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>>10887584I don't hate this. There's a lot of nostalgia in this pic.
>>10887588She stick her leggy out.
>>10887627Hoping that’s a replica
the fucking shein jsk strikes again. other girl looks fine though
>>10887598i'd like it better if her shirt were opaque
>>10887635I know it goes without saying, but that dress looks even cheaper than it is. It doesn't even fit her well since it doesn't have corset lacing. Generic craft store eyelet lace. Look at the way the hem meets with the lace trim. Don't get me started on the shiny fabric. Trash.
>>10887627Has anyone checked on the Australian lolitas? Are they okay?
>>10887646who let the tiktoker zoomers discover usakumya
>>10887646This makes me so sad
>>10887646Your usakumya was brutally assaulted and you decide to post the gruesome pics instead of contacting the authorities? The poor thing needs an ambulance
>>10887585>>10887586>>10887587>>10887590>>10887591>>10887593>>10887597WOW this is a truly terrible batch of itas and fetishists, good job anon
>>10887646Usakumya did nothing to deserve this
>>10887646Who let a bpd chan own an usakumya
>>10887583This is way to soon to start a new ita thread but I’m not complaining looking at this god awful images of itas.
>>10887646The poor usakumya needs to be burned to end its suffering
>>10887635I swear this JSK is gonna be infamous in the cgl community if anymore itas start wearing it
>>10887697What do you mean? The last thread saged.
>>10887697No, it isn't. When the old thread is in autosage, you can't bump it anymore and it's time to start a new thread. It's irritating when nonnas do a long ass dump in a saging thread.
>>10887646poor thing needs to be euthanized
>>10887646Holy hell this is one of the worst things I've ever seen in an ita thread and I've seen a lot, not just the "style", it's so poorly done and nasty. On par with the iron board when it comes to lolita horrors.
>>10887627Oh c'mon, it's Halloween, let people have fun
>>10887627Is that something pinned onto the skirt or... a huge hole ?
>>10887745Coords are... Okay. But the most ita aspect of this is definitely their behaviour.
>>10887646she could have easily added some punk accessories, clothes and pins to the usakumya without completely destroying it with dyes and permanent marker that is definitely going to smudge and rub off into everything it touches
>>10887583he supports shein
>>10887592Poor girl on the left. Her outfit is very cute
>>10887812I'll never understand how zoomers welcome fuckers like this guy into their comms and then act surprised when he turns out to be a creep, you can literally tell by just looking at him
>>10887810I've never said this before but I really hope that's replica
>>10887646Why would you do this to him :(
>>10887816i've noticed the more ita the comm is the more likely they let in AGP/sissy creeps. genderspecials tend to be really ita and more accepting of them, and they can't tell he looks like a creep because he's just a greasy male version of their greasy ita selves. it's not just that they view them as brave transwomen or enbies or whatever, these creeps are part of the ostracized group of taobao itas with them. that's why reddit has the highest proportion of these creeps, they have the most itas.
>>10887629>>10887835It's very obviously a replica, look at the matching bow on the blouse
>>10887841Yup. Geek Social Fallacies.But the reason Reddit in particular is inundated with these creeps isn’t because it has more itas, but because Reddit is a creep-owned website that actively bans women who don’t coddle creeps. They literally hired a ddlg pedophile sissy who was publicly and intimately connected to a horrific case of real child sex abuse to moderate their website and only got rid of him (or pretended to) when there was a site-wide uproar about it and it attracted outside attention. Even if there was a lolita subreddit with high standards whose mods actively tried to filter out sissies, the sissies only have to go crying to the higher-ups to get the whole sub removed for “hateful activity”. Reddit is unsalvageable.
>>10887892wasn't r/jailbait one of the biggest subs before it got nuked? it's like a pedophile spawn point
>>10887646please be a replica. oh my god. please
>>10887812I’m convinced this guy looks bad on purpose and gets a boner when we post about him
>>10887816He’s not he’s banned from every UK comm afaik
Whoever keeps making the daily coords for AP's US store needs to be fired.
>>10888010im not usually a stickler for perfectly matched colors but muted rose and candy pink just clash. awful. did they not have the coat in white?honestly the staff snaps are usually kind of ita too.
>>10888114Im not sure but some of the stuff they come up with is so tacky or unbalanced.
>>10888190Sauce on dress that would be so cute for my daily normie wear
>>10887655>>10887665>le zoomers in MY le secret club (taobao)???shut up
>>10888010>>10888114>>10888185to be fair they're limited to only what's in stock in their respective store. The US branch must especially be tough because it gets the least amount of stock, so much less to work with.
>>10888206they may have less stock (the website is fairly accurate to their store stock) but there should at least be enough to make a couple of decent things
>>10888063> vintage.ita.jpgWhen was this picture taken?
>>10888223Makes me think the workers are over worked and don’t care about the presentation of the store
>>10888269I mean they get some rabid schizo lolitas in there sometimes chewing them out so it's gotta be draining
>>10888268Nayrt, but iirc the person in this picture said she and her mom made that dress in the mid 2000s inspired by kamikaze girls. It was probably supposed to be a costume.
>>10888206I wonder if they might be pushed to shoehorn stock that they're desperate to clear out into promotional posts in attempt to get rid of stuff that's not selling, it seems like sometimes they throw in random older items
>>10888198You don't know what Usakumya is, do you?
>>10887646This makes me genuinely sad
>>10888185black x blue x red is kind of a vibe tho
>>10888373not like that. it looks like a coord that a newlita who has a small wardrobe would be forced to make.
>>10888371why does she look like a mr meaty character
>>10888377>>10888185Would've looked better on the actual black colorway kek
>>10888390What the fuck
>>10888390When are comms gonna learn
>>10888398Not the hot topic socks
>>10888390When male bullshit and female bullshit collide. How much do you gulls want to bet these fucks upload their meet photos to private fetish forums?
>>10888390Why does the French comm put up with these sissy freaks?
>>10888397I don't hate this, but I'm perplexed by the awkward pose and the cat plush.
>>10888422>French commYou just answered your own question.
>>10888423> Unfitting Shoes> Animal Cookie JSK> Unmatching glasses> Horrid Wig> Unmatching Blouse
>>10888428Ayrt, I have no problem with the Angelic Forest animal cookie dress. The blouse is just a white blouse, it's literally fine. And "matching glasses" isn't a thing. That would be like insisting on a matching wheelchair or a matching prosthetic limb. Yeah, the wig is crappy, I'll give you that. I can't really tell about the shoes. I think it's the awkward crouch more than anything.
>>10888449Nayrt, the dress is poorly designed, there is such a thing as the style of the glasses clashing with the rest of the outfit. That glasses are a "disability aid" or whatever the phrase is these days is such a dumb excuse for clashing glasses. Firstly contact lenses exist, if someone can't or doesn't want to wear them they still have the option of buying frames that actually suit whatever style they wear. Her frames look horrible with sweet lolita, and if she intends on wearing sweet lolita as her main style then at the very least she can get frames that don't clash as much. The blouse looks shitty quality. The bag matches in color but isn't very lolita appropriate in its design.She really looks ita and it's not just the wig.
>>10888449>And "matching glasses" isn't a thing.as someone who wears glasses and is legally blind no, it is a thing. you can buy $30 bifocals online. there is no excuse not to have cute and functional glasses, especially when you're trying to wear lolita. and wearing glasses is NOT a fucking disability.
>>10888449> "matching glasses" isn't a thing. That would be like insisting on a matching wheelchair or a matching prosthetic limbI’m guessing you at least don’t wear glasses if you’re this brain dead. Cute glasses and cute accessories for glasses have been around since forever so I don’t know where you’ve been the past 10 years. Also comparing glasses to prosthetic limbs or wheelchairs is actually retarded. prosthetic limbs and wheelchairs can’t be as aesthetically pleasing because there constantly being used for a disability. wearing glasses isn’t commonly used for disabilities (depending on the persons eyesight) and aren’t being as frequently worn. Somebody with a prosthetic limb is almost constantly having to wear the body part so it would be inconvenient for it be over-accessorized/in a pastel color as it would get dirty and worn overtime. Tik tok zoomers need to stay away from cgl.
>>10888466>prosthetic limbs can’t be as aesthetically pleasingexplain this
>>10888449She looks like she’s got a little bit of a stronger prescription so she might need to order directly through her optometrist but there’s clear frames that suit sweet lolita from virtually ever company.
>>10888466I agree with your overall point but it’s strange to argue that wheelchairs and prosthetic limbs are used more often than glasses. If you need glasses to see then you’re probably wearing them all day, while most people I know who use wheelchairs only use them part of the day or some days. In fact, the one woman I know who’s fully wheelchair bound and only gets out (with help) to use the bathroom and sleep has her electric chair fully decorated with crocheted bags and decorations. It’s not ideal because things do get dirty, but it makes her happy.Some prostheses are also purely cosmetic and aren’t worn unless the user is going to be out in public, unlike glasses.Personally I made sure to get frames that fit well with my style of clothing BECAUSE I wear my glasses all day every day and can’t be arsed to take them off for photos or whatever. Though it helps that I don’t wear OTT sweet I guess.>>10888483Imagine losing a leg and still being expected to wear such high heels afterwards. Bleak.
>>10888494nta but unless you have terrible eyes like me, most people i know who have glasses only use them when absolutely necessary like for driving or at work. and these are people with like -3 to -4 prescriptions. unless your eyes are terrible or you're in school they're not quite as necessary as people seem to think. and i say this as someone who can only see a few cm away without mine. and i have a few pairs of cute ones i bought online for cheap, since i like the variety. and even if i wasn't matching them with coords i would have a few pairs.
Stop derailing and post more itas
>>10888506r/lolita has been a goldmine lately and makes this all too easy
>>10888507End of mini dump with a solid one. Who in their right mind would think this is an okay thing to post for all the public to see
>>10888509it's not derailing to discuss why glasses can be ita, and 3 pics isn't a minidump you reprobate.
>>10888423The cat plush is actually a bag and is cute for general jfashion but this coord is a wreck, sorry about your shit taste
>>10888449I literally have an expensive prescription. But I do get extra glasses from places like Zenni that work when my main pair does not. Even then, I'm still paying $60-70+ for another pair. I feel like if you can afford this fashion, you generally can afford at least a pair of extra glasses. It's just a good idea to have an extra pair anyway.It might be rough for a young student buying their items from taobao to afford two pairs, but certianly if you're older and prioritizing your fun money into this fashion you should probably be able to get a pair. If you've got a matching bag or matching pair of shoes, why not glasses?One can't easily swap out prosthetic limbs wheelchairs.Doesn't mean you need a pair for every coordinate, but getting a pair that works for other colors or substyles isn't out of the question in a hobby focused around building a wardrobe.
>>10888506This is actually really cute as fairy, could just use some ironing
>>10888509Old people in egl is wholesome. Even if the boots are terrible.
>>10888504you know not wearing them strains your eyes and makes your vision worse, right?
>>10888514what the fuck are those
>>10888546that's not correct actually. eye issues are due to improper eye shape which isn't dependent on glasses or not. all that happens when you don't wear them is that you can get headaches when trying to read far away. please look it up next time before you post. and i never said i did it so i have no idea why you're mentioning misinformation to me.
>>10888506This is cute
>>10888506>>10888525She could stand the lengthen the straps on the salo but this is just kajurori
re: glasses discussion, I don't get the idea that it's a chore to have matching glasses because you need special super stylized glasses just for lolita, just get something neutral? I have a pair of thin gold frames like picrel and they match everything. For some reason I always see itas with the chunky black rectangular frames that are associated with socially inept men and I don't see how those are ever flattering unless you're intentionally going for the nerdy bookish look. >>10888550I'm pretty sure you're right, my optometrist would constantly reiterate that "glasses are just tools" and can't actually change the internal issues.
>>10888483Proves my point, this looks like shit
>>10888580This isnt ita stop nicpicking
>>10888532If you don't plan on wearing it into your 60s or further, you're not really into it. I will be buried in my brand.
>>10888595No more a nitpick than the one under it where if she wore different shoes it would be at least passable. The blue x green x mint and two shades of white really does clash. She should have fixed it with color editing before posting. The socks are the only actual nitpick I can find which she also should have just edited the pink and no one would notice they don't match thematically. At least it's ironed and brand, better than can be said of a lot of itas posted here.
>>10888576I remember seeing the concept illustration for this dress and thinking it had the potential to be cute... No such luck it would seem
>>10888509Boots and gloves look terrible but these pieces have potential.
>>10888579Why do we need to know her measurements?
>>10888579Lack of petticoat looks particularly bad if you're top-heavy/broad-shouldered
>>10888587APfag hands typed this
>>10888630anon this is clearly a lyda deetz costume
>>10888570>>10888571Hehehe so wacky xd style poses but you know he gets off to owning these, freak.
>>10888612i suspect the colors may match in person and look mismatched because of the shadows, lighting, and possible editing. some materials photograph weirdly and some phone cameras do auto color adjustments that mess things up-- i've seen even full set coords look mismatched due to camera and lighting issues. its hard to say when her legs are in totally different lighting than her top half. either way she looks polished, well groomed, and the look is cohesive. if the only issue is perceived color issues, i call nitpick
>>10888618I think it's a post related to the tights she's wearing. There was a kickstarter for them and they're doing a large size now, so this is probably a display/ad to show how they look on different sizes of people. Just a guess though. I haven't looked back at the kickstarter about it.
>>10888643i could be reaching but I think he might also be a love live guy. I could be reaching but the black wig = nico, red wig = ruby.
>>10888642tagged as lolita so it's fair game
>>10888643The old “I was just joking don’t take it so seriously!!” smokescreen.
>>10888580This one is cute tho
>>10887812This new Gotham Penguin is truly terrifying.
>>10888564It’s a chore if you need to pay extra to have thinner lenses, it can really ramp up the cost, even on more affordable websites.
>>10888870i have -9.5 and still manage. it's still hundreds cheaper than in person.
mad at boyfriend because I was looking at my Ring footage and saw that he was trying out my dresses. He knows how I feel about him touching my clothes without permission. He think because he's smaller than me he isn't going to break anything, but he is still a man. His broad shoulders will DESTROY MY BRAND! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!
>>10888833What’s the deal with Dallas?
>>10888870It's really not that bad imo. I got new frames and lenses in 2017 from a local store, the frames suit all of my lolita wardrobe, I had to get my lenses made thinner which did cost more but looked bad if I didn't. Frames + lenses came out to be 700 ish $. Most expensive glasses I had ever gotten, but also the most beautiful ones I had ever owned. I needed new lenses in 2022 and was absolutely sure I wanted to keep using the same frames so I just had the same store put new lenses in the old frames. It came out to be 250$ this time. You can get much lower prices if you buy online. I've seen similar frames under 50$, and lenses under 100$ with the same specs.
>>10888884If this were real I would break up, lol.
>>10888884why was your bf trying on clothes at the front door?
>>10888946Because its made up
>>10888647those are definitely love live cosplay wigs
>>10888398thought this was a really bad closet Anya Forger cosplay at first
>>10889022>>10889023Kek These types of sneakers are always the go to for autists with no taste.
>>10889021This is amazing
>>10889021She can afford all that and it goes so hard
>>10889022I am so sick of itas wearing sneakers and justifying it with "muh disability"Most meets are seated or require very little walking and there are plenty of comfortable footwear options in lolita (mary janes, tea parties, certain boots, honestly even RHS are fairly comfortable). You just wanna be lazy.I was a cosplayer for years before I started wearing lolita. I've worn boots and heels and other shoes that have killed my feet for hours on end three days in a row. The shoes in my lolita wardrobe ain't got nothing on those cosplay shoes.
>>10888390>>10888509>>10888513Why was half of the north eastern french comm posted ?
>>10889068And its such a terrible excuse. I HATE putting sneakers on for regular wear as it is. I feel like its way more effort than clicking in a shoe button. It just looks awful and so low effort. It makes lolita fashion look like a cheap cosplay everytime. It feels like people just want to put on a fluffy dress and go about their day and put the least amount of effort in.
>>10889037>>10889064Lolita fashion is dying.
>>10889074This is obviously bait
>>10889070They have been posted for the past couple of ita threads
>>10889068>>10889073Know that there is a vendetta against sneakers in lolita on cgl but honestly I feel like sneakers could work for a causal lolita look. Obviously you need to wash the shoes and make it look like you haven’t dragged it through a graveyard. but if your lucky enough for the sneakers to match your dress and they have a cute design I think they can work.
>>10888612Stop trying to justify the coord being ita by just going off topic and commenting about the second one, obvious same poster.
>>10889078I don't care if the sneakers were even released by brand. All sneakers look ugly and make the coord off balance and tacky with mix matching aesthetics.
>>10889021shoulders showing is kinda cringe but other than that this is kind of cool looking
>>10889033>>10889022>>10889068Aren’t those high heel sneakers? Those aren’t even comfy baka
>>10889085are you stupid?
>>10889087Have you never seen hidden wedge sneakers before? They were huge 5-10 years ago
>>10889091they don't look like that, retard.
>>10889033>>10889085>>10889091all of you are retards >>10889022 is literally just wearing vans sk8-hi it just looks like a hidden high heel/wedge because she's fat and has cankles
>>10889081Assholes like you make casual lolita lose all of its meaning. Causal lolita is ment for wanting to go out in lolita while still not wanting to go out in uncomfortable rocking horse shoes. Sneakers in lolita can look good, your just in a retarded mindset thinking that only shoes with 89 different buckles are suitable for an average lolita.>>10889068You must wear a size 5 shoe if you think rhs are “fairly” comfortable.
>>10889135>You must wear a size 5 shoe if you think rhs are “fairly” comfortableNayrt but what does your shoe size have to do with it? I wear a US 9 and find mine extremely comfortable
>>10889138I'm the anon they replied to and I also wear a 9. They're essentially platform flats kept in place with a strap, so they're really no more uncomfortable than regular flats, as long as you're careful where you step and don't walk on uneven ground.
>>10889135nayrt, there are various comfortable lolita shoes available, for example simple mary janes. The shoes don't have to have high heels or big platforms or loads of straps/buckles. There's loads of options for gothic lolita and classic lolita from regular stores. But even sweet isn't impossible. Some people think tea party shoes are very comfortable. I personally don't think they're horrible but I prefer my pair of offbrand ankle boots (for classic) with an edwardian design, I can walk all day on those.I have a lolita friend who says her rhs are her most comfortable shoes ever. Hers were from a brand that doesn't exist anymore (not bodyline). It just depends on your foot size and shape and how well the shoe works with that. There's no excuse to wear sneakers with lolita, and imo 99% of the time sneakers don't suit any lolita aesthetic (including casual lolita). The comfort argument is bs. sorry. Wear sneakers if you like the look of them, not because they're more comfortable than lolita shoes. I can guarantee you there are lolita appropriate shoes that are comfortable and aren't sneakers.My idea of casual lolita is just a less formal version of regular lolita. So my image of that is, for example, a simple skirt + cutsew coord with a head bow (instead of a headdress or bonnet), or a cutsew worn under a jsk, or a cutsew OP with simple accessories.
>>10889145we have this convo every ita thread, but there are cute sneakers released by j fashion brands that work fine with casual/sweet. it's just that people always wear the ugliest most beat up grocery store sneakers money can buy. and it's never really about comfort, it's about being too cheap to spend 80-100 on lolita friendly shoes. that's why they don't buy the cute sneakers, or the cute flats, or the mary janes-- the average ita would rather die than spend more than $50 on any one item if that. same reason they always have cheap blouses and cheap accessories and any brand dresses they have are unpopular prints that go cheaply secondhand. it's about being cheap and either being unwilling to commit to budgeting for the hobby or delusional about how far their financial means can get them. if you're poor, that sucks, and i'm sorry, but you will never be able to make a cute coordinate if you're not willing to drop >50-100USD on some staple pieces. using cheap taobao on staples like blouses, refusing to buy proper shoes, and only ever spending money on main pieces has to be the most common mistake itas make these days. you see an ita with brand on and it's always a brand main being ruined by garbage cheap blouses and socks and then sneakers. either cheap tacky accessories or brand accessories with a mismatched theme. itas get caught up buying flashy secondary items with specific themes, and unless you have a themed wardrobe it just results in constantly mismatched themes and motifs. if this is you, please take my advice: do not buy any more mains until you own at least 2-3 blouses from a japanese brand. preferably cotton. something that will match as much of your mains as possible. avoid princess sleeves, they look awful shoehorned into a coord. buy a pair of lolita shoes. even taobao has options. get a color that matches most of your things. buy some plain, solid accessories in your colors. you'll get way further
>>10889148>it's never really about comfort, it's about being too cheap to spend 80-100 on lolita friendly shoes.thanks for reminding me. And you're right.I don't like most sneakers (brand or offbrand) with lolita but that's a personal preference.
>>10888198lurk more before trying to be funny newfag
>>10888371this is some weird kink shit, isn't it?
>>10888390it looks like she's in danger
>>10888449the dress is awful too, you have bad taste
>>10889180I don't really see the issue
>>10889148>there are cute sneakers released by j fashion brands that work fine with casual/sweet. it's just that people always wear the ugliest most beat up grocery store sneakers money can buyexactly. Cute sneakers can even fit thematically in a casual sweet coord with, for instance, one of AP's sportier blouson jackets. The issue is that 95% of people mismatch them with clashing elegant pieces or use their beat up normie running shoes. Most of the sneaker coords I see aren't just using sneakers but specifically the rattiest muddiest shoes possible, it's the complete lack of effort and styling that's the problem
>>10887590>gunsafe>huge handsprobably a dude desu
>>10889180This is fine.
>>10889148>if this is you, please take my advice:do not buy any more mains until you own at least 2-3 blouses from a japanese brand. preferably cotton. something that will match as much of your mains as possible. avoid princess sleeves, they look awful shoehorned into a coord. buy a pair of lolita shoes. even taobao has options. get a color that matches most of your things. buy some plain, solid accessories in your colors.Here is my advice. If you have trouble fitting in japanese standard brand blouses, you can buy from Metamorphose, Atelier Pierrot or Maxicimam. The latest is amazing if you're into old school, this is a very underrated brand imo. Innocent world L size is also an actual european L.You can also get nice blouses from decent taobao brands like Surfacespell, Dear Celine, KidsYoyo or Infanta (their prints may not always be amazing but their blouses and underskirts are great). These usually cost around 50 bucks, not 15 tho. Either way, you have to spend money on accessories.
>>10888884Moids obvious creative writing larp never gets better, huh. It's always the same tired tropes and ideas.
>>10889191either that or a homely girl that still lives with her parents
>>10889183>>10889196This is why lolita is dying in the west.>cream blouse with stark white OTKs and shoes(no white on top of coord to balance)>OTKs are way too busy/don't match theme of dress>shoes don't match in style(too sweet)>bag style clashes, it looks normie
>>10889269It’s obviously a scrote
>>10889271nitpick. i agree the blouse should be white and i would've personally gone for navy shoes, but this isn't painful to look at
>>10889280Ugly coords shouldn't be normalized, end of
>>10889180I think this one is a nitpick, at least by 2023 standards. Sure the blouse looks bad. I'm just happy she's not obese, the wig is suitable, and she has cute makeup. The silhouette and theme is on point, even if the colors are a little unbalanced. Whoever posted her, if you're her friend give her gentle concrit about the blouse because she seems on track.
>>10889180this is fine, but i want to know what on earth she was thinking with the beige blouse
>>10889294sneakerchan strikes againsad thing is this would look decent with actual lolita shoes and a puffier petticoat
>>10889304and one less chin
>>10889148Genuinely only larpers think this way about shoes. If I am going to be spending 5+ hours on my feet I want to wear something thats comfortable, which will probably be normie sneakers in a cute color that have a decent design. As long as it isn't jarring or eye-catching, its fine for people to wear normal shoes--especially since taobao shoes are so consistently uncomfortable. If anyone nitpicks over it, thats their problem.
>>10889326nayrt, you can get comfortable shoes that actually suit lolita that aren't sneakers. Several brands who specifically make shoes to be comfortable and supportive have made simple mary janes and oxfords. A while ago a list was shared on CGL. What the shoes have in common is that most (if not all) of them were real leather and had comfortable foot bed (and possible space for insoles). The way you talk about sneakers focuses on the comfort angle, not the aesthetics, which suggest you don't like what they look like with lolita either but you're willing to put up with it for the comfort. I'm telling you there are better options.Some people also put their orthopedic insoles into their tea party shoes for example, and they say it makes the world of difference for long days with lots of walking/standing. I think that's still not as good as an actual comfortable leather shoe. The only valid excuse for the use of sneakers with lolita is that you actually like the aesthetic. Anything else is just a cop out.
>>10889341my budget isnt tight, but i do have feet that make it very difficult to find comfortable shoes. I have a pair of cotton candy feet, and I found them less comfortable than a pair of antaina heels i own. insoles dont help much either-- its specifically the shape of my foot. even breaking sneakers in takes forever, so im not going to bother with getting another pair. i keep them clean, theyre a cute pair, and they fit my coords well enough.
>>10889326skill issue. i've walked 6+ hours in heeled burando shoes no problem. get insoles. if you really think dingy sneakers are the only comfortable option i can only assume you've never so much as tried on shoes intended for lolita
>>10889326I own several pairs of very comfortable medium heeled mary janes that I walk around in for several hours a day and my feet are awful too. Good quality leather shoes and orthopaedic insoles make all the difference, sneakers are just lazy
>>10889326No, girlie, Bodyline shoes are very comfortable. You can easily do 6+ hours on them, and basically all thick heels that are between 1 and 2 inches are perfectly wearable for a full day. Sneakers aren't the end all be all of comfortable shoes.
>>10889276maybe im just too much of a tumblrina but idk why people in here like transvestigate random lolitas who are not confirmed fetishists like sometimes girls are just ugly and bad at wearing clothes. that being said this one is likely a sissy just judging by the pieces being worn here. if not just really unfortunate lol
>>10889376no ur right
>>10889376Because I don’t want any scrote in my fashion
>>10889379>telling a woman to kill herself because she doesn’t want men in her fashionPeak scrote/pick me behavior, newfag
>>10889381NTA but she's telling you to go back to lolcow for using cringe terms, not actually telling you to off yourself. You sound new. I actually agree that we shouldn't use cringe lolcow words like female incels.
>>10889381calm down, newfag.
>>10889382>>10889383>no uWeakest comeback in the book
>>10889343Ayrt, What is the shape of your foot?I have what I would call "difficult feet". The front of my foot is very wide and my heel is regular width. You just have to figure out what works for you. It's not easy for me to find non lolita shoes that fit. 9 times out of 10 I can't just take something off the store shelf in my size and actually fit well. I look for shoes that look wide, and then usually size up half a size or even a whole size. Or I look for shoes that come in a larger width than the standard last width. Real leather is the superior material for comfort and fit because it molds to your feet over time. You can also bring it to a cobbler to get a specific tight spot widened. I have sneakers and running shoes (but have never resorted to wearing them with lolita) and they aren't even the most comfortable shoes I own. I have a pair of army boots with extra cushy insoles that walk like a dream now they're broken in. Those are the shoes I would pick if I had to walk the whole day. I have a few pairs of shoes from brands that sell "comfort shoes" and that came in wider widths, those would be my second choice for walking all day. I picked out some vintage styles for those, but I've also seen some gothic appropriate shoes from those brands and some simple mjs that you can use for lolita. There are also brands that don't market themselves as a "comfort shoe" brand, but who offer wider width versions of their regular offerings. Their catalog changes with the trends, so when platform soles are in that's what they have. Furthermore if a shoe is too big at any specific point you can buy a pack of stick in cushions. For the toe box, for the heel, the sides, etc.
>>10889343Ayrt, continued: I use similar tactics when buying lolita shoes from lolita specific stores. I look for shoes that look like they have a wide toe box, I often size up half to one size. I put in cushions in any part that's too big. If the shoe doesn't have a soft foot bed but it does have space for insoles I add insoles. Sometimes I want shoes that don't look very wide, so I just buy them and if they don't fit and I can't make them fit then I sell them. I have found lolita appropriate real leather mjs from a non lolita brand and bought those, they were my go to shoe for a while. I don't compromise style or comfort and neither should you. It just takes a while to find the shoes.
>>10889388I am similar in that i have a wider front, but I also have a really high arch which can make shoes feel very painful if they arent super super cushy and comfy. Most sneaker brands also dont feel comfortable, even those designed to, so it's been a real struggle lol. Its not a thing of laziness for me, or 'giving up' after not finding the right shoe. I've spent a lot of money on finding what works for me and I'm not going to shill out a hundred dollars on a new pair of shoes when I know they wont be comfortable enough to accommodate my specific needs just because some gulls think its ita. I really appreciate your help, though. Thank you for the tips & feedback! If I ever find myself needing cuter shoes, I'll look into it.
i dont understand the thought process of spending hundreds on a brand JSK/OP but cheapening out/cutting corners with other parts of a coord (like not even having something as simple as a petticoat). You're already gonna look strange wearing lolita so at least put in effort to go all the way and complete the look/look good in it.
>>10889399If you have a high arch and find that the straps on strappy shoes are often a bit too small/snug, you can either see if the straps are long enough to punch a few extra holes or order longer straps with your shoes (antaina will do this!). You can also get strap extenders for leather shoes, your local cobbler might be able to do that for you. It usually looks like a piece of elastic that hides under the strap.
>>10889414>Because even men who supposedly *totally* arent fetishists wind up being fetishistsThis is why I trust none of them have pure intentions. Been in the fashion for over 15 years and noticed it's pretty much a sure thing that if a man wears lolita he's a fetishist and it's just a matter of time before it gets out.
>>10889414nayrt anon isn't talking about men, she's talking about femcel nonnas immediately assuming any ugly/unfortunate woman is secretly a man. bio women can be ugly too.
>>10889432I don't blame them for being a bit paranoid when men are actually trying to surreptitiously infiltrate our comms.
>>10889442i guess, but there's a point where it's just misogyny
>>10889446nayrt but surely you are dumb, cgl may be half coomers but we are on a thread for critiquing a women’s fashion… all the posters are women…
>>10887966Pretty sure that's a different creep from the one in the photo
>>10889445It's not misogyny. Maybe "lookism", but not misogyny, because the men are being treated much worse in this instance. That's the whole point: to exclude men. Sad that uggos with manly features are sometimes mistaken for men, but woman-hating isnt the driving force here
>>10889455>>10889454Whoops, didn't mean to reply to you specifically nonna
>>10889422>the average sneaker defenderwhen you argue for sneakers in lolita, this is how we all imagine you
>>10889353Exactly. There are an absolute plethora of shoes to choose from. There is literally no excuse. People complain about how lolita shoes are uncomfortable but run around in doc martens that they need 3 years to break into and how it keeps giving them blisters. Or these chunky heavy boots. I will stand on this soap box until I die.
>>10889391kek i know what comm he's from. he's not even a troon, just an ita crossdresser with a shitty bunny bag and blonde wig. i really wish comms would be more strict and exclude those kind of members (aka males). they never add anything valuable.
>>10889454the idea that any woman that doesn't meet a certain level of attractiveness is a man is classic misogyny, just painted as concern trolling. just say you don't want ugly girls in lolita. crying moid whenever an obvious woman is just unfortunate looking does nothing but make everyone take you less seriously when theres a real sissy around.
>>10889495This, am a radfem and despise this behavior. So many women have the entitlement that othrr women should be attractive to them personally or they must be men. It's like, are you male brained or something?? Cut it the fuck out, you're shadowboxing.
>>10889448>NO MEN ALLOWED this is our WOMAN ONLY SPACE for CALLING EACH OTHER FAT UGLY BITCHES!why would men want in on this
>>10889424This! I can't stand seeing people shell out for extravagant, brand, main pieces just to wear a normie button up, plain or cheap tights, and sneakers to top it off.
>>10889457I legit have never seen someone who claims she HAS to wear sneakers “because muh feet” who isn’t obese. I know they probably exist and maybe they’re all in this thread right now but when there’s names/photos attached to the posts it’s always fat girls. Being overweight really does fuck up your joints, I guess.>>10889507Every type of women’s gathering is just another porn category to men, and the harder women try to keep men out, the more they want in. I have ftm friends who complain about “amabs” infiltrating their ftm support group where they compare beards and shit. No space is sacred, no matter how dumb.
>>10889508plain tights I think should be given a pass if the coord or overall vibe allows for it, and the person is otherwise well put together. classic and old school look really nice with basic leg wear.
>>10889519Plain tights are underrated imo. If the main piece isn’t super OTT then someone who knows what she’s doing should be able to make plain tights or socks work. The problem is that itas often pick the brightest or most prominent colour in their main piece to match with solid colour tights so they end up looking too monochrome or use a garish colour that throws the whole thing off, or both.
>>10889565why purple? if she'd just stuck with the pink and yellow scheme this could've been cute
>>10889567there is lavender in the print
>>10887583>>10887589>>10887745>>10888333These really shouldn't be held to the same standards as the rest, because they are POC lolitas.not really ita
>>10889583Shit attempt at bait. Kindly kys.
>>10889583You’re so courageous and brave anon, but please try to be more intersectional. We need support for intellectually disabled lolitas whose executive dysfunction prevents them from carrying out basic self-care activities like washing their hair or eating a vegetable.
>>10887627Pretty sure this's just a Halloween costume XD
>>10888580Imo this rly isn't ita, what part are you mad about?
>>10889021Really not that bad, are you srsly gonna cry about her shoulders?
>>10889592>>10889594>>10889595you either have awful taste or too low of standards. Do Better
>>10889583POC Lolitas like T Chan are always ita. Wasn’t there just a closet of frills ACAB ita that had so many WKs last ita thread?
>>10889504what comm is this?
>>10888580>>10888581>>10888582these are fine
>>10889284>$300 shoes>ugly plastic cheapo garbage shein tier 'coord'i will never understand this
>>10889661Real funny. Black lolita steals from white lolita
>>10889504is that the cemetery meet. I knew some gen z newfag was gonna get butthurt about it out there lmao
>>10889565>img_3391no lie, you're exposing where you're getting pics from. as much as I think the girl has a shit attitude, the coord isn't that bad because there's lavender in the print. like I hate to bring this up as an insult, but you probably need to know how to coordinate, get some taste, and maybe be around a little longer before posting in the ita thread. if you're in the Seattle comm, I doubt you can even wear AP or afford AP.
>>10889705Nayrt but all images I save onto my phone have this title format, regardless of where they originate
>>10889703Its kind of disrespectful to parade around and pose in front of the dead you know?That's their forever home, you wouldn't want someone dancing around on top of your forever home and possibly kicking headstones or whatever other hooliganism they get up to
>>10889714>you wouldn't want someone dancing around on top of your forever homenayrt but actually i would not care at all. i doubt the dead care either seeing as they are dead.
>>10889714you know cemeteries are actually meant for honoring the dead and visiting them, right? regardless the world and cultures do not revolve around gen z retardism
>>10889504no one's butthurt, you're all just ita
>>10889705not OP and not in the Seattle comm but the lavender in the print is not nearly bright enough or cool enough to go with the bolero and socks. your comm is so poorly dressed even by western standards so please fix that before coming to wk here…
>>10889705The coord is awful. Also she needs to do some more lolita appropriate hair and makeup because general presentation is part of what makes a coord. but who is this and what’s wrong with her attitude?
>>10888190I wouldn't hate this as much if that dress wasn't so badly straining around her chest.
>>10889566People with facial piercings in lolita need to be ostracized. That shit looks like boogers.
>>10889766Fakebois in ouji are a scourge. Almost as bad as actual men in ouji.>>10889776I don’t hate all facial piercings but I’ll never get the appeal of septum piercings. You either look like you’ve got boogers hanging out of your nose or like a farm animal.
>>10889705sounds like you know her personally nonny you're being a little too obvious.
>>10889504I can see why some people would be wary of joining comms if this exist out there
>>10889845nayrt but i'm pretty sure i've seen her on tiktok or reels, so it wouldn't be outlandish if they knew of her that way.
>>10889776>>10889813most of us got over it. get with the times, grandma.
>>10889907> attitude > personality pick one retard
>>10889568not in that colorway.
>>10889930In the cupcakes there is. In all the colorways there are. AP doesn’t just change primary pattern elements because the background color changed.
>>10889906You look like shit and it doesn't go with lolita. Gtfo egl, sparklezit.
>>10889565I swear I’ve seen this booger girl before, how many times has she been on the ita thread?
>>10889943even so, matching the lavender to a microscopic speck on the print doesn't make it suddenly not unbalanced and clashy
>>10889967>microscopicthe lavender is decently prominent on the print, it's the polka dot pattern and frosting and foil color on some of the cupcakes
>>10889967While nonna posted the wrong colorway here, >>10889979, they're right about the amount of lavender in the print.https://lolibrary.org/items/ap-whipped-magic-switching-jskEither >>10889565 is a shit picture or the dress is really faded.
>>10888371is this that freckled zelda girl??
>>10889565she would look better in gothic
>>10889992i think the real issue is that pulling a color from a piece isn't really how you make a good coord. it's mistake a lot of lolitas make though. while lav is in the print, the secondary color is the darker pink, which doesn't look as good with lots of lav, same with the lime green. you have to take color balance from the piece itself and add to it. most prints have primary, secondary and tertiary colors so you really need to keep in mind what color is what to get a good balance. adding too much of a color used in it sparsely is going to make it look off. for that coord adding the lav in the socks was a great choice but everything lav is overboard and the pink blouse would look better if it were lighter pink actually, too break up the dark pink on the bodice. i know some people hate white blouses but here it would have worked, or a paler pink, with a pale pink bolero and darker pink shoes and then lav accessories would have made it perfect.
>>10890084Ditch the compression shirt giving her sausage arms and this would be fine for casual imo.
The dresses of DML's new "jirai lolita" subbrand are so fucking ugly and I bet all the overseas jirai will flood the lolita tags with them soon.
>>10890103Good lord they’ve somehow recreated Milanoo in 2023.
>>10889947how does it feel being the minority in opinion now. no one cares about your shitty subjective tastes. might be time to start getting some cosmetic procedures, grandma
>>10889967holy shit, we're in a permanent summer of people who can't coordinate. stick to old school, faggot. seems to be easier for your lil pea brain to comprehend
>>10890131Nayrt but I’m telling the Seattle comm you said faggot.
>>10890084This fatty-chan isn’t even trying to wear lolita in a acceptable way lmao
>>10890130>start getting some cosmetic proceduresMy entire back is scarified. Sorry you're too much of a pussy to get anything more interesting than a few shiny faux pimples.>no one cares about your shitty subjective tastesYet here you are, tard raging.
>>10890130Stop mooing, farm animal
>>10890054anon anon was replying to-- this is what i was getting at when i said "microscopic". it's an accent color at best, and while she could've maybe used it for accessories, i think using it for the bolero and socks is disproportionate to how prominent the lavender is in the print. i agree with you that using pink for the blouse/shoes and lavender for accessories would've been much better. i also think pink socks/bolero and yellow shoes could've worked with lavender accessories.
>>10890084i think she needs head accessories and a proper blouse or cutsew (her wrists seem too plain, but i don't think wrist cuffs would work). atepie makes them in her size. maybe a necklace, but otherwise this is fine for casual gothic.
>>10890102if the lace didn't look so cheap i wouldn't hate this. but if the lace is that cheap looking i can't imagine what the fabric and construction is like.
>>10890249Yellow appears in even smaller quantities throughout the print, anon. Your LARP is showing.
>>10890254nayrt but the dress she is wearing clearly has yellow more prominently than lavender
>>10890254anon you may be colorblind, the dress is almost 50% yellow.
>>10890313Actually, sounds like you might be if you’re seeing all that neon green the same as the tiny bits of light yellow. It’s okay , you can still live a well-rounded and fulfilling life having the same color vision as a dog.
>>10890319sorry you got posted, but no amount of nitpicking advice is going to make the coord less ita.
>>10890250This is absolutely not gothic and not fine
>>10890319How are you STILL here defending yourself days later? Touch grass
>>10890132The Seattle com is full of rude bitches anyways, as an ex-seattle com member, they can all go choke on sh*t
>>10890596imagine seeing that you're the same shape & size as the literal pumpkin decor and still posting the pic
>>10887406>>10887462Even in the heavily edited photo the whole coord looks cheap-ish. She looks cute but again, heavy editing.
>>10890639Close-up pic does show the QUALITY a bit more. Gotta give it to Clolitas for making taobao coords look good enough to bait itas into buying stuff.
>>10891161whats sad is this could be a cute little halloween coord if her face and hair wasnt fucked. (and not in a cute little quirky undead way, this pic looks like she just finished shooting up so heroin)
I swear this person doesn’t even try
>>10891262i get so irrationally mad every time i have to see this thing
>>10891750Compare the look to her teen years and it’s sad how the mighty have fallen. It’s crazy how people still watch her after the infamous DID cake and mental hospital takedown.
>>10891751She was still ita back then she was just cuter and less fat.
>>10891786Why when there's better shoes right beside her?>>10891913She said herself that's not why she left public social media, stop spreading rumors.
>>10891750>>10891751I wish she would stay away, her deranged skinwalker fans are the last thing our community needs
>>10891750>>10891751is she wearing some kind of misty sky replica/knock off?
>>10892223You would think that with her age she would be able to dress herself at least decently, but 90% of the time she just looks messy.
>>10892189it's a Taobao XXL plastic bag that's clearly inspired by misty sky yeah
I need this bitchs house to burn so she can’t touch Lolita for at least a while
>>10892311what a train wreck. you'd think with all that youtube money she could afford the real thing
>>10892465why would she just cut two big holes in the front? it doesn't improve her costume at all >>10892619her views have tanked since she started making DID and autism LARP content, she doesn't have any money left
>>10892654Idk it’s the same cunt that was posted a few threads back for vandalizing an usakumya
piss-yellow petticoat ita with their patron saint
I was just looking for pictures of wa lolita coords with a more yukata style, then google drops this on me.
Reddit pervert with a “doll fetish” featuring (her?) disgusting feet. Why are people upvoting this they can’t be that retarded??
>>10893821Barf. Right on that moldy looking carpet too.