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So, I'm going to meet a guy from Grindr later on tonight after work.

He contacted me yesterday. At first I was just going to post the screen cap here because of how creepy it is (meet in the park to talk about hormones while it's pouring rain out?), but out of morbid curiosity, I replied and we got to talking. He's definitely not like the musclehead gym bros who keep sending messages about what they want to do to me and I just ignore. He actually has a personality. There's a bit of an age gap between us (38 vs 59), but he seems really nice.

It's weird because I'm not even into dudes (I could make an exception for the right femboy, though). I'm only on Grindr for the slim chance of meeting other trans girls like me or maybe an enby or FTM. However, despite the fact, I found myself strangely drawn to him.

Anyway, we're supposed to meet near Prospect Park / Grand Army Plaza to talk some more and I'm looking for some advice. This is really my first time doing something like this, so I don't really have any experience. About half of the pictures in my profile are me in boymode, but I actually girlmoded for a couple of them and made sure the girlmode pictures were visible first. I don't feel comfortable girlmoding outdoors yet, so I was wondering if it would be OK if I went in boymode or would that be like a bait and switch?
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>>16111504
I would mention it. Is it just a chat? No expectations to fuck?
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>>16111640
They're meeting in a park after speaking on grindr... the old man is expecting to fuck even if OP is too stupid to see it
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>>16111647
Maybe. Maybe not. I am a part-time boy/girl moder and have met several people boymode for a drink/chat no expectations
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>>16111504
Hes gonna kill you
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Op put a postit under your shirt saying if you prefer to be chopped up in a freezer or yeeted into the lake
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You're gonna get raped, idiot. How are you 38 and you don't realize this dude is going to try to rape you? I don't know how many stories I've read of younger people meeting older guys in parks at night, saying it's just to talk, or it's just a handjob, and they get fucking full on raped. Go to a cafe or something. Don't fuck guys that don't have a house/apartment available, either.
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>>16111944
I think op may already be murdered
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>>16111647
>>16111647
>>16111647
>>16111647
>>16111647
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>>16111944
also this i've fucked on grinder at 19 and was way smarter about it then whatever the fuck OP posted
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Would of replied sooner, but was in the bathroom getting ready for work.

>>16111640

I told him I wasn't looking for a hookup, never been with a dude before, and wanted to take things slow. He said that was fine, he could respect that, and that he was kinda "old school" anyway.

>>16111647
>>16111666
>>16111677
>>16111944
>>16111949
>>16111967

C'mon, senpai. Give me more credit than that. I said we're going to meet near Prospect Park / Grand Army Plaza. That's a very populated area where a lot of people frequent. We're supposed to go to this pool hall / chicken wing spot and grab a bite. I chose the spot and he said he was familiar with it. The game area is closed, but they're still serving wings with a sitting area open outside.

Anyway, you guys didn't answer my original question: boymode or girlmode?! >_<
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>>16112795
You're dumb af
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>>16112905

How?
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>>16111504

How are you 38 and able to pull cock in trannymode? I thought I was getting old at 31. This gives me hope
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>>16112917
Just wear something neon green so we can watch the CCTV footage later. Don't worry about either mode
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>>16112928

Maybe I'm more attractive than you guys give me credit for?

>>16112931

Very funny. Very funny.
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>>16112982
Be safe <3
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>>16112982
You should drop your discord
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>>16112795
If you're uncomfortable girlmoding public, boymode. You're dressing for your comfort. Not his
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>>16112982
please tell me this isnt you
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>>16112982
I have that same fan
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>>16112982
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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>>16111504
if you're a trans girl why are you on the gay app
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>>16111504
prepare your anus
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>>16116317
it's an lgbt app, not an exclusively gay app
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>>16116328
it means any guys on it will be gay or bi, maybe im the crazy one but as a trans girl i wouldn't limit myself to that
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>>16115784

Of course it's me, ya dingus!

Here, have a look from another angle and be taken in by my feminine charm. I'm only 7 months on hormones, haven't lasered my face/body yet, don't wear makeup beyond bb cream, haven't voice trained, and already I have them beating my door down.
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>>16111949
honestly it'd be for the best
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>>16116346
it doesn't mean that necessarily. there's alot of str8 guys there too (unless you consider any guy into trans women not straight.) Also, not op, but I feel intimidated by tinder/okc
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I only had to pull a half shift today. It's time to get ready and go. Let's do this!
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>>16116436
have fun
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>>16116436
You’re meeting some old man tonight? I’m out of the loop here what
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>>16116435
I think guys who date trans girls are straight as long as they dont like the dick
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>>16116767
most of the guys i meet off of grindr aren't at all into my dick. i just feel i'm not good enough for cis/het dating apps
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>>16116947
aw :(
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>>16111504
>I'm not into dudes
>on grindr

Transbian predators should be banned from grindr. If I wanted to be in a lesbian relationship I'd be on any other dating app.
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>>16111504
>I'm only on Grindr for the slim chance of meeting other trans girls

When i work off grindr its only either 50 year old hons or other call girls so good fucking luck with that.

also dude for real? Are you this desperate for attention jesus? you're gonna take time out of your day to go hang out with some old man in a park? charge this asshole.
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>>16116381
your hubris terrifies me
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>>16116381
holy fuck i recognize you. you're in bk right?
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>>16116381
So this is what happened to Anderson Silva!
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>>16119225
>Anderson Silva
My fucking sides
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>>16116947
i'm not into the dick but i will make jerk trannies off while we fuck
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>>16111504
> 38
> agp
> tranny
> black
> meets some shady man from grindr
Yep, you're gonna get killed
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>>16111504
stop having anonymous sex

what the fuck is wrong with you
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>>16111504
>>16116436

WELL? Share the deets. I want to know what happened. As a hopeless shut-in NEET, living through other people's exploits is my only enjoyment in life.
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>>16124851
Op is probably in a private hidden dungeon or chopped up into kibble n bits. Didn't heed the warnings.

Seriously: anon meetups in secluded areas are dangerous. You never know who you are gonna meet. I met someone once that was a loner type and somewhat paranoid. He had a weird fixation with chopping off the head of someone that knocked on his motel door that he recognized as a stranger. Someone he noticed earlier in the day during a walk. Droned on and fantasized for 20 minutes waving around a large rambo knife. Even made a joke about being a serial killer. I just played along with the story while smiling and laughing. Deep inside it was terrifying. He also fits some of the serial killer profile (loner, ex-military, violent fantasies, brags, white male ). Probably dodged a bullet on that one by ghosting him.

Don't be an idiot Op. Always meet in public if possible and get to know them first.
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>>16116436
RIP
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>>16126606
>brags
I was unaware this was a trait associated with serial killers.
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>>16127003
Serial killers often like to brag or hint at the murders they have done. I wasn't didn't stick around long enough to find out if it was just a joke.
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>>16116436
>24 hours later and no update
F
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>>16116436
f
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>>16111504
Wait you're fucking 38 and on 4chan?
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>>16112982
I can't believe Fred Armisen did blackface, time to cancel that bastard.
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>>16127973

Send out a search party?
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...OP???? Fuck we lost her, guys :c
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>>16121309
f
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>>16132978
Good riddance
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>>16133641
Nah fuck off.
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>>16126606
Anyone else kinda legit concerned?
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>>16133889
idk, this is kinda too perfect to be true.
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Press F to pay respects
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>>16132555
Probably too late at this point, been 36 hours now. RIP Op, this is why you don’t meet middle aged men from Grindr in secluded areas.
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>>16112928
ez just dont b afraid of murderers
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>>16133889
Yeah... Anyone remember what city she lives in to see if any missing persons' report has been filed? I'm really worried she's hurt or in danger...
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>>16132978
>her
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>>16134525
>she
>she's
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>>16134525
The place she mentioned she met him is in Brooklyn, NY. A needle in a haystack, I'm afraid.
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>>16134608
Yup. She/Her for Vleo.

>>16134643
Fuck :/ Hopefully she's okay :c
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maybe they hit it off and are on their way to vegas to get married.
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>>16133993
did he die?
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>>16134998
She and hopefully not :c
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>suicide by grindr serial killer
is this how we lose Vleo
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Can we get the live cam in the discord
Even YT live or something...
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Some morbid replies in here...

>>16138672
>live cam

Look at the thread date. They would of already met by now. lol.
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>>16111504
bump
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anyone else watching the news for a dead black tranny to show up?
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>>16138078
God I really hope Vleo is okay. I'm really worried about her
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>>16126606
>secluded

They're meeting in a high traffic area and going to have something to eat at an outdoor patio in one the most populous cities in the world.
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>>16111504
lol can't wait for this post to end up in a creepy on the internet youtube compilation when her body turns up
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>>16143106
I really hope she's just taking a break and not actually dead/in danger.
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>>16111504
>>16143106
>>16134103
>It's been 36 hours
I'm genuinely a little concerned now. Like I don't even like vieo cause they're kind of annoying to me but goddamn I'm legitimately worried for her safety. If something bad happens I'm legit probably going to cry.
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>>16143485
Same. I'm tired of losing people. I just want her to be okay. It's been 51 hours. Fuck. Does anyone have her discord or anything?
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Any info on her deadname or just anything? Any idea which restaurant they went to?
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>>16143585
she's getting the boy fucked out of her
leave her be
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>>16143628
She said she was going to be at "prospect park/grand army plaza" which is this place, it looks pretty open so it would be very odd for anything to happen unless she got in a car with the dude or went over his place
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>>16143681
Oh no :c
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has there been any word on her?? i’m worried about her
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>>16143962
No word from the look of it, maybe they just got on really well with that guy. Or they were murderised, hard to tell at this point.
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Somebody change their location to NYC and look for her on grindr

Would be a needle in a haystack unfortunately
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>>16144093
Why can't she live like in the middle of nowhere so tracking her down would actually be easy? :/
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>>16144353
At the very least we have a picture of the guy that messaged her, if that was his own picture that is.
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>>16144608
Yeah with his face cut out
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>>16145197
Yes, but we have a great look of his build and his outfit + red headphones. My guess is this is an outfit he typically wears and has probably taken other pictures and placed on social media, thus, giving us something to work with that others would probably recognize. This is assuming that the picture is even the guy and not just some picture he stole.
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>>16146094
>yousing your own pic when you're about to go on a chop date
amateurs istg
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True! I didn't really think about that stuff. I'm not the best when it comes to patterns and stuff.
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Bump for Vieo :c
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shes literally dead
this thread is history
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>>16148001
Welp. *Adds another to the list of trans women killed in 2020* :c
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>>16148001
i’d really hope that’s not true
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Honestly I know people found Vieo annoying but I kind of thought she is inspirational in a way. Like she is fully aware that she is fucked genetically, and that she is a lot older than everyone else here, but she doesn't give a fuck and still went on HRT and presents in girlmode from time to time. On a board filled with anxious eternal BDDmoders I thought it was actually really cool of her, like yeah she was dealt a shitty hand but she plays her cards anyways.

I really hope she's okay. I'd actually consider getting the police involved but 1. we don't know anything about her and 2. the track record of the police on this sort of thing isn't great. I'm hoping she had a good time on her date and is just taking a break from the chans, or maybe that she's trolling, but honestly its really concerning.
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>>16148374
i hope it’s just a break if something
i hardly knew her/anything about her

i know she lives in NY
i also live in NY and the NYPD is incredibly unhelpful in general let alone towards a black trans woman
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>>16148374
Same. She made me feel less ashamed to be trans. Like if she can do it and be happy then maybe I can one day.

Same. I tried digging up info on her, but even with the archives I really couldn't find much. It sucks cuz we literally can't do anything. We don't have enough information to do anything than bump this thread and hope she's okay. I can confirm that police and trans people, especially when they're trying to find you is not ideal in anyway.
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it's irresponsible to make a thread like this is a black trans woman. I mean, I guess it's better than just getting fucking murdered by this guy without a trace, but the only reason I would believe that maybe something actually happened, just for a second, is because it's a black trans girl.

If this was Twitter I guess I'd get called out for policing the actions of POC trans or whatever, but come on, you've GOT to be smarter than this, right? It's probably a larp.
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>>16148457
Yeah same, I just spent about an hour going through archives and learned almost nothing (except that she works as a janitor. Not really helpful information).
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>>16148560
Ya'd think, but Vieo doesn't seem like the type to larp. Yup :c I wish she was more careful, but we can't really blame her for wanting to go on a date with a guy. Just wish she was safer about it
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Vieo is probably fine. Not everyone spends all their spare time on 4chan
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>>16148602
Yup. Was really hoping there'd be something that I could use in there to try to find atleast *something*. But nothing.
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>>16148615
this, jesus you guys are acting insane
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God if she’s actually dead or actually not dead this thread is amazing
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>>16111504
How is a guy opening a convo wanting to "chat about hormones" and saying let's got a park *immediately* not a huge red flag and creepy af.

Like honestly what was she thinking

I'm cisgay and even I think it's creepy
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>>16149265
Yeah :c I saw so many redflags :/ Maybe she was just really desperate for love and affection. Ya do dumb stuff when desperate.
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>>16149880
Tbf we don't know the entirety of their chat. Maybe he was cool and it's a safe public space.
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>>16148602
Vieo spends a lot of time on /fa/ and i think she works at usps or some sort of warehouse where they handle mail.



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