meta attracted pseudobisexual prison gay here. I've had a number of hookups with older men and some of them are as you described, others are much nicer. you might not be the best and you might not ever be the best but as long as everyone is having fun that's what counts (also try not to get AIDS)

also have you considered the possibility that he was calling you terrible as part of a degradation thing?

>>33610664
Use a condom or/and take PrEP basically always if you have promiscuous sex with random men.
Don't be a retard.

>>33610664
> told me that I was terrible
just sounds like an asshole honestly. unless you bit his dick or something i wouldn't take it personal. and if you were that bad why did he cum?

>>33610694

nah kinda wish it was like that since think I’m kinda into that shit haha. but yeah he wasn’t doing a kink or anything, he told me that the way I was blowing was bad or smth. something to do with my teeth but like ion how to not use my teeth.

>>33610702
do I still need to be taking them if all I’m doing is just a bj? my bad if it’s a retarded question

>>33610715
Yes thats bodily fluids still

>>33610713
I didn’t like bite it, I kinda used my teeth and then he complained about me using it so then I just open it wide since I didn’t really know what to do desu.

maybe he was just upset by me not swallowing. ion how pornstars swallow man. cum tasted like ass haha

>>33610664
Why do you hook up with gaydead tops when you are in your sexual prime and can do much better than that?

>>33610729
haha he was the first person who dmed me on Grindr. who should I be normally be doing it with then?

I dont get how you retards can get horny enough to have unprotected sex with some disgusting old faggot who's cheating on his wife
You should probably be castrated if you cant just jerk off like a normal person instead of being a locus of aids

>>33610729
dirty old man and young tender meat is the best combination though?

>>33610767
yeah haha, I kinda just blindly walked myself into that, guess I’ll just try to be extra safe so I don’t get any retarded stds

kinda hate that I’m asking this but how I meant to be sucking it tho? like my ass ain’t trynna be bad at this anymore.

>>33610737
People your own age, for example. Hookup culture destroys young and pure boys and turns them into fatties with commitment issues. You could be having a loving loyal boyfriend instead of skeevy oldies who throw you away after one use.

>>33610829
>“Throw you away after one use”
I’m kinda fucked up so I’m into that, like I wanna be safe ofc. But I also wanna get abused and used.

i got a problem.

>>33610823
imagine you're licking a popsicle on a hot day, you can't use your teeth and you don't want any to drip on the ground. also the higher up you go the more sensitive it is. don't you have a dick? do what feels good to you

>>33610855
You can still be abused and used by a bf it someone you have a connection with and it would be better for your growth

>>33610737
Is it this easy to have lots of sex with random men? Asking for a friend.

>>33610694
>meta attracted pseudobisexual prison gay here
I’ve never heard such an accurate description of my sexuality
>t. meta attracted pseudobisexual prison gay agp here

>>33610664
stop doing this or you won't realize when you'll be +25 with a +100 body count and discarded by all of those old faggots because you're not young enough anymore. go get a boyfriend your age or fwbs, this shit isn't healthy

>>33610919
It's even easier than you can imagine

>>33610919
It depends, but it is too easy for bottoms, imagine it like a kid in a lollipop shop where everything is free

>>33610901
kinda hard for me to explain it but like I’m not into guys like romantically. And I kinda like the idea of just swapping between people. plus I live in a very whitoid country. and I’m the only brown guy I see on Grindr around me.

like I’m into guys for their dicks not for them ion how to explain it ffs.

>>33610919
i mean for me, no?

atleast where I am, there’s a lot more bottoms then tops. And feel like everyone here in only into other white people. only been hit up like 3 guys in two hours. And my pfp is like a pic of me in doggy with a thong on (which I think is kinda nice but ion)

TLDR: nah for me atleast. but might be different for you cause I’m brown.

>>33610938
>like I’m into guys for their dicks not for them ion how to explain it ffs.
you're dicksexual and don't know how to give bjs? check yourself

>>33610923
feel like getting a fwb is hard asf especially when I’m like an introverted ass mf. how do you guys even find fwbs and bfs?

sorry if I ramble in general alot. just been smth on my mind.

>>33610938
>I’m the only brown guy I see on Grindr around me
I mean you can still have a white bf/fwb but yeah you do you

>>33610954
it was my first time giving a bj, I’m not like a massive whore (yet).

>>33610957
nah what I was trynna mean is that, I don’t really get attention from guys around me. I’m shit at explaining stuff fuck.

>>33610721
To be more pedantic, it's bodily fluids touching a soft membrane in the mouth. Most STDs don't spread through fluid contact with the skin (herpes might, idr). BJ's are only a replacement for condoms for straightoids looking to avoid pregnancy.

>>33610971
Yeah I got your point, I am brown too and in a very white area. It sucks when you know how much attention people get compared to you but there are still some rare people who wouldn't mind your skin color, you just have to look harder

>>33610990
so if I’m doing a bj, there’s like a low chance of me actually getting anything? heard bjs with condoms suck anyway.

would it be fine or me to suck one raw?

>>33610724
>cum tasted like ass haha
Try the cum of a physically healthy younger man who doesn't eat red meat for 90% of their diet. From what I've heard, significantly more palatable.

>>33610772
Only for the dirty old man lmao, it's self harm for the bottom.

sorry if I’m like asking dumb as shit, it’s just that I’m kinda inexperienced and don’t wanna fuck up anymore hookups if I do them.

>>33610729
cope more idiot. older men are hotter. and better at sex if theyre in shape.
deal with it literal child.

>>33611021
so if I get a “nice” older guy, I should be feeling good?

>>33611009
>so if I’m doing a bj, there’s like a low chance of me actually getting anything?
That is the opposite of what I said friendo. BJs are a fantastic method of STD spread. Handjobs might be more kosher though.

>would it be fine or me to suck one raw?
If you properly vet your partners and suck dicks that you reasonably believe to be clean, sure!

>>33611026
No because u are probably getting an undesirable old faggot

>>33611037
haha oh my bad then, I misread it then.
I’m dumb asf.

thanks for telling me this anon.
>>33611045
oh alright, guess I won’t be doing that.

plus you are kinda right. most of the old guys around me like white semi chubby fat guys

>>33611021
>t. seething oldfag mad that young gays are ignoring his wrinkled loose STD-infected ass

would there be anything I should know about when it comes to bottoming and being safe in general?

like anal?

(ngl doing a thread for the first time feels so weird for me atleast)

>>33611087
meant to put else in this, I cannot form sentences properly ffs.

Aren't you 16? I feel like we have talked before

>>33611100
nah I’m 20 fr, did think about doing the thing (sucking dick on Grindr) at 16 tho. got banned from it cause I was underage tho

>>33611111
>fr fr
>20
Lol

>>33611017
agree to disagree

t. the bottom

>>33611129
haha I’m telling the truth, I’m not lying lmaoo.

>>33611087
make sure you are loosened and lubed up before you do anal. that’s about all I know

>>33611388
My bad for the long ass delay, but thanks anon.

how loose should I be though?

>>33610737
bruh

>>33610938
>kinda hard for me to explain it but like I’m not into guys like romantically. And I kinda like the idea of just swapping between people.
>like I’m into guys for their dicks not for them ion how to explain it ffs.
Really gross behavior, don't go down this road

>>33611568
I’m a bit dumb (defo not a bit, massively dumb).

don’t question it lmao

>>33611597
yeah nah, I thought about it some more and yeah it’s kinda fucked. What I’m trying to do now, is find someone that I can be like fwb with. since I don’t think it’s worth having a bf cause I’m not like romantically attached to them.

>>33611615
it’ll just take time to find them as I mentioned before (brown guy surrounded in a mass of white people only into each other). but I think eventually I will find someone, and when I do. I’ll be the biggest hoe for that guy only. (safely ofc)

>>33611615
>>33611636
I don't think you need to be head-over-heels in love with somebody to have sex with them, but having sex with somebody that you're not even capable of loving seems really unhealthy. If it's purely just a coomer thing, just suck a dildo and jerk off, you'll probably enjoy the fantasy more than the reality. This all seems incredibly bleak.

>>33610664
It's innate. If you don't have it, you don't have it. You should consider yourself lucky.

>>33611688
yeah it’s not really a coomer thing, i ended up buying a plug awhile ago, and when I use it. I kinda crave for like an actual dick. so I doubt it’s like I bust and then the feeling goes away type of situation.

but yeah I completely understand, glad I put this thread out cause it’s helping me choose what’s best

>>33611700
but what if I wanna get used anon?

>>33611761
Find other hobbies.