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Someone offered to sell me a dress I really wanted from cgl but then ghosted me in emails even though I was more than happy to pay the price they requested if not more...I'm not upset with them because idk what's going on in their life but it does make me a little sad.
I'm desperately searching for a matching tote to a dress I own to soothe the intense depression and stress I have during the pandemic and despite searching every Japanese secondhand site daily, I never find it...I could make an entire fucking dress with the amount of sugary carnival or baked sweets parade totes on fril and mercari but I can't find the one Lyrical Bunny one I've been wanting for so long anywhere.I wanted it for years and got desperate enough that I posted it on cgl...I got the tote in a different colorway and it occasionally pops up in black but I want it in pink so bad.It a stupid ass first world problem I'm just focusing on so I don't sink deeper into depression and sadness over more serious problems in my life right now...even knowing that I can't help but be upset about it. I shouldn't care so much about a dumb ass strawberry bunny fabric bag but I do because I'm lolita trash obsessed with being a completionist.
Lolitas need FDS. Stop letting LVM scrotes use you and get yourself someone of actual value! You deserve better.
>>10648764I love how much FDS makes scrotes seethe knowing that women are finally waking up and leaving LVMs like them in the dust. The thought of some pathetic incel manlet raging behind his computer screen while I go on expensive dates with fine gentlemen of esteemed professions that are happy to service me makes me laugh. Nothing makes me happier than seeing scrotes experience the utter shame an humiliation they deserve. Meanwhile, I'm living my best life as I rightfully deserve.Cope and seethe more loser virgins. Your tears are my delicious nourishment.
>>10648766Based. Bitter comments from scrotes used to annoy me but now I actually enjoy them. They're basically subhuman, so their misogynist ramblings are just an embarrassing cope. Thinking about how pathetic they are compared to me almost makes me cum.
>>10648760They probably never had it to begin with. I’m sorry anon.
>>10648767>>10648766>>10648764There's 3 IPs in this thread, retards. (4 counting me now) Don't be so obvious with samefagging. It's embarrassing.
I'm technically a covidlita even though I've loved the fashion for a decade. Feel like I won't be able to join a comm because I'll be the ita there
>>10648770I'm >>10648767 and >>10648768 is my other post in the thread. Fuck off scrote.
>>10648770Yeah, I'm samefagging. What the fuck are you gonna do about it, scrote?
>>10648766If you're on fucking 4chan you're not going on dates with fine gentlemen of esteemed professions
>>10648776you're replying to an /r9k/ incel larping as a femanon retardit's the same image hash wish janitors could clean this board up and ban all crossboarders.
I thought I would have lost enough weight and gained enough muscle to do swimsuit cosplays for summer, but as usual I am unable to meet my goals because of shitty circumstances.
>>10648776You'd be surprised. There are SO MANY hot, successful guys competing against each other. The guy I'm mainly texting now is a millionaire who wants to retire quietly. There's quite a bit of an age gap so I'm proceeding with caution. He's competing with another man who's a bodybuilder. I'm also texting a professional basketball player, several personal trainers, 3 doctors, one Dentist, and idk what this last guy does but he definitely has a Lamborghini and Yacht in his photos. These men are all hot & attractive, with the exception of the millionaire who's ... balding but still tall and rich. THIS is the level of competition that is in my inbox. I'm in my mid-30s. People on here and on incel forums will have you believe I'm over the hill and nobody wants me but that's ... not the case. I'm sure if I swiped more than 10 minutes a day twice / week, I'd have even more matches... I keep having to dump these guys because they want something more and I don't. I'm good with my life as is and I just want to have fun right now and be free to do me.I just dumped my ex of 7 months about ~2 months ago because he suddenly realized he wants to have kids and wants to settle down and that's not what I want right now. Re-activating the dating profiles, a BUNCH of the guys who I was texting before I met my ex ... are STILL on these apps. Their profiles are still active and a few have tried messaging me. One of my dating apps is almost 10 years old and there are guys on there who've messaged me ... who STILL have their profiles active and are logging in and texting.
Those pinks don't match.
>>10648781you got this from Reddit you faggot incel scrote.
>>10648787I AM that reddit user, you faggot incel scrote. Wash your dick.
>>10648789>UHHH I AM REDDITyeah try again next time retard
>>10648790Yeah shut the fuck up you stupid scrote. Go back to /r9k/ or wherever you came from. This is not your fucking board.
can we start calling sweet lolitas ddlg fetishists again and change the public opinion that 2010 AP is for itas? because goddamn do I want my cheap prices againwish someone would tell the Chinese lolitas that OTT gothic is the next trend
>>10648766This is obviously bait, but what I love is how much the women of 4chan seethe if you know you’re handsome, charming, intelligent, and muscular.
If the only local lolita you knew was an ita would you still befriend her?
Does anyone else feel like their whole adulthood is two steps forward, one step back bullshit?
>>10648808wishing for the same thing to happen, but for old school
>tfw pic related describes my sexualityWhy
>>10648877I feel like I'd try my best to teach her. I like studying, so I think it would be fun to go in that journey of learning and improving together. Everyone starts somewhere, what matters is getting gud.However, if she's an entitled asshole who is unwilling to learn or even take criticism, no.
>>10648773same boat anon...it sucks
>>10648758>hesitant to ask this girl out>realize a cosplay she'd be perfect forI have to do it now. I need to dress her up.
>>10648900Didn't know the fear of commitment was a sexuality now, bunch of degenerates
im lesbian b ut i hate hearing the straights fighting and letting each other live in each other's heads rent free this board sucks i can't believe its actually turned into r9k for females. transphobia included.
>>10648904>>10648773Itas are all over the place at meets. You don't really need to worry, because there's normally only a few lolitas that usually do it well at a meet. At least from my experience, the norm is not everyone is good at it. No one is going to judge you like cgl. The only reason why cgl judges so harshly is because it's online and everyone is picking at it like it's an art photo to critique. Normal human meets IRL aren't like cgl.
>>10648764Seagulls compete for garbage at the dump but you won't find me hanging out there.I'm not single, but if I were, I wouldn't waste time on mental children posing as adult women.
>>10648772>childfreeUgh, that’s probably because of me lol
I want a lolita friend in IRL. Someone to go for tea and desserts with and do cute outings. I have a huge wardrobe and lots of brand and lots of outfits to twin... But no IRL friend :( I haz a sad. Living that lonelita life :'(
Woman i was sweet on calls me "creepy and stalkerish" I wish i knew proper social skills so i wont be called that again. And apparently i'm not high enough value for her. I also wish i was white. Being white would be like easy mode. But then i obsess too much over race. and it's unhealthyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84VrYh60oWE
Bought a second hand dress which was in great condition, according to the seller. I just took it out of the package and the thing was full of pilling and threads sticking out and parts of the fabric full of lint and dirt. I complained to the seller and she replied ”I bought it second hand, but never wore it. I thought it was in very good condition” like bitch what
>>10649007>Being white would be like easy mode. But then i obsess too much over race. and it's unhealthyIs this bait? I think it has more to do with social skills for women, rather than race. If you got no charisma then you got no women.
>mfw girl trying to sell me her USED OTKs at a higher scalped price than brand new ones. Fuck right off, I don't want your stinky piling socks, especially at that outrageous price. Really fucking hate the market right nowOn a more positive note I was able to find another listing where the OTKs were brand new and at a way better price.
>>10648764FDS is kind of a bitter shithole too but I do appreciate them trying to help each other
>>10649017i am not baiting, when i say i wish i was white. And i am a social retard which sucks.
>>10649007anon, your fucking stupid /pol/ to cosplay post (multiple posts, actually!) are so recognizable that you might as well be a namefag. GTFO and/or learn how to type
>>10649007Get some social skills
>>10649007stop chasing after white girls like a creepy race fetishist then
>>10649059>>10649025>>10649017I'm not a moid, though. I shouldn't be struggling. I'm a catch just like any other woman.
>>10648758I put Icy Hot on my back, forgot about it, and touched my pussy.
>>10649086Icy hot hurts like a bitch on any genitals. There not made to withstand that kind of torture. The best u can do is wait for it to subside. And remember to never put icyhot on your genitals.
>>10649086Put milk/dairy on where it burns nonny
>>10649095That's someone's fetish.Record it and post it to the internet????Profit
>>10649007>I also wish i was white. Being white would be like easy mode.White male hereBeing white isn't easy mode when it comes to women
>>10648900Are you a good locking girl?If yes, I'm just looking for a cumdump, so no need for deep connection>>10648925Lesbian or the irl version of dude from My Dress-up Darling
>>10648993>i can't believe its actually turned into r9k for females.You mean, always has been
>>10648764That's why I go to prostitutes>>10648769This
>>10649086What is icy hot?
>>10648993This board is just /r9k/ with frills
>>10648993>r9k for femalesThere hasn't been any lolita related shootings so no. Also fuck trannies
They're laughing because I'll never be kawaii
>>10648993/r9k/ for fembots is Crystal Cafe, not /r9k/ i know this because i spend copius amounts of time on /r9k/
>bf has been seriously depressed since he found out some guy who "worked on a ufo" was lying>he only gets out of bed to piss, hasn't gone to work in a weekwhat the fuck am I doing here
>>10649017Nah, whiteys got it on easy mode
>>10649275No. It has nothing to do with race.This is why you're socially awkward and forever alone.
>>10649282Because you can pick up poop, you can't pick up piss. You're gonna learn that someday.
>>10648993lmao it's the only good part of this board
>>10648993>im lesbian>transphobia includedUh oh. AGP transbian hon detected.
>>10649234I stopped using /r9k/ when I realized that every single thread is a bait thread. /adv/ is a much better board (albeit a slower one) that covers the same blackpilled doomer incel topics./cgl/ isn't really comparable to any other board here. It's most similar to lolcow if anything.
>>10649334The 25+ general threads are good, for all my advice I go to crystal cafe and swap the genders in my question.
>>10649086https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATbFRgIc_yU>>10649267People react this way when they are devastated by the state of the universe. He put all his remaining hopes on a UFO building project. To me this means that he was hoping something fantastic would happen. That he sees the world as dull and devoid of wonder to the point that it is crushing his soul. I suggest you take him to haunted places to give him hope that there is more to the world than we can observe.
>>10649267Bob Lazar?>>10649409If it's who im thinking of, its a guy who said he worked for the government to reverse engineer an ancient ufo.
>>10649335Crystal Cafe is good for males when you want to feel like shit.Mentally it will destroy you if you're a man. Seeing how worthless a man is to them, is one of the blackest and darkest blackpills you can take.
>>10649413What do you expect from crones and spinsters. Of course they're bitter and consider you less than dirt.
>>10649413Maybe im just built different but it doesn't bother me
>>10649413I’ve never gone on that site, but welcome to what it feels like on 90% of the internet and 75% of all mainstream media as a woman.
>>10649413i just think it's amusing t. peenie haver
>>10649423>>10649426>>10649430>>10649435I just have this unshakable feeling that the majority of women have those kinds of opinions about men, and that they just keep it quiet as to not be seen as hostile.
>>10648758"Oh this dress looks cute-">POLYESTER 100%Every damn time. After taking my chances with a pure poly dress only to find it very underwhelming, I feel like I can't trust any of them anymore.
>>10649451Don’t go on internet cesspools and start thinking everybody be like that because they don’t. Get a mix of both real life and the internet Cgl is toxic like the rest of 4chan except for a few threads like the classic thread and maybe the diy board. Angry people just happen to post more
>>10649455I think i've already been fucked up due to spending a healthy 10 hours a day on 4chan mainly on /r9k/ and /pol/ LMAO. One day i will leave the house.
>>10649457You got the power to change your own life and there always a way back my friend! It never too late. If you tell yourself that then you are giving up on purpose.I used to be the same as you and i would go on stormfront too. before i realized enough is enough, the real world isn’t autistic guys claiming race war. Now i have real life friends and i come on here to talk about frilly dresses and i’m significantly less fucked up than before. One step at a time just take it slow
>>10649451You are disheartened because you thought the other sex would magically make your life heaven. Now that you're realising they are not the life-changing deities you thought you are losing hope at having a happy life.Humans are complex beings. They have multiple needs that no single thing or person can fulfill. Remember all the times you bought THE ONE figma/gunpla/transformer/dress you wanted more than anything only to buy more later. Because it didn't fulfill your collecting desire.You will find companionship among your close friends. Solace in your evolving perspective. Your SO is only part of your life and is mostly for babymaking. Get a prenup and divorse once the kids are grown up if you don't like the other person. Carry on living regardless.
>>10649457>started browsing r9k when I was in high school 10 years ago>nevee go there anymore but cant completely break out of that mindsetConfirmation bias can fuck you up
My SS still hasn't confirmed if I got the items I requested from the AP release 4 days ago. I even asked about it. In the meantime, I've seen the item pop up and be sold secondhand for a good price.It's going to be extra painful if they didn't get it, because I could have just requested the secondhand listing.I really hate that SS got so busy because of covid and can barely keep up now.
>>10649454Same, I feel like a lot of lolitas who still buy AP's shitty poly trashbags and say it's fine are coping. Cotton is best
>>10649451kek theres dozens of places on the internet where men go to talk about how subhuman women are but there being one place where it's the opposite scares you? Sorry you got your feelings hurt but grow some balls
>>10648993>"turned into">transphobia included say you're new here without actually saying you're new here, trannoid. Seagulls have always hated trannies, most lolitas like most women only begrudgingly accept you while ywnbawing you in private or thinking you're gross. Just take the femboy pill, nothing wrong with crossdressers who don't try to appropriate womenhood.>>10648877Yes and try to get her through the basics and at least wearing decent bodyline/taobao. Literally anyone can afford and pull off those and there is no excuse for not even being able to do that>>10649451You're right for the most part. Not all women think like this but the majority of women think at least a few of these things.>>10649413cc is half larping trannies with failed male syndrome anyway, unless you're in the gc/radfem/terf threads, where it's only a quarter of posters who are larping trannies
>>10649413>>10649451i'll give you a simple rebuttal. go to /r9k/ and see what they think of women. both of these camps are irrelevant, unimportant, and ultimately powerless.
>>10649542>Just take the femboy pill, nothing wrong with crossdressers who don't try to appropriate womenhood.This. right. here.I'm tired of men taking away shit from my gender, just because they want to feel special as a tranny. It really is just trying to relinquish what women have worked for.
i would like to tell everyone in this thread thatYou're lovedYou're needed You're alive for a reasonYou're stronger than you think I'm glad you're aliveTake care of yourselves and your loved ones, please.
I finally tracked down my ult DD and I don’t even like how it looks on me. This is the worst feel, gulls.
>>10649537I can't imagine any women using this site for more than 15 minutes without becoming blackpilled about scrotes either. There's a reason that any woman you find here is mentally fucked in some way. Anyone normal would have noped out after reading the first post about beating and raping women.
>>10649573Hey I never said anything about beating them
>>10649451Anon. You're on the same site as people who ejaculate on anime figures, claim they're not gay but go after twinks because they just hate women that much, share their shiny Pokemon with their grandma's corpse, say that fun is a buzzword, start hating stuff they love just because it gets popular and much more. This is not the only site that harbors these sorts of people, but you should always keep in mind where you are and who you are among.
>>10649461Eh, depends on the person. I stopped trading in TF2 after finally getting my dream unusual hat [a fairly low tier one, too] after nearly five years in the economy. I bought my three Touhou fumos, the three I'd always wanted, and didn't buy any more- and likely won't. Now, gunpla- and Bionicle-... that's anotha story. They don't call that shit plastic crack because you can just stop buying.
>>10649584Wait until you hear about mecha musume kits, that's my current addiction.
>>10649588I don't like them, and I'm glad about that.
>>10649604At least your wallet will be thankful, I just dropped 90 bucks on one that won't arrive until my birthday next year.
>>10649568I'm sorry anon. It's happened to me for a few DDs as well, it really is the shittiest feeling. I hope there's some way you can resolve it, or barring that, you're able to find an even better DD eventually.
>>10649119Nah, I've been on /cgl/ as long as it's existed and for the first few years it was 95% cosplay/con stuff including a lot of what we'd now call coomer threads and the users were like 80%+ male. It didn't turn into female /r9k/ until the lolitas started using it as an anonymous drama dumping ground somewhere around 2010-12.
>lurk in LJ and tumblr lolita communities for 10~12 years throughout school >finally graduate and get a decent job that i can start investing into the hobby with but now i have crippling body dysmorphiai usually feel a little better about myself when wearing lolita because i don't have to worry as much about parts of my body that send me into an episode, but it flares up a lot when i'm thinking about new pieces because i get anxious people will somehow notice my insecurities and point them out are there any other gulls with BDD who have had this problem? i know there's a large overlap between BDD and eating disorders so if there's any applicable advice i'll take anything- it just sucks constantly being paranoid that everyone thinks im some kind of deformed freak for no reason
>>10649648Can confirm. Also from that time era. Eventually tripfags took over for clout with Cosplay and bitched about Nigiri trying to clout dick suck.I do miss the cosplay threads, but I've been a lolita ...since a little bit before lolitas took over the board.
>>10649652The biggest piece of advice I've gotten is that no one judges you the way you judge yourself. Whether or not that's 100% true, doesn't matter. You're projecting your own insecurities into other people and other people are more concerned about what food they are going to eat, what they plan on doing on the weekend, or etc in passing.I had severe social anxiety as teen. It took me my mid 20's to get over a lot of it. What you're having isn't BDD, it's social anxiety.
>>10649655i thought that too but i realized that most of my anxiety was revolving specific parts of my body to the point where i have to cover mirrors in my house and shower with the lights off any mental help i've gotten in the past couple years have either told me i've had that or some non-specific eating disorder but like who knowsi'm really trying to keep that in mind though, every time i see myself in a reflective surface i repeating it in my head so i don't end up having a public meltdown and looking like a spaz
>>10649648>>10649654This.Lolita was a fucking mistake. I despise every single one of them and I'm glad the majority of them have severe mental issues that'll result in their deaths.
>>10649658Are you Ulillillia? Dumbass just take the mirrors down
>>10649677i cant take most of them down lol
>>10649670I'm getting a call.
>>10649648based coomer threads
I really wish more fairy kei coords where they wear short skirts are posted, I love those but they don't seem to be posted anymore. Also something about cute and adorable stuff replaced with more edgy shit.I used to know some cam girl, she was so sweet, cute, lovely, warm... alive. A few years later, and probably thousands of dollars later and rich simps at her feets after that. She looks half dead, she is still beautiful as fuck, but you can tell she is not, like she swallowed way too many valiums. She still laughs but it is nowhere the same. I feel sad.Yes, we scrotes are feeling emotionally attatched to paid camgirls, the situation is that fucked. I'm aware. But at the rest of the day I don't give a fuck I have another goals in mind 100% non related to pussy (nor dick, tits or ass, you fucks).
when is crip/blood lolita going to be a thing? The patterns they use aren't that bad. Some creativity here and there, a little drive by there... Just don't smoke crack.
>>10649733Just join them
>>10649734crime pays after all, right?
>>10649728wow, how pathetic that you still give a fuck. she's never gonna care about you and you're never gonna save her. kill yourself you degenerated socially retarded crybaby.
>>10649846lmao at least I'm not a salty sour bitch, get well soon
>>10649847idk man you wrote an entire post crying about how ""soulless""" she looks now that theres less of a chance shes gonna fuck you (not that she ever would) so you seem pretty salty and sour to me, king
>>10649728Dude i know the feeling, i'm so lonely that even a simple heart emoji sent to me from a female makes me think she loves me. Don't get attached to any of them because it'll hurt you bad if you get ghosted.
I bought a mmm skirt and The lighting on the pic was bad. the ribbon looked gold but the print looked black, so it’s either the black colorway and someone replaced the ribbon… or it’s the gold colorway. i am feeling nervous because i don’t have anything white with gold accents to coord it with. But maybe it will look dark gold in real life??Anyway i hope i can coord it
>>10649854nice projection though
>>10649859I know better my dude, I have heart of cold steel, but I guess I was having a soft day or something, literally have had 0 feelings for years now, "serious" things have happened and I haven't given a single fuck, following my plan and that's what matters. Thanks for the advice though.
>>10649862Yes, Female validation are a double edged sword, it feels like heaven when receive some, but it hurts like hell when you don't get any. (Apologies for the Vulgar Language)
I've realized that it's a bad idea to buy AP from lolitas in China on LM. I see soooooo many of the replicated prints pop up on LM.That shit is the biggest risk of getting ripped off.
>>10649860post the pic and let us help
>>10649860The dress: Lolita edition
>>10649867Is it well-known replicas like Melty Cream Donut? Or also unknown ones? I've seen some listings pop up that I'm interested in, but I always felt like some of those sellers are pretty shady.
>>10649871Thanks anon hereListing says its the gold colorway but like wtf, am i colorblind… lolibrary pic seems like the gold should be a very bright gold and not whatever this is>>10649889Ikr right ;_;
>>10649903Are you retarded? The lace is clearly yellow and it matched the stock photo.even in bad lighting I can see it’s a white with gold colour way Also you overpaid for the skirt, sorry.
>>10649906Jeez chill out i clearly dont have great color vision, ok cool it’s gold And if i’m paying $300 for a skirt, i’m clearly not worrying about overpaying, but thanks for the concern. If i see it pop up i’m gonna get it and who knows when i’ll see it again
>>10649733Girls getting initiated into a gang is a bit different from what guys do, I dont know if you want your burando getting ruined
>>10649903it looks like white-gold to me anon, sorry.
>>10649912It’s ok nonny thank you, i don’t have any gold in my closet so it will be fun to get some new things!
>>10649910yeah, heard girls are getting fucked by a bunch of males as initiation, but think about the cute blood gang coords though
I’m taking my emr finals today wish me luck
I wish I could let things go, but I never forget an offense and that keeps on making me suffer. Pride surely is a sin.
I posted a reel and tagged it for lolita fashion, but the algorithm has fed it to a mixed audience with a seemingly local spread... I hate this. It has surpassed 5k views and 200 likes. Stop.But on the other hand I don't want to take it down. I'm cute and funny in it. I just can't stifle this desire for only other lolitas to percieve me. Stoop.
>>10650009>tfw the viewers ar 100% pedoscould it be? cause kek if true
>>10650013No, it's a mixed bag of Instagram users, seemingly young people, more women than men. Normies. Yes I check the likes.
>>10650017I guess they like similar things, one of them liked something and it spread like wild fire something along these lines
So my sister got married last weekend.I'm sorry in advance for the book.I have never gotten along with my sister and her friends. They made my childhood pretty fucking sucky tbf.>I'm a bridesmaid >day before, another bridesmaid pops her strap, nbd I have my sewing kit I fix the strap.>they start condescendingly calling me "the seamstress" for the rest of the day thisisfine.jpg>side note, the maid of honer has her kid there, the kid's name is I shit you not, Eevee, and I had to listen to a 10 min speel from her about "I made that name up! I keep seeing other kids named eevee! H.o.w. d.a.r.e t.h.e.y I guess its short for other things but like I was soo original">she does not in fact know>this poor child>I also have a lovely conversation where she asks me if having an etsy is 'hard work' because she wants to start one as a 'side hustle' and I ask if she has a craft or what she plans to make and she looks at me like I'm fucking stupid SO DAY OF>We get through hair and makeup yadda getting sister into dress, pototag is taking pictures of MOH zipping her up>the zipper fucking jumps off the track>fuck hidden zippers>I take a look at it this fucker is not in fact going back on the track and I don't exactly have the tools to fix it at the venue but I do have pliers from fixing the bridesmaid dress and my curved needle.>I have the dress on my lap accessing what I can do and sister comes over, sets her mimosa next to dress and knocks it onto the fucking dress>we are out of paper towels>use my genshin hoodie to mop the alcohol out of her wedding dress because yall have activated i fix it mode and fix it girl is hear now>so sis I'm going to sew you into your wedding dress your going to take a seam ripper to this later to free yourself because zipper is f u c k e d>Webber, i sew it up, I do good work you can't tell and I tack the zipper flap down for her too while I'm at it.>there are so many pictures of me sewing my sisters ass shut
>>10650023>the condescending nicknames change to a mixture of "the seamstress" and "hero" >Pictures are delayed because I spent too long sewing sister into dress so they are after the ceremony.>My parents know this>the bridal party knows this>you know it they all fucking vanish right after the ceremony and I run off to collect the cats so sis can have some formal pictures>I spend the rest of the night similarly collecting drunk people to get shit done>How do they keep escaping>where is the wedding planner I do not know scream>My mom comes up to tell me that all that weird sewing I do is worth it because I was hear this day to fix my sisters dressto top it all off>I haven't seen family in a few years because I moved out of the area >My mother has apperintly been telling everyone I'm unemployed and down on my luck between jobs>SO MANY awkward "how does the job hunt go" conversations???>I uh, completely pay all of my bills for my two bedroom condo by myself from my AA/etsy stuff? I'm doing just fine? I'm not going to quit it and get a 'real job' at the amazon that just moved in near me thankyou?>I leave after they cut the cake, earlier then most but I'm not staying at the hotel because its 4 min from my house>its late I realize I forgot my hoodie>I'm not going back b/c its late and I'm 4min away I figure if I ask my mom to grab it she can drop it off tomorrow on her way home since the venue is 4 min from me but like a few hours from them and on the way.>txt the group chat "Sure anything for the hero" >txt later from my sister she has it in her car but they are leaving for Jamaica now b y eeeee>they are not coming back for a month>my mimosa stained hoodie is going to sit in her car for a month>i'm never seeing this hoodie again>I'm a bit salt and ordering a new oneI justMuch scream very sigh
>>10648808Don't curse us like that anon. Goths market is already shit and always has been.>>10648993Same. It's the same garbage again and again >>10649553 no one is taking shit away idiot. If you feel threatened because men and trans women are performing femininity better than you, go improve yourself. It's not even about the dress stretching or the creeping, because cis women do the same shit.
>>10650029>It's not even about the dress stretching or the creeping, because cis women do the same shit.Nope. It's about the creeping, idiot. The fetishizing, moron. You're completely ignorant to gender euphoria.
>>10650028man fuck your family lmao good on you anon,,
>>10648773Eh. A lot of covidlitas joined my comm. Some of them are kind of noticably new/ita but no one has shunned them. If you don't look good at first some might look down on you internally, but it will be outweighed by the people who want to help you get better.
>>10650028You don't like these people and you are not dependant on them. Why not express your opinion on the spot? And tell your mother "Gee mom. I won't be looking after you when you grow old what with being unemployed and down on my luck."
>>10650046pretty obvious. OP's sister seems like the golden child. as the scapegoat/person who always picks up after the others, OP is desperate for any scraps of attention she can get. it's a subconscious thing, you have to realize these fucking people will never have your best interest at heart. when the wedding was falling apart u should have just let it. like the dress thing was nice but it wasn't your job to wrangle everyone and by taking responsibility, it means they will end up blaming u if something DID go wrong. you gotta stop giving them the expectation that you care about their shit because they will take advantage of u every time.
I just took 3 25mg of Benadryl for my allergies and feel like crap!
>>10650057I know how it is all too well. This is why I advice snapping back at people cutting ties with anon's family if they continue to act like that.
I need itas and aliexpress girls to stop trying to sell their mass produced shit/their middle school arts and crafts projects on the buy and sell groups... seriously. I'm tired of coddling people because they "don't know any better". At least make an effort to learn and not be shit. I swear every second there's a new bitch popping up with a resin shop selling mediocre "jewelry". I'm so tired. You have to DIG to find bodyline or even Taobao, and it's rarely even good Taobao.Bitch, I don't care that we're in the third world. There's lolitas here who hauled absolute ass to improve themselves and get to where they are.
Just got rejected by a woman i was talking to for about 2 years.
>>10650131Waited two years too long, you need to ask her out within the week
I'm 3 months into my weight loss and I'm already so happy with how I look now. I fit back into my old brand skirts that have small waist measurements and I could not be happier. Anons, if you are struggling I hope you can use this as motivation to keep going. It really is worth it and so satisfying to look good in lolita!
>>10650140How does it work ?
>>10650149gib weight loss rutine bls
CLolita is not real Lolita.
>>10650150You ask her out in the beginning if you are interested .then quit simping and move on if she says no…instead of sticking around for 2 years hoping you can change her mind by doing x y x thing. Thats How it works unless you wanna date a sugar baby
>>10650168kek, I'm pretty sure that almost never works
>>10650170I'm not retarded enough to be one. But you kinda proved my point.
>>10650172I'm sorry for your constant state of buttpain.
>>10650149Thanks, I needed this. I lost 8kg already and I'm hitting my first real plateau right now. But looking at this post and at my closet full of skirts makes me wanna keep pushing through.
>>10650175>some retards sayng some retarded shit
>>10650151I use the app Lose it! to count calories, and am eating around 1400 a day (as recommended by the app, it depend son your height). I also have been working out at least every other day. At first I did simple and short workout videos bc I wasn't fit enough but now I'm doing around 45 mins of exercise a day, mostly cardio/dance workouts now. I hope these tips help you anon. I've pretty much stuck to the calorie limit apart from the occasional day when I go out. If I don't feel like working out I do some stretches or go for a walk to the shop. I've lost 6kg and 6cm on my waist. It is a gradual change so you have to be patient!
>>106501748kg is amazing anon! You've got this!
>>10650178woah I'm so mad now, kek
>>10650177interesting, thanks a lot
>>10650169I have had much better luck by not trying to make everyone happy and being more of an impulsive jerk, so being true to yourself does help a bit.
>>10650175back when tumblr had reasonable postsrip
>>10648766b8Everyone, do your best to find someone that makes you happy, and to be someone that makes other people happy.
>>10650166What is this? Classic lolita?
Why has this board gotten so infested with moids and trannies recently?
>the gender war ITTMy dad could beat up all your moms I win
>>10650327Your dad would probably kill you, your siblings, and himself first
i need to get off of this fucking board, the shit you girls/men larping as girls spew about others is genuinely vile and also fucking stupid half the time but it's making my body image issues worse anyways. staying on here is like self harm but i don't go on any social media enough to reliably get brand updates
>>10650411this board made me start putting stickers / wearing masks over my coord pics, its made me hate myself more than i already do
Got a big tax return this year but there’s nothing I want to buy fml.
>>10650432browse lacemarket for 10 hours a day until eventually something looks good to you.buy it for a ridiculous price.hope it will fill the void. (it doesnt fill the void)???profit. and repeatthat's my routine nonny
>>10650316>>10650327It's one idiot samefagging. You can see the slip ups in the writing style occassionally.
>>10650432index funds anon, index fundsDon't forget to have a well funded Roth IRA too
>>10650448Sadly all the good classic gets snapped up in a heartbeat. There's been a fair amount of NWT MMs on the Japanese market lately, I'm hoping a wish list item will eventually pop up.>>10650455Thanks anon!I don't like taking risks so I've never really considered investing before. Might have to do some research. I did put a lot of effort finding a good super provider though.
>>10650294I will thank you.
>>10650476A roth IRA is just a tax haven, it doesn't require that you necessarily invest it into higher-risk items like stocks, securities or commodities, the only thing is you can't withdraw money and capital gains penalty-free until quite a bit down the line.You can find Roth IRA promotions offering pretty high interest rates as well (for the times). I managed to get 3.5% at navy federal.Keep in mind that there's a contribution limit every year that's set by the IRS (currently $6000). Again though, all the capital gains are tax free upon withdrawal, which makes it one of the best retirement tools out there (taxes always go up, and these are immune to taxes being the name reason).
>>10650432>Mfw my tax refund and bonus had to go into the down payment fund this yearI'm getting house pilled and I hate it.