls from here, what? Do you actually fly halfway across the globe to fuck some broad? Or have you already planned to visit a place and just use these sites to setup connections/meetups before hand? Or do you live in global cities where there are more foreign qts?
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>>2288031
the new janny niggers shouldn't have banned the /std/ containment general/
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>>2288031
Both.

Both are good.

>>2289229
Just banged a chick from Interpals tonigh.
With those apps, you can find 7/8 women willing to open their legs for foreigners' cock while traveling.
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>>2289276
too bad I don't live in an area where many foreigners visit. Closest place I can think of is my capital which is like an hour away.
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>>2289276
Why are you bragging about having sex with a diseased whore on a travel board,
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Hello /his/,

I am a married white man from the US, I have no interest in cooming. I want to become friends with people from the Middle East/Central Asia, what website would be best to do it?
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>>2289436
Men are, by nature, hypergamous.

Having multiples conquests validate your social, intellectual, physical powers with concrete facts.

It's either you save yourself for a loved one, or either you embrasse the cooming life.

I go in the fun, danger, date zones, and there's nothing you can do to stop me.

https://youtu.be/R_USJCTIgs4
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>>2289732
Buying a diseased whore is not a conquest it is evidence of a broken individual, a loser
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>>2289737
>the subtil switch between "having sex with" and "buying".
I do smoking hot caucasians and sexy latinas while you're touching your noodle. Cope in the no-go zone.
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New to this bros, where do I start? Just join Tandem and start talking? I'm tall, have a good job, and can hold a good convo. I'm not cute, but not ugly.

Someone tell me where to start.
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>>2289763
You select languages you wanna learn ( aka your girl preferences). And then text them. Its not too difficult.

For me tho, most Europeans girls arent too responsive ( tho Im from Southeastern Europe). I get most responses from China and Phillippines. I think Chinese girls dont get that many messages compared to Western girls if that tells you something. What are you looking for?
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>>2286259
27
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>>2289780
brazilian, polish, russian, ukrainian, generally any eastern europe is fine.
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If you're using IP I highly recommend doing some voice messages.
I used it to my advantage to have a skype with a Japanese woman. In fairness, she lived in London so her English is okay but her pronunciation is funny.

But yeah, with the good looking girls some British accent is there to be weaponised.
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Thank the guys who sent dick pics if You dont get an answer..
I was talking to a girl there and she told me she got more than 10 dicks x just straight sent as as a first message. Mostly people she said were from India and Iran, and most were premium members.

How come they don't implement an AI to detect dick pics ? Is it because they actually know that most premium users are not there to learn a language?
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I duno bros talking to a russian chick, but feels sus. She sounds younger than she is and now I feel weird and want to delete this shit.
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When I was getting quite a few messages it felt great, but ultimately most conversations that don't end through lack of interest quickly will end painfully when the time comes. Around half a dozen times gotten pretty close with some girl all for them to go cold completely out of nowhere and soon stop responding mid conversation, never to hear from them again. Been too painful of an experience ultimately. Most recent one was final nail in coffin.

>just lost someone without explanation
>Message from turk girl who seemed pretty sweet and up to chat (no pic but fuck it)
>end up getting along like a house on fire over the next 2-3 months, call most days
>she jokes about us meeting in her city
>end up actually making plan to meet somewhere nice for a week
>not romantic premise but am open
>actually fly out and she's real
>she's visibly a bit more stressed out than me on the first day but hey just nerves amirite
>morning of second day ignores me for her phone and cries hysterically for over an hour over her ex
>busting my ass trying to support and have fun but same shit every day
>constant battle or any attention, usually in vain
>argue several times
>smiled more talking on the phone than the whole week together
>back home she goes cold even though we left on good terms
>2 weeks later she just stops responding

Honestly no idea what went wrong, it fucking hurts knowing she doesn't care after all the effort and care I gave. Be careful out there anons. Waiting for someone to call me faggot because I wasn't just looking for barely legal vagoo
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>>2290158
>Honestly no idea what went wrong, it fucking hurts knowing she doesn't care after all the effort and care I gave

You sound like a pussy bitch. She shit tested you and you failed, so she stopped talking to you, it's really that simple.
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>>2289813
>he is falling for the alphabet soup entrapment
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>>2290166
explain
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>>2290167
youre getting set up bro
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>>2290170
in what way? whats their endgame?
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years ago i was chatting with a qt french girl there but i was depressed as shit and couldnt keep up the conversation and she blocked me after i replied just once a week or so.
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>website allows you to chat up 16 year olds
>AOC in my country is 16
>still feel wrong chatting with 16 year olds
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>>2290719
Shit is sketch, some of them look too young, if they do I nope the fuck out.
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so why do all these little chink bots or pajeets want your whatsapp number so bad? something with crypto?
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>>2269722
yea interpals is alright but theres tons of fake accounts and sex worker tier scams on it.
so beware. account age is usually the first sign its from a scammer. the admins routinely ban accounts engaged in digital begging.

im mostly interested in meeting ppl right now who are either in the Caribbean (where i mainly live) or in Uruguay (2nd residency) and ideally in Argentina where im currently trying to build a log cabin house for the southern lights in Patagonia.

>pic related if u wanna network
im english native, expert in spanish, some portuguese and russian
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I still don't understand why they always avoid me, I'm I don't have desire to chasing women through online site/apps anymore. Really waste of my time anon.
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>>2272791
Same here bro, I think it's because the Japs, Gooks and Chinks get 99% of the messages, so they just forget to respond. That's why most people end up just chatting with Indonesians and Russians.
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>>2290958
It could be SIM jacking, where they impersonate you to your telco provider and ask for your number to be ported to a new SIM card. From there they can use 2FA to reset your passwords.
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>>2291129
My Korean gf signed up for interpals after I told her I used it to learn spanish. Her inbox is absolutely flooded. I now understand why so few Koreans respond on there
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>>2291149
How did you meet her?
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How tf do u make an acc? Been trying a couple of times and it gets automatically banned.
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>>2290165
>talking about/with ex
Big red flag.
Really complicated to have more if affinities with such psychos.
Had s*x with cunts talking about theirs exes, really had a +1 in my BC and that's it, you need to play your cards really carefully to get such girls.

>wom*n shit testing others
Also big orange flag.
If I see one is doing such things I'd prefer close the bid and get out than spending more time with such manipulate cunts.
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Any advice for meeting your Turkish qt for the first time?
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>>2291554
Are you talking to a Turksih girl on interpals? greentext your story.
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I'm supposed to switch to Whatsapp or line from Interpals? Everyone asking WA's phone number...
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>>2291925
Sim hack thing. Never share if you don't trust or if they ask right away.
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>be me
>18
>virgin
>can't get lewd with any girls
>frustrated

>fastforward now
>24
>body count ~+20
>got several dates through Bumble, Interpals
>most of them end in my bed
>even if I date regularly a girl, I find myself dating and fucking others by side.
Those options made me act like an animal.
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>>2292003
Do you travel the world just to fuck people you met on interpals? lol
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Based on these responses, are these apps primarily for speaking with asians or are there good options for LatAm Spanish speakers?

>>2291149
What was your routine for learning Spanish? Any tips/advice?

>>2292003
So the options and talking to chicks online helped you a lot irl it sounds like?
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>>2292006
And then he brags about it, hey everyone look at me diseased sluts let me fuck them look at me I'm a loser the guy that wants to stick my cock in diseased holes
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>>2292033
Take your meds shizo
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>>2292033
I wouldn't go that far, but it seems really expensive and exhausting.
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>>2292006
>>2292033
Incels absolutely seething that they can’t even get laid by girls in other countries lmao
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>>2292040
Coomers hate themselves (as they should) for wasting their lives on meaningless sex) all they get is diseases and a broken psyche
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>>2292050
>seething so hard he can’t use parentheses correctly
Do incels really?
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This website has been great for finding girls into femdom that I can sext with
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>>2292060
> A coomer bragging about being fucked in the ass by a diseased slut
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>>2292076
>a seething virgin incel who pretends all women are diseased sluts because he has sour grapes over being denied sex by every woman he ever met
Lol, lmao even
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Guys, what's your experience with Japanese women?
I'm going to split the bill for a flight to London with one and we discussed getting a hotel together for a week.

Her English is just about okay because she lived here some years ago but I'm just thinking about the coom.
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Hey, anyone had much experience with Japanese women?

I'm going to go 50-50 with one on a flight to London in October and she'll spend a week in a hotel here.
We're going to share a room/bed but we've not had any explicit chats apart from some flirting.
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>>2292084
Seriously, why would you brag about a diseased slut fucking you in the ass on an anonymous travel board?
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>>2292092
>incel still pretending that all women are diseased sluts
Touch grass, talk to a woman, breathe some fresh air. And most importantly, leave your parents basement
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>>2292006
I travel through my work, so it's more easy to go through apps before going there.
You don't have to waste your time catching girls at some local fancy cocktail bar, if a girl is interested in you she'll keep the conversation until you come IRL.

>>2292033
Tbh, seeing you seething at every post I do is fantastic. Keep it going cherryboy.

>>2292032
>are there good options for LatAm Spanish speakers?
Tandem.
Downside is most of them aren't this pretty there, some are really just into learning, some latinas (mexicans for example) will refuse to have sex with you out of principle ("I don't do that the first night" bullshit).

Just ignore every man talking to you, most of them are fags who'll keep harassing you or beancels.
If you want to create true bonds with bro-tier guys, go directly at some in the country you want or host them through Couchsurfing.

>So the options and talking to chicks online helped you a lot irl it sounds like?
Exactly. It's useful to datafeed yourself through that, with the help of friends you can expend more your knowledge of feminine psychologies.
You can gain confidence in yourself and identify patterns that will help you with further opportunities.
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>>2292085
>>2292087
It depends on how much westernized she is, and her age.

It's relatively easy to have a one night stand with a Christmas cake who lives in EU or US.

For the record they love thin model-like caucasians and machos latinos.
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>>2292085
>>2292087
Sorry, two posts from me. 4chan wasn't working.
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>>2292105
LOL I had to Google Christmas cake - new one to me.
She's 40.
It's a bit superficial but the thought of cooming and making my excuses to go home or something each night is attractive.
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>>2292085
>>2292087
>>2292109
If she lived in England for years and is more than 25 yo, and she shows investments/interest in you, it seems all good.

At your place my ideal situation could be:
>hotel room
>separated bed
>goes back after a night into a fancy cocktail bar
>lights shutted out
>she comes into your bed because she feels cold/alone
>kissing then escalating.
Had experiences similar to this, feels good man.

This said, be careful with:
>alcohol for her
asians are drunk really quickly and can vomit or feel bad after few drinks.
>pub crawling
for reasons mentioned up there.
>hygiene and well-mannered
Really important, take in consideration living at 2 means, in fact, living with a third party: the anthropological chaos.
Nips have either high or weird manners and are really picky about how clean a place is.
Old habits die hard, even a jap qt living in Europe for 10 years is still gonna take in high consideration how clean you are.

Keep in mind except some cultural differences a woman is a woman. Use the classic tactics like teasing her a bit, making her willing to fight for your attention, etc and it's all good.

Godspeed to you, anon.
Even starfish japs are very stimulating at bed.
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>>2292114
In theory we should be sharing a bed and I even offered to stay somewhere else and she said no, it's okay..

I'm pretty hygienic already in the sense I'm focused on keeping shaved, shower daily, well groomed etc.

I said she should enjoy London again solo but yeah, her English is wreary Japanese sounding xD I'm good at conversations but talking super slowly and keeping it going might get tiring.

Noted re: alcohol. That's a good tip, thanks bro.
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>>2292120
>"I even offered to stay somewhere else and she said no, it's okay.."
>means she's okay sharing bed
>means she wants you to sleep in the same bed as her.
She obviously wants your D bro.

Anyway, lead her around town and she'll be glad.
Just theorize ways to land a not-akward kiss and you'll be fine. Can give you a few:
>casual and safe: do the ABC in bed (hand holding, then kiss, then sex).
>keep eye contact for long seconds and kiss her by the Tamise river when Big ben is ringing.
>raining time, by the river, you take her waist so she stays under the umbrella, her ear on your chest, you look at her, keep eye contact, caress her face with your hand, push slowly her head toward your lips, kiss.
Or this:
>ask her "Did you spent a good night?"
>she replies yes
>"do you want to spend an ever, better, night?"
>kiss her

All tried, 100% success ratings. You have to determine what she likes and expect, and adopt a conclusive strat to reach your goal.
Please share your ideas, and keep us updated here.
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>>2292134
One I really love is: if the girl is really talkative, fake being annoyed, tells her "damn, you talk to much" and just kiss her by surprise.

Really make them wet af if they shown signs of interest in you.
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met my wife from interpals a few years ago, will close the distance soon.
I'm a painfully average looking ginger manlet and my experience there was as follows:
>a tonne of turkish girls who wanted a relationship
>very easy latin americans (especially brazilians) who were very sexually aggressive
>some pretty cool yuros and americans who I stayed friends with
>in the beginning non-stop harassment by indians and africans

overall was a good experience, met up with a lot of people there IRL and would recommend
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>>2292643
is tandem better than interpals?
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>>2292705
Yea, only bots use Interpals now
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>>2292707
whats the best one? is it Tandem or HelloTalk
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>>2292643
>will close the distance soon
So you met some rando who accepts money from you or what does this mean
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>>2292724
I use Tandem. I tried Hellotalk but I didnt like it, I think you can only learn one language there or something like that. On Tandem you can change like 7 languages at once
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>>2292926
as in we've been staying in each other's countries on and off and I have permanent residency in hers, but she needs a visa to live here long-term
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>>2292990
give us tips on the app you dip shit
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>>2287863
Based
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>>2292990
sure, haven't been on interpals in a couple years but I spent around 5 years total there, here's how I naturally ended up maximising my effort spent vs success ratio:
1) write a short but succinct bio with enough broad appeal to be generally inviting but also some quirky niche interests to attract the people you actually want to talk to (the 10% that aren't fucking boring).
2) have a decent profile pic of your head and shoulders so people want to click you, people are highly superficial so this may be the most important tip
3) don't typically send the first message, especially as a man talking to women, to make sure the other half is actually interested. this ensures they spend the minimum effort required to sustain a convo (a moderately attractive woman can receive hundreds of messages per day), and you won't waste hours of your time going nowhere
4) just my intuition, but I'm pretty sure the site auto-disconnects you if you leave it open in your browser to give more room for others in the algorithm.
the way to get round this is leaving multiple pinned tabs open in the home page, index page, messages page etc so you remain online
5) typically the longer someone spends there, the more jaded / disinterested they get. the best people I met had only spent about 1-2 months max before deactivating their account
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>>2293003
meant for anon
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>>2293123
>don't typically send the first message, especially as a man talking to women
This isn't possible for all men. I'm a 4/10 and if I don't send the first message my inbox drier than the desert.
Even African scammers skip me bruh
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I think central asians are a missed opportunity.
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>>2293170
Go to the gym and get some muscles. I get so many Turkish girls messaging me it's not even funny. They always tell me they message me cause of my muscles. I really want to go there and see how tinder is. I also get the occasional gay Pajeet messaging me. 42
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Chatting up a really nice girl from Indonesia. Doesn't look Muslim but she told me she is.

Any tips on courting them?
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>>2293408
tell them about your frog meme collection
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>>2293408
They're all Muslim, which is unfortunately a huge problem. If she's not hijab'd up then she might be more moderate. The problem is that they're much stricter with their girls and you sort of have to convert to the religion to marry their girls. For Buddhist, Christian, hindu, and others you don't have to which is why it's better to court them.

But she could be moderate from a moderate family? Just don't bring it up and then see where it goes?
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>look up African girls
>feel the racism melt away
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>>2293837
bro you have to stop using the word "court"
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>>2293840
You are just another loser
an incel coomer
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How often is the tamde premium 80% offer? I just missed it shiet
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>>2289508
why?
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>chat with european girl
>we become good friends
>she wants an LDR
>say no because ldrs are a meme
>she keeps messaging me every day
>sometimes I don't even open her messages for 4-5 days
>vents to me about stuff that's on her mind, shares memes about stuff, sends cute selfies or pics of herself wearing sexy outfits
Have I turned into the gay friend? I tried ghosting numerous times but she isn't shy about sending 4-5 texts in a row every day until I respond
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How long into the conversation do you wait until asking them to become your qt, straight away or after you've gotten to know one another for a while?
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I'm not very familiar with this website/app

I'm gonna be in Brazil next February and just began learning Portuguese
Is this an app to meet people that will teach you their language in exchange that you teach them yours? I speak both French and English if that matters
Not really sure since I briefly checked the posts ITT and it seems mainly about cooming and trying to meet women
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>>2295003
I see it as more of a language focused friends app.
Some take the language part seriously and spend half the time in your language half the time in theirs, some just want to talk, some are crazy.
I've made genuine friends and my portuguese improved from "I literally can't understand a single word in this audio message" to "I can have 4 hour long calls without missing a single word"
I also met my girlfriend through it*, neither of us were hunting anything, we just really got along and talked for hours on end
It's a good way to meet people interested in different cultures, after that you can seek whatever goal you're interested in.

*note I use tamdem, interpals sucks
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>>2295012
>my portuguese improved from "I literally can't understand a single word in this audio message" to "I can have 4 hour long calls without missing a single word"

Really? Can you tell me exactly what you did? I began duo lingo but am not sure whether it's good or "enough". I was considering taking private in-person lessons but didnt find any teachers in my area
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>>2295017
I think duolingo is okay for basic grammar, after you have a general feel for the tenses I think it goes way too slow.

My real skill increase started with just sending messages.
I used a lot of translation, but never the automatic type. I'd read what they wrote and translate a specific word if I needed.
Add anything you don't know into an anki deck, don't download a premade deck but make your own
Eventually I sent a short audio message to ask for help with pronunciation, they sent one back and I replayed the message with notepad open until I was able to decipher everything.
Repeat the above 90% in text and occasional audio messages, recording and practicing new words in anki, daily for ~5 months.

Also reading, I found a couple goosebumps books in portuguese on library genesis and read them, again adding any new words into anki.

Private lessons are probably fine. I did a few on italki at one point, but I stopped. Even something heavy like 3 lessons a week is only 3 hours. Which is nothing compared to practicing with a friend daily. One good "virtual tutor" is Português com Marcia Macedo on youtube, talks clearly, good beginner listening practice
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>>2295031
Ok thx for the info brother, I'll look into it
I've been to Mexico twice and hated that the women over there only spoke Spanish and I didnt. Dont wanna make the mistake for Brazil
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>>2269722
>Did you ever meet anyone from here or have any good experiences or stories?

I used it during most of 2020 and I managed to meet a Polish girl who was spending her Erasmus period in Spain.

We met in a middle point and spent a weekend together. She was easy-going, friendly and kind of shy. The meeting was quite nice too except for one thing: my sexual performance was awful. I hadn't had sex since 1 year and a half ago an I guess I was nervous. I guess that's the reason why she stopped talking to me after one week: she had high expectations that weren't fulfilled at all.

I also texted with plenty of girls, but there wasn't any opportunity to meet, who know what would have happened if it wasn't for Covid...there were quite normal girls for what I expected, which is a good thing, but there were a bunch of crazy bitches too. The older they were, the worse, as a matter of fact.

If you have any doubt about IP and Tandem, feel free to ask.
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Are these apps mainly for fucking chicks or for learning languages? I’m interested in both, is one better for fucking and one better for learning?
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>>2292087


Out of curiosity what is name of Japanese qt?
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>>2295053
I use it for fucking chicks but I don't travel a lot so it's usually just shooting the shit with cute girls when I'm bored. I used to have pretty severe social anxiety and used it to get better at chatting with women. It legitimately helps since this isn't as cutthroat as dating apps and you have the excuse of learning culture/language when talking with her. European girls are a mixed bag, either extremely nice or extremely cunty, either way they are the least likely to respond.
Latinas are amazing. I love them all.
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>>2295057
That’s pretty cool, low stakes kind of socializing site. It’s global yeah, only based on languages, or do you look for people in a certain area too?
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>>2295074
You can look for people through ages, gender, countries, continents and languages
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>>2295055
I won’t do that but her age is 46.
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>>2295012
did you do this via video calls or just texting?
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>>2295429
>I also met my girlfriend through it
I also met my girlfriend through it
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Hey bros, getting pretty good response rate on the app. The problem for me is my convos die out in a day. I generally ignore women if they give short answers and try to keep up the convo if the girl is trying to keep the convo going. Any tips on how to sustain longer convos? Should I just keep at it with questions? Or should it be more natural and just accept that most convos will die and I just haven't truly hooked one?
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>>2294998
>How long into the conversation do you wait until asking them to become your qt, straight away or after you've gotten to know one another for a while?

Don't commit to anything. Just set up a trip to their country and go on a date. That's the "date". Then see where it goes from there.
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never used tandem before, should you just put a ton of languages you are interested in learning so you can get the most matches or just focus on one or two languages?
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>>2295720
This works better if you're actually learning a language. I've fucked tons of women from Tandem. I've never tried Interpals, though.
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>>2295736
I meant, what if I'm not learning any languages currently, should I just put a bunch that I'm interested in down
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>>2295736
How quick do you move? Do you maintain a convo for a few weeks, or just go straight for a meet up?
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>>2295738
Start learning a language then. Girls on these apps tend to be sick of guys who aren't actually learning their language.

>>2295754
I filter by cities I plan on visiting in the near future so that by the time I arrive we'll have already been talking for a few weeks.

For example, when I visited Colombia I had a girl lined up to come over to my airbnb the day I arrived. After that I met up with other girls at malls and restaurants.

Again, I highly recommend actually learning languages. Girls see through the fake bullshit.
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>>2272342
>>2273395
I don't know but I'm addicted to Korean qts on tandem. I can't have enough of them.
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>>2295768
Yes you are, one of the symptoms of a coomer is degenerate can never be sated and perversity always increases. You will end up at a pozz party
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>>2295771
I don't give a fuck about your incel rant, as I actually fucked them when I went to Korea. Now a couple wanna come visit me so it's all good for me. Tandem is a gold mine for Korean women in case you actually can speak some Korean. Cope, seethe and dilate faggot.
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>>2270031
Yeah she is so familiar. Could be catfish
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>>2276663
Attention hoes I tell you. There was a russian girl I met in IP
>status taken
>not looking for flirting
>only language practice guys!
Long story short we started flirting, showed her my dick, she said it’s much better than my bf’s, she would blow me behind his man’s back
The next day she apologized, said she’s not that kinda girl and deleted me...
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>>2295804
You should have waited for that convo for when you were actually physically close to her geographically speaking... oh well, I guess it made for a nice gap at least
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>>2295823
*Fap
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Wow, lucky me to get a message from such a polite and beautiful woman.
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Anyone invate code on the tandem?
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>>2292085
>>2292114
>>2295324
So you want to hook up with a Japanese MILF desu? Kind of hot, ngl. I predict she will either be a bit if a starfish or an absolutely insane nympho. And she will be totally into you most likely. Is she hot and does she have a qt face?
I figure you're younger than her.
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>>2296077
I'm 32 and she's mid 40s. She's pretty hot from our Skype sessions where she has this nice thick hair and is quite slender and pretty.

I didnt message her on Skype this weekend as I was away from the PC and she was worried so I assume she's into me.

I've already cheekily asked if she will kiss me and she said yes, so I hope she's alright. I dont want to push the boat anymore, but im excited to see her in October.
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I used My Language Exchange when looking for people to talk to. It is much more of a serious place, any people are willing to meet. I have found my best tutors there and my current girlfriend there.
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>>2296146
>>2295324

Just checking you weren't cucking me since I had something similar going on with an older Japanese woman, I can see we're both brothers, and kindred spirits.
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>>2296218
Likely! How did things go with your lady? Tell us more.
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Will you go to asia and meet your qt?
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>>2296876
average af

White guys are always made fun of for dating ugly Asian girls. Stop being stupid.
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>>2296882
y'all dudes want super models. She's cute because she's average cute, and young and fertile. That's wife material.
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>>2296882
>healthy
>young
>fertile

that's what you want. Most you guys are single too.
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>>2296882
>b-b-but if she fucks foreigners she ugly, r-right?
Saddest ricecel cope. On a planetary scale, you're bottom of the barrel and trying to cope calling normal looking women "ugly" won't help your lost cause.
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>>2297107
Not what I'm saying at all. Despite being able to get really attractive Asian girls white guys tend to go for the unattractive ones. Have some standards.

>>2296975
>y'all dudes want super models
Yes.
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My Turkish qt was Browner then expected, should I still marry and impregnate?
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>>2297163
yes, you're gonna whiten her.

Turks are a mix of greeks, actual turks, and a few other minorities. The people in the west are mostly light tan greeks with actual turks being brown.
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>mfw been creeping on this THICC latina with thirsty texts about worshiping her body and fucking her for days
>she hasn't blocked me and keeps responding
I wanna fuck her so much bros. Why do they have to be so thicc
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Bros, i'm travelling around Europe next month, will be in each city for around 3-4 days each. Are these sites any good if i just want to meet someone to hang out with/ go to galleries/bars etc? Which app/site would be best? Any tips?
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Every time I message with a Korean girl, I feel a tingling in my testicles, my nuts producing more sperm. There's something just so sexy about them... not only looks but also attitude. Same IRL when an Asian qt told me she's Korean. Sexed a couple already, didn't use protection. Guess I'll end up making a baby with a Korean girl.
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>>2297474
For me, it's the Russian chicks.
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>>2297373
>Are these sites any good if i just want to meet someone to hang out with/ go to galleries/bars etc?

Yes. Frame it as language experience. Expect to spend the day explaining various things in English to them.

>>2297474
I'm not crazy about wide asian faces (typical with chinese and some koreans) but holy hell I love their style of all the east asians. Very clean, very posh, very feminine, no tats, thin, very positive. Thin is such a big deal since so many western women are fat.
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>>2297569
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>>2297546
пиздeц блять
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>>2297569
>>2297570
Redpill me on the Korean, Japanese, and Chinese girls on Tandem and HelloTalk.
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>>2297605
japanese are the richest, then Korean, with Chinese being the poorest. You will have the best luck with the Chinese girls. More likely they will want to leave China too. Often educated types with nice jobs. Unless you get a radical most tend to be somewhat socially conservative and want to get married.
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>>2297607
Nice you seem well versed. Do you normally have to keep the convo going? Or do they make it easy for you? I find that a lot of my conversations die.
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>>2297569
>Very clean, very posh, very feminine, no tats, thin, very positive.
So much this. Like an Asian stacy but smarter, more refined and with aegyo cuteness. The perfect mix. They're desired, they know it and they play it well, when convos reach flirty stage it's always exciting. Korean girls just make me shoot the biggest loads ever.
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>>2297639
You have to find someone with similar interests. They also often have poor English skills making talking harder for them. Picking up some k-dramas might help too.
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Korean pussy is simply best pussy



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