Casual sex seems so gross but i dont know how to find my true loveIs sex without love as evil as it seems? How can i cope
>>33610763This is usually a young mindset thing. There's a difference between not being a virgin and being promiscuous, despite what a certain group of 4chan would tell you.You can have meaningful sexual experiences that are memorable, lovely, outside of a relationship. That being said, if you don't want to have casual sex, don't.
>>33610810>a but b but then again a except sometimes bYou said nothing
>>33610763>i dont know how to find my true loveJust keep looking until you click with someone.
>>33610763I'd rather be alone honestly. Being alone isn't even hard, dealing with a casual relationship seems like hell.
>>33610833cope, guarantee your holes are stretched and lost their elasticity
Ehh It's not a binaryYou can have good sex with your best friends without getting into a committed relationship
There's no bigger joy than being with someone you love. Casual sex doesn't even feel all that good. It's only slightly better than masturbation desu. But having sex with someone you love plunges you into an ocean of bliss and bombards you with ecstasy. It's the best feeling in the world, the most addictive drug that sends you to another plane of existence. No words can truly describe it, everyone has to try it for themselves to understand.
>>33610903I'm sure it will be disappointing, just like lsd was disappointing. I was told I would meet god and he was nowhere to be found.I suspect you are dressing it up into something greater than what it is because you don't have the heart to accept it's just another thing in a sea of things.
>>33610930It actually felt better than anything else I've ever experienced. My ex and I fucked every day, some days multiple times a day, and before that I didn't even jerk off every day. It was that good.
>>33610949Just because it felt better than what you've experienced previously doesn't mean it feels as mind-blowingly amazing as you described it.People have a nasty habit of hyping up things they like and I suspect you're doing the same thing.
>>33610984t. tard with burned out dopamine receptorsJust say you can't enjoy things because you've fucked your mind up to the point it doesn't register pleasure anymore, lmao.
>>33610996I can enjoy things. I enjoy a few things. But I don't go around telling people those things raise the dead and make Putin dance ballet.
>>33611024>things raise the dead and make Putin dance balletWell I never claimed anything supernatural. Only that fulfilling your biological purpose as a dominant human male with someone you're emotionally attached to and care about, feels exceedingly good and sends you to what can only be described as heaven. I'm sorry you're salty that you'll never experience it, because you're unlovable. I truly am.
>>33610903That settles it. See you on the other side
>>33611035>feels exceedingly good>exceedinglyI've tried things that were described as such and they were merely very good. I enjoyed them but I was disappointed to find out that the sensations did not reach the height that was promised.>sends you to what can only be described as heaven.This is a supernatural claim. Either you have a very dull idea of what heavenly bliss is or you are giving something earthly more credit than it deserves.>you're unlovable.There are people who claim to love me. I claim to love them back since that is what they expect of me.
>>33611071Everyone experiences things differently. If you genuinely can't understand this you're a brainlet. >I've tried things that were described as such and they were merely very good.Refer to my post above about your burned out dopamine receptors.>This is a supernatural claimNo it's not.>There are people who claim to love meYour mommy doesn't count.
>>33611086>Everyone experiences things differentlyAnd yet they talk about those things as if the experience will be universal for all.>Your mommy doesn't count.One of them is not related to me at all.
>>33611122>And yet they talk about those things as if the experience will be universal for all.For those whose dopamine receptors aren't burned out, yeah.>One of them is not related to me at all.Your stepdaddy who used to abuse you as a kid, but said he loved you afterwards doesn't count either.
>>33611139Ok whatever, I'm sure how you described it is 100% accurate and your emotional reaction to it doesn't make you exaggerate.
>>33611172>your emotional reaction to itThat's the whole point, retard. The emotional reaction IS what makes you feel that way.
>>33611189I already said whatever
>>33611199Then shut the fuck up, braindead moron.
>>33611241Whatever
>>33611249>LOOK HOW MUCH I DON'T CARE!Lol.
>>33611260Ok
>>33611294>LOOK HOW MUCH I DON'T CARE!Lol.
>>33611298K
>>33611341>LOOK HOW MUCH I DON'T CARE!Lol. You're a literal child.
>>33611364I must be.
>>33611411What do you want?
>>33611425Nothing you have to offer
>>33611435Then fuck off already, sore loser.
>>33611453No.
>>33611464>No.Tell me then: did I make you cry?
I'm sorry, anon.
Casual sex IS gross and I'm ASHAMED but I get SO HORNY DUDE
>>33611474I simply don't cry. There's no need to.
>>33611474nta but why are you acting this way?
>>33611554Cool.>>33611629Acting what way?
>>33611714like you're having an emotional breakdown over the most pointless internet argument. if you're so happy in your relationship why are you freaking out over an anonymous stranger's indifference?
>>33611714It is. I don't get why people allow themselves to be affected by things to the point they end up crying.
>>33611723>having an emotional breakdown>freaking out Not what's happening. I don't know what gave you that impression.>>33611735Well, I think we've already established you're not that good at experiencing pleasure. I guess it applies to expressing emotions too. You seem very burned out when it comes to that sort of thing.
>>33611757Can't express emotions when you don't have them.
>>33611765>Can't express emotions when you don't have them.That's fucked up.
>>33611757>I don't know what gave you that impression.everything you said, the way you said it, and the fact that you got baited so hard by someone who didn't even seem to be trying to bait you
>>33611772>everything you said, the way you said itWas just me getting under that anon's skin. No more, no less.>baited Look up the definition of the word, then get back to me.
>>33611771It's not, you're just weak.
>>33611789no it's pretty clear they got under yours
>>33611798I'm human. There's nothing more human than experiencing emotions. What's weak about that? If you don't, then you're no different from a robot. A lifeless shell with thoughts floating inside.
>>33611789>getting under that anon's skinThat kind of emotional manipulation is why I don't have emotions anymore.Cunts like you made me get rid of them.
>>33611812>it's pretty clear they got under yoursYour perception of reality is really twisted.
>>33611831i don't think so
>>33611815What I meant is that because you are weak you think not having emotions is fucked up. Maybe if you were stronger you wouldn't be disturbed by it.
>>33611822>That kind of emotional manipulation is why I don't have emotions anymore.Oh but you do.>CuntsVery strong language for someone who supposedly "got rid of all their emotions".......>>33611837I do.>>33611844Not having emotions is pretty fucked up because it means you have no humanity.
>>33611856I would rather not have humanity than allow pieces of shit like you access to my emotions.
>>33611856bruh just look at yourself>>33611241>>33611260>>33611298>>33611364>>33611425>>33611453>>33611474you're extremely upset
>>33611868You need to calm down. Clearly I've already gotten under your skin and we have only been interacting for like 5 minutes. I don't care about you. I was talking to someone else.>>33611875>you're extremely upsetNothing in those posts reads "upset". It's just your usual back and forth imageboard dueling over inane shit. Stop projecting.
>>33611914zero self awareness
>>33611930>zero self awarenessAwareness of what? Your projections? Lmao.
>>33611914You're talking to two people, idiot.Furthermore, I'm the one who you've been talking to for longer. And I'm calm, I simply loathe you and wish I could make a lampshade out of your skin.
>>33611984>You're talking to two people, idiot.Then why did you reply to me twice, sunshine? What's up with that? Feeling a bit inadequate right about now?>And I'm calmPeople who are calm don't say shit like >I simply loathe you and wish I could make a lampshade out of your skinLoathing is a pretty strong feeling for someone who doesn't have any emotions.
>>33612025>Then why did you reply to me twiceOh my god. You fucking mental midget. I didn't. Two people replied to the same post. There are multiple people on this board, all of whom are free to reply to any posts they want. This is why some people namefag, including me sometimes, to make sure retards like you don't get confused.
>>33612081>Two people replied to the same postYou replied to a post I didn't address to you, then replied to another one of my posts, that's why I thought it was some other retarded decided to chime in. Just weird.>This is why some people namefagWhat's your trip?
>>33612111>some other retard decided to chime inFuck. I'm sleepy and can't type for shit now.
>>33612111>You replied to a post I didn't address to youTrue.Then we ended up debating whether or not you are capable of accurately describing what it is to have sex in a loving relationship. Then we did the old "no u" and another retard chimed in and you ended up talking with two people.I won't tell you my trip, if I wanted you to know what it is I would use it.
>>33612154>I won't tell you my trip, if I wanted you to know what it is I would use it.Okay. But I'm even more curious now.Anyway, I said sorry for being a piece of shit a while back because I felt bad >>33611528
>>33612190>Okay. But I'm even more curious now.How unfortunate for you.>Anyway, I said sorry for being a piece of shit a while back because I felt badLmao imagine feeling bad because you said a naughty word one time.You have to realize, you can't insult someone who does not care about themselves at all. And more to the point, I *am* a piece of shit and so are you. We are biomatter and we do not matter.
>>33612257>Lmao imagine feeling bad because you said a naughty word one time.It's not just a "naughty" word, telling people they were abused as a kid is pretty fucked up. I don't know why I said it. Just to be mean I guess, but it came out too mean. I didn't like it, anyway.>you can't insult someone who does not care about themselves at allWhy is that>We are biomatter and we do not matterOkay nihilistic redditor :^)
>>33612315Your weak constitution is sad to witness.
>>33612364>Your weak constitution is sad to witness.Our constitution is the single most powerful piece of paper in the world.
Also, there's a difference between being weak and being kind and actually having a conscience, and feeling bad for when you fail as a person and give in to anger. If to you having a conscience = weakness, then I feel sorry for you.
>>33612378Ahahaha, that was a good one.>>33612407You don't need a conscience to be kind. You can just be kind without needing to have an emotion behind it.Giving into anger is not failing as a person. Giving into emotion is.Having a conscience is not weakness. Succumbing to it and letting it drive you is.
>>33612467I disagree with that because humans are emotional animals, and in order to understand them and their reactions you have to speak their language of emotion. If you can't, it's going to be incredibly hard to find anyone you can actually relate to or truly understand on the entire planet.>Succumbing to it and letting it drive you isConscience is driven by empathy. And empathy is good, not a weakness. It's one of the best qualities a human being can possess. You're not a robot, no one is, you feel things too, just want to pretend like you don't to cope with something. And I think that's silly.
>>33612529>humans are emotional animalsCope more. The point is not to be an animal, the point is to transcend your animal nature.
>>33612547>The point is not to be an animal, the point is to transcend your animal natureThis is some "I'm 14 years old and a philosopher already" shit. Just grow up. No matter how hard you try, you can't become a robot, even though it's obvious you want to be an emotionless robot or a doll or something.
>>33612529>in order to understand them and their reactions you have to speak their language of emotion.I'd rather speak English than speak bitch.
>>33612560>grow upI have never said this to anyone who I think needs to grow up, which is most people. Most people are still stuck in thinking things like "grownups" exist. Grow up and realize growing up means nothing.
>>33612584What you mean by growing up is>submit and obeyNo, I don't think I will.
as a virgin, people who have casual sex are like aliens to me, so so strange
>>33612584Look, I get it, you've probably been hurt badly in the past and don't want a repeat of that. I coped in a similar way for years after a very tough break up with someone I was supposed to marry and spend the rest of my life with. Eventually you'll realize that suppressing emotions doesn't work, sooner or later they'll rear their head, and pent-up emotions aren't pretty.>>33612577It's a metaphor.
>>33612622Blah blah blah blahDo not speak as if you know me, you are not in my head as I am not in yours.Keep your fucking distance, keep to your side of the fucking fence.I did not invite you over and if you try to, I'll fucking kill you.
>>33612648If I could hug you I would, silly crazy anon.
>>33612658And if I could, I would slit your throat. I'm done with you.
>>33612671>I would slit your throatTsundere. ^^
>>33610763I feel the same ig. I'm not a fan of the idea of casual sex, but I'm also pretty sure I'm aromantic so ig I'll just be a virgin forever. Probably for the best anyway cuz I also worry that if I were to try have sex I'd freak out over my disgusting male body a lot and feel terrible cuz iwnbaw but idk how common that is
>>33610903How do i find a tranny to love uuugggghhhh oh my god>>33610930Dmt pussy, or 5 dry grams of mushrooms - easy to grow yourself in a month via sporeworks syringe. lsd sucks and your a cynical bitch, id fuck you til you felt love
>>33611041Why not die trying to find love coward
>>33614777Repect my trips and repent faggot
>>33610763>as evil as it seems?no. its a hell of a lot better than nothing. Its not as good as sex with the love of your life but it cant sill be incredibly rewarding and life affirming...and who knows maybe you will be some friends. I have turned a lot of random sex into FWBs and even GFs.
>>33615092>maybe you will be some friends.find. maybe you will find some friends