>>10191131yeesh, why doesn't she at least take the pics with a petti on the mannequin? it wouldn't save this trainwreck but it could at least help
"My coordinate for the Cracker Barrel country lolita meet. I wore my handmade Valentines dress."bitch wore this to a meetup
>>10191165I can’t believe a comm had a meetup at Cracker Barrel.
>>10191169I cant believe they think Country Barrel counts as 'country'
>>10191131So the filename is „comparison“ and it’s showing two different dresses. I’m guessing the one on the right is the newer dress?Shows that they somewhat care about improving at least, although I’d wear neither of those dresses
>>10191131This is what happens when someone gets critique from a person that is not at least an intermediate seamstress. Switching out some trim cant save a badly designed dress with puckered seems, no lining, no interfacing, a wonky waistline and uneven hem.
>>10191165Her construction is getting.... better...? But now she needs to learn how to coordinate properly and do makeup and hair. She seems so enthusiastic.
>>10191165>>10191194The plaid does not match on any of the seams at all, the lace is bad and that's a child's hat. The neckline of the blouse is bad. Hair and makeup are not good. Side boob and back rolls need containment.
>>10191165Why are both her recent pics in food places.Oh wait I know why.
>>10191131When are people going to realize that it costs just as much if not more in decent materials at even less than minimum wage for your time as buying a second-hand brand dress? These beginner handmade itas need to take sewing lessons and look at a lot more brand dress construction and then solemnly swear off the quilt fabric wall and cheap trim aisle at the craft store before they attempt this shit. Not for beginners, and it's not a cost shortcut.
>>10191194This is the problem with many comms, enthusiastic itas that really are not ready for meets. Lolita is a fashion first and foremost. It's about the clothes and the styling FIRST, then when you have that down it's time to go to a meet. Not before. But that's hard to enforce.
>>10191165>>10191169Same, can't wait for the sequel: diner theme meet at Denny's at 2am! Being too drunk to order and having to point at the menu is optional, but recommended.
>>10191196That's why I said "better" not "good". The neckline is bad, but needing to match tartan prints at the seams is unnecessary. The old school tartans don't always match (they use lace accents to hide that, tho).
>>10191221If >>10191165Is ’better’, if hate to see the before. But if she's ’so enthusiastic’ maybe she can be coached to study and understand the total lolita aesthetic better before she makes anything else. Cause she's just not getting it yet.
>>10191217Kek I would go to that meet.
>>10191230The girl in the black hat looks like she's cryingI would be too if I were at that meet
>>10191230Most revolting behaviors.If you’re so desperate to shake your ass for a camera why not just wear literally any other fashion
>>10191230>I'm not with them
>>10191230>Let's take a silly one!Half the group does wildly inappropriate hand gestures or flashes the cameraHalf the group doesn't know what to do so they stick their hands in the air or just awkwardly laugh at the othersSomeone rescue the girl with the white parasol
>>10191245Why would you do a nice classic silhouette in neons?
>>10191230jojo pose girl looks cute though
>>10191217Meet after that: sitting on the curb outside the liquor store with steel reserve in a bag
>>10191171I can't believe you said Country Barrel
I love this girl but damnThe headdress and shoes really push this into ita territory for me.
>>10191279i saw this too on ig and was like ouch those shoes no honey
>>10191279nitpick. if you changed the headpiece and shoes this would be fine. post real itas.
>>10191279Whats wrong with the headdress? Cat ears aren't automatically ita if they're done right. Why do bunny ears and bear ears get a pass?
>>10191279Only thing I don't like are the shoes. I like her coords in general but her weak point seem to be shoes.
>>10191245I actually love this...placement of things looks uneven but I really like the colors and pattern even if it's super tacky
>>10191245So bad it's good
>>10191302There aren’t even cats on her dress. She’d be better off with just the flowers rather than that bizarre costumey headpiece that’s doing way too much.
>>10191245Oh god, it's this dress again. It seems to be a bit modified but it's still ugly as hell
>>10191245source? I wanna know who made this
>>10191256I don’t get the flashing thing and most of these people look either bad or questionable but if this was supposed to be silly and she didn’t do shit, she’s boring and I’d hate having someone so dull in my comm.
>>10191165I wouldn’t come to any meet with her in my comm. I would be a lonelita or try to plan secret meets. Is that bitchy? She just seems really stuck on herself while simultaneously being ita, incredibly obese, and just plain unattractive.
>>10191500Maybe she’s the one who posted this pic kek
>>10191503There’s a similar girl in my comm and I’m mortified to be seen in public with her
>>10191256I remember my first comm meet... when we were taking group pictures one girl yelled "lets take a dabbing pic!!!" god how mortifying. Didn't go to another meet after that, not necessarily for that specific reason but it was a factor
>>10191500to be fair, it looks as if she's holding her hand out to check for rain.
>>10191256Half of them are ita, I agree their outfits are terrible, but I don't think adults joking around with each other is something worth getting angry over.
>>10191533Maybe her hand is out because she’s asking “why” haha. Anyone know what comm this is anyway?
>>10191382Some girl in lolita sewing collective
>>10191533Oh shit! Didn’t see that because I’m retarded, that’s actually a cute as heck pose idea
>>10191279None of this makes sense, she just tried to pull colors from the print with no sense of theme or style. She's cute, just needs better taste. The sad thing is I bet she bought the green shoes for this, it's the same green as the print. Way too random
>>10191779I think so too, especially because complete strangers always think it's clever and "funny" to yell "it's not raining" at me when I carry a parasol. No shit.
>>10191270Can you translate that for those of us who dont know shit about JJBA?
>>10191785Because people are too stupid to know the difference between an umbrella and a parasol.
>>10191230Ah is this one of the “ouji bf”s I’ve heard about
>>10191796jojo characters are known to often be drawn in ridic poses in key art, often based off fashion magazine shoots - this is something you can literally google you know
>>10191797>>10191785This is the reason I come here, to relate this hard to other lolitas about how dense normies can be. It is a clever “silly” pose with more refined flavor. Why couldn’t these morons just dab and slav squat like normal memelords. Then maybe rain-chan wouldn’t have turned in such a way as to have hidden her face. I wonder if she’s as cute as her coord.
>>10191775I can't believe she wore that mess to work and posted about it still.
>>10191891>inb4 some anons say “I actually love this”
>>10191891>>10191892I posted that before and many anons loved it. People have no taste.Then again I think that >>10191279 is a travesty so I probably am a terrible elitist.
>>10191904>I posted that beforeWhoops, didn't realise. Have another to compensate.
Classic babbylitas are so precious
>>10191911Looks to me to be based more on the Tang dynasty clothing rather than the hanbok.
>>10191812Then which one are you talking about? There are multiple weird poses here.
>>10191909I like the wig, though.
>>10191913I can't hate this - she's too precious like you said
>>10191891Fuck you for doing this to my dream dress.
>>10191909This looks like it’s supposed to be a Cháng’é x Sailor Moon cosplay than an genuine attempt at lolita.
>>10191920It does, doesn't it? And yet it had these tags>#sweetlolita >#eglcommunity >#egl >#lolitafashion
>>10191916Are you smoking crack? it's a terrible wig
she wore this to work
>>10191955postsd already retard
>>10191913It would be passable if the skirt wasn't too long for her, otherwise the only offensive thing is the flats
>>10191531>how dare people have silly, harmless fun during my very serious lolita time!Y'all are just as bad as the "lolitas must b lovlies" crowd and I'm sure your comm doesn't miss you if you thinking dabbing of all things is "mortifying". Jesus.
>>10191279hate to be a summer anon, but i actually like this. remove cat ears, bag nitpick and i love the color on the shoes but those sandals are fugly for any occasion and ftlog why pair sandals with lace and ribbon
>>10191909wait, is this hopeygal?
>>10191165I love following her to laugh at her insta.
>>10191165BEING FAT STILL MEANS WEAR A DAMN PETTICOAT.your fat does not count as a way to "poof" a dress
>>10191962not sure if that was intentional, i think she just wanted to hide her face from this monstrosity of a photo
>>10191993It’s clearly intentional. This pose is very common for regular nerds who stay out of the no fun allowed zones. How fucking ita are the stuffy gulls here who call photos like these monstrosities, mortifying, revolting, etc.? No I’m not anyone in that comm but I can tell over compensating when I see it.
>>10191245Reminds me of a NiGHTS into dreams stage.
>>10191500>>10191515She probably did desu>no fun allowed in MY lolita
>>10192016lolitas will lose their shit every time people jokingly expose their bloomers as if they're actual underwear, even though they aren't and most normies dont think so either. women here have a hard time differentiating between "adults joking with other adults for a goofy picture " and "literal fetishists ruining our fashion" even though the difference is pretty obvious most of the time.
>>10192024I don't dislike other lolitas showing their bloomers because I think it's "fetishists ruining the fashion." I think it's really immature and cringey.
>>10191245without that cape, this could be coorded quite well by the right person. reminds me of my fav Millefleurs colourway, and also the limited lady sloth Japanese Bridge print (both pic related)
>>10192024I wonder if Mormons are personally offended by visible bloomers, I know that some Mormon women wear bloomers as religiously-significant magical undergarments. The mental image of a bunch of angry LDSers picketing lolita events in Utah with signs like "Peeking Bloomers Are An Abomination" is really compelling.
In the lolita fashion tag on twitter. Someone please teach this girl how to dress herself.
>>10192067iirc Mormon "magic underwear" is just a t-shirt and boxer-short like bloomers worn under regular clothes for modesty, and they're worn to visit holy places like church/temples. I'd love to see a picket from them about our bloomers kek
>>10191245If JetJ did a more refined version of this, I’d be interested. Chartreuse needs more love in lolita.
>>10191279Cute girl, terrible coord to be honest. This dress would’ve coorded itself if she just stuck to the flower and lavender theme.
>>10191891Maybe it’s because I have a lot of black in my closet and some brown, but those two neutrals should not be put together. You can’t make brown black, you can’t make black brown. All of the black needs to go.
>>10191279Looks like her and a few friends did an animal ears meet. I saw it on her IG. Not everyone looks ita and personally I think she looks nice in the group aside from her shoesCan you folks stop taking about /fit/ and post more itas please?
>>10191531lmao was this in ontario
>>10191531I’d rather people dab than lift their skirts and do the ‘I’m pooping pose’ desu
>>10191169Considering my state just got it and the novelty hasn't worn off, coupled with some very fond memories of eating Cracker Barrel when I lived in TN, it's absolutely a spot I think is worth considering for a casual country themed lunch.You probably live in a city too big to properly organize sub 10 attendee meets without upsetting people.
>>10192545Yeah agreed, there are much much worse places you could have lunch in lolita. The Cracker Barrel’s in my area are huge and pretty nicely decorated.
>>10191131This has so much potential.... In the garbage.
>>10191537It is when there's ass involved
>>10191891I had this dress and I'd NEVER put a black underskirt under it.
>>10192016So.... We're just ignoring two sets of buttcheeks being thrown out there huh....
>>10192565No buttcheeks are anywhere in that picture, grandma.
>>10192569You damn kids and your showing bloomers.Immoral little shits
>>10192021You're thinking of Memory Forest in the second game, where you have a level where you play the theme song.
>>10192545What shithole do you live in where Cracker Barrel is appropriate for a lolita meet? The KFC thing in ATL was funny because it was only ironically trashy. Cracker Barrel is unironically trashy in any state, if you think it's cute that's a you problem and you should get out more
>>10192363christ that dress is like an ita litmus test
>>10192576You’ve never been in a Cracker Barrel have you. I KNOW you >>10191217 haven’t since the two restaurants aren’t in the same league when it comes to presentation and atmosphere at all...If you reserve a room at a CB it’s probably a fine place to go. No fun allowed ever huh
>>10192598>>10192363>wanted to chime in that as an experienced lolita this dress is still ugly to me>one of them is wearing her headbow upside down? >?? ????I think a litmus test is more like giving them an AP pastel set and see how badly they fuck it up by adding too many "special" trends to it. The clockworks jsk is just an ugly ita magnet, you're not even drawn to it unless you're already ita, or something.
>>10192356Except for her tragic wtf sandals, that's a pretty good looking com. No itas, no hambeasts, no fetishist genderspecials. It's almost ideal.
>>10192374If I never see an overwrought fatty with shocking pink pettis shitting on the grass again it will be too soon. Right is smart, hiding her face.
>>10192657Compared to the hulk above her, she's almost perfect, just a nitpick.
>>10192655>oh my gosh, that filename
>>10192655>thinking the ‘elite’ Finn comm is ideal that just tells me they’d reject you instantly kek
>>10192693??point of this post?
>>10192604 I'm from Ohio, of course I've been in dozens of them. This is why I think there's something wrong with you. There are cuter local places even in rural parts of the state
>>10192604Here is how you do a non trashy rural meet. http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Tea+room+ohiohttp://lmgtfy.com/?q=Wineries+in+OhioJust replace Ohio with whatever shithole you're from! It's that easy to not seem like a bumpkin who thinks chain restaurants are classy
>>10192724Next they'll be going to Luby's for oldschool theme.
>>10192655There are two other itas in there besides her. Third from the right decided to coord yellow, blue, and purple together in a clusterfuck with other colors and a straw-yellow wig. The one all the way on the right inexplicably wore Sugary Carnival with terribly ugly bunny ears and a milk carton.
>>10191165frankly, this coord suits a cracker barrel meetup *perfectly*
>>10192724....do you think Ohio is wine country or some shit? Why the hell would you want to visit a winery in Ohio?? You'd get better choices going to literally any restaurant.
She is a hot mess
>>10192765that's supposed to be lolita?
>>10191179they are so similar why bother comparing them?
>>10191783It is not the same green as the print it is way lighter
>>10192765Oh god the eyeliner
>>10192765is K8 supposed to be cosplaying the yolandi skinwalker millie graves here?
>>10192765that eyeliner. O_O kill it with fire.
>>10192751fat & american
>>10191165Heres her comm What a bunch of itas.
>>10192800Not all, the two girls in the Bodyline skirts and the girl to the right of them are pretty cute.
>>10192787>>10192751>>10192722Maybe it’s just my location, but the Cracker Barrel in my town is really big and fancy. The interior is on par with other upscale restaurants in the area. I’d say the food is on par with a Texas Roadhouse quality wise, not bad but not super impressive, but it’s far from trashy looking and I never see people inside looking like slobs.
>>10192746Your jelly is showing. And no, she's not wearing a wig.
>>10192800Jesus christ. Seems like only black gingham and blue skirt next to her are remotely competent.
>>10192845Jealous of what, exactly? 3 itas, one with a horrific dye job? The other 3 look fine but two of them aren't even fitting the theme.
>>10192722I am from rural Ohio. There really isn’t lol.
>>10192815Texas Roadhouse famously lets you throw peanut shells on the floor, so that's not saying much.
>>10191913there is a difference between something not being good and something being ita
>>10191977I mean it is pure cringe at this point
>>10192800The girl in black looks really cute though
>>10192024even if they were just shorts no skirt involved bending over so someone can take a picture of your ass is trashy
>>10192024I think it's trashy too, and I hardly even wear lolita. I cosplay more than that. If I saw a cosplayer doing the same, I'd assume they wanted attention or were trying to be cringey. I certainly wouldn't want to have to try and explain the difference to someone who doesn't know the difference between what's fetish or not, when people already get the wrong idea.
>>10191930Oh wow, didn’t know it was tagged. She really should of went the cosplay route instead....
>>10192890You mean "should have gone." I weep for the future of literacy.
>>10192896>future of literacy.Sometimes people know three to five languages and their structures get mixed when you're writing in a hurry, specially if they're not your L1. Don't be a grammar nazi on a worldwide anon image board lol
>>10192899The vast majority of users of this board are native English speakers. Try again.
>>10192657What dress is that?
>>10192904Not that anon but why are you so mad about this? It's easy to answer 'oh, I see.' and move on. They're not writing you an essay. Their point was clear.
>>10192904The "vast majority" doesn't mean "everyone". Just follow anon's >>10192907 suggestion as I will and make this board a better place. Peace
>>10192876That's the joke, you autist. People do it ironically. No one actually thinks dabbing is cool. I don't know why so many lolitas flip shit over harmless meme poses.
>>10192896>I weep for the future of literacy.kek what a neckbeard
>>10192765No trigger control, yikes.
>>10192762Have you never been to a winery in the country? They are very rustic and cute. The restaurants in rural areas tend to be either chains or uncute greasy spoons, if there's anything at all. Anon was talking about a country meet and I think winery would be the cutest with all the exposed wood beams and barrels
>>10192091Looks like she forgot to put a dress on and went out in her undergarments.
>>10192765Did she do her makeup while drunk? How do you fuck up eyeliner and lipstick that badly?
>>10192934Yeah, I've been to them in *wine* country. Ohio isn't exactly known for wines at all. A wine bar would be a better choice and has similar vibes, but with an actually good selection. Plus it's probably way easier to find a wine bar than to drive out to a winery.
>>10192746Nitpick, outright lies, and jelly.
>>10192800The three in the middle or salvageable, purple grill with a lot of work, but the fatties and the pooh are beyond redemption.Besides, handmate ogreita doesn't have enough fabric in the skirt to fit a petti under.
>>10192765I know she was going for Millie graves but she just looks like she took a little too much xanax.
>>10192939Are you a mod from the cracker barrel ita meet? There are cute places all over the US, you can go to a cute winery in North Carolina or NOVA, you don't need to go to Napa. Girls in my comm do travel when we host meets in historical or otherwise neat out-of-the-way locations. Whether you are in Alabama or Alaska, there are historical and unique cute things (independent cafes, bistros, doll museums, science museums, galleries, farm to table restaurants) all over the US. That kind of stuck up attitude is probably why you think a middle class chain restaurant could ever be a kawaii meet idea
>>10192815Cracker Barrel is in no way ’upscale’ anywhere, they are a very casual homestyle restaurant chain with very similar decor and menu everywhere. I'd never want to attend a lolita meet in a place like that.
>>10192871What? There is never anything on the floor there!>>10193068I’ve been to Cracker Barrel in the town over and it was a bit more homey, I figured that was the norm until the newer one they built here a few years ago. Maybe I just live in a nicer area then I thought? I guess it wouldn’t be a suprise that they make it nicer to match the location?
>>10192812You can be cute and still be ita. Their coords could use some improvement.
>>10193066I just told you a wine bar would have a similar aesthetic and is a valid replacement for a winery, you illiterate mong.
>>10192906Looks like The Rose Grove by Henrietta
>>10193073There are only ever peanut shells in the little 10x20’ waiting area before the actual seating where I am (rural Ohio anon). Who knew the country, and even poorfag country, isn’t entirely shit?
>>10193082I’m in a completely different state and Cracker Barrel in my town is pretty nice. My family is from Ohio so I’ve been forced to visit in occasion... Ohio is a shit state. If you compare any restaurant there to somewhere else, Ohio will always be worse. Sorry youlike I’m such a shitty ass state.
She was tired of seeing a lack of casual coords on CoF and produced this monstrosity
>>10193089Not Lolita at all, but I think the outfit is cute outside of the shitty choker and the headpiece.
>>10193089>>10193095I don't know, it's not eye-jarring, but it is a random pile of seemingly unrelated shit, whatever doesn't look normie looks tumblrtard 3edgy5me.Which by itself I'm inclined to overlook, if she'd just posted it as a "casual coord" or "lolita items worn casually", but if she's saying "there's a lack of casual coords, here I am to gift you with this wonderful example", well. That's a whole other level of egoism, plus it makes you wonder what her standards are. Maybe she thinks it can't be casual unless it actually looks ugly like this outfit.
>>10193087It’s not that bad.
>>10193106That mesh sleeved jacket is painful to look at. All black can't save this mess
>>10191169that's why lolita shouldnt have ever went to the west notice how 99% of itas are westerns
>>10192765dont get how katiebabydoll and larasuzannne are instagram famous.katie is just this mess and lara looks like a freak with her mouth slightly open in all her pictures
>>10193114Well, I'm okay with it being someone else's aesthetic, not everything in CoF has to be something I like.But when it's posted as "there's not enough of this shit, let me post this to contribute", then my answer to that has to be "no, we don't want it and we don't need it this kind of ugly shit, thanks. There's no shortage, we just don't want this".
>>10192960so does millie though so she's got the look down
>>10192899People who use>should ofInstead of should have>should of went>should have wentInstead of should have gone, are native English speakers, they're just retards. Those are not mistakes non natives make.
>>10193115*should never have gone*WesternersYour coords are probably as ita as your English.
>>10193089Don't know where you got that idea from. This pic was posted to BSoLF with the caption."LS: Tried my hand at another casual coord after keeping track of casual coords on CoF. This one's a little more punk. I'm still waiting for my wrist cuffs to come in and my black lace ankle socks. My hair is in space buns and I opted for short sheer socks instead of OTKs because it was in the 90s here in southern California. I liked how the sheer socks mimicked the sheer sleeves on my leather jacket. Concrit more than welcome! I'm still trying to play with how to wear Lolita in my day to day. I have to go petti-less for work so I don't bump into biohazard materials (I work in a tattoo shop)"
>>10192899What >>10193136 said. This is solely a mistake native English speakers make because they hear "should've"/"would've"/"could've"/etc long before they see it written down, so they remember it wrongly as "should of"/"would of"/"could of"/etc. An ESL learner will always see the words written down upon their first encounter (on the blackboard or in their textbook), additionally they would've learnt these forms as tenses, or as contractions, which is a different lesson from prepositions. So they will never make the mistake of associating the sound "have" with "of" since they look so different in written form, are a totally different use, and come in very different lessons.
>>10192871That’s really frowned upon now actually because it was a huge mess to clean up at the end of the day but why are we arguing about mediocre to alright food chains in the ita thread>>10192923Oh god it’s one of the fucking teenagers can you leave? Nobody likes you. >>10193075I mean underage and non drinking comm members would just fuss and ruin it.
>>10193089>>10193144This came from BSoLF and she's asking for concrit, so you decided to be an ass and post it here. Classy. No one's even commented on it yet, so you can't even pull the "she can't take concrit" excuse. Did she post it on CoF also?
>>10193145I can't believe y'all are still going on about this. What a thing to nitpick. I learned all my Japanese from media and textbooks, but mostly anime. You don't know where they learned their English. Just post more itas.
>>10193145Oh, I see. Thanks for explaining.Also, have one tagged as "sweetlolita"
>>10193148A wine bar or regular upscale cocktail bar meet is actually a very good way to have a fun meet withOUT the under-aged and the ’no funners’. If they cry, suggest they host a future meet more to their own taste. Not every meet needs to be all-inclusive. Several of my comm don't drink but are cool with a bar meet and they just drink soda or juice and attend for the fun of the gathering because they are chill people.
>>10193157Ugh. I don't ever want to see any fookin toes in lolita, folks. None at all.
>>10192765this isn't relevant for this thread at all, but okay.Anyway, I kind of like where she was going with this, but she needs a better quality liquid liner because her gel is clearly too thick to work with nicely.>her nails are 2secs from falling off too
>>10192800marshmallow-chan on the right just needs better legwear, preferably white. it's looking like okay old school, just a nitpick>provided the blouse is white and not lav like the lighting suggests
>>10192800Agree that the 3 in the middle are close to the mark. The others are badly enough dressed that I'd pretty much be embarrassed to be seen with them. If you have a similar comm and wonder why there are well dressed lone lolitas in your city that don't join your meets, this may be part of the reason why.
>>10192356Recent pic with no yellow shoes. I wish my comm was this cute
>>10193136>>10193145Thank you for explaining what I lacked the patience to say. People will truly bend over backwards to excuse ignorance.
>>10192356>>10193194I also wish my comm was this cute.Unfortunately they look mostly more like >>10192800 where the 2 waffle-chans and gingham-chan aren't really that great but are the best dressed. Pooh-chan can fuck right off. I really dislike the handmade itas. So damn few ever actually get it right but everyone is too scared to do honest concrit or to dare to say ’that's not lolita’, even when it's clearly not.
>the grammar>the restaurantGulls really will just argue for the sake of arguing, won’t they?
>>10191131Let's get honest. St best, that's a milanoo-tier design and construction. No amount of lace swapping or ’improving’ can help it at this point. >>10191165This is also back designed, badly made from cheap fabric, unlined and badly accessorized with cheap high street loliables. Burn it all but for the shoes. >>10191230This shit is not ’fun’ to many of us, its embarrassing. Go do it in a separate photo and leave those of us who don't like it out of the picture, please. Have your fun and I'm not saying you can't or shouldn’t, but it's also ok for me to say ’count me out’ without getting shit on for being ’NO FUN’!>>10191279Still better dressed than most of the fat slobs and the snowflakes we usually see in these threads. >>10192374Disgusting. >>10192765Wrong type of lolita.
>>10192722Texan who’s been all over the south here, ours are cute and have pictures from Godey’s Lady’s Book, vintage ads, pictures of ladies from the Victorian era to the 50s, and much more elegant stuff. Ohio’s Cracker Barrels must just suck.
>>10193227>”I must look perfect at all times! Count me out (since you all embarrass me)!”Just stand there and shrug exaggerated, with a kill-me-now face for the photo. It’s “silly” and gets your thoughts on the activity across, while not outing you as the stuffy elitist you are.
>>10193152Sorry you got posted
>>10192812Are you kidding me? The one in the pink bodyline skirt is atrocious. She didn't even bother to tuck her blouse. And her boots just....don't go with anything at all and certainly aren't "country". And then, of course, no makeup or hairstyling.Blue bodyline and black gingham are in another league compared to her.
>>10193089This is horrific but she's not saying that at all, shes a newbie and is saying that she took inspiration from casual cof posts
>>10193234On that note, I don't think most people like "silly" photos in general, even normies. It just puts people on the spot to be funny or weird to a bunch of strangers. Doing silly pictures with close friends is fine but for an entire comm is a little awkward. I wouldn't mind if no one ever suggested that ever again.
>>10193089I thought we frowned upon posting from BSoLF because they're looking for help in that group?
>>10193115If you think Japanese itas don't exist you need to go have a look at the Japanese COF thread >10182865
>>10193258Some blouses, like the one she's wearing, are designed to be worn untucked if desired. I'm not defending her coord, but I'm sick of this retarded idea that blouses must always be tucked in.
>>10192765so messy and cringe. "cosplaying" another person is just weird imo
>>10193338That's just....how you wear clothes. Untucking a blouse isn't optional.
>>10193347If the blouse have lace or ruffles on the bottom it's meant to be untucked
>>10193347Why would a blouse have a decorative hem then? What you're saying doesn't make sense.
>>10193347https://www.wunderwelt.jp/en/fleur/products/m-02227https://www.wunderwelt.jp/en/fleur/products/s-02939Hate to tell you...
>>10193233They generally all have the ads and old dusty antiques, that's the gimmick but really old people just like the bland food and stupid gift shop. Idk what about it a real lolita would enjoy unless they have digestive problems>Source, used to travel with my grandparents on vacation and they loved to stop at cracker barrel
>>10193089Hey anon, maybe use your brain instead of your sandy cunt the next time you feel like posting an image from FB. This is from BSoLF and the person in the image is looking for advice, so how about you realize that you're an ass and leave BSoLF alone.Unless someone proves their perma-itaness in that group, it's off-limits and people who laugh at that content are chucklefucks.
>>10192356What's in the water here that's causing these weird tight-lipped faces and chins
>>10193362>>10193363that's just how white people smile
>>10193365it's how misako smiles too. And AP models are told not to show teeth either. They're probably just copying that
>>10192604Cracker Barrel is just Olive Garden with a different skin. At least Denny's has the benefit of owning its reputation and being cheap af for what you get.
>>10192091>What did that poor corset do to deserve this holy fuck
>>10193366Wait really? Why?
>>10193395it's just a Japanese cultural thing. women cover their mouths when they laugh so they don't show their teeth. i'm guessing it stems from them all having teeth as bad as brits.
>>10193362Can you show me a good lolita who is smiling with their teeth showing? Because I can only think of itas.
>>10193395Smiling with your teeth is not elegant and often looks forced, like someone's holding you at gunpoint.
>>10193405>like someone's holding you at gunpointkek, what? it's not SO RORI to smile with teeth but this is a reach
>>10193398I can think of some but they are people I like so why would I post them?
Heres some teeth for you anon
>>10193559>LittleIt just gets worse and worse
>>10193209gingham chan looked great for casual country, i'm not feeling the bag for coordinate photos since it's so blocky and plain but she nailed it
>>10193561and the rest of the name sounds like a shitty Mary Sue
>>10193362This always makes me laugh, smiling with teeth in lolita is not a thing
>>10193559I just checked out her instagram and....does she have a mental disability? I watched a video called "Laughing in the Garden" and it's so bizarre that I think she must at LEAST have a touch of the 'tism. I kind of feel bad for laughing at her if so.
>>10193583Agree, I thought the same. She’s a few beers short of a six pack
>>10193397No it’s not about the teeth, it’s about being seen as vulgar, showing the inside of your mouth, especially as a woman, is gauche. Some women won’t even take a bite of food without covering their mouths. That’s why if you see one eating a snack such as a cracker they leave it in the wrapper while taking bites, so the wrapper covers their mouths.
>>10193609Something tells me that was a rule only back when people had fucked up teeth.Nowadays, showing off all the dental work people go through could, if anything, be considered a status symbol.
>>10193618Awww, there's something kind of endearing about this.
>>10193618just...pick a colour palette and stick to it. this would be fine if the skirt was black and white.
>>10192896You know some of us end up thinking in 2 or more languages and get our shit messed up.....
>>10193157This is fucked no matter how you look at it....
>>10193291We did. people are just dicks
>>10193609Is that it? I just don't smile because I hate my smile
>>10193616And I’m telling you, it’s not about the teeth. It’s considered feminine to have a small mouth. Opening it up and showing the inside implies you’re vulgar and your mouth is huge, so they just make weird creepy little smiles and not big, teeth-baring ones and they take tiny pathetic bites or cover their mouth if they need to open it wide to take an actual adult bite. It’s not about dental work. Making a big wide mouth is akin to a western woman sitting with her legs all man-spread. It’s just tacky
>>10193637Well that’s fookin retarded
>>10193632Another shining example of literacy. You obviously didn't read the follow up comments about how this is a mistake primarily made by native speakers.
>>10193264I think it's just the upskirt bloomer photos, they're universally hated everywhere and I've never seen a single post with upskirt bloomers that hasn't gotten completely shat on. If you can be bothered to search getoffegl, even in the heyday of livejournal there's already lolitas bitching about that kind of pose every time it turns up on daily_lolita. If anything, this is just another proof not to do that kind of pose, ever. It's always hated and always shat on.
>>10192604I appreciate you anon, but midwest nibbas don't know, you're not going to change their mind.
>>10193640No, it’s a cultural difference, unfortunately you are the mentally challenged one in this case. Can’t you appreciate the fact that different people often have different aesthetic preferences?
>>10193767>respecting gender expectations like that when you yourself are not in the country and therefore do not have to abide by its differencesUh no
>>10193767it's called sexism, not cultural differences lol
>>10193960Go back to tumblr.
>>10194003>not liking how its “feminine” to hinder eating to such a pathetic degree is tumblrOoooook
>>10191891I don’t have a problem with this coord, I do however have a problem with the fact that she looks like slenderman.
>>10192746Lol bait harder
>>10193767Just because some historical randos decided they didn’t want women to do some completely normal thing doesn’t mean anyone should give a shit about it.
>>10193767So should we respect cultures that practice FGM just because of "cultural differences?"
>>10194030The girl on the left looks ok, although I hate that chunky grandma necklace.
>>10193618>I'm going to mix gothic and sweet and its gonna look so cool!Its so hard to do this right but everyone tries
>>10194056She's a complete cunt though desu. Currently on a crusade to defend wearing trainers and cheap ballet flats in ruffle chat. Also once accused me of being a bad lolita because I have sex
>>10194060r/ihavesexSorry, had to. Agree with you that there's no excuse for trainers in lolita
>>10194060>bad lolita because you have sex
>>10194066Can't go into it. Just caught a mini ban for personal vendetta.
>>10194057It's literally all sweet though.
>>10194057black does not equal gothic
That poor dress
>>10193637what the FUCK are you going on aboutdo you have a source for these wild assertions?it's completely normal and accepted to smile widely in a photo. The photographer often REQUESTS the subjects to smile widely."implies you're vulgar" who implies that? who interprets showing teeth in that way? Nobody.i'm not even mad, this is literally the first time i've ever heard of this. It's one thing if you have missing or fucked up teeth- but just seeing another person's teeth makes them unfeminine? Where did you get this idea?
>>10194082Even perma-happy Babi and Kaie look uncomfortable
>>10194060Yikes, that's what ballet flat-chan looks like? No wonder she has such a hard-on for cheap crappy shoes.
>>10193637>Opening it up and showing the inside implies you’re vulgar and your mouth is huge>Making a big wide mouth is akin to a western woman sitting with her legs all man-spread. It’s just tackyhow did you get a wifi signal from 1700? this is so ridiculous it's bordering on bait
>>10194086Lmao they always do though? All that filler and plastic surgery makes them look bad
>>10194088I love how she was INSISTING they were hard-wearing and healthy for her feet
>>10194084Different anon, but this is so in Japan, so I wouldn’t be surprised if similar countries or cultures had the same views. Are you a white American by any chance?
Somehow this is supposed to be Snow White inspired.
>>10194082........is that HL?!
>>10194272what the fuck is this bonnet
>>10192946>seethingwhere is the lie
>>10194084No one is talking about in the US, you retard. They're talking about Japan. It's a widely known cultural thing.
>>10194301I’m not really involved in this fight but don’t assume that something is widely known just because you know it. Why would someone not from that culture know that?Anyway, here’s an ita.
>>10194280Yep.She was also selling Honey Cake a while back and was moaning about how no one was biting. I wouldn't buy her stretched out shit even if it was cheap.
>>10194333the best ita pics are when an ENTIRE comm is ita.
>>10194333This poor brolita.
>>10194357you know its bad when the brolita is the best looking one. And you know a brolita is bad when you can tell theyre male even when you can't make out their facial features because of shitty photo quality
>>10194333What is photo saturation
>>10194033This made me laugh so hard
>>10194363No way, that country-chan is the best one. The brolita’s dress looks gross and cheap, whatever it is.
>>10194030Protip: with saggy boobs, always choose death over wearing a turtle neck.
>>10194082She's gonna blow and they worry about their funky wigs getting covered in baloney scented blubber.>>10194272>>10194275That is clearly Crafts Day at the Asylum.
Girl who posted is yikes. Girlfriend might be salvageable
>>10194389which one are you talking about?
>>10194435I’m assuming it’s the one fourth from the right with the brown hair and braids? She is rather cute but this photo is saturated to hell and back so it’s hard to tell the construction of her dress as well. Plus they’re all sitting down. “Blouse” and shoes look iffy imo. Nitpick at best
>>10194410What in the heck, why would you walk around with unzipped boots? Dangerous and messy.
>>10194507Someone with calves the size of tree trunks. Unacceptabrul
>>10194357This is from some distorted world where the brolitas are best and the girls are all terrible.
>>10192765This isn't lolita, Nina.
>>10192800I really like this comm, t b h. The toned down look here is great. I'm just so fucking sick of the AP flavor-of-the-moment types perpetually trying to outdo eachother like that old Deerstalkers video.
>>10194512>>10194507Nah, one is zipped and one isn't. Poorfags gonna poor. Buy new ones or pay to fix your shit when it breaks
>>10194357>>10194389>gross and cheapCorrect me if I'm wrong, but that looks an awful lot like AP's Ribbon Berry Bunny OP.
>>10194440Not a nitpick, she just isn’t ugly.
>>10194330I think this one is a cosplay
>>10194333Hat girl in the middle is adorable.
>>10194613>>10194622She has a cute face--someone help her.
>>10194629>cuteare we looking at the same pic?
>>10194620No shit sherlock, it still looks terrible though. Forgive me for being a weeb right now bit it's canon that Grell would never be cought dead in lolita or any kind of non-elegant non-red dress.
>>10194613This looks bad but could be easily saved. Without the bright red petit showing and changing that cheap steampunk looking vest for a cotton fabric one that matched the coord aesthetics it would be an ok coord.
>>10194681>>10194613Eh, nah. That's a really normie-looking blouse and rather drabby skirt (with some weirdly uneven ribbon trim to boot) -- pairing them with an actually nice vest/bustier is really just going to bring out how drabby and normie they are. I think she's got the basics but what she really needs are some actual lolita items. This looks like a loliable blouse with a circle skirt and a random leftover steampunk cosplay thrown in.
>>10194698Oh no!! Silly poses!! How dare they have fun!!??
>>10193362>>10193366>>10193395They're trying to do the Misako smile which I think stems from trying to look like a doll, no teeth showing and no lines on the face. Idk what anon is going on about giant lewd mouths or whatever.
Someone please help that poor dress. Baby, those stars straight up died.
New thread. >>10195123
>>10191916are we looking at the same wig? what the fuck is the styling on the bangs? it's awful
>>10193115it's almost like asian lolitas post their shit somewhere else and we don't see most of it dumbass