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I am only interested in having a housewife, but most girls these days (including mine) are career oriented. How can I get a housewife?
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>>29015087
you don't.
hire a cleaner.
cook your own damn food.
don't seek to depend on these bitches.
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>>29015087
>most girls these days (including mine) are career oriented.
Awesome.
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>>29015112
>don't seek to depend on these bitches.
Thats not why I want one. I just want a home environment thats warm and welcoming and I thought having a housewife would be a way to make this happen. Of course, we as a couple would have a lot more money if we both worked, but I am afraid it would be more like having a roommate than a wife
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>>29015223
I'm a very career oriented female. I'm working hard in college to get a degree in tech so I can find a good job and make a good living for myself.

I just have never understood the thought process on 4chan where people like you harp on about how women should just be housewives because that's so easy and nice. As if women don't want their own income and their own careers and their own success.

Why don't you live at home on mommy's couch on daddy's salary? You'd have a free roof over your head, free meals, free family, free love. Yet you choose to work for an employer who hates you. Curious!

Ah, you want financial freedom? Your own life and decisions? Great, all the power to you. And good sir, what makes me any different from you?
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>>29015276
also to add on (and more to clarify for OP), I don't have anything against women that want to be housewives. I know plenty of women happy to be SAHMs, its perfectly fine. I just could never see myself happy doing this. I want my own life and I don't want to be financially dependent on my partner.
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>>29015276
>should
This is the word I take issue with as it completely changes the meaning of what I said. I said in the OP I wanted a housewife, not that women SHOULD be housewives. My gf or any woman in the world has the right to want a career if that makes them happy, but there are women out there who would be happy being a housewife. Its a choice either way.
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>>29015290
see clarification above.

I was moreso responding to the meme implying women are dumb for choosing a career over being a housewife, as if women don't have wildly varying life interests. It's not necessarily an empowerment thing (although women havent had this sort of financial freedom like, ever in history), we just want the same choices men get. Happy to hear you support your gf tho
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>>29015290
oh yeah also church girls seem quite keen on starting a family and staying at home. go join a church or something. you're not gonna find a housewife on tinder because they're progressive enough to be on a casual sex app in the first place
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>>29015087
when you're too stupid to google "poorest regions on earth", it's unlikely you'll ever marry anyone in the first place.
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Women are endlessly delusional and manipulative, life would be more harmonious if they stuck to the kitchen subhanallah
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>>29015323
Men on 4chan are like normie women, just complaining all day.
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Why do you want a housewife? Can you even afford to feed and raise a family?
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>>29015276
>As if women don't want their own income and their own careers and their own success.

I’m 32 and this comes from my personal experiences so take it with a grain of salt. But I found a lot of women who decided to focus on their careers did so not because they genuinely wanted to but because they were encouraged to as a way of finding fulfillment and meaning, that it is extremely trendy empowering and important, and among other insinuations that being a housewife is outmoded untrendy useless and barbaric.

Then they get a career, don’t have as much time and energy to pursue socializing to pursue romance to pursue other interests and goals. I’ve never met a single woman who when it came balls to bones described being career oriented as fulfilling and giving them happiness. They dislike competing with men, they dislike the amount of energy they need to invest in a career, and of the women I’ve spoken with all of them regret not pursuing a family after a certain age. I’m sure women who feel genuinely fulfilled in excel at their career exists but I’ve never met them.

I have met a ton of men and women both who feel extremely stupid for not having kids getting married settling down and leading a traditional life sooner, and always thought that they were never going to grow up and just have a nonstop life of partying and hanging out and doing fun stuff and having children and that responsibility was just the worst. Men and women are different and find fulfillment and meaning in different things. I’m sure there are exceptions to the rules but they are just that, exceptions.

I’m not opposed to women in the workforce, but I do think that young women in their late teens and early 20s are very susceptible to what is essentially ideological propaganda that they have to have perfect parity with men and if they have a high powered job that means they are total equals. But of course at the expense of everything else.
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>>29015424
Chud detected. Women are not baby making factories. We have brown people for that.
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>>29015302
>go join a church or something
Ive considered it for community reasons but it would be a LARP since Im not even religious

>>29015361
>Why do you want a housewife?
Because I want a warm, cozy, loving home environment

>Can you even afford to feed and raise a family?
Not right now, but I am working to get there
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>>29015557
>Not right now
Fix that before even thinking about getting a housewife.
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>>29015581
I did say I was working on it, but it takes time to develop a career



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