Old thread >>10525069Remember, this thread is for J FASHION QUESTIONS ONLY! If you need help with cosplay, go to the cosplay help threadDon't respond to bait
a lot of secondhand clothes I get from japan have little brown spots on them that I just can't get out. what is this?
Which brands are ethical, non chinese shill for egl/jfash? I can only think of 2. q pot where they seem to hand make everything in japan, and bb and b deco seems to be all hand made in california as well.I’m willing to pay a lot for my feels to not worry about chinese slave factories and things falling apart
>>10531572holy hell I want to know this too. I always thought it was tea or something?For me they are scattered little pinprick-sized dots that look like they bled a little before drying (makes a faint star shape)
>>10531572>>10531612onions sauce usually
>>10531613god, why is 4chan censoring s-o-y
I just got this excentrique skirt in the mail today. What is this slip of paper stapled to the tag? It doesn't bother me, I'm just curious
>>10531572>>10531612it could be mold or dirt from a washing machine that dried out. i used to have it happen with my old washing machine
>>10531616Most likely a paper tag from the dry cleaners, that's how they're usually attached and some sellers leave them on
I know it depends on the comm but how awkward is it really to go to a meet without knowing anyone there?
>>10531647Not awkward at all. After all, that's how you meet other lolitas right?
>>10531647It’s fine, how else would you meet them? Just don’t go there expecting to be friends with everyone.
>>10531616A handwritten dry-cleaner's tag.
>>10531609Idk but it's better to just buy secondhand
What does not stand for? I keep seeing it everywhere but can’t figure it out>this is stupid questions after all
>>10531857Fucking autocorrect ... what does MOT mean
>>10531859Made to order
>>10531609I believe all of Victorian Maiden's clothing is fully made in Japan, but I doubt/am not certain about any of their accessories.
>>10531609fabric, glue, plastic, findings, threads, etc. to make basically anything will all be sourced at some point to unethical labor. the supplies to make both qpot and bb & b definitely are (esp bb & b; you can buy a lot of their jewelry findings on taobao easy). its very literally impossible you get away from. drink some vodka, take a deep breath, and suck it up.
>>10531647It depends on how well everyone else knows each other. If it's a bunch of close friends, you might feel excluded but bigger meets tend to be more open for people to meet new people.
>>10532268This is true, but I want to support healthy and compensated workers as much as I can. There is still a difference between getting a dress straight from taobao. versus getting a dress from a company that sources thread and buttons from taobao, but pays their workers fairly and makes the dress in japan or somewhere that isn’t china>>10532265Thank you I will check them out>>10531842Also true but I don’t want to support secondhand if its from stuff with made in china tags.
>>10532268I keep seeing people saying this but where the fuck are the links? I want to make my own shitty macaron ice cream cups
>>10532308holy shit search jewelry fasteninings on ali
>>10532303>Also true but I don’t want to support secondhand if its from stuff with made in china tags.Things with Made in the USA tags are often made using forced immigrant/prison labor? This seems like a weird hang up
>>10532313I wasn’t aware of that but thank you now I know and I’ll be more diligent about what i buy from. Most of my clothing is from fair trade eco friendly companies so i don’t think it would change much for me in particular .but also i just fucking hate china and i’ll throw money at prison made shit if i have to, before buying anything that says made in china. I’m chinese myself so i don’t want to get into it but yeah there’s my hangup
>>10531609Miho Matsuda labels where their items are made in their website. Most are made in Japan.
Is anyone having trouble printing out USPS shipping labels through PayPal? I've tried for the last 2 days but keep getting an error when I click the calculate shipping costs button.
>>10532317>Most of my clothing is from fair trade eco friendly companies so i don’t think it would change much for me in particular .If you didn't even know about domestic prison labor I sincerely doubt this is true. Most brands that say they are ethical/green don't report their supply chains and are lying
>>10532317The most ethical purchase you can make is secondhand, regardless of origin. The manufacturer has already been paid and by purchasing new clothing you're just using up new resources, regardless of how "green" or "ethical" they are. As another anon mentioned, most "made in USA" products involve prison labor at some point. Even Whole Foods uses prison labor to process some of their goods. I highly suggest you do a lot more research if you weren't aware of this but only buy from "ethical" brands.
>>10532317So you're contributing to the systematic mistreatment of a different race because you hate yourself? Cool.
What are some sweet or gothic brands with long sleeved blouses that'll fit my gibbon tier arms? A lot of my blouses and smaller OPs are like 3/4 sleeves on me
>>10532317I concur with >>10532385. The best thing you can do is buy secondhand, less resources are wasted making a new dress and it means that the dresses that you buy don't end up in a landfill
Who has cute, intricate and/or old school style masks? I'm tired of boring, ugly ones and saw this in the old school thread, but it's almost dead so does anyone know where this girl's mask is from?
>>10532486can't say for sure about this specific mask, but her previous mask posts say DIY
Where do sweet lolitas get colorful cotton blouses from these days? I'm talking pink, sax, lavender, mint etc. I know Bodyline makes some but I don't like how crunchy theirs look. And it seems like most Taobao brands only make sheer chiffon ones.
>>10532486I forgot the name but if you xheck the archives for the last wardrobe collage thread, anons had similar ones and posted the storenvy
When I was taking off my cutsew, I heard multiple tearing sounds. It's totally my fault for not being careful and being an absolute oaf.. but it looks completely fine?What could have possibly ripped (the elastic for something?) and how do I reverse this damage?
>>10532523Honestly, just stalking secondhand sites. I've never bought a sweet blouse directly from a brand store.
>>10532584I ran into the same problem with a cutsew op but I still don't know what's wrong with it.
>>10532486Mijomasks on etsy has some oldschool looking ones but not this exact same.
>>10532584You probably popped a few stitches. Depending on where they were and if they were consecutive, you might not be able to tell.
>>10532584>>10532590Some of the serger threads may have snapped but as long as all 4/5 don't break it should be fine for a while.
>>10532588Thank you. That's what I figured, it's just that these kinds of blouses come few and far between these days.
How are the shoes from antaina and sosicshop? I find the angelic imprint ones really comfortable if that helps set a standard.
Which instore shopping Services in Tokyo are still working? Last time I needed one was when Lolita Desu was still open..
>>10532745I have a pair from antaina and they're by far my favourite shoes. Sturdy and comfy.
>>10532745I have a few pairs of the super basic tea parties (attached photo) from Sosic Shop. They have small cushioning on the soles. You may end up needing to size up though.I wear US 9 (maybe an overstretched 8.5), but had to order size 41, instead of a 40. Only reason I knew that was the right size was buying a con priced inflated pair where the seller said "these are labeled as a 10, but they're more of a 9."
>>10532948Same anon, forgot the pic
Anyone hVe suggestions for hairstyling in lolita with thin, fine hair? Been losing hair since i was a teen and it looks sad and unbalanced with coords. Are wigs my only option?
>>10533088Consider extensions if you don't want to deal with the wig "process"
Has anyone bought this exact wig before? I'm wondering if the quality is okay? I'm used to Prisila and GLW quality. I really love the colors but this looks like it could be potentially really thin?
>>10533088Maybe stick with fancy updos where you can fake volume with curls pinned strategically with large accessories and at worse, a fake bun. Use volumizing shampoo/mousse to add extra oomph.If you have oily hair also, def avoid the usual blunt bangs and invest in a good faux bang clip in, otherwise you'll suffer stringy gross bangs.
>>10533088I have really fine hair. I like to put a smaller ponytail high up on my head and fluff it out to fake more hair lol. Basically any style like that. I will also put it into smaller pigtails with some still down to puff it out.
I preordered one of LOTV’s tshirt designs, but I can’t find any info on the site about when they are expected to be shipped out. Am I just blind or is the information not actually available yet?
Why is Black Peace Now sold rarely and so cheaply? Most of their prices are less than $80? Is their quality bad or something?
>>10533517they been out of business for a long time. their clothes have aged. a cheaper 2ndhand price is just the natural progression of things.
>>10533517Quality varies, some pieces are excellent quality and some are not so great. I personally feel like there’s often something about their designs that just doesn’t sit quite right, many of their sleek pieces just don’t have the same refinement as MmM or Boz and their busier pieces can come off a little too “hot topic-y” sometimes. That said, I do still own a fair amount of BPN and definitely think it’s an underrated brand.
Does anyone know who this is or what coat this is?
>>10533517Their stuff is old and plentiful, as well as not quite lolita enough to command lolita prices a lot of the time (skirts are a bit short, not full enough etc....kinda like some miho matsuda) so what's left around is usually not in great condition.
Anyone know where I can get a short sleeve red polka dot blouse? Something like pic related (which is sold out)
How long is Wunderwelt taking to invoice for shipping? Haven't heard back from them in just over a week. They did send an e-mail saying Yamato shipping was taking a little longer to pack and invoice for, and I'm not in a hurry, but I'd appreciate an estimate.
Is ClosetChild shipping stuff out slower recently? Usually it only takes two days for them to confirm and ship my order to the US (I've bought a lot during the pandemic). I ordered one item on the 6th and they confirmed it the same day but I haven't received any shipping notice.
>>10534022If this helps, I recently ordered from them on 24th of December, which got packed on the 7th and I received a "shipping confirmed" e-mail on the 9th.So maybe give them a couple of weeks?
Looking for a bigger a-line petticoat to wear with old school and was thinking of getting one of the Aurora Ariel ones, but stumbled across a few reviews where they're described to give more of a cupcake shape. Can anyone who owns either the 8M or 12M confirm or deny this?
Tenso newb here. Do they send you an email when you get a package or do you just have to monitor your account?
I know this question gets asked all the time but I'm retarded and never saved the link and also I can't navigate the taobao spreadsheet for the life of me...Can someone please post the link to the bodyline rocking horse shoes on taobao? Thank you in advance!
>>10534082Yes they do if you have those alerts on
>>10534078Can confirm. I own the "daily" one, and the lower part of it slopes down under the weight of my skirt. It's still more of an A-line, as there's no curve around the hips, but it's definitely a more subtle one. On the plus side, the petticoat doesn't look out of place under bell-shaped skirts.
Stupid wig question:People who buy wigs and just part the long bangs instead of cutting them always get shit on (often for good reason since it looks weird).But if blunt bangs don’t look good on someone and they want to wear them as a side part - how can they cut the wig so it doesn’t look like „I just took this out of the bag and slapped it on my head?“ I’ve been thinking about getting a wig but I can’t pull off blunt bangs for the life of me
>>10534181Side swept? Feather out the bangs anon
>>10534177Damn. Thanks, anon, that's really good to know and I'm glad I didn't buy one. Now I've got no idea where to find a true medium poof a-line with the exception of MeLikesTea.
>>10534181you still need to cut them in some way. like >>10534187 said.
>>10534181buy a lace front with a side part
What brands still sell oldschool style stuff? I know BtSSB does from time to time, but any other recommendations?
>>10534181your much better off asking cosplayers for help lots of tutorials on youtube and even taking a low temp straightener to the bangs can help make it look more natural and smooth out the fibershttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McUQG0fAOlAcutting styleshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qS3vYS7NcoQ&t=31sshaping styles
is there a way to have all your card info already set and ready on AP Paris' site? I've never made a purchase before but I'm going for that SC MTO like so many others. Kind of a second question there as I'm wondering if it makes any kind of difference even or if I'm just overthinking it
>>10534227Maxicimam, Metamorphose, AP and IW very infrequently
>>10534227meta has some real good releases once or twice a year
Anon, I need your reviews on sea main shipping. When people say that parcels come smashed, how much of a smashed are we talking about? Did you happen to track or insure the parcel?
>>10534455Sea takes 3-5 months to arrive. It has no insurance.
>>10534455let's just say i won't buy anything with shank buttons.
I'm sorry if this question is incredibly stupid, but this is the stupid questions thread after all.I have mainly been wearing very very beginner gothic lolita up to this point, but i want to move a bit towards sweet with the black colourways of some BTSSB dresses i've been eyeing. I'll probably coord them with black stuff, seeing as most of my current starter wardrobe is black. But i'm also an insecure shithead and don't want to be seen as "bittersweet" with all the annoying controversies, but i'd also feel stupid wearing something and not being able to name it. If i wear the black colourway of a BTSSB jsk with a sweet print, and coord it with all black, will it just be sweet lolita in dark colours, or gothic with a sweet print?
>>10534577Although each substyle has common colors associated with it, it’s the actual clothing style and not the colors that make a piece gothic or sweet. You could be wearing head to toe black without any print, but be sweet if the details are (puff sleeves, lots of ruffles, etc)
>>10534577>But i'm also an insecure shithead and don't want to be seen as "bittersweet" with all the annoying controversiesFirst thing's first is you probably shouldn't way the semantics of gulls this heavily. But besides that, I'm still in the "it's just dark sweet" because gothic is more than a black dress, it has it's own motifs and aesthetics. That's not to say some kind of "gothic sweet" can't be done, but it's going to be a harder setup then say "sweet classic" because sweet and gothic are aesthetically a bit at odds in the look they are going for. But again, see first point and don't worry too much about the semantics.
>>10534579That actually makes a lot of sense and really provides some new insight to how i should look at stuff, thank you!
>>10534581I'll settle with calling it sweet in dark colours then, thank you for the clarification. I like gothic motifs, and dark colours, but I also like sweet motifs, but not light colours, which would logically end me up doing sweet in dark colours, which makes sense now. Before, i always thought that sweet couldn't be truly sweet if the colours weren't light also, but now i've learned.
>>10531614because incels think that eating s-o-y turns you into a girl, and nowhere has more retarded incels than 4chan.
>>10532313>implying prison labor is badthe great thing about prison is that no one has to go there.
>>10534601>no one has to go therehell yeah based prison abolition anon
>>10534559> https://www.post.japanpost.jp/int/service/i_parcel_en.html> You can insure your parcels against loss or damage. (The amount of insurance varies by country.)
>>10535143Look at what the SS/Proxy states.
Which SS are still around that can buy from fril?
What are some other notable sweet prints with black coloraways besides Sugary Carnival? Trying to decide whether to get SC in black or not
>>10535177i use fromjapan. they have a script for fril now that buys items you don't have to comment on immediately.
>>10535225og milky planet, jewelry jelly, daydream carnival, whimsical vanilla chan, toy parade, dreamy dollhouse, to name a few
>>10535225there are none. it's the only sweet print ever made in a black colorway
The most stupid question for those who own AP socks, do these "Angelic Pretty" printed labels crack as you wear the sock for the first time? Can it be an indicator of socks not being worn?
>>10535332they crack over time but not on the first wear
>>10534577It's still sweet if the overall style is sweet. That being said, with plain colour items the colour can affect the styling and how an outfit is perceived - for example, a plain-colour classic outfit in wine x navy might read classic in that colourway, but gothic in all black with minimal changes.
Whatever happened to Disneyland lolita day?
>>10535332I've had them crack after one wear, but they'd also been in storage for over a year before I wore them.
>>10535538Disneyland in California has been closed indefinitely since March of last year.
Is there an overview of different jfashion brands sorted by style somewhere? e.g. yumekawaii, yamikawaii, himekaji, mori etc.I remember there were spreadsheets like this for Taobao stores but I was wondering if it existed for Japanese brands.
Is the cof thread heyday over? I've always liked seeing what goes on in there becasue I dont have Facebook myself.
>>10535904Most of the good lolitas stopped posting there or left the group altogether because the moderation is such a shitshow. Pretty much everyone is on Instagram now.
>>10534067Thank you anon, that was very helpful! They just e-mailed me with the invoice today.>>10534067
>>10535230I thought FJ wasn't doing Mercari and Fril anymore, when did they start back up?>>10535177#Otherwise, I've been using Japonica. I know some people have complaints but I've never had a problem with them.
>>10535177I use JSS (jpshopping.jp/). I'm sure there's better services, but it's super simple to use without 9000 drop down menus a la Superbuy for Taobao
So, I live in a really ghetto basement apartment and it smells musty, and there's nothing I can do about it. What can I do to keep my expensive lolita clothes from smelling like that? It's not a problem with regular clothes in my dresser since I throw some dryer sheets in there to help, but what can I do about dresses I want to hang? Dry cleaning type bags maybe?
>>10536049Is it because of moisture? Try those packs that take moisture out of the air... I dont know what they're called. They pull a surprising amount.
>>10536049Just buy a dehumidifier. It'll work wonders for the musty smell.
Is there any reason to pay WW's Queen Bee prices rather than buying similar shoes on Taobao?
>>10536057Damprid? That stuff has a nasty scent though.
is there a Japanese word for oldschool lolita?
Are angelic pretty and btssb the best option to go for egl/lolita themed stuffed animals? I want to decorate my room and have plushies that go well with my lacey curtains and shit. Its hard to find things that aren’t obviously made for babies
>>10536186San-x and Amuse plushies are high quality. Amuse has a lot of generic cute plushies, san-x is gonna be mascots like rilakkuma and sumikko gurashi peeps.
>>10536186i like peropero sparkles
>>10536186Sanrio has lolita themed series sometimes. You could also look for vintage plushies on etsy if you're into a more subtle look
>>10535230>>10536009>>10536009OP here, I also thought FJ didn't buy from them! I usually use FJ so maybe I'll ask them if they're buying again. Thank you for the backup suggestions!
Anyone have experience with devilinspired responding to sending the wrong item? Bought a petticoat during the 11.11 free shipping but they sent me the wrong one and it’s too long for me to make it work with my current dresses and skirts
What happened to lockshop wigs? I just found out about them and it looks like they haven't posted since 2019. Are there any other good wig places to look for jfashion?
>>10536289Did you contact them about the mix up yet? I've bought from them a few times and their customer service was always very good.
Probably a question that’s been asked a billion times but what kind of makeup is generally accepted in lolita? Everyone says “natural” but what is the line between good makeup and gaudy
>>10536382If you're so new to the fashion and/or makeup that you have to ask what's appropriate, then stick with "natural" because otherwise you'll look like a clown. Minimal makeup is fine, but gaudy and bold makeup looks take a lot of skill and may not fit the aesthetic.There's a lot of tutorials on youtube, but the best place to look for a beginner is Japanese lolitas for two reasons. One, jfash makeup is more subtle and uses different techniques than western styles. Second, Japanese makeup tutorials generally focus more up-close on the face, and don't shy from showing details like skin texture or clumpy mascara. Most western makeup insta/youtubers use bright ringlights and filters to obscure this, as well as further shots, which makes the tutorial less realistic and less useful for beginners. >Newer tutorial from Misakohttps://youtu.be/37PO6d6npTE>demonstrates the puppy eye look in a more bold stylehttps://youtu.be/p_jOJtMdjCE>very soft puppy eye look from Yuihttps://youtu.be/fDAm2xmAgik>bold gothic lookhttps://youtu.be/TUdmuzXmyqE>OTT sweet look (but for the love of god, do not use art glitter on your face)https://youtu.be/Xg6_Z-KDr6w
>>10536402Thank you anon. Not super new but still struggle getting makeup to look cohesive. Thanks for the list
I am new, please bear with me. I asked mint kismet to buy some things for me. But it's been a few weeks and she still hasn't shipped my package. It's my first time using her service and I'm getting a bit anxious. How much longer should I wait? Is she reliable? Could I get my money back with a paypal claim?
What bras do you wear with lolita?
>>10536381Not yet, but I probably will now. I've heard mixed things and was wondering if it would be worth the effort or if I should just shorten it myself.
>>10536407I usually wear one of these ugly granny bras, but mine has less compression and barely any stitching. I found that normal bras make dresses more uncomfortable and I wear a lot of cutsews and I don’t like the straps to be seen. That’s just me though. I don’t have any boobs so Idk what other people wear.
>>10532952I have these too anon, and I'm also a 9, but wide. I got a 40 and they fit fine. I have a couple other pairs of the same shoe in 40 and they fit fine.>>10532948I do have sosic tea parties in 41 and those are slightly loose.
>>10536405I've never used MK as an SS, but i wouldn't submit an PP claim unless it's your last resort. You'll be blacklisted by her and will never be able to use her service again.
how can I look for this old style jfashion legwarmers on mercari? is there a specific japanese word for them?
>>10536405I'm not sure if you just did not list this step, but did you actually ask her to ship it?
Im considering selling off majority of my lolita.Am i best off listing things individually or in small lots? The only reason i havent done it sooner is its often a lot of work and often only sell things when people ask me if im willing to sell. If i make lots, should i do it like 3 or 5 pieces each lot and keep it like similar colorways? Similar brands, similar styles. Or do i make coords?Looking on lacemarket it seems only blouses and accessorie lots sell.
>>10536604sell off main pieces and more valuable accessories alone i'd say. cheaper stuff you can put in lots by item type, color, substyle, motif, etc. probably 3 to 5 is a good number.
>>10536604Imo you would make the most money listing everything individually. but if you want to make things easier sell everything from the same series together, like main pieces with their matching accessories, and accessories in same color lots. Don't make coords
>>10536604Agree with >>10536606
>>10536407A push-up bra because the clothes are way too big for me otherwise.
>>10536651What’s it like to be God’s favorite?
>>10536661Of course fatties think the only way someone could be skinny is through luck, not effort.
>>10536677Kek not a fatty, just big boobed. Project harder next time
>>10536651same>>10536661kek, but to be fair it does suck having to wear bras (which I hate with a passion, though it may be because I wasn't wearing a correctly sized bra). I have your deepest sympathies big boobed anon
>>10536677Of course ana-chans woudn't understand that someone can hate their breast size without being fat.
Is Mary Magdalene gone for good and them coming back was just to sell leftover stock? I adore their dresses :(
>>10536449I have huge badonkers (rip) and also generally wear grandma bras like this unless my dress is high waist and I need to hike up the girls
>>10536699My bust is only 33/34" but I really hate it and want it smaller desu but I'm at a comfortable weight for me after losing some so meh
>>10536734My bust is 39 inches (32 inch underbust measurement). It's misery.
never done an AP MTO but saw someone in the AP thread mention a deposit for it, is there a deposit system for AP USA?
>>10536848thanks, that's what i assumed
What's the best way to hang OP dresses with elastic at the shoulders? One of my OPs is being repaired right now because I hung it up "normally" on a coat hanger and the elastic stretched out for years until I noticed the damage, so I folded the dress over to hang it at the waist.Is there a better way to hang dresses with elastic? I don't mind hanging it that way but I guess it throws off the 'aesthetic' of my wardrobe.
>>10536863You could sew in your own hanger loops to bear the weight of dress
Is there like, a more normie version of baby/ap? I like their dreamy sweet prints a lot. but I want to stay sort of normie and not do petticoats. I picked up some hoodies and cardigans by them but I wonder if theres anything else? I looked into axes femme/lodispotto but they never have as cute prints
>>10536913Emily Temple too
>>10531569I ordered from Imai Kira's BOOTH shop on the 4th and it still hasn't been shipped out yet. tf is up with that? Is anyone else in Japan having issues with her shop?
So my Kumya Christmas market has been stuck in usps hell for a month now. I know usps is having a ton of delays, but when should I contact them about lost mail?
>>10536979If you are in the US, there is no shipping going there, for everything else there should be no reason for that (besides Japan going in lockdown now but that's today's news).
>>10536979Her store on BOOTH ships a little slowly sometimes. I had a similar situation a month ago. The Japanese New Year holiday probably slowed it down at first, so I'd wait a few days and then contact them.
How long does shipping from AP to Tenso usually take?
>>10536910If any of the prints are up your alley, you could always wear those low waist AP mini skirts casually with no petticoat. I think they look great with hoodies and cutsews. Salopettes would also be cute in casual coords, if they look good on you.
Closet Chilod is paying 40% for people who are willing to sell their MMM and Boz pieces. Does that mean that we can expect more of these brands the next weeks, or nah?
>>10537038No, CC rates are actually low, 40% isnt a lot more. People who sell to CC do it because they dont care about resale.
Can anyone find the thread that mentions bra brands? I found the discussion helpful but as a phonefag i couldn’t track it and now I can’t find it
How would you guys go about buying something from HEI HEI?
>>10537031thats such a good idea! I didnt know it could still look nice without a petticoat. I have been eyeing the melty royal chocolate skirts! I got a kuma hoodie too, I think it’ll look so cute when it arrives. I’m not a suspender type person and need sleeves but maybe i will see a cute salopette
>>10537063Thank you so much anon!
What are the limits of j-fashion?I think it would be awesome to wear a long, knitted scarf and knitted socks up to right below or above the knee in summer. Could that qualify as j-fashion? And does anyone agree it'd be an awesome idea?
>>10537245Why do you care if it's considered J-fashion or not?
>>10537249If it's J-fashion it'd make me cool, if it's not It'd just make me dressing like a retard. It also influences what communities I can be a part of. If it's J-fashion, I can ask /cgl/ for advice. If it's not, I'll have to go to /fa/, and I have an idea that /fa/ fashion is less fun. It'd also mean I couldn't wear it to weeb meetups, for instance.And if it's not J-fashion, maybe I could make adjustments to the idea to make it fit the definition
>>10537272Have you gotten your ASD diagnosis yet
>>10537272Why do you live your life so scared that you must follow the rules and definitions? Lurk more and figure out what you like and what looks nice together. If you ask cgl something and we tell you to go to fa..why is it such a big deal? Also...why do you think jfashion will make you look cool? What do you even think is j fashion? Nobody here wears j fashion to look cool. it’s not ‘cool’ by any stretch, it straight up looks retarded in most public places even if you have a great outfit.Wear it if you like it. Its a subculture.
>>10537011When did it ship? What's your current status? I've a had couple packages ordered and delivered within the last few weeks both international and abroad so you might want to contact them if it's been over a week and a half without budging.
Does anyone wear like clip in hair pieces? Like the ones you'd attach to wigs but attaching them just to your head.
What’s up with Kera? The Gothic & Lolita section hasn’t been updated since October.
>>10537272wearing jfashion includes being interested in, following, and shopping from japanese fashion brands, particularly the ones in shibuya109 and harajuku. and emulating the look on your own if you absolutely can't support the brands. but you should at least know what they are. you don't, so you don't belong here.
>>10537030A day. Sometimes AP takes a few days to ship though.
>>10537445That’s not good then, it’s been over a week since AP sent me an email saying they shipped my order. Thanks though.
>>10537398I've seen ott sweet girls like candy.carnival on ig do it
How the hell do you coord blouses with these mini sleeves??? I know most people skip the blouse on these OP’s but I want to layer things so I have more coordination options but I feel like the blouses always look too bulky underneath.
>>10537398i do from prisila
>>10537464these are called short sleeves
>>10537471Anon the name literally has mini in it. But okay I guess
>>10537446Email tenso. There could have been an error in your account number.
>>10537464I’ve seen people doing it with really lacey blouse sleeves so it’s not so bulky looking, but it does make it more gothic looking
>>10537473And? They're still short sleeves.
>>10537523nayrt but mini sleeve is common terminology, they're shorter than typical op sleeves. learn 2 oldschool
Which AP print had the star of david and crosses?
>>10536910Leur Getter>>10537054You can browse their online shop. They've fitted their item pages with a button that will allow you to order internationally through CD Japan. They don't post everything online, so if there's something particular you're looking for, write them.
>>10537536magical amulet i think?
>>10537523You sound retarded
>>10537021>anyone else in Japan >not US
>>10537539man I'm fucking blind, thanks didn't see that
>>10537526I'm not saying it isn't common terminology. I'm just saying they're still short sleeves. You can coord them any way you would coord a short sleeved dress.>>10537542Hope you have a good day, too.
How can you tell if a print is faded? I'm having such a hard time with my Fancy Paper Dolls JSK in the pink colorway. Compared to all the images online, it looks just as pastel. But, there aren't that many images, and there seems to be a difference in vibrancy from the dresses to the totes? All the lines are distinct and the print color looks consistent throughout, but I'm so paranoid. Any tips for figuring our if it has faded or not?
>>10537782I would compare it to places in the seam, or underside of the hem. Anywhere that hasn't been exposed to the sun or friction. That's the best you can do without a second dress that isn't faded.
>>10537782i don't have tips but FPD just looks faded by nature due to how light the colors are. i wouldn't worry too much as long as everything is distinct and you've been storing it properly.>tfw buyer complained that the FPD i sold them was faded when that's literally just how the print looksi seethe
I asked Tenshi to help get me the Sugary Carnival MTO out of a mistaken belief I would need a SS. Should I tell her I am no longer interested in her service? I'm not even sure how the MTO is working in Japan.
Does angelic pretty not give these out with dress orders? I've only ordered accessories from the AP site and they've given me the bag for them.
>>10537782hey anon, i can post a photo of my pink collar JSK if you want to compare! i'd have to do it tomorrow though since i'm out atm and natural light works best.
>>10537790i think others have backed out but it's bad etiquette. i wouldn't do it if you plan on using her in the future and want to stay in her good graces. just be patient imo
Does anyone know how long the closet child sale is? I see a lot of items saying ‘SALE’ on it but im not sure how long its forDont want to buy until my next paycheck in 2 weeks
>>10537797i backed out but this was the only time i've broke her rule in my couple years of using her, and she sounded completely normal when i used her for another order a couple days ago
>>10537820Did you tell her or should I just not respond to her?
Im about to sell a dress with full back shirring and adjustable/removable(removable?) straps but as i went to try it on, the straps keep unbuttoning as i try to adjust it into place. It doesnt seem like the holes ripped bigger as theyre sewn/hemmed to be that large. Could it be that the dress hanging by the button stretched them out? Its been hanging for a few years. I have no problem with them staying on the hanger. And although the dress is old; it doesnt seem like the elastic gave out making the dress just flop/hang down. The button also seems to be normally sewed on. I dont think its an issue of me being too big for the dress because i still fit my AP and Baby unshirred OPs. I wore this dress once a few years back and i dont remember having this happen but i did wear a cardigan over and no blouse under unlike this time.Is this just a common thing for full back shirring and removable straps? Its meta if that also says anything. Do i mark it as minor damage? Do i write this in the comments as damage?
>>10537905Nayrt, but you should definitely reply so there is no confusion.
Is it possible to wear lolita and...not care? Just wear it as clothes and don't even interact with the community other than maybe buying stuff once in awhile
>>10537961Yep. That's what I do. Lonelita life is fine for me.
>>10537961Completely. Been doing that for years. I wanna start going to meets when they're a thing again but that's moreso because I'm desperate to make friends.
Is there a cheap SS faster than Zenmarket? I don't like how they won't respond to a request for days.
Is white eyeliner in the waterline/eye bags considered ita??
>>10537997Eh, it often looks pretty bad. I use a sparkly light eyeshadow on the eyebags and a light colored but not white color on my waterline. Pic related is obviously an exaggeration, but stark white eyeliner looks pretty dumb without loads of photoshop.If you want tips on how to make your eyes look bigger, you're better off watching a bunch of k-makeup videos to see what they do.
>>10537905i let her know and profusely apologized
How do gulls feel about aliexpress jsks?
>>10538074The higher quality ones will be from Taobao resellers. The other ones I've found to be bad replicas or hilariously low quality. I would just tell you to buy brand secondhand, and if not just Taobao brand.
>>10538074I've ordered one JSK from Aliexpressin my life. and I'll never do it again. Quality was pretty laughable. I just ended up giving it to my normie friend.
>>10538086>>10538084Thanks for the responses! I'm seeing alot of zoomers on tik tok wearing shit they bought from amazon and Aliexpress. The dresses are so fucking cheap and shiny.
>>10538098tiktok is where all good things go to die kek
>>10538108I try to understand tik tok but it just makes me hate humanity when I go on there
How hard are rocking horse shoes to walk in? I'm considering getting these ones from antaina
>>10538120Just be careful going up and down stairs unless you wanna eat shit
>>10538120 they're really comfy on flat surfaces, but don't try walking around a garden or anything like that unless you have strong fucking ankles
>>10538120Depends on the type of material the sole is. I have a Bodyline pair where the "wood" is foam, so it stays on very flat surfaces so I don't roll my ankle. If you worn any sort of flatforms before, treat it the same way.
Looking for stock pictures or any information on the release of a newer Usakumya rucksack that's black, has tartan bows and red eyes, like the 2005 boy version. Want to add him to my wishlist, but can't find any information on the thing apart from instagram photos.
>>10538120Apart from being careful on steps as other anons have said, I find them very comfortable, probably moreso than heels. It's a good option if you want the height or silhouette of heels without the instep.
>>10538190The really really big one? I bought it from BABY last year; it was one of the oversized ones so cost like $300, holds a lot, great for snuggling. I could have sworn it was still on the BTSSB Japan site late last year cause it never sold out.
>>10538074I only ever order from a few resellers who don't hide what brand it's from. just ordered the Portrait of a Lady from Infanta, and it was only about $10 more than buying direct with free shipping.YMMV, I would stick to Taobao resellers who aren't shifty about where their items come from. I also avoid non-printed dresses on aliexpress since they can just be replicated at worse quality.
How do you style scrunchies? Basically pigtails? I have a couple from AP but idk wtf I'm doing. They don't seem to be very tight fitting so I think they're more decorational vs functional?
>>10537997You could try a champagne or peach or very light pink depending on your skin tone, it's a little more subtle but it can still look kinda weird irl. That's more of a trick for photos/stage
>>10537936The buttonholes are likely stretched a little but this is an easy fix. Either buy some generic buttons that are slightly larger and fix it yourself, or note it in the description and lower the price a smidge to compensate.
>>10538333i use them for single ponytails and i've seen some cute coords with one scrunchie on one pigtail or braid and bows/etc on the other. i double wrap to make them hold my hair. not my favorite kind of headwear desu but they're good for casual coords
>>10537795Which AP store? I read that the city of SF banned plastic shopping bags.
>>10537795I've heard that they do not give them anymore. A lot of orders have not included them.