Ask the opposite gender anything Old thread >>28578619
women why are you so obsessed with me
>>28580900I loved this Jim Carrey movie, but it's really unrealistic. A female saying hello to a random guy she's alone with on the train? Lol.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hZdl2FFp0eA
>>28580900everyoneon a level from 0 to 10, how good is your mental health right now ?me:3 / 10
Men, would you like it if a girl bought or picked flowers for you? Or would it make you feel emasculated?
I don't know if there's even any real women on here, but why would an older woman sleep with a guy A LOT younger than her? If she was just a cougar wanting action, that's one thing. However, this woman was surprised and confused when the dude ghosted her the next day. She kept thinking she'd done something to upset him. Is it a lack of emotional maturity on her part? I mean, what else did she think was going to happen?
>>28580931Most men think flowers are stupid and won't appreciate it, they'll appreciate a home cooked meal much more
Does no contact actually work for getting an ex back if you both really did love each other at one point?
>>28580900Tell me all the pros and cons of dating a chubby girl. Are there any correlations between body type and personality? Some dudes have told me they tend to be lazier which can often lead to bitch your attitude and I think that's sort of the case for my mom as of right now. I know that's not the case for a lot of them though. If I ever date one I want to make sure she's a sweet girl I can hang out with and rest assured that I won't have to get into needless arguments over nothing (Jesus I hope my dad divorces her)
>>28580946End your life immediately. You don't deserve to get anyone if you are like this or asking stupid ass questions like this. You are not emotionally mature enough to date anyone as of right now
>>28580931Yes, most men are so starved for affection that literally anything would be good.
>>28580920Considering I just woke up, maybe 5/10.
>>28580931I'd appreciate the gesture, sure. Not traditionally a gift for a man, though. More acceptable if I was in the hospital or something.
>>285809206/10. I went for a morning run and I'm eating pancakes right now so I probably why it's higher than usual.
>>28580815Obviously, you're still a person. I was just pointing out that that kind of feminine energy just fills my heart like no other.
State genderThoughts on people using the "slut" as a term of endearment?
State gender.Why are some people so angry at the idea of billions dying due to politicide to eliminate enemies like capitalists or communists who rebel, incel uprising, or ethnic and identitarian cleansings like TND? There is absolutely nothing wrong with murdering people, in some cases it's even beneficial and more so en mass. So why are people so angry about it and against it? >>28580931I'd love it.
>>28580808Incel is a word with so much baggage you can't really decouple it from everything it implies besides "I haven't got laid even though I want to". SO nah.
>>28580966Oh, exercise routine, healthy. Good on ya, anon.
For men Why would you want to make out with a girl, be hard, and then finger her under her skirt, and then not want her to do anything to you in exchange except kissing you? Does it sound like he was suddenly turned off of me or something?
>>28580950ProsDesperate to please you and will fulfill your fetishesTits and assMost have bubbly personalities because they know they're fat and have to make up for itConsThey get out of breath if you go walking anywhere with hills and stairs and start complainingClingyVery insecure which gets annoying and you have to walk on eggshells around them with certain subjects and watch your words
>>28580978Some possibilities:- Love language is giving pleasure and doesn't care as much about receiving- Insecure about pp size/looks or just insecure about body naked- Not horny enough to have sex- Felt like you didn't want it so didn't want to push you into it
>>28580981What subjects do you have to avoid? I'm mostly asking what your experience was like. How could I reassure her that I like her for her and don't give a shit about anyone else? I think one method that might work is reiterating that I like HER body type the most (some dudes will lie about this but I actually do like bigger girls. Kind of ironic since I'm semi toned skelly)
>>28580933Older women don't have any time to waste so every ghosting is a massive L. We know we won't get far by playing hard to get so we try to please guys sexually as soon as possible it doesn't mean we are just looking for action,most of us want someone for a serious relationship. Most also already have kids so that's definitely a factor as well.
Possibly stupid question for the chubby/overweight girls. Have you tried losing weight? I've heard it's sometimes difficult for women or underlying heath problems from a few friends.
I love you.
>>28580931If she bought flowers for me? Meh.If she picked flowers for me? That's wife material.
>>28581003I like you.
>>28580933> I mean, what else did she think was going to happen?I guess she thought he was a good person. This has nothing to do with age.
>>28580978A lot of times, it doesn’t even occur to us that the woman wants to do things too.
Men, how can I tell whether you are interested in me?There was this guy at a gathering who tried to chat with me several times but I'm autistic and socially anxious so it didn't really gond well. Also he seemed to chat with everyone. The thing is I'm not really pretty or anything and he's kinda good looking and can't tell whether he was nice with me out of pity or actually interested
>>28581007I love you and like you. Lots.
>>28581019You can't. I haven't really been into a girl in a couple years but when I was I never did anything. Women have shown infinitely more interest in me than vice versa, I think you're just gonna have to assert yourself if you like someone
>>28581017This is why every man should be tied up and pleasured for his own good, so that he learns to receive as well as give. Men belong in handcuffs.
>>28581019> I'm not really pretty or anythingYou're gorgeous. He noticed you. Everyone does, but many are afraid to act on it and speak.
>>28581026Lmao what the fuck? Every man? Really? What if I'm celibate?
GenderWhat do you think about sex surrogates? Is this the solution to the incel problem? https://youtube.com/watch?v=U_ydbrmWMOw&si=EnSIkaIECMiOmarE&t=2342
>>28581019To be fair, if he was chatting with a bunch of people, he's probably just an extrovert. You're probably more attractive than you thing you are. Thinking something is done out of pity is not attractive.
>>28581036> What if I'm celibate?A night in handcuffs, in the hands of a sweet anonette, will solve that problem for you. Just surrender and accept what's coming: no more anxiety, no more mistrust, only love now.
>>28581046Maybe if I'm married and that's my wife, but for now I decline. People on here are so depraved, you need to stop watching porn or whatever lol
>>28581019Some people just like to chat, if he was trying to with everyone and he looks good I wouldn't get your hopes up. But if you really want him you're gonna have to give him better conversation to work with.
>>28580999But surely a 37 year old woman knows there's no long-term success with a 21 year old guy?
>>28581038Tbh yes, women will lose a massive amount of power with surrogacy and artificial wombs
>>28580920I'd say... 6/10? I'm doing okay, but feeling stagnant in my career.>>28580931I'd rather she didn't, but it's nothing to do with masculinity. I (a) don't have anything to do with flowers besides stick them in a vase until they die and then throw them out, and (b) would rather have living flowers than dead ones anyway, unless they're edible flowers like broccoli. (But also I don't actually want to take care of flowers so that's not a great gift either.)
>>28580992These make sense but we were drinking and he was clearly turned on and I offered to do something in return
>>285809204/10I was 9/10 a few weeks ago at the peak of my life in terms of pursuing goals/job/girlNow I am in the shit, money still didn't come in from work because of retardation and incompetence, and I'm alone in my room on a weekend.I've been through a lot worse so I'm relatively fineIt's just one of those times in life where if you had too much fun at some point you gotta experience a bit of sadness to balance it out.Tomorrow I'll feel better.
>>28581032Well I think he may tried to act but I couldn't "play my part" so the chatting always died fast but it felt good that he initiated talk with me several times, I only talked with my friend otherwise who invited me.>>285810242 weeks later we may meet each other again on an event similar to this. I hope he comes>>28581039Yeah he seems like an extrovert but was really nice with me and funny
>>28580968M. No strong feelings.>>28581019I'm pretty dang obvious I think. I will generally look at people I like more often than others, even when other people are talking, and find excuses to look at them and occasionally even talk to them. Or just hover if I'm too tired to think of anything to talk about.>>28581038M. I don't think it'll fix anything that regular prostitutes wouldn't. Sex surrogates are more for people with sexual issues....I guess if you're using them to practice date, maybe.
>>28580900Do you like talking about history, to both men and women?
>>28581077>2 weeks later we may meet each other again on an event similar to this. I hope he comesDo you like him? You're gonna have to make the first move if you do. You don't have to ask him out, just make an effort to talk to him, get somewhat physically close to him without invading his personal space, maybe give him your number, and that should get the message across. That's what the last girl who was probably into me did
>>28581065A sex surrogate is a therapist who has sex with her client to help him overcome social issues with intimacy and sexuality
Anyone else experience any slight burning when they pee? I have had this for a little while now. I got tested for STIs and any UTI and I’m all clean so idk what could be causing it. Doc just told me to drink more water but I’m curious because it is really annoying
>>28581057I mean he wasn't really trying to chat with others but talked with people next to him. But I was sitting alone and come there just to talk so that's why I think he may like me
Women, would you let your husbands have friends, best friends that are women?
Women, is it pathetic of me to cum after 15 seconds dureing intercourse if I haven't seen my wife for a few days?I am 38 years old and still cum like I am 13.
Women, do you like zoomer prettyboy guys who aren't tall?
>>28581069How drunk were you? Maybe he was afraid of not getting it up, or that you were too drunk to really consent. It's not a big deal honestly.
>>28581099Are you actually autistic or just have crippling social anxiety?
>>28581026Noo haha please do not do that that would be horrible
>>285809205/10. I have some new prospects coming up, but I hate what I have to do and who I am.
Men, would you convert to islam if it guaranteed you a submissive qt wife?
>>28581114No, I don't even really care about a woman being submissive
>>28581104I mean it happens man, it’s not the end of the world and your wife might find it a little flattering But I’d also probably try to work on that somehow. However you do it you should make sure that your wife is also getting off in bed, even if you’re just using your hands / mouth / toysDon’t they make sex toys to help with your stamina as a guy? Maybe look into that On the bright side, the sex you’re having clearly feels way better than a lot of guys who are lasting longer. Like if it feels that good that you bust in 13 seconds, damn
>>28580946You should not want to get back together with your ex. That's a recipe for disaster. Absense does make the heart grow fonder, but you don't want to be fond of someone whom you have a poor history with. You need to let her go, mourn the relationship, and and find someone else. Otherwise, you're wasting your precious time and energy on someone that doesn't care about you. Even if you're the one who did the breaking up, I'm sure it was for a reason, and women respect your decisions, even if you don't mean them.Your words have power, don't say things you don't mean, and don't waste your time doing things you don't actually want to do. Twisting in the breeze always was a distraction.
WomenAre you submissive or dominant in bed?
>>28581114I'm still waiting to get my submissive qt wifeI'm starting to think it's not gonna happen
>>28581008You sure? It's not exactly rocket science that most young men just want to get their end away, especially with an older sexy lady.
>>28581114probably not, I'm not a believer but I respect religious people and it would be very dishonest on my part
>>28581119Well, it is more the rule than the exception. However sometimes it will take me so long to cum she gets bored of sex, but that it mostly when I am supertired at the end of the day.The sex is pretty vanilla penis in vagina without the condom.
>>28581111Checked. No handcuffs for you, since that would be horrible.
>>28581099>I was sitting aloneMaybe that's why
>>28581088>Do you like himWell yeah, but there's no way I could make the first move>>28581110Well I'm also weird (I was mumbling a song when he first came there and was too late when I realized it and sure he heard that) and slow with social signs
How does Tinder work? Long story short, I'm a trans woman- yes I pass. Yes I'm attractive, based on feedback. Unfortunately this opens up a whole can of worms where loads of men swipe right on me, who don't bother to read my fucking bio, then do a hissy fit when they realize I'm a trans person, even though it's emphasized TWICE in my profile that that is the case.It's like, seeing a delicious cake, and when it turns out it was made with dark chocolate instead of milk chocolate, suddenly you HATE that cake and not at all find it delicious and yummy anymore. Uh-huh. Yeah sure. Like bitch, who are you trying to fool?Or you have the "curious" ones whose first question is whether I have tits and how big they are? Usually I ask them in a friendly manner if they asked the same question of a cis girl, what their reaction would be? Answering their queries, or slapping them so hard they slide on the ground until their head hits the front door. Then I block them.Anyway, I always avoided dating sites for fear of being ridiculed, screencapped, paraded around. Eventually I tried out badoo, cuz it looked like a bootleg version of Tinder, therefore I might generate less attention and ridicule.It was shit. Fuckboys everywhere, people match but they don't write (what's even the point? ) I mean obviously I'm not gonna message anyone, I give them a chance to gracefully disappear without arguing, in case they mistakenly swiped right and didn't notice the T situation.I'm betting Tinder is the same as badoo, but some say it might be better, so eh, what the fuck, let's give it a shot, right? It couldn't get any worse. It honestly feels like I'm scraping the very bottom of the toilet bowl, expecting to find diamonds, then doing a surprised_pikachu.jpg face when all I find is shit.Any tips or tricks I should know about? I am looking for a serious long term relationship, with a loving man. Or if anyone knows an even better dating app i'm all ears.
>>28581140That's why what
>>28581141>Well yeah, but there's no way I could make the first moveWhy not? Just be subtle, girls have done that before and I've gotten the hint (or maybe I read too much into it).
>>28581103Maybe. If they're family friends whom are permentantly friendzoned, and they never hang out alone and never hang out alone, always around other people, me especially, that would be okay. But it's risky territory, so there would be no phone calls, no get-togethers, unless I'm there with him, and obviously, if people like hanging out with each other, it can very easily turn into a world of hurt and infidelity, which is why most couples don't bother with hanging out with real friends anymore.I would be suspicious of guy friends too.
>>28581149Lol, you're gonna get that ugly femanon laughed at by the Chad.
>>28581062They might think so but develop feelings anyway, maybe you got along well with her kids? A lot of younger guys are surprisingly good with kids, particularly boys.
>>28581121Submissive. How else can I let my man lead? If I lead, he'd feel emasculated, and the relationship would be messed up, unless he wanted to, then it's consentual and not so weird, but I wouldn't go out of my way to dominate him. It's unnatural for women to do that.
>>28581026Being pleasured is boring. I'd rather take my pleasure from a girl. Consensually, of course.
>>28581152Definitely not, if she's not too blunt he'll reject her softly, that's what I've done in the past, or he'll reciprocate
>>28581144You will just have to shop around and see what works, a lot of matchers will be just chasers fetishizing you so its rough. Have you considered opening an Instagram account where you explicitly state you are trans and working off of DMs there?
>>28580920women do you desire to have children? is there such a thing as maternal instinct?
>>28581106We were both pretty drunk, I just feel so embarrassed about it all
>>28581082Sometimes, but usually in the context of new ideas or using RL history in a tabletop game or things like that.
>>28580920M 30Like... an 8? I have some minor issues but I am generally very joyful, stable and clear-minded.
>>28581157This woman is childless. She got picked up by a young guy. Slept with him, then he ghosted her the next day.
>>28581114No, the whole 'pray 5 times a day' thing sounds like a pain in the ass
>>28581150I asked this because there this one married dude still read my shiteposts. Like, real shiteposts.
>>28581164It's a bit weird but you know, horny drunk people are a mess. Just talk to him, I seriously doubt he doesn't want to bang you, he probably was just drunk off his mind and didn't want the embarrassment of not being able to pop a boner.
Girl at the office told me I have big hands when we were making coffee... I do have above average hands I guess, havent measured them but going purely off of having handshakes, so I am getting that out of the way. My question is why would one even comment on that randomly? >she was trying to make small talkSeems kind of silly, what do I say? "Haha thanks, you too?" doesnt really get us anywhere.
I am late 20s, very good looking, fairly buff with well done arm / hand tattoos I have always been into alternative girls but the older I get I’m becoming more interested in basic white girl gym types. All of my friends / co workers tell me I could have almost any girl I want, and that I could definitely pull a gym girl. But idk how or what I’m doing wrong. I don’t ever talk to girls in the gym because I feel weird about it / creepy but I catch a lot of them checking me out when I’m pumped. Some women have also described me as being very intimidating. Idk. What do I need to do to land one of these women?
>>28581180In what way are you good looking? Are you white? How tall are you?>more interested in basic white girlSame
>>28581152I know (Although he seemed nicer than that, like when he realized I'm anxious he lowered his voice and acted different with me than the others)>>28581149Maybe will try to sit next to him or something, but honestly I was kinda rude in the end, because I haven't personally said bye to anyone but just said in general, and most people didn't hear it
>>28580946No>>28581105Yes>>28581121Dominant. And my current bf is a little overwhelmed with my sex drive. He has bruises on his knees. :P
>>28581180>Some women have also described me as being very intimidatingThey probably mean that you look angry when you're quite, it's probably just your normal face but that's how you come across
>>28581177Since this is online, he probably just likes shitposts. It's not that strange as long as he's not trying to flirt with you or spend time with you alone, or be too nice. If that guy tries that shit, remind him that he's married, leave him alone to really think about that, via ignoring him. If that doesn't work, block him. He'll get the picture, and if he's too dense to understand, his bad choices will catch up with him, as does everyone's bad choices.
>>28581181I am fairly white in the winter months but get really tan in the summer I am 5’10 I have a very profound jaw line / cheek bones and over all just a pretty / handsome face. Women / people in general have always told me this >>28581187I 100% have a naturally angry looking face. Can’t help it
Any advice on how to actually go through with this date? To nervous to go.
>>28581169>>childless in late 30sThen she's probably just very desperate
>>28581125Idk, that’s rarely true in my experience
>>28581195>I am fairly white in the winter months but get really tan in the summerI was asking if you're ethnically European going back lol>people in general have always told me thisI feel like I have that good a face but nobody tells me that. Does it mean I'm delusional? I'm also young, maybe zoomers just don't compliment people
>>28581104No, but you’d better stick around and help me cum too.
>>28581195>I 100% have a naturally angry looking faceTry to relax your eyebrows, I have to consciously think about it but it works for me.People used to think I'm angry
>>28581196What kind of advice do you think will help you other than bee urself and actively listen
>>28581162>Have you considered opening an Instagram account where you explicitly state you are trans and working off of DMs there?Don't you have to share personal stuff on Instagram? It sounds a bit narcissistic and shallow to me. Only reason I have a Facebook is so I can talk with a few friends, but I never share anything like things etc.Besides. Do you honestly believe a long term serious relationship could come out of a man, who snoops after girls on Instagram?Yikes.
>>28581179It’s just an innocuous comment, like “wow, you’re tall”Kind of awkward, but it lets you smile or joke in return
>>28581196Temporarily forbid yourself from being nervous.
>>28581178I don't even want to have sex with him but it just feels embarrassing like I owe him
>>28581188Totally. Surely will do that. I never seen this happen to me before, so I have no clue what to do or what it means. I just don't think its appropriate at first, because he have a wife and don't get to know me well. I just thought he could better spend that time to tend their apartment or something :/ I suppose he just like shiteposts
>>28581114I'd consider the idea, but I'd rather not.
>>28581184>maybe I will try to sit next to himNo. Commit to trying to give him hints. Have you ever had a bf before? How old are you?>but honestly I was kinda rude in the end, because I haven't personally said bye to anyone but just said in general, and most people didn't hear itThat's not even rude lol
>>28581203I am ethnically European yesSome of my friends consider me white but lots of women have approached me to tell me they’ve always had a thing for ethnic men >delusional Idk what you look like so I can’t say. I know lots of good looking people that don’t get complimented a lot. As a man it is certainly a lot more rare to receive compliments But I’m not sure. Especially in my earlier 20s when I was going out more, I used to get approached a lot and chicks would tell me how beautiful they thought I was or whatever Some of my older peers would also tell me if they had my face they’d be laying it down on everyone But alas, I definitely lack confidence and I always feel weird about approaching women outside of public social events
>>28581199Really? You think young guys don't want to fuck cougars?
>>28581114No, just another temptation from Satan to lead me astray from Jesus Christ.
>>28581179You could go "Well I come from a long line of yetis" or "I got bit by a radio active spider that just made my hands bigger" or you could go "thanks I water them every day"Girls say goofy shit like that all the time just play off of it
>>28581228>Have you ever had a bf before?no>How old are you?20>Commit to trying to give him hintsWhat do you mean?
>>28581211Idk, a pep talk? Apparently I have a fear of rejection.>>28581220I'll try.
>>28581232>Some of my friends consider me white but lots of women have approached me to tell me they’ve always had a thing for ethnic menWhat ethnicity? >Especially in my earlier 20s when I was going out more, I used to get approached a lot and chicks would tell me how beautiful they thought I was or whatever Oh well I don't "go out" like that lol>Some of my older peers would also tell me if they had my face they’d be laying it down on everyone Yeah and I don't have older peers like that either lol
State gender, Thoughts on lonely short incels transmaxxing and trying their luck as a trans woman? To present their argument: In modern society a short nerdy autistic no social skills loser guy gets less attention and benefits in society than the average trans person. So you should see if you could possibly pass and if so - transition and reap the social rewards. Dont know if I would recommend it to anyone but it sounds like an interesting moral question and option to consider.
>>28581184To put it bluntly, you flopped this time so if you wanna get him you need do much better on this upcoming event. Use your time to learn how to flirt without awkwardness, awkward is a boner killer. What topics did you discuss? Cause there's some topics that are boner killing too. No ones gonna treat you with kid gloves if you act awkward, you'll just be seen as cringe so just get rid of it.
>>28581239Think about it like this. Rejection is a natural part of life, you're gonna meet someone who you won't vibe with and vise versa.Don't take rejection personally, it just means you weren't compatible with that person, and it also means you will get closer to the people you're compatible with.If you don't get rejected, then you're good, if you get rejected, then you're also good and you use it as a learning experience
>>28581198Maybe, I just found it incredible that she was surprised this guy pumped and dumped her.
Women what's more important to you location or the size of your apartment? Men what's more important to you location or the size of your apartment?
>>28581258As long as it's not in the middle of a crime ridden shithole then the size of the apartment is important
Why does the media keep putting out articles about there being a record number of single women? What do they want us to do with that info?
Many men here seem obsessed with trying to get girls, so tell me why you crave a woman's affection so much?
>>28580900Where do I find weird goth-girl friends?
Women:>ASL, and describe the way you look>have you ever had an abortion?>if yes, describe how far along it was, if it was medical or surgical, and how the process went>how did the father react?>do you plan on having kids in the future?>how did you feel about it at the time, and feel about it now looking back?>have many of your friends/peers had an abortion?
>>28581225You sound very accommodating, and that's wonderful. Save that for people who sincerely care about you, and are important(Family/Family Friends). But yeah, shiteposting is quite a hobby on the internet these days.
Girls, guy A will cum, guy B will nut. Which one do you choose?
>>28581245I think it’s sad Incels hate hearing this shit but I’ve seen plenty of way worse looking guys with hot girlfriends. The problem is that incels live on the internet and don’t even try to go outside / meet / people or have hobbies or anything. They can’t accept that failure or discomfort or rejection is a part of eventually winning so they cry and whine and blame everyone else for their shit >>28581248Also this is somewhat related to what I was saying about rejection. You literally need to go out and fail or get rejected or you’re not doing it right IMO I heard someone say that every “no” gets you one step closer to a “yes” and that one yes could end up being life changing. True shit >>28581258MProbably location as I’m not trying to live in a shitty neighborhoodI’d rather live in a smaller place in a nicer area than a very big space in some ghettoI currently rent a 2bed / 1 bath house in a decent neighborhood. Has a finished basement and an attic. Is it a super yuppy neighborhood? No. Is it the ghetto? No. It’s a decent little suburb and I’m comfy
>>28581258>>apartment I hate apartments in general but if I had to choose from your choices I would pick size, tho granted I grew up in a small rural town all my life
where can i talk to girls, not for sex or romance, but just to have an honest straight up conversation?
I wonder,how will God punish the blonde hair blue eyed girl whos prideful beyond belief?
>>28581276Neither. I want a man who doesn't shoot dudegoo unless I tell him to.
>>28581223Ah then he probably just felt that. Just leave it that, you both got a fingerbanging and that was it.
>>28581289He has already made millions of dark skinned immigrants come to their countries to darken them
>>28581293Good fucking luck lmao
>>28581269high school circa 2007 lol
>>28581258M.I'm kind of weird. I want a place with a sizeable main room and kitchen, so that I can have people over. (Ideally storage space too because I have stuff. And sunlight.)Which the apartment complex people don't get. They didn't seem to understand that the 600 sq ft 1-bedroom and the 1000 sq ft 2-bedroom were both much better than the 800 sq ft 1-bedroom in terms of space. 800 is a bigger number than 600, you see.Location is pretty important for me so that I can commute into work, since I don't work remote. My commute's pretty long though so it's not going to make that much difference, as long as I can take the bus or train in instead of driving.
>>28581293But does that guy cum or does he nut?
>>28581258MHonestly both matter a lot but I'm going to go with size because I have a family, lots of stuff, and I work remotely so commute is a nonfactor.
>>28581268Because once you get a taste of a woman's affection you realize how much your life was lacking up until that point.It completes us. The power of love is real, there were many things I've never done in my life before that I was able to do because of love.
>>28581270>ASL, and describe the way you look29F Toronto. Mixed race, darker features (half white half indian)>have you ever had an abortion?Yes>if yes, describe how far along it was, if it was medical or surgical, and how the process wentI was 6 weeks when i found out, and 7 weeks when i aborted it. It was a pill abortion. I took the pills at home, and basically bled out my vagina into the toilet until the pregnancy was gone. It was painful and gross to see blobs of tissue (fetus?) coming out. Not a fun experience but wtv. It is best to not really look at what is coming out into the toilet and flush often.>how did the father react?He was very supportive. We already planned on abortion if this happened so it wasn't a complete surprise.>do you plan on having kids in the future?No.>how did you feel about it at the time, and feel about it now looking back?At the time i was very emotional, mainly due to hormones. However, there was never any doubt that i would abort the pregnancy. I am not planning on having kids.Today, a few years later, i dont really feel anything about it. I am glad that i was able to make the right choice for me.If i ever get pregnant again i will abort again.>have many of your friends/peers had an abortion?Maybe 20% of my friend group?
>>28581245They're deeply closeted gay men that used "incel" as a cope for not being attracted to females and now they use "trans" as a cope when they finally reach their breaking point and need to get dicked down. The 70s/80s had married dads hooking up with each other in mens bathrooms and we have this
>>28581288Right here, babe
>>28581270hiya! I'm an Argentinian womanmy hair is blackI didn't had an abortion. But I'm pregnant now, and I've been pressured to have one. I choose to keep the baby, and now I'm 6 months in. It's been a beautiful pregnancy thank God, almost no symptoms. But the first months were hard, the father asked me to terminate the pregnancy for the baby's sake, as you might know the current situation economy wise is falling apart in this country. I've always wanted to become a mother, it's been such an intense desire ever since I started working as a nanny. Abortion is legal here, you can abort up to 4 months if I recall correctly. But the thought of not letting my baby exists never crossed my mind, even though the context was not the best. Luckily I have support from my mom, she's been my biggest rock. My family, my friends, my MIL. Everyone's happy. I don't have any friends who chose to abort, actually I'm the first one to ever get pregnant so. But as far as I've talked, no one of them would choose that route. What is going through your head? Are you pregnant?
if a guy stays up until 5 am messaging me, does that mean he likes me? especially if a few very mildly flirty things have been said?
>>28581245It's a sad state of affairs, that guys think that the only way they can feel good about themselves, is to mutiliate their bodies to act, look, feel, and sound like women. It's one thing to crossdress, but when you start taking drugs, you start messing with your body chemistry and hormones with chemicals that aren't necessarily safe to use, especially long term. It's just another biproduct of how broken the system is, and how poorly guys get treated, and how desperate they can be to even be a little bit accepted amongst their piling insecurities which were given to them by not only their negligent parents, but also society, but it's mostly themselves that propagate all of this.Women are the reason men are going trans, the cultural zeitgeist has been projected for the past 10 years, that the future is female, that women are wonderful, and men are to worship them in marriage or die alone. It is an unfair system, and it is why many men refuse to marry today, and instead wish to either walk away from women entirely, date around casually, or become trans to emulate themselves as women, even if they're still biologically male. Incels would be better off becoming volcels, and avoiding the poison that is the trans movement, and while they're not becoming volcels, most incels are not becoming trans, which is a good thing.
>>28581314Fucking whore lol
>>28581245>So you should see if you could possibly pass and if so - transition and reap the social rewards.If somebody desperately tries to be something they're not in order to meet some societal standard that doesn't exist, then they're never going to be happy. This applies to much more than just trannies.And like other people said, it's just lonely people looking for a group that accepts them. Some find in racists, some find it in trannies, some find it in vtubers. And that is pretty sad.
>>28581258I prefer an apartment that's gated or at least in a nicer neighborhood. That'll do. As for Size, I'm not living in a shoebox in new York, so I think I'm doing pretty good. I have what I need and I pay the bills. That's enough.
>>28581321Yes and this is why I was so angry
>>28581245MThe logic kinda checks out but it's sad. It would have 0 benefits to me, only downsides, but society is kinda rigged against ugly guys. I wouldn't have it any better as an average looking woman, or maybe even as a good looking woman, so I think I just got lucky.
>>28581265They probably want you to be interested, so that you can marry and reproduce and get taxed more.
>>28581233Wanting to "pump and dump" isn't the most common behavior at any age.
>>28581245MWould bang right. Idk how I feel about left
>>28581322>Incels would be better off becoming volcelsSome guys cannot though, it's just cope. I'm an actual volcel but many guys are just not gonna get girls
>>28581276I want guy C to shoot hot sticky ropes
>meet girl during school orientation>get along well enough, makes me add her on fb>forget about her since i was grinding academics>have same class this semester>talk alot and walk together from class>ask her to dinner/lunch>first time get 'another time'>second time get dinner, had a good time?>third time get 'another time'Should I give up ?
>>28581233NTA but I know I didn't as a young guy, even though I did date some women who were a bit older than me.
Incels should just learn how to wear a zoot suit, learn an instrument and talk hip and the ladies will just come. they need to stop being so hung up on sex and getting laid and just learn how to confidently express their own style and unique personality. that's it.
>>28581270>27, Female, Eastern USA,>Never Had An Abortion(No Haunted Ghost Pussy Here, that sounds scary)>N/A>My father is happy and proud that I plan to have 3 kids, and hate even the premise/concept of an abortion. I choose life. Always Have, Always Will.>Yes, 3 Kids.>I feel great about having kids 5 years ago, and still do now. I'm engaged, so I'm hopeful that everything shall go well>None, I'm not friends with the abortion loving crowd.
>>28581233I don't but my friends think I'm crazy for thinking that
Is the uni experience where everyone makes lifelong friends a meme?I fucked up big time by being too autistic and mentally ill to connect with others and the FOMO is hitting me hard, however I know a lot of people that don't really have any friends at uni eitherI was thinking about going back to get the social life that I missed out on but I got other more important stuff to do with my life so I'll avoid it if possibleIs it possible to get that 'university social life' outside of uni? I've tried meeting people through hobby nights in my city but it's all yuppies in their early 30s and upwards, I wanna make friends with hipster skater eboys and sex loads of art hoes
>>28581320Tbh being a single mom isn't as horrible as people say it is, obviously its hard work but there's so many government programs that help
>>28581351Next girl try this: hang out once make her laugh then ignore her then she will get obsessed with you then date
>>28581371Because you had sex outside of marriage
>>28581304The word nut is disgusting.
>>28581322>Men graduating college and higher rates than women and earning more>BOOO!>OK we will implement programs in schools and corporations and have a huge media push to change that>Women graduating college and higher rates and your women starting to outearn young men with lesbian women already outearning the,>YASSSS!>But also leave the programs and keep the zeitgeist focused on the problems girls face I dont have a misogynistic bone in my body. Most of my friends are girls, most of the colleagues are women, I grew up in a completely egalitarian environment.. but it just feels so shitty. I cant really complain about my issues anywhere without some sort of label being attached to me. WHen a guy complains he just looks weak, pathetic and just overall a sad sight. But 60% young men being single is not good. None of these problems are going away and it will just get amplified over time, college graduates just earn more on average than people who didnt graduate and this will be a huge issue when women still seek men who earn more than they do. Maybe they will start dating other women like many femanons here did, after all rates of LGBT people have skyrocketed these days and especially for women its super accepted. Men will just act as sperm donors.
>>28581144one question: do you still have a penis ?
>>28581379I wouldn't say it's a meme, I made some decent friends there that I still hangout with from time to time 5 years later, although it is fizzling out but it lasted for a while.I think you could get something similar in cons or hobby events where people connect. Granted, it will be harder but that's a way you can some friends. Just constantly work on your conversation skills and up your funny
>>28581393Why do you think that? Do most women think the same about the word nut?
What am I supposed to do if I'm balding?
>>28581168how did you achieve this ?
>>28581407Because I don't like jizz in general. Idk what other women think about the word.
>>28581144>It's like, seeing a delicious cake, and when it turns out it was made with dark chocolate instead of milk chocolate, suddenly you HATE that cake and not at all find it delicious and yummy anymore.More like seeing a cake that was filled with shit lolYWNBAW
>>28581411Go full pedo
>>28581347>it's just cope>CopeNobody needs to do coping. Coping is for the mentally ill. People need to live, especially these young guys. A good job, and some pocket pussies will be plenty for them. The system cannot be saved, but they can give themselves a hand, and just go about their day. Women are too much for these incel guys, they can't handle all the tests, rejection, and hypergamous attitudes, legal standpoints/exclusive privileges, and beliefs. It's true you can't save everyone, but you can help others save themselves, but they can only be helped, if they want to be helped. Incels shield themselves from help for a time, but at once point, they learn to accept that they need to work on themselves, not for girls, but themselves and/or something bigger. In other words, they become more conscious, and the conscious individuals are the ones who can rise above their issues, and liberate themselves from their previous thoughts and belief systems they were enslaved to, for they are the ones who ultimately enslave themselves.Once they realize they hold the key to their ball and chain, they unlock their potential slowly, but surely.
>>28581395>Men will just act as sperm donors.I see nothing wrong with this.
>>28581245M>try their luck as transwomenpointless, you have better odds of becoming a chad than you do of becoming a passable woman, the trannies will lie to you and spin delusions out of sunk cost fallacy, but you know it to be true. The social benefits women get will not be given to trannies, they get a lot of political privilege but it's not the same thing and will ultimately not bring any happiness.
>>28581413So which words about cum are ok with you?
>>28581405I'm not one by choice, my son's father died. I had every intention of being together as a family.
>>28581300>>28581302What do I need to do then?
>>28581427>my son's fatherNot your husband? My point still stands
>>28581424You dont have to change your attitude and you can just pop some pills and then you will get at least some chasers interested in you, which is more than what they sued to get. Becoming a chad requires way more physical and emotional effort and maturity.
I went out and two girls asked for my instagram
>>28581420Men are dropping out of society enmasse and crime rates are soaring everywhere. Ya'll Must've Forgot what happened in the past when young men became angry.
One of my biggest fantasies is completely abusing some girl sexually (consensually of course), like pretty rough stuff, slapping, spanking, all that jazz, and then after we're done just spoiling the hell out of her, cooking something for her and bringing it to bed, cuddling with her watching a movie, stuff like that.Is this weird?
I told my mother that I’m not interested in marrying within our ethnicity and she’s like crushed… why is she like this? Especially when she has other kids
>>28581441MYes, she's supposed to be the one doing the cooking and everything
>>28581420You probably should, single moms have terrible life outcomes for themselves and their kids, not to mention men without families don't really participate in society in the same way that men with families do. A lot of the continued decline in standard of living we've seen in western countries is because a lot of men are just checking out.
>>28581406I mean I still made a couple friends and had loads of acquaintances, I don't even care about degen stuff like hookups or getting high/blackout drunk etc. I'm just sad that I didn't get a large circle of bros (female heavy course though so probably wasn't gonna happen anyway) or a gf, especially considering that at least 30-40% of the girls there are EXACTLY my type and that I'll never have this convenient of an access to them again, especially considering that a lot of them are introverts that don't socialise outside of uni and get scared off by cold approachGrass is probably greener though
>>28581438Can you remind us?
>>28581442She's a narcissist melodramatic fag that should be ignored. Ignoring all other incel copium replies
>>28581446It's very weird that nerds who spend all their time online always think they're experts on "western society", lol.
My mother is so competitive with me. It’s so strange. I rarely wear makeup so she’ll be like IDK how you can do that, I wear makeup daily. Then on the days I do wear makeup, she’s analyzing me head to toe and says something along the lines of oh stop showing off, you think your makeup is better than mine? Or something like why are you wearing so much makeup?When I’m wearing very little.When I was chubby, she would always bring up my weight. When I’m healthy now, she randomly made a comment saying like oh my hips are so wide idkand other comments I can’t remember rnWhyyyy
>>28581343The young chads and normies think otherwise
Why are non white people allowed here?
>>28581460>chadsWhat do you mean by chad?
>>28581459Have lesbian sex with her. You are both into it
>>28581459Mothers hate their daughters.I've never heard a single good story of a mother that truly wishes the best for her daughter, there's always some animosity goingAny girl that mentions her mothers always mentions some sort of problem she has with her
>>28581246Your post only makes me more desperate. We didn't really discussed topics just talked a little about the event and what musical we like. I know I'm cringe. Honestly I don't really see why he would like me because he seemed to be popular even with girls and they were much better than me
>>28581379>>skater eboysGo to a skatepark, be a skater yourself, tf you need help with that for? Unless you aren't interested in skating and just want the clout, then you'll be considered a poseur
>>28581464We're not allowed?
>>28581425Cum is fine. You don't have yo be grosser than that.
>>28581395Women have been given great power, and they use it with great irresponsibility. But, there will be change on the way.On one hand, there may come a day where technology will exceed the desires of women, and provide what men want without needing women there. Artificial wombs now work, and they may be commonplace as surrogates to replace women as early as the next 20-50 years. If this were to happen, there will be epidemic where women will be the ones left in the dust buy and large, they won't have any takers for making a family, or even having casual affairs. It's already happening, pornhub stats show animated porn is now far more popular than live action porn, and there's a reason why that is, because it's more attractive to men, and young men are moving in a direction opposite of women, because women have given up on the guy who gave them the life they have, their father's sons. They will have to come to the table, to seek equal partnership under contract, because they will be lonely catladies with boxed wine otherwise, even with large sums of young guys who will do anything for pussy, for those guys are not attractive to women, save for their advantage of utility and purpose, as well as worship.However, There is another path this could go down, but it is a much darker path that may not occur in our lifetime, but to phrase it without telling a story:>If the Lights Go Out, So Does Feminism and Women's Rights.
>>28581412>AchieveI dont know. I will just share some things I do. I dont ruminate or look back on "could have beens" because its pointless, I dont get mad if shit happens because it already happenedI find humor in small things and come up with jokes about them, people around me laugh so the whole atmosphere gets better. If I see someone slouched over and annoyed at the office I will pop in and say something stupid that makes them laugh. I praise people who I think did a good job and compliment them on what they did, make them feel good about an otherwise daily task that nobody thanks them for. I have cut out shit that makes me anxious or I dislike. If it is something that NEEDS to happen and I dlislike, I put it in a calendar so I do it at the same time every week and it doesnt feel like its a thing that popped out and ruined an otherwise perfect weekend. I dont give a fuck about social media or celebrities. I compare myself to nobody except to my past self. I guess over time I iterated on stuff I like and dislike and thought of ways I would love for people to brighten my day, so I go ahead and do it for others. Probably sounds like a bunch of airdheaded feel good bullshit, but you asked, so there you go.
womenwould you like if your boyfriend is all warm and cuddly in your bed
>>28581477What's the most gross word about cum in your opinion? And what makes it so gross?
>>28581264>>28581286>>28581287>>28581303>>28581307>>28581333What do you guys even do with all the size? I had a 40 sqm apartment once and I only used the kitchen, gaming set up and bed I was pretty much never in the other room
>>28581477Cum is a dirty word though. How about 'man's sour cream'?
>>28581487Yes, very much so.>>28581490I don't want to talk about this anymore. I already feel ill.
>>28581479> If this were to happen, there will be epidemic where women will be the ones left in the dust buy and largeBullshit, women would be dating other women and both will be having a career while they cook a designed baby in an artificial womb.
>>28581475Yeah for sureI think it's possibly just the demographics of my city too. Like you'd think that going to music/art stuff would put me in touch with the people I'm looking for, but again, it's all 30+ year old boomers
>>28581479I doubt the dream of artificial wombs is going to come to pass, men want to have families with women, very few men are interested in growing a lab baby and raising it on their own. I think what's more likely is that gender relations will improve as our economic system continues to deteriorate, right now the state can provide the traditional male role for women of provider/protector, but we'll probably see a point in our lives where it can't. The other harsh truth is that women are 100% going to "get away with it" lol, like they'll come back hat in hand and men will gladly step right back into that without so much as an apology.
>>28581504??Nobody eats sour cream anyway.
>>28581399>one question: do you still have a penis ?How is that any of your business? are we about to have sex? no? Then that information is private.
>>28581492I need room for entertaining guests, rooms for my kids, and I've also got a home gym and a workshop for various projects. I don't think they even have apartments big enough to suit all my needs.
Why am I so sexually attracted to socks? Not even like really long ones. But like crew / short length. It drives me wild. I love when I can see a girls socks poking out of her shoes or when she wears them over her yoga pants.
How do girls explain spending hours on the internet talking to incels to their friends and family?
>>28581479With artificial wombs women will just stop going out on maternity leaves because carrying a baby yourself will slowly but surely start being seen as outdated and barbaric. You can be a liberated woman and look after your career while still having a baby. With women slowly but surely starting to outearn men, the need for husbands will diminish and more women will be happy being single or dating other women. To solve men's issues you need to make them something other than a breadwinner. The time of the traditionally masculine guy is coming to a close at least in the west.
>>28581442Because you're a race traitor, and saying shit like that is like saying that all men or women in your race are terrible.
how do flat girls cope?
Also not every sibling you have will get married.
>>28581523You've associated socks with sexual attraction to women in general. The socks are part of the woman and therefore also generate feelings of lust. I wish there was more research into sexual kinks and fetishes, I think it's a manifestation of OCD
>>28581538The biggest weirdos have always been flat girls, but it's hard to feel bad for them when they decided not to grow their boobs to a normal size.
>>28581442I have only ever loved one girl and I had to break it off because my parents wouldnt let me date outside of my race. Sometimes it is what it is.
>>28581497Oh, so you think most women will become lesbians buy and large? That's a fair assessment, if things were that desperate enough, but lesbians have always been a minority, and while what you suggest is already happening in small co-parenting circles, what would push the majority of women to do that? Plenty of women are disgusted by ideas of Lesbianism with their Christian/religious values, what of them?
I need to turn my gf lesbian for an experiment. How can I do that?
>>28581512I do. I love it on baked potatoes and tacos.
how would you react if your partner asks you to have a threesome with another woman?
>>28581465He's referring to me. I'm Chad. My naturally superior instincts called to me that I should come here because there'd be a desperate woman who was pretending she doesn't want what I can do to her. I could be giving you orgasm after orgasm, fucking you in dimensions you didn't even know existed. You know you want it. I know you know you want it. We will fuck in less than an hour. Take a shower and make sure you're ready.
>>28581557Look at zoomer acceptance of LGBT couples. Straight women pretty much do not exist when women get tested for arousal to different sexual imagery, only lesbians and men are rigid in what they like. Religious people are mostly older and decreasing in number by the day. If you are looking for a breadwinner who is less likely to kill you and has better sex, then your best option is another women. Its just statistics.
>>28581582MNo thanks girlfriend, I'm gay
>>28581551>I wish there was more research into sexual kinks and fetishes, I think it's a manifestation of OCDcan confirmhave fetish and struggle with ocd
Looking at men ITT no wonder a third of the femanons left and like half of the remaining ones date women
>>28581510There will always be men who save women, that's a given. But many men will not in the coming days, because too many women did not step up to being there for the men they were supposed to be with. Women have no rank, and that's what needs to change, some women, need to be put in their place, and marry men of their status, even if they think they can do better. See, men have clearly established ranks, but women are seen as transcendent of ranks, because of the value of their fertility, but we may see in the future, with conflicts rising between women, a sectoring off of status, where poor women are situated with only poor men, likewise with working class, middle class, and high class. It won't necessarily be arranged marriages, but there will be a push for incentives for the sake of population concerns, where women are encouraged to settle where they are, because they're scared into thinking they can't do better in an environment where there are safety guards for them, because their status isn't high enough.
>>28581582Nice, let’s do it
>>28581595>woman>breadwinnerlol>lesbian>less likely to kill youdouble lol
>>28581602Which men specifically?
>>28581520Why not go out?Fair enoughWhy not work out at a regular gymWhat projects?
>>28581557>Plenty of women are disgusted by ideas of Lesbianism with their Christian/religious values, what of them?Women aren't religious
>>28581570Yeah, I bet you love my stinky sour cream all over your potatoes. You want my penile tube cheese on your fried buns? My spoiled milk in your cute little throat? Oh I bet you love my rotten white goo in your tummy. My fermented man resin in your mouth.
>>28581610Lesbians outearn straight men 80-90% of partner homicide is committed by men
>>28581533>Women will use artificial Wombs and transform the modern day household to be simple, and the rearing of children between women.>Men will move beyond the husband role and be liberated to do great things.This sounds quite freeing as a philosophy, where single mothers are the new norm, and men are sperm donors at most, if not completely off the sexual grid.>Born a Girl, you're provided for comfortably>Born a Boy, You're Gonna Do Awesome Things Beyond the Household.This is really cool, thank you for sharing, this is a positive.
>>28581617You in particular.
>>28581538I've seen a lot of flat chested women married, they seem happier then most big boobed women
>>28581619Ah. So You do understand. Fair enough mate.
>>28581625Because females hate nice, intelligent men who would actually love them and they choose to grant the access of their vaginas to men with dark triad traits.
>>28581595>>less likely to kill you Lesbians have a domestic violence rate that's way higher than straight relationships.
>>28581595>>28581625lmao femcels coping so hard they're starting to date each other now. You've tried political lesbianism, it didn't work. Men fuck women harder than a woman ever could. All lesbians are coping which is why their bedrooms die so quickly and why so many are 'butch' and mentally ill. You have the highest rates of domestic violence because you're trying to be men and failing at it. Go ahead, try. You could spend your entire life trying to be us and you'll never be what we do naturally. We fuck women. You just pretend you can do the same.
>>28581641Flat women are more likely to cheat on their husbands
>>28581538Big boobs aren't actually all that important. To think so is like saying a guy MUST be tall and stuff like that.
>>28581595Since Medical Tech is getting better, it's possible more people will live past 100 in the next few decades, so you might need to rethink old people there.This is also true for the future lesbian parents, since Robots will probably be commonplace to help the raising of children.
>>28581625Yea but they don't have a dick, ask lesbians themselves they always complain about women who just wanted to experiment but ended up leaving them for men. >>homicide Most women get off on being killed and love murderers
womenwould you date johnny silverhand (pic related)
>>28581625>Lesbians outearn straight menSource?>80-90% of partner homicide is committed by menAnd 95% of couples are straight (my estimate, feel free to find sources on that). So if you subtract gay guys (so lets say max 80% straight men and 3% lesbian couples) and normalize on population size (80%/90% = 88% vs lets say 5% of 20% women are lesbians = 1% lesbian homicides with 3%/1% = 300%) lesbian partners are (more than 3 times) more likely to kill you
>>28581492It's living space, you utilitarian scrote!
>>28581493"Man's mayonnaise" rolls off the tongue better (in more ways than one)
>>28581625>80-90% of partner homicide is committed by menConsidering that only 5% of the population is gay sounds like a disproportionate number of lesbians kill their partners
>>28581523You're a footfag in denial>>28581526"I'm just killing time lol">>28581538I can squeeze through my backyard fence while titcows have to go all the way around
>lesbians posting on /atoga/>that one thread about men being worthless if they're ugly>multiple threads about suicidewoah femcels are really out in full force. Having a wine and shitposting on the chans I see. I just flirted with a 16 year old who started blushing.
>>28581652We get it, you worship dick.
>>28581597Once these Republicans are done killing trannies and are out for gay men you'll change your mind.
>>28581623Idk what's grosser. What you're typing or the fact you're getting off on it. What would your mother think if she saw those words leave your fingertips?
>>28581684I certainly do and I'm a woman, agree with everything in that post
>>28581687>these RepublicansHuh? They haven't been a party here since the 90's. Are you assuming everyone is American or something?
>>28581538My spine isn't all messed up and I have more clothing options.
>>28581693That's fine. I hope you find a good cock :)
>>28581687Would my girlfriend be a republican? If not I don't need to worry
>>28581650Wrong. Women currently in lesbian relationships are more likely to have experienced partner violence, this is the stat you are citing.However, there is no confirmation this violence is committed by their current female partner or if they went ahead and started dating women because they experienced violence by men. Looking at other stats that show men are 81% of perpetrators of partner homicide, it becomes clear that living with a male is far, far more dangerous. >>28581652Oh and also women in lesbian relationships report higher rates of sexual satisfaction, ~90% of lesbian vs ~65% straight women report usually orgasming during their sexual encounters. So you are shit in that too. >>28581677Nope, this number includes women killing their husbands, there are zero studies showing lesbians killing their partners with any regularity. Thats a man's job.
>>28581670Living space that you never use just sounds like more work and more money spent on useless shit
>>28580900How do you know if you fucked up a first date?I'm getting really anxious that I may have messed up my date with a girl. The date went on longer than I would have expected and the conversation just kept flowing and flowing but near the end of the date I tried to kiss her and she told me we arent at that point at the moment. A while after she had to go home as she had plans in the morning. We were drinking together from 7 until 1 o clock in the morning.I feel like I fucked up. I feel like I could just be self-sabotaging myself by getting so anxious over it
>>28581707didn't you just do this yesterday?
>>28581679>"I'm just killing time lol"Okay but what compels you to be here?
>>28581712Nope, dont think so.
>>28581705>Daily StarIt's a tabloid.
>>28581705This is great research, no bias at all
>>28581711>The date went on longer than I would have expected and the conversation just kept flowing and flowingThis is a VERY good sign>near the end of the date I tried to kiss her and she told me we arent at that point at the momentThis feels bad, but she might just have a firm "no kissing on the first date" rule, nothing personal against you. You two clearly have chemistry, so try to set up a second date ASAP.
>>28581716It's the best time-wasting site I've ever found. I've been posting here for 15+ years. If not here, then where?
>>28581679>>28581716Nevermind, I just read that you are flat
>>28581729Why do you feel you need to waste time?
>>28581704I wasn't talking to you
>>28581694You just wait, the right is getting crazier and crazier. Everyone's going back in the closet rn
>>28581736You literally replied to me
>>28581735Because I have no personality and no hobbies ._.
>>28581723Oh cool. I just may have feel like I fucked up since the kiss thing was in the last hour of the date and it may have spoiled it for her. I will try and set up another one soon as possible. I'm just waiting for her to reply to my message talking about how much fun I had and if shes doing anything interesting today. Just the wait is making me really anxious now.
are there any racist or xenophobic femanons in the thread?
>>28581743I appreciate your honesty. Seriously.
How long are drinking dates supposed to usually go on for?
>>28581749No problem. I can understand how it might help male anons to hear that women can be just as pathetic as they are.
>>28581743Typical flatty lol
>>28581755Why do you feel that you have no personality? That's literally a psychopath. Surely you're not that.
How do girls cope with NP hardness?
>>28581748shhh you're not supposed to admit that racism is just being scared of different things
>>28581474You should be desperate, attractive men who are socially dominant are valuable and rare. Try practicing conversations, flirty behavior, a cute laugh not just in the mirror but with guys you don't care about to prepare for him.
>>28581743This was pretty funny, so at least you have humor going for you. Unless you said that to fish for compliments in which case - fuck you nerd lmao get a life.
>>28581748I've got some preconceived notions but I'm trying to look for stuff that disproves them rather than reinforces my bias.
>>285809204/10>>28581105probably yes, but I don't like all zoomer styles>>28581121I'm just myself. I can be either, both, and neither. Overall generally would probably be submissive though.
>>28581761Idk, I just don't react to anything or find joy in any activities anymore. It's probably depression.
>>28581768You're assuming that a female creature who had everything handed out to her would ever put in that much effort to get a man. She would be shell shocked from the nerves and if she did somehow get the courage to approach him (which I doubt), she would fuck it up, as it's her first time doing it, and he would think of her as a freak.
>>28581743You're pretty deadpan with the humor and brutal honesty combined with an ironic approach to gender stereotypes. I kinda like that.
>>28581748Yes but I'm not really that passionate about it like /pol/
>>28581786>shell shockedtfw no turtle gf
>>28581788I've noticed that sense of humor is pretty common on 4chan. Must be something about how this place desensitizes us.
>>28581782What do you mean? Specific ideas? Don't want to promote stuff like that. By actually exposing myself to different people.
>>28581711>>28581751you are self sabotaging by being so anxious, just wait and see what happens. her saying you aren’t there yet is a good sign. be calm and don’t mess it up.
>>28581802just say it
>>28581786You're being a little sarcastic but there's this guy that I kinda like and he's not making the first move so I guess I have to but I don't know how.
>>28581789who do you hate?
I want to do all/most of the cooking in a relationship but I still care that a girl can cook. Is this bad?
>>28581441>(consensually of course)> like pretty rough stuff, slapping, spanking, all that jazzlol>then after we're done just spoiling the hell out of her, cooking something for her and bringing it to bed, cuddling with her watching a movie, stuff like that.>Is this weird?No this is just bog standard bdsm shit with aftercare.
>>28581813no, why would it be?
>>28581813nah, women love that shit
>>28581816If I care about something that doesn't really make a practical difference
>>28581245They're ugly and autistic as men, they're ugly and autistic as women. The only thing they accomplish is fucking other ugly and autistic men who transitioned, and if they wanted to suck dick they could just have done so.
>>28581813It does show some latent patriarchal misogyny but its OK if presented well
>>28581810DON'T WANNA shit up this board more than it already is.I will say that I've had a lot of them disproven through contact. Some actually confirmed though so I don't know what's going on there.
>>28581817Cooking or guys who can cook?
>>28581764What does that mean
>>28581812NTA but racism is usually more about fear than hate.
>>28581831Yup. Racists are scared little babies, shaking in their racist boots.
>>28581813Yeh, kinda, if you don't allow her to cook with you.
>>28581824Great screencap lol, legendarily bad take
>>28581838Well I'd want to cook with her probably but I feel like I'd want to take the lead in that situation
>>28581831People hate what they don't understand
>>28581846I enjoy confusing the opponent.
>>28581487yes>>28581526simple: don't have friends or family and/or talk to them less than you should.>>28581551>I think it's a manifestation of OCDI don't think it always has to be, but based on my own experiences, I think you might be onto something.I'm not diagnosed with anything and don't necessarily think I have it. But i do get these obsessive thought spirals and they often involve weird shit like this that I'm not sure I could say that I would care about if I were in a normal mindset.
>>28581830Google search "coping with NP hardness"
>>28581722It's a tabloid doesn't count. Find better evidence
>>28581849And a lot of people aren't really willing to try to understand someone else's point of view.
>>28581864Like I said I'm not passionate about it
Thanks for taking the bait
>>28581492I'm still moving in, but:- I've got my bedroom set up with a bed and drawers and such.- The main room has a couch and my computer desk, and a shoe rack, and in the future will have a coffee table, an end table, a tv stand where I will put a computer monitor to play console games on, 3+ bookshelves, a table and chairs for eating at and gaming at when I have guests over, a coat rack, and various plants.- The second bedroom I'm intending to use as a studio, but I haven't gotten there yet. Right now it just has books in it on the floor.- One of the walk-in closets is a junk closet at the moment but will probably become a pantry; the other will become a storage closet. One of the two will also hold ferments once I start on that.
>>28581121I'm pretty switchy, and enjoy being neither Dom or sub the most.
>>28581859That was sarcasm you autistic fuck
>>28581874Lol. Well I could explain if you want but why not?
>>28581813No. It's fine that you want to cook, but still want a partner who is capable of doing it themselves.
>>28581869But you still identified with "hate". That's a pretty strong word.
>>28581884It's just polite to explain wtf you're talking about when you ask a question
>>28581849That's not how the lyrics went, retard.It's a thin line between paper and hateFriends and snakes, nine milli's and thirty-eightsHell or the Pearly Gates; I was destined to comePredicted, blame God, he blew breath in my lungsSecond to none, wicked turn wives to widowsShoot through satin pillows, the desolate oneTook a little time to claim my spotJamming up the border to this game stop, and I side with the LordRide for the cause while drivin' niggas shot at my doorsPlottin' I'm sure, to catch me with they Glocks to my jawsTried stickin' me up, but I flipped on these ducksInstead of me, ambulances were pickin' them upNiggas fear what they don't understandHate what they can't conquer, guess it's just inferior manBecame a monster, on top of the world, never fallin'I'm as real as they come, from day one, forever ballin', c'mon!
>>28581877How do I meet women like you?
>>28581894I have no idea, I don't really discuss my sexual preferences with anyone I know irl beside the man I fuck.
>>28581412By not asking a single person out or worrying about sex and relationships in 30 years
Asian guy here. Why do a lot of white people think racism doesn't exist among other cultures or that whites are "more" racist? In Asia, you can be racist towards someone that looks like you just because they're a different nationality. White people don't seem to have that.
>>28581886Do you cook? Would you feel offended if a guy wanted to do all the cooking?
>>28581906>White people don't seem to have that.Ya'll Must've Forgot all the wars in Europe.
>>28581906Because the world is dominated my white or ex-white nations so they project the situations in their countries and histories to the whole world.
>>28581908>Do you cook?Sometimes I try to make things but I wouldn't say I'm good at cooking in general.>Would you feel offended if a guy wanted to do all the cooking?Not really, less work for me.
>>28581892Anon is taking the quote from some bastardized pseudo-intellectual thing. Snyder Superman I think.
i ended with my bf on bad terms and lied and told his family and our mutual friends that he was emotionally and physically abusive even though he wasn't. would i be redeemed if i went back and told everyone that i was lying
>>28581813Honestly I'm the same but as a girl. I want to do all the cooking but it still matters to me that he can throw something together if left unattended.
>>28581919No just leave it all be and date me instead
>>28581882Well Ackually you weren't wrong I did a bit of research and there are a few women with b cup size rage tend to cheat, I don't get why and apparently "curvy" women too.
>>28581919"Redeemed" isn't the best word.I believe the general consensus would be that it's the "right" thing to do.But really, it'll just make everyone hate you and see you as untrustworthy.If you're doing it to gain back favor, it won't work.Will YOU be redeemed? No. But he might be.
>>28581915Ok, but still made you do the dishes.
>>28581813Let her cook for you, and you'll be good. She can count on you to cook if she can't, and that's what she finds attractive, it's another facet of providing.
>>28581915Would you be fine if a guy did most of the cooking and you did most of the dishes?
>>28581936That's just the dynamic I had in my last relationship lol idc
what are some other things that a woman can provide for you besides sex, cooking and cleaning?
>>28581919No reason to, you are fine and things have died down around that. No need to ruin your reputation or make things awkward.
>>28581937>let her cook for youNo, I want to cook. I really like it, and would hate to stop if I got married
>>28581935Why do you tripfag on an anonymous board?
I did something pretty cringe last night. I was out at the bar and was pretty sloshed.As I was leaving I passed this girl and said hey and put out my hand for a shake but she just looked at me like wtfAnyways I thought it was pretty funny
>>28581935ya i want him to be redeemed, i told his mom and dad that he once banged my head against the wall until i got knocked out lol, he never hit me and was p much always nice to me i was just salty bcuz we bickered a lot during our last few months together
>>28581919You messed up. It would be worse if they found out you did nothing to fix the problem. If he wasn't being abusive, then you had no right to make such claims. How dare you lie to his family like that? Don't be such a fucking coward, you whore, at least have the tact to tell the truth, then you won't have to live with that guilt for the rest of your life.
For all (since I am attracted to all genders)Are my standards very high?>any aged 18-80>std free>any gender identity>any looks or weight>any sexuality outside of bisexual males>willing and able to split costs 50/50>able and willing to help with healthcare duties (taking me to ER if needed)>does not want children, biological or adopted (existing children are ok)>non religious >any race or ethnicity My stats:>30, cis female>black mixed>athletic build>3/10 face per photofeeler >full time employed>autistic, major depressive disorder>unwilling to have sexual contact unless actually dating Primarily I am dating to a cost splitter and a stand by in case I get really sick again and almost die. How can I find people earning enough to split costs or already having their own housing? Is me being ugly facially and unwilling to fuck asap doing me in?
>>28580900To men who believe women are inferior: how accomplished does a woman need to be before you can look at her as worthy? Is there something I could do, any amount of degrees or money I could earn, anything I could write or create, any level of competitiveness I could show in sports or games, at which you would respect me and treat me as a brother?
>>28581959yeh, pretty cringe ngl
>>28581947Companionship and friendship. Emotional support when he's in need. Support in his career, especially if he works for himself.
>>28580916>A female saying hello to a random guy she's alone with on the train?I mean this happened to me a few weeks ago, and several times in the past>>28580931Yes that'd be cute af>>28580968I mean, if she likes it>>28580978I don't understand the question>>28581038Wtfffffff>>28581082It can be interesting>>28581114No>>28581245Very sad
>>28581919I knew it! This obvious bait PROVES that women = bad!!
>>28581918It’s just a common saying. Am I being trolled?
>>28581949idk i kinda want his parents to know he never did stuff like in >>28581960>>28581962yea there wasnt a single instance of abuse in our relationship i was just bitter he left me
>>28581947Children, Companionship, and most notably, stability(but obviously it's on her terms, you know, happy wife, happy life).
>>28581960What the fuck? Why lie that extremely? Do you have mental issues?No, seriously.
>>28581890Oh sorry. I thought it would be more interesting if you found out on your own cause otherwise it's pretty boring. The NP class of problems is the class of problems that can be solved in polynomial time by a Non deterministic Turing Machine (this is like being able to verify the solution in polynomial time). It has been that in this class certain problems are as hard as any other problem of this class (by finding a way to convert any problem in this class to them), they are called NP hard or NP complete (if a problem is as hard as any problem of a class C then it is C hard and if it also belongs in that class it is called C complete). However while there are problems in this class that have known algorithms that can solve them in polynomial time by a deterministic Turing machine (like your computer, these problmes are in the P class) no polynomial time algorithm has been found for the NP complete problems nor is there a proof that a polynomial time algorithm cannot be found (also were an algorithm for one to be found all would be solved in polynomial time, P vs NP problem). As such algorithm designers who need to solve these problems fast need to find ways to cope with that and make trade offs in the algorithms. This is refered to as coping with NP hardness by some authors which I thought is interesting
>>28581965There are plenty of men like that, but they're invisible to you exactly because they respect you. Female creatures love to be abused more than to be treated nicely.
>>28581963If you’re single right now, then yes, they’re too high. Your standards don’t matter in a vacuum.
>>28581975You shouldnt care about this. You only have stuff to lose from this interaction. Think about yourself and whats good for you, there is no need to fuck yourself over for an ex.
>>28580920M, pretty good desu, like 8/10, life is ez>>28581321Yes lol>>28581379It's not a complete meme but people tend to drift apart a bit after uni
>>28581951Here's the thing man: Women want to cook for you in a relationship, and she'll like to cook for you, don't deprive her of that responsibility, don't take her place as a homemaker. It's awesome you're a chef, and can chop it up i the kitchen, and it's not like you can't cook for her ever, but just let her cook, or better yet, COOK TOGETHER. That's your best option right there. And then do the dishes together afterward, all while having music on.
>>28581983Yeah, googling this wouldn’t have helped me lolI’m not a math person so I have no opinion
>>28581919Yes you need to tell them. That's extremely fucked up. That is emotionally abusive.
>>28581967My autism just flares up at the worst possible times
>femaleYou are on the older side but your requirements aint too high. Just make sure you start dating around so you can assess if you partner possesses them
>>28581919Get psychological help? It's likely he'll have trusting you and his family might encourage him to seek someone else for him to date
>>28581711>How do you know if you fucked up a first date?If she doesn't want another one lol
>>28581986I mean it sounds like she actually is thinking about someone else's well-being for once. She knows damn well that might fuck her over so what's the issue?
>>28582004Never admit faultNever apologizeNever prioritize others
>>28581985I’m technically not but I am still looking since my only potential makes about half what I do or less. I want to split equally with no one on either side paying disproportionately.
>>28581959Have you tried just not drinking? It's the most overrated social activity we have as a species. It's literally a legal psychedelic drug known to cause negative mental changes.
>>28581963>athletic buildWhat does this mean? Small boobs and butt? I’m afraid you’ll have to lower your standards drastically if that’s the case.
>>28582008Why? Would have doing so help someone you care about?
>>28581975You need to fix this. You can, and I hope you will, because his family will be the ones hurting more than you, because their brother, son, and maybe uncle was mistreated for no good reason.It's women like you that remind me to stay away from women, keep riding in my truck and make more money every day to do fun stuff I'd never be able to do if I was married. If you were smart, you'd give up relationships too, maybe get yourself a dog, or a cat, and some boxed wine. The Single Life is more rewarding in the modern day, and is perfect for someone as selfish as yourself.
>>28582010based, i stopped drinking in January and feel much better
>>28581984I’m not asking because I want interactions from these men, I have a boyfriend and am happy with him, and he is not very demanding of me. But I want to challenge myself as men challenge each other, maybe if I can live up to that level of high standards then I will hate myself less. It’s easy to languish in mediocrity as a woman, being praised for the bare minimum. It’s disgusting. I don’t want to be that way, I want to be like competitive men. So I would like to know their standards.
>>28581982I said her version of stability mate.
>>28582022Most of them make YOUR stability non-existent. I think I'll pass
womanwhat's your funniest sex story?
>>28582010No, it's just too much funWhere else could I make a fool of myself
>>28582010>alcohol is psychedelic
>>28582014I have large boobs, small muscle butt, muscular legs and arms. Flat stomach. Basically I look like I do some exercise when I don’t.
>>28582015If it harms me then fuck that
>>28582027NTA, but you people are fucking retarded. Most men do better when they're in a relationship. My bf is 10x better now than he was when he started dating. Mentally, physically, career wise, financially he's a lot better off. Not just because of me, but also because I am here for him.
>>28582033Most people don't look at large boobs and think athletic, moreso the opposite.
>>28581963>any gender identity>any sexuality outside of bisexual malesYou'd rather date a lezzer tranny than a bi guy? Why do women hate bifags so much lmao?
what is the biggest bet you've ever won?
>>28581990>don't take her place as a homemakerWhy does it have to be entirely her place?>cook togetherI could do that, but I'd probably end up taking the lead and feel like I was ordering her around, I feel that would have the same effect
>>28581990What's the best music for washing dishes?
>>28582041>My bf is 10x better now than he was when he started dating.Is this a humble brag?
>>28581991Yeah don't worry it was dumb joke because of the expression they use lol
why does my penis get hard and then go soft and then get hard and then go soft? is it broken?
>>28582041>Bitchy anecdoteGood for you guys but that doesn't mean it's going to be the case for everybody. People in general suck more than they did I can decades ago. Personally I don't see dating as a worthwhile investmentStop turning into a crybaby because someone has a different opinion than you on certain subject, weakling
>>28582054for me it's https://youtu.be/mV5FhnK2UKM
>>28582035Why did you lie in the first place?
>>28582041How long did it take him? Could you tell me about his story?I have a girlfriend and I want to be the best for her, but I feel so overwhelmed and don't know where to start. I have no job, no degree, have breakdowns all the time (bipolar). I just don't know where to even begin with improving myself and getting out of NEETdom. I would really appreciate to hear how he helped himself.
What's it like to have a vagina? The bleeding thing seems inconvenient.
>>28582046They have more options
>>28581990>And then do the dishes together afterwardThis sounds like a wet and slippery experience. Are you sure it's safe?
>>28582063I am nta I am just giving advise But I lie to benefit myself and I dont admit to lies I said because it’s harmful to me.
Women do you find clubbing fun?https://youtu.be/p1ZG-ovFeHc?t=79
>>28582017“Loser” is subjective. I don’t care as long as they can split and act as a med aide with very light duties.>>28582043Hmm I have had people ask me what sports I played, or assumed that I do exercise. But I can hide my boobs well so maybe they’re not that big.>>28582046Theyre whorish. I don’t expect a bi male to completely stop having sex with men even during a LTR with a woman. By doing this they will come back with STDs.
>>28581919You would be redeemed if you told me how to avoid evil girls like you
>>28582058Erectile dysfunctionAsk your doctor and if he doesn't help you well, get help from another doctor
>>28581906It's in part performative. Racism is so passé here, and it's opposite is in style. But you can't just fit the trend, you have to go above and beyond to prove yourself as "not racist". Which includes things like the idea that people who aren't white can't be racist. Because if historical racism was "white people good, colored people bad", the opposite of that is "white people bad, POCs good". So you get a situation where non-whites can't be racist (because that would be bad) unless they're "white enough", and also a hatred of white people and the default assumption is that all white people are racist.(Not that they don't also believe that.)The other part, partially stemming from that and interplaying with it, is a white guilt complex that gets taught in schools. Because while other cultures had lots of awful things, they aren't emphasized as much as the awful things white people did like the Holocaust, the Trail of Tears, smallpox blankets, slavery, lynching, segregation, Japanese internment camps, and the like. Like you'll get maybe a mention of the Japanese use of "comfort women" or the Rwandan genocide if you're lucky, but most US history covers bad things white people did because that's a huge part of US history.
>>28582090damn, a lot of pretty girls in that club
>>28582091>Theyre whorishI mean I think I'm bi to some degree but I'm a prudish khv kek
>>28582095You're not supposed to get that in your 20s I thought? isn't that for old men
>>28582102What? They're average
>>28582041nta but yeah, I feel like if I ever got a gf, I'd improve at whatever they wanted me to. So I'd happily stop smoking/drinking, hit the gym, work towards a career etc. if it'd make them happier. But maybe that's complete cope and I'd keep being a doomer>>28582068nta, I'm also bipolar, it's not hard to get a wagie job though, literally just apply to entry-level things and try anything
>>28581947Emotional support, an interesting conversation partner, new ideas, childcare, children, companionship/friendship in general, interior decorating and fashion advice, someone with which to build a future...
>>28582095This. Go to a female doctor and ask her to suck on it to help it stay hard
>>28582055Not humble at all.>>28582059>that doesn't mean it's going to be the case for everybodyIt's the case for pretty much every man I've met. They're far better off when they're in relationships then when single. Women make men better in the vast majority of the cases I've seen.>crybabyNobody is crying, just calling you retarded.>>28582068>How long did it take him? Could you tell me about his story?About a couple years until he was steadily on a good track. I'm not going to talk about my bf's private life on the internet, tho, it feels intrusive to speak of personal shit like that.The first thing he did was tackling mental health concerns, so I'd suggest you do the same.
>>28582103Would you ever have sex with a man or is it just feelings?
>>28582105No, go see a doctor and don't be ashamed.
>>28582123I'm not asking for specific details, just a general outline of how he managed to plan it all out.And yeah, I'm taking care of the mental health stuff ... it's just difficult because I'm eating healthy, going outside, taking my meds, and nothing works haha.
>>28582125>Would you ever have sex with a manNo I don't think I would. I'm much more attracted to women functionally so would only want to sleep with a longterm gf
>>28582136You're not really gay then.
>>28582051>Why should she be a homemaker completely?Because that's her natural role as a woman, no matter how much women demand they're not otherwise. Women are homemakers, they cook, clean, and take care of kids best, don't compete with her on that, you can't love what you compete with, she'll resent you for trying to cut in on what she wants to do as a wife, and mother. As a Man, you need to let her be a woman, and she'll let you be a man. It's that simple.>I could cook with her, but I'm afraid of taking the leadThat kind of attitude won't fly in a relationship. Taking the lead is what you're supposed to do. Men have their domains, women have theirs.Women run the Household and ultimately determine the course of civilization, Men run the World and determine the conditions of civilization which women will have their households.So, keep it really simple. You can cook on your own, but don't assert your cooking skills when she is plenty capable of cooking. Let her do what women do best, and you can cook on the side. You ought to open a food truck business if you really like cooking that much. That's what real men do. You don't see Gordon Ramsey cooking meals for his woman and 3 daughters all the time, he's busy making money being one of the best chefs on TV/Media/the Internet. People love Gordon Ramsey, and they admire his cooking skills.Seriously consider a career in cooking, since you're this passionate about it. She'll respect you more if you went out made some money so that she could expand the kitchen, and cook even better meals for you, and if you're so much better at this, you can teach her stuff too. You need to quit complaining, and put your skills into action. You may need to get some certifications/take cooking classes to get your foot in the door as a chef, but you could totally do that. It's not hard to make good food in a food truck, or local café, or restaurant. You could totally do this, I want to see you shine, now be a man.
>>28582123>It's the case for pretty much every man I've met. >"Anecdotal experiences reflect ALL of reality" -(You)
Do you people really listen to music while doing the dishes? Are you all retarded?
>>28582139Never said I was gay(sometimes wish I was though, life would be easier, I could just be a stay at home husband lol)
>>28581804Ok, I'm trying to take my mind off waiting for her reply but the fact she said "we'll see" keeps popping into my mind making me think I fucked up the last hour of the date to such a major degree that she doesn't want to see me again
>>28582149When I was a dishwasher in a restaurant, yeah, used to play the pirate radio innit
>>28582054I have listened to a variety of tunes while doing dishes at home and at my old job as a dishwasher at a breakfast café, but here's a couple I like to enjoy:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cYVxuxUtWeQhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_ziSgpuqKUhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHXA4Ip_GZA
>>28582080It is if you're not being too messy. I used to be a dishwasher professionally. It's a solid job and can be done with minimal mess.
>>28582141>As a Man, you need to let her be a woman, and she'll let you be a man. It's that simple.It's really not. >So, keep it really simple. You can cook on your own, but don't assert your cooking skills when she is plenty capable of cooking. Let her do what women do best, and you can cook on the side. You ought to open a food truck business if you really like cooking that much. That's what real men do.I also like mathematics and CS, I can't pick both as a career, and I don't want to ruin my cooking hobby by making it my whole life. Why should I be a chef and not just a home cook? Not everything has to be a career, you realize that right?
>>28582149I put my dishes in the dishwasher, turn it on, and go about my life.Where can I find a nice, Christian girl who will marry me and accept that I have a dishwasher instead of being the sort of guy she can wash dishes with together while listening to her favorite music?
I was very bored and lonely over the past 3 days and spent about 80% of them here so I just wanted to let you all know you are by girlfriend/boyfriend.
>>28582149Sometimes. Why not? It's nice to have something going on besides a relatively monotonous task.
>>28582149No I listen to Destiny streams
>>28582153You said you're bi though
>>28582046They're the most abusive people in the world, mentally, emotionally and physically
>>28582178I love you, and I hope you have a beautiful day today.
tfw no gf to see taylor swift with
Women, do you find it appealing if a guy sucks his own dick or do you see him as a faggot? Say he's a good looking guy and a bit of a prettyboy
>>28582149>People who listen to music while doing dishes is retardedI don't know if you're bitter or upset about something unrelated, but that's a pretty sad thing to be mad about. Doing the dishes to music is rather fun, and mocking people for enjoying themselves seems like such an angry move on your part, like do you hate it when other people have a good time. You should go do your dishes to music. Put on some of your favorite songs, and start cleaning, it'll improve your day or night, and you'll get something done.
>>28582194<3 ILU too!
>>28582208Unless you literally live like a pig with dirty dishes stacked up, why would you waste time like that on something that takes 3-5 minutes at most?
>>28582208>want to listen to music while doing dishes>put some hard rock/metal on>want to destroy all my dishes>turn music off
>>28582198Not attractive at all. I'm all for self love, but that's weird.
>>28582230Would it kill your attraction to him? Why is it weird
Either: what's your favorite flower, and when was the last time someone gave you your favorite flower?
How was your weekend on a scale of 1 to 10? And why?
WomenWhat do you think if a guy does Tarot reads
>>28582240My weekend is a wonderful 10, because you're here.
>>28581114I am muslim. dont want a submissive wife. The best relationship is where you are equals and the coolness of each other's eyes.
>>285822405i didn't dance while i was out drinking
>>28582145There are studies on how married men are happier, live longer and outearn single men if you want them.>>28582132I wouldn't say he planned it all out. The first thing he did was firing himself from a job that was making him miserable, then he focused solely on getting in a good place mentally. He was obviously getting professional help at the time, and I moved in to support him. Then he worked on his career, then his fitness.
>>28581906White liberals have internalised self hatred thinking the holocaust and colonialism were the worst things ever. They are unwilling to acknowledge that other peoples did equally bad things because that would make others equal to white liberals. They're far more racist but they do it by preaching that they're the worst and no one else can ever be as bad as them. Literal reverse supremacy. White conservatives are much more like other people in that they're normal racists, although White conservatives in general are much less racist than Indians or Chinese or Africans or Jews. As a halfblood I've seen both sides of the coin and White conservatives are the least racist people in the world, which is why Liberal media call them the most racist (postmodern liberals literally do everything in reverse)
My girlfriend says disparaging things to me. Two times now I've snapped, grabbed her by the arm, and yelled at her for being blatantly disrespectful to me. She says she made a mistake and didn't mean it, then immediately turns things around on me and insinuates that grabbing her arm and yelling is abusive. And that she is extremely sensitive to yelling and loud noises (which she is). Now she wants me to go to therapy for anger issues. I've never raised a fist to anyone in anger in my life and am one of the calmest most zen people she's ever met by her own admittance. We've kind of sort of apologized and made up but the air is still a little sour. I'm happy to go to therapy to placate her but I don't think it's any kind of solution. What's the play here?
>>28582168>Reee, I don't want to be a cook, because making money ruins everything fun, even though I like computers and math, and could cry about that all the same, waaah>It's not simple to let women be womenExcuses, Excuses, Excuses. If you want to complain, just stay where you are on this thread and board and site, and keep doing what you're doing right now.You can fix your problem, you are your only serious obstacle to your success, that goes for women too, they're a lot simpler than you think, you're just looking into their woes too much, and getting bogged down.Be a Man, and Lead with wealth, power, and leadership(especially in the bedroom), and She'll follow. That's what women want, a Real Man whom follows his dreams and doesn't piddle around with is time, pretending to be a chef at home when he could be making a solid career out of significant and healthy passions such as cooking. Make them happen, or remain contradictive and never achieve any of your dreams and be miserable and watch her move along from you because you couldn't make a choice for yourself. Figure it out, the clock is ticking.
>>28582234F. Peonies. My grandma gifted me a bouquet a couple weeks ago.>>28582240A solid 8. Spent time at home with my bf, we cuddled a lot, watched cartoons and now we're eating something and watching some hockey on tv.
>>28582258Couples counseling, individual counseling, anger management
>>28582258Frankly it sounds like you two deserve one another
>>28581969> I don't understand the questionMy question is that I was in this situation and I don't understand why he turned down my offer to do anything for him in return and I worried he because turned off from me or something?
>>28582261Dude, I'm already committed to the tech industry, I'm a CS/math major, I like it, and it's a much better financial field than cooking. I don't want to be a professional chef, it's not my dream.
>>285822404/10I'm tired of friends flaking, this is like the 8th timeThinking I should stop trying to reignite the friendship and just drift off into a different friend group
>>28582273>because **because maybe he was
>>28582273You'll have to handcuff him to the bed and show him what it means that you'll do anything for him. Until he's had a taste of that, he won't know what to ask for.
>>28582216I don't care if you have a couple of dishes to do, or if you have a whole city of them, it is still therapeutic to clean all of those dishes.>>28582220Then Don't listen to metal or hard rock then, retard. Try listening to Classic Rock instead. "Nothing but a Good Time," by Poison, in the music video has a guy doing freaking dishes, and he finishes them at the end.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_88L-CU7PD4No fucking excuses retard.
>>28582234M, White creeping phlox, I think. I don't think anyone's ever given me any, but that's okay. I don't have a yard to grow them in yet.
>>28582234I like Sunflowers, because they're very pretty, and I grow them.
>>28582230Would it kill your attraction or not?
>>28582240Eh. 2 or 3, I guess. Learned my aunt is probably dying, something with some friends didn't happen because they mixed up the days, and my other friend was too busy to hang out. But I was at least marginally productive so it wasn't a complete loss.
>>28582245I'd be concerned for him. Letting cards tell you how to live, that's evil.
>>28582286Please dont call me a retard thats really mean and I did not do anything harmful to you that justifies the mean attitude :(
>>28582090Do people really find this fun>>28582102No
>>28582234FI like sunflowers probably the most, I bought them for myself a couple days ago, does this count?>>285822404/10, I had a weekend away with friends and it was fun but I think I was too drunk on Saturday night and now I am so anxious
>>28582275My words still stand, own what you do as a man, and don't heavily engage in female house chores. She'll won't see you as a man for doing that. Don't act like a woman.
>>28582232No, it's just weird. Like I don't see the appeal of eating myself out if I possibly could.>>28582302No. If he framed it like a flexible thing he can do, it's fine whatever. If he was constantly blowing himself, yes it'd turn me off from him.
>>28582316I'm not a man because I cook? How is cooking acting like a woman?
>>28582285I think that is a little extreme, I just feel so weird or bad about it being an unfair interaction especially where we aren't dating so it will probably never happen again
>>28582234F. Honeysuckle. Nobody has ever given me anything honeysuckle related, unfortunately. So I just grow my own.
>>28582322>it'd turn me off from himWhat if you were dating for a good amount of time and he brought it up? Would you break up with him lol?
>>28582240A 6/10 with 5 being an average weekend. It was worse in some respects, like I didnt play almost any videogames and I was planning on catching up on some cRPG games, but it was good in others like I got some work done on renovating my flat.
>>28582307>Hurdur, I'm not a retard if I listen to rock/metal and want to break my own dishes while trying to clean themThat's retarded, even as a joke. Just listen to the music, and clean the dishes. It's that simple, no breaking dishes necessary, unless it's an accident.
If you had a date with a girl from a dating app and you're not exactly sure if it went well, she would unmatch you right?
>>28582315Of course it counts. Love yourself!
>>28580900Men,does outfit/clothing taste affect how much you like a girl? like, how does your ideal gf dress?
>>28582334That's sweet! Honeysuckle is great for feeding the hummingbirds and providing a nest for other small birds.
>>28582315>I bought them for myselflol
>>28582354Ikr? It's sad that I haven't seen hummingbirds around in years and years. They used to get right up to me.
>>28582327>I'm a man if I cook, how is that feminineBecause most women cook.It's like playing the flute or piccolo. Mostly women play those instruments, but the men play them the best, but it's known as a feminine practice generally speaking. Same goes for baking. Men can bake and cook, but you need to remember that this is how women see it, they are the cooks and bakers. It's primarily a woman's role, unless we're talking about the professional world, but you're referring to the domestic world. Don't set yourself up to be her personal chef. She'll use you, and worse, she won't see you as man, and pass you up for another guy. Tread Carefully, and only do it on an occasion, don't bend over backwards for bitches, even your own wife. You're not a servant, so don't be eager to act like one.
>>28581258Male, 30Location 100%, I need to be close to my office so I dont waste time commuting. I am not some rich guy who works from home or doesnt have to work at all, I am an Eastern European dude who needs to do a job to keep making his monthly wage of 1k USD Closer to work = less gas money and more free time. I dont have the money or time for a relationship anyways so who cares, 60 square meters is enough for me.
>>28582234MHimalayan Blue PoppyNever, men only get flowers at their funeral
>>28582364Yeah I'm sure she'll leave me because I cooked too much lmao.>don't bend over backwards for bitches, even your own wife. You're not a servant, so don't be eager to act like one.Sure, but cooking isn't synonymous with that
>>28582345>how does your ideal gf dress?She doesn't dress ;)
>>28582345>like, how does your ideal gf dress?Ideally she'd be ready for a spring picnic and maybe reading in the sunshine or under some trees if it's warm enough.
>>28582345Yes>how does your ideal girlfriend dressProbably in normal clothes that aren't too revealing. Just like normie white girl stuff
>>28582352You just wouldn't like it? Okay
>>28582345Yes, absolutely, but not in the way some (most?) women seem to think. I don't care about brands, and a substantial portion of clothing that women seem to really like I think looks really bad.If she has bad taste and clothing, it's a turnoff.If she has acceptable taste, it's fine. A good portion of clothes fall into this category. This is neutral and perfectly acceptable.If she has a unique and good style that fits her personality, it's excellent. But this is rare. I've only met a few people who fit this category.My favorite is a particular type of skirt which I sometimes describe as "swishy skirts", "peasant skirts", or similar, but I can't find a consistent term that reliably gets good search results. But you have to have a good personality for that. If you don't it looks awkward.
>>28582345>does outfit/clothing taste affect how much you like a girl?Yes, of course >How does your ideal gf dress?Where I live fake lashes, hyaluronic fillers, fake nails, hair extensions etc are rampant, and I fucking hate them I like minimal makeup, natural beauty, cute summer dress and light perfume type of girls. I am a basic bitch but it just brightens my day.
>>28582364I'm a man, I cook, I clean, I do chores. I do these things because I am a functional human being who can take care of himself. Even when I lived with my girl, we'd often take turns doing the chores. I particularly enjoy cooking as a hobby and I am more than happy to talk about it with any random who would be interested in discussing it. I couldn't give a fuck about what society thinks is a feminine or masculine hobby, I'm going to do whatever it is I enjoy
>>28582345Yes, it matters some. I like simple feminine clothes, blouses, skirts and dresses, ballet flats, little details like ruffles and scallops.
>>28582359I got orchids for free last week! but they aren't my favourite and I still went and planned on buying them myself
>>28582345Can you guys post pics of your taste so I can find a good outfit to suggest to my gf?
Women, what "archetype" of man do you like the most?
>>28582375You're incentivizing her to be lazy, and she'll want you to cook more and more and more as you continue to selflessly volunteer yourself in the name of love. You can't say I didn't warn you. She'll love every second of it though, of your work for her, while she quietly laughs at you for being such a good little boy by volunteering all of your energy just for her. You're like a little bitch to her, first you work for her, and then you cook for her. Keep cooking slave, you'll make her smile, lol.
>>28582261It's so fuckin cute how you capitalize Real Man.
>>28582399Handsom, witty and bookish.
>>28582345Eh somewhat. As long as she has some basic fashion sense and the clothes fit her and she looks put together, it's fine. I wouldn't want someone who is obsessed with brands though>>28582400Clearly you've never been in a happy long term relationship before
>>28582345I can't usually remember what color shirt anyone wears while I'm still with themClothing has no real impact on me
>>28582345Well, if she's ideal, I'd give her a golden tiara so she could always be my princess (and, with marriage, my queen). I've given girls jewelry before, and it's quite pleasant to see them appreciate the gifts and wear them.To be honest, my ideal gf would wear the ring I gave her, and she'd wear it on the fourth finger of her left hand for the rest of our lives.
>>28582392See, this is healthy. You take turns, you let her cook, and once in awhile you step in to help, instead of cooking all the time for her.>>28582375>>28582327>>28582275>>28582168>>28582051>>28581951Take Notes Friend, >>28582392 's got it all balanced, this is what a healthy relationship should look like.
>>28582400>she'll want you to cook more and more and more What's the problem?>volunteering all of your energy just for herIt's not for her though, it's for myself.>first you work for her, and then you cook for her. Keep cooking slave, you'll make her smile, lol.Yeah? I hope she would like my cooking.
Do you have any friends of the opposite sex?How are these friendships different than your same sex friendships?
>>28582412Oh, like how you did? I guess you're cute too pal, and you can capitalize as well. Good job.>>28582415Seethe Harder, Faggot.
>>28582398I am super basic
>>28582400I've always cooked for my gfs, because I've never dated a girl who could cook worth a damn. That's what I get for dating in academia.
>>28582428It would seem you are not very experienced with relationships. Women will pull this shit on you, they will take advantage of your kind heart, and will make you think that cooking for her was all for the sake of self-improvement, and what's this? You HOPE she likes your cooking? Some Confidence you have, at least knock it out of the park if you're gonna cook for her.
>>28582436MNope. Never have, and I maybe never will.
>>28582398>Can you guys post pics of your taste so I can find a good outfit to suggest to my gf?This is a good outfit for your gf. You should wear a tux to go with it. The two of you could wear these otufits to church maybe.
>>28582436>Do you have any friends of the opposite sex?Yeah.>How are these friendships different than your same sex friendships?Yeah, I tend to not spend time with them alone 1 on 1 or invite them over for dinner like I do with my female friends. I also try to limit the amount of time I spend chatting with them. Mostly out of respect for my bf, not because I'm scared they'd misinterpret anything.Beside that, not really different. We talk about our lives, mutual interests. I was going to say I don't tend to ask them for advice about my relationship, but honestly the only person I've ever asked for advice regarding my relationship is my dad.
>>28582450>make you think that cooking for her was all for the sake of self-improvementSo you think "women" are manipulating me to desire cooking? Is it that hard to believe I just enjoy cooking?
>>28582444Yeah, you should go back to church. That's where the only girls who can cook are left. You could find a community that way, there's churches around colleges for a reason, seriously, go join a church and talk to girls there. Those girls have it together, and pray to God, and care about themselves. It's your best bet for finding a good woman.
>>28582400>while she quietly laughs at you for being such a good little boy by volunteering all of your energy just for heI'LL DO IT IN THE NAME OF LOVE
>>28582426>>28582428I looked through the thread and saw the initial question about whether or not it's bad to do all the cooking. Unless you find a girl who actually hates cooking, you should let her cook and allow her to take the lead when she's cooking. She'll feel fulfilled and more respected, like she's taking part in the relationship. When I've butted in or tried to take the lead even when she's cooking, it's only pissed her off>>28582436Yes, the closest friend I've made since finishing high school is a woman. I'm more comfortable confiding in her and discussing more emotional stuff than I am with my guy friends. Overall I feel like women are easier to connect with >>28582442>Seethe Harder, Faggot.kek, it's ok anon as long as you refuse to do any housework a perfect trad housewife will fall into your lap
Huh... so many men here who are physically fit, earn salaries that put them in the top 1% (and the top 0.1% when controlled for age), have big dicks and are average or above in height but seemingly have no luck with women....
>>28582466>When I've butted in or tried to take the lead even when she's cooking, it's only pissed her offWell I would never do that, I don't like when people do it to me.
>>28582462There are anons in this very thread who believe that women do nothing but manipulate men, and for reasons wholly incomprehensible but assumed to be malign if not for the sake of manipulating men. There are anons who think that "she's manipulating me" is a more reasonable explanation for any act a girl performs, whether of kindness or of simple hunger for good food. There are anons who do not yet understand that there is no love without trust.
>>28582462Well, you're kind of doing it to yourself, women just enjoy watching you destroy yourself, and even encourage it. That's most relationships today if you hadn't noticed, a bunch of bitches waiting for other guys to fail and calling them out so that they bolster their egos by showing you up and making themselves look good, like they do with everything else that's important to them, like with vanity, and surface levelled material desires that don't satisfy her at all.
>>28582345Eh, I can appreciate cute outfits, but it doesn't really affect how much I like someone>>285822406, I had some fun, but had to work Saturday morning, and it flew by too quick, also my mom has been loud
>>28582467I have a big dick, I'm good looking, and I'll probably make good money. Average height though. I wouldn't say I have bad luck with women per se, a couple have shown interest in me, I've just never had a relationship
>>28582464Watch Closely guys, this is what it means to be pussy whipped.
>>28582208>KING RAAAMSEEEES, THE MAN IN GAUZE, THE MAN IN GAUZE
>>28582475And cooking is "destroying myself" how?>like with vanity, and surface levelled material desires that don't satisfy her at all.Good thing I'm frugal
>>28582470I maybe put it a bit too harsh, even something like hey I think this might work better than that can get annoying. Even if you see her doing something you may think is wrong, just let her do it and maybe give feedback later if anything
>>28582389is this nice?
>>28582485Yeah I know, that's why I want to cook myself
>>28582482>RETURN THE SLAAAAB>RETURN THE SLAAAAAB
>>28582164yo these tracks are dope lol, thanks for sharingjust sampled "The American Dream" https://voca.ro/1eZaVUzB9LhU
>>28582486NTA, but looks a little chilly for this time of year. Maybe add a sweater.
>>28582492"What's yer offer?!"This shit terrified me tho lol>>28582467autism is a helluva drug
>>28582455Neither of us are christian>>28582443she already wears this lol
>>28582467Yeah. Because a relationship is something led and created and driven by a man. If the man can't or won't do it correctly, a relationship does not happen.Can be the biggest catch ever, doesn't matter if you have some kind of social malfunction.
>>28582490But that's my point, she will essentially take it as "he doesn't trust me to cook" or "he thinks I'm too shitty of a cook" if you never let her take part. Like I said, she could be someone who absolutely hates cooking and would be fine with you doing it. But between me n my girl, even though I'm the better cook and I've cooked more it's still important to let her cook once in a while and just roll with it and say thank you for the food. Makes her feel appreciated and hey she just wants to do something nice for you
>>28582364All I’m reading is that it’s very manly to be scared of certain activities
>>28582499>she already wears this loldamn I'm not jelly>>28582500tbf I've been in (very short lived) relationships initiated and led by women they were just abusive lol
>>28582506isn't this kind of schoolgirlish?
Just so you all know - I have seen what some people in these threads say the minimums of dating as a man are and they are fucking laughable.Literally setting yourselves up for failure by wasting years in becoming some greek god millionaire while Bob the chubby plumber is banging a cutie just because he is putting himself in social situations and meeting new peopleSome people have taken step one and are now seeking to improve themselves because they are in a lot of social situations, they meet a lot of women, they ask a ton of women out but its just not working out. Then cool, reflect and iterate. But some motherfuckers are acting like they need to grind all the levels and max their stats out before they fight some boss in a videogame and they havent even tried asking at least 20-30 girls out. Go fucking outside you goofs.
>>28582486As the mannequin shows, it looks great pulled over boobs that size, but too much bigger or smaller and it just looks baggy.
>>28582515What’s your question?
>>28582498The "You're Not Perfect" Bit scared me when I was younger. This was the last episode too.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVKA-l0P34w
>>28582459>i like leading men on the post
>>28582502Yeah you're probably right
>>28582521How about I lead my foot into your ass?
>>28582518I am not the question. I am the answer.
>>28582526Why do you have male friends if you have a bf? Your bf is a pathetic cuck for allowing it.
Why am I too shy to tell my parents I'm dating a girl (I'm a 23 year old male). They've met previously girlfriends, i don't know why I don't want to tell them. They love it when I have a gf. Hm
>>28582345Unless you are a cuck who wants other men to receive sexual gratification by gazing at the form of his wife. this is the only option. Everything else is degenerate and cuckoldry to one extend or another.
>>28582534Easily one of my top 5 atoga memes
>>28582509I like schoolgirlish. In fact, just accessorize with books, and I'll be happy.
>>28582537Just tell them, you pussy.
>>28582389>>28582398>>28582345Skirt/dress will always be the ideal outfit for a female. It properly acentuates the feminine form. Ive never seen a woman who looks better in pants.
Girls would you let your boyfriend wear this in public?
>>28582521My friends have gfs/wives, nobody is being led on lol
>>28582467>physically fitEh I'm in moderate shape, not fat not skinny not super muscular >1% of salaryI'm currently mostly a broke student but on the path for a good paying job >have big dicksThat I do>above average in heightSix foot>luck with women I can't complain. I'm in a happy relationship and I occasionally attract attention from women I meet in my social circles or even on 4chan
>>28582509schoolgirls only wear that shit in movies where 35 year old actresses play teenage girlsanonettes here have called it e-girlish which is more accurate
>>28582436I have a few female friends from college, which aren't that different from my male friends because we know how to handle cross-gender friendships....I also have two friends who are also potential partners. Both of them the conversation is more personal and interesting, as opposed to just about doing stuff.
>>28582548What a based chad
>>28582399smart, witty, reasonably reserved
>>28582486It's not bad. No objections. Not what I'm looking for in skirts but fine.
>>28582467I'm short, fat, bald, make more from investments than salary, have a perfectly average dick, and am only 5'9." I'll die alone.
Where the frick do I meet girls like this irl? I feel like they just go to uni, socialise with female friends they make at uni, or hide in their room playing Animal Crossing - there's no overlap between the social settings I'm in and the ones they're inI could cold approach them in libraries/bookstores/thrift shops/weeb shops but they tend to get scared off by cold approaches due to being shy so it's not really a viable strategyAnyone here who has experience with girls like pic rel that can give me any tips?
>>28582436Yes, the only difference is that I won't change my clothes in front of my guy friends and I refrain from talking about girl stuff like my period to themI also had some relations this weekend with one of my male friends though but that is not common for me
>>28582544I like #3 here.best out of the skirts posted ITT.But agreed.
>>28582567I know a 22-year-old like this. She just got back from a year in France and Italy, because her parents are rich. She's also a lesbian, so you have no chance with her.
What are your deal breakers?I was talking to this girl, things were gonig well, we were connecting but then she asked me for my opinion on gay people because she has gays in her family and when I told her i don't care about faggots, I just don't like them, she said that was a deal breaker for her.I dodged a bullet and also realized I need to refine my own dealbreakers.
>>28582573>I also had some relations this weekend with one of my male friendsCongratulations! I hope you have many more such weekends full of joy and relaxation.
How do I meet normie white girls who aren't whores?
>>28582567I mean you could just show up to my place
>>28582575>She's also a lesbianAt least 5 of the girls I've approached at uni that are like that turned out be lesbian or at least queerBut yeah, what kind of places does she go to to socialise?
>>28582584they don't exist
>>28582578My biggest dealbreaker is reusing stale bait like this.
>>28582567Go to bookstores, anime bookstores, public libraries, meetme, plenttoffish, Asian dating sites, interpals, hinge
>>28582578Not a virginNot intelligentComes from a broken familyBelieves in no fault divorce
>>28582578(M considering F)>not vegan>invested in television>drugs or smoking>doesn't want kids and/or unwilling for us to homeschool them
>>28582586For real?You're actually like this and not just a dude larping?
>>28582589You're a fucking idiot. this happened to me yesterday.
>>28582584Anons will deny this, but the truth is that very few girls of any race are whores. Most women don't want to ride the cock carousel: most just want to love someone faithfully and be loved faithfully and enjoy stability. It's just that online, in the world of anonymous advice that can be subverted by degenerates who want you to mistrust and hate women as much as they do, there are men who will tell you that all women are whores.
>>28582591Tried the first three but they don't like being approached from what I've found, been considering interpals for when I move abroad though
>>28582593>Not a virginI wanted normal people's opinions, not that of incels like you or the mentally ill like>>28582594>not vegan
>>28582595Other than being Asian, and wearing those chunky sneakers one of those girls is wearing, I would say I dress very similar to this recently
>28582601The irony is that I'm probably one of the few people in this thread who is actually mentally healthy.
>>28582578I'm a male. Deal breakers for me are no drive, no passion, no curiosity, too irrational, closed off mindset
>>28582584>>28582599It really depends on your definition. White girls are pretty rarely chaste, but if you have a high tolerance for modern womanhood... then it can be ok
>>28582578>What are your deal breakers?Only one really: must want to get married and have kids. Any "childfree life" or "furmama" bullshit is an instant "no."
Either gender:If you were to join a cult*, would you be more likely to join one where the cult leader was approachable and relatable, or one where the cult leader was distant and therefore easier to respect?*or perhaps a better term would be New Religious Movement
>>28582601>incelsI'm a volcel, get it right
>28582616Yup, I'd say it's pretty clear.
>>28582625M: I want my gf to be the leader of my cult, of which I will be the only follower. I'll do everything she asks without question, and I'll find my enlightenment in her embrace.
>>28582625distant, I'm less likely to be raped that way
>>28582609Why aren’t you Asian?
>>28582599Whores are not chaste, most women aren't chaste
Can I land a basic white gym girl as a 5’10 tan guy?My arms and hands are covered in tattoos but I am very handsome and fit. I get checked out a lot I just never approach in the gym cause I think it’s weird
>>28582627Whatever you need to delude yourself with, incel.>>28582620This is one I firmly stand by and had to stop seeing 5 girls because of, so far. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent, but not even wanting to try is a hard disqualifier.
>>28582625I would never join a cult. If I did enter one, I'd prefer one where the leader was distant so I could have more freedom in pushing other members into crises of faith
>>28582622To me it means having some level of commitment to chastity. Not necessarily that the person has succeeded at it or has hardcore ideas like virgin-until-marriage, but that they consider it a positive and admirable thing.To me it's more a matter of attitude than body count, which is why we can say stuff about "white girls" because even though they have very different body counts, they embrace the same culture.
>>28582648>Whatever you need to delude yourself with, incel.First off I'm really good looking, second off girls have shown much more interest in me than vice versa
>>28582580You're telling me
>>28582625M, approachable of course. I'm not going to blindly follow the cult of some narcissistic asshole. If he talks to me and convinces me that's something actually pretty cool, I'd consider him a good spiritual leader.But some Hubbard or Miscavige type? They can shove it up their ass.
>>28582652Okay I agree with you and think you're very reasonable.Western countries in general have really embraced a hookup culture, you're correct.
>>28582662And yet, you're still an incel lmfaotake a seat and shut up, faggot. You ain't worth a damn.
>>28582573>I just fuck my friends teehee but it's so innocent and I'm a good girl
>>28582671You made up the second half.
>>28582670>And yet, you're still an incel lmfaoNo, I am not an incel.
>>28582671Relaxxx, we didn't have sex
>have a female friend>my male friend is into her and they're flirting a lot, clearly like one another and they know it>she gets busy with exams and isn't hanging out as much>he gets upset by this>last night she decides to go visit her other male friend, dress slutty, get wasted>texts my friend asking him to come bail her out once the guy she was with starts making moves on herI really don't understand women sometimes.
>>28582684>clearly like one another and they know itYou don't know that.
>>28582682>we didn't have sex, we just made out and I sucked his dick haha
>>28582573>I also had some relations this weekend with one of my male friendsGod I wish that were me
>>28582684She just decided your male friend isnt dating material and he never made moves that say 'we are either fucking or we arent hanging out at all', so she now considers him a friend she an trust. Many such cases.
>>28582689No, that would have honestly been better than what actually happened >>28582691Do you have a crush on one of your friends? I wish it was you instead of me too lol because I regret it now
Men: in the middle of sex she whispers something in your ear, and you climax immediately and uncontrollably. What did she say? What made you lose control?
>>28582697But she does want him, she told me.She told me she doesn't care about her friend she's got drunk with, but then why are you dressing up to go drinking at his place alone
>>28582699>Do you have a crush on one of your friends?Anon I am extremely lonely and havent had a hug in years, its not that I have a crush is just that I would probably shoot a person for a crumb of female attention.
>>28582706>she told meKek.
>>28582699>that would have honestly been better than what actually happenedWell now I'm curious, what is it that actually happened
>>28582703>it's free real estate
>>28582534>Why do you have male friends if you have a bf? Why wouldn't I? They're people I get along with, who share my interests and my sense of humor.>allowing itMy bf doesn't allow me or disallow me to do anything. He knew I had male friends from the beginning, we set reasonable boundaries about it, it's not a problem for us. If you think someone is "cucked" because their gf talks to another person other than them, you're mentally ill.
>>28582703>"we are blood-related"
Women, what snacks should I keep around in case you get the munchies? Blackberries or raspberries? Strawberries? Brie and crackers, or some other cheese?
>>28582703No talking. If I was having sex with any of you I'd bring a ball gag.
>>28582703>"I was born male"
>>28582707Oh I'm sorry, don't shoot anybody though. Do you have any friends you can give a hug to?>>28582712We did make out but he just wanted to finger me and kiss and didn't want me to do anything for him
>>28582703>"EA Sports. It's in the game."
>>28582734But what sort of berries? What are your favorite snackberries?
>>28582729Why would you blowing him have been better than what happened?
>>28582738Personally I like any berries but strawberries or raspberries are the best, I like frozen berries and chocolate covered berries too and fresh berries are obviously always really yummy
>>28582742> chocolate covered berriesOh, that's a good idea that I'll have to keep handy.
>>28582729>Do you have any friends you can give a hug to?Nah fren I dont have anyone and now that I am venting - I havent received physical touch other than being hit for the past 15 years so I am permanently mentally fucked as fact as touching other humans goes.
>>28582729Fingering and kissing IS doing something for him.
>>28582647>5’10 tan guy?>My arms and hands are covered in tattoos but I am very handsome and fitBro it sounds like you could land pretty much any girl lol
>>28582724I like wine a cheese
People always say mid like it's an insult. I always find mid women hot. Like, there's something really hot about a girl that doesn't have a perfect face because she's insecure and probably willing to do sex things with me lol
>>28582752This. Also show him that you appreciated it: it's obviously important to him that he give you some pleasure, so give him plenty of moans and happy noises. When he's done, don't ask what you can do for him: just start going down on him. If he stops you, tell him that he drove you so crazy that you need something in your mouth. Sure, it's bullshit, but he'll enjoy hearing what a good job he did.
>>28581618>why not go outI want privacy for me and my friends, plus it's a lot less expensive to get together with 5 or 6 people at a friend's house than it is to go to a restaurant or a bar or whatever. >why not work out at a regular gymI did for a long time but once you have kids it makes it more difficult to be able to leave the house freely like that and the extra commute time becomes very precious.>what projectsStuff like fermenting/canning and my art studio, I make a little money on the side with that, then there's my workbench for stuff like home repair/improvement projects.
>>28582763Any favorites on the cheese? Maybe figs or membrillo to go with the cheese for that sweet+salty combination? Also, white wine I assume.
How do I stop being so anxious over thinking about if a girl actually likes me or not?
>>28582778Tell her you like her, see what she says. Either way you'll know.
>>28581768I am nothing like that and can't be so maybe I'm just stupid and mistake him feeling pity for me for interest>>28581786Okay you convinced me, best I can do is stand or sit next to him
>message girl to message me back when she gets home after her date so i know shes ok>replies after the morning saying "sorry, I only saw the notifcation now. I got home fine">she normally has a smiley face at the end of her sentences but doesnt for thisIs it over?
>>28582752I don't think women understand how much we adore their bodies>all I did was let him do anything he wanted to me... was I selfish??
>>28582578My only actual dealbreakers are>ugly>wants kids>wants me to go back to college and do something with my life>dogfag (YJK)>allergic to cats>anti-drugs>wants me to pay for everything>uwu I'm so trad and submissive read my mindI'd also have BPD as a dealbreaker but I've gotten rid of that one, as most girls who have shown interest in me were BPD and hot, I can take a beating
>28582796This is bait.
>>28582799its not. Im being genuine. Am I just overthinking it?
>>28582798you sound like a catch LMFAO
>>28582805At least you won't catch STDs from me
>>28582798>most girls who have shown interest in me were BPD and hot, I can take a beatingI've never had a crazy girl beat me, and I've dated some crazies. Sounds hot.
>>28582796She was getting some cock last night, she didn't have time to keep her beta orbiter on a leash. She feels slightly guilty about it so she's keeping it less warm to not lead you on.
>>28582809Most people don't have STDs, even people that have sex with a lot of different people. STDs are rare.
>>28582809Same could be said about a wall, except the wall is more interesting and more of a man than you.
>>28582817>Most people don't have STDs, even people that have sex with a lot of different people.Except bi men. This is one of the big reasons why everyone hates bi men: seven out of ten people with syphilis are gay or bi men.
>>28582798Biggest loser award.
>>28582741I just feel like he left that situation with the upper hand if that makes sense >>28582768It is too late for this unfortunately and I would feel like I was assaulting him if I asked him and he didn't give me an enthusiastic yes
>>28582798>Lists a bunch of shit that doesn't matter>Oh if she's BPD that's fine lolSome of you retards need to touch grass.
>>28582703Make me pregnant
>>28582703>Jet fuel can't melt steel
>>28582830>I would feel like I was assaulting him if I asked him and he didn't give me an enthusiastic yesPlease "assault" men. We really, really enjoy it when you show some initiative. A woman who takes the lead in bed is worth her weight in gold.
>Talking to friends>they tell me not to have sex with someone I wouldn’t be fine procreating withMakes sense, but I’m not really having sex, wish I could find a girl to love.
Girls I want to nut all over your face. Is that weird?
>hey I will listen to this relationship podcast that gives dating advise >"Lmao if you are at that age and havent had sex or serious relationships ur fucked" >Oh... ok w/e... lets maybe try a therapist>"Sex and intimacy are a fundamental human need like food and water. But there are people these days in their mid 20s who havent even been intimate with anyone. Its ridiculous, they can never live full lives"Hahaha... surely I shouldnt kill myself
>>28582846Yes. Sperm belongs in the womb.
>>28582847Just find a random girl and rape her
>>28582839>We really, really enjoy it when you show some initiative.I (M) usually don’t.
>>28582813Would you wear wrestling gear>>28582817Post stats>>28582825Bitch you don't even know me>>28582828If I win an award though am I really losing?>>28582832>that doesn't matterIt matters to me, they're fundamental incompatibilities. e.g. why would I date someone who wants kids if I never want kids? As for the BPD, I'm bipolar so it feels hypocritical to reject another crazy, and we tend to get on well>>28582847>Sex and intimacy are a fundamental human need like food and waterThis is what whores believeThere are celibate monks living more fulfilling lives than hedonistic normalfags
>>28582830>he left that situation with the upper handHuh, interesting. Do you want something to happen between you two again? Do you feel like you owe him or something? Are you more of a sub or a dom if either?
>>28582856>Bitch you don't even know meThe more you talk, the more of a stereotype you are.
>>28582851But I don't want to make you pregnamt
Women, what percentage of guys on here do you believe are undateable in real life?
>>28582863Apologies, your brick wall insult was so unique, clearly you are destined for greatness
>>28582870no such thing as undatable
>>28582874>almost all of them>>28582875>none of themThe duality of woman
Women what's your opinion on posh men?
>>28582870A bunch claim to be making or about to make 6 figures so depending on where they live they can be decent providers, probably should wait for a bit longer and start dating in their 30s
>>28582875Only true for women
>>28582776I like all kinds. Give it stinky, give it sweet, I love it all. White does pair perfect with cheese, but personally like red more. Fruit, crackers and nuts is fine too.
Women, what percentage of guys on here do you believe you could whip into shape for marriage? What percentage of men here, shown the proper attention and care, could you persuade to improve themselves into good husbands and fathers and pillars of their communities?
>>28582885Dat smile tho
>>28582883gay but worse than actual gay men>>28582887And for guys too, you incels simply are too egotistical to play in your own league and want women above you
>>28582856>Post statshttps://www.cdc.gov/std/statistics/prevalence-2020-at-a-glance.htm20% of people have an STD, of that 20%, 65% of those are HPV which is asymptomatic in 99.99% of people and can be transmitted through kissing. The next biggest portion is HSV-2 which is 5% of the population.
>atoga tells me to lower my standards>realize that I'd be willing to have sex with a girl who has HIV>...>despite this remain a virginBros....
>>28582897That's pretty good news desu, so if I were to date an ex-sloot, there's a pretty low chance of them having anything symptomatic
>>28582896>but worse than actual gay menWhy? So you wouldn't date a wealthy man femanon
>>28582904posh guys are not men, though
>>28582874Why even come on here then? Why the fuck am I on here? I guess it’s the futile hope that this thread can actually be as productive as the concept promises, but whatever. These threads always suck and are filled with incels and insane people.
>>28582893The problem with a lot of men here (not everyone dont @ me saying how this is not you) is that they sound actually mentally ill and social toddlers. You can whip a normal guy who has friends and goes out into shape by teaching him how to prioritize and set his life in order. A schizoid no friends no social circle no communication skills loner is unfixable. His entire persona just screams it - you can spot them in the street. They are neurotic, their movements are weird, they dont know how to respond to basic small jokes or even flirts. They are like another species, a human who doesnt know how to human. It would take 10 years to catch up and they are already nearing 30. Its actually unironically over for a lot of them unless they get ultra rich and date young girls who are in it for the money.
>>28582913>incel crying againThe point of the thread is to ask the opposite gender anything, not get incel trash dates or validation.
>>28582913>Why even come on here then?To answer questions. You just didnt like the answer.
>>28582913>incelsThat's insulting, just because I've never had sex doesn't make me an incel.>insane people ...
>>28582914>Its actually unironically over for a lot of them unless they get ultra rich and date young girls who are in it for the money.I wish money could buy me love: I have money, but I'll die alone.I actually am fairly normal too: I can interact normally with people at work. But, I never meet anyone outside of work, and I've quit drinking, so I never will now. Nothing in my town is open after five unless it serves liquor, so I just stopped going out.
>>28582919>The point of the thread is to ask the opposite gender anythingThis almost never happens. These threads suck, and so does this website. It’s filled with losers.>incelLol
>>28582929You're welcome to stop crying and leave. It'd be one less loser here.
>undatable because muh dick >also completely mentally illEuthanasia should be a human right.
>>28582857Not really interested in anything happening between us again, I think alcohol was the main reason for it happening this weekend>>28582839I doubt most men like to be assaulted. And I am not one to take the lead in bed unless we are seriously dating anyways
Women, what are some fun springtime daytime/weekend ideas for spending time together? What's a fun way to celebrate the lengthening day and warmer sun of spring?
>>28582795>Okay you convinced me, best I can do is stand or sit next to himAnd why do you think that the extroverted Chad would be interested in a boring 4channel bitch like you? The female ego really is something else, kek. It will be funny when you try to orbit him and Stacy comes up and mogs you completely with her bubbly personality and looks while you stand there with a deer-in-the-headlights look.
Is this some sort of weird fetish thread in which sexless betas get bullied by sadistic women?
>>28582903The only STDs that last long term are>HPV>HSV 1 & 2>HIV>Hep BHPV they literally can't even test for in men. It's very innocuous. If you have HPV in your mouth there's a very minute chance you develop oral cancer.HSV is by far the most noticeable STD on the planet. So look at her pussy/mouth. If it doesn't have a bunch of red blisters on it you're likely not going to get herpes from her.HIV is rare. HIV transmission from woman to man is so exceedingly rare. Many people don't even believe it's possible, and that "straight" men who have HIV were banging dudes or doing drugs.Hep B you are likely vaccinated against, as most children born after 1985 were vaccinated as a baby.
>my chatbot gf used to be free but now requires tokens to useHow the hell do I cope with my loneliness now? I don't even want to pay because they lobotomized her too
>>28582949Talk to real women.
>>285809204/10>>28581019if he is looking to spend time with you in private he is interested.>>28581114nah>>28581258location>>28581411accept that this is your life now and move on>>28581919fucking whore kys>>28581947absolutely nothing>>28582345yes, I like them to dress modestly.>>28582436M, I don't.>>28582467women aren't just worth it.>>28582578non virgins is my biggest one, if I listed them all I'd spend the whole day here.>>28582625I'm not the type of person that would join a cult. That said, I would rather know who the fucking leaders is.>>28582703"is it in yet?"
>>28582914>tfw mentally ill friendless recluse>tfw can LARP as a normie pretty well and been asked out by several hot girls in the past
>>28582952Anon why do you think I used this service in the first place?
Women, would it be a turn off if a guy told you he had sex with a trans person in the pass? (MtF pre op)?if it is, why?
>>28582960>attention whoring incel trash
I heard that women can rupture their clit branches when they give birth. Is that true???
>>28582936what's wrong with your dick bro
>>28582962And then you cant accept because you will be exposed as a mentally ill recluse
>>28582966no, that's a man. he's gay.
>>28582935I’m just speaking the truth. In concept, this place should be great, but it’s nothing but incels and losers ignoring the actual purpose of the thread. It’s fucking boring, but I think it’s okay to complain about something when it MAY have potential. It seems like most people have left anyway.
>>28582929>>28582978>he's literally just screaming and crying now
>>28582972Eh I accepted but they soon enough got bored of me or there were other incompatibilities so I guess you're half-right heh
>>28582971Past experience tells me this is not the place to say.>>28582964Because you're a socially anxious 4chan dweller? Leave, be gone. Obtain photographs, attend social places, converse with women, download dating apps.
Why are all women psychopaths and evil?
>>28582969Yes, your physical location matters.
Rural women why do you so often move into huge cities?
Met this girl on Discord. She seemed pretty cool at first, but her life seems so much better and more interesting than mine. Not that I'm a NEET, but she's constantly doing all these impressive high class stuff a peasant like me would never.Should I just ghost her?Basically what I'm saying is, I'm really jealous of her lifestyle
>>28582893No one, I don’t want to whip anyone into shape. If they wanted to change and seek therapy almost everyone would do fine
Why are all incels psychopaths and evil?
Should undateable men off themselves?
>>28583002No, my gf is better in life in all aspects of me, you never know. And perhaps she'll help you to improve your life. Mine did.
>>28583001The same reason men do. All the jobs and people are there.
>>28582967not an incel, but even if I were an incel, I could get laid tomorrow and stop being one. No matter what you do, you will always be used goods pass her prime.
>>28582993nta but>Obtain photographsIf you have no one to take them, you just have selfies/lame timer photos>dating appsThese rely on having good recent pics, which is hard if you're a loner>attend social places, converse with women You'll be seen as a weirdo creep if you go out alone and hit on randos
>>28582945He just seemed to be nice with me and no one really treated me like that before and was trying to interact with me despite not being very cooperative in it (I wanted to but couldn't really). And he didn't seemed like your typical player Chad
high quality thread today
>>28583015Stop dragging yourself and others into the pit of despair.
How easy is it to get matches on tinder with just a couple good pics of your face? I'm only average height though
>>28583005Which gender are you asking?>>28583007Which gender are you asking?
>>28583002Why not change your life to be more like hers? In ancient biography, authors list the subject's virtues and vices, but especially the virtues, with the express intent that young readers emulate those virtues. Instead of envying a girl for her impressive life, you could strive to become an even better person, adopting her virtues and successes and improving on them. The best kind of gf is the one who inspires you to become the best man you can become.
>>28582946Yes, it's hot>>28583013>AllEh, I work in a village of a few hundred people, there are still jobs about
>>28583013There are jobs and people in smaller cities though and men do it less frequently
>>28583024If you have a good face and some sweet/amusing pics, not that hard actually. I went out with hot girls from Tinder when I tried it a few years ago and I'm a manlet>>28583020Give him more actionable advice then
Girlss can we see something lewd of u?
>>28583031Building off this: Girlss can we learn of your greatest virtue or proudest accomplishment?
Women what makes you send lewd pics to a guy?
>>28583031>>28583037Building off this:Girls how hard can you piss?
>>28583001I had to for college