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Im going to go on a con with my friends soon enough and i was wondering, are all those stories of people doing lewd stuff with cosplayers legit?

If so what is it i should look out for if i want to meet people and get laid in a con?i wont be cosplaying btw if that matters
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>>10819973
Yes
>https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph60fd3ed770ab5
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if you have to ask, you ain't getting laid
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>>10819973
dont do it. it's not worth it. con whores are drug-addled and STD-riddled. look to getting laid at a european one if you ever travel. also, you dont want to deal with the fake rep you get if you seperate with a chick on good terms.
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>>10819973
I will tell you your selection of women at cons
>Stuck up Instagram girls (only here for attention and money, not for you)
>FtM troons who will accuse you of rape
>Asexuals who will accuse you of rape
>Ugly fat girls
>Girls with boyfriends
>Insane BPD girls who will accuse you of rape
>Insane girls devoted to their husbandos and fanfics who will accuse you of rape
>Girls with legit trauma who will accuse you of rape
>Women who tease guys and will purposely have you fighting with 10 other guys over her in some hellish gladiator arena for her sadistic enjoyment
>Underage girls
>Radical feminists who hate you
>Lesbians who are annoyed by you
>Normal girls but who are very shy and will not put out unless you are their partner (but they are impossible to talk to because they're so shy, you'd have to be introduced to them by a friend)
>A small portion of average looking to attractive girls who will fuck you. This is less than 1% of the con and the chances you meet one are purely by luck, good luck
>Whores
You will only realistically have a chance with the last two. Whores can be found by networking into the party groups and discords. But whores will fuck anyone, engage in orgies, are riddled with STDs, and also have hundreds of other guys ready to kill for some pussy. You can get laid at cons but most people who get laid already have a partner. Plus, you better find a room without roommates. It is far easier to just meet people, go on dates with them and get into a relationship. It is better to meet a girl in IKEA.
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>>10820025
>It is better to meet a girl in IKEA.

stfu, you're going to flood the ikea pickup scene
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>>10819973
i have no idea how to meet girls irl. the only girls i talk to are egirls i meet in overwatch and league. i think ill always be single at cons unless i can convince one of them to meet me irl but that would just be awkward as fuck
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>>10820047
"Nice cosplay, [c] is my favorite character]"
If she's interested she'll carry the convo if she's not she'll brush you off
Why are guys so autustic
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>>10819973
I will break it down for you:

1. Don't be ugly
2. Brush your teeth
3. Bathe/smell nice
4. Show genuine interest in the girls cosplay/character if she's cosplaying.
5. Involve Alcohol at the earliest point possible
6. Have your own room.

Bonus tips:
>i wont be cosplaying btw if that matters

7. Cosplay, you lazy fuck.
8. Pick Flavor of the month Husbando character even if you don't care about them.
9. Follow previous tips
10. Let girls mire you

cosplay girls really are that easy.
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>>10820059
Shit advice
You don't want to cosplay flavor of the month character you want to cosplay the type of character the types of girls you're into lust over
For me personally it's fujobait
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>>10820059
Not OP, but what if I only have two weeks for Ecchi Con and have absolutely no time to get some ragtag cosplay shit ready?

I'm also spending my nights at my cousin's place she got an office room I'm bunking at, are my chances of bringing someone back there a big no? Should I really get my own hotel room?
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I answered your Q in >>>/adv/27775835
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>>10820071
oops
>>>/adv/27775863
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>>10819973
OP here's the actual secret no one will tell you

Firstly you gotta lower your standards to "I think they took a showa but it's not a deal breaker"
Secondly lie your ass off about what you banged, 2/10 with some funny eye stuff. No she wasn't with a lazy eye she wasy eye'n ya ballz

That's it I've been to a ton of cons that's what I see most of the time when people brag about sex, you ain't getting a porn star but you made the hole your goal.
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>>10820069
>are my chances of bringing someone back there a big no? Should I really get my own hotel room?

bruh, no girl is gonna wanna travel long distance from the con area with a stranger.

Hooking up at cons means hooking up at cons. If she can't do the dirty and then easily skulk away back down to the con center, it aint happening.
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I think a lot of the issue is just nerves
I kinda struggle talking to anyone that's in a group
Anyway to overcome that?
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>>10820092
wing man. hell even a wing woman or couple. they start a group conversation then you start one with the girl.
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>>10819973
Be white, hit on asian girls.
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Cosplay masked characters. A lot of girls have mask kinks nowadays. They’ll want to get to know you and then just don’t fuck up and win them with “””personality”””. If you’re ugly underneath the mask just be funny, girls love funny confident guys.
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>>10820115
actually the Asian girls here only want other Asian guys. that only works with Asian girls back in Asia
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>>10820119
I don't know where you live but on the east coast in the states the asian girls all spread their legs for any white guy in the vicinity sans asian supremacists.
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>>10820059
>Don't be ugly
Welp. I'm fucked then. Sucks to get filtered on the first step.
Thanks for the advice, tho.
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>>10820117
D-does it work with a Kamen Rider cosplay or is that too nerd?
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>>10820117
This is a bad idea unless you're ugly
Any time I'm alone at a con I get asked out and invited indirectly to fuck by girls
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>>10820122
>y sans asian supremacists.
I doubt that
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How many more of these threads are we gonna have? I've had some luck with girls at cons and here's my advice:

>>10820124
If you think you're ugly, here are some changes to fix that,
- Get a hairstyle that suits you
- If you wear glasses, get stylish glasses that fits your face frame. If you think you look better without them then wear contacts
- Do a daily skin AM/PM care routine. Cleanser, toner, serum, eye cream, and moisturizer is really all you need. Exfoliate once a week. Especially do this if you have acne problems.
- In addition to brushing your teeth, use mouthwash, floss, and a tongue scraper.
- Drink plenty of water and cut off sugar. It makes your skin look more smooth and shiny and less puffy and leathery.
- Workout like crazy and have a proper diet. You're in a sea with skinny/skinnyfat/fat guys and being toned allows you to stand out a lot. Losing bodyfat can bring out your jawline. If you're too poor to afford a gym, calisthenics is the way to go.
- If you're not cosplaying that day because you're a lazy, wear some stylish clothes that suits you. Streetwear is the current fashion trend.
- Fix your posture and stand up straight.
- Maintain eye contact and don't be obnoxious when talking to the girl. Learn basic social cues.
- Don't be a mouth breather and breathe through your damn nose.
- Extra: If you're over 21 years old and have a nerdy wallet, toss that shit out and get a money clip or a leather wallet.
Doing all this can really change someone from a 2 to a 7 with ease and I speak from experience. I'm 6'0"/1.82m and while I was lucky to be tall (height isn't everything), I didn't pull anyone since I was an acne ridden skinnyfat slob with a shitty haircut, poor fashion sense and a mouth breather on top of that. After years of doing all the advice I gave, more girls notices me and approach me even when I'm not at a con.
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>>10820175
>- If you wear glasses, get stylish glasses that fits your face frame. If you think you look better without them then wear contacts
In my case, I notice that I look worse without glasses

> Skin care
Gotcha, gonna do that.

Yeah, I left sugar weeks ago.

> workout like crazy

Absolutely, I am still fat, but losing 10 kgs is definitely a improvement.

> - Extra: If you're over 21 years old and have a nerdy wallet, toss that shit out and get a money clip or a leather wallet.

My godmother gave me one, I'm definitely using it.
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>>10820177
>Yeah, I left sugar weeks ago.
>Absolutely, I am still fat, but losing 10 kgs is definitely a improvement.
Keep it up bro, we're all gonna make it
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>>10820025
>go to con as my favorite character
>lots of girls approach me to compliment my cosplay and chat
>one girl even asks if I can walk around the con with her, I oblige
>never break character the entire time
>never once try to hit on any women
>the idea of getting laid doesn't even enter my mind
>go home having had fun at the con
Feels good to not be a porn addicted freak.
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>>10820047
I would like to live such a life and open the veins in the bath.
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>>10820183
they definitely don't want to be around you after seeing you in character for that long, let alone fuck.
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>>10820181
I wonder if I go there to at least meet male weeb friends).

Its three hours away from my city, so IDK if its prudent to do that. Too much cost.

There are smaller cons on my current city, so I may better wait until there, then meet more male weebs until someone can taught me to do good cosplay (and I lose more weight, I need to lose another 10 KGs since now)
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You leave the purity of cons alone! Conventions are for friendships and relaxation, not you heathen hanky panky fornication.
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>>10820231
I want both friends and fornication :(
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>>10820090
There goes my hope and dreams.

Anon, do you think I can at least make out with some cute girls at those things that happen in the night? I've never attended one and would be satisfied just making out with someone, getting her attention or whatever.
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>>10819973
Bring 1000 US dillars. Walk up to a hot cosplayer who maek ur pee pee hard. Say, “i can offer 500 if you wanna (want to) party in costume.”

If they say no or ew no, walk away. It they say yes, go up to the room. Then you say, I want the works/bj/anal whatever. They will haggle. I would not go above 750 bucks but youre likely a faggot so you can go up to 1000 if you need.

You will prolly go soft or cum in 3 seconds. If shes a pro e thot, she might ve able to solve hardness, but if you cum to quick just pretend you didnt and try to cum again.

Even if ur fat ugly and autistic if you try enough it will work
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>>10820025
>>Radical feminists who hate you

Let's correct that

>>Radical feminists who hate you AND will accuse you of rape
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Be attractive, don't be unattractive. Fucking women is literally impossible as a average non-fat white guy, they're chad only
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>>10820253
funny, I'm an average kinda fat white guy and I've fucked women.
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Have an instagram and start talking with people before and after the con.
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>>10820258
No you're no, no you haven't
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>>10820025
>Underage girls
And there you have it that's the only normal girl from that list you can pick so go for it.
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>>10819973
Cosplay as a husbando character and be decently attractive. Then the cosplay slits will swarm to you.
There are some real horny sluts at these cons but beware the underage ones. Wherever the big saturday con afterparty is- go there. Girls get horny at cons, especially the ones who wear slutty cosplay. If you cosplay as their husband, they will come to you.
>sauce: former professional male cosplay model who got paid to go to these things
My tip this coming year is to go dressed as Lloyd Forger from Spy x Family
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>>10820297
>go dressed as Lloyd Forger from Spy x Family
What if I have taste (and am ugly)
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>>10820239
>Anon, do you think I can at least make out with some cute girls at those things that happen in the night? I've never attended one and would be satisfied just making out with someone, getting her attention or whatever.
Yes, as long as you aren't a spa. Go to the afterparty. That is when the sluts get drunk and wild.
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>>10820147
This. As long ad you aren't extremely ugly and smelly, con sluts will come to you.
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>>10820298
If you're ugly, wear a comedy cosplay, but not the kind that repels women. Or cosplay in a snorlax or pikachu onesie and go after the pokemon fetishist girls.
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>>10820298
Alot of these con girls are shameless exhibitionists and just as big coomers as weeb guys. I believe in you anons. Ss long ad you aren't obese, getting con slutd is extremely easy. The question is do you want con sluts? I've found that so many of them that look hot in cosplay are distinctly average looking when you take it off them. That said, a lot of con girls are sexual freaks.
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>>10820300
>As long ad you aren't extremely ugly
>1. Don't be ugly
lol money trumps all bro.
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>>10820320
This only applies to trophy wives and girlfriends who actually get a lot of money. No one cares about money for a con one night stand, you're not getting fucking married kek
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>>10820324
In my experience money goes a long way and doesn't really have to be all that expensive. the hotel is the most expensive part of any con. At nearly every con you can find that girl who really can't afford to be there. She'll usually be doing a group cosplay with friends. If she talks about being in a stuffed room and coffee pot ramen that's your girl.

If you buy that plushie or wall scroll she's admiring and give it to her (don't offer just do it) and offer to pay for dinner at a decent place and drop in to the conversation about how you have your own room. It also helps if you know where there is a good room party. Artist Alley parties are usually the best.

Stay the hell away from people advertising con orgies and people who are doing drugs. The con orgies is usually one fat chick and 20+ dudes. The people getting trashed drunk and doing drugs? That's where you're going to get accused of rape/sexual assault the next day.
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>>10820183
Excluding the 'never braking character' and the amount of girls being greatly reduced, that's how I roll on cons. I get carried away by walking and wanting to take pictures that sex is deleted out of my mind. And to think I have a huge libido.
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>mfw I live in a shitty country to cosplay and none of that happens here

Fuck Brazil. If it wasn't enough to have the problems the country has, we can't have sex in conventions or look out for that because everyone seems to be dating. And if they're not, they're not interested in dating.

Note that I said dating. So few girls are willing to do quick fucks or friends with benefits. Often for a good reason because they're in fact scumbags or have something in their personalities that is truly unbearable.

I'm going to die alone, goddammit.
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>>10820398
Escape to freedomistan
You already speak American
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>>10820060
What if i can only feasibly cosplay as a Ugly Bastard?
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>>10820626
Cosplay an ugly bastard that looks like you. My extremely fat white friend cosplayed The Major from Hellsing in 2019 and people ate him up.
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>>10820362

I would say dont give stuff to girls unless you are guaranteed something and even when that the girl might just ran off with the free stuff and never do enought to compensate you for it.

Dont buy stuff for people I had to learn it the hard way.
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>>10820183
Based in-character cosplayer. Granted, I know a coomer that does the same thing since he simply enjoys cosplaying and people playing along to their character, which suppresses his urges in a way.
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>>10820635
Poorfaggots NGMI.

if you don't have spending cash for fun, including women, you'll never be able to have a wife and kid.
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>>10820635
If you expect something in return then it's not a gift, it's prostitution. Your head and heart are in the wrong place.

I'm talking about showing a girl a good time on a bad day. That gift which is unexpected can make her day. Watching a girl squee about getting that thing she really wanted is enough for me. Same with getting a good meal when she's expecting to eat crap for dinner. I don't expect anything in return other than to see a happy face.
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>>10820183
Good man. I hope you prosper.
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>>10820362
>and people who are doing drugs
Pretty damn hard in the CA/west coast con scene these days. I really miss the old days when it was just drinking, shit was actually fun, now "room parties" are just a bunch of losers getting high and sitting around in a stupor.
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>>10820700
Wife and kids are outdated and wasting money on users is an even bigger fools errand.
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>>10820025
>Insane BPD girls who will accuse you of rape
This one happened to one of my boys
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>>10820297
>My tip this coming year is to go dressed as Lloyd Forger from Spy x Family
Man, but Lloyd is so boring, and this is from someone that likes formal wear
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>>10821032
Wife and kids are outdated? So what do you do?
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anyone here have any advice for a woman? i kind of want to get laid at a con too, or at least asked to a room party…i don’t know if i give off the wrong vibes, though, because the only men who follow me around and try to talk to me are mega spergs…
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>>10821048
That's why I always record my sexual encounters and make sure to get enthusiastic consent on camera and inform the woman she's being fimed. I've had a few e-thots change their mind when I bragged about fucking them for cash or drugs, and the cops backed the fuck off when my lawyers produced the video.
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>>10821124
Get some fake tits and put on lots of makeup. The more unapproachable you look the more likely the betas get filtered and the chads respond
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>>10821124
Post face, you must be fat or extremely off putting. Even 5/10's get to live as queens at a con
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>>10821146
i’m decently cute and 98 lbs kek. inb4 lies, you don’t have to believe me but my face or body are not the issue. i wear lolita to most cons, so maybe that’s why i don’t get invited to parties. i won’t be taking >>10821127’s advice but maybe i do look too uptight for the room party crowd.
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>>10821149
>i wear lolita to most cons
Nope, that ain't it at all, tons of guys like that shit. If not uptight maybe you've got RBF which most dudes will not approach
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>>10821154
>RBF
I'm not the quoted anon but wtf is that
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>>10821155
Resting bitch face, personally I love it when a cute girl looks like she wants to fuck up the sorry shit that approaches her, but objectively it'll keep most people at bay, doubly so at a con where most dudes are passive betas
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I'm fine at conversation and can talk to anybody, but how do you transition small talk into "Yo wanna go back to my room so I can clap those cheeks" without ending up on a twitlonger
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>>10821156
Oh, something like pic related, I get it.
Even though one can't change how their face looks when they're "regular", it's true that people looks at someone and judge if they look angry or look intimidating to some degree.

>>10821157
>but how do you transition small talk into "Yo wanna go back to my room so I can clap those cheeks" without ending up on a twitlonger

It's all about progression. Compliment cosplay, then their actual looks, and check for interest.
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>>10821123
>So what do you do?
Live your life. With no financial burdens, smash a few women here and there ( make sure you get a vasectomy if you do that) and travel the world experiencing life to the fullest with the finest wines, food and a nice quiet home to go back to after the fun.
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>>10821162
Like that, yeah
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>>10821124
Just don't approach guys
Nothing annoys me more than being approached
Sex is disgusting
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Be a Saint just like me
/thread
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>>10821173
I do all of that and have a wife and kid tho.

U sound upset because ur poor tbqh
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>>10821149
I think your problem is the lolita. It's associated with a lot of fetishes and obnoxious behavior which will keep most normies steering clear hence the sperg lords being the only people who approach you. It also isn't a great conversation starter since most guys don't know anything about it.

Cosplay on the other hand is an instant conversation starter because you're waving your nerd flag high. If chat with a guy and make a quick connection ask them what they're up to next. If it sounds fun ask if you can go along. From there if the conversation goes well make plans to meet up later for food or a few drinks. Things will just flow naturally from there. However there are a few don'ts.

DON'T ask him to come with you to something he's not interested in. It's just going to get awkward and be a bad time for everyone involved.
DON'T ask him to pay for anything. This is an immediate deal breaker for most guys. Wait for him to offer and if he doesn't pay for yourself.
DON'T leave the venue unless you have a way of getting back on your own. There's just way too many things that can go wrong here.
DON'T have sex in a room that someone is sharing with multiple other people. Even if he says his roommates are cool with it, they probably aren't and this will lead to an embarrassing and awkward encounter.
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>>10820992
>Pretty damn hard in the CA/west coast con scene these days. I really miss the old days when it was just drinking, shit was actually fun, now "room parties" are just a bunch of losers getting high and sitting around in a stupor.
This isn't just a west coast thing. I've been to cons all over the US and you'll always find this group of people at every single one. I never understood getting so drunk that they spend most of the next day recovering at a con. You can do that with your friends any weekend at home and don't have to pay for travel expenses, hotel room and con badge for the privilege to do so.
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>>10821149
>i kind of want to get laid at a con too
Just be forward and make sure whatever guy you're being forward with is single first. Contrary to whatever incels posting here say, most guys don't want to play games they don't aren't aware they're playing, and extremely clear messages completely trump any kind of ambiguity for the sake of some weird social dance.
>or at least asked to a room party
Your best bet would be to honestly ask whatever of your friends knows someone who is a big party animal and just ask that person if they're hosting or attending a party at X con either a short while before the con or during the con. If you're a female, you could also literally just shimmy on into a loud enough room party and unless you look extremely suspect, most of the swarms of dudes hosting it will at least give you a space.
> the only men who follow me around and try to talk to me are mega spergs
Because most men who follow women around are spergs with zero social skills, so your best bet is to act rather than be a dainty little flower waiting to be plucked.

>>10821149
> i wear lolita to most cons
This is where your main issue is. As a big room party dude who has also had plenty of con tail, I can tell you right now that if I see a Lolita attending a con, she is the LAST person I am inviting to do anything with. Lolitas just have too much of a rep of being uptight, cold as ice, and eagerly rejecting anybody who tries to talk to them just to spread gossip and talk around behind people's backs. You can probably get a million miles further wearing a taobao cosplay of some FOTM garbage while doing the exact same things you've been doing. Nobody is going to walk up to a lolita and say "Hey me and the bros are gonna get shots and play King's Cup, you wanna come with?" .
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i dont care about getting laid how do i talk to people at cons?
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As a cosplayer myself I guess there are quite easy rules to increase your look

1. Font go for girls in expensive or elaborate cosplays. We won't fuck in them and probably don't have any energy left after wearing them all day. Go for the d.va jumpsuits, cat girl maid .. easy to wear and not too bad if it gets dirty.

2. Don't go for the half nude cosplayere they were already asked a shot ton of times and are highly annoyed by secual harassment. They either already fucked 20 guys and carry every std you can think of or are so annoyed the block off when you even show the littlest interest.

3. Look for the girls without friend groups. Like I won't be a slut and say yes to sex infrint of all my friends. When I'm alone I'm also looking more for someone to clinge on and walk around. There's a hole that you can fill (okay that wasn't intended)

4. Don't expect to get laid...
Seriously Noone wanna fuck a needy nerd who literally looks like please please fuck me... also your chances are not great. There might be a few girls open to having sex on cons but there the minority most of them are there for fun. Don't weird out them who are there normally and yeah there are seit ton of guys down to fuck compare to the few girls

5. Go to the aftershow party..
Like there are all over 18 in best case so it's safer for you. People are more open, the main event is over so I don't have to think about getting the cosplay back on after wards. It's literally best moment to initiate things. If the con has one.. if not yeah rather against end of von things might get easier.
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>>10820049
cause normies have a social lufe and they dont come here or to cons
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>>10821284
>Like there are all over 18 in best case so it's safer for you.
anon i...
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>>10821284
Girls in basic cosplays are usually underage lol
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I'm starting to become an older con goer. Do I just gotta find the daddy issue ones?
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>>10821326
>I'm starting to become an older con goer. Do I just gotta find the daddy issue ones?
Not really. Most women find older men attractive and you're talking about a one night stand not a long term relationship. But there does reach a point where it becomes creepy if you're hitting on 18-20 y/o if you look older.
Depending on how well you age you could be good to hit on younger girls (make sure they're at least 18) until you're 30. After that you just need to change your approach. You can still ask for pictures, compliment their cosplays and talk to them about their favorite anime and such but you need to wait for them to make the first move. Or you could just shift your focus to more mature looking women and continue with business as usual.
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>>10821235
>>10821261
yeah, i had a feeling lolita was the issue. i don’t really have RBF, or at least i think i don’t, as many people approach me at cons. it’s just that none of the men who talk to me seem to be the partying type, which is disappointing as i spend 80% of my con weekend crossed. i also attend alone, which is why i’ve been confused by the kind of people i attract & lack of invites, but this does clear things up. i have no intention of not wearing lolita just to score a lay or party invite, but the conversational tips are helpful; thank you!
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>>10821369
>i have no intention of not wearing lolita just to score a lay or party invite
Nor should you. If that's your thing then you do you. However you know you can change your clothes right? Even if you don't have a room most cons have changing areas these days. You can still wear lolita and do all of your events, meetups and get some floor time then change into something more casual for the evening.
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>>10820025
>who will accuse you of rape
A common trope I see

>It is better to meet a girl in IKEA.
lmao is this true?
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>>10821395
yeah
1) bitches love buff dudes that help them move heavy shit
2) furniture implies a stable living situation/employment. it's an automatic filter for crazies.
3) but it's cheap particleboard furniture, so if you've got a bankroll, its looks like a flex.
4) if their significant other is not helping them buy furniture, then that relationship is dooooooooomed
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>>10821401
18yo girls usually live with their parents
Why would you date older
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>>10821401
literally taking notes
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>>10821406
On what, how to get an old wrinkly granny?
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>>10821407
Believe it or not, some people actually look for a mature partner who you can spend your life with.
(Not saying that I'm gonna do that right now)
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>>10821407
NTAYRT but lots of people moving into their first apartment or house shop at IKEA. Sorry you still live with your parents and can't afford to shop there.
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>>10821416
Bruh Ikea is shit quality for poor people
I only date girls whose parents make 6 figures, somebody's gotta support me
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>>10821326
Man, now more than ever is the best time to be an older dude looking for younger women.
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>>10820175
>- Do a daily skin AM/PM care routine. Cleanser, toner, serum, eye cream, and moisturizer is really all you need. Exfoliate once a week. Especially do this if you have acne problems.
what kinda gay shit is this
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>>10821406
5) furniture shopping tells you where they are on the aesthetic vs. utilitarian spectrum.
6) since it's a relatively large spend, it tells you whether she is budget conscious/wasteful (if she's wifey material or not).
7) if you are buying something, then it lets you display your sense of style without explicitly peacocking. it also gives you a warning if your tastes clash in a more meaningful (permanent) way than music or movies.

captcha STDYY (STD? Yes Yes)
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>>10821433
Ikea is trash though
Anyone going there is poor
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>>10821435
so what? that just means they're more "grateful"
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>>10821436
Grateful for what
My wife makes 6 figs, I'm a househusband
You sound like a low quality fat ugly guy
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>>10821385
>However you know you can change your clothes right?
do i seem that retarded? yes, anon, i know. kek. lolita is not cosplay; it’s not a costume, and it’s what i feel most confident in. i wear lolita to the grocery store, so why would i take it off for the evening, especially when the masquerade is usually on fridays and the rave on saturdays?

do i really have no chance of being invited to a party as a lolita? is there anything i can do to increase my chances, other than being very forward as an anon mentioned?
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So if I understand this whole thread correctly, the steps are as follows:
1) Cosplay as a popular character or appealing character and keep track of hygiene and appearances. Look good in your cosplay, not like you raided the discount aisle.
2) Talk to people who are on their own. Talk about stuff they may have an interest in such as their cosplay, clothes, line that they're waiting in.
3) For guys: ask them what you want. If you want to hook up, ask them to hook up. If you want to hang, ask them to hang.
3b) for girls, idk. If you ask them outright, it can make a lot of them run. So maybe ask if they're cool with hanging at the con and then ask them after. Mileage will vary.
4) Go back to a hotel nearby or the con hotel. Those are going to be popular. If the hotel is too far from the event, you'll probably get shot down.
5) 18+ events and night time are the best times to ask around since that's when it's the party crowd. The bars at the cons are also pretty great places to hangout.
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>>10821439
>18+
Age of consent is 16 or 17 in most states
Don't be a pussy



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