Genuinely and honestly, how do I get it through my head that the majority of women have one physical type when it comes to men? And how do I stop being mad that women, no matter what they look like, will always be some guys type? I'm getting tired of being a bitch boy about this shit and just want to accept reality.
>>30208488When I was rail thin, I got laid.When I was a skinny twink looking dude, I got laid.When I got jacked/shreaded, I got laid. When I got buff and went dad bod, I got laid.I've since chilled out and maintain my strength but not my bodyfat as consistently; I still get laid.
>>30208488>I made up this problem in my head, what should I do about it?
>>30208602But how hot were these broads?
>>30208488Why would you want humanity to keep perpetuating defective genes? The more women deviate from the ideal male as a sexual partner, the more pathological her mind is.
>>30208602Would you want your own daughter to marry some fat fuck or someone who was in good shape?
>>30208810Minimum of a 6/10 who put out GOOD for me, hottest is my fiance who was an 8/10 when we met but over the course of our 5 years relationship she's grown more beautiful every day, easy 9/10 just looking at her but her other attributes make her a 10/10 hands down.>>30208863>Would you want your own daughter to marry some fat fuck or someone who was in good shape?I would want my daughter to marry someone happy and healthy, I don't give a fuck about how they look as long as they maintain themselves and treat her right. If it was some 400 lb slob but he made my daughter feel like she was on top of the world, I'd offer to train him and help him get in shape at the very least before voicing disapproval. Those fat to fit transformations are legendary anyway, I aspire to have calves like those guys.
>>30208488women's attraction protocols run like 20 deep, looks might not even be in the top 10. It's mostly about your energy and the randomness of the space time continuum regarding what mood they are in when you meet them.
>>30209112Even women don't know what they want.
I don't even know what I want and I'm a man.
>>30208488Why do Jews come here and write up these fake inquiries? NO ONE thinks this shit. It's just Jews trying to get people to believe someone does. Doesn't work when we know you're Jewish. Only the Jewish mind thinks up this satanic shit
>the majority of women have one physical type when it comes to men?Shouldn't they be attracted to their husbando instead of reverse harems?Incels want easy women and complain that women are whores.
>>30208602Wow it's almost like having good genes is advantageous or something.
>>30209026Fuckin champion attitude right here
>>30209151This is true, they do not. Everyone knows women are retarded, yet somehow theyre experts when it comes to attraction. Spoiler alert, theyre still retarded
>>30208488I LOVE WET HOLES
>>30208488>the majority of women have one physical type when it comes to men?Stop seeking that majority of obviously superficial women and talk to the ones who don't care about stupid shit like that and will genuinely love you for exactly who you are right now. I get so sick of hearing men whine about being alone when all theyre whining about is not getting noticed by stacy. Just find a quiet nerdy type who doesnt even notice shit like that. and before you say some defeatist garbage about that being totally untrue, go outside for longer than 10 minutes. Look at the average couples around you. No ones super models. Half the time the man is fat as fuck and still has a gf or wife happily on his average income arm. No excuses.
>>30213074What you are saying is completely true, I hope anons listen to it
>>30208488They don't. Stop letting the online dating Jew fool you. Female attraction is 90% about your personality, your ability to say the right things with the right expression. However, personality has a worrying tendency to atrophy if it is never used. Once it has completely died after years of solitude, there is probably no hope in reviving it. Maybe psychotropic medications can help... That's the point I am at right now, 29 and about to turn to legal drugs out of sheer desperation.
>>30213074>a quiet nerdy typethat's literally my type and they never notice me
>>30212330Just being myself, same as you should do
>>30212867True love makes someone more beautiful to you than you'd have ever imagined and good people are worth the effort to help, I don't know that's a champion mindset as much as it is a couple of fundamental truths of life and love.I appreciate the kind words though friend.
>>30212330I'm not going to deny that I have good genes but I've seen less attractive men than me do better with woman than I have. It's a confidence game first and foremost, and a compatibility game after that.
>>30213181>notice meAre you expecting them to walk up and ask you out on a date or what?
>>30213169>Female attraction is 90% about your personalitylol. Lmao even.The hotter you are, the more autisitc and weird your personality can be, and girls will still want to have sex with you.And it doesn't matter that you have the best personality in the world, if you cannot cross her looks threshold, it's over.Admitedly though, most men are capable of crossing average women's look thresholds if they do the work, even in 2023.
>>30208488>And how do I stop being mad that women, no matter what they look like, will always be some guys type?Why would that concern you though? Are you worried that you're not some guy's type or something?
>>30208488I'm a woman and I like twink bodies. like dainty, feminine, thin bodies. they are rare though. I don't care about bodies that much, as long as you aren't overly fat or skinny. I care about face more, though the body does connect with the face oftentimes
>>30213322I'm worried that I'm no woman's type, which I'm not.
>>30213372So why don't you say that instead of talking about how any woman might be a guy's type? That has nothing to do with you.
>>30213372List the reasons why you arent any womans type, let's see what the problems are here.
>>30213387Not the OP but I think being the kind of guy who would make a thread like this and have that image saved to begin with probably rank pretty high on that reasons list.
>>30213379Because it is true>>30213387FatAutisticBoringLazyI'm not asking for a submissive, skinny, supermodel. I want a fat nerdy homebody woman like me.
>>30208488You're right. No non-Adonis has ever got a girl.
Or any short guy either.
>>30213420Now now lets not bully him completely>>30213442How fat are we talking here. but anyway, have you tried losing a little weight? Adjusting your food portion sizes and the types of foods that you're eating? Autism isnt an issue when dating nerdy types, they usually have it too. Nerdy types also dont mind boring lives as they live boring lives themselves. Lazy simply won't do. Make a new daily routine, little by little. Start with things like making your bed as soon as you wake up. Then add in daily sweeping, or counter cleaning. Tidy up your closet, and other living spaces. Like this, you can start to form positive habits that gear you towards prioritizing important things, which can also help pull you up out of laziness. >>30213462I wouldnt use rich people as examples because they clearly date each other for money. but you are correct in the fact that in our daily lives, we can easily step out and see average looking fat men cozied up with equally average to sometimes even quite pretty looking women just about anywhere we go. In average cases, its usually about the mans personality and willingness to listen to her more than anything else.
>>30208488Theres a lot of different body types that different gorls like, shocker people are different ad not monotlithic one dimension cardboard cut outs like Channel 4 would have you believe.
>>30213481I'm morbidly obese. My heaviest was this summer at 520 lbs. Right now I'm at 485 because I've been doing a calorie deficit for the past few months. I've been eating smaller but I've been kinda relapsing the past week or so due to life stress. Eating healthy is also kind of hard because I don't have a lot of money. I live paycheck to paycheck and I have texture problems with certain foods. Pic related is my goal physique. I want to have a strong-fat, bear mode type build. I've been fat my whole life and always comfortable in skin, so I'd like to try and be a healthier big. I want my weight to fluctuate between 250-300 so I can still enjoy food.I dunno, though, I'm 30 years old and so behind in life that it all feels pointless. I don't have long term goals or ambitions. I don't know when it happened, but something in my past fucked me up and made me not normal. Unless I was never meant to be normal. Feels hopeless. I'm seeing my doctor to do something about this depression I have.
>>30213590Morbidly obese simply won't do. This, you already know, but what I mean is for more important reasons. You will die early and very abruptly. This makes pursuing you as a lover way too much of a gamble, because she will never know when you will keel over dead leaving her all alone. You just lose weight not just for yourself and your own life, but for the sake of the person that someday your life will intertwine with. When you find this person, you will wish more than anything that you could have more time on earth. Work now on behalf of your future self, for that.Stay strong. Keep the restraint up, bring that back to yourself. Eat a little less every time. Drink more water to feel more full, water with every meal. Get things like grapes, some tasty fruits. If possible, try a few at home cardio exercises every single day, like the arm lifting types. If the weather allows it, walk around the block once a day too. Then make it two blocks, then three. Slow and steady is better than nothing at all. Patience will be your fortitude.I too am in my 30s and starting over. It only feels pointless when you are still not trying. Once you stop giving up and start trying things new, suddenly the fire behind your eyes for life will return to you. You just have to change your mindset first, through little bits of things at a time.
>>30213442>Fat>Autistic>Boring>LazyOk, well whose fault is all that?>I want a fat nerdy homebody woman like me.Then you can get one. "Chads" aren't interested in that...ask how I know.
I wonder why your computer is full of pictures of muscular half-naked men.
>>30208488>women have one physical type when it comes to menWhy do you post lies on the internet?
>>30208488The guy in the picture is not even that hot, dumb face he only has a nice body but that wouldn't even be apparent with a shirt on.You are only finding excuses.
>>30213917my parents but it's my responsibility to fix it>>30213957As a reminder to what i have to look like to get women
>>30214267A guy who looks like that certainly isn't going to get women by his looks. Plus he looks dumb as fuck. I think it's much more likely he is just a projection of your homosexual lust.
>>30214392Nah, I don't think he's hot. But I have jerked off to chub porn before.
>>30208488the shy one always makes me laugh every time I see this meme
>>30208602The common denominator? A good face. Revolutionary stuff.
>>30213962If you interpret "women" as "the overwhelming majority of women", then it's completely true.
>>30208488>This is what women likeLol not me. That's way too muscular>t. a real woman with a vajay jay>Every girl's a guy typeAnd so are all men to women, I guarantee you that. OP you're looking at women and men's value through a men's lens. If you wanna be a girl's type you gotta learn what makes them swoon, and by the pic you shared, you're waaay off.
>>30215567What am I supposed to be seeing here
Oh cool, it's this schizo again.
>>30215567>>30215572>>30215578>>30215581>all skinny guysok, show me 5 pictures of different couples where the guys is fat
>>30215569The bigger point is the dude's face. You could get a room of a million women and not one of them would prefer a dude with a recessed chin or bug eyes. Women have very universal facial preferences.
>>30215592So women do only like one type then, retard
>>30215593>Will not like a recessed chin or bug eyesI'm keking so much rn because I deadass started crushing on a guy like that recently. I confess though, I was a bit wary at first but his attitude (what guy or gal wouldn't be, right?) but his personality did it for me. I'm hoping to see him this saturday at a friend's party.>There's hope, man.
>>30215624Ok this is blatant lying or bait. Was he also a balding Indian janitor?
>>30215616I'm still right, retard. They don't like fat dudes but there are plenty of men who like fat women
>>30215639>boohoo men and women aren't 100% equally desirable.Do you want your mom to suck your dick to sleep, faggot? Being fat is a choice. Are you really going to whine that you can't stuff your fat retard mouth with goyslop 24/7? OP was clearly implying that women only want muh Chad like all the other retarded blackpill Sandeeps on this site think.
>>30215638I know there's lots of trolls here but there's no way for me to prove it without outing myself or doxxing him, you just gotta take my word for it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯And no, he's got blond hair and adorable blue eyes. Bald would be an dealbreaker, unless he could confidently pull off the buzz cut.
>>30215665>you just gotta take my word for itYeah I'm not gonna do that. You're clearly embellishing or just straight up lying. Or your idea of "bug eyes" or a bad jawline is just "anything not model-tier".
>>30215651You can say whatever the fuck you want, but by the end of the day, I'm right.
>>30215690Well sorry you feel that way, though I completely understand. Hope you can start feeling more comfortable in your skin and not be scared to be yourself in front of women. It all comes down to authenticity in a way.
>>30215714> It all comes down to authenticity in a way.I'm sure it seems that way when you're a woman who has never once had to try in her life.
>>30215723I was talking from my own perspective when perceiving a potential (male) love interest. I know not all women will think this way, but many will relate.>You're a woman so you never had to try in your lifeYou know absolutely nothing about me and what I've been through. Stop diminishing other's struggles to elevate yours and grow the fuck up.
>>30215690The one here lying is you. You're lying about not getting girls. Every man can get girls if he wants to. When you say you can't, you are lying.
>>30215753>You know absolutely nothing about me and what I've been throughIf you're female, you have never struggled with dating, hence your advice on the subject is not only useless, but likely even detrimental.
>>302158071. Females struggle with dating all the time.2. It says a lot about you when you say "you never had to struggle, you never had to try in your life" and only think of dating. There are thousands of things are more important than dating that people are struggling with every day, much more than you ever have.It's pretty clear you have had such an easy life, you have never had to try. You have never had a job, you are only living as a leech from your parents. You have never known struggle. The rest of us have had it far worse than you can imagine. You miserable piece of shit.
>>30215850> Females struggle with dating all the time.>>>/x/
>>30215850>Females struggle with dating all the time.Not true. Make a dating app account with the ugliest woman you can find and see what I mean.>It says a lot about you when you say "you never had to struggle, you never had to try in your life" and only think of datingWell I was referring only to dating in the first place so that's more on you for not being able to read between the lines.>You have never had a jobI probably make way more than you do
>>30215807Say that again to my 27 y.o. virgin face :) The majority of men lack the empathy to realise there are also women that struggle dating and finding a partner too, and for some reason get all mad when someone suggests that. Us struggling doesn't invalidate your struggles, what about it makes men so damn mad about it? You guys DO realise that all those pretty women you see on insta or twitch or in your town or wtvr account for a small, SMAAALLL fraction of women, right?I feel the need to make it clear that I'm not trying to make a Who-has-it-worse Olympics here. I know the majority of men are struggling hard in the dating scene with today's societal norms imposing the "women that needs no man, men ain't shit" thing and so on. You may not realise it, but that sort of empowerment is also hurting women and it frustrates me that those men and women are either a fool or too stubborn to understand how that's bad for BOTH sides.Men have their battles and women have theirs. They're just not exactly the same, and if we don't attempt to understand eachother, we'll just be tearing eachother apart and propagating the hate and war of the genders.
>>30215807>>30215850This was another anon randomly replying to you, anon. But I have to agree.I've never seen a man scared to go on a date because suddenly that date looks like they could drug and rape you, or even attack you because in the end you rejected him.
>>30215945>but that sort of empowerment is also hurting womenNTA, but I wanted to say this is extremely poignant. The modern neoliberal """empowerment""" meme thats selling being an isolated single wageslave as empowering to women is so deeply damaging to society as a whole. I have seen this myself with women in my own life, and I of course struggle with dating badly as a man too. We're both getting kind of fucked
>>30215982100% agree. We're also both losing with the media's "sexual empowerment" movements going on. It's encouraging women to be sexually free and sleep around, but I can guarantee you that does not make them happy. As women, we're getting the short end of the stick. Men tend to be much more attracted to the idea of sleeping around (and I wonder if that inflates their idea that the """"majority of women""" love one night stands like them) and so, those that have the option of one-night stands will never feel motivated to settle for a single partner because of easy, free sex out there. The neoliberal movement is tearing man and women apart.
>>30215945>Say that again to my 27 y.o. virgin face :)If you're female, you have never struggled with dating. You could get sex in a matter of hours if you ever wanted to.>The majority of men lack the empathy to realise there are also women that struggle dating and finding a partner tooBecause they don't.>I'm not trying to make a Who-has-it-worse Olympics hereI agree because it isn't. On one side a large percentage of men objectively have real issues in this department, and on the other side you have women, who don't. There's clearly no contest to be had. I'm not trying to start a "war of the genders" - I am just being honest about our current reality.>>30215973>I've never seen a man scared to go on a date because suddenly that date looks like they could drug and rape you, or even attack you because in the end you rejected him.Delusion. This is not realistically going to happen to you unless you're literally seeking it out (some women do seek out men who behave like this).
>>30208488Go outside and look around at more than just your confirmation bias will tell you to look at.
>>30216041>Can't tell if swoooosh or absolute copium
>>30216027>The neoliberal movement is tearing man and women apart.Completely agree, and you can even see it in data too where both chronically single men and women are increasing. Sad shit really, social creatures like us arent supposed to have this happen.>Men tend to be much more attracted to the idea of sleeping aroundMaybe, maybe not. I did do a little sleeping around when I was 18-19 but I also found it terribly unfulfilling. Now I only want an actual legitimate life-partner, but it seems more difficult than ever. Ill keep trying though
>>30215973Men get nervous and social anxiety too and guess what happens to them? The females find them creepy and get the "ick" or will openly mock them. You can't complain about the violent men when those are the ones you females actively CHOOSE to date.
>>30216061> I did do a little sleeping around when I was 18-19 but I also found it terribly unfulfilling.Fucking kek if not bait.
>>30216066>>30216092Who hurt you anon? Do you wanna vent a little?
>>30216092Nah its true I did, idk why that would be bait
>>30216251It's just so hilariously telling that the average female "struggling" with dating frequently has sex with random men and now wants to "settle down", meanwhile your average dude struggling with dating hasn't received so much as a compliment from the opposite sex their entire life. This is why I was saying the "this sucks so much for both sexes :(" shit is retarded garbage. Women cannot possibly be lonely.
>>30216268Im a guy dude
>>30216268Why do incels always seem to think that having sex with randoms makes you not lonely?
>>30216318Because generally people willing to have sex with you means they'd also be down to date you. Basically it means you're actually desired. There's clearly a huge difference between having zero options and "wahhh... my options aren't good enough". This is the way in which women are "lonely", and actually lonely men are so unwanted they regularly go months or even years without so much as talking to a woman that isn't forced to interact with him.
>>30208602>I have a good face
>>30208488Literally just stop caring what women think
>>30216343>Because generally people willing to have sex with you means they'd also be down to date youlol>There's clearly a huge difference between having zero options and "wahhh... my options aren't good enough". This is the way in which women are "lonely"So in other words, yeah women can be lonely then, but you'd rather be a sourgrapes fag and try to redefine and gatekeep the word.If you losers are going months or years without talking to a woman, don't pretend that's all the fault of women/the world in general and none of it yours.
>>30216413>Bro, you're gatekeeping loneliness to actually mean something. You should let women trivialize your issues by pretending to have it just as bad despite regularly partying, dating, and having sex.I don't even know what to say. If you think having too many options that you arbitrarily deem to be of "too low quality" is an actual problem, you are a certified retard. Lonely men literally kill themselves and people like you trivialize that for some dumb charade of "men and women are the same!"
>>30216438No one is stopping you from "partying, dating, and having sex" but you.
>>30216453The funny part is that even if this were true, it still wouldn't defeat my point at all. If I were doing that, I obviously just wouldn't be lonely, like women.
>>30216463Actually retard, you could be doing that and still be lonely. You don't seem to get what lonely really means.
>>30216478Your definition of lonely serves no purpose. You're referring to temporary feelings ("ughh... none of my friends want to go clubbing tonight"), and I'm referring to long-term lifestyle (something actually important that people kill themselves over).
>>30216483>You're referring to temporary feelings ("ughh... none of my friends want to go clubbing tonight"), and I'm referring to long-term lifestyleIt's actually literally the other way around, and you're too stupid and not self-aware enough to see it.
>>30216491>le... you wouldn't get itI get that it's funny to just say the opposite of reality, but you could've at least tried to be coherent.
>>30216497Fine, I'll give the answer away because you're just THAT stupid.I am talking about how someone feels inside long-term and how they can feel unfulfilled and all alone even when surrounded by people.YOU are talking with the typical incel outside-looking-in surface level understanding of things with>hurr durr I went to a party and got my dick wet, therefore me no lonely anymore
>>30216506Ok so delusion vs. actual problem. Glad we're in agreement here.
>>30216514Being horny and bored isn't actually a major problem. And if it was, it's a problem you can easily solve as I already told you before.
>>30216528>Be mistreated and ignored by women for your entire life for reasons outside of your control"You're just le horny and bored! You deserve it!">Get constant attention, praise, and companionship without lifting a finger and only wish is to have even more from "higher quality people""Omg... I feel so sorry for her... she's truly suffering more than we could possibly imagine ;("Normies really aren't human, are they?
>>30216584>reasons outside of your controlprove it
>>30216354>>30215541The big thing I've been told time and time again that women like about me is that I make them laugh and forget about their troubles, if not helping them solve their problems outright; I take advantage of going through a rough start to my own life and use that experience to help others overcome challenges in there. Not to say I'm ugly, pretty easy on the eyes despite crooked teeth but it's definitely not my main draw.
>>30208488This same thing happens the other way, though. Not 100% - I'd rather be with an interesting girl than an uninteresting one - but looks come first. I've dated girls who were boring and had nothing meaningful to say. Eventually those relationships ended because I wound up just using them for sex. I recently matched with a girl on Tinder, and she wound up being a really interesting person - talented writer, artist, and singer. I was excited, and she looked really cute. Then she admitted to me that she felt like she was catfishing because all her pics were years old, and she sent me recent ones. Now she's honestly ugly. The night she sent the recent pics I was drunk and in a good mood, so I told her it didn't matter, but now I'm not motivated to keep going with her, because cool as she is, I'm not attracted.What I don't get is, why are you mad at women for caring about looks when looks matter to you, too? It's hypocritical. Most science says looks actually matter more to guys.
>>30215584>>30215639>>30216049Go outside. Look at your own parents, aunts, and uncles. Go to an anime or comic book convention. Literally stop basing your judgements of pictures taken and posted on the internet. >>30216912This is likely correct. It will be how he treats you as a person that matters the most. I've had a muscle-guy gym mcgee chasing me for months now and while I can easily admit that he's handsome, I'm not at all interested in him because he never fucking listens to a word I say, thus rendering him useless to me. No emotional connection is possible. He's a nice guy and looks fantastic, but what does that matter if he's shit at making me feel heard? I cant feel at home with someone like that. I'd take a chubby, kind, thoughtful guy over some pretty self absorbed neanderthal in a heartbeat. Not morbidly obese though, I dont have time to scrub inbetween someones fat rolls for them. Chub is cute. Morbid is not.
>>30209112>women's attraction protocols run like 20 deep, looks might not even be in the top 10.Physical looks (out of which height is the single most important trait) are the most important single aspect when it comes to estimating the attractiveness of a man. However, even though looks are the single most important aspect, they don't predict the majority of the variance but 'only' about 40%, i.e. the largest part is made up of other aspects, such as level of education, income, fame, etc.
>>30216453>No one is stopping you from "partying, dating, and having sex" but you.Pro-tip: it takes two people date and have sex. It does not just take a man going out there, it also depends on a women reciprocating.What the anon is trying to explain to you - which you seem unable to understand - is that loneliness in men has a different quality than for women, since for a man it is perfectly possible that there is nobody out there who sees you as a potential partner. For women, that is very unlikely to happen.