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>Go to the gym
>Make more money
>Attracting women

I realize now the reason why most people on internet forums such as reddit and 4chan are depressed is because they are failed normies. They self-improve in hopes of becoming a normie at bare minimum. But I am not built for the normie life, normies are mind controlled by religion, corporations, and governments, normies are slaves to the system, brainwashed that the only way to be happy is to conform to what the majority is doing, by acquiring social status and by chasing money. Why put so much effort and instead just enjoy life in the present moment?

TLDR; Wondering why you guys put so much effort into self-improvement in hopes of living a normie life when you can just enjoy life right now.
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>>30213204
I guess I started to think about my future or something like that.But honestly Im just going along in hope to find a place to be left alone without excruciating existential fear and panic. Means put in some effort to have enough to survive, else do whatever I want.
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Some people find social status and money enjoyable, retard.
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>>30213234
What are you afraid of?
>>30213265
But you understand that desire is the root cause of suffering right? Why desire things that are often out of your control? You should desire less and instead appreciate more and not depend your happiness on the validation of others.
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>>30213293
Being dependent on others and having to receive mercy from them.
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>>30213293
>anon desires to remove desire
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>>30213293
enough with this buddshit mistranslated nonsense
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>>30213204
I think the problem is people forget that self improvement is supposed to be for you not for others. Having your goal be linked to other peoples opinions of you is just a mistake from the start.
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>>30213204
fire post. life is actually easy when you stop thinking too hard about it and just do.
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>>30213204
even tho i would find lots of hoe's i wouldn't want to be normie since it would mean loss of my philosophical knowledge.

still we are monke and monke wants sex, for keeping my intellectual brain in good condition we gotta put some pussy around us.
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>>30213204
When you have no friends, being confident in yourself becomes 100% harder. In that situation we seek the validation of others until we either got too old to care, or we do find people who accept us.
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>>30213204
Thanks bro. I was wondering where i was going wrong at.
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>>30213204
you are correct, but our minds are not the same, the normie truly holds a different version of the world, and the failed normies try so hard to fit in that distorted version, so hard they alienate themselves from ever getting the visions of their true brain, you can't blame them, we are not some sort of aristocratic breed, despite the narcissism of some (including mine), we have, as per the system at hand, and illness and we do not fit with the standards, and we should embrace that, as you said appreciate more and desire less, not only in the buddhist sense, but on the simple and straightforward way, the autistic way if you will, just desire less, I got my hobbies, my missions and that way I am a human, at least a tailored human for my soul
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I am an Autist-Normie hybrid and fail to fit in either.
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>>30214868
I haven't posted on pol in over a year seeing a hitlerite meme is not pleasant.
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>>30214896
Get over it snowflake. No one cares.
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>>30214896
You're going to be disappointed because tgere's lots of pol bro's on adv.
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I like people, I think they're funny and interesting, worth learning about and interacting with. It's really that simple.
I don't go to the gym, or make a bunch of money btw.
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>>30213204
>Go to the gym
Exercise is important, especially in a society that almost celebrates being comfortable, eating literal slop, and taking it easy. It correlates with longevity and makes a great tutor of discipline. By no means should you strive to become a musclehead, but being strong is good. Also, since I assume you prize your intelligence, your brain, being a mass of blood vessels, can only suffer profoundly from a sedentary and gluttonous existence.
>Make more money
If you're a NEET, then yes, get a job. You're neither cool nor a rebel for being a useless lump on the ass of society.
>Attracting women
Who said you have to chase after Staceys? If that's the kind of woman that is meant, then I agree, I'd rather be alone. Fortunately, women are as varied as men, or at least they are where I live.
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>>30214907
I am not surprised.
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>>30213204
>when you can just enjoy life right now.
my life right now sucks and it would be foolish to naively enjoy it. It's not just about
>Go to the gym
>Make more money
>Attracting women
It's about being a competent human being, which is difficult for most of us on this site (shut up, you know I'm right). There's nothing good about being a dysfunctional member of society.
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>>30215028
Is that Jonah Hill?
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normie happy
aspie sad



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