Do trans women like dating highly effeminate gay bottoms?
absolutely
>>27802666Only if they're on hrt.
I know I do!
yes
>>27803069ur mad funny lets be friends
Idk why I am so scared of them but it’s definitely really obvious I don’t even like girls >.<
>>27804902letting the fear win means they win but it’s so hard :<
>>27803590>Pretty cis women horrify methey are better than me in every wayi can't even bear to be in a room with more than one it hurts
>>27804902toxic femininity is why we have to put women back in their place
>>27804919>but like also idk pretty cis women in particular just make that fear multiply like 100 fold which also makes me uncomfy bc that is probably my internalized misogyny or whatever which is oh so like a man ):probably has to do with the stacies usually being more capable of ruining your life, think Mean Girls and the like, it's a normal reaction for a girl, op
>>27805320same i try to just hide as much as possible whenever they are near >>27805440ty for the reassurance fren (:
can we have a thread for age bdd/aging in general?I am a dying twink and I see a lot of aging related pain around here. I think it would be constructive to have a thread like this sometimes
>>27804406aging is going to suck with osteoporosis at 34 rofl :(
>>27804441is that from the troon juice
>>27804456no, its from steroids to stop me from bleeding to death from poorly controlled ulcerative colitis, i had it pre-hrt, its just gotten to be a worse issue again this year after recent new spine/nerve problems
aging is the worst but male puberty is already the worst of it as a trans girl so its like whatever it cant get much worse
>>27804441imagine having osteoporosis and arthritis haha couldn't be me
All trans women, even hons deserve to feel beautiful at least once in their lives.
>>27804705We are people too. All I ask is for one moment to feel like a normal girl.
>>27804673I agree, but I can’t convince myself and lie to myself that I am beautiful My honfjdence is too week
>>27804673all people born male, whether they are trans or not, deserve to feel beautiful at least once in their livest. CD
>>27805437wtf MEN dont deserve to feel beautiful unless they are gay or smth or like a drag queen? a man deserves to feel strong and handsome
>>27805483why not both?
>at least some part of you believes there is a chance you can be helpedAssume, just for a second, you have a car. If it breaks down, what do you do? Normally, take it to someone to get it fixed. You wouldn't pour acid on it, blow it up, drive it over a cliff. It's just broken, and broken things can be repaired. You are no different to a car. You have a problem, and part of that problem is that people don't see gender dysphoria as an illness which is just as serious as any physical illness. But illnesses can be treated. The issue is you either don't believe you can be made better, or don't know how.
Hate dysphoria wavesI've been feeling fine lately, but today I walked through my college campus and it's just like fuckI look like a disgusting beast
>>27804795I've just been in a fucking mood today yelling and swearing at my screen all day like everything is just pissing me off and I'm sick of being so fucking ugly (let alone the impossible masculinity and unmistakably trans appearance) and treated like a fucking joke by everyone, grateful that I work from home and can dip out of voice chat when I need toI can't go outside without getting extremely anxious anymore unless I'm high as fuck or mentally prepared with enough anger and a big FUCK YOU to the world
dad walked in on me talking to myself and cursing my imaginary enemyi thought i was alone at homeso embarrassing
friendship ended with humanity, everyone is my enemy now
>i will never know why anon hates the bartenderkms what's the point in living
I think tranners are cute and pretty, and I want to date them and hold hands with them and hug them and cuddle with them. :)
So I have an issue concerning another mtf in my class. Context:>be me>20-some mtf>twinkhon but I make it work (have a good body, or so I’m told)>boymode most of the time>go to grad school >there’s another transfemme in class>tall but she passes>long black hair, good style, same age as me, pass-ish voice, very femme face, the works>clocked her cause of her laptop stickers>avoid her like the plague, nervous to talk to someone that pretty>eventually she runs into me and we talk>she’s pretty cool>we have similar interest>we exchange numbersComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Kill yourself
>>27805350Cute little transbian larp
>>27805350sexsexsexsex
im mtf btw and i dont think they are slurs, for me they are funny words and well they are swear words but not slurs for example sometimes i say faggot or troon tranny faggot tranny retard tranny or dyke, the only slur i dont like is ni***r, and btw i'm not transphobic, i support my trans sisters!!! i just say those words because they are funny maybe
>>27805214Most trannies are autistic so she can probably say retard as much as she wants
>>27805262"reclamation"i dont care if a cisgender buff man says it anyway too n.n it should be a word for everyone not just for one group of people to say it
>>27805138saying slurs is topbrained
>>27805138if you were cursing like a sailor, that'd be malebrainedbut you're just a chanlord girl that reminds me of the tttt version of this ancient classic>hi every1 im new!!!!!!! *holds up spork* my name is katy but u can call me t3h PeNgU1N oF d00m!!!!!!!! lol…as u can see im very random!!!! thats why i came here, 2 meet random ppl like me ^_^… im 13 years old (im mature 4 my age tho!!) i like 2 watch invader zim w/ my girlfreind (im bi if u dont like it deal w/it) its our favorite tv show!!! bcuz its SOOOO random!!!! shes random 2 of course but i want 2 meet more random ppl =) like they say the more the merrier!!!! lol…neways i hope 2 make alot of freinds here so give me lots of commentses!!!!DOOOOOMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <--- me bein random again ^_^ hehe…toodles!!!!!>>love and waffles,>>t3h PeNgU1N oF d00mif you're cute, that'd be adorable
>>27805297Yeah I feel the same. As long as you aren't genuinely bigoted I don't care what words you say.
Models often display their elegant, angled faces with a hair style tied in the back so you can see every inch of their beautiful faces. Since we are on a forum for beautiful women, what do you look like with your hair totally tied up in the back?
>>27802749
the hottest girls look gorgeous even with a completely shaved head, I've found
>>27802749I'm much more passable with a chignon actually. When my hair's loose it makes my head look really square
>>27804862sure you are
> More evidence toob did ithttps://twitter.com/AsterOlsen/status/1575098916525441024
>>27804412Gross but for Hontra she can't get hard.
>>27804486I will make them hard.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-prviGR2DuQ
>>27804578Stop being a degenscum
>>27804385Tube did this not Natalie. she never wanted any of this. stop victim blaming
>>27805361Make me.
Daily reminder that you NEVER have to come out to anyone.You can boymode until you cut contact with old family or friends.You can go stealth and not disclose to new friends or coworkers.Being trans does not have to define you when being a woman can define you better.
>>27804802not when your dapendent on your family and cant move out or when its hard to pass if you dont pass like i want to pass but i feel they all know im trans
>>27804802E7b9 spelled E D G# B F E056460That's a pretty fucking aggressive chord for how happy she looks
>>27805257If you won't pass, then why stop boymoding? That sounds like a horrible life, but like the point of transition is to be a girl not a hon.
>>27805396i never boymoded in the first place i had to tell my family to get on blockers and estrogen young. i dont care im going to be myself
>>27805421That's sad, but this is a really different time now. I was on DIY at 15 and left for college at 19. I never had to tell anyone to get anything.>be myselfYeah! But the thing is, I'm a woman not a tranny. Being a woman to me is bing myself. Being the tranny is the opposite of that and feels more stifling to me.
last time i posted here a few weeks ago people talked me out of kms but i truly can't take being alive anymore. at surface value my life looks fine to most people as an mtf who passes and has a good career and friends but i'm still really hurt and traumatised from my past and i feel so so sad all the time, i hate myself a lot, my anxiety is getting worse every day and i know i'm going to die alone because no guy will ever find me pretty enough to overlook all my baggage. my birthday is soon and i want to be gone before then so i don't have to age another year so it's only a matter of days. i guess i just want to know how i can soften the blow for friends, family and coworkers because i know losing someone this way sucks even if it seems like they don't care rn.
>>27805095Courage sometimes means embracing logic.>do nothingresult: nothing happens>take a chanceresult A: nothing happensresult B: something happensYou can't really fail if you never try anon.
>>27804760i'm glad therapy helped you but it just hasn't been my case (like you i was abused as a child along with other traumatic experiences) and it's expensive for something that may not help. i've been saving a lot of money, was supposed to go towards SRS and stuff like that, now that i'll be gone soon i'm going to leave it to my younger brother who's disabled and i'd rather not eat into it with unnecessary spending. it's the least i can do to make up for the shitty thing i'm going to do.
>>27805196yeah he'll be so pumped to receive your suicide money
>>27805089thank you anon
>>27805213
How do I know if a cis woman likes me?t. transbian
>>27803164Flirt with her dummy. If she flirts back then you know, if she doesn't then let it go.
>>27805094What if she's flirting with me right now and I don't know? What if I'm flirting with her without either of us being aware? It's scary, especially because she isn't aware I'm transgender.
>>27805134And that’s what we’ve been saying, OP. You need to figure out if she’s okay with trans people first, then come out to her, and if both go well, THEN ask her out.
>>27805134She might be, she might also know you're trans. Just flirt harder if you're worried you're already flirting. Ask her somewhere more intimate, like out to eat or to the mall just the two of you.
>>27805187nah, if she clocked her & then tried to pursue her romantically then she's definitely a chaser & that's the worst outcome
With so many new models of relationship available in the 21st century, I've spent a long time considering what kind of thing might suit me bestI get that I'll mostly like end up in a monogamous relationship with a man or woman, since that's the most common and available type of relationshipIf I got to pick though, I'd be in a semi-closed poly relationship with like three other people; another mtf, an ftm and a theyfab.The theyfab would be more like a satellite partner - they'd have their own place, and maybe even they'd go on their own dates with other people, but we'd all hang out and raised kids together. They'd probably take long trips out of state, maybe they're in a band or something. I'm imagining this would be someone that's fairly solitary, independent and not really able to fully commit to a domestic life, but still wants to 'casually' join a family. Me and the two other trans people would live in a big house, sleep in a big bed, and split the chores evenly. There will be a LOT of chores; feeding the goats, collecting eggs from the chickens, making breakfast for the little one, stuff like that. Since all four of us are pooling income though, I think only one or two people would need to be full time employees. I know this is a pretty distant fantasy, I talk to a lot of other queer people that want relationships like this or at least want to live in a commune community, but nobody wants that with me.It seems basically impossible to meet 3 people that are compatible and interested in a future with me - I mean I'm struggling to even meet 1. Still though, I often fantasize about this kind of family life. I had one friend who had three moms, and honestly I was so jealous. Does anyone else ever fantasize about this kind of thing? I know this board is extremely pro-monogamy, but idk I really think a closed relationship with multiple other people could be really comforting.
>>27804005eh fair enough drop disc if u want ig
>>27801111mirin those traps
>>27804072Mmmm I do notveryhairy#8360
>>27804121Thanks anon I got them from BJJ and backpacking
>>27800646my current relationship is cool and i'm happy with itme:>boymoder>5'9>bottomhim:>femboy>5'8 or so>vers (top)our relationship:>i cook him stuff when he comes to my placeComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
what does it mean if you warch trans porn but self insert as the trans girl? am i still a chaser?
Reverse AutoAutogynephilia
>>27804336stop making up words anon used to be we just called people perverts
>>27804325>am i still a chaser?you are the stereotypical chaser don't worry hon hun
>>27804325It means your the repper class of chaser, like most chasersI'd recommend trooning out before investing in a relationship with a hsts
