Beauty Queen anons, do you ever have the problem of wanting to do something that you know will get you nothing but insults, but also struggle to find help and advice as to how to do it?I'm talking about cosplaying sexy characters, FOTM, and casual cosplay that makes gulls seethe with the heat of 100 lbs of lard.Discussion thread, /r9k/ DNIBonus round: Have you ever posted yourself on /cgl/ and gotten shit even though you had fun making and wearing your cosplay?
>auto saging>coom bait threads still upDon't be mad at women who don't hate their bodies.
>>10738561>Beauty Queen anonsprotip: actual hot girls don't go to /cgl/
>>10738665Explain why they show up during /cgl/ meets then. Not every female here is fat/underweight with bad teeth and a worse smell.
>>10738561I wouldn't say im a gigchad by any means but I am pretty conventionally attractive and I've had people that look like basedjak caricatures approach me at cons and tell me that I look like the type of person that "shouldn't have these kinds of hobbies" or similar comments This is always done in a passive aggressive manner as this tends to happen when I dominate female attention in a social group or just gigamog nearly every attendee just by existing. People WILL seethe and be outright aggressive towards you in this scene, which is expected as it is full of incels. I've had a drunk dude literally try to start a fight with me all because he knows that I get laid every con I go to and he's been going to cons for years and couldn't get a woman's attention if he paid for it. It honestly can be hard being good looking in this hobby. People who are ugly outside truly are ugly inside. Fuck incels
>>10738696imagine the quality of women at these conventions, it's nothing to be proud of anon
>>10738697NTA but one night stands are nothing special. Doesn't matter if they're beautiful to American average, sex just feels good.It's the people who don't call you weeks after you go back home and get clingy that are harder to find.
>>10738697if you can sort through the fat uggos and dumpy townies you can easily find some hot cosplay babes. Sucks that you don't have much luck at cons though, anon-san
>>10738698>It's the people who don't call you weeks after you go back home and get clingy that are harder to find.you actually want this?
>>10738702I think you're misunderstanding.Con's over. I live in one state, they live in another. Not trying to start a relationship or see them from time to time. But some people are just horribly clingy.
i'm essentially a stacy, i just like weebshit. i do whatever i want whenever i please.
>>10738697Man I just wanna get my dick wet, I'm not trying to find a girlfriend.
Now, who'd actually post themselves on 4chan?Attractive people don't go unnoticed and I'm sure they'd be called out on social media.
>>10738698>>10738703>It's the people who don't call you weeks after you go back home and get clingy that are harder to find.you mean women are human beings with feelings who don't want to just be used as a human fleshlight and discarded? shocking
>>10738776>implying women don't do this to menYou're an adult. And if you're not you shouldn't be on this site. Grow up. If you are so honestly clingy and immature as to think sex means you're practically getting married you need a help group or a lot more sex.
>>10738780there's not even a female equivalent word for "fuckboy" so no. women very rarely manipulate and use men for sex. unless you are clear about your intentions of it being a one night stand, you can't blame the women you're traumatizing for being "clingy"
>>10738785I know there are no spoilers here. But anon.[spoiler]Who the fuck said I was a man?[/spoiler]
>>10738696>people who are ugly outside are ugly insideHonestly this. Tbh there are shitty attractive people too but holy shit the number of times I’ve been what on or burned by uggos in this space is too damn high. Imho people who don’t care enough to even try to clean up, lose a bit of weight and/or dress decently are just a huge red flag to me. If you don’t respect yourself enough to even attempt to give yourself a fighting chance in the mating pool then chances are your either an entitled charity case or someone who won’t care about anyone else either. Bitter uggos are REAL
>>10738813Even people with unfortunate faces have the kind of energy that's telling if they're massive cunts or not.The best con company are the mostly average people who know how to tell jokes and don't try to make the conversation about themselves or other people. Finding someone hot that's like this is hard, but you'll sooner find someone objectively unattractive that is the latter.
>>10738787i can smell your scrotery from here
Has anyone ever posted pictures of you online?I think I look fine but seeing myself from weird angles or not being aware my pose is wrong scares me.
>>10738774someone posted me in a waifu thread on /a/ once
If all the men compliment you and all the women hate you, you know you did the cosplay right.
>>10738561totally depends on the cosplay you docosplay liked by girls: girl admiration, guy seethecosplay liked by guys: guy admiration, girl neutrality
>>10738696Literally what cons are you going to? There have been some bad Soijak incidents but I've never even heard of such a thing, though it's believable enough. Also funny with the implication that being ugly or attractive is a barrier to entry. Either way I'd love to meet the seethers, as I don't do passive and subscribe hard to the motto of "Say what you mean, mean what you say." Also, to you...>>10738813>>10738827...and you: Based Physiognomy Chads. "Music critics hate Van Halen and love Elvis Costello because music critics look like Elvis Costello." - David Lee Roth>>10738842>>10738850What does "Lookin' sexy, man!" from guys and "OMG you're so cute! What are your pronouns??" from girls (sometimes outside cons) mean then? For myself, I also cannot in good conscience call myself "Gigachad" either, despite getting contact info from multiple girls at every one I go to now. Several of them have bought me things, too.
>>10738850>cosplay liked by guys: guy admiration, girl neutralityMore like girl neutrality/gulls seetheI wish I had that image of some known Lara Croft cosplayer that looked fine. Size 0 body with big tits and a bunch of beta orbiters in the frame. Only reason I knew of it was because of people complaining about her here.
I sympathize with so many posters in this thread. it's gotten to the point where I literally have to ditch some of my regular long-time con friends anytime I want to interact with female cosplayers because it's gotten to the point where these dudes have grown so resentful at just the sight of me having a pleasant interaction with a woman. They'll always accuse me of "stealing their girls" that they didn't have a chance in hell with. I always have to take down people's information when I encounter them and then meet them up later by myself to avoid this, of course most of the time they won't leave me alone because they're too beta to walk around a con by themselves and do their own thing so they have to cling onto me because it gives them more social cloud to be seen hanging out with me.Just want to say right now if you are only going to cons and cosplaying to try to meet a cutie cosplay gf and you know it deep down you have no chance of ever doing so, just leave people like me and honestly everyone else to fuck alone. What are you even doing dude just get another hobby.
Just wanted to chime in that girls also have weird situations like this in friend groups. I had leukemia in my late teens and obviously wasn’t looking my best. I had a group of friends I’d go to cons with, but when I got stable and cancer free I had a big glow up. Suddenly I wasn’t the pitiful, ugly friend in the group anymore and they just could not cope with that at all. I had to drop the entire group and make new friends in college because they just could not be happy for me and were just nasty and jealous about the fact that suddenly I was getting attention too. I’ve seen it happen to other people too. They keep you around because it makes them look/feel better about themselves but the moment you glow up and look better than them they just lose their shit. Is this a guy thing too?
>>10739003I think it's a human thing in general. Crab in a bucket mentality is very real and you have to identify these kinds of people and shake them out from your life QUICKLY.
>>10738837R u waifu material?
>>10739040Why is there no lolita/cosplay edit of this?
>>10738986>try to meet a cutie cosplay gf and you know it deep down you have no chance of ever doing soThis is how creep threads start. It's admirable when they work up the nerve but then they always for some reason think showing your favorite picture/meme/art related to their cosplay is an acceptable way to talk to people.
Does anyonw here have a patreon or onkyfans it seems all the hot girls do
>>10739067I'm going to be real with you chief, most people making onlyfans are below average at best. They are too ugly to rope a self sufficient guy who can also take care of them into a relationship. So they cope by making an onlyfans only to make like $20 a month and then give up. It's really a pyramid scheme and a massive grooming scheme to get dumb bitches to give a corporation legal rights to their nudes the day they turn 18. The few attractive onlyfans girls that make money are a massive exception to the rule. Any retard that thinks they are going to "make it" by just making an onlyfans has been successfully groomed
>>10739070Honestly, as much as I hate her, Belle Delphin showed you can make WAY more money on simps not even really showing as skin and just appealing to specific niche dudes' interests. Especially something traditionally very male. If you're an attractive female you can easily just pretend to like something niche without many women and have a horde of admirers. It's pathetic but if money is your soul aim it's a sound venture.
>>10739073If it were that easy, more people would do it. Do me a favor and google what "Survivorship bias" is. People only tend to look at successful cases, they don't see the thousand of washed up thots that tried to do the same thing belle does only to fail.
>>10738785>women very rarely manipulate and use men for sexThat's literally where the word "whore" comes from. Women absolutely use sex to manipulate men and get things out of them. And there are plenty of sluts with daddy issues who just adore the attention and are perpetually horny and sleaze about.
>>10739076Seems like an easier investment than being a pornstar. There are dozens of titty streamers, just gotta market yourself a little.
>>10739059Wow, that is LITERALLY me on the right. (But seriously, folks. ""People""" who see who see you achieving nonstop success for the first time, then getting angry so they try to force you back to loser's corner are the lowest scum on Earth. Even mooching isn't this awful.)>>10739061>showing your favorite picture/meme/art related to their cosplayYeeeeah, someone tried this recently. I forgot where, but it wasn't even an attempt at flirting and I still got incredibly annoyed because they're too smooth brained and/or cowardly to think of literally anything worth saying themselves.
>>10739003Can confirm this is also a guy thing, and not just about looks. Losers are gonna lose. I basically lost my whole lame ass hs crew when I got into Stanford and they just shat on me all the time. If you ever do something cool or achieve something in your life and your ‘friends’ can’t stand to see it or be happy for you, you need to take out the trash. Just because I wanted more for my life than working at GameStop or the table top gaming store doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to like what I like. Got a job at FANNG, made tons of new friends who were into anime and having a career and I’m so much better for it. Life is too short to spend it around people who just bring you down all the time.
>>10739076This 1000%. The same thing is true for pro athletes, manga/aa sellers. It’s a distribution with a looooonnnnnngggg tail. OF is basically an MLM at this point. Id be willing to bet my car that greater than 90% of OF thots make way less than minimum wage.
>>10739097Similar story.I hated just how much circlejerking there was in my HS friend group. Went to college in the city when they all went to some state university and continued HS 2.0. Looking back on them a few years into the future, they still play the same game, still have the same drama, and still the same people while I went on to make a buncha new friends. One of them took me to ANYC and that's why I'm on this board now, I fucking love cosplay and is finally going to cosplay for ANYC 2022. Sometimes you just have to take a risk and oftentimes it'll reward you. I'm quite curious though how do you make more anime-based friends? I was able to convert some of my friends into anime but it'll be nice if they were fans from the get-go.
>>10739100Try working for a tech company. My company has tons of work activities and groups that feature anime and I’m pretty sure a solid 30% of my org are anime fans, even if just casually. I found it pretty easy to meet other anime fans at work but I’d guess that varies drastically by industry.
>>10739076This. Half my comm are washed up ethots who make like $30 a month shoving cucumbers up their butt. I really don’t understand the logic, especially for people who start a little older. It’s a slim chance to be successful, and there’s an expiration date on the career, but there’s a100% chance basically everyone in your life will find out about it. I really don’t know how they could ever think it’s worth it
>>10739102>My company has tons of work activities and groups that feature anime and I’m pretty sure a solid 30% of my org are anime fansShiiiit, you mind telling me which one? The ones that I'll likely go down into is ASML which I highly doubt would have these type of activities. I'll definitely be on the lookout then.
>>10739097>>10739099This is a shot in the dark and risks derailing the entire discussion, but I'd be an idiot to not try. As someone who just removed the last parasitic "friend" from their life, I'm still stuck with the worst deadweights of all, my own family. Because they see me succeeding through rejection of their horrendous advice and teachings, they get mad and call me disrespectful, I'm driving them to the grave, even Satan possessed. An incredibly sanctimonious lot who hide behind Jesus to justify a lifetime of mental abuse, blatant manipulation, hypocrisy and stagnated growth. Through circumstances outside my control, I am stuck in the position of paying for a home I can barely afford that I live alone in because my mother is the most entitled cunt you've ever met and will absolutely, positively never lift a finger to work again in her life. Being that I never noticed what a loser I was until very recently, I have no support network and no escape from this hell. So if anybody has something worth sharing, I'm all ears.>/cgl/ - Cosplay & EGLYes.jpg. The realization that I can flourish comes from constantly meeting new people at conventions who accept me for who I am instead of trying to mold me into be what I'm not and never want to be, a good obedient slave. That only came about by defying every stupid idea my family planted in my head. /blog
>>10739109NTA but I cut my entire family out of my life at 18 and have no regrets. I was homeless for a bit, and I had a much tougher road in college and stuff than other kids at school, but looking back on it now in my 30s, I wouldn’t have done it any other way. I have a good job, friends, and a solid relationship. I don’t think any of that would have been possible if I’d put up with the constant abuse and manipulation from my family.
>>10739109Not the one you're replying to but I'm willing to bet you already know the answer. I'd start by securing your finances but that might be a bit hard...
>>10739076Failed onlyfans anon here. This.I tried my best to be "better" than other girls with high quality pictures and fitting a niche. Only to find out it's all sunken cost when there's no way to market yourself without people shilling for you and the pay I got nowhere near covered how much I invested going in.You only hear about the actual 1% never the 99 trying to climb on top of the other.
>>10738958i'm a guy, anon, so it's from a guy perspective. i've done cosplays that guys like (think traditional masculine "strong stoic warrior" guy) and I've done cosplays that girls like (bishonen in a suit). masculine strong guy gets you some amount of male attention (if they know the series) but almost no female attention. bishoujo is vice versa, plus you'll also get oggled by girls that don't know the character. >>10738696i almost don't believe this, but there's enough freaks in the scene that it's probably possible. the easiest way to deal with these sorts is to be as nice as possible. not a pushover, but nice from the get-go. they expect good looking people to be rude and/or not knowledgeable about the series they're cosplaying, etc, so proving them wrong makes them seethe like nothing else.
>>10739189Is bishounen the best way to hook up with girls, I feel like that's the path taken by a lot of male cosplayer these days.
>>10739198Doesn't matter how good you look, no girl likes approaching guys who look like they could be gay/taken. Even less like to be rejected.
this thread entertains.some bad bait posts mixed with some truly stupid posts
>>10739077women may weaponize sex to get money, power etc out of men but that's different than what men do, which is tricking women into having sex with them by pretending they want a relationship. in the former case, the sex involves informed consent while the latter does not. sexual assault tends to be more mentally traumatizing than simply dealing with a golddigger or w/e
>>10739216You may think it bait, but you know full well some anons are serious.
>>10739208if you're good looking, they'll assume you're taken. you never heard all the stories of the attractive people that nobody approaches because they're assumed to be taken/out of their league? >>10739198cosplaying just to hook up with girls is cringe as fuck and they'll smell it a mile away
>>107392386/10 face bros, we're winning...
>>10739174Well, give us the goods then.
>>10739238>cosplaying just to hook up with girls is cringe as fuckIs it any better to cosplay for praise/attention? At least getting laid has a real function.
>>10739322I guess you just can’t fathom that some people actually cosplay or fun??? Or because they like the character or craft?
>>10739336Anyone who claims that is full of shit.
>>10739336If you don't go to cons with the expression intention of having sex with cute gulls then why even go
hello, I would like to bang a cosplay qt, what do
>>10739359NTA but no??? My friend group and I have cosplayed for fun for like 8 years now. Outside of the competitive/e-thot space, lots of people still cosplay for fun.
>>10738678They're not hotThey're just better than what you assume a 4chan user would be
Any anons want to shill their OF I will subscribe
>>10738696>People who are ugly outside truly are ugly inside. Fuck incelsDangerously based
>>10739572I don't expect 4channers to necessarily be ugly, more just have some kind of mental illness and/or lacking social ability/quirk. Most people who use this site look remarkably normal from my experience. You couldn't identify them on the street from looks alone.
>>10738561Can only relate to having nice tits. I have bad skin and a huge nose, and I’m definitely not cool. Oh well, at least my boobs are nice I guess?
>>10739614try photoshop, skin treatments, mask up/git gud at contouring and you're top model material.
>>10739612Can confirm. At this point, I've lost count of how many people I've met from this site just in the last year. It's gotta be close to 50, if not already past that point. Basically everyone is Chad or dysgenic, with very little middle ground. The closest I can muster up for that is "the troll", which is more a personality type than appearance and can be either one.
>>10738834I’ve occasionally found hall shots people have taken of me at cons. Sometimes I look fine and others make me thankful I’m not tagged in them lol. I think one of the most upsetting ones was a photo where I looked good, my cosplay looked good, the angle and posing was good, but the photographer used a high powered/unfiltered flash so the photo looked like shit anyway
Put off responding or even reading till now. The last time I got vulnerable here ended VERY badly, but it seems you went easy this time.>>10739112This one certainly put things in perspective, since I've never been at risk to go homeless, thank God. Still considering drastic measures here, and also worth noting this used to be my sister in the same position as me, and both of us contemplated suicide over it. Yet I'm sure even if both went through with it, she'd turn it around and cry about how she doesn't deserve this because she's the real victim. Glad things are looking up for you, and you took the time for an honest answer.>>10739140And speaking of drastic measures / finances in order, that honestly might just entail starting a new bank account, then removing all money from it so the bills keep racking up. They're in her name anyway and she already robbed me of an untold (better I don't actually know how much) tens of thousands on a debt that got cancelled anyway. So why I even vaguely care about leaving her to suffer is beyond me. Thank you as well, thank you to (most of) the people I've met from this board for showing me all it took to succeed was pulling off the leeches.
>>10739073I would 100% simp for a girl that made TTRPG content.
>>10739614Big noses and nice tits (big or not) are a great combo. If your nose is a flater, contouring to make a more angular shape would make a good anchor point on your face and create a good contrast to round tits. Bad skin is a gambit. If it is zits, makeup normally makes it look crusty and draws attention. Work around the problem areas and potentially use cover-up if they are not open.
>>10739872My nose isn't wide, it is big in how tall it is. Add that with glasses...yeah, it's not a good look.
>>10739681I once had a photographer take a lot of photos, several poses, then got tagged in them and he used an awful orange saturation filter that made me look like a goddamn Oompa Loompa. Can't photogs see that shit and see it looks ugly as fuck?
>>10739881No. They cannot.Just like how people think black and white automatically makes something film noire.
>>10739881Unfortunately cons tend to attract a lot of amateurs with fancy looking cameras and no idea how to work them.
>>10739174Youre probably just ugly.
>>10739070>t's really a pyramid scheme and a massive grooming scheme to get dumb bitches to give a corporation legal rights to their nudes the day they turn 18.O0of, I don't think they were ready for this one
>>10739875That's a good archetype of a face to work with from how you describe. If your basic shapes of your face are like how my shitty picture looks, try my advice!
>>10739968Quite possibly the biggest dope I've ever met in my life was a con photographer. He told me he'd send me the pictures he took. What did he do? Send a completely blank email. I pointed this out, and instead of actually doing it, he told me he'd get back to it later. Anyone with half a working brain cell knows that 95% of all lies ever start with "I'm going to/I will." Literally anything else that comes after that can be disregarded as worthless shit until proven otherwise, and of course he did not defy my expectations. Rather, a few months later he sent me another email and I thought this was finally it, yet when I opened it he had clearly sent me some sort of work conversation meant for someone else. I've interacted with this guy for somewhere within the span of five, no more than 10 minutes. In that time frame, he managed to make three moronic blunders. Incredible.
>>10740022This guy might legitimately be retarded. I come across people like that in my line of work everyday, IT stuff, young people in their early 20s to early 30s that have no idea how to embed files in an email. Every time I come across one of these geniuses, I regret waking up for the day.
>>10740000Why are you under the impression that onlyfans has a bar of any kind for entry?https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlyFans101/
>>10740027>20s to early 30s that have no idea how to embed files in an emailHow the actual fuck
>>10740031It blows my fucking mind every time.
>>10740027How do these people function wtf. Im in my early 30s and I don't think I would have survived college with the sheer amount of essays we had to upload to three websites plus emails.
>>10740036I honestly think these people would drown if they looked up during a rainstorm.
>>10740036Surely one of them has used 4channel.org at some point. Or reddit. Just press the attach button.
>>10740041Honestly, at this point in my life I'm convinced that God has cursed me to be forever surrounded by stupid people. It's only explanation left.
>>10740027You know what? Retraction. It's actually four fuck ups. #2 is bothering to write back just so he could say "I'll do it later" and not doing it at all for #3.
>>10740006Anon that looks exactly like me and honestly? It’s creepy lol. You even got that I don’t have bangs at the moment
>>10740085That is pretty strange. I just grabbed that from your description and figuring how you would style from your words.I'd say, ponytail for a bit, that would balance out your nose from the side. Also if I am a wizard and guessing this right, don't worry too much about your skin. It's not as bad as you think it is, noticeable doesn't mean bad!
>>10740106I feel like having a ponytail just draws attention to how far my nose juts out; I absolutely hate my side profile.I try not to dwell too much on the bad skin, since I can’t cover it with makeup (bc it looks odd), I may as well try not to worry about it.
>>10740117I'd still say give it a try at some point. Even if you are thinking about it, no one else is and maybe you have another feature that is nice that they can see then! You can put less to make it less obvious. Before I took accutane I used BB cream, concealer and powder. Light is the best way, it was not for other people but for my own confidence, it did help.
>>10740031Some of these people have only ever used a phone for internet and have never used a PC or laptop. This is surprisingly common.
I mainly dress up as hentai related female tropes (my fav is the elf) and while my close circle of friends hype me up it is pretty damning to be called a whore and stuff even though you’re just sharing it to 20 people from your close circle. It’s all from men as well which is very interesting
I have an average face but one of the things that I genuinely like about it is that I have these really big doe eyes, like cassie from euphoria or beth from queen's gambit. I should really try cosplaying anime characters desu.
>>10740149no one calls you a whore, shut up
>>10739681this is a CLASSIC, photogs that use harsh flashes indoors in good lighting are the absolute worst. they always show the pic to you after and give you a business card like it's supposed to be a good pic.>>107396124chinners run the whole gamut of "this person cannot be trusted to interact with normies and will blurt some /pol/ shit out at a party" to "this person is basically a normie". it's very difficult to tell who is who until it's too late>>10738834occasionally. I get way more requests for photos than photos posted but that's how it be
>>10740281>it's very difficult to tell who is who until it's too late>introduce anon to your friends>they start to act like a spergOnly happened once but not doing that shit again.
>>10739361I went to the few cons in my country hoping to socialize. But I couldn't because it felt like there was an invisible barrier around me that I couldn't get through. I always ended up just walking around in a gloom like I was haunting the place. Now I'm in my 30s and my hair has gone grey from the lifelong stress and abuse. I am crushed by loneliness and pointlessness whenever my internet goes down.
>>10740119Thanks, nonny :-) I’ll give it a try for sure!
>>10740249I had a friend who has doe eyes like that, and I can never forget the day where she did my makeup for me and exclaimed, "Your eyelids are so small!"I have to breathe and remember that she's used to her own clannad face, but it stung.Conversely, I think the compliment I can never forget is when this girl approached me in middle school to gush over my spine and posture. She said she had scoliosis and that my spine was just the most perfect she'd ever seen.
>>10740006I love your little drawing, Anon
>>10738561Report and block those who insult you and go on with your life. You need to investigate, though, because you probably have a hater with multiple accounts following you everywhere. And it's probably female.My hater is your typical fat, pastry white with glasses and acne caucasian chick, with VERY BAD COSPLAYS, who hates every thin, pretty and skilled female cosplayer she knows. And when I say hate, I say she has tried to kill people before. She is now locked in a separate house from her family. She tried to kill her stepdad because he wanted her to study and work.I recently discovered she also bullies other female cosplayers, too. At least three of them. Who knows how many girls she has been attacking online for years, because she never stops and always gets kicked out of every social media. Now she's using tiktok for the same thing. I already reported and blocked two of her fake accounts. She keeps attacking me in every social media with her million fake accounts and I just keep reporting her nonstop. She deleted my personal fb 4 times years ago and I never uploaded anything there, but she didn't care. I only use it to chat with people I know through the PM feature.She has been kicked out of fb, twitter, discord and instagram, since she can't stop bullying every girl that looks better than her with dozens of fake accounts. She used her fake accounts to report a cosplayer she is jealous of and also reported one of her photographer's accounts. Both deleted. I think the cosplayer managed to get her account back. I don't know about her photographer's account, though. I wonder were will she go once she runs out of social media.
>>10738842This.Also people hate crossplayers because they usually are the biggest bitches out there.
>>10740513Let me know how it went if this tread is still up! I want to hear about how you felt and the compliments you might have gotten.>>10740518Aw thank you! You must be an artist or trained in drawing, that type of person normally likes my childish attempts at drawing.
>it’s tough being hotSure it is…
>>10740541sounds like my hater, except she's a crazy anachan.
>tfw handsome but had no girl friends growing up so bad at picking up womenI know tinders not a good judge to go by, especially small city, but I just can't manage anything text based. Least in person I can pick up on cues
>>10740557>Aw thank you! You must be an artist or trained in drawing, that type of person normally likes my childish attempts at drawing.Yes lol
>>10738842What if men and women compliment you??
>>10738696>Wearing socks and going to the public restroomoomI literally have nightmares about this
>>10740517ayrt, if it makes you feel better I also have scoliosis so id probably be gushing over your spine too lol. It makes me have horrible posture so I look like a hunchback most of the time hah. Not much I can do about it though so, same as with our eyes like you were saying ya know? :]
>>10740704I realized my scoliosis causes me to hunch over when I reach down instead of bending over like a normal person…
>>10740509Jesus christ, I don't know even know what to say. I genuinely hope you get better anon.
it's a good thing I'm ugly so I don't have to worry about any of the stuff talked about in this thread
>>10740574It's the "naive hand" i've heard. If you drop a description I can try to draw you! Keep it vague to make it more fun.
God, i wish more women had cocks
>>10740736ideal type of futa?
I just tried on a dress I thought I would look hot in and I did not. That makes me sad, I thought I was gonna look pretty good. Do we have to wear shapewear under everything these days? Should I wear shapewear?
>>10740771>Do we have to wear shapewear under everything these days?You could try working out. It's better in the long run.
>>10740281>they always show the pic to you after and give you a business card like it's supposed to be a good pic.Yes! That’s exactly how it happens every time! It almost feels like one of those universal cosplayer experiences at this point
>>10740862>guy has $400+ camera>hands me card>find my photo weeks after the con>it's average/looks like an iphone photo
yes but are any of you truly loved
>>10740876No one is truly loved.
>>10740876i am! my bf and i laugh at my simps and take turns baiting them on my social media.
>>10740923you in the wrong thread friend?
>>10740931Uglies and /r9k/ literally cannot help themselves. Never rise for their shallow bait and report.
Man, this board is depressing.
>>10738561This is gonna sound pretty farfetched but my hot cosplay bitchery has literally gotten me stalked and harassed out of the cosplay scene. Its honestly completely deteriorated my mental health and left me in a void era of my life in my late 20s wondering what to do now since all I knew was cosplay for the past 12 years of my life. Kinda tragic but I look back at old cosplay photos of myself and I sometimes don't even recognize who I am. Trauma is weird
>>10739061I would just drunkenly play Smash in the back than to pull this shit off on a girl. At least I'll be having fun.
>>10741842wait, what happened? You were mean to other hot cosplayers, or were you arrogant about being a hot cosplayer?I'm confused with what you mean by>"my hot cosplay bitchery"
>>10742164Oh sorry I guess that was weird wording. I meant like.... just existing. I would describe myself as nice.
>>10742493Yeah, there are a lot of jealous people out there who hold a lot of resentment towards popular cosplayers due to all the attention they get. It's a bummer that you had to give up on your hobby to get away from all the shitheads, but sometimes that's the only way.
>>10741842this happened to me. some bridge troll in my fandom got butthurt i made a better version of the character we both cosplayed. i'm still pretty she never will be.
>>10740889I am. Sucks to be you, but don't think the rest of humans have your problems. Because we don't.>>10740863That person didn't know how to use their camera. It's pretty common in conventions.
>>10740563Well, being too thin is the same than being too fat. Is not healthy. Also people who are too beautiful are as crazy as people who are too ugly.People who are not crazy usually look normal: normal weight, normal height, normal size of clothing.
>>10742644You mean, you cope? Because I am loved. You are the one who aren't and need to cope.Are you a retard, too?
>>10742656stop feeding the trollI thought we established this in 2006
>>10742798We established that gulls are retards that will never stop taking the bait
>>10742655Fat is uglier, but hey you can live into your 50s/60s and be morbidly obese. Anorexia can have you dead in a few years time or less. Like it or not, being fat is objectively healthier than being an Ana chan.
>>10742925anon, nothing of what you said is "objectively" true. those "600 lb life" whales commonly die in their 40s. it completely depends on how fat you are and your age. a just slightly underweight person is more likely to outlive a severely overweight person.
>>10742854It didn't used to be this way but COVID created an endless summer
>>10742929Nta but both of you are comparing apples to oranges.A just slightly overweight person and a just slightly underweight person are probably going to live the same amount of time while super skelly anorexic and a morbidly obese (500-600lbs) person will both probably die pretty soon.Given that, most people would rather be skinny in either case cause at least you'll look better and let's be real society finds anorexia more pitiable because being morbidly obese is viscerally disgusting to those around you.
>>10741842>>10742569This also happened to me, it's not uncommon. I stopped going to cons after the pandemic. Might go back but my experience has been tarnished.
I'll give $10 to anyone who posts their OF here
>>10742929I'm >>10742655 and you are right. I've known fatties who died between their 30's and their 50's. And the 30 year old guy was a DDR champion. Not the type of person who would sit the whole day eating doritos. He loved to move around and was a very active person. Yet, he died because he was obese. The same happens with extreme ana-chans who never stop loosing weight. BUT if a thin person is on the verge of normal weight, let's say slightly underweight, they won't die because of it.
>>10742929NTA but no, being extremely overwieght has a much higher life expectancy than being extremely underweight. This is because the entire healthcare industry caters to the treatment of fatty diseases because the majority of people are overweight. Ultra obese people live for years on end while being so fat that they literally can't move due to the amount of medical interventions and medications that can prolong their life. Anyone thin enough that they can't move is on deaths door and there's far fewer medical interventions available for the severely anorexic than the severely obese.
>>10740567I read your post, Anon.
>>10744564Awwe. So sweet
>>10738785>there's not even a female equivalent word for "fuckboy" so noyes, slut, in fact fuckboy was created cos calling guys sluts just didn't sticknow i'm not saying is good to call people sluts, but that's the female equivalent when you want to condemn the "shallow" and "frivolous" attitued towards sex on womenoh another anon already answered this the same way i did>>10739077
>>10744780slut isn't equivalent to fuckboi, you retard. sluts don't act like tryhards and spaghetti all over the place
>>10744788I'm with the other anon.I thought the world we lived in was that originally, there was the term "slut" and there was slut-shaming but there was no true male equivalent and so "fuckboi" was created because before that, promiscuous men were "players.""Don't hate the player, hate the game." Remember that saying? Male promiscuity was glorified meanwhile female promiscuity, before the term "fuckboi," was shamed.Now, it's true that f-bois have to adopt a certain persona to get laid but, if they're actually successful f-bois, why would get spill spaghetti?But yeah, f-bois are the male analogue. I don't know what world you think you're living in.
I meet the bare minimum requirements, not being hideous and having good hygiene.It is impossible to actually get a girlfriend at a con, and I have had a very attractive (like gigastacy material) woman ask me out once.it's only for hookups. How tragic
>>10744797>It is impossible to actually get a girlfriend at a con>>10743643>>10744684Sounds like your personality is the problem.
>>10744803well, I can't make friends at a con either so you are probably right.I was given good physical genes and plenty of financial support, but my personality was miscarriedhow do I even make friends with strangers?I do have friends but they are all losers like me.at least the anime club likes me.
>>10744818>get told their personality may be the issue>deflects>begs instead of looking internallyStay away from literally everyone, sociopath anon.
>>10744818Dunno, what are you like?
>>10744788because you have to take initiative as a man whereas a woman you just have to accept offers for sex that inevitably comes your way if you're like above a 6/10. Of course, they're going to spill their spaghetti because they have to try something that can fail where sluts don't unless they're ugos or going after men who are unavailable.
>>10740028half of those could also easily just be men posting leaked nudes
>>10744793fuckbois are sleezy in a way that slutty girls aren't. >>10744891not at all. just be a 4/10 asian. kek.
>>10744903they're sleezy because our society is retarded. Men are expected to be the sexual aggressors and women are punished for being sexually forward. So men are incentivized
>>10744905men are incentivized to do whatever it takes to convince a girl*This also could be resolved if sex wasn't the end all be all for male social value. If you can't get bitches you're worthless as a man. Even the most well-read patriarchy aware third wave feminist can't resist calling a guy a virgin if he's being autistic about something
>>10738785> women very rarely manipulate and use men for sexyou must be 18 to post anon
>>10744823>>get told their personality may be the issue>>deflectsI admitted it, I'm not that good at making friends. I am not the type to act different around women so it's not like it's because I seem like a pervertI am conventionally masculine looking so I doubt I would ever be friendzoned or whatever, if a woman wouldn't want to date me she probably wouldn't really want to be good friends with me either.>>10744843I just don't know what to say to strangers really. If I have something to talk about I will be fine having a conversation.so basically my main experience having women interested in me is getting random compliments from women walking down the street.
All this shit talkingAnd not one of you has even posted yourself in cosplay, j-fashion or anything.Even the validation seeking uglies have gone into help threads before.
>>10744939some of us get validation from actually being able to make friends/get laid/get invited to parties at cons, not posting ourselves on a kazahkstani bird-watching forum to get shit on regardless by literal incels
>>10744943>to get shit on regardless by literal incelsand jealous anons.Posted myself once and anons did everything to point out literally everything no one cared about. Especially when I had a ton of fun and talked to people at the con I wore it to.
>>10744939>Tell me ur a disgusting neckbeard without telling me ur a disgusting neckbeardKek. People who are actually attractive don't need to post their pics online for your approval. like >>10744943 said most of us prefer to let pussy validate our parking than 4chan of all things. plus like >>10744958 said, this forum routinely tears apart literal models and anybody even remotely attractive that happens to cosplay.
>>10744989>Tell me ur X without telling me ur Y>>>/reddit/>>>/out/Nothing you can possibly say is worth value to anyone.
>>10744993>uses different letters for the same variablekek, incels are retarded every time.
>>10744993Not my fault your out here acting like a sore man-cunt cause your ugly. The few times I have met people from this board irl, they're mostly pretty attractive to normal looking people. Sorry your wishful thinking of everyone being as uggo as you is wayyyy off
>>10745042>>10745044You've quoted me saying I'm right ITT too. You genuinely just want to spout nonsense for upvotes that don't exist.
>>10745054aww, you forgot this isn't reddit and no one cares about your post history.
>>10738561youre ugly and you catfish niggas
Since half the posts here are relationship related anyway, I’ll ask here. Lesbian cosplayer looking for a cosplay gf. In the past I would just chat up other cuties at cons, we’d become friends, and then it would turn out they were straight or already in a relationship. Is there a more efficient way to find a gay cosplay gf? One thing I’m thinking about is checking the gay dating app I’m on at my next con. I try to stay off my phone and be present with my friends when I’m at cons, so I haven’t tried that yet. Has anyone had success with dating apps at cons? (To be clear about success, I’m not talking about hookups, I want an actual relationship)
>>10745483Met my current bf on Grindr at AWA. It's been three years now and we're still going, but I think Grindr is a lot more active and location specific than apps that might feature lesbians? idk
>>10745483Get one of those Gay/Lesbian fans or similar merch. Instant advertisement for the people who would be interested.
>>10745483cosplay lesbian = doing onlyfans stuff with their girlfriendmany such cases
>>10745498Aww that’s so cute. You guys give me hope :')
>>10745587Tbh it started out as just a hookup thing, but it didn't work out on friday, so we just kept messaging. Didn't actually hookup until Sunday after the con, but I actually think going into it without an expectation helped a lot, and so did the taking a few days to just chat and realize we actually had a lot in common.
>>10738958man, when I first came across this girl I was like "neat, someone who pulls it off well even if it's a little inaccurate, I'll keep an eye on if she stays just a booth babe type or does real cosplay">a year later"well I guess she hasn't done much else, nothing new shows up on google search"a few weeks later someone mentions her as "really exploding in popularity">huh.jpg>have to do some research for art that requires safe search turned off>forget to turn it back on, no one else uses my comp anyway>sometime later google her>porn everywhereIt was at that point that i realized there were several cosplayers that I THOUGHT had just fizzled out as quickly as they showed up, that were actually doing porn and I had no idea because I don't leave safe search off.It was a little sad, because some of these people I had thought would make good cosplay guests at shows, but now there's only like 3 cons that'd invite them.Also they inevitably get plastic surgery and ruin their looks IMO.But now whenever someone asks me who I think should be a guest, I have to google them with safe search off to make sure before I suggest them.I bet we're only a year away from having to do the same with male cosplayers too.
>>10743013Just look in the various fap threads on here. OF content creators are stealth posting in those threads.
>>10745611>>10738958ALL of those cosplayers who look like porn actressess are...well, porn actressess. They are not fans of anything they are cosplaying from, or know anything about the source. They cosplay for extra income. Their fans, who know them for their porn movies, follow them and buy their cosplay photos.I know this because I have a friend who only follows porn actressess who do cosplay and he buys their photos or puts money in their patreons or onlyfans accounts. And he knows that they are porn actressess. He never follows or like regular cosplayers who are fans of the characters and the movie/anime/vidya/whatever the characters come from.I recognize that the porn actresses are usually very accurate portraying the characters they choose, have good photography and look spot on. And I'm not even bothered by it. At least they don't do bad cosplay.
>>10746458Yes, but if you don't watch porn, how are you supposed to recognize if someone LOOKS like a porn star
>>10746458>I recognize that the porn actresses are usually very accurate portraying the characters they choose, have good photography and look spot on.Honestly, I think it's great when they are. Because it looks good. But what makes me seethe are when they're off by a mile or have cheap "close enough" stand ins that they try and charge top dollar for.It's petty I know, but if you're going to go off model, it should at least be in character. Just as an example, could you tell this was Tifa Lockhart? Very, very easy character to make the most basic of coomer material, and they just popped this out. It's a personal gripe, someone out there undoubtedly is salivating over her, and good for them. But I believe if you're going to slut it up, slut it up correctly.
>>10747061i agree here. i try to make my slutty cosplays atleast themed around the character. one of my main characters has roses as a theme of her costume, so her lingerie needs to be rose themed. simple as. people want to be immersed by cosplayers otherwise there's no point.
>>10747061>But I believe if you're going to slut it up, slut it up correctlyA personal philosophy, just in general. For someone in a city world famous for "hot" women, you'd think we know a thing or two, and yet the VAST majority are just repulsive. Between the cellulite, knockoff designer outfits, unnatural "strutting", walking around with fucking small children in tow and any possible combination thereof. Nothing serves as a more clear reminder of how trashy it gets like seeing the rare outlier who does it right. Yes, this is only tangentially related to /cgl/, but at least it's on topic with "hotness". And I just felt like ranting about it anyway because this is a several-times-a-daily occurrence
d casual cosplay that makes gulls seethe with the heat of 100 lbs of lard.
>>10745574>many such casesname 10 examples
>>10740541>She deleted my personal fb 4 times years agoWhat the fuck? How? Are you using "12345" as your password?
>>10749498Oh wait, nevermind. I figured it out.
>>10740006>>10739875anon it's time to slay
>>10738698One night stands are soulless, pathetic, and low class.
>>10738780Was she awake and conscious/sober when "she used you for sex"
>>10738561I've been cold-shouldered at cons and nerd related events by unattractive women who think im gonna steal their husbands or something
People go to cons to fuck? I tried to fuck at a con, and all of a sudden Con Security is on my ass.
>>10738561>Bonus round: Have you ever posted yourself on /cgl/ and gotten shit even though you had fun making and wearing your cosplay?Yes. I posted a costume I made in a Halloween thread and instantly got posted in a bad cosplay thread. My face was blurred out and no one responded to the post anyway. I had fun making it, but now I don't self-post on /cgl/ anymore lol
>>10752761>see amazing Travis Touchdown cosplay>ask for picture>chubby gf not in cosplay drapes herself all over said cosplayerShe could have chosen to be any girl from that series but chose to be an intrusive, insecure ham beast that ruined everyone's photos.
>>10738561Used to work as a promotional model. You know, those girls in skimpy uniforms promoting products at cons. That's how I got into cosplaying, event staff inviting us to their next venues or to some interesting events going on. I'm into games like persona, atelier series and fire emblem, so I cosplay characters from those mostly. People are generally kind to me in cosplay cons, I barely get insults for my costume. I do get a few awkward guys who get clingy because I'm nice to them. The model gig was worse, mostly from pervy men who really push the boundaries.
>>10755602do you have onlyfans
>>10738986>Just want to say right now if you are only going to cons and cosplaying to try to meet a cutie cosplay gf and you know it deep down you have no chance of ever doing so, just leave people like me and honestly everyone else to fuck alone.Don't worryI kinda gave up already...
>>10742095I would do both
>>10745574Can't complainBut I'm a male...
>>10740560WellShe kinda has a point...
>>10755602>The model gig was worse, mostly from pervy men who really push the boundaries.Aka, the manager
>>10746458>have good photography and look spot on.Yeah, cause they do that professionally already
what a shitty thread, y'all should be ashamed
>>10738696Outside of the geek scene I'm a solid 7 or so, pretty average, but at conventions I get a tonne of attention. I have started moving around cons in less crowded halls and wearing costumes of characters noone knows besides niche fans that appreciate them more. It sucks having to dodge 2/10 unshowered tubs of lard that literally think that because they're girls it gives them the right to violate you as you're going about your day. I also tend to avoid hotel parties and stuff, because cosplayers are gossipy bitches and all it takes is one mentally ill retard to ruin your life.
>>10738834I’ve seen creeps of me before and it kind of turned me on
>>10738696>>10762761I haven't been to many cons but when I did, I had similar experiences. Not that level of outright hostility, but some shitty people being shitty. I also got a lot of hostility when I would go to get paint and miniatures for 40k at local game stores, and it made me not want to actually play the table top game. Apparently I'm very attractive, but I'm still extremely autistic so I manage to not fit in with the fat spergs or the actual functional humans. >>10762763That's kinda hot
I’m not hot, well. My body is okay. But I want plastic surgery…
>>10763039Its amazing how petty fellow geeks can be, like bros, can't we all just get along? I'll happily help people better their lives if they ask. They all act like they're nice and welcoming people but as soon as you're friends with a girl they like suddenly you find you have no friends and there are rumours spreading that you're groomer trying to pickup highschool girls or something.
>>10763041Post body, I bet you're actually pretty but just don't know how to spot it.
>>10763039>also got a lot of hostility when I would go to get paint and miniatures for 40k at local game stores, What did you paint?>and it made me not want to actually play the table top game.What a shame
>>10763041if you want it for cosmetic reasons I do not recommend it at all, it will not cure your insecurities and may make them worse. Learn to love to be yourself and be happy
>>10763179>What did you paint?I like the Custodes and Admech. I don't have a full army or anything though. I just liked them a lot in the lore before they had actual models. >What a shameYeah. I'll probably get back into at some point, but it felt weirdly alienating to be the only person who wasn't 300lbs in a ratty tshirt playing card games. Also the workers at the store were kind of dicks too. I don't like having a ton of people stare at me as I mill around looking at overpriced paint. It happens at multiple stores too.>>10763176I really don't understand it. I imagine it's probably way worse for women tho. Also, for stories that aren't at game stores, there's only really one con location I've been to over the last few years. Because of a family member I get free access, so I just help them carry stuff around in exchange for free access so I can explore the building and look at stuff. I dont cosplay personally. But when I went last time I ran into some women I knew and hung out with them for a bit, and man the amount of hostility from randoms and even sellers was insane. Having a fancy badge + women + being normal looking apparently is a no go.>>10763041I'm sure you're fine desu. I used to completely hate how I looked, to a really unhealthy degree. I would have taken surgery then, but not now. Just getting more used to yourself helps.
>be hot>also autistic>can't find a cute cosplay bf because too scared to ask if he's single>said cosplayer is never alone
>>10766436....Are you okay retard?
>>10738561I dislike FOTMs. They attract a bunch of attention whores and they get spammed everywhere. Harley Quinn, Bowsette, D.Va, fem Joker. And the more people they attract, the lower the quality drops. Somehow 2B dodged this. I wonder why Haydee and Hornet didn't become FOTMs.
>>10738828You like sniffing guys' crotches?
>>10745483Have Very visible lesbian pride flag merch somewhere on you. Godspeed fellow lesbianon.
>>10740122>Some of these people have only ever used a phone for internet and have never used a PC or laptop. This is surprisingly common.Life is a hideous thing, and from the background behind what we know of it peer daemoniacal hints of truth which make it sometimes a thousandfold more hideous.
>>10738776if they didn't want this, they wouldn't sleep around
>>10762761>I'm a solid 7 or so, pretty averageso you're a 5?
>>10739217lol being pumped and dumped is not sexual assault, beckys are awful, this is why no man wants you to contact him after you fuck
>>10739003This is your side of the story, but in reality whenever women say things like this, it turns out to be that they're just annoying and bitchy. None of this is ever actually discussed, you all just act passive aggressive until the group disintegrates and you each psychoanalyze one another to anyone who will listen.
>>10739099>OF is basically an MLM at this point. Id be willing to bet my car that greater than 90% of OF thots make way less than minimum wage.>anything that requires me to actually be successful and innovative outside of just aping the trend is an MLMThis reads like it was written by a sub-beta female, it's just that illogical and based on cope that only a woman could come up with it, and only a low-tier woman in this case
>>10738678>Explain why they show up during /cgl/ meets thenBecause what is considered 7/10 here and at cons is 4-5/10 in real life. The bar is simply lower.
>>10741842>>10740517>being hung up on an extremely weird comment from middle school>my mental health deteriorated when I got the attention I was seeking, and now I'm here seeking attention regarding this incident, a sort of meta attention whoringhp lovecraft was right about women
>>10744958>Especially when I had a ton of fun and talked to people at the con I wore it to.having fun doesn't make you less ugly or your cosplay less bad
I like going solo to cons and strike up rando convo with people but I'm starting to wonder if I'm too intimidating due to relative attractiveness or presentation.
>>10768038i know that feel.
>>10739003Congrats on getting better.>>10768038Intimidation schmintimidation. Hug me bro.
Everyone assumes you have an onlyfans or pressures you to make one
Being attractive kind of sucks. I don't really trust anyone, least of all other attractive people.
>>10744793>>10744780>fuckboy was created cos calling guys sluts just didn't stickJust chiming in to say that fuckboy was coined in the hip hop community to mean a weak ass bitch, and then co-opted by white women to mean a player.
>>10769188fuckboy doesn't mean player, it means a cringy guy who is trying to flirt/fuck.
I assume everyone in this thread including myself are uggos until pics are posted.
>>10769207It's just trannies and fat girls.
>>10769207I posted in another thread and was insulted. No one wants to post knowing they look great but have some seething lard ass male or female to try and tear them down.At the con, I couldn't walk 5 steps without a compliment. So its just hot air and baiting people to post won't work.
>>10770086Lmao cope, people at cons literally give everyone compliments no matter how shit they look
No one would trade being hot for being ugly, so the idea that "its hard to be hot" is obviously bullshit.
>be 6"3 with good frame and hair>recessed jaw that just fucks my whole look up no matter what I dokill me
>>10772411Get jaw surgery idiot.
>>10772420I'm planning on it. It's a big endeavor though.
>>10772424Just be sure to disclose your former appearance to your future partner if you plan to reproduce with them.
>>10773232If I ever decide to have kids I'd sooner just rawdog a bunch of third worlders/SEAs. More effective reproductive strategy if I begin to care about that sort of thing.
>>10772420How expensive is that? Does insurance cover it? I've been losing weight and doing jaw exercises but I still have a gross round face with flabs and fat
>>10769291At this point I'm down.Fucked a few girl no trans, but I've never had a dry spell this long.
I purposely have uggo friends so I can be the hot one
>>10738837you will never be 2d
i think i’m a really ugly hambeast and i never cosplay overly sexy characters, just really cutesy onesi really want people to leave me alone but despite this i get hit on aggressively at cons or even when i’m just on the way to onewhen i’m normal i do also get approached by guys but i really have to wonder if i’m as bad as i think i am or if they’re just that desperate
>>10773385>does insurance cover elective cosmetic surgerywhat do you think?
>Be 5'11 black man>Get approached by a 5'4 twink looking dude>asked if I was gay while he put his hand on my knees >Try to be polite and tell him that I'm flattered but don't go that way>"are you sure~?" While sliding his hand up my thigh almost reaching the tip of my duck.>Jumped up and told em to fuck offIs it that easy for men to hook up with other men?
>>10777392no, he likely has a 1 in 1000 success rate.
>>10772411>>10773385If your doctor or dentist can say it is bad for your health (breathing, pain, etc) then insurance will cover some of it.
>>10777357Depends what kind of guys hit on you
>>10777392No, and that dude is going to get killed that way. Men aren't used to being treated like women, and as a result they react pretty badly
>>10777392Well think if a hot girl did that what would you do?There's your answer.
>>10777429I mean I don't think it is, are there doctors that will say that?
>>10772410Nobody trades bronchitis for brain cancer but that don't mean you love having bronchitis.
Im pretty but smol booba and tall so cant cosplay much accuratley
>>10778959This analogy doesnt work because in your example there is a third option of being completely healthy that is infinitely more desirable, therefore making both brain cancer and bronchitis undesirable. Would you rather be hot or average/ugly? There are no other option so answer this
>>10779058I'm a guy and I crossplay all the time. You can just use fake booba
>>10779080ugly people like you always think being hot is easy. try imagining being hit on by ugly people multiple times a day when you're just trying to run errands.
>>10779103Imagine not getting laid for multiple years on end.
>>10766436Just ask him, stop being an npc and have iniciative get what you want
>>10779103Lol you deflected to not have to answer the question. I rest my case
>>10778925Honestly I would do the same considering I was in a relationship at the time
>>10779124Most sex is boring and bad. I would rather not have sex than have bad sex. But then again, I'm not a mentally ill weird faggot.
>>10779240Stop letting anything with a dick stick it in you. I never got people who say most sex is bad. Just have better sex or choose better partners.
>>10779240You know you can do that right? Decline sex for the next 2 years then tell me it's nice.
>>10779240NTA but it definitely doesn't have to be? Maybe try masturbating more to figure out what works for you or maybe masturbate less to try to recalibrate your expectations or something. I had some bumps along the way, and some bad experiences, but once I figured out what I liked and didn't like, and learned how to sus out potential partners who would be fun my sex life has been awesome. Most sex has been awesome, and I'm a woman sooo. It can be done. Out of curiosity, what makes sex bad for a guy? Assuming you're straight is it really that discerning? You just put your dick in and feel good right?
>>10779124>>10779205incels aren't welcome here.
>>10779448What are you doing here then?
>>10779481You're a fucking BITCH fuck you !
>>10738785>women very rarely manipulate and use men for sexlol...lmao.
>>10779535>otAnons right tho. See, women manipulate men for money USING sex. There's a difference there.
>>10779448I've had a girlfriend and past relationships I wouldn't call myself an incel. I don't have any problems with women. Shit I want to a rally this weekend supporting abortion rights. I've just been in a dry spell, and am a bit autistic.
>>10779694hot girls can have dry spells too. i get hit on by normie dudes who become uninterested once they find out i'm and nerdy guys assume i don't like them! i'm also a bit of a sperg, i am just also conventionally attractive.
>>10779701Yeah I know. My ex hasn't been with anyone either since we split up. We're still super tight.Yeah I wouldn't consider myself conventionally attractive. Working on it though. Hitting the gym and eating better, down 30 pounds and trying to drop more.
>>10779244>>10779247>>10779446I'm a man who fucks women you retarded children. I don't care if you're a weirdfaggot, but don't pretend like your experiences are generally true or that your opinions matter.I will reiterate. I would much rather jerk my dick then get some unenthusiastic head or get some "hot" woman who doesn't even know what she likes to have boring sex with me. I can get companionship outside of putting my dick in a woman.
>>10779799>I would much rather jerk my dick then get some unenthusiastic head or get some "hot" woman who doesn't even know what she likes to have boring sex with meMan to Man, this is some weird shit to me. Even boring pussy is always better than a handy. What do you have dick insensitivity or something?
>>10779812no hes larping
>>10779812No. Why would you bother to get another human being if you're just using them as a fleshlight? To feel better about yourself? Explain your position as I have already given you the logic and reasons behind mine.
>>10779817lmao heres my "logic": Pussy feels better than a hand.god could you sound anymore like a useless neckbeard tho? incel spotted
>>10779822My hand feels just as good as a pussy if not better. It can't replace the feeling of intimacy if that's what you like, but if I'm just looking to empty my nuts then why the fuck do I need intimacy? If you're going to make this argument, you should say a blowjob is best. Because it is. But even that just makes me feel bad if it's not very good. Would rather jerk it then have unenthusiastic head from some boring woman.
>>10779826NTA but tell me you masturbate too much without telling me you masturbate too much. Feeling lonely?
>>10779834No. I already told you I don't feel lonely. If I did it might make me crave sex all the time like you seem to.
>>10779826>My hand feels just as good as a pussy if not better.You have GOT to be a larping virgin, or you just haven’t gotten laid in years and you’ve forgotten.
>>10779826I have never came from a blowjob I think they're pretty mid
>>10779901yeahhhh I was like dude you gotta share your skincare regime or something if you're gonna claim that.>>10780039The only times I've cum from a BJ have been when I get drunk enough to let a twink suck me. Guys do it better, I guess girls probably lick pussy better than guys do too.
>>10779694>Shit I want to a rally this weekend supporting abortion rightslmfao hahaha, imagine simping so hard you go as far as to try to get a crumb of pussy from a bunch of girls whose highest ideal is having a haunted pussy
>all those folks fighting for who is the most virginY'all have never met me, obviously. I have had only one girlfriend and I never was able to penetrate her because of one reason:I have so many self esteem issues, on top of my autism, that I can only get hard and have a successful erection if I am in costume, and my partner is as well, and we both roleplay. Or else I begin to get highly apologetic about every single damn thing, and I go soft.I'm bisexual, I tried that with a guy. We were both in costume and things were fun as fuck. I also regularly look for new cosplay porn, amateur or made by companies, and I buy those who are rare and/or unobtainable through other methods.My last purchase costed me $25 - a video of Iden Versio from Star Wars having sex with Rebel Troopers in the moon of Endor. Therefore, y'all can't be worse than me. Bow down to me.
I know this might sound cringe, but I feel this way about being fat and around other fat people. I'm a fat lolita and have been trying to lose weight and the way other fattychans react is...so strange. Getting an attitude if someone asks me about what I've been doing for weight loss and I explain, getting annoyed about casual comments about me fitting better into stuff. I don't go out of my way to talk about it but sometimes it just comes up but the seethe is real. Also, people being jealous that I can fit into burando that they cannot because they are morbid level obese.On top of that, I know fat is fat, but I think you can still take care of your appearance in other ways, and do things to try and look as nice as you can. Some of these girls - facial hair, yellow teeth, ruddy faces, dry ass facial skin, unable to apply flattering makeup, hair that is flat as fuck and greasy, braless saggy tube titties flopping all about their maxed out Meta and Lady Sloth jsks...just totally a mess. Is it mean that I can't wait to be skinny just so I'm not associated with these insecure freaks who don't know how to take care of themselves?
>>10780346Lolitas are automatically not hot.
>>10780304I went because I'm a socialist and that was an attack on working class women, and was there with my red flag in solidarity. I didn't try to pick up any girls that is not the place to do it.
>>10780055I've heard this too I'm kinda curious not gonna lie.
>>10740513Following up, how did it go?