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Old thread is done for.
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>>10563252
Ayo why come you be making a new thread
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>>10563275
Fuck off namecunt
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To avoid an argument derailing this thing, let’s share some feels.

I shipped my purchases to my parents house by accident. They can ship them to me just fine, but I went on a depression-fueled-shopping spree and I’m concerned they’re going to question why there are around 6 packages, most of which are relatively large

But one of them is a dd of mine so that’s good?
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>>10563280
Shiiiet, don't b hatin
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I cammed in cats tea party last week. But don't worry I made sure to tell my viewers that it's lolita fashion and from a brand called Angelic Pretty and that it's not a fetish.
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>>10563252
I’ve grown distant from my lolita friends because I realized how one sided our friendships really were and that I was the one putting in the majority of the effort.

I’ve been spending time with other friends that actually wanna see me and it’s helping me a lot, but I guess I’m getting to that age where you start valuing quality over quantity.
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>>10563286
Sure you did, larper.
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>>10563288
Congratulations on spending time with people who truly make you happy, anon!
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I discovered i am obsessed with choco prints !! Fuck just give me all the choco shit! just satisfies me on some carnal level seeing choc prints.
but I was having the hard time finding cute things (i know etc had that one dress...didn’t think it looked good enough to drop $200 secondhand on). I also don’t want to be a q pot whore anymore either.
But I discovered minne jp from a nice anon here. Found my dream chocolate print wallet, bag, and otome skirt there for a way better price and just as cute as q pot (see picrel). So i am very happy. Its weird but i never really liked clothes that much. And then i discovered jp stuff and it’s totally my aesthetic!!

Tax return can’t come in soon enough ;_;
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>finally thousands of disposal income a month
>months long huge shopping sprees
>warehouses and packages full with hundreds of liz lisa classics
>one night looking up black x pink trend
>realize that's all i wanna wear now
>no space for anything and don't want to sell incoming LL
fml
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>>10563395
If you have thousands of dollars of disposable income a month...

Why not just get a place with a bigger closet?
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>>10563397
I actually am moving soon, but the thought of having all of those things, having to wash everything, then moving it etc, tires and stresses me out
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>>10563398
Now you're just making excuses.

If you have thousands of dollars of disposable income a month, why not pay for private laundry services.
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>>10563399
I get that I should just do that, hire packing service, cleaning service and stuff
But I'm like a perfectionist, everything needs to be done the way I want it, else it's wrong and I don't trust others
I wish I could just be whatever about things..
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>>10563405
You're not doing a very good job of being perfect if you can't handle maintaining and organizing your own closet, you know. You should have considered it before you went shopping for months straight, dodo.
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I gained weight in quarantine and my weekly runs weren't enough so I bought Just Dance 2021 today so I can have some indoor workout sessions. It's pretty fun, I'm enjoying it. I wanted to get RingFit too but the price is a little on the high side.
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it's nice seeing the board filling up with cosplay related threads again
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>>10563395
liz lisa 2nd hand isn't expensive you larper.
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>>10563489
nayrt but if they really have hundreds of liz lisa dresses it could still be thousands of dollars
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>>10563494
they don't though because i actually do buy atleast 1k worth of liz lisa shit and she's not buying anything.
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>>10563458
Ring fit is 20499403x better than just dance. For one, it's a full game, and just dance makes you subscribe to dance to all the songs... you can literally look up any just dance song on youtube on your tv. I say this as someone who used to love the series
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i was gushing about how the giant peeps are finally in store to my bf and the immediate response was "i don't have any money". i wasn't begging him for one, i just wanted to drop a hint and be excited about a cute thing. i'm so tired of him being an asshole to me, i sucked his dick this morning and cleaned a fuckton and made breakfast and he sits on his ass watching anime and playing mobile games. i'm so sick of it i deserve better and there are literally men willing to give it to me and he KNOWS THAT, he tells me he feels like he's losing me and that i could do better etc. like i'm crying over a fucking peep plushie because of this broke selfish dickwad
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>>10563749
He knows he's losing you, but doesn't do anything to fix that? That's a problem. You need to talk about it anon. Why he doesn't feel cared about and why you don't feel cared about.
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>>10563749
Dump his ass
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>>10563749
How often do you ‘drop hints’ and gush about stuff to buy? If his immediate response was to be honest about not having the cash to splash, maybe he feels like he can’t keep up with your materialism? A lot of guys feel that way these days and a lot of guys care fuck all about being excited about things to buy. Just buy it for yourself and spare him the gushing about stuffed toys, maybe? Why is this even hard?
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>>10563752
we talk about it so much, it's been countless times that we've had that conversation. bottom line is that he doesn't earn enough for us to live comfortably and he is 100% able to pick up more hours but he doesn't. he /should/ feel cared about given the amount of time and energy i spend cooking and cleaning so that he can work more. but he says i'm detached emotionally, which is entirely true. i've admitted it and told him that if my feelings were addressed and considered continuously (like i do w/ him) that i'd feel a lot better.
>>10563758
i don't do it often, the last time i hinted at something was before v-day when i said i'd like some flowers. i got a bag of gummy bears lmao. he spends his disposable income on games and stuff but honest to goodness i've never received a genuine gift from him since last christmas; for my bday and xmas in 2020 i got a bottle of wine each time.
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>>10563765

I know it's overused, but please dump his ass. Also I looked up the peep and if you drop your email I can get it for you?
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>>10563771
i'm seriously considering it, i just don't want to think about moving on yet. also, i really appreciate the offer and i'd love a seagull souvenir, but i'll have to decline. thank you a lot though anon <3
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>>10563765
fuck your bf anon (but not literally he doesn't deserve sex) you could absolutely do better. if my crazy 6/10 ass can get a sweet handsome (not old) man that buys me lolita "just because" so can you, and it's not like my guy is rolling in it, he makes below the median Canadian salary

go get a hotter guy that spoils you
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>>10563765
You say you've talked about it, but nothing you said explains what your could do to make him he feel cared about. It's possible be doesn't know though. You're operating under the assumption doing things for him makes him feel cared about, but if I were him, I'd feel the same. Some people don't speak that language.
You obviously do and you're taking it that since he won't do things for you, he doesn't love you. Give him some smaller things he can do that would show you he cares about you.
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>>10563765
A bottle of whine, lol. Seems he drops good hints better than you. Why aren’t you working to buy your own things instead of expecting him to work even more? Know what I got my boyfriend for Valentine’s? Chocolate Carmels *and* surprised him with a little nest egg of cash savings so we could clear the last of some debt and start wealth building together. Because he is my partner not my cash cow. I like cute things too, I bought myself an alpacasso - but I wouldn’t expect him to indulge me so often as twice in a month. I’m a grown woman, not a spoiled babby.
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>>10563777
???????? she wants a PEEPS PLUSHIE and some FLOWERS! how much smaller can you get?

>>10563779
you're not a woman you're a maleposter gtfo
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>>10563779

>Waiting until some arbitrary date to surprise someone with money to clear debt instead of being upfront with them about it to save on interest

Wtf you are so fucking weird.

Also FYI peeps are like, $25 tops. If you don't eat out 2-3x you can save enough for that even on an extreme budget. Maybe if he stopped pouring money into those games he could afford that for her.
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>>10563779
I hope you didn’t actually pay off his debt
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>>10563777
>things he can do
>>10563780
>BUY STUFF
Are you confused? That's not an action like anon cleaning the house or making food.
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>>10563749
Don't even talk to him about it. Move all your stuff and dump him, unless you have no other options. Even then, life's too short to be someone else's therapist AND maid. I understand you need to work through some things with people but there's also a point when issues are so deeply ingrained as a part of them that a outside force can't change them. It's unfair to YOU that your putting more effort into a relationship without your partner putting in a equal or even any amount of effort into the relationship.
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>>10563783
nayrt but gifts are a love language
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>>10563787
Yes, a completely separate one.
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>>10563749
Dump him anon, he sounds pathetic.
picrel is my thoughts on men in general though
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>>10563780
Nope, just a woman with self-resepect and independence. Imaging crying because my man didn’t get me a stuffed toy? I don’t drop hints and then cry when someone doesn’t buy me something, that’s way too dependent and weak. I buy it for myself. It’s demeaning and embarrassing to me when women are greedy, grasping materialistic and manipulative. Be strong, earn your coin, buy your own shit. Don’t depend on others to get it for you, then cry if they don’t . That’s so weak.
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>>10563789
dropped.
But yeah you should consider dumping him he sounds inconsiderate, selfish, and insecure. A drag in the long run. Get yourself a boyfriend that will care for you, or better yet, a girlfriend
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>>10563790

If you had real self respect and independence why are you wasting your time on a man?
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>>10563782
It was our debt together, and >>10563781
duh, the money was a windfall savings dividend for me so yes, otherwise I’d have had it paid in before and saved us the interest. We share the main budget mostly but I have my own side hustles too.
She said he works, so why shouldn’t he enjoy some games in his time off?
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My narc mom sucked the fun out of wearing lolita. She has hated it as long as I have been wearing it but still has to brag about it to her friends. I had no idea she was this bad generally and still need to kick the witch out of my life (haven't seen her in over a year and it's not like I talk to her even once a month). She is absolutely insane. Used to steal every freaking photo of my ig and probably still hoards them to post them to strangers in her social media. My insecurities and anxiety have taken the best of me and I just can't imagine wearing it in public anymore. I used to be a daily lolita and now it just feels something so distant. Everytime I hear mom telling me how strong I am just reminds me how weak she has made me. I guess I used lolita to shield myself from everyone, found people who loved me as I am regardless but lost the nerves to wear it in progress. Idk why it's so big thing bc I really don't have to post my coords ig to enjoy them but smoking her out from my account has made me wanting to wear lolita again. Well, it's not just my account, it's my life in general. But huh the bitch isn't going down without a fight, threatened me with police today if I didn't pick up my phone. Just makes me think if this struggle is worth it, I have never felt this horrible in my life.
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>>10563790
hahahahaha "earn your own coin" go back from whence you came
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>>10563793
Because I love him and we have similar interests and goals in life? I don’t hate men or just see them as cash-bags. I don’t think they need to provide constant gifts or purchases to ‘show caring’. Especially if they are already supporting the household. But that’s just me and so for me, it works.
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>>10563796
I'm sorry nonny that fucking sucks You could always just post them to CoF, it's a private group after all so your cunty mom can't stalk you there. Plz don't let that bitch suck the joy out of something you love. hugs
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>>10563790
you sound like a pick-me
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>>10563765
Do you also work? If not, he probably is showing that he's not happy with that arrangement. If it's not agreeable to both of you, this resentment is just going to keep building up, so either change something or split up.
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>>10563804
Don’t need to ‘be picked’, I am in a good relationship. It’s just really tiresome to hear women basically having a tantrum about what men won’t buy for them so often. You want it? Buy it yourself. Seeing someone have a crying fit over not getting a cheap stuffed plushie gift is pretty pathetic, don’t you think?
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>>10563807
You sound like a joy to be around
All judgy and shit. Let people be upset about dumb shit and live your own life
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>>10563807
no, I think your attitude is pretty pathetic tho. I would also cry if my bf couldn't be assed to get me some flowers or a plushie. and not just on here, actual tears.

but you're pretty obviously a man
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>>10563807

It's not really about whether one can afford it though, it's about the thought behind it. One of my favorite things my bf got me is that he one day surprised me with my favorite treat from a bakery. Like yes, I could have gone and gotten it myself and I often do, but I felt especially touched that day because he noticed I liked it and thought it would make me feel better. It's a really tiny thing and we've definitely splurged more, but little things like that make it feel really nice.
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>>10563822
That’s different, it sounds like it was spontaneously done as something thoughtful and nice and not the result of you dropping hints and gushing about things frequently. If plushie-chan is dropping gifting hints as often as twice monthly and keeping a judgement score on past gifts, it doesn’t seem like there would even be time or room for her boyfriend to surprise her spontaneously like yours did - without feeling pressed or nagged to deliver.

>>10563819
If I’m not a greedy crybaby, I must be a man? That’s funny.
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>>10563779
>Know what I got my boyfriend for Valentine’s? Chocolate Carmels *and* surprised him with a little nest egg of cash savings

gimpgirl?? is that you?
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>>10563779
I copped my breezy a Crysler 300 on 22s, only 400 a month, said I got the "you pay your credit" special
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I got my dream dress!

....none of the pieces I want to make the full coord with it are being sold by anyone in the world....mmm....
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>financial aid grant money dropped in my account
>did taxes, will be getting the biggest return I've ever gotten in my life
>university asked if I would like even more free grant money so I said yes
>got a scholarship because I have a 4.0GPA
>job is giving me 5k a semester to finish school

all of this money and no fucking AP shit that I want to buy. suffering
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>>10564035
Buy some nice alcohol
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I discovered cornet and fell in love with all their sort of plain shit like i never fell in love before.
Then i realize painfully that they’re defunct for probably 15 years at this point.
But then realizing it has gone for really cheap on LM quite often and recently.
>sad sad happy?
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>>10564034
that is frustrating, but just think if how perfect it'll be when you finally get it all.
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>>10563838
I ugly laughed
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>>10563790
I'm not like those other girls with their...
desire for their partner to make an effort for them and put thought into something that makes them happy?
I am pretty sure most three year olds understand the value of a thoughtful gift but whatever makes you feel superior, sis.
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>>10564043
meh...I'm a social drinker, and I can't be social right now, so...
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>>10563793
based take
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>>10563800
then if it's 'just for you' why are you coming down on other anon so hard? Sounds like you just wanted to act holier than thou
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I'm glad I stopped going on LC. My mental health has improved and all the cows I gave a fuck about are gone anyway. Checking up on PT awhile back did make me sad though. I hope the kawaii queen herself can live a good life.
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>>10564035
Save it for when you get out of school and can't find a job.
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>>10564112
did you miss the part where I said I was already employed and that my job is giving me 10k a year to get my degree
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>>10564113
Oh my god it's you helloooo again.
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>>10564113
nta but you're either lying, or admitting to stealing financial aid when you don't need it. gross. other people need that.
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>>10564124
I don't even know who you're alluding to

>>10564125
how is it stealing when financial aid has all of my tax and employment information when I file for it? The leftover money I get from finaid means I can afford to work less while still having my rent and bills paid so I can maintain my grades.
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Sure I bought a milky planet salopette in pink... but am I going to wear it? Or is it just going to sit in my closet because I'm too embarrassed to wear it?
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>>10563756
based DHAanon
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>>10564138
Wear it if you like it. Life is too short.
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>>10564138
Wear it for yourself and stop giving a shit anon, life is short
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>>10564125
>nta
Return from whence you came
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>>10564134

You're the other 10k anon with a six figure job lined up at the end of your degree. Like good for you but you've mentioned this only like 20 times here.
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>>10564283
I thought that other anon was whining because she didn’t have money, remove the tinfoil
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>>10564134
sure, anon. whatever you say.
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>>10564283
that anon isn't me and i haven't posted in these threads in weeks, but gj letting me live in your head rent free lmao
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>>10563749
"Women try not to have a psychotic episode because their boyfriend said something the wrong way" challenge (IMPOSSIBLE!)
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>>10564283
Ha! Nope that's not me because, again, I already am working at a job, and once I get my degree I'm more realistically looking at 75-80k starting salary unfortunately. No 100k+ starting for me.
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>>10564340
Lol just ignore that schizoposter, imagine being mad that there's more than one person thriving during the pandemic.
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>>10563749
Please dump him, save him from yourself. It's the best thing you could do for him.
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>>10563749
honestly this >>10564345 , it's been said already but if you have a habit of "dropping hints" about stuff you want then him saying he has no money is a totally reasonable response.

like i don't think there's anything wrong with living off your bf if you do the housework, but if you expect him to buy you fun stuff on his shitty salary then you should probably get a job too. there's nothing wrong with him spending his fun money on himself, especially because you'd probably do the same? like, if you spent all of your fun money on a new release, what would you say if he "hinted" at wanting a $60 game?
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>>10564351
It's not even the money, it's the attitude that is a MAJOR red flag. Women who play "Now I got you, you son of a bitch," games have anger issues and enjoy the release of their anger over somewhat socially defensible but otherwise petty reasons. They will never have a normal relationship and they will make their partner's lives hell.
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>>10564351

Man this is why I work. I kind of like having leverage in a relationship and when you're a housewife with no discernible unique skills to contribute, you're very close to being a burden.

Also I hate chores.
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Having unlocked my """latent low-level psychic powers (the ability to predict stupid people)""" I now understand why some people's first response to being insulted is violence.
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>>10564379
same anon, our household is dual income so i don't have to worry about stuff like that. i'd rather make my own money so i don't have to dip into anyone else's pockets for selfish things. having to hint at things or ask to buy stuff sounds annoying
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where is my tax refund? I need burando money
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>>10564385
I don't mind if my girl wants me to buy her stuff. I get it, it's nice, it makes us both feel good.
What I don't like are childish women who feel the need to hint at things instead of having the confidence to be up front and honest about their desires, or the inverse, ones who think my very real budget not allowing for a grand piano I know she'll never use means that our entire relationship was a lie and that I'm cheating on her.
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>>10564388
that's great and healthy! and i would do the same for my partner, male or female. just for me personally, having two healthy streams of income totally eliminates any possibility of contention.
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>>10564382
A gun is the greatest negotiator.
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Guess it turns out that all the LGBT rights activists really cared about in the end was their ability to be an exhibitionist legally and without criticism.
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>>10564301
so it's "stealing" to take money the government gives you to help you? hope you've been giving your stimulus payments back then.
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>>10564388
hinting is kind of weird I'll give you that, when I want something I tell my bf explicitly that I want something and make a pouty face and ask pwease
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>>10564125
You can get financial aid for actual financial need, yes. However, they also give financial aid for people who make good grades.

They will pay more for a smart, financially-stable person to go to school then they'll pay for a stupid, poor person. The latter doesn't help them, after all.

Not all poor people are stupid.
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>>10564604
>they also give financial aid for people who make good grades.
that's a scholarship, anon. financial aid is different.
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>>10564605
Scholarship is financial aid, you dingbat. You're thinking of PELL grant, aren't you? (Scholarships, loans, and grants all fall under the umbrella term 'financial aid'.)
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>>10564607
but anon, the OP said she got both, go back to her post.
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>>10564615
we get it, your her. stop defending yourself.
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>>10564611
And? What does it matter if she got 'both'. Yes, I'm aware. I also know she said that she filled out the paperwork properly, and that's the amount she was provided. Just because it bothers you doesn't mean she's a con artist. If you do good in school, you can also get both.
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>>10564617
Okay, look, if you go in-state to a community college then, yes, you won't get any money with a 10K job. It's not based on how 'poor' you are, it's based on how the cost of tuition compares to your income. Many universities, especially for out-of-state, easily cost upward of 30K. My local university alone charges 7K per semester for in-state students.

If she went to community college, like my own, with a 10K job then, no, she would not get aid as she could easily afford the roughly 1,200 per semester books and all.

However, if she goes... out-of-state to a med school or something, the closest charging about 26K per semester, she will receive aid because of the tuition/income offset.

You don't actually get aid for being 'poor', you get it depending on how much tuition compares percentage wise to your income even if you have a 10K job.

You do not understand how financial aid is given is what you're showing.
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man all this talk of financial aid makes me wish i had bothered to apply for scholarships so i could have used the room and board money on fun stuff. i'm graduating with no debt anyway though so couldashouldawoulda

anyway cgl feel, my bf finally made a comment about how much i buy and it hit a nerve wrong. i happily showed him some really cute cardigans i bought and he was like, "more stuff? again? just how many packages do you have coming and where are we going to put it all?" we're going to put it in the second bedroom closet with the rest of it, you nerd
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>>10563749
>>10563765
it won't get better just leave him, he doesn't deserve you trying to make him feel more cared for
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>>10564620
Basically this. Everything minus the tax return goes into my tuition and I get whatever's left over to help me live on for the next 6 months until the new semester starts.

I'm not getting a 5-digit lump sum and buying everything available on AP's website. It was more of a joke of "I'm getting a surge of money all at once and yet there's no AP I want to buy" because no new releases interest me and the secondhand market's kind of dry.
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>>10564629
I wish it were more clear to people that the threshold is based upon the contrast of income & tuition because I feel a lot with well-paying employment skimp on a good school because, "I'll have to pay out-of-pocket, and, therefore, community college will be cheaper." I feel if it were better explained that less would risk receiving a subpar education in which they're spending anyway.

I need to go on a shopping spree because I'm finally in need of a new coat, skirts, & bras (e.g. all the expensive stuff). I haven't been able to find any that strike me though.
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>>10563749
the moment you feel like consulting an Internet board of random strangers about your relationship, you know it's time.
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>>10563749
my niece got one for her bday today
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>>10563749
>the fact the anons still think this isn't a scrote saying his fantasy
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>>10564684
>anon complaining about boyfriend being a lazy shit
why would a man fantazise about this?
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>>10564680
Your niece got a nice gift. I too wanted one of the giant peeps, but $30 was too much at the time for a spur-of-the-moment purchase.

I bought the 9 inch rainbow one instead. He's sitting on my shelf.
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>>10564696
aren't peeps easter candy? why are they so popular all of a sudden
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>>10564698
They are. They've started releasing plushies, and while the jumbo ones have been available online, it was the first year that jumbo ones were in mass retailers nationwide. It's like a 2 1/2 foot plushie for $30; it is a good deal.
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>>10564696
soup is a pathogical liar
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>>10564695
scrotes would easily fantasize about having a gf that will be with them despite them being a scrote
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>>10564702
Maybe, but we're talking about Peep plushies. What's the worst that could happen?
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>>10564702
you're right. I don't even have a niece
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>>10564418
you just put that one together now?
didja do it all by yourself champ?
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>>10564705
The giant peeps are really cute though. They had normal colors, plaid, rainbow, and even a mustache one. They're already being scalped online for $85 in one listing.
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>>10564702
I never cap. not my letters or my posts
>>10564704
wtf anon you're suppose to have my back. I thought we were peeps homies
>>10564705
I do have a niece. she's autistic too. I'll yoink her plushy when she falls asleep and take a pic of it to prove my innocence
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>>10564709
wait nvm soup was right I am a liar. my niece's plushy isn't that big
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>>10564710
You're my peep homie when we're talking peeps.
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>>10564711
Did you pick up I didn't check the name before I posted?
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>>10564713
what
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>>10564710
why don't you use a tripcode? do you not know how?
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>>10564717
o-of course I know how to use a tripcode! I'm not dumb or anything, b-baka!
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>>10564717
when I become an idol someday I can just blame other people for bad logs so I don't get canceled
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>>10563252
Holy balls, did the last one get deleted AGAIN? Wtf happened to this place?
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>>10564752
The last one is still there
It just devolved into some dumb shit covid arguing
Like can we just talk about cute shit ffs, dumbass people being idiots trying to win internet fights
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>>10564214
>>10564219
Thank you for the advice, anons. I need to start wearing lolita in public more often.
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>>10564758
The one before the last got baleeted
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I always used to get sort of upset and confused whenever an anon would say angry things to random, innocuous posts I made. But now i don’t care. I realized Half the anons here are probably suffering from ana-induced insanity and the other half are upset they cant fit into burando or win AP bloodbaths probably. Ofc there are some very nice anons here but yes, just ignore anyone trying to fight with you
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>want to make friends with IG mutuals but conversations always end quickly because I feel like people aren't interested
How the hell do y'all make friends now meets and events have been dead for a year? I'd try the friend finder thread here but I'm pretty sure that's just scrotes and larpers/
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>>10565064
get a hobby, join a discord or other social media group for that hobby. you say you want friends but seem unwilling to actually make the effort, stop making excuses and send a nice message to someone. the worst they can do is leave you on read, but not trying yields no result at all.
do you just like, stop talking to people if there aren't cons or meets wtf? do you not retain the friends you made pre-covid?
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>>10565088
there’s a lot of projection in this post. are you ok
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>>10565064
If I knew how I wouldn't be here
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>>10565062
Good for you anon. Remember that this site is just a hub for mentally ill people.
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>>10565064

Sometimes you don't click with people and that's ok. A few tips are to see if there are similar interests and keep an eye on stories for non lolita interests you can talk about - release talk gets stale quick but talking about other interests will keep the conversation going. Keep trying, it's a bit of a guess if it'll work out and it's often frustrating but I'm sure you'll find other nice people very soon!
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>>10565064
idk anon. i find most lolitas boring as fuck to talk to, but i also find most people boring as fuck to talk to. it's hard to want to reply to somebody when all we have in common is liking the same dresses

i'd recommend looking into other communities for things you're interested in. it's pretty individual and depends on what you value t b h
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I get so guilty and stressed whenever I buy nice things for myself and I have no idea how to stop it. I've not long started a new job that's giving me a little more disposable income than I'm used to, but even with that spending just 20 quid on a pair of otks is just filling me with anxiety. I just wish I could spend my money without nearly having a meltdown every time.
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>>10565091
I dont think you know what projection means
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>>10565064
Being honest, most people past 22 probably aren't looking for more friends unless they are new to a community.
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>>10565203
let me guess, you're under 22.
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>>10563758
I agree with this as a guy.

My gf and I split things 50/50 but she is always the one to initiate purchases despite earning less money than me and spending more on personal items. Every time she'd bring up something we "need" to buy I'd be the bad guy explaining that her savings won't last forever and we don't really need it. So I just gave up and thought the only way she will learn is if I say yes to everything until she runs out of money.

Eventually she ran out of money and was gobsmacked when she looked at her account and then asked me to make a budget for her and has basically stopped asking to buy things unless we really do need them.
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>>10565204
I'm turning 25.
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>>10565138
I'm primarily just a huge weeb but the only other weebs in my comm are 16-year-old itas so that was a bit of a bummer. I've made most of my current friends at cons but you know, those aren't really happening either. Unfortunately most of my other interests are pretty solitary.

>>10565203
Moght be the case for you but I see posts about wanting friends here plenty of times. I'm 24 but still not really up on the friend cap. It's not really something anyone wants to admit un-anonymously I guess.

I have gotten to very occasional casual talk with mutuals but I never know how to grow it into anything beyond that even if we do have things in common other than lolita>>10565204
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>>10564418
Don't lump LGB in with T.
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>>10565471
>654
I'm the anon whose HC socks went missing with UPS and I feel this so hard...
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>>10565479
that sucks. have you filed missing mail reports?
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>>10565482
I filed a report with UPS and they replied with the usual script asking if I'd checked around my front door with my neighbor or leasing office/etc. (my apartments use package locker rooms with cameras and codes and whatnot, there is no way it got delivered and me not be able to find it, so the driver straight up lied), I told them this and that I'd checked everywhere and wanted to know if they can find the package anywhere or redeliver it and they haven't responded to that email. Tenshi suggested I contact Yamato's English department to request they look into it if it can't be found and I want to initiate an insurance claim so she can get the money back and refund me. I may have to give up and do that.
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My body is so disproportional. my top half is fine and i can fit into any liz lisa, axes femme, jane marple,, any blouses and dresses. It’s my bottom half. Everything past my waist is cursed. I do a lot of uphill hiking. So i have tree trunk legs, an ass and cant fit into cute jfash pants. I couldn’t even fit into western pants before i got into jfash. Had to get everything tailored to not fall off my waist.
I’ll see if I can lose some more weight hopefully and it might work out. Just feel sad i can’t put on my new honey cinnamon pants that just arrived :((
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>>10565525
Stop buying pants, thick-chan. Skirts and dresses are superior most of the time anyway imo
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>>10565525
i don't wear any pants because of this. i have 30in waist and 42in hips...
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>>10565209
Not that anon but i just turned 24 this year and good luck
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>>10565631
This must be a hard hobby to get into because of body size and shape huh?
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>>10565639
not really. i can fit in to basically anything shirred with no issues and i have a smaller upper body. plus my butt helps add poof. pear is a good shape for lolita.
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>>10565641
Oh well thats good to know, I wish I had more butt for more of my costumes and a stronger looking upper torso
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>been prepping for a prestigious scholarship for 2 years
>Scholarship is basically, "go wherever you want and the government will cover your tuition and living expenses including rent"
>Only one more year to go until I send in my application
>Everything I've built up comes together this year to build the best application possible
>Everything must go right

I swear to Christ if I get rejected I will just kill myself.
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>>10565806
So pathetic
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>>10565828
Is working hard pathetic?
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>seller on FB agrees to sell two AP dresses i really like to me
>week with no responses or invoice, ask her if we're still on
>she says we are
>1 month later
>nothing

nyoro~n. It's really annoying that she couldn't at least tell me the deal is off. i have a feeling someone offered her more $ last minute, which is fine but like... be decent enough to tell me + i would have upped my offer.

fb sales have been the worst for me, both buying and selling
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>>10565834
uhhh nayrt but it's not the working hard that's pathetic, imo it's putting all your eggs in one basket to the extent that you'd kys if it didn't work out

smart people have backup plans. it sounds like a pretty sick deal for a scholarship, so i don't doubt a lot of people who are more than qualified are applying. are you a graduate student or is this for undergrad? reads like an undergrad
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>>10565842
Undergrad.

There really isn't a contingency since there can't be. I don't have the money to replicate the scholarship and there's no other scholarships like it.

The only thing that would be a silver lining if I didn't get it is all the work I've put into it looks good on a resume.
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>>10563765
He's a narcissist gamer, he'll probably troon out any day now, dump his lazy ass.
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>eat big ass bowl of nillawafer banana pudding to avoid mother's narc rage
>Narc rage ensues regardless
>Now my guts hurt
Just like old times
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I had a comfy time today playing tabletop roleplaying online today with friends that I miss. The /cgl/ feel was that it gave me time to sit down and idly handsew in the new zipper of a dress that broke. I'm confident the new one won't be kill as easily as the cheap taobao Zipper the dress came with. Sewing something simple was so relaxing and rewarding.
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>mfw moved during covid so no meets but the local comm says is active
>mfw comm isn't active besides tight nip friends doing meets only
>mfw no online meets even
>mfw only fucking gothic Lolita in a sea of sweet

My new comm is nice, and I'm sure people are busy and social distancing is important. But it sucks to not have a chance to really get to talk and meet anyone. Then everyone being into sweet makes me feel alone. Both my last comms had plenty of other gothic lolitas so I always had someone to chat with on common ground. I even tried talking about maybe planning a small social distancing park picnic but people didn't like the idea as it was too soon for irl meet even though I said mask would be required and everyone bring their own food and space out seating. Then just yesterday someone posted pictures of a lolita picnic they did with other people from the comm and everyone praised them. I want covid to be fucking over and want my old comm.

>Tldr: salty, lonely gothic lolita
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>>10566120
>tight nip
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>>10566127
Ugh fuck this phones auto correct
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God I love femcels
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>>10563802
I have been thinking about your words for a while and if you really have bpd it's kinda sad you have so much compassion for others but beat yourself up over attention whoring here. But yeah it's not only her direct influence in lolita but for how I feel about myself. I'm sure you can relate to these feelings. I don't necessarily feel ugly but so stupid, shallow and well I have been generally thinking about ending my misery, especially feeling it today and that's why I came back. Have been thinking how to get rid of my wardrobe or make it easy but legally this bitch would be able to get my stuff and even my pets which I absolutely can't allow to happen. What a week, so amazing how one cunt can keep ruining my life over and over. But not so easy to kick that cunt out when it's your mom.
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>when it had been 15 minutes and not one thing has been bought from the 7 pages of cc update today
>but also everything decent is fucking expensive as wunderwelt for some reason

. Really hope this is not a trend for the future. Feeling nervous. Seems like someone in management fucked up and tried to go wunderwelt style
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>>10566265
Anon... you missed everything. Not sure what page you were looking at. There was a giant AP jewelry bloodbath.
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>>10566266
For real? Good to know ;_; My internet must have crapped out.i saw zero ap jewelry.I was right there at 2am my time too and went from yesterdays page to a bunch of $$$ dresses in 5 seconds
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>>10566267
Same thing happened to me for some reason? I just went and checked and I see all the sold out AP jewelry now, but when I first checked it went from yesterday's stuff to 30k yen OPs
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>>10566265
>>10566266
All the damn bots were fighting over the Milky Dream Star necklace and Hanikami stuff that I somehow checked out with the Lyrical plush pouch. I feel blessed. Please jesus christ don't cancel my order CC.
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i still miss excentrique. can't think of another brand that releases so many sailor sack dresses.
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Maybe i just don't know how to find new brands but i'm really bored with jfashion. I've been wearing lolita for over 15 years and i want to quit, but other styles have such boring releases





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