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The actual title was meant to be "#20: Whoops, There Were Two #18 Threads Edition". Guess it's now "I Accidentally Created My First Tripcode" Edition"
>>10757398Hips and chest should be roughly 1×1 to appear feminine?Hips are about 110ish cm and chest is 105ishCurrently, with pads, both are about a meter and with my outfit it looks really real For reference, i am 170cm tall, my chest is 75 cm and my hips are 90cm, my shoulders are almost exactly 1m
>>10758155The tita themselves are a 15cm styrofoam ball split in half, that means 7.5cm long and 30cm wide total
>>10758157damn I didn't think of styrofoam balls thats a perfect idea to save money thank you
>>10755747This was overtightened but corsets are comfy.
>>10758163Just after you cut it put wood glue or something on the base so it doesn't flake off. No way you'll be able to make a perfect clean cut so pick out anything that sticks out too much beforehand, holes don't matter
>>10758499Ok update on the styrofoam cause it can warp.Hadn't really used that big of a ball before so clothes that otherwise weren't so tight kept pulling them harder than usual.I guess keep that in mind when going bigger. Idk if they actually shrunk or just got a bit deformedAlso what is a good craft store material that i can get to simualte skin? I think i'll br showing cleavage and i'd rather make that bit myself. Also gives me an excuse to look at pictures of boobs
>>10758520You guys be the judge but there is obvious chafing and warping on the side where it was in contact with the other boob (left)This might actually give me a better result cause it makes it less obvioudly circular and more "pressed together" but idk. I made them bigger cause they just didn't make my shoulders look that small so that might just bring back the issue
>>10758499Turns out you can buy half sphere styrofoam balls too and not need any cutting!
>>10758520Easy-ish way to make cleavage with spandex.
>>10758737At what kind of store can i get it?
>>10758737What materials are all of those I can't read it
Who are the easiest characters to cosplay as for a beginner?
Anyone got any tips for presenting as a trap?stuff like posture, mannerisms, specific makeup tipsI feel like a lot of traps pass better than a lot of transwomen and I wanna take on that challenge
>>10759391foam board and soft upholstery/cushion foam/sponge.
>>10759391Here's a video tutorial of the same method:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m3_51E05Ifw
>>10760054Walk with feet stepping on the same line, and with shorter steps. Speech is an entire thing that I'm not even gonna get in, there's enough videos online to help.But dear God cover your shoulders and hands best you can
>>10760254ThanksI get how to do shoulders but what about hands?Wear long sleeves all the time?
>>10760290Longer sleeves, lolita wrist cuff type deals, opera gloves, or some sort of sleeve thing.Cam whoring aside, something like these. Had a shirt I hacked the arms off, and found when worn backward, they made a great forearm/wrist concealer.The gloves were separate. Just what I had on for that picture
>>10760254>But dear God cover your shoulders and hands best you canHmmm. I have seen my share of male and female shoulders and hands, and I can say that both are quite diverse and you can't automatically (except in some rare cases) say that some hands or shoulders belong to one group and not the other. So I don't think that advice should be so generic. Maybe change it to something like "Cover your shoulders and hands if they are too big/muscular, unless you are going for a big\muscular girl impression"?
>>10760466Some range finding scopes use 19inches as a reference because from man to man it's a very consistent width.If a male wears spaghetti straps, it's damn sure to stick out
>>10760523>19inchesBut I'm 15.8"...
Finally a new thread.
Doing a jinx soon. I am very tall 6 foot, 135lbs so I feel like I have the scrawny down, but is there any way to make the shoulders appear less broad? The top having so much bare skin worries me a bit. Also need to look into how to do a good girl voice. I have put a ton of work and money into making the props / wig / outfit so hopefully it goes smoothly but it never really does lol. The gf has been practicing the makeup routine and while it's not perfect it is improving.
>>10760579>is there any way to make the shoulders appear less broad?You are in luck, my friend. Diagonal lines towards the neck make shoulders appear narrower, and, guess what, they walk hand in hand winth Jinx's designs.
>>10760584Nice that's good, is it worth using anything to hide midriff stubble I can shave but some tiny bits of stubble still remain.
>>10760620You can just pluck them all. It will take a lot of time, but will look smooth for a couple of days at least.
>>10760774Plucking will take forever. Wax.
>>10760990>>10760774epilating works as well
>>10760254I think showing shoulders is fine desu. It's about how you present yourself
Not sure if this is the right place, I don't want to break any rulesBut does anyone have a recommendation for where to get a good 2b costumeI'm planning on crossplaying as 2b for AX
>>10761393is that a dude cause damn
>>10761469Yeah and I think I found a good costume and bootsBoots were a real issue because I already have big man feet but I eventually found one that appears to have my sizeReally excited for this, will keep things posted
Do y'all do hip padding? I have been debating making my own vs just buying some slider shorts eith big hip padding that look smooth vs something else.
>>10761472Can I get a link to where you found it? Not gonna be at AX but have been trying to find a decent 2b costume for months now.
>>10761926yeah ofcI found mine on a website, cosplayshow the $74 version of the costumeit seems a little sketchy, but I found multiple reviews for both the website and the costume itself and both were very goodI ordered the largest female size, and other than the hip which I can pad, I think I actually would fit it quite wellI probably will also do some modifications, the gloves don't seem impossible to make if they don't fit my man handsthe boots were a much harder thing to find in my size, I wear a mens US 11.5-12, which is about a women's size 14I couldn't find any women's boots in size 13 or larger, but I eventually found these from what appears to be a bit of a foot fetishist site which carried 14skinda worried about them not being wide enough, or my calves being too big, but some of the reviews are from men and it seems goodI live really close to where it was shipped from so those boots are arriving today and I'll be able to see how well they fit and ill post my findings here
>>10761957Got the boots just nowThey fit really wellBoth fortunately and unfortunately the black "boot" part is just kinda a nylon stockingBut overall I'm really happy with this being my only optionIf you've got smaller feet I'd recommend looking for normal thighhigh boots, but if you can't this is still a great option
I like to dress up as 50s housewife and than larp in my flat and clean and bake cake (i know, i know...)The problem: I cannot find shoes that match my outfit. Every women shoes for mens size are mostly extravagant or outright fetish.Is there a site where i can find boots that look like this in a bigger size?
>>10761512Here's a good video on how to make your own-Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_z6ct7IcaIPart 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibYTgw6LUIU&t=0sBut I find usually use thinner (1") foam and taper the edges even more- at least 3" in from each edge and 6" up from the bottom.
>>10757398Recommendations for any corset or waist nippers?I don't want to spend a bunch of money on some cheap one on Amazon that would just fall apart
>>10761957Thanks so much bro, I appreciate the details too.
>>10761512Just find some foam, a mattress is fine.Cut it down until you have a boars about 5cm wide, then cut out the rough shape and split it in half. Use a bread knife and scissorss. After that just taper itThe other anon gives good tutorials
>>10761472Wait that's you?
>>10762523No that's not meThat's just a random(male) cosplayer that I'm using for referenceAlso holy shit I just realized, I am 6'6" when wearing heelsLuckily I think 2B is one of the few characters that can get away with it
Heya I'm back.Tried applying makeup, what do you think? Is it overdone? Too light? Is the color wrong?I had eyeliners, eyeshadows, blush, and lipstick on the picture but somehow the camera doesn't really pick it up even though I think it'll be too much if I add more :sJust an okay/weird comment will also help. Thanks!
>>10762743Also, I'm planning to go to a con like this. Is it weird? Will I get hatecrimed?
>>10762743>>10762744I'm not a makeup expert so I can't point out what needs to be improvedBut I think you look goodIf you didn't tell me you were crossplaying I wouldn't knowYou just look like a normal girl
>>10762743looks nice! didn't realize what thread this was in until i scrolled up, so i didn't realize you were crossplaying, as a girl i think the makeup looks normal and not over the top. cute shade of lipstick. your wig may be a bit shiny but it could be the lighting as well
Is this a safe first crossplay? I'm latino and have the skin tone I think. Looking convincingly like a girl is something I want but really I just don't want to look like an ugly weirdo.
>>10763026I think Korra would be a really good one to start out withher outfit is kinda guides you towards her face so make sure its nice and clear looking
>>10763040My face is completely smooth and I don't have any acne. And I got my facial hair lasered so I don't have any stubble either. I think I'm ok in that department.But I'm worried about having broader shoulders in that outfit since they're exposed? I don't know if sleeveless makes it less or more of a problem. I think maybe the wider pants will offset that though but I don't know much about how you dress down body parts.
>>10763049You can't really super dress them down since they're exposed, but you can probably play around with the subtleties of the armhole and the angle of the blue/white around that area to draw the eye "in", making the shoulder look smaller. I suggest you also try and create balance with more curves - boobs and a "female" waist shape and let the baggy pants help create the suggestion of hips/butt although you may want to pad anyway since they sit on the low waist/high hip, which is typically shaped much differently for women.
I'm doing Zero Suit Samus, used a bunch of foam padding to get the feminine shape correct, I have some heels ready too to craft up a bit, but I honestly have no idea what to do about the gun. Should I just buy a nerf gun and paint it? Should I try to ask someone to 3D print it or something? I'm trying to keep my gun budget in the 20-30 dollar range so I doubt I can just buy a replica gun someone is selling.
>>10763437Your ass is too bony, that's tbe most important part. You need your pads to be bigger. Bare minimum from hip to knee.Idk your shoulder width, but it also looks like you need bigger tit pads. Just a bit, though, to shift focus from your shoulders
How to straighten a pretty kong (almost all the way from my head to my ass) wig? How long should i wash it? How should i comb it? Should i use a comb with large bristles or smaller ones?
>>10763536I appreciate the feedback anon! I will try to do you proud.When it's finished I'll come back with proper pics rather than just 'test' images.
Do more androgynous characters like Hange count as a crossplay? Or like Miquella, from Elden Ring? I was considering the latter, since I've never done a proper cosplay, and I like him a lot. I feel like the most complicated part would be hair, I'd probably need a wig. I have necklength, fairly voluminous hair that I've been growing out for a bit, would that get in the way of a wig?I really have no idea what I'm doing desu. I just want to be a little more feminine and I think this would be a decent way to start without feeling super weird about it.
>>10762744clean your room!
>>10764733yeah I'd say soalso I had no idea Hange was supposed to be androgynousI just thought they were a girl
any girls that cosplay guys here? gonna cosplay a guy and tfw don't know how to get over the height anxiety
>>10764924Really only in the manga, honestly. Anime Hange is I think addressed specifically (and drawn as) female. I don't speak a lick of Japanese, but apparently they're never addressed with any specific gender in the manga. It's basically just left up to the reader, but given how they're drawn and the fact they're a high ranking officer in alt-history 1940s, it makes sense to me.>>10764927I'm not a girl, but I mean, stressing over it isn't gonna change your height. I don't think most people will care honestly. You could also just go for shorter characters if it really bothers you.
>>10764927There are tricks to it, like big heels and/or platforms.
>>10765082my character doesn't wear heels at all, but how would i go about platforms?tfw cosplaying a 6'1 char when yiou're 5'1 pain
>>10757398Is this guy trans now?
>>10765275no one feels that. and you should be feeling the girl in men's clothes looks like a small child playing dress up pain instead. girl to guy crossplay always looks like that.
>>10765619This is kinda the truthLots of guys are ashamed of their height but that's because of weird societal BS or the fact that they got denied by some superficial girl on tinder for being too shortTry to remember you're doing this for youAnd don't let any comments from rude people get to you
Any tips on how to shave quickly and efficiently? I don't have the money for groomers nor wax. I spend over an hour handling my legs (two if I add my arms), and I really want this to be quicker.
>>10766380When I have to shave after not shaving for a while I do a pass with an electric razor first to just get a lot of the long ones out of the way, then it makes shaving the legs much quicker. Same for the arms. If it's short enough tho I just use a disposable razor straight away
>>10766380using a trimmer is faster than shaving, but not 100% smooth
>>10766380Those green one blade deals are pretty good for speed. Battery life is a bit of an issue tho, and they won't run while plugged in.Apparently they've got a better version with an hour and half battery life.
>Want to dress as housemaid for my gf>Cant find a decent dress that isnt absolutly dogshit quality (15 bucks from china that smells like burned rubber) or sexy costumes that have no purpose other that getting men to fuck youSomebody has a adress for a nice housemaid dress?
>>10766527no.
>>10766527Try Etsy and filter US sellers only
>>10766380>>10766388>>10766391Use a trimmer, then a razor.
I'd really like to style my wig to look something like this.All the tutorials make it look easy, but how hard is it really?I need to know before i ruin my wig
>>10767313There are lots of tutorials on YouTube for "Updo Wigs". This one in particular looks similar to the style you're looking for:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ippLlzq4Gi4Keep in mind that the quality of wig you have will determine how easily it can be styled.
im the 2B guy from earlier in the thread, my outfit finally arrived, I feel really embarrassed but I took some photosignore the green boobs, those will be skin colored in the final cosplaylet me know what you thinkunsee DOT cc/album#z2KEWk76MAvDoBGV
>>10768894Your shit don't work nigga
Is there anything you can do other than just adding hip padding to make a more feminine form when your midriff is exposed?
>>10769002Big tits and wide hips
>>10769002It's not your midriff that's the issue- you have a lot of muscle definition in your arms, shoulders and legs. Not much you can do about that dressed as Jinx.One thing you can fix is the wig & makeup. No problem with the wig itself, but it's too high up on your forehead. And your eyebrows are too low- put them above your brow line. Look at a few picture on Jinx for reference.
>>10769802Yeah, I've been working on trying to find a way to keep the wig lower on my head, it weighs a fuck ton because the pigtails are over about 6ft long. I've tried a lot of glue wig clips and everything to keep it on my head but it loves to pull itself down. I'm trying to figure out ways I can keep the hairline a little bit lower.Thanks for the advice on the eyebrows, my girlfriend's been helping me do the makeup so I will see what she can do about that
>>10770041Have you tried a wig grip band?
>>10770052I have been wearing a wig cap with it that has like I think a grip band built in but I don't think I've used anything specifically by that name
>>10770052>>10770060Yeah looking at a search for that on Amazon I have not been, I'm think I will probably just order one right quick.
5’4-5’5ish sized girl who crossplays usually as guys, would it look bad for me to cosplay a character that’s like 6’5 tall? can’t wear platforms with this character since the outfit is a whole suit of armor and im not really sure how to add lifts or anything to it
>>10771944just cosplay a 5'4 version of the character, no one will really care. platforms will be silly
I dunno what it is but crossplaying is way more freeing than normal cosplay to me.
>>10772091Picture didn't go :/
How to shake my ass when walking?And what do i need to do to have feminine body language?I know the answer is act gay, but that's not good enough
>>10771944Noone will care. Majima from Yakuza is 6'2 and 50% of the people who cosplay him are 5'2 at most and are either fujos or trans men, nobody gives a shit
>jfash adjacent questionwhere2buy men's waistcoats that wouldn't look shitty next to a lolita coord? trying to find something to match pic related that isn't just solid lavender; would love a floral print. would love ouji or other jfash menswear options too but i'm testing the waters on him and trying to keep it simple
>>10772093>>10772091Personally for me, I just tend to like a lot of female character designs. Tons of cool dudes tho but they tend to be more buff, which I am not. Also female to male genderbends don't get the love they deserve so femboy cross play it is I guess.
>>10772455Fair.Femboy Characters are always a good middle ground for males.
>>10772610>>10772610Gay ass middle ground.What's the difference literally
>>10772679I get to wear the female costume and not care if I pass, so no worry about fake breasts or hip pads
how to start crossplaying before I move out without getting disowned?Should I not risk it and cosplay cute twinks instead in the meantime to scratch the itch?
>>10772741Do you like go to cons with your parents or something? If you still live at home with your parents it might be tough to order stuff in especially if they're really overbearing and go through your mail. And even then, if you can still like make your cosplays or costumes just don't wear them around the house
>>10772770Idk about that guy but my mom knowsAnd it's all on the condition that i look good
Not a crossplayer but a masculine guy who wants to buy makeup here, any advice on buying makeup for the 1st time/how to get over the embarassment of being a guy buying makeup for himself?
>>10772770I'm living at home with my parents while I pay off college debt which should take me less than a year with my current job. I had a crossdressing 'incident' when I was in high school that somewhat put me on thin ice with my parents. I've gained back their trust since then but they're always suspicious of me whenever I say or do anything moderately feminine. If I were caught again all these years later it would not end well for me. I do a mix of making my own and buying cosplay but I basically never order stuff for myself so they'd probably ask if I started ordering a bunch of cosplay stuff and if I were to be sewing a costume they'd also ask what I'm making out of curiosity (plus I don't really have anywhere where I can work on cosplay stuff in private). I'd also be hard pressed to find time to try stuff on or practice doing makeup. I've cosplayed some feminine dudes in the past Like Marik Ishtar from yugioh and before the incident my mom even helped me pick out fabric for a genderswapped madoka kaname though I never went through with making that one. There are some feminine dudes I'm interested in cosplaying like pic related and Griffith but recently I've just been filled with a burning desire to attend a con dressed as a cute girl and I'm growing a little impatient because I know I won't be a cute 22 year old twink forever and I want to get in as much crossplay as I can before I'm cringe and old.
I've got a question about corsetsIf I keep on wearing it will it become easierI'm not talking about waist training but after like half an hour I become a little light headed and it becomes a little harder to breatheIf I practice, doing slightly longer times will I be able to wear it longer?
>>10772846Use the same method you used when you submitted this cringe-ass post
Need help with eyeliner and maskara.I'm right handed, and it's easy on my right eye. But i suffer on my left eye.I'm still new to doing my makeup, first time i managed something good was today.
>>10772100>How to shake my ass when walking?I dunno about shaking your ass, but you can make your walk more feminine by placing your feet in front of each other- see diagram.>And what do i need to do to have feminine body language?To start with- RELAX. So many guys crossplaying at cons are nervous and stiff. Loosen up. Act like you always wear your costume.Don't stand with your feet parallel. Stand heels together, like an "L", but not necessarily with your feet 90 degrees apart. Put most of your weight on the back leg.Aside from that, there are lots of ways to make your body language more feminine, but I usually try to make my movements slower and more deliberate- without overdoing it. I also move my eyes more than I turn my head- if that makes any sense. That type of body language isn't strictly feminine, but it's not strictly masculine either...The other trick I pull is to tilt my head down slightly and look out from under my eyelashes. That's very feminine.>I know the answer is act gay, but that's not good enoughDo not "act gay". That just makes you seem like a flaming homosexual crossplayer. Act like a girl.
>>10773042Yes but that is also the corset adjusting. It is referred to as seasoning. The corset gets used to your body not just your body getting used to it.
>>10773308Idk what you mean when you say "like an L"Like the way most women tend to hold their hips slightly at an angle when they stay still, feet not side by side?
>>10773388Ok i figured out what you mean.Posing is easy because it's premeditated, i want to know some "cheats" to feminine body language.How should i move my arms when talking?How should i shift my weight when moving/also talking?How much eye contact/avoiding?Also if i have long hair should i swing my head more?Honestly this feels like something that just fixes itself once i'm both fully in costume and in a social context, cause it just feels super weird doing all of this for myself infront of the mirror
>>10773388https://www.gettyimages.com/detail/photo/attractive-young-hispanic-businesswoman-royalty-free-image/155388044?adppopup=truehttps://depositphotos.com/22926862/stock-photo-casual-woman-standing.htmlhttps://purepng.com/photo/6762/female-standing-womenhttps://depositphotos.com/27410107/stock-photo-casual-woman.html
>shave before bed>wake up next morning>stubble already
>>10773613Epilator goes whirr. You get 1-2 weeks of full hairless. Then a face of red bumps as they try to poke back out.
Is the shirt in pic rel just a regular shirt but several sizes too big or is it something unique?Looking at most size charts, they mostly look like they just change the width, not the height
>>10773863so i'll be ordering a shirt like this off of redbubble cause i need my own design, would this just be an L long T-shirt? I'm 170cm, which is actually shorter than most women in my country, so i have a relative idea of how it will look.
>>10773148Ok i kept trying and this is the best i got.Looks good from far, but up close is very messy and botched and the other eye is both not symetrical and not as good.Having to ask someone else makes me feel ashamed mostly cause i can't do it all on my own and i need help, i got friends who can do it but i really want to be able to do it myself
>>10758179Nice chin bro
>>10774198Are you dutch or something? Those are some tall women...
>>10775889Mediterranean. Tf you on about how tall are the women where you live
>>107758891,68m is basically top height for almost every woman here. For them to be *above* 1,70m on average, those are some tall women. Wish I lived there...
>>10775954Wrong comment answered. I meant to answer this>>10775945
>>10773863Thinking about also getting skin colored tights so i can still wear pads, but kinda want to ave tatoos in it.Can i just draw with permanent marker? That's gonna rub off after washing tho?Also when getting the tights do i order them to match my size when i am wearing pads or do i order them slightly smaller or larger?I use some old size L tights that i had lying around to hold my pads, but it doesn't really make them blend seamlessly into my skin and i need to wear pants over it in order to look good, but if i wear pants that sre smaller/tighter it looks better, so idk if this logic works with tightd?
>>10773863>>10774198In the USA the average woman's height is 162cm (5'4"). Btw if you're looking at sites with Japanese models, their average is 157cm (5'2"). With you being 170cm (5'7"), you are taller than 82-87% of American women and taller than 96% of Japanese women.
>>10776339You'll want two pair of panty hose and some tights. Use a slightly too large pair first so you can arrange your pads underneath them. Then put on a on-the-smaller-end pair of support hose to smooth your pads out. the put on a properly sized pair of tights.
>>10776837Do i really need the pantyhose? If i do can i instead maybe use an extra pair of tights?
>>10777492The support hose really help hide the edges of the pads- and it's hard to arrange pads in support hose...I've never tried just a pair (or two pair) of tights alone- it might work but the edges of your pads may show.
>>10762743i think the nose and brows are the biggest giveaways. maybe try looking into nose contour makeup, and if you're really serious about it change up your browsbut they're still fine
>>10779145Idk his brows are covered by the bangs, but yeah the nose is too masculine. However i know women who look like that so reasonably he can still pass, though the easiest solution is just to wear a mask or scarf or something.Helps hide my jaw so it could hide your nose
>>10762743>>10762744Look up some tutorials for hooded eyes. Your eyeshadow is just going to disappear otherwise. You didn't mention it- are you wearing mascara? Contour for your nose and jaw would be a good idea. And pluck your eyebrows.Are you in a predominantly white area? You'll probably get away with a lot more than other people will, if so.
>>10757398I know they say not to use ace bandages or self adhesive medical wrapping to bind, but is it that bad to use in place of a waist trainer for a weekend?>use waist trainer>loose in some places>Tight in others>shape looks unnatural>visible under clothes>use bandages>custom shaped curves>flat>looks goodNot trying to get kidney damage, so is there anything else better to use? I feel like corsets and waist trainers try to force you into a shape and it ends up looking fucked if it cant. Custom wrapping will never get that perfect shape but it looks far more natural
>>10773863>>10774198>>10776339So i got the shirt, found an old pair of M tights, they're white but it works well enough to see how it works.Any skirt looks bad with a big ass, but a smaller ass makes my proportions obvious and it just doesn't work.No skirt works best, but i really want it.Also exposing my midriff works really well cause i have large tit pads (1m circumference, hips are also 1m) and it looos best.Shouod i maybe just cut down the shirt so it looks like a larger cropped shirt and just roll with the sweatpants?
>>10779676Sorry for shit writing my phone screen is broken, you can infer what i meant
>>10779676I also think it might just not be my style so that's why it feels wrong
Want to hear your opinion on this, how would you define pic related l. Is it more of a crossdress than crossplay? What if you are not trying to pass but still going with feminine clothing/wigs/makeup