Are hot women generally mean at bars? I tried talking to this chick and she was judgy about everything I did. Saying I was nervous, saying I didn't get out much, asked my favorite movies and I named three movies I remembered from my childhood and she gave a me a pitiful look. I felt like in a way she liked me and was trying to help me but I feel a bit scared to have another encounter like that. Am I just a pussy? Is it normal for hot people do be a bit mean? I talked to a woman that I wasn't attracted to at all and she was really mellow. I feel like there's a sweet spot of around 6/10 where they aren't throwing shit tests left and right but they can still get you off
They are mean when they're bothered by someone who's boring and a nervous rambling messWould you want to talk to a boring nervous mess?
>>29017744Should have said she's ugly, flat chested, frigid, bitch etc... Fight mean with mean. Or better yet you should have walked away with an insult and never re engaged
no. its not mean or cruel to not engage with someone you don't know wasting your time. girls in bars aren't like school or work where there's an expectation they'll be collegial even if you're draining. you actually have to contribute and bring more then 0 to the table to get women chatting in social spacesyou know how irritated you get when a bum comes up telling you a sob story to get money when they could just ask one time simply instead of giving a 5 minute story? for a reasonable attractive girl, that's you but for pussy instead of money
>>29017870Ah that's toughI'd probably be a lot more interesting if I had shit going on in my life >>29017885That's insane >>29017895It's hard to stomach that everything really is that transactional but when you look around at what the average person looks like it starts to make sense . I also took the whole "talk to women like they're people" too close to heart as you can just throw out vague interest and then they'll reel you in. Looks will only take you so far I guess.
IME the hotter a woman is the kinder and more tactful she turns guys down. The worst rejections come from girls who are not as attractive, I think they see it as an opportunity to boost their self esteem by destroying you.
>>29017885Permacel>>29017744Some people get off by putting others down. Bid them a good night and get away from them.
>>29017744Well anon women are mostly impressed by social prowess, so if you're a shut-in with poor social skills you're gonna look weird. Your best bet is to keep going and working through the discomfort until you gain some social skills.
>>29017744Hot women get hit on a dozen times a day so if you approach her the same as the other past dozen douchebags she's gonna treat you like a douchebag.Only saying cause I get why girls are meaner when they're hot. Having lost weight recently the number of random dudes coming on to me has rapidly increased and only by acting like a bitch does it stop anything from escalating or giving the guy the wrong impression. If a hot girl is simply nice and polite to a guy he assumes she's down to fuck. Sometimes being a turbo bitch is the nicer thing to do cause it lets him know to stop wasting his time.Tldr: she wasn't into you. Either be cooler/funnier or better looking or some combo of that.
>>29017744>asked my favorite movies and I named three movies I remembered from my childhood and she gave a me a pitiful look.She wanted you to be interesting and you weren't.
>>29018271>Bid them a good night and get away from them.Pussy
>>29017744It was a shit test and you failed, you should've responded with sharp wit that snaps back. >lists movies>she says not kino>"everyone's a critic it seems, surprised you could see the film with those lashes on" >she's shocked, probably gasp or OMG FR?>"yes, that's why when we go back to my place we shouldn't even bother with a movie"You gotta clap back against these bitches the only way you legally can, with quick retorts with a quick sting and sooth methodology. Sting to remember and sooth to make the last interaction feel good mane.
>>29017870Sure, if it was a woman because that's cute. I've taken someone spilling their spaghetti as a compliment. I mean, if they're hot.
>>29019149Nobody talks like this
>>29017744You know how you get annoyed when some nigger tries to sell you his mixtape or squeegie your car? That's what you're doing to women.If a woman is attractive (read: not fat), she almost certainly has guys she can hang out with, and fuck, and that she likes to hang out with more than some rando. Why would she fuck a rando from a bar? The answer is "undergoing some sort of turmoil" like a breakup.The only reason that cold approach was tolerated was because apps and social media didn't exist. I'm sure it's pure coincidence that the guys who say that "cold approach is totally the best way to get laid" are also making frequent trips to places like Ukraine, Mexico, and Thailand, where their modest bachelor salaries are 3-5x higher than the local median.