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Unironically tho this is what my ideal man looks like
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>>18758671
boogie
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>>18758671
I'd suck his dick
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>>18763955
I'm prescribing you 10CCs of cute panties, STAT
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>>18758671
would not date cuz les but his vids are funny
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>>18763955
Hey

im so fucking disturbed, ever since i was a kid i didnt think about fucking women cause i would hate myself for objectifying them so i trained myself to just not think of it. however i didnt feel this "pro feminist" guilt towards men so i was more open to it. i watched furry porn which was about a 50/50 split between the two but that was when i was a guy.

now that im transitioning i still see myself as a guy, but like, i would be fine fucking a guy as a woman, just as fine as i would be fucking a guy as a guy as a bottom. i dont want to use my dick. and for furry porn standards, i definitely got horny with women, but for real life women i would be intimidated and scared and anxious and ive never really thought about fucking a woman in real life cause ive kept my mind from going there. i dont even know what i want.

i know that like, im attracted to androgyny like femboys and there are some masculine women that have made me question myself, along with normal men and women but its super rare. its more like, for every 100 men i might want to fuck theres maybe 2-5 women. who knows. i dont even think about fucking or initiating it with women, i would only do it if they came up to me and asked which will never happen so im pretty safe i guess.

also im worried that im a bad person cause i like, in the order listed
1. femboys
2. trans girls
3. normal men
4. masculine women
5. trans men
6. normal women

and i dont want to like feminine amabs and confuse the two (or look like im confusing the two despite me seeing femboys and trans girls as two separate genders
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>>18763201
Happy to assist Cindy, and good idea!
If you have any questions on anima/animus or this topic in general, feel free to shoot them my way, and I'll pass along my perspective (I'll be lurking).
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>>18763429
so i looked it up, it said the animus was the masculine part of women and the reverse for men for the anima. but im assuming everyone has both? i genuinely dont want to be dominating or taking the leading role, or have anyone submit to me really. i guess im bottomgender instead of transgender.

im gonna include this in my next manifesto, this is gold.

picrel, i always felt horrible for thinking about being attracted to women due to childhood trauma i guess. idk. i guess i need a therapist
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>>18763556
>so i looked it up, it said the animus was the masculine part of women and the reverse for men for the anima. but im assuming everyone has both?
That is how it's viewed on a surface level, yes.
The main purpose is to highlight the "unconscious" gendered behavior here (i.e. pattern of behavior, the gendered "archetypal" behavior that is being embodied). As opposed to, their "primary" conscious behavior.

Thus, a "traditional male" has an anima (unconscious internal feminine), but in contrast the "animus" is consciously embodied (thus, no need to "say" they have an animus as it's a given, but, it basically means "internal conscious masculine" in this case).
HOWEVER, one big thing that's left out is that even a "traditional male" has unconscious portions of the internal masculine, so, in my view, everyone has both.

>To go into a bit more detail for the traditional view:
So, the masculine personality is embodying the "animus" consciously and thus it's not the "normal" animus; as, it is conscious.
However, for that masculine personality, the anima is considered unconscious, and is generally embodied unconsciously; unless, of course, one has gone through the process of individuation as to confront and integrate that side of yourself.

>in terms of my exposition here
Although, to clarify, an AMAB can be primarily masculine, however an AMAB can primarily be feminine in contrast to the "traditional male."
It is less about what you're assigned at birth, and is more along the lines of what "low-level" stuff define the "self" (also a jungian term) as either masculine or feminine primarily (that's more up to low-level stuff); thus, respectively, the feminine OR the masculine is unconscious and the masculine OR feminine is primarily conscious.

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>>18763556
>i genuinely dont want to be dominating or taking the leading role, or have anyone submit to me really. i guess im bottomgender instead of transgender.
Interesting line!
Well, it could be that internal autoandrophobia... which can point to a few things.
As in, a need to confront the shadow (via shadow integration), and that need to confront the shadow is due to the archetypal patterns of the animus being relegated to the shadow.
So, think of it like... this "internal masculine" was suppressed/repressed, and thus it was pushed into the shadow (which is where those feelings/behaviors are "locked up" but they embody unconsciously in a negative/shadow oriented way... following u around like a shadow).
Which, could point to a similar pattern as me.
So, to recontextualize that here, it's where I was forced into repression of my primary feminine self, which caused me to be a chronically depressed shadow of myself, and after I confronted my shadow and integrated myself; I was actualized into myself, which is primarily feminine with masculinity being secondary, which was indicated via when I "acted masculine" I felt entirely fake and it was forced as hell, as opposed to the feminine feeling entirely "natural" to me (i.e. closer to my "self").
So, for me, I now don't mind being "masculine in a feminine way," and so this is basically being primarily feminine... imagine it like, the "lens" is feminine and the pattern of taking charge being that "light" of masculinity passing through that lens. As in, I will take charge, but in a feminine way; as cringe as it is to say aloud it's basically, "I will be motherly" in taking charge, but not fatherly.
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>>18763556
>picrel, i always felt horrible for thinking about being attracted to women due to childhood trauma i guess. idk.
There is definitely trauma there, and a need to confront that; which, you're beginning to do there, but you also need to acknowledge those feelings (i.e. the desire to have sex with women, why do you so strongly desire to please your mother, do u idolize your mother too much [i.e. see her as just another person instead], do u think you are more "true to yourself" being masculine or feminine without your mother's judgements, etc), what is behind those feelings, and to play out those scenarios/feelings in your head.

As in, feel what you feel, and DO what you consider "bad things" in your own head; as in, those dark parts are telling you about yourself, and are basically affectations of the shadow.
This is the basics of shadow integration, you need to integrate the shadow, and since it's all in your imagination you can play it out.
Through this, you can integrate the experience via acknowledge those desires/feelings, playing them out within you, and then learn about yourself; then, slowly integrate that shadow/animus, and actualize further as a person.
As people have said, some experimentation is necessary here, but also I recommend doing it in your imagination first and foremost.

>i guess i need a therapist
Therapists can definitely offer good advice, and insights; although, the person who knows you the best is you... however, to do anything actionable you'd need to buildup the toolbox and skills as to be able to confront yourself and your hidden truths. That research and self-analysis is a good start!

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Was Dr. King right on this?
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>>18764006
Just a trans girl who recognizes blacks are shit and calls them out for it, sorry daquantavius
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>>18764029
ur still a poltard lmfao
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>>18764029
Man gets into BBC, sissy porn - gets AGP brainworms - RACIST TRANNY. Many such cases!
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>>18764044
You’re still a shitskin lmao
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>>18764047
>into bbc or sissy
nope, shit is disgusting
>agp
ah I see you’ve got transphobic brain snails
you’re either a nigger or nigger lover so fuck off

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why can't I find a cute guy who will bend me over the kitchen counter and take me from behind
I can't take it anymore AAAAAAAAA
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>>18759741
it's not enouuuuugh
I need the real thing
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>>18759729
> not only you babe

maybe try date on some app like tinder/grindr

and just enjoy your "meet" "belongs"
you can deepthroat him whenever you want babe
just call your new "friend"

also if you really like him just top him, wear him condom and put it in ass
after all dont waste orgasm, pull of it, ripp of condom and let him finish in your mouth

im so horny to
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>>18759749
its dead, the horny will spill out
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>>18759729
where u @
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>>18759741
>Ywn be a stud at the boymoder heat resolution facility where lonely boymoders can come into your stall and get mounted by you while they're in heat

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do you sit to pee instinctively or do you force yourself to
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>>18763065
I don't know bro... is this shuch a big deal?
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>>18763765
most based post I've seen on this board
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>>18763896
a lot of mtfs pride themselves on sitting down instead of standing up, demented I know, but it makes them feel "valid" lmfao
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>>18763065
girls don't pee
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>>18763925
idk, this whole validity stuff is so weird and sad to me

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I'm a bit pol damaged, can someone explain how it became so widely accepted to have trans women in girl sports?
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>>18762618
>>honor and glory
>>women's sports
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>>18760110
as a very pro-trans person who is far left, politically: allowing trans women in women's sports is a mistake.
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>>18761974
hmm actually a good point desu
if we ban trans women from women sports does that mean FtMs (literally pumped on strong juice) can participe with women ?
Isnt that worse
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>>18760197
confirmed as someone who has never gone out side or done sports or gone to a changing room.

be a biological man and spar with a biological woman in martial arts and then tell me "trans women are women"
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>>18763808
>nooo trannies are biologically identical to LeBron James nooo

is this moronic nonsense seriously your best argument?

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I'm not attracted to men, but I have this fantasy where I'm a king in Westeros that's also trying claim the iron throne. I eventually take the throne, crushing all of my enemies, but I don't kill the important male characters like John Snow, the Mountain, Stannis, etc. I instead send them to join the night's watch, but I keep all the important female characters like Cersei, Dany, etc. and put them in my harem.

I hold the throne for a couple of years, reveling in the defeat of all my enemies. But, then, just when it looks like I'll get every thing I've wanted, Khal Drogo comes back from the grave, from the earlier seasons, raises an army that bests my army in war, and then becomes the new king after usurping me. But instead of killing me, he gets the maesters to turn me into a hot tranner. Then he puts me in my own harem, which is now his harem, but never touches any of the other women, only me and me bangs me in front of them every day and makes them watch. Also, any time he's sitting on the throne, makes me wear skimpy revealing outfits with a collared leash and I have to serve everyone wine when all the council meetings are taking place.

Anyone else not attracted to men, but experience these meta-attracted fantasies?

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-This thread was created by: Mystery Trip

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JnOeIFx3ML8
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Come on. I know I'm not the only one.

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https://www.cbsnews.com/news/biden-transgender-military-ban-repeal/
Thank you, President Biden!!! Everyone regardless of politics should be grateful that we have the most pro-trans President to ever serve
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>>18763662
>white people existing = potential holocaust
i mean hell, maybe that's how it needs to go. clearly hitler was way too nice. he just wanted to expell them for the xth time but fuck, apparently they just can't exist without trying to hurt and now even eradicate us.
>the jews are completely incapable of letting a grudge go.
makes me think that dwarfs were modelled after them. never made that connection before but now it kinda sticks desu.
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>>18763715
https://staging.takimag.com/article/stop-with-the-golems-already/
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>>18763761
good read. thank you for sharing!
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>>18763873
> Oy vey they're noticing us.png
I hope you have the self awareness to see you're another one of those golems yourself, tranny.
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>>18763903
i see it more in the way that they are using my legitimate medical condition to further ruin society. i don't regret transitioning. i'm happy and can't imagine that i would have been without nor can i imagine going back.

Search yourself on Pimeyes:
https://pimeyes.com/en

do you get more male or female matches?
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mostly stock images of little boys weird
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>>18761571
oh no
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>>18761483
porn, a bunch of women who don't look like me, and a selfie i posted on reddit 2 years ago
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>>18761571
Where can i download the porn?
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oh god it just finds my pre-transition could-I-pass posts and twink lewds
it seems my past has finally come back to algorithmically haunt me

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>several months into nofap
>no longer feel attracted to guys or trannies
You should give it a try too. What do you have to lose?
Worst case scenario cutting out porn is still good for you.
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>>18761643
Holes*
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Can I still ERP? aw fuck it, I know I will.
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>>18759926
how old are you?
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>>18759926
Porn can only make you accept the fact that you’re bi. Like for me seeing a naked Peter Steele when I was 14 made me accept the fact that I was attracted to men.
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>>18759926
Not jerking off literally will cause prostate cancer.

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What is the most fucked up thing you've ever coomed to?
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https://thisvid.com/videos/enormous-wet-farts-and-cum/
https://thisvid.com/videos/shit-covering-my-cock-balls/
https://thisvid.com/videos/shit-cum8/
https://thisvid.com/videos/hands-free-cumshot-while-shitting/
https://thisvid.com/videos/shit-and-cum18/
I can't link other vids because they're private.
But this is the sort of thing that I fap to.
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>>18761219
I honestly had no idea autopedophilia was a thing. I'm not really sure if I have it though- It's not like I'm sexually attracted to my younger self, there's nothing I find appealing about 'em.
It's more like I get off to imagining how broken and mortified I would've been? I guess it's a little bit like getting horny from self-harm in a way, thinking of having to feel even more dirty and disgusting than I did back then
I know it would've just fucked me up for life even more than I am right now and part of me wishes that would've been the case instead so I could just be a complete schizo and I wouldn't have to live with the knowledge that I'm like a half-broken toy desu
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>>18755160
So one time I was really horny and my internet was down for a while, before it went out I was on the wikipedia page for Muammar Gaddafi and I just...for some reason uhhh, masturbated while reading his biography and came right when I read about him getting violently sodomised moments before death
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The girl reading this :)
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>>18755160
girl with a dick

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>she doesn't realize that her hobbies and favorite pieces of media clock her
Everyone knows being in non-bio STEM clocks you hard, but your hobbies can do it just as much as having a five oclock shadow.

Almost no cis girls like niche games (Touhou, most JRPGs,
Almost no cis girls like non-shounen anime (Evangelion, Punpun, Madoka)
Almost no cis girls like reading (save stuff like Harry Potter and the Hunger games)
Almost no young cis girls like cooking for housewife/husband reasons.
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>>18763077
>>18763205
Stop. Caring. Stop trying to convince yourself you're just like cis women whether its true or not. Just be yourself.
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>>18763286
it sounds you're the one who needs to stop caring anon
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>>18763275
It really is the coziest Christmas movie, isn't it?
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>>18763461
yes! for all the talk of how far anime is removed from the real world, satoshi kon really knew how to write genuinely human characters.
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>>18761548
Reading as a hobby is completely dominated by women
I always feel a little uncomfortable in my local bookshop or library because they're so obviously female-centric spaces and I can't help feeling like an intruder or imposter, despite also loving reading.

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How do I stop gender dysphoria. Not dysphoric enough to transition, not sure it'd even help. Almost did, looking for ways to stop it. Trying more masculine stuff helps a little, thinking abt getting a motorcycle after college. Looks fun.
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>>18758880
I kind of sorta agree with this anon. I've had dysphoria for the longest time but I doubled down on trying to be mainly because I thought the reason I hated myself and my body was because I wasn't mainly enough. Started working out, running and eating healthy [spoiler]Which isn't all that bad, the running and the eating healthy part[/spoiler]. I enjoyed the exercise itself, it felt good, but I always felt a sort of disgust at body but I never really understood why. That was like 2 years ago and ever since then I curse the day I started building muscle. It completely ruined any chance my body had of being even slightly androgynous and I realized I never really cared for being mainly, I just wanted to feel right in my body and I thought the redpill mgtow guys had the right idea [spoiler]And in my defense I was young without much life experience[/spoiler]. Regardless of how you feel about your gender eating healthy, sleeping good hours and running are good things for you, but by god do not build muscle unless you're sure you want to. It's a fucking curse my dude.
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>>18762857
Also why doesn't spoilers work here on lgbt? Is it some special thing about the board or is there a different command?
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>>18760088
if you can't pass: Hrt+ long hair+ lifting + care:
greek god mode
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>>18760467
>repcucks
I am cis and used this to strip myself of all gender identity.
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With mild dysphoria you are best off with simple acceptance. Like someone who's lost a finger or has a rare birth defect. Just come to terms with that baseline level of shittiness as your new normal and life will be an easier burden to bare.

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If I ask 10 gay men if they've ever slept with a woman, they'll all say no. But if I ask 10 lesbians if they have had sex with a man, at least 6 will say yes.
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>>18761702
If you have erection, you are not gay.
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Because women are more likely yo do as their told than men and people are told to be straight
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>>18761588
it's much less common for a woman to pressure a man into sex. pretty simple
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Guys are easier to pull than girls
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How does dating work?

I live in Russia and recently got out of a relationship,
and I know that some day I'll start dating again but like, how???

>If I say that I'm a man and what to date, women will be condescending and say that they feel sorry for me,
and men will hatecrime me or just be chasers

>If I say that I'm a woman, men will be chasers and will hatecrime me,
and women will just brake up or of they are terms they will throw slurs at me
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>>18761888
yeah, nobody gives a shit about eastern europeans.
But I bet a black trans woman from outside of US or Europe could easily get refugee status
>>18761203
i just don't date and deal with it by drinking a lot. Used to go to bars so that guys would talk to me, but now that they close at 23:00, I haven't been since like November
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>>18761682
Can you stop with this meme case already?
She wasn't granted asylum. She was granted residence because she already had her parents living there
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гoвнa мoжeшь вьeбaть няшa :3
KILL ALL TRANNIES
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>>18761203
Fear of persecution for LGBTQ status is a legitimate reason to apply for asylum in Sweden. Move here and I'll be your chaser bf :^)
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>>18762575
Hacлaждaйcя жизнью в Paшкe, быдлaн




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