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I’ve developed a crippling insecurity over my height since I started browsing here. I’m 5 foot 9 and I had no issues with girls before I started convincing myself off the shit I read on here. How do I reverse it after I leave this site?
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You can't
Once you understand women hate manlets its over
Just like knowing all women crave BBC and find whit people disgusting and weak
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5 foot 9 is still taller than the majority of the female population. If you’re really that insecure just go after short girls
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>>30213235
Literally all of this is nonsense, the more I browse this place the more I realise how disconnected this shit is from reality. Before I started obsessing over my height I did fine with girls.

>Tfw I’ve been taking advice from porn addicts for the last couple of years
>>30213239
Yeah I know, I’ve just become irrationally insecure after reading the shit on here
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>>30213229
>>30213248

You are sitting here saying you have first hand experience that the manlet crap isn't real. So I'm sorry but if you are insecure over some raging incel cope then bro, you are choosing to consciously ignore your first hand experience....

No sympathy for that, you're in a hell of your own creation. You can leave that hell whenever you choose.
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>>30213248
>Before I started obsessing over my height I did fine with girls.
Did you bald by chance? Because other then being a bit smaller balding is a real red flag.
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IDK, sometimes I cosplay as a 5'2 man online and women just ignore the fuck out of me once i mention it, even if every other stat I larp as is perfect. It's brutal. I'm actually 6'0 so I never knew
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>>30213235

Son, listen. You clearly have a poor ezcuse for male tole model, maladroit social skills and unbridled insecurity. Are you a pinnochio by chance?

Real life isn't like porn. Touch some grass
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>>30213229
its a bit like a cult. you got to have the same language, the same triggers, the same beliefs. If you start to get different, have different, individual experiences, youre not part of the group anymore and not worthy to be here, or youre still an unbeliever.
you reverse beliefs with counter beliefs and counteractions, which leads to counter experiences.
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Double down. You need to get to the bottom of this shit no matter what. Promise me, okay? See you on the other side. Jesus is elevating you with speed and acceleration!! Listen to your good seniors here, little one!! Your frens are here to help you see shit.
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>>30213284
True but it’s hard to escape, I will go out in public and every time I see a taller guy and I feel a pang of inferiority. I didn’t have that before at all, in fact and my best friend is 6 foot 1 and never felt insecure around him at all.

I know logically I shouldn’t care about this and that im fucking myself over but it’s like I’ve been conditioned by myself into insecurity now.
>>30213303
Nope I’m 19 and haven’t even gotten the early signs, my hair is as thick as ever.
>>30213310
Sure but 5 foot 2 is pretty extreme, usually the cut off for incredible difficulty is like 5 foot 5, which I’m not at. Im average height if I was in the us and still in the average range as a euro so it’s really bizarre of me to have developed this insecurity.
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you're a perfectionist / pure ocd; you want to be the perfect height and have the perfect stats, it's something you strive for or fantasize about but know with height there's next to nothing you can do to grow it
5'9 is plenty tall
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>>30213235
Baiting a little hard here Moshe. Sometimes a more subtle approach will work better.
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>>30213333
Hm yeah I suppose that’s right, I’ve dupped myself into thinking like this hive mind on here and it started manifesting because of that. Suppose I just need to get off here and try to starve those thoughts.
>>30213342
What?
>>30213351
Pretty accurate I’ve always been a pretty stanch perfectionist in everything I do, I think the reason I get caught up this is because it’s something I can’t change which drives me mad. I guess it would probably be more beneficial to accept this as a flaw than obsess.
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>>30213366
*staunch
(Ironic spelling error is ironic)
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>>30213229
Just look around you at the real world and see how many normal size (i.e. under 6'4") guys have girlfriends.



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