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do people actually find gay people disgusting? sometimes when I read some stuff on the internet it scares me. I just want to hug and watch anime with a guy... I dont know why people hate me so much for that. my mom cried when she found out that about me. I dont know at this point. its hard to not be self conscious about it. its even hard to no think about killing myself and try for a better life next life. this sucks

t. zoomer fag
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At least you aren't trans
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>>29008537
it's not that fags are gross it's more like modern gay culture is obnoxious, oversexualized, and stupid. Just don't make being gay your whole personality and you'll be fine
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>>29008537
No bro I don't hate you, in fact sexually i had some 3soms with bi couples i just wouldn't start a romantic stuff with a guy or kiss him, that would disgust me., BUT: being gay means literally being in denial of your natural self.
Sexuality and romance have order in nature, and the moment you deny yourself to follow this natural order is the moment you embrace the disorder so basically being gay is a disorder by definition.
Nobody hates you except maybe a few loud rednecks here and there but they know you live in denial.
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>>29008537

Specialised norms, morality blah blah. They don't find gays disgusting.

They're being made to admit your existence in public life, with no script in hand to gauge their beliefs and responses on. They start out by having no real life interaction with gay people and by the time they get to meet one they have a ready script in their hands.

I think it's more of not wanting gays around them or their children than any real disgust. And perhaps a bit of fear.

As a straight, who has never met a gay or a trans person in my entire life in this small town, have no ill will towards them. I don't think of gays as "others", however!— I do harbour a bit of fear as to whether you'll force yourself on me if we're alone for a moment or taking a piss or if we become friends. There's no way a woman could do that (and won't do either) but it's another man, and that's a bit threatening in that one specific sense.

Maybe once I've been alone with you etc I won't "fear" it much. It's not even fear, by the way, simply not wanting to deal with the possibility of sodomy.

I'm not sure if I helped.
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Slit yourself faggot ass fucker
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straights find gays disgusting because straights have disgusting asses. most straight boys don't scrub their asshole. every girl has a story about a bean of poop coming out on some anal beads. they honestly cannot imagine the dedication to a good fiber diet and extensive enemas and bidets gay bottoms are expected to have out of common courtesy, and how little shit actually does come out
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>>29008537
To me, the idea of sucking dick or fucking assholes to be pretty repulsive, but being gay is pretty whatever.

Most people don't care unless you make "gay" your personality and lifestyle, but the same can be said about most things to do with sex.

Your mom cried because she wanted grandchildren.
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>>29008661
My ass is fucking pristine, thank you, but that doesn't change that fact that it's where shit comes from.
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>>29008537
Unfortunately the public image of gays is of flaming queens. In fact 90% of gay men look and act just like everyone else, keep their private lives private, and differ only in who they hug and watch anime with.
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>he fell for the jewish psyop
KEK
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>>29008661
It's sad when you hear about how straight people associate poop with gay sex. I put on a lot of effort in to keeping myself clean. I will simply refuse to do anal if my guy didn't let me know at least a day or two beforehand so I can keep myself clean. The last thing anyone wants to deal with is having poop on your guy's dick. Just a bottom with his two cents I guess
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>>29009089
Bro we're talking about literal assholes here. There is no case where assholes are not going to be associated with shit.
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>>29008537
>do people actually find gay people disgusting?
Only if you do gay shit in public. But that goes for hets too, don't do sexual shit in public.
Otherwise, who gives a shit, have all romantic dates you want, hold hands and ride on the panoramic wheel, who cares.
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>>29008537
Yes I will find you disgusting. But, I won't say it to your face and let you live in peace.
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>>29008537
I'm a woman. No, I don't find you disgusting at all. I sometimes watch gay porn too btw.
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yes the thought of two men kissing or having sex is disgusting and makes me shudder a little, however i don't really get why i would hate somebody because of it
i would be a little miffed if my son was gay but if he was after romance and not some hookup chasing whore then i would simply get over it
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>>29008556
>modern gay culture
As opposed to what gay culture? The clandestine sex meetups from yesteryear?
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I'd argue you're not allowed to not like gay people anymore. Almost everything you read on the Internet is blown out of proportion by easily manipulated emotional retards on Twitter repeating the opinions they've heard without a single thought because that's what they're supposed to do to fit in.
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>>29008537
The other day I got into some argument with some guy in the parking lot, he yelled at my brother so I yelled at him back and called him a faggot. Got a glare from some fat Karen, literally the stereotype too with the 2008 highlights and bob haircut. People want to look like such good people more than actually being kind or decent. Like me yelling faggot at a guy, I’m considered a “horrible” person than the guy who was bullying my brother in front of me. Sheesh.

Anyways you should find out what caused you being gay in the first place. Like it’s not coincidence that gay people ALSO happen to be severely mentally ill (a lot of them are NPD and BPD), hyper sexual, and overall display signs of childhood sex abuse. If you *really* come at me with the statistics and (((studies))) about it, it’s already been long confirmed that homosexuality is not induced naturally. There is no gay gene, it’s purely environmental. So if you weren’t sexually abused as a child, you either 1) grew up with a lack of a strong parental figure (dad), like he wasn’t there physically or emotionally for you, so that made you feel “lost”, and without a foundation, or any sense of masculine identity, so you went dabbled in a predominately “queer” friend group. you are a zoomer, so I’m aware that identifying as gay or lesbian or non-binary is the way to be if you want to fit in or have friends— and because of your lack of stable identity due to the gap that your father created, you decided to want to fit in with them so you identified as a queer or whatever.

Or more commonly amongst boys, 2) developed a pornography addicted due to your love for anime, pipeline for hentai, to porn. Or just straight up cranked it to hentai nonstop until you had a taste for femboys and here we are. However this applies more to trannies than gays.
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>>29010017
> it’s already been long confirmed that homosexuality is not induced naturally
by who? a blog with 3 readers written by some neckbeard living in his mom's basement? lmao
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>>29008556
This
>>29008537
I find you mildly gross but dont care that much. The only people who care are mentally ill extremists from either side. Their opinions have negative value, as in you should have your gayness reinforced due to their negativity
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dont care but as somebody who is more or less normative in every way i find that people tend to prejudge me and assume im going to judge them and that pisses me off so im prejudging you back for prejudging me

yeah how do you like that punk teach you to tell me about all the weird sex shit youre into unprompted
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>>29010017
>it’s already been long confirmed that homosexuality is not induced naturally
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>>29010017
>There is no gay gene, it’s purely environmental.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male_sexual_orientation
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>>29010121
>>29010618
>>29010623
I like how the fags in the replies don’t refute all of the other points that was said here >>29010017 like I have never not known a gay person irl that wasn’t actually a victim of rape or sexual abuse of some sort
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>>29010642
>I have never not known a gay person irl that wasn’t actually a victim of rape or sexual abuse of some sort
I can come visit you if you want.
Anyway to answer that question specifically, most adults can tell if a kid is gay or not, especially pedophiles who often take advantage of the kid's confusion and naivety. It's a known fact, is it not?
Also, why do you know so many rape/sexual abuse victims?
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>>29010642
I like how you didn't refute the fraternal birth order effect and think that personal anecdotes prove anything
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>>29008537
you've got nothing to be ashamed of, you're not disgusting.
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>>29010669
Like I’m going to look at a bunch of (((peer reviewed))) (((studies))). The whole country is basically late stage Weimar. There is a clear agenda to normalize degeneracy in our society, normalizing homosexuality was just the beginning of the end.
>>29010664
What the fuck are you talking about. Are you actually claiming right now that pedophiles are going to specifically target kids that “act gay” because they are “easier targets”? holy LMAO. Are you sure that you’re actually gay? Not just retarded?
>Also, why do you know so many rape/sexual abuse victims?
I’ve known 2 gay people in school, I wasn’t super close to the other one but I heard from my girlfriend that he revealed he was molested as a child. The other one was a friend of my friend but we became close throughout the year and she revealed to me she was raped as a child as well. My girlfriend and sister have had gay friends throughout their lives, all of them confided in how they were sexually abused as kids. You happy now creep?
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>>29010715
>The whole country is basically late stage Weimar.
The correlation was first found in the 90's.
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>>29008537
I personally believe that sex is an inherently gross and repulsive action (unsanitary, violates bodily boundaries, contains gross/slimy fluids) but that people find it appealing despite this because of the strong arousal that it brings to our brains for obvious reasons. Gay sex on the other hand from the perspective of a straight person is just as inherently repulsive as normal sex but with little to no arousal, causing us to be instinctively repulsed by it. Many people then translate this repulsion towards the thought of gay sex to gay people themselves, saying their lifestyle is wrong as a result.

I’m fully accepting of gay people and believe anyone should be able to be with any partner they want, but instinctively find the idea of gay sex itself to be very repulsive, and have a sneaking suspicion many people are in a similar boat to me.
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>>29010715
>Are you actually claiming right now that pedophiles are going to specifically target kids that “act gay” because they are “easier targets”?
Not necessarily. Pedophiles target het kids too. You know, the ones that turn out heterosexual? And yes, gay kids are sadly an easier target. I don't know why you're refuting that considering the fact that most abusers actually live in with their victims or have close relationships with them (ie: uncles, cousins, family friends) and are able to clock them out.
>Are you sure that you’re actually gay? Not just retarded?
What's the need for personal attacks? Have you run out of arguments already?
>You happy now creep?
Not sure why you think I'm a creep. Care to explain why?
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>>29010743
No that was not a baseless insult. You legit are a fucking creep over hyperfixating over the details of what “pedophiles” look for in a child. Tell me that’s not projection you fucking weirdo.
Were you fucking molested as a kid anon? Tell the truth.
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>>29010758
Now you're just full on using personal attacks to prove a point. I think I won this one.
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>>29010715
>I’ve known 2 gay people
so you only know 2 gay people in your entire life and think that therefore all gay people were abused? that’s like if i met 2 reddit mods and from then on assumed all white people were automatically trannies
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>>29010771
not him but why are you so focused on feeling “personally attacked” god gay people are so insufferable. The anime icon checks out too.
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>>29010771
Did you just admit that I was right about you being a creep that was actually molested as a kid. It’s only a personal attack if what I said was true and hit too close to home. You just revealed yourself, creep.
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>>29010785
>why are you so focused on feeling “personally attacked”
I'm not. I just pointed that out. He didn't have an argument to post so he just turned to insults. Just see the other post he made which is not even worth my (You).
>The anime icon checks out too.
How dare I have interests right?
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>>29010804
you are so weak and fragile. you kept mentioning getting “personally attacked” twice already like nigger where do you think we are? This isn’t twitter.
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>>29010828
>you kept mentioning getting “personally attacked”
Never once did I mention saying that I felt "personally attacked". I just said that he was using personal insults to prove a point, which isn't how you do it by the way. It's not my fault that he can't construct an argument and you being too retarded to not be able to cognitively think lmao
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>>29010743
>What's the need for personal attacks?
>>29010771
>Now you're just full on using personal attacks
It’s not a “personal” insult and not a “personal” attack if you didn’t take it personally. You’d just say insults then, but you said kept putting “personal” in it, most likely because you subconsciously did feel attacked on a personal level, cuz then why else would you say it that way.
>>29010865
>you being too retarded to not be able to cognitively think

Lmao wtf is “cognitively thinking”? Just say think, moron
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>>29010892
>most likely because you subconsciously did feel attacked on a personal level, cuz then why else would you say it that way.
Anon, none of my personal background mattered in that argument. It didn't matter if I am a creep, a pedo or was sexually abused. There was no need to bring it up, thus proving that he doesn't have any arguments to back up his case. If he did, he would have made his point without any of it. Did I insult him once or brought up his background? Nope. The only thing I asked him is how he came to know so many rape victims, which I was genuinely curious about. For some reason you're so hellbent on convincing yourself that I felt offended then.

>Lmao wtf is “cognitively thinking”?
Something which you obviously lack. Have you ever used Google before? Let me spoonfeed you.
>Cognitive thinking is the mental process that humans use to think, read, learn, remember, reason, pay attention, and, ultimately, comprehend information and turn it into knowledge.
First result btw.
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>>29010892
>It’s not a “personal” insult and not a “personal” attack if you didn’t take it personally.
Holy shit this may be a dumber take than the "fun is a buzzword" bit from /v/ like a decade ago, holy fucking shit anon, I don't think the homo you're talking to can possibly hope to measure up to the level of faggotry you're rocking out with here
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>>29010925
So I was right? You were actually sexually abused after all. Checks out.
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>>29010936
Quote me where I said that anon. I'll wait.
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>>29010949
1) Avoiding my question three times about it.
2) in conjunction of this >>29010925
>It didn't matter if I am a creep, a pedo or was sexually abused.
3) Being “genuinely curious” about how I “knew” so “many rape victims”
4) finally, oh, did I forget to mention, avoiding my question three times about it and resorted to whining about feeling personally attacked?
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>>29010962
Uhhh.. Where's the part where I went "I was abused as a child"? I'm looking for a quote here.
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>>29010990
You know, this wouldn’t be such a big fucking deal if you had just straight up been honest about it from 20 posts ago. Are you saying that you were never abused as a child? Ever?
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>>29010997
>this wouldn’t be such a big fucking deal if you had just straight up been honest about it from 20 posts ago. Are you saying that you were never abused as a child? Ever?
>>29010664
>I have never not known a gay person irl that wasn’t actually a victim of rape or sexual abuse of some sort
>I can come visit you if you want
What did you thought I meant by that?
Anyway, I wasn't sexually abused as a child.
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>>29011016
Good, now here’s the actual challenge: try to not molest a kid despite your obvious tendencies to want to look for “gay kids” because according to you, they’re “easy targets.” Fucking creep.
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>>29008537
>spread monkey pox, aids, syphilis
>help normalize troonery
wHy dO peoPLe HaTE uS?
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>>29011046
All this because you lost an argument. Anyway, sure. That's an easy challenge since I'm not a pedo.
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>>29008537
I have no issues with gay people, trans people, non-binary people, etc; but I have an issue with is "LGBT Culture" and the negative effects it's having in our society is a whole. Well I understand the need to normalize these things to a general populace, they're starting way too young and going way too hard, it's going to result in massive backlash and ultimately a regression in social graces and acceptance.

We shouldn't be making kids 12 and under think about their sex lives, who they want to fuck and how they want to do it. We shouldn't be encouraging little boys and girls to dress up as over sexualized versions of their sex or other sexes for obvious reasons, and we shouldn't associate parents not wanting their kids getting involved with this kind of thing with the alt-right, brainwashing these children into thinking that they are one political way or another based off of what their parents think is best for them. I take a firm stance that a lot of the reason people hate the LGBT community is because of the binary political systems that are currently prevalent in our governing bodies.

I will gladly sit down and have a beer with my buddy and his boyfriend, I have multiple trans/non-binary friends, but I will not celebrate this overtly sexual society that's being pushed on us by the media under the guise of acceptance.

Just be normal, if you fuck dudes, you fuck dudes. I don't care. If we're not talking about our sex lives, don't bring it up. Unless we have established the type of relationships or we can openly talk about our sexual conquests then I don't want to hear about them, I'd say that's reasonable and the stance most rational people take.
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>>29008537
Tbh… I used to be liberal up until I went to college. Usually people turn completely commie once they go to uni but I can say that after my time there I was fully radicalized (uni was in a major city, so lots of gays, trans). The lot of you really are sickening. I think the most disgusting ones are the chronically online ones. I’d rather befriend some theatre gay then spend two minutes in a room with an “anime discord” gay. It’s not uncommon that they get fucking worms, parasites in their asses… they treat like its “just” a cold sore. Like wtf man. How can you live this way and think it’s okay?
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>>29011125
Also the gay people I was friends with got all hooked on drugs, even hard drugs and tried to get me into them. Like it’s just party, fucking, crying, every day, every week. The lifestyle is sick. LGBT culture is sick and preys on the weak.
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>>29008537
Go to /pol/ and you'll find it infested with fringe right wing wackos who fap to catboys whilst hating gays. People don't hate male-male sexuality, what they hate is LGBT culture and the way gay activists try to represent/speak for them in ways they don't like. I've known people who are religious conservatives but openly have sex with males. What irks them is how anti-religious LGBT types are and how they impose that dislike of religion on them. I'm willing to bet 90% of the ''homosexuals'' you'll find online are actually either elderly male pedophiles or straight males who don't see twinks as ''real men.''
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No, I like to follow gay guys fucking each other on twitter
t. shameless fujo
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>>29008661
>>29009089
>says straights don't care about their assholes
>community has the highest rate of men getting their rectum destroyed to the point that they're wearing diapers in their 30's
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>>29011645
>1900
That's fucking stupid but yeah point taken about Greeks for the millionth time.
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>>29008537
i find you cute :3
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>>29011645
That pictures isn't in good faith, or even accurate. Are you American? Do you remember the governments response to the AIDS epidemic? Conversion therapy? Homosexuality wasn't even accepted in the 1900s.
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>>29008537
I personally think something is clearly wrong with you and that you probably are mentally-ill,but besides that, I have no hate for you, we could even be friend, as long as you don't make being gay your personality or wave that fucking flag in my face while forcing beliefs down my throat.

See, it's not the individual that people hate, it's the culture.
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>>29011430
>community has the highest rate of men getting their rectum destroyed to the point that they're wearing diapers in their 30's

>Source: dude trust me
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Bump
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>>29008537
Dicksuckers:
Based
Sad pieces of shit who keep whining about how excluded they feel, and who deliberately confuse this with dicksucking:
Kys
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>>29008537
As for you, I'm giving you 40% odds of being the type of psychotic idiot who feels sad for no reason and refuses to tell the difference between liking dick and being sad.
And 60% chance of you being sane, taking responsibility for your feels, and being honest when you want to know how homophobic.
Too close to tell.
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>>29008537
i dunno. i think fags are a bit fuckin weird but one of my best friends in highschool was a gay and we hung out all the time. i still keep in touch, he's doing well.
i don't think most people really give a shit about you being a fag. that's the thing. they don't give a shit. they don't want to hear about it.
which is somewhat hypocritical, because it's fine when boy and girl are getting married on tv show, but boy and boy is liberal agenda.
dunno boss. i wouldn't get too worked up about it. my gay friend mentioned once that he hated that he was gay and he wished he could change it. i think that sucks that he felt that way.
find people who aren't bothered. they're out there.
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>>29011668
Why?
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>>29015038
nta, but submissive tone of writing arouses dominant types



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