some friends invited me to a sex club. what should i wear? also general sfw kink/lingerie thread.t. male sub
>>17011779wtf is a sex club and how do people get invited to that.
>>17011783it's a nightclub where people go to:>have sex with the people they brought>meet people and have sex with them>watch other people have sex>learn about sex thingsor some combination of the 4.i'm friends with a poly couple and they told me i "absolutely have to" check this place out if i want to get pegged. i wasn't comfortable going alone, so one of our mutual friends volunteered to go with me.a bit nervous since it'll be my first time at that sorta place, but i'm too curious not to go.
>>17011791>check this place out if i want to get peggedYou need a jockstrap or anything else that is assless.
Sounds like some degenerate city thing.I rather fuck my cousins in the barn, thank you.
are you going to a swingers club OP?
>>17011779Where did this trend of plastering bangs to the forehead start?
>>17012133In like the 30s.
>>17012341Dude, you have no fucking idea......I know people that have done this.
>>17011779Is it in NYC? Think we may be going to the same one if so.
>>17011791>check this place out if i want to get peggedsounds like a good reason to not go
>>17012133They’re called ‘baby hairs’. Black women actually have some naturally straight hair around their forehead and this way of styling them was around at least as early as the 90s.
>>17011779This your first time getting pegged? I don't recommend you let a stranger do it. I assume youre a hairless twink? Wear a latex g-sting and a greek fisherman's hat. Kinda basic but it's very good at getting the message across.
>>17013292>at least as early as the 90s.lollmao
>>17011791I've never been pegged but just do you man. If you want to get pegged then just get pegged. Hedonism does not exist
op here, nursing my hangover from the club. it was a pretty good night:>wore fishnets and knee-high boots with a collar, going for the femboy look>maybe 2 female dommes in the whole place>overall ratio of men to women was 2:1>danced with a few randoms, don't get much of a response>got hit on by a gay guy, politely explained i was straight, he had a good sense of humor about it>wound up grabbing a drink with him and his friends>explained my situation, they laughed>"honey you wanna be here on ladies' night">thanked them for the tip and went back to mingle>locked eyes with a trans girl, incredible dancer, great smile>danced together for a while, really cut loose>got her number>we're getting brunch tomorrow>>17013315done it many times before, it's not a must in a relationship but i definitely enjoy it. wouldn't let a stranger do it though. i like to start out pretty vanilla and get kinkier after we've built some trust.
>>17011791>i'm friends with a poly couple and they told me i "absolutely have to" check this place out if i want to get pegged.The fuck did I just read? I'm going back to /pol/. You guys are fucking nuts
>>17011779boots and pants
>>17014425Atta' boy OP
>>17013361Ain't the same. Those aren't baby hairs
>>17011791This fucking has to be a joke right?
>>17011779>male subchoker (not pearls, those are for tops), leather (if it's that kind of scene), rouge (very cute), tomboy hair (never seen a bottom with long hair), cropped top (bonus if you have a piercings), booty pants etc.
>>17011779>what should i wear?Abundant amounts of hand sanitizer
>>17014966w2c high-quality rouge?
>>17011779fucking degenerate /fa/ggot kys
>>17013406>Hedonism does not existexplain
>>17015407It sounded cool.
>>17015407perhaps what anon meant was that all actions we take are motivated by pleasure at some level, even acts of altruism, so hedonism is a meaningless concept?
>>17011791>>17014884I HATE MODERNITY
>>17014637>I'm going back to /pol/.Babbys first encounter with reality, and can't handle it.
>>17011779why are you all such degenerates
>>17011779most of the sex clubs I've been to were filled with fat and old people. You want to go to private sex parties
>>17017234>why are you all such degeneratesBecause it is *fun*.We all have some degeneracy. Even you. Chill out about it before your fears destroy you.>>17017550>were filled with fat and old people.They don't turn me on, but damn, they are some socially interesting people.
>>17014637Good, /fa/ is about the fashion industry and therefore a progressive board, enjoy being a nazi loner scum
>>17011779No fucking idea, I'm straight.>>17018055>nazi>progressiveImagine caring.
>>17014637>I'm going back to /pol/let me quote your parents and say: "don't come back"
>>17018044>fearsI dont fear you you degenerate retard I am disgusted
>>17018287>sex is ickyyou're either gay or prepubescent
>>17018296>you arent a complete hedonist degenerate you must be gayyou are mentally ill
>>17011791So if I go there I might finally kiss a girl?
>>17018314>degeneracy is when people get laidyou are coping
>>17017234>why are you all such degeneratesIt's fun. Not telling you what to do, but I can recommend.Sexual tension is super common in everyday life I find it extremely nice to be in an environment that does away with the tension and all of this information is just out there. Way more relaxed like that.Also it's much easier to find someone compatible if your tastes are a bit more... ununsual.t. male dom
>>17018344They won't let you in the door.
>>17018477>male domunless you're gay you're the least "unusual" mf in the club
>>17014719>>17019486sadly she does not shave and that's a pretty bad turn-off for me. didn't notice with the lights out but on a sunday morning it was impossible to ignore.debating whether to keep talking or just move on and start fresh.
>>17020790>sadly she does not shaveI met a girl who didn't shave. Shaved her right up.
do a male version of the nightporter, put some pasties on your nip nips, get something that makes your ass pop and shows off your chest, like braces
>>17022005>he doesn’t know
>>17013315>greek fisherman's hattook me a secondlmao
>>17011791People do this shit then take SSRIs in the morning and wonder why they're miserable.
>>17011779I've got some experience in this. It really depends on what kind of sex club and where. Me and my gf sometimes go to sex clubs (ie swingers) back home in Australia. Over there it's pretty laid back and no-frills. She wears a slutty bra and g-string and most women wear lingerie or nothing. Most men don't have much much on either in those places, or just boxers. It's all pretty chill. Now a sex club in the European (or Berlin sense) is completely different. There, you'd expect more S&M outfits, some lingerie (but also not really) and a lot of latex and leather. Usually drug use and dancing is happening in these places too, so they're not strictly about sex necessarily, although some clubs like KitKat place more emphasis on sexual stuff. I think the European scene is more like this in general, whereas North America is probably just lingeries and shit.
>>17011791Oh boyWhat a time to be alive
>>17015587>getting openly pegged by strangers in a publicly available nightclub while dressing up in fishnets as a male is totally the future bro, trust me on that oneStupid people love new rules that make their degenerate acts of reasonless will seem reasonable.It’s the new bread and games.
>>17022753These things have existed for as long as civilization has.
>>17014637>>17014884>>17015587>>17022572>>17022766this is what happens when you don't start with the greeks. get off /pol/ and go to /lit/. socrates, the wisest man in athens, was known for smelling like shit, insulting strangers in public, and fucking the shit out of 13 year old boys.
>>17022769Yes but they have never been glorified this much and included as a new item inside the boundaries, which have therefore shifted outward even further.They were touched upon as a crazy, almost fictional thing that only a handful of weirdos would enjoy in private. They were more of a pun.You do not understand what this means nor do you understand the psychological effects of this.I’m not a traditionalist or a right winger but OP has more in common with an animal than an actual human.
>>17022774>and go to /lit/. socrates, the wisest man in athens>caring about the opinions of an ugly old man who was so annoying everyone hated him and voted to have him executed Start with the presocratics
>>17022782>literary history is divided into "philosophy before this nigga" and "philosophy after this nigga">anon is talking shit about this nigga
>>17022778>They were touched upon as a crazy, almost fictional thing that only a handful of weirdos would enjoy in private.It isn't 'common' but it definitely isn't 'crazy or weird' comparatively. Brothels and openly courting (lower class) people for sex has always been a thing. Arguably modern times are more tame.
>>17022786>>literary history is divided into "philosophy before this nigga" and "philosophy after this nigga"Yeah because he's absolutely shit. There is nothing of value to be found in reading socrates' dialouges. Read heraclitus
>>17022774>greeks>The irreverent idea that the great sages are types of decline first occurred to me precisely in a case where it is most strongly opposed by both scholarly and unscholarly prejudice I realized that Socrates and Plato were symptoms of degeneration, tools of the Greek dissolution, pseudo-Greek, anti-Greek (Birth of Tragedy, 1872). The consensus of the sages — I recognized this ever more clearly — proves least of all that they were right in what they agreed on: it shows rather that they themselves, these wisest men, shared some physiological attribute, and because of this adopted the same negative attitude to life — had to adopt it.
>>17022774>socrates, the wisest man in athensbullshit
>>17011791Thanks for the laugh anon hahaha
>>17022822The only people I’ve ever heard saying “midwit“ are 80iq Wikipedia readers
>>17022774Socrates was an invention of Plato.
>>17011779For the record, OP, how would you describe your relationship to your father growing up?
>>17022990as good as it gets. he was strict but fair, and pushed me to get involved in sports while maintaining good grades. when i went to school for engineering he told me he couldn't be more proud. we still talk every other weekend, usually about how the rest of the family is doing, the stock market, and our careers. looking forward to paying both my folks a visit for the 4th of july; we've got a barbecue planned with the extended family.
>>17023017How does your dad feel about you fucking trannies?
>>17023081doesn't really care. my last long-term relationship was with a non-binary person who went by they/them. dad had a few of the typical questions:>isn't "they" ungrammatical?>can they get pregnant?>are you wrapping it?but used their preferred pronouns right away and invited us over for dinner. great steak, great conversation. obviously it didn't work out, and when we went our separate ways dad said he was "sad to see them go."
>>17020278Yeah. So what?This shit is about being true to yourself and not about larping as something unusual or cool to impress other people.Luckily female subs are also super common :)
slit your throat,
damn a lot of salty incels in here. Let the fella enjoy sex clubs if he wants. OP go for it and have fun!