>>32832294
Not high, i just wanna feel loved, i wanna come home to someone who's excited to see me, someone i can do fun things with, watch anime together, play vidya together, go out on dates, fuck each other silly, im just so lonely...

>>32832334
>chasers before they cum be like

just be a brazilian tranny, and ill be your bf

>>32832347
Don't let them cum then. Skill issue.

>>32832347
Yeah then they cum and lose interest, or even get disgusted at both themselves and you. God I hate cumbrained males that just fucking spout lies. The worst part is when they believe it too. Then they have good sex 1 time and then take back everything they said lmao.

>>32832294
my standards as top are:

-have long hair
-be skinny
-have good posture

thats it, I dont care about face, you can have the ugliest face but if you have a cute tummy, wear girl jeans and ofc are skinny, i dont care at all.

>>32832294
You completely misread what chasers are into.
Chasers care about personality [BPDemon but without the bad parts] as well as wanting someone who's vaguely fem and can shoot giant loads

>>32832379
Don't let them have sex you dummy.

>>32832294
no, just be cute and nice

i found my trans gf on here she was just that awesome

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Hmm just a cute girl,a bit clocky is not a problem if she is nice.

But I am not in a good position to ask smthing.

>>32832294
6 foot
6 figueres
6 inches

>>32832427
>But I am not in a good position to ask smthing.
That cut me deep. I can empathize with that all too well.

>>32832379
The problem is you're explicitly filtering for fuckboys

>>32832294
My basic standards:

>Be 5'10 or shorter
>Have slim frame. Don't need curves but don't have broad features either
>Long hair
>Have reasonably androgynous facial features. Don't gonna pass but you do have to look identifably feminine (e.g. twinkhon).

I know that disqualifies a lot of trans girls but I feel like the standards aren't unrealistic either. I want my partner to look cute on my arm in public and not look like an average masc dude in the morning.

>>32832379
Acting this way towards men specifically scares off the good ones. Fuckboys and creeps don't care if you tell them to stay away. Good men will see this attitude and feel like he's going to be associated with the trash for calling you cute.

>>32832379
>anon learns there's a reason why women string along men and never give them sex for free
it sucks and is dumb but at the end of the day we're all animals. unironically go watch some animal documentaries about male/female mating dynamics and you'll probably develop an actual idea of how men and women naturally interact when not being interpreted through a left or right biased political lens.

>>32832294
>Do we have to be literally Sayuri for you to love us?
We want some level of standard, be feminine enough but we don't just consider appearances. We want a gf, not just a disposable piece of ass.

>>32832370
If you lock a chaser in chastity you'll be accelerating their progression into a transbian by a factor of 10.

>>32832294
Be under the age of 20 or look under the age of 20. Simple as

>>32832660
>We want a gf, not just a disposable piece of ass.
Speak for yourself
Trannies aren't good longterm investments

>>32832439
based honchaser

Sayuri mogs most cis women - unrealistic standard for most chasers. Just don't be a caricature of a hon.

>>32832294
no but it helps.
i do need some level of passing, sissification, and trad wifing+slut.

>>32832347
>chasers before they cum be like
I'm ashamed to admit this is me. I get really into certain trans girls and talk to her a lot and then when I cum to her or have sex with her I lose all interest for like a month

>>32832294
REQUIREMENTS IF YOU’RE AN MTF TRANS:
>have a diploma/degree
>have a career
>debt free
>low body count
>you’re the bottom
>no poly shit/onlyfans/camwhoring etc
>no bpd/bipolar/schizo shit

>>32832353
I'm a brazilian tranny but i'm too tall (5'7).

You wouldn't like me

my requirements are whatever I want them to be :)

>>32832347
>>32833326
Yeah. That's why i want srs. You could be the hottest tranny and they'd still be disgusted after sex for fucking an AMAB. Women don't go through this.

>>32833359
>have a diploma/degree
I dont mind,I have no degree,I wont ask something I dont have.
>have a career
I want to provide for her,dont mind
>debt free
Dont mind
>low body count
Dont mind
>you’re the bottom
we can switch,dont really mind
>no poly shit/onlyfans/camwhoring etc
dont mind
>no bpd/bipolar/schizo shit
I'm bpd and I love ill girls,will try to take care of her

yes, I want a damaged relation

>>32833359
Way too high. A college degree with no debt alone excludes too many.

>>32833434
That's like saying you wanna kill God.

>>32833426
If you just graduated and are paying off loans that’s one thing but most trans women are not financially responsible. How am I supposed to build a relationship with someone if they’re a constant self-sabotaging liability. It’s crazy mtfs here thing their height is their worst quality or whatever the fuck when they’re unlikeable and their personal life is a dumpster fire

>>32833368
Had a 1,70mt gf before, i liked her. and ill like you.

>>32832294
didnt she give flesh eating bacterias to her bf?

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>>32832294
Not a chaser, but I do prefer trans girls over cis ones, mostly because they treat me so much better for some reason. It's not that I'm ugly or terrible anything, I've just been through a lot of abuse.
I don't really care about height or size or anything. As long as the tranner's putting in the effort to look feminine and it shows that the work's paying off, I don't really have much of a preference. I'd date pretty much any girl from passgen, but that doesn't say much I guess. I think twinkhons and boymoders are really cute, even if they think they're clocky. I don't think I'd date anyone below that though. Hons are out for obvious reasons.

>>32832294
>Do we have to be literally Sayuri for you to love us
You mean to look non-whorey, dont be a fat fuck, and occasionally do some squats? maybe.

If you looked like sayuri why would you ever be with any of the low value chasers that post here

>>32832294
good thing i look like sayuri

>>32833359
>passing all these metrics
yippee
>no bpd/bipolar/schizo shit
oh :(...

>>32833359
Needy little brat
>have a diploma/degree
>have a career
>debt free
You are none of these things and it shows

>>32832334
Basically this. I spent a few years basically being a malewife (transmasc, helped them through their transitioning, made sure they ate regularly, learned what how to tell when something is wrong and they were apprehensive about talking about it) but we both concluded that we weren't all that compatible in the long run (I'm really autistic when it comes to aspects of romance because I'm terrified of coming off as insincere) and now that that's over I'm incredibly lonely.

Height don't matter, weight mostly doesn't matter, don't even need to be particularly stable so long as you aren't violent, and I don't really expect people to be all that successful financially, though I'm also not so that might fuck up my odds.

According to a celebrity face match thing I look like Russel Crowe circa 2001 if that helps. I can see the resemblance but I don't think I'm that good looking.

If a man loses interest in you after sex he was never interested in YOU.
Be more interesting and it won't happen. If the only thing you bring to the table is sex and desperation you won't keep anyone around.

>>32833561
I don’t ask for anything I don’t provide. I went to uni, worked my ass off while going through my courses and now I have a good job and good future prospects. It’s not needy to want someone who shares the same values as me. I don’t want to be someone’s parent, I want to be their husband.
>>32833546
I mentioned mental illness because I had terrible past experiences with a bipolar ex. Unless you have your life sorted out and the meds to keep your head on straight that’s one thing, but I don’t see myself going down that road again with a woman anytime soon.

>>32833597
Fair enough, I am probably bad news for anyone I get involved with... just sucks that I have to be alone

You just have to pass enough that I see you as female, not a deranged man. That's literally it. Androgynous is okay, but you 100% need to have a non-make voice and non-make appearance. If that's too hard for you, you're out of luck

>>32833591
So if a man uses me as a cum dump it's my fault because I wasn't more interesting...

Okay got it

Distortions

>>32832294
cute face, cute ass, short, that's all I need, that an love

>>32833660
I feel like you're saying that sarcastically but yes unironically.
If you have 0 personality and nothing interesting why would someone be interested in more than sex?
Even if the sex is good, if you offer nothing else that's all I'll be using you for. If it's really good and you're easy I'll "hang out" when it means I'll get laid.
I'm not going to want to spend time with some chick that just talks about her cat and sits around watching Netflix all day.

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>>32832294

I personally hold tranners at the same standard I do cis woman, which basically means that if you're genuinely ugly than I probably will not be interested in you

This isn't to say that you have to be an absolute 10, but at the end of the day we're just looking for cute girls.

Another thing that's kind of important is that if I'm going to be calling you a girl, and introduce you as my GIRLfriend, I do expect you to pass. I would not parade around a hon and call them a girl to my peers.

Besides that, back to the same standards for cis women. I'd want my partner to be smart, funny, understanding, communicative, compassionate, etc. They're all such generic words because every person wants the same thing.

Just be a decent person. Be cute. Communicate.
Some advice for a lot of you tranners on here, but you seriously need to learn how to hold a conversation! It really shows that you mfs do not go outside, and it's really annoying. I can only a conversation so long, but if I ask "what things do you like" and u just say "music and video games" you need to learn to fucking share about yourself. What kind of music? What kind of video games? I feel like I have to fight for every ounce of information because you're so scared to talk about yourselves and the things you enjoy.

If somebody is talking to you, it's because they WANT TO know those things. I'm so sick of single word responses, or never receiving questions in return because then I feel that I'm grilling you for information and if I stop asking shit then our conversation is dead and then you never try to re-initiate

I've just had too many experiences like this, and I think it stems from lack of socialization. Go the fuck outside, please.

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everytime this fucking chick gets posted i have to think about eating ass all day

you dont even have to be degen tier

Id be content having violet the tripfag for myself

>>32832294
No. My last gf was an absolute gigahon. My new one isn’t very passable either, but she’s still like a fucking supermodel compared to my ex

>>32834982
Lol, what a hero

>>32832294
Sayuri is legit like a 3/10 for me so, thankfully the bar isn't her. My gf is much much more to my taste visually

>>32834982
Damn anon you are a goddam hero lmao

>>32833359
i have almost all of these things but I do have a student loan and a mortgage, so I suppose that disqualifies me.

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>>32832379
To be fair I'm like this with real women too.

>>32835030
Ultra Rare non-pedophilic chaser

>>32833359

Debt free AND with a degree? You mean we need to be born rich? Jeez.

>>32832294
Just be in Montreal and don't make it hard to find you. That's all I want.

Yes, I have Sayuri-tier standards and yes I get away with it. Zoomer passoids are a godsent.

>>32832294
literally my only requirement is long hair and not much body hair i will take the ugliest hon on earth as long as i can squint and she will look generally female

>>32835280
You will also need FFS and have a hot body but never show it off

I think people with a shopping list of requirements are a red flag in itself, seeing women just as a list you need to checkmark is pretty weird

>>32833450
>they’re unlikeable and their personal life is a dumpster fire
I will never have a relationship. But then again, I don't really want one if it means I have to stop living the neet hermit lifestyle.

>>32835779

I agree. My current gf is from a much less fortunate background myself, doesn't have a college degree, etc etc. but she works hard at the job she has, takes care of herself, and above all she makes me so so incredibly happy and seeing her smile makes me feel like the luckiest person alive. I didn't use ~dating strategies~ to look for a high value partner with good measurables and the trappings of conventional success. I simply fell in love and I've never been happier or more excited for the future.

>>32832294
very.
I've struggled with this new wave of transgender youtubers for a while because body positivity is killing the place.
In the 2010s most youtubers were attractive, specially women, and while the threshhold to be a female youtuber has kept somewhat high, males and transgender females look like shit for the most part.
While I kinda tolerate ugly male youtubers because I don't have any attraction for them (and even them I don't particularly care for the opinion of ugly people), transgender females that look bad I instantly discard.
Jim Sterling I followed for a while after their coming out but I couldn't any longer because, while I see them as a woman I guess, it's an extremely ugly woman, and everything they say now I instantly discard. And I used to agree with most of his points but now they all seem like the nagging bitterness of an ugly old lady past their prime and whose opinion is to be ignored.
Same when I see speedrunners, twitch streamers, essayists and whatever that are ugly, while I recognize them as women from the moment they come out as women I kinda don't take their opinion seriously anymore because they are extremely ugly people now.

>>32835979
so a philosopher would have to be pretty for you to consider his teachings?

>>32836029
Nta

I wouldn't trust an ugly philosopher when it comes to aesthetics. Anything they have to say about what is beautiful is immediately countered by their appearance.

>>32836087
that is a profoundly stupid take.

>>32832294
Have the face and body of a woman and the soul of a cute gay boy.

>>32836029
writers are sometimes ugly but they don't subject you to their face when they explain their points to you. I've gone to book presentation where the author is an afront to god but what can you do, at least you're not going to see him everyday.
Youtubers and people you interact on your day to day have to be somewhat agreeable to the eyes so you can come back to whatever they have to say
Same reason banks and other places only hire attractive people, you don't want to be surrounded by ugly people if you can avoid it.
It doesn't make much sense in a rational level, it's mostly animalistic attraction to people I guess.

>>32836215
so you only listened to pretty teachers growing up?

>>32832294
u don't understand your target audience, they lonely as fuck and hate real women as much women hate them

>>32834888
>If somebody is talking to you, it's because they WANT TO know those things. I'm so sick of single word responses, or never receiving questions in return because then I feel that I'm grilling you for information and if I stop asking shit then our conversation is dead and then you never try to re-initiate
If i get like 5 single word responses in a row and no counter questions i'm just going to assume they arent interested and leave them alone.

>>32833359
Pretty close to this but two are negotiable for me
>debt free
I don't care about debt if you have a plan to pay it off.

>no onlyfans/camwhoring etc
Can't really demand this since I've posted nudes and dickpicks to strangers on the internet. As long as it's solo stuff I don't mind.

>>32832294
>how high are your standards?
you tell me, i just want a girl i vibe with, not too mentally ill, not obese or ana and who doesn't hate her dick

>>32832294
my standards are:
>not too tall at least bellow like 6'3
>enjoyable to be around
>tries to actively pass
>will be a bottom
>won't fucking kill me
don't care too much what they look like , they can be fat or skinny as long as they hit this criteria

>>32836582
>who doesn't hate her dick
I would prefer if they did desu, makes me not an asshole for not wanting to suck it or bottom.

>>32834930
>you dont even have to be degen tier
Degen is a literal 3/10

>>32835749
Finally something I qualify to

>>32832294
just don't be an absolute pit of bdd and misery who never even tries to make things better for yourself. even a beautiful girl just becomes exhausting to be around pretty quick if she's a 24/7 emotional vampire

>>32832347
True, was talking to a chaser who said he was going to fly out to meet me irl because I'm perfect, then he came and it's like we have never talked before. Fuck chasers.

>>32837109
maybe you should've fucked him before he cummed dummy

>>32836719
degen is by far the most attractive person on this board. sayuri, arielle and degen are some of my favorite trans girls of all time

>>32833326
fuck you

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>>32832294
Unfortunately… yes. I am a good looking handsome man with high standards.

>>32832347
Sounds like a skill issue from your part. Just act like a cock hungry horny slut and give me some verbal cues (tell me to breed you, that you need more, want to get pregnant etc) and my refractory period is <3min and i wont even go soft before i get hard again.

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>>32832294
I don't even find her attractive
My standards are not crazy but American trans women seem to fail were many in Latin America and Asia do not.
US and Canada has like 5-10% attractive trans women and Latin America has like 40-50%, similar in SEA. This is not about passing as you can be attractive and not pass or ugly and pass just fine.
>>32833368
Why do you think that's too tall?
>>32832353
Honestly but I like the more typical(pic related) Br trans girl not the one trying to look American/cutesy. Been to brazil a total of 60 days and over half of the trans girl I saw were datable and ranged from 18-45. I'm more interested in those who are 30+ and have been transitioning since their teenage years.

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I want a classy, high status trans gf like Hunter Schafer
t. cis lesbian chaser

>>32835932
I'm happy you got a nice trans gf that makes you smile every day anon, you made it

Also sorry I was asleep

>>32832294
Put effort into your transition, I don’t want to date someone with a 5 o clock shadow that dresses like an autist. Be kind, funny, and honest. Have a hobby outside of anime and video games. Go to therapy. Have your life somewhat figured out, basically don’t be a neet. That’s it.

>>32836342
Gonna start doing that myself, because I honestly give way too many second chances or put too much effort into talking to a brick wall.

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>>32833359
>have a diploma/degree
Working full time in IT and finishing degree in CS.
>have a career
I have a great career
>debt free
I hate debt more than anything else.
I have a stellar credit score too :3
>low body count
3
>you’re the bottom
I have never topped and would kms if I tried desu
>no poly shit/onlyfans/camwhoring etc
I have posted nudes for attention before? but that's about it, a bitch got desperate lol
>no bpd/bipolar/schizo shit
I just have Anxiety/Depression but I am medicated for it.

Bonus if you like chubby girls. I'm skinny but I have a cute soft tummy, and ass, and hips, and tiddies.

>>32832294
My standards is that you have to be mentally sane but also pass. Meaning no babytrans or AGP hulkmoders. No boymoders either, I don't have time to play daddy.

>>32832294
my tranny gf was cute but not a Sayuri, just as I am handsome but not a gigachad

what's more important for a relationship is that you're compatible in intellect and character (aka. "vibe") and that your mental health is relatively stable

I think a lot of trannies are cute enough but their brainworms sabotage them.

t. chaser

>>32839242
Good post.
Mental stability is considered the most important factor in all relationships according to many studies, apparently.

>>32832294
>Do we have to be literally Sayuri for you to love us?
Sayuri as pictured, yes. Current fat Sayuri, forget it.

>>32839315
Doesn't help that I had a savior complex and thought that I could "fix her"
I realized that it's futile and a codependent dynamic isn't healthy for a relationship.

Two friends of mine recently ended their years-long relationships, I know for a fact that one of them was because of severe depression of one partner and I strongly suspect it was the reason for the second couple as well.

>>32832294
Sayuri is cute but boring. I'm more into the bimbo look tbhon.

>>32839378
Personally my upbringing made me actually enjoy the codependent 'fix her' mentality, or at least helping to work through mental health issues enough to be able to deal. I can recognize it's unhealthy but taking care of my partner is one of the few things that I'm good at that people actually appreciate. Problem is it's easy to end up with someone who's manipulative/doesn't actually want to improve, and you can't exactly just advertise yourself as 'a dad/older brother you can fuck', least not without getting some extra spicy schizos.

>>32832294
My heart belongs to Blondie Roxu

>>32832353
oiiieee <3>>32838100
>Why do you think that's too tall?
its too tall for a girl in brazil lol
here men are 5'7 and girls are like, 5'3 or 5'4

>>32837207
>t. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/JjclHBDLkrw

>>32832294
same as my cis female standards.

height below 6'0
not fat
cute
more mentally ill than me so I seem better by comparison

>>32839060
you sound almost perfect desu

>>32832294
turbo rep fuel

>>32837167
>degen is by far the most attractive person on this board
lol lmao even

>>32839060
I will find you and I will take you out on a nice date one day

>>32832294
It's hard to say because of how immense the disparity of looks is between trans women, litterally you can see someone who just looks like a dude with a dress on (beard shadow, slightly balding and everything) to some super model girl in the same spaces. And in between there's an array of less cute to cute girls.
Tbh i find like 90% of cis women cute so i'd say my cis standards really aren't crazy but then again i have no idea what the average trans woman looks like since i mostly just see the very pretty ones online and on TV.

my standards are not that high.

Always been into tall girls, I really don't care how much money you make. I am not a mooch and can support myself.

I like bimbos and dolls but appearances are really just extra. I'm after vibe and chemistry more.

Do any chasers want a 6'2 hon with broad shoulders?

I dont pass, i look like a tall man with long hair.

>>32841260
>litterally you can see someone who just looks like a dude with a dress on (beard shadow, slightly balding and everything)

Im trying pls dont bully

>>32836342
Fml I am terrible about this. It's so exhausting to get something started only for shit to hit a wall n I'm just leaving fucking candy trails for them to follow in order to pretend I'm talking to someone that's interested
I need to go lie down

>>32832294
>don't be fat
>don't look/sound like a man
That's it

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>>32832294

She doesn't look like that any more.

Let herself go.

>>32841590
I'm talking about people who don't even try i don't judge otherwise <3
Anyways most girls on here always overdo it about their looks.

>>32842369
Not the same person lol

>>32842459
Thats good. People laugh at me in the street

>>32837210
>everything is your fault not us!
>also im a special exception look at me!
You should transition, you talk like a fucking retarded woman.

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>would you?

my heigh
>160cm
pass
>people use femenine pronouns with me even when i'm boymoding all the time
>education
i'm studying CS and DS
>social class
my parents bought me a house and an apartment when i was 16, in my country i'm high middle class
>sexuality
bisexual and monogamous
>what i'm looking for
someone to practice my english and play halo at night, idk, i'm a very lonely person after all... my self-esteem is very low and i have a lot of traumas from my childhood
>ethnicity and nationality
m-----, jewish, and a------, i have both nationalities, m---- and a-----
>perfect date
I like long road trips, and camping, but I have wanted to do this for years, have a date at McDonald's, Starbucks and go to a pet store for a necklace with my name on it, then cuddle at night, watching movies and maybe crying a little talking about our insecurities and traumas, until fall sleep in each other's arms on a December night


It would be great to meet someone, but this is unlikely to happen... I'm unlucky, I have a thousand bad experiences that only increase my desire to kill myself and get rid of this endless desire to have wanted to live something more...

>>32842952
>would you?
yes, but i will under no circumstance have a mcdonalds starbucks date. pet store after eating somewhere is fine though.

also, what the fuck is DS, m---- and a----?

>>32843104
It would be quite funny, thinking about it, we could even just pick up the food and go somewhere to eat it in the car, like a picnic, I think I like that idea better, where I live there are mountains and forests so, that image It wasn't bad at all

>also, what the fuck is DS, m---- and a----?
Data Science and my countries of origin

>>32843242
picnic sounds a lot of fun. would love to do that :)

>my countries of origin
i know, but which are these. mexico and america? morocco and armenian? malaysia and argentinia?