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do you ever feel like you go "in and out" of hobbies? like for example a month or two ago i hyperfixiated on lolita, but now i feel meh about it and am obsessed with cosplay and itabagging right now
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>>10751722
It depends on the hobby for me, some yes, others I stick with for years and years (such as lolita and music)
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>>10751722
I'm the same! Just the last few months I've bounced between MMOs, reading about philosophy, programming, and lolita. I tend to cycle in and out of certain hobbies like lolita and don't stick with much consistently.
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>>10751722
I almost feel like I should be a little more like that. Maybe not dropping hobbies, but have more courage to jump into new hobbies that catch my interest, not worrying so much about how expensive it is, or if it makes me a poser to practice a hobby I don't have a history with, or if I'm wasting time on something I'll quit.
I have so few hobbies and things I do, I want to improve.
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>>10751722
no because i don't have autism
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>wunderwelt package has not moved from US customs in 6 days
It's never taken this long to move stuff, I hope they didn't mess with my moitie.
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>>10751722
I think this can be pretty normal. I'm the same way. I think mainly it just has to do with like, losing interest for a few weeks or months because I squeezed as much enjoyment as I could from it during a period of time, and then coming back later when my interest is replenished...
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>>10751728
I used to feel guilty about jumping from hobbies but I read this book "refuse to choose" by Barbara Sher and it made me feel so much better about it. She also has ideas for how to balance all the hobbies.
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>>10751734
it's the adhd luv get it right
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>>10751759
no, autists get "interests" which they become obsessed with for undertermined bouts of time.
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>>10751744
Is it in Chicago? I noticed they are really inconsistent right now. Some of my CC/WW packages get cleared in 2 days, and some take a week. Hang in there.
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>>10751762
Yeah it's in Chicago. Relieved this isn't abnormal though, I was getting pretty worried!
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>>10751761
nayrt but autists don't hop from one interest to another, it's adhd
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>>10751779
yeah auties have very specific obsessions/interests that we learn everything about. ADHD is the disorder where you have many hyperfixations. some people have both though which must be crazy
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>>10751779
Autistic people can end up being less interested in things and finding new things they are interested in. Symptoms don't present the same way universally and just like anyone's interests those in autistic people can wax and wane over time to some degree. An autistic child who loves wooden blocks may not like blocks their entire life. When you consider many people into lolita are young and changing a lot it's not crazy to see people, neurodivergent or otherwise, feeling very excited about a certain hobby and then deciding they want to focus on another one and then going back to the other one. It's also normal to not find certain things enjoyable anymore and move on to other things, assuming it isn't a symptom of depression.
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What a beauty
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>>10751808
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>>10751779
lol no, adhd people just have things they are extremely disinterested in.
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ITT: bitches trying to diagnose others off of one statement
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>>10751744
As someone mailing from outside of the US, it’s normal. Customs in burger land drag their asses. Packages I’ve sent didn’t move for up to two weeks so chill out.
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>>10751820
I mail a lot of stuff to europe, and I've never gotten anything there in less then two months, usually closer to three.
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>>10751744
I had USPS lose track of my package after "passed through facility ISC Los Angeles" but it arrived just fine a little over a week later anyway.
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>>10751722
I suddenly felt this way again just now. I have a month or sometimes longer where I don't want to wear lolita and I for some reason just hate the fashion sometimes. But then the next month or whenever, I am super into it again. Doesn't help when you don't like any new releases or when lolita content is dead on YT.
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I just really hate men
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Saw my cousin from Arizona, I don't go outside but I ran to the bathroom to put on sunscreen holy shit, she looks like Mexican Ben Quadinaros
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>>10751810
I have ADHD and that's definitely not true for me. I have autism level specific interests I become an expert in, except I have trouble keeping up with them and/or start hopping between hobbies in an attempt to find something I can stick with.
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Guess what guys it's actually normal to have anywhere from 1 to 100 hobbies at different, fluctuating levels of interest and intensity. Stop pathologizing everything.
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>>10752055
fucking this
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I sold a couple of dresses that didn't look good on me so I don't have any good coord pictures, but I can't find any good pictures online either. They were old dresses but I didn't think they were that rare. I just want to see those dresses reach full potential. :(
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>>10752104
What dresses were they?
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>>10751759
>>10751761
>>10751779
>>10751784
>>10751797
>>10751810
Autism and ADHD are almost the same thing. You can easily get diagnosed with both if you have one of them. It just depends on the wording you use for the symptoms. Some scientists would prefer for it to be on the same spectrum, but psychologists are hyper obsessed with having very specific label for everything (that's how you get labels like ADD/inattentive type). But guess what, people who have ADHD/autism are also individuals and have differences just like neurotypicals.
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>>10752110
Ritual in white and a powder blue Emily Temple Cute JSK
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>>10752112
Fuck no, they're not even close. Kys.
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>>10752116
You can easily find info on this online. Both have the same difficulty with executive function, and the rest of the symptoms is just based on differences in personality, upbringing and how neurotypicals view it from the outside. Look up the poop research if it's available in English. Also how common it is for people to be diagnosed with both or have siblings and parents with both. When you look up things about executive function disorders, you'll notice the different wording psychologists use for the exact same thing depending on which label they're talking about.
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>>10752116
They're actually extremely close. Over 75% of people diagnosed with one also has the other.
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>>10752123
Oh no, does this mean I'm an autist?
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>>10752119
>>10752123
nta, but this is a load of crap. not only is adhd still over-diagnosed, but they're both under-diagnosed in women. you guys sure love agreeing with men when it's convenient.
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>>10752126
Nayrt but i think it means psychiatrists are faking it

>>10752127
You mean it used to be under-diagnosed in women. Now it's just another way of changing the symptoms to fit how they want because "it's different in women".
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>>10752126
We don't know enough about the human body to know exactly what ADHD or autism is, what causes it, how to treat it long term... It's based on very limited knowledge, inconclusive research and speculation. It could be different conditions with the same symptoms, it could be different symptoms of the same condition, it could be both, we literally do not know for sure. So of course there's going to be confusion about diagnosis, but if you diagnose people as part of your job you're not going to say that out loud. Especially if more famous/respected persons in your profession wrote books and lists about what they think it is.
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>>10752128
none of the anons on here are young enough for that to apply to anyway.
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>>10752132
This isn't true. There's tons of information on ADHD, you sound like you're drinking some kind of psych koolaid.
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>>10752123
No they’re not lmao. They share a handful of similarities and a number of significant differences. You sound like an uninformed Redditor.
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>>10752132
cringe, the post
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>>10752142
okay keep acting like the hundreds of autism and adhd comorbidity scientific articles don't exist
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>>10752152
ADHD, autism and depression also have comorbidity, retard. did you just learn that word?
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>>10752112
Sheeeeesh you're retarded we get it
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>>10752154
can confirm, dated autistic guy and he had all of these + anxiety. also will never again do that. lmao
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>>10752270
that sucks, sis. the other anon has no idea what comorbidity means. it's basically exclusive to unrelated illnesses kek.
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>>10752270
How desperate were you lol
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I finally fucking did it. I'm at a BMI of 19 after being at 23 my entire life. I still have a chubby build but I can fit into AP with extra room to spare now. I'm glad my dieting actually paid off.
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>>10752281
I married one, you don't always choose who you fall in love with
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>>10752282
Congrats anon!
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>>10752270
Am autistic, adhd, have some other shit. My gf is also probably autistic + adhd. Ngl its pretty awesome not feeling like a freak outcast in a relationship for once
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>>10752296
my bf and i are both adhd. my ex was autistic without adhd though and we had a huge wall between us.
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>>10752293
You settled. Lol.
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>>10752134
That information is not confirmed by research. Do you have ADHD and autism? If you don't, stay out of this conversation
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>>10752142
What are the differences? Not reading social cues? Sensory overload? Need for routine? Hyperfocus on weird interests? Those are also ADHD things.
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>>10752302
Nope. He's a wonderful person, makes enough money to support us both and spoil me on the side, and the way he is works for me since I'm also not neurotypical, for lack of a better word.
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What's with the influx of "post x cosplay" threads recently? None of them take off except the coomer threads. It's fucking annoying. Google is free. Who the fuck is out here carrying a folder of specific cosplays anyway?
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>>10752311
those are not ADHD things you child.
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>>10752305
>That information is not confirmed by research.
Lmao, what a retard.
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>Poor College
>Started saving 1/3 of my paycheck between bills for fun
>Stopped eating out every day
>Just barely had enough for new AP release out of paycheck
>Forgot I had my savings
>Still have enough for food, etc

Holy shit, savings are amazing
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I dont get why everyone eats bait so hard around here. are you children? Are you compulsive? I dont get it
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>>10752374
it's probably samefagging
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>>10752374
This. It's gotten worse recently too. I said it before, but the tiktok pedo who kept making the threads once a month was mostly ignored for his attempts until recently. Stupid fuckers bumped his thread to 100+ replies just to argue. Even if the thread wasn't pedobait, tiktok is majorly hated around here and it wouldn't thrive anyway. What's causing it?
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>>10752386
kek they were even warned in that thread that it was bait and still continued to reply. /cgl/ is hardly worth using now, all of the useful/interesting threads are dead or get derailed into tranny and fatty shitflinging.
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>>10752389
The sewing help thread is nice, if slow.
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>>10752389
>/cgl/ is hardly worth using now
I hate that this is true.
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>>10751718
>cos girl at con has her thonged ass on display
>mfw a guy says "Hope you don't shart"
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>>10752396
Sad...

Also, I was banned for a day
I'm back~
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Boyfriend sent me a link to lolita porn, should I be worried? The actress is dressed in the same substyle I wear
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>>10752567
imagine dating someone who watches porn.
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>>10752567
>boyfriend
Should've seen that coming
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>>10752567
That's disgusting you should probably dump him immediately.
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>>10752567
don't date coomers.
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>>10752568
We watch porn together sometimes, he doesn't really watch it alone. This time he just offered... whatever that was
>>10752580
He's not one, if anything he's less interested in anything sexual than I am
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>>10752584
>We watch porn together
eww, imagine watching porn. go get your hypersexuality treated you disgusting pick me.
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>>10752586
Lol what? I'm not sure if you know how relationships work, but it's perfectly fine for two healthy adult individuals to occasionally watch porn, alone or together. Seems like I struck a nerve there, sorry about your frigidity.
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>>10752587
porn is extremely damaging and only coomers think this shit. i hope that anon with all those articles about porn addiction posts them, i'm at work. healthy adults can have sex without needing stimuli from voyeurism.
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>>10752587
>it's perfectly fine for two healthy adult individuals to occasionally watch porn
>she thinks she can be healthy and also watch porn
Kek.
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>>10752588
>healthy adults can have sex without needing stimuli from voyeurism
So can we, never said either of us need porn, learn to read please.
>>10752589
I know, shocking, right?
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>>10752590
it's only shocking how retarded you are. if you don't NEED porn why watch it? i swear girl coomers are as retarded as they are disgusting.
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>>10752591
Because you can want to do something and not require it? Why do you wear lolita if you don't NEED it? Same pointless argument.
Do you realize porn addiction doesn't equal watching porn once in a blue moon, just because you feel like it?
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>>10752587
You think porn isn't damaging and claim you just "watch it together" but fail to realize your bf is obviously watching it alone and finding porn that fetishizes your fashion? How can you be so in denial? It clearly already rotted your moid's brain. Use your own brain. Jesus...
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>>10752592
wanting to watch women be abused and exploited isn't normal
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>>10752592
okay, keep telling yourself that when your coomer bf clearly jacks it to your fashion.
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>>10752567
Why even ask if you should be worried in the first place if you're going to get super defensive about it lmao what did you want to hear? That you should be flattered?
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>>10752595
I don't watch that kind of porn, try again. People who make amateur porn, of their own volition, and post it on their private accounts aren't being "abused and exploited".
>>10752597
I'm not getting defensive over him sending me lolita porn, which is what my original post was about. It's the femcels who started screeching how all porn is abuse and how consuming any porn whatsoever equals to being a coomer and having a porn addiction.
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>>10752593
>fail to realize your bf is obviously watching it alone
I obviously know that he does have to watch it in order to find what he assumes I'll like, I'm not stupid.
>finding porn that fetishizes your fashion
That's precisely what I was worried about and why I posted in the first place.
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>>10752600
All porn is exploitative and degrading to women
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>>10752600
>she thinks amateur porn isn't staged
>she thinks even if it's not staged porn in general isn't harmful to the actors, especially women
>she thinks porn of any kind isn't mentally damaging to herself because "muh moderation"
topkek.
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>>10752601
You're definitely stupid. You and this guy aren't even married(as if that would mean anything) so all you're doing is enabling a shitty fetishist who will leave you for a younger moron.
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>>10752600
>I-I just wanted people to validate me without calling me out for my own stupidity!
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>>10752600
>amateur porn
good luck figuring out which of that is revenge porn and/or cp you fucking retard
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>>10752606
she's probably lying. anon's been backpacking every since she admitted to watching porn. she's so salty she's throwing around insults.
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>>10752606
kek how can you be retarded enough to not be able to tell something isn't revenge porn or cp? if someone's running a channel with consistent uploads and they're clearly not children, it's safe to say it's neither
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>>10752608
17 years is considered CP you moron.
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>>10752607
Throwing around insults? I think you're delusional
>>10752586
>disgusting pick me
>>10752591
>girl coomers are retarded as they are disgusting
>>10752604
>You're definitely stupid
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>>10752609
and you can't tell a 17 year old apart from a grown woman, you moron?
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When will gulls stop taking bait?
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>>10752612
You realize most of the people "taking bait" are just the OP samefagging, to bait as well right? 80% of the really inflammatory replies are likely the OP.
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>>10751718
I saw a cute girl today at an anime convention today, she cosplayed as Junko from danganronpa. I couldn't talk to her since I was too shy and it was my first convention ever, worst part is that I'm having regrets to not at least compliment her on her cosplay.
I feel like such a beta when I'm considered to be a chad by my peers.
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>>10752607
>she's probably lying
No, I'm honestly just a bit (not too much, it's /cgl/ after all) shocked that people can see life as black and white to this degree. As if people aren't complex creatures and there are more grey areas when it comes to anything, not "you're either x or y". This is how SJWs, incels and other extremists see the world, not rational human beings.
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>>10752619
Rational human beings don't watch porn.
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>>10752620
Point proven
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>>10752584
>he doesn't really watch it alone.
How did he find the lolita porn in your substyle if he doesn't watch porn alone? You don't just stumble onto that
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>>10752335
They are, I have an ADHD diagnosis and go to group therapy and most people have all of those symptoms, I was questioned about those symptoms during the diagnosis process, and you see them talked about frequently on ADHD related social media accounts nowadays.
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>>10752611
she’s probably one of those coping hags who insist 30 year olds look exactly the same as someone in their 20s.
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As an asexual woman, I’m grateful for porn because it gives my bf an actual option and I can relax a little knowing I’m not torturing him as much as possible, even if dating me still sucks. I’m not even always comfortable sending nudes, so it helps to know that he can look at others.
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>>10752628
NTA but you were questioned about them because of possible autism since they're often misdiagnosed.
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>>10752625
I meant to say he doesn't watch it much without me and mostly looks for things to show me, my bad
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>>10752634
Anon you shouldn't worry, he probably just thought you might like it. Back in the old days there was some lolita porn seagulls watched that apparently wasnt bad.
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>>10752632
No I wasn't, and there are literally entire chapters about those symptoms in the course book we got for ADHD therapy, not autism
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An acquaintance was convinced he was asexual, recently became a tranny, and now considers herself a lesbian sexually. Is trooning out the cure?
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>>10752631
>I’m not even always comfortable sending nudes,
I'm not asexual, I love sex and I'm uncomfortable sending nudes too. I'd never do it even though I've been with my bf for years. hope you don't think it has anything to do with asexuality.
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>>10752639
I hate sex though. So I'm glad he can watch porn or fuck other people instead.
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>>10752640
Idk why you think that's a good enough reason to support the porn industry/sexual exploitation? You think we're suddenly going to think porn is okay now because 1 asexual person feels less shitty in their relationship that way?
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>>10752641
What am I supposed to do then? Torture him and leave him without any form of sex? Suck it up and do something that hurts?
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>>10752643
He knew what he was getting into when he started dating someone who is asexual, that's on him.
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>>10752647
So you think he deserves to go without sex? Even I think that's cruel.
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>>10752652
If he's not willing to break up with you then yes? That's why you date people you're sexually compatible with, retard.
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How the fuck do women have sex, and even enjoy it? I went to the gynecologist and they couldn't even use their narrowest tools because it hurt too much to have anything in my vagina. I can't imagine having an entire penis in there. wtf
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>>10752654
Most women don't actually enjoy penetration, they've just deluded themselves into thinking they do.
Clitoral stimulation is where it's at.
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>>10752656
Clitoral stimulation feels like nothing.
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>>10752654
>tfw the lube assistant wasn't there for you
Feels bad, gull.
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>>10752658
Even with lube, it fucking hurt.
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>>10752643
Maybe he can have sex with other people or jerk off without using porn. There's also fanfiction and erotic stories easy to find online. A lot of single people also don't watch porn so I really don't see what it has to do with an asexual partner.
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>>10752654
A lot of lube, a lot of self-confidence or at least the ability to fool yourself into feeling desirable, and a lot of patience. Clitoral stimulation and foreplay in general helps a lot. I'm also either extremely small anatomically or have vaginismus (no idea which one), but it can feel very pleasurable if everything described above goes right. Overall very tricky to make happen and honestly not worth the effort, I can count the times I genuinely enjoyed penetration a lot on one hand.
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>>10752654
I think penetration is more psychologically enjoyable, having a man deep inside of you, enjoy your pussy, his hard thick cock getting ready to cum.. I love thinking about him blowing his load deep inside me, filling me up with his sperm. I can only get off if my clit is stimulated but I have to at least think about penetration to really cum.
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>>10752654
are you a virgin? i was the same way when i was one, even the smallest gyno tools hurt. and then the first few times having sex hurt too, but after that it became enjoyable. it just takes getting used to

>>10752656
this is gonna make scrotes mad but dick size makes a difference in that. penetration from a dick that's 6+ is most definitely enjoyable, while a 4-5 inch dick feels like nothing. small dicked men need to have great oral game

>>10752708
male hands wrote this
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>>10752708
This reads like some scrote's fapfiction
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>>10752712
Why did you keep having sex if it hurt??
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>>10752634
To your knowledge.
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>>10752635
I think you're right, I just got freaked out by it in the moment and for some reason the first thought I had was to share it here (big mistake). I'll just tell him I'm not comfortable with it because I don't want the fashion to be sexualized, I'm sure he'll understand.
>>10752718
Yes, and that means he doesn't, since we don't need to hide anything from each other.
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>>10752722
Yeah don't listen to salty femcel seagulls, their first response to anything relationship related is "break up". It sounds like you guys have good communication so I wouldn't worry about it.
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>>10752455
Great. Now whenever I see shit on the floor at cons, I'll wonder if it's human.
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>>10752716
because plenty of women had told me before that the first few times hurt for them, too. so i was expecting that. might have to do with me being petite, my body took may have taken longer than other people to adjust.
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>>10751722
Yeah. That's totally normal. Even in my group of normie friends, they shift interests/hobbies every few months. Then come back later. You don't need to stick to a hobby all the time. You can try out new things and like it, or suck at it. Completely normal.
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>>10752724
stop samefagging
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>>10752112
I have ADHD and don’t relate to any autistics aside from a few shared symptoms. We’re very different, especially socially.
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>>10752374
I think some of them are idiots baited, and some of them have genuine autism so they think it's totally normal/acceptable to continue hammering a point with lots of stupid "facts" because they can't tell they're making it worse
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>>10752715
100% sad edgy man wrote this, please go
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>>10752803
There are normal people on this board who disagree with you, you know that?
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idk why but all of a sudden i just had a moment of great appreciation for cosplay. Next con is not until august but it just swamped me for a minute,there
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>>10752915
Well your personal experience must be true for everyone and science is wrong
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>>10752374
>>10752386
>>10752929
Part of trolling is replying to your own posts to make it look like others are taking the bait
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>>10753375
But we all know that's not what happens on this board anon. It's so overrun with underaged newbs that they are unironically taking the bait.
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I hate how many taobao and shitty "western indie" brands are on lolibrary now. I used to check updates frequently to look at new releases and find old things I've never seen before, but now it's unbearable to browse through.
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>>10752282
congrats nonny :)

similar story here but a little less cut and dry lul, i was BMI 21 this time last year and because i have some ED related issues the bigger i got the more i emotionally ate and it was just a whole mess

i broke up with my gf because my body issues were so bad it was making me emotionally distant and i ended up spiraling super hard after that and dropped all the weight almost instantly

i feel like i should be worried because im like almost BMI 16 now but im also big into authentic old school and this is the first time ive ever been small enough to fit into the kinds of dresses i really like (esp old moitie/VM/MM)

i guess the bright side is that my health is relatively good for being full anachan and i can snatch up tiny dresses that dont usually sell on the US market

>>10753386
i get this, i wish that you could save filters on lolibrary so i could have filters for looking at old pieces and trying to keep up with new JP releases so i don't have to file through 10 pages of uggo clolita to find the one thing i was looking for
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Really happy with the changes to Behind the Bows. Especially since we don't have to cover the faces anymore. https://beneaththebows.dreamwidth.org/
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I really worry about the standards anonymous lolitas have towards appearance, and how it will effect younger people entering the fashion. I've been in for a long time and have am 30, so it doesn't bother me, but the unrealistic standards can't be great for younger women. I know some people are just judgemental, others insecure, and there are certainly shit-stirrers too, but considering lolitas seem to want to appear strong I worry they will ignore the damage it's causing until further on down the road. Hope some of you all give a kind word to others irl, so that some positivity balances it out.
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>>10753403
hard agree. i think a lot of new tiktok kids migrating to lolita groups with older members (esp places like CoF where pretty much every gull sees what's posted) opens them up for pretty harsh criticism.

while i dont necessarily mind ita threads, since there are a lot of people who should know better (lor is a good example), it is pretty sad to see new people to the fashion getting shit on so fast it makes their first experiences w the fashion really negative.

i'm happy that groups like BSoLF exist in that regard, but idk i feel like we could do better. not necessarily on cgl, because i don't expect gulls to ever be nice to newbies. its 4chan. but in communities outside that.
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>>10753401
nat stop posting this. no one cares.
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>>10753407
Brandon kun
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>>10753415
I'm not 100% clear on your point, as anon stated that the damage may be unclear until later on, however my normie friends certainly don't gossip about appearance like lolitas so, and they do gossip generally. Gossiping about physical appearance is usually seen as being in poor taste and immature.
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I think I have a headdress addiction
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>>10753418
OK Brandon
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>>10753429
>>10753459
not everyone that is sick of your shit must be Brandon. So power hungry for any kind of fame or notoriety you jumped at the chance of creating a new btb despite no one asking for it or wanting it. Posting anyone you don't like or deem unworthy here or on the farms but throwing a tantrum anyone gives you any sort of critique. Prime example of dishing it out but not being able to take it.
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My dress got stolen last month and I'm just now finding this out

I mean thankfully it was just taobao, but that's 90 bucks gone
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>>10753464
Lol that wasn’t nat but ok
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>>10753469
remember when nat tried to take over the CoF threads by posting herself and then threw a fit and told people to go kill themselves because they didn't like her coord and knew she was selfposting? I do.
https://warosu.org/cgl/thread/S10692515#p10693683
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>>10752712
>penetration from a dick that's 6+ is most definitely enjoyable, while a 4-5 inch dick feels like nothing
NOOOO YOU CAN'T SAY THAT! THERE'S NO DIFFERENCE IN SIZE! BODY POSITIVITTTYYYYYYYYYY BUT YOU'RE FAAT
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>>10753471
sure thing, totally-definitely-not-nat. *wink*
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sp00py go make yourself useful and get Sainte banned from everything challenge. Should be right up your alley since you hate troons.
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>>10752712
>penetration from a dick that's 6+ is most definitely enjoyable, while a 4-5 inch dick feels like nothing.
yes
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>>10753468
this sucks so bad nonny, hope you find money on the floor outside or something bc scams are just the worst
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>>10753475
Your obsession with “Omg Must bE nat!” Is ridiculous. Idk if her stupid beef with jfashion.watchdog or therealdrlove_88
Got your panties in a twist. Nothing but the 3 stooges
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>>10753477
Kek she’s doing better than most community mods. Who gives a shit if she’s banned
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>>10753494
sainte is a man
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>>10753495
Nat dummy
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>>10753468
If you can afford a $90 taobao order then you can afford buying cameras
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>>10753492
Naryt but if you hop off her dick for five minutes you can literally go look at warosu and see she’s got page after page of self posting or getting herself into shit. She even runs her own indie brand where her quality rivals a-gato. She’s been a problem since day 1.
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>>10753500
Kek that’s 90% of this community. At least she doesn’t go full autistic and report shit as vendetta, right? The most retarded shit this community did was getting her banned over some bearded fagggot who likes children. Try harder
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>>10753375
I don't doubt that this is the case some of the time, but I also see plenty of new posters genuinely confused or arguing with clear bait. For example, those threads that pop up every few months with Samus's ass asking about what underwear to wear for cosplay: people will genuinely respond to it. They don't even consider it bait until the thread gets spammed with more ass pictures or someone else points it out. I think this anon >>10753378 is right that there's just so many tourists or newbies that don't lurk enough to recognize the bait.
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>>10753492
I suspect this shit poster is some babylita mod obsessively posting
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>>10753404
>it is pretty sad to see new people to the fashion getting shit on so fast it makes their first experiences w the fashion really negative.

Look, if you've been around as long as you are claiming in your post, larper, then you'd know we always did this.
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>>10753469
Are you in your period, h*miptera?
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It's tough not being photogenetic in this fashion. I'm decently fit but my face (specifically my fucked jaw, thin ass lips, and big nose) just looks so awkward looking and asymmetrical in every photo no matter how much makeup i put on. too bad no amount of working out can fix that. im a collegefag so i cant afford surgery to fix it yet, sigh..... it sucks because my coords are good but i dont even feel deserving enough to wear them since im currently a genetic dead end. cgl would prob tear me apart if i didnt have a face sticker on all the time. seeing me in comm pics makes me wanna slit my wrists and see if i luck out in looks in my next life.
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>>10753596
Anon...you're being really hard on yourself. Work on having a good body and wearing good coords. If you need to use a sticker to avoid mean remarks, do so! But don't turn to despair, and continue to enjoy the fashion regardless!
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>>10753596
anon, shoop is your friend. 98% of lolitas abuse it anyways, this isn't exactly a hobby full of beauty queens
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>>10753596
if it makes you feel better, thin lips can probably be fixed by just trying out different lipstick techniques. maybe try a lip liner?
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>>10751722
i've done that with sewing and coding quite a bit (I work as a SWE so doing it in my spare time is really useful). I usually alternate between them, where I'll use my spare time over 2 weeks on some sewing project, and then I'll do the same on something else. Getting back into pattern drafting after a break is such a drag tho.
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wish i didn't have the urge to post attention seeking shit all the time it will be the death and destruction of me in this comminity for sure
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Does anyone have any advice for convincing myself it's okay to wear things even if there is a risk it'll get damaged/dirty etc. I have so any cute prints and old school peices but I never wear them because I'm afraid of hurting them
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>>10753673
You can mend and wash things if something goes wrong. It's also just clothes. Really fucking cute clothes, but clothes nonetheless.
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>>10752640
what a healthy and loving relationship. why are you even together if he is just fucking other girls. you must be really desperate with a low self esteem to put up with that as a relationship. seek help nonny, you shouldn't be okay with that.
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>>10753673
Just wear them around the house at first, and invest in an apron that you don't mind getting dirty in case you need to handle food. Once you become comfortable with this, then see if you want to take it further for outside excursions.
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>>10753673
Honestly most lolita, especially old school, is pretty sturdy. They're much nicer than a lot of normie fast fashion shit that'll fall apart after 3 washes. I work retail and wear my lolita regularly.
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>>10753784
>2022
>still simping for monogamy
You must be fun at parties
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>>10753469
Kek... Nat & Co have become the posterchildren for anything TERFy or mean and every evidence of anon TERF behavior is automatically Nat... You do realize she's not the only TERF, especially around these parts. Most of us are actually TERFs. Stop giving her all of the credit, leave some glory for the rest of us nonny.
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>>10753784
>why are you even together if he is just fucking other girls.
Because he's not fucking me
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>>10753806
lmao are you in high school? if not wanting sex is enough of a deal breaker for your bf to get it elsewhere then it's not a relationship. you'll probably end up getting stds that travel through saliva. just find someone else who doesn't want sex. asexual men exist.
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>>10753794
>in a happy, loving, healthy monogamous relationship for many years
no shit i simp for monogamy. not everyone is a miserable degenerate who cant keep the attention of their partner for more than a couple minutes. enjoy your loveless, unfaithful 'relationships' and stds. enjoy never knowing what it is like to be truly loved by a person who is devoted solely to you. glad you are fun at parties, hopefully all that meaningless sex makes up for the emptiness you have knowing you are nothing more than a object to used to make strangers who dont care about you coom.
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>>10753809
Why are you so insecure?
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>Have bf
>Don't have sex with him
>He has sex with other people
I'm convinced zoomers don't even know what relationships are supposed to be
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>>10753825
kek
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>>10753825
Relationships are supposed to be sex, right?
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>>10753794
Oh child, when I was your age everyone thought open relationships were the cool, progressive thing to do as well.
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>>10753820
Anon you're so insecure about being alone that you allowed a sex addict to trample all over you and catch STDs while pretending he cares about you. You don't even enjoy sex, yet you somehow think denying it to someone is "torture" presumably because he convinced you of that. Now you cope by pretending it was your idea and you're "allowing" him to fuck other girls, when we all know he'd just dump your ass and leave if you said no.
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>>10753830
Relationships without physical attraction are literally just friendships kek
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>>10753834
or lie and go do it behind her back. open relationships are such a cope. just be with someone you actually want to be with and who actually wants to be with you.
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>>10753794

Oh, grow up. You aren't as unique and progressive as you think you are.
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>>10753839
this so hard. relationships with that high level of compromise just end up hurting someone and ending anyway.
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>>10753834
How is not wanting to live without sex being a “sex addict”? Sex is one of the most basic of human needs.
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>>10753859
Is it important in relationships? Yes. But having to use your hand instead of a vagina is not "torture". Thats an overdramatic sex addict speaking.

That said, they should obviously just break up since they're incompatible.
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>>10753859
Kek sex is not a "need" like oxygen, anon. No one has ever died from lack of it, unless you count unhinged incels. But they're usually incels because of their other brain problems.
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>>10753875
Ok, date someone without having sex and come back and tell us how totally not unbearable it was
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>>10753832
>>10753840
Who said anything about progressive?
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>>10753882
I've done it before, wasn't that bad
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got taco bell stains on the bodyline dress im wearing today :(
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>>10753932
It's Bodyline, hit that shit with some stain remover.
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>>10753882
nayrt but asexuals exist, people with a very low drive exist,... you can feel love for someone but just not feel like fucking you braindead cockbreath
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Please take note of how many posts talking about N are getting deleted. Someone is buttmad and reporting anyone saying meanie things about her.
Right about B or not, you're still an obnoxious attention whore, N, and you really need to stop shilling your DW site. BTB was dying for a reason and only wannabe meangirl newbs like yourself were keeping it alive.
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It hurts some days more than other, but it's always sad to know that a style will never look good on you no matter how hard you try. I've got used to looking at other people enjoying themselves and learning what I can, but watching from the sidelines feels so unfullfilling, and no amount of work will change that.
>>10752282
Big gratz, anon. It always makes me so happy to see people setting fitness goals and reaching them
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>>10753497
Not my house sadly and good news! It got delivered to my neighbors! They returned it to the post tho, but at least I know where it is
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>tfw finally want to give armor a try
>start looking up reference photos and other people cosplaying
>so many of them say its their first time making a cosplay yet it looks professionally made
are some people just naturally talented with shit like this, im not even sure if im gonna be able to make bracers not look like complete dogshit, but i just wanna represent my boy and at least attempt, but holy fuck i dont even know how im gonna make a fucking helm
everything is so fucking intimidating for someone who just buys cosplays
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>>10754117
they're leaving out all the failed attempts at making it or other things in the learning process. a first "good result" shouldn't be conflated with their first ever result.
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>>10751722
Definitely, and because people are going on about it, I've been tested for both ADHD and autism and have neither.
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>>10753800
this. there are more terflitas than you think, they've just been scared into silence. and if you think you don't have one in your comm, you most likely do.
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>>10752602
even gay porn?
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>>10754137
Yes because it tells men they don't need women
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>>10754141
in what way is it acceptable to want women?
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>>10753947
How is it nat tho? A bunch of he says she say bs
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>>10753932
Yeah what'd you fart or somethin tssssss
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>>10754137
Haven't seen a single one that passes the bechdel test
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>>10754175
Because she's been known to white knight herself on here and so far its only been posts about N that have been deleted and nothing about B. She's reporting any post talking about her as vendetta.
Because she's reading this- your "indie brand" sucks and is on par with agato.
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>>10754191
All this talk about N, are we just pretending I doesn't exist?
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>>10754193
It's important not to downplay the G twins
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>>10754135
nayrt but this has always kinda stressed me out, i’m not a trans woman but i have super high testosterone levels for a black woman with the symptoms that come with that (idk why, it’s not PCOS i’ve already gotten tested)

when i’m not in lolita i dress pretty androgynously and pretty often get mistaken for a teenage boy and it makes me feel like when i’m wearing coords people are secretly trying to clock me. seeing gulls call random cis women troons definitely doesn’t ease my worry but i’ve gotten better at not taking it too personally since i’ve never been posted
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>>10754217
you can't win either way. even if troons and sjws weren't awful, you have them asking pronouns and walking on eggshells around everyone while trying to dismantle pieces of society they don't understand in the first place.
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>>10754217
if you act normal and not like a creep, that'll stop most people from thinking that for more than a second
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>>10754221
honestly as someone who doesn’t really care abt how people refer to me (i just don’t really see the point cause someone will mess up anyway no matter what i say) idrc if people want to ask pronouns just to be nice or whatever

it’s just annoying when i’m doing the only hobby where i feel comfortable dressing in a feminine way and i have to be paranoid that people secretly think i’m some kind of secretly evil black man sissy
>>10754222
i try to remember this and it usually makes me feel better but i think i just get psyched out when i’m on cgl or the farms for too long lol
i don’t wanna shout “muh racism/oppression” or anything but i get pretty bummed when i see gulls say women who are just not white look mannish or whatever. not really anything i can do about it though once again so
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I'm experiencing a significant amount of annoyance.. My shopping service is simply so slow, they had plenty of time to buy the thing I asked them to, but they didn't, and then someone else bought it. I'll just finish what I've started with them, and then I need to find a new one, but I've no idea what that'd be, I haven't found anything that seems good.
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>>10754224

Nayrt, accusations of troons are becoming worse, like I feel it jumped from "she looks like a man" to "that's a man and he's a pervert" real fast. If it makes you feel better gulls will accuse even obviously feminine women of being a troon so just remind yourself of that. IRL you're probably fine, it's much easier to pass the vibe check in person, and most irl comms are understanding.

There is always the option of taking a break too. I don't come here as often anymore and it's been pretty good actually.
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>>10754244
tysm nonny this is rly helpful, i’ve definitely been trying to cut using 4chin as much cause i feel like some of the gulls here are full on brain rotted and it can be exhausting
on the bright side one of my dream pieces is out for delivery today so i have something to keep my spirits up
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>>10754224
but asking pronouns isn't to be nice, anon, it's because they're not sure your gender.
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I very recently cut off one of my best friends, and I keep switching between relief that I don't have to put up with their toxic behavior and disrespect for me anymore, but I also feel mad that I let them make me feel like shit for so long. I'm still anxious and paranoid about meeting people, and what those people are going to think of me. My friend gave me so much shit for feeling this way, yet somehow not realizing they were contributing to that feeling almost every time we talked. They were negative as fuck about everything, never let me be happy about anything, and got offended by the most insignificant things. They had a way of twisting everything into something negative. I get happy about a positive update to a video game, and then they immediately bring up something shitty the company did and say that it was just trying to distract from that thing. I bring up a generally well-liked celebrity, and immediately they shit on him for a single opinion that they disagree with, and they always treated their own opinions as facts. I brought up the time someone said I looked like a southern belle when wearing lolita, and they thought that was offensive. I couldn't predict what would offend them next, or what seemingly positive thing has some horrible secret behind it, and it was exhausting and made me paranoid as fuck about interacting with people and offending them too. They even discouraged me from making friends at college by telling me that people who compliment me are likely bullies who are laughing at me behind my back. And yet they gave me so much shit for being afraid, as if I was being completely unreasonable. They also didn't let me change the subject when I didn't want to talk about how terrible everything is. I'm glad it's over and that I had the courage to end the friendship, but I can tell it's going to take some time to heal.
Not /cgl/ related (other than the southern belle thing), I know, but just had to get that off my chest.
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>>10754251
nah both of comms i’ve been in do it every time there’s a new person at a meet so there’s less room for potential beef because of people not communicating or whatever
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>>10754227
What substyle do you wear?
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>>10754352
I don't wear any substyle. It was an item on Mercari that I tried to buy.
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>>10754271
Damn Anon, at least this person is out of your life, they sound absolutely horrible
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>>10754395
Also I'm not sure why I used vague pronouns here, the awful person is clearly a woman
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i really miss poupeegirl
or just in general i wish we had some virtual wardrobe sharing site.
ik many lolitas post their wardrobes in other ways but i wish we just had a site that was dedicated to it.
i really love seeing other peoples wardrobes and them explaining why they love a piece or if theres an interesting way they got something they tell the story, etc.
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I have a (very) small gig coming up and I don't know what we're going to wear. I feel like shit in my body and have to take at least 3mg of xanax before performing. I'm lead guitar and (one of the) vocals so pretty much center of attention.
I'm so sad I hate myself
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how the fuck is SAL still not available
it's been two years, how long more do I have to wait for my package REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>10754217
have you tried not caring? manly looking women who aren't troons do exist. and everyone calls everyone a troon nowadays anyway. so just stop caring. problem solved, nothing more to worry about.
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>>10754475
What kind of poorfag uses SAL? Your issue is the fact that you used SAL in the first place.
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>>10754417
>i really miss poupeegirl
I find that everskies works for me a similar site, it's not quite the same and obviously full of zoomers but they do have some existing lolita pieces in the game
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I still think I'm the shit because I spoke to moon kana once when I was like 12
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>>10754509
I live in Asia and I'm never in a hurry to receive my items. It's like a difference between 2 days and a week anyway. My country's postal system is pretty reliable and my neighbours are no thieves so the parcel can arrive whenever it does and I'm always confident that it will be at my door.
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>tfw want to make armor but i know i wont be satisfied with how it looks no matter what i do and il just assume everyone is silently mocking how awful it looks
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I'm an average weight for my height but it's obvious that I'll have to get better at sewing to make costumes that will fit me. I entertained the idea of buying a pre-made cosplay for a low-effort cosplay for an upcoming con and the largest size skirt won't fit around my waist. Granted, I wanted to get better at making my own costumes anyways, but it's just a bit disappointing that I'm no longer the size I was at 16. Do any Asian sizes of dresses/skirts even fit 40+ inch hips? Are my dreams of fitting into burando a pipedream?
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Sex is romantic and no one should ever disrespect the wholesome, loving act of sex by having sex with someone they don’t love. Sex is too pure to be tainted like that.
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>>10754638
So orgies are off the table then
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>>10754638
How many times are you tards going to make posts like this
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>>10753373
I am talking about the science though, and personal experience combined. Adhd and autism have a wide range of symptoms completely different from one another and only share a few in common; even BPD, bipolar and run of the mill depression share some symptoms but it doesn’t mean they’re the same disorders.
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>>10754645
Every day until you like it
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>>10752567
>my bf finds my style appealing. Should I be worried?
Post the link.
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My comm is finally great. Everyone has a real fucking job so we can plan potentially pricey events/outings without worrying about anyone, everyone looks good/styles decently, photos look great, and we can be catty/talk about drama unabashedly. Bonus, I’ve started to notice people using the word “male” pretty specifically so I feel like we all get our actual opinions on gender specials. Life’s good.
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>>10754701
>Bonus, I’ve started to notice people using the word “male” pretty specifically so I feel like we all get our actual opinions on gender specials.
Wot?
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>>10754701
Jesus Christ why do you have to make things political, just talk about tea and petticoats.
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>>10754639
Not if you love everyone, man. Can't disrespect it if you love your fellow humans, man.
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>>10754701
>Bonus, I’ve started to notice people using the word “male” pretty specifically so I feel like we all get our actual opinions on gender specials
ma'am we wear doll clothes its not that deep
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>>10754701
love that for you
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>>10754715
>>10754756
Go back to /tttt/
Lolita is for girls.
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>>10754639
They can be on or off of a table
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The AP general truly is a containment thread
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>>10754798
You do realize trans women are literally women
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>>10754840
don't get the terfs riled up now they'll shit up the thread again like they always do lmao
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>>10754840
>>10754846
Yaaas you tell em sisters
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Why do retards keep bumping these garbage threads that should just have died. Meanwhile, it's a struggle to keep the actually valueable or interesting threads afloat.
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>>10754850
If those threads were actually that interesting, they would be staying afloat. They're probably not as interesting as you think they are nonny.
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>>10754854
I don't usually bump the potentially interesting threads if it doesn't feel like they have great value, I rather just hope someone else bumps them. But it's also a fact that most people on /cgl/ don't know about the catalog, and only browse the first page or two, so potential contributors don't ever see them, and they may also require more effort so they are naturally slower threads.
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>>10754863
calm your autism
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I just recently lost enough weight and started making enough income to actually start participating in lolita without looking pathetic. I'm so excited lmao I keep buying main pieces any time I see something cute pop up and I still haven't even bought all the staple pieces i need yet! It's been a really long time since I've felt cute and excited to dress up...
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I redid an old cosplay -20lbs later and I just got the new pics to compare, I'm so damn happy about it. skinny legend my depression is cured
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Ever since I saw someone wearing Honey Cake in real life I've been a fan, and I especially love the bag, such a fun idea.
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>>10753875
>unless you count unhinged incels. But they're usually incels because of their other brain problems.
it's a physical necessity for men
it's not a physical necessity for women

try reading about actual human biology instead of getting your info from 4chan and twatter
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>>10755344
Sex isn't a physical need for men, ejaculation is. They can just fuck their hand, which is what men like you usually do.
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I didn't really "get" Elizabeth but seeing it posted in the old school helps me see it, I especially like the huge tied things on the back.

I wish there was somewhere to post random ramblings about lolita.
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>>10752567
It depends. Did he show it as a joke, do you have that kind of relationship? Are you troubled by it?

My bf sort of Watches porn too. Not to ordinary porn but 3d animations of videogame characters. Can you believe it?, lol. He says because the lore makes it hotter, because he knows the character. I would be so put off, if we weren’t together already.
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>>10751718
Eugh, half of this thread is coomers.
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I'm having a breast reduction later this year, and I don't think I can quite communicate how deliriously happy I am that I'll finally be able to fit into Japanese sizes (I'm so thin but my breasts are large, so they were the only thing preventing me)
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>>10755746
You sure the operation won't leave a scar?
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>>10755746
Abortion I can forgive, but this? KNOW YOU WILL NEVER BE PERMITTED PAST THE GATES OF HEAVEN
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>>10755764
Unironically the reaction most men I've ever met have had when discussing breast reduction, except they weren't joking.
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>>10755765
Did I stutter you harlot
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>>10755763
It will leave two huge scars and I don't care. That's a very minor drawback compared to the benefits and it's not like I'm shirtless on a regular basis
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>>10755780
3 scars actually
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>>10755780
Please care. My mother and I have scars and marks and we lament it.
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>>10755778
I'm not getting one cause I'm only a D cup and small enough to handle it, but I've vaguely mentioned it and men are viscerally offended by the idea of my titties that they will never touch possibly being smaller (I'm gay so there was never a chance)
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>>10755784
They're just scars. No one will see them. Besides, my scars heal very well. Minor cosmetic imperfections are worth it to be free of pain
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>>10755783
How do you figure?
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>>10755786
>offended by the idea of my titties that they will never touch possibly being smaller (I'm gay so there was never a chance)
We're just looking
Out for the LGBT community. They have it hard enough as it is, and you think it's OK to take this away from them? It's selfish and frankly irresponsible.
>>10755798
Two on your body and one on your immortal soul
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>>10755800
They don't even see them 98% of the time because I'm the "dresses like Billie Eilish" type of gay when I'm not wearing lolita
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Someone is having some sort of a mental breakdown in the room/decor thread wtf
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I'm kind of tired of wading through taobao shit on LM. There's so much if the bad shitty taobao clogging up the site.
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>>10755853

Idk I think they're just having a spergout. Usual reaction of male getting mad that women are not swooning at his feet at his incredible taste. Hopefully it will die and we can go back to posting actual EGL decor.
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>>10755883
search for specific non-taobao brands then...
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When I first heard that Shoichi Aoki hated lolita for being too formulaic and uninspired, and rarely photographed them for that reason, I was upset and felt that his opinion was unjustified. Now that I regularly see coords with casual/early lolita/FRUiTS styling in the ita thread, I get what he meant. There are bad, unflattering outfits, but then there's frothing at the mouth over anything that doesn't look like it came out of an AP catalog.
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I feel so ugly and old but I would feel this way without cute clothes so why not wear them and do my best

But I’m sad and I need a hug. I texted a couple friends but they didn’t respond. I should message another tomorrow, this is a really bad feel
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>>10756059
I'm sorry anon, I would hug you if I could. Hope things get better.
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Oh Boz, how you drain me of my money
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every fucking time i buy something on lacemarket there is some unlisted damage and shit. im officially done buying anything from the western comm unless it's rare af or something small. i give up
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when I go on lolibrary to add something to my wardrobe and I see that there's a lot of "Stargazers" but not a lot of owners I get some weird sense fulfillment
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>>10756325
I'm glad I'm not the only one with consistently awful lacemarket experiences, last time I vented about this I was told to "read the description" for undisclosed damages
>>10756342
Same
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>>10756325
I've only had this happen rarely, I feel like y'all think a broken thread or something is "serious undisclosed damage"
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>>10756325
I had this experience at a swap meetup recently. I stayed up late waking, steaming, and checking my objects for stains. Multiple items at the meetup were listed as and priced for flawless condition, and I found stains on them. Made me feel kinda disenchanted
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>>10756356
no. i have had undisclosed: stains, major fabric pulling, velveteen rubbed off that it has bald spots, fabric fraying that the dress is basically falling apart... the list goes on.

i have bought shady japanese listings too but those are usually obviously shady. a short description of the generic "it's used don't buy it if you're nervous" (or however google translate translates that sentence that's on every second hand listing ever) they usually pair that useless description with a very bad quality photo and a really low price.
the western comm will post their listings really normally, say that it's in good condition and they couldn't spot any damages! with pictures that just hide it and the price will be the same as that item usually sells for with no damage.
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>>10756420
Damn, that's some bad luck anon.
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how does one save a friend that is being pedophile'd?

they cut contact with me completely... pedos have that kind of power over them...

I can't do anything anymore, they seem convinced that they are being loved by a pedophile...

should I just let it play out?
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>>10756828
if something illegal is being done, contact the police, otherwise try to support your friend and hope she stops talking to him
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>>10756831
she's already turned 18

she's also autistic

no changing her mind...

don't see how police can do anything anymore...

basically closed themselves from everyone...
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>>10756833
Bust up and Sneed on he
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Don't know how to word this but does anyone else feel sad when they see cute things?
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>>10756828
>18
>pedophile
Anon, I don't doubt he's a creep, predator, and a skuz, but words have meanings.
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>>10756420
why don’t you ask for a partial refund? ngl whenever I sell I’m always nervous I didn’t spot some major damage and would feel like shit if the buyer just sucked it up without asking for at least some money back. I can’t say the same for every seller though
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>>10755722
wow I'm the exact opposite I can only jerk off to games I haven't played
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>>10752643
hentai



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