No /atoga/ in the catalog.
just let it die already
Girls, my bpd ex gf is begging me to come back and that she would do anything because all the guys she has been with have ugly dicks and told me that I have the best looking dick ever.Is it going to be worth the hell that awaits me again.What should I fucking do.
>>28576250How old are both of u
>>28576256Im 26 shes 22.Im just so lonely.
Men, what kind of tatoos do you like on a girl?
>>28576234Why do you faggots keep having these threads? Seriously? The ratio of men vs females here is fucking laughable. I’ll check in on these threads from time to time, and whenever there is a “poll”, there are like seven “M” replies then one “F”. Embarrassing, snd you don’t even fucking know if that’s an actual woman or notI’m sure there were females in these threads before, but I’m pretty damn certain the autism of the desperate mongoloids who spam these threads have driven them off already. Let it die and fuck off
>>28576258Why are you so dumb for 26
Women, how do you like being approached by a handsome stranger? Cite favorite time it happened to you thanks
>>28576239>>28576267Just don't post here if you don't want to, there are dozens of other threads on this board and dozens of other boards on this site. >>28576250It's not worth it. You should block her on everything and move on with your life.
>>28576272While we're doing an activity together, by making conversation on whatever we're both doing. I don't like random cold approaches, I've never responded positively to guys who walked up to me randomly no matter how they looked.
M or FHave you ever been outside without underwear?
Maybe my testerone took a fucking hit now that i'm over 30 but nowadays I just feel like having sex maybe three times a week? Sex is nice, its just the nutting part I guess. Like everything is amazing, I love the process but the actual part where I nut just feels fucking mechanical. Like even jacking off when my wife is gone kinda just feels like a chore.Like honestly I'm just like enjoying playing with her tits or something when she is playing a vidya game or grabbing her ass in the kitchen. Like, you know just showing affection and shit that stuff is nice. Blowing my load just feels like all the other times I've blown my load and I'd rather just make my wife feel appreciated then shoot the goo more then 4 times a week now. I don't think this is a good thing maybe I need to cut back on the alcohol (12-14 beers a week at this point, most of those consumed on the weekends when she is asleep). Maybe also I'm tired? I've been pulling 50+ hour work weeks bros so sometimes I get home and just wanna jam fighting games and go the fuck to bed.How do you think this would affect the relationship dynamic? I'm thinking it might be a negative but I don't know.
>>28576302F. Yes, briefly to throw the trash or sitting in the car.
I love women!
>>28576263None if made by someone else, a womb tattoo would be hot if she made it herself
>>28576302MOnce I showed a girl how much i loved her that i would get on my knees for her in my underwear in the snow and take a picture of it.I have neighbours with kids now so
Can any femanon give me her opinion on my situation? Here's the thread: >>28575878
I've always wondered if groping boobs from a muscle chick feels different. That said, women, if a guy just comes up to you to offer a dinner date in exchange for a grope how do would you react to the interaction? Or am I setting up myself for a punch in the face?
why do i have a fetish for a woman abusing me
Is it wrong to want a gf with big boobs?
>>28576322M here but that is essentially what you are always asking when inquiring a female to a dinner date. But I'd get the feeling this particular is meant to farm fetish points, no judgement though. I get it bro.For success I wouldn't ask in that particular way, I'd just ask for dinner dates unless you really know the chick well enough. For unsuccess and to get shit on socially and maybe physically beat I would ask per yer verbatim.
>>28576333Its just a desired trait. No use in getting into a relationship with someone who doesn't satisfy your needs. Can't control what you desire.
How can i go from socially awkward to charming and likeably?
>>28576250>Is it going to be worth the hell that awaits me again.>the hell that awaits meFuck. No. Run far, far away.
>>28576333No, nothing wrong with that. It's normal to be shallow at times.
Guy who wears sports team t-shirts despite not caring about sports at all.
>>28576347Stop caring about what people think of you.
>>28576337Well to be blunt I don't think I'll be wifing a muscle chick. I just don't think our lives would be compatable. So to just ask for a dinner date means she can pull out after the dinner is over and poof curiousity not fufilled.
she just did the cutest thing that made me wanna fuck her bros
>>28576357Whats so bad about this?
>>28576234How do I deal with loneliness?
>>28576272I'm not single but have been for a long time and really regardless of relationship status, approaches like these work out best when they are casual. Don't spring a whole show and dance upon someone, but make yourself known to them as a cool and maybe kind of funny person who is curious about them and likes their vibe. It is flattering for someone to be into you, especially when it feels like it's not just your looks/figure/face but your person. Yes a lot of people might be kind of in a hurry or in a different headspace or taken or whatever. That doesn't matter. What matters is taking your cue for when to leave. If she avoids eye contact or gets out her phone, gives short answers, doesn't ask questions in turn, wish her a nice day and carry on. Save all your energy for girls who give you something to work with, whether that's smiles and active listening, or telling you about themselves and what they like. If you really like someone and want to bond with them, it greatly helps to go some place together. Even if it's just accompanying each other to the spot where only one of you need to be and parting there. Don't go on tangents about your beliefs or your life. Work in snippets in comments, anecdotes and jokes. Work your best angle. If you're (for example) not a funny guy, don't try to be, just work on being good company in different ways. Don't overanalyze how a single girl responded to you, look for patterns between experiences with different women if you want feedback from your experience.
>>28576372Like you're doing it right now. Humans are social creatures. You're litterally socializing right now.
What's your gender and favorite cartoon character?
>>285763834chan is parasocial, doesn't really count.
What can I think about to get over my ex gf?I think about her all the time still, which is normal since it has only been 2 days but I can’t stop thinking about her.
>>28576386Marnold or Timmy turner
>>28576386M but gender is way too broad to link to a favorite cartoon. Daffy Duck would be mine. That old timely humor you don't get with modern cartoons. Yes I am old.
Women what's stopping you from dressing like this?
straight women what do you like about men?
>>28576319If I read your story correctly, it's basically:>break up with ex>kiss new girl>kiss with ex>months pass>meet up and get together with new girlIf that's the case, I honestly think you did nothing wrong. There is no point in telling your gf if you ask me because she might get hurt over the idea, it could disrupt her narrative about how your relationship started. But it's not like you slipped in some action with your ex. It's good to take a step back and look at your morality sometimes, but in this situation I really do think you should give yourself a break and not beat yourself up over it.
GirlsIs it a dealbreaker if I fuck your dog?
>>28576395I like you.
>>28576388I honestly disagree but either way there's strength in being able to just be by yourself and enjoy it. Go outside and just enjoy sunlight. There's a reason why 'touch grass' is a thing.
>>28576386MTT's Robin version
>>28576389F. Dale Gribble.
>>28576303As long as you still really enjoy the overall experience of sex, I wouldn't worry about your relationship being affected.That said, if you still feel like your lessened libido and/or "standard" orgasm intensity detract significantly from your experience of sex, that's still very much valid. If you haven't yet, I would read up on kegels for men and experiment with that before doing anything else. Plus if you are on medication (esp antidepressants) that's going to impact things.
Do girls like this irl? or is it not real
>>28576367I don't know. That's me.
>>28576407It's parasocial in that people are usually just shouting into the void and don't expect a response from a specific person.
>>28576415Some of it is even common, some just appeals to weeb fantasy and wouldn't even work in real life
>>28576372by not dealing with it ?why even ask that question ? instead ask why are you alone ?or why you feel lonely ?
Women, what would you think if you discovered your bf is the owner of the oldest anarchy server in minecraft?
>>28576404God if you're going to troll at least put some effort into your post. I guess successful troll since you got me to respond.Get lost
>>28576421>some just appeals to weeb fantasy and wouldn't even work in real lifeits not FAIR
>>28576402The way they look, smell, feel. Dick. The way they act around me. Their sense of humor, strength, intelligence, curiosity. How much they care for you. The vulnerability and childlike traits that come out once they're comfy with you.
>>28576263I hate all tattoos on girls. If you got tattoos, you're telling everyone around you that your IQ is barely above 80 and that men should only use you for sex.
>>28576263Hidden underboob ones
>>28576435This is why I like women. Except the dick, I mean.
>>28576402Their playfulness. Many women are extremely funny, but as a gender I feel humor is somehow not taken as seriously by women as by men, like it's more just ingrained in everything and less celebrated and honed. I love how you take up space, kind of set your own mood, in a comfortable setting. Like whistling, tapping/drumming fingers, that kind of stuff.I am also really attracted to the more 'rugged' aspects of sex with a man (the weight he has on you, his strength and maybe aggression, body hair, deep voices, sweat) and their tenderness, like when they get flustered or stare at you all awestruck, their sensuality, their sweetness. Of course it's not always like that. But what attracts me very much in men is that discrepancy. Also penises. Pussy is awesome, but there is something so hot and graphic about how visual male arousal is, how there's no hiding or faking it.And happy trails. Yeah. Those are the best.
>>28576435>The way they act around meHow do they act?
>>28576433To be more specific, this thought popped up when I read "will watch anime with you". Seriously, if that appeals to you so much you're a massive loser.There's much to like in a woman and your interactions with her, watching chinese cartoons is fucking cringe, just grow out of it already.
>>28576425cringe but redpilled homestucker
>>28576448Protective, a little possessive at times, caring, helpful, romantic, physically affectionate.
>>28576402Their big, bulging, lickable veins.
>>28576447God I love women
>>28576389I think for the very first period, a lot of people just lose themselves in movies or something to sort of distract or numb themselves. There is only so much you can do to hasten the process, but it helps if you make (positive) changes in your life. It offers distraction, makes the past feel further away and reinforces self respect.
>>28576263I don't. I've got tattoos btw, I just don't like them on women.
The perfect woman doesn't exi-
>>28576454Wait, you LIKE that?
>>28576447>And happy trailsWomen like this? I always shave mine cuz i think it looks gross
>>28576263All of em>>28576267OK nerd>>28576302Yes>>28576325What was your mother like?>>28576333No>>28576357Why>>28576365Who>>28576372Shitposting
>>28576463I love it.
Women why do you make choices that make both men and women unhappy?
>>28576263I love bad ass tattoos. No stupid shit like butterflies but flames or skulls or some shit like that. But over excessive tattoos are overkill. Like entire face tatted is overkill but I wouldn't mind a small tattoo on the say cheek or neck.
>>28576465I love it. Granted I love body hair in general, but the happy trail specifically just looks so promising because it leads to the pubes/crotch. It's not called happy trail or treasure trail for nothing.
>>28576386I blame her for my taste in women
>>28576471I'm very happy, I don't know what you're talking about.
Tell us your genderDoes the amount of sex you have correlate with the amount of happiness/ satisfaction you have in life ?
>>28576463nta but yes, it’s both attractive and flattering for a man to decide you’re worth protecting.
>>28576463NTA; they do. Ultimate truth pill is that women like being treated right, you just have to be a non-faggot for it to work.
>Shave pubes>Occasionally tip of my dick touches the spiky hairs and i writhe in pain for a secondDo women even know this pain?
>>28576386Male 24I have too many favourite cartoon charactersBut I'd say guts from berserk is among the best there is
>>28576479F. Kinda. It correlates with the time I spend with my bf, which correlates with my happiness.
>>28576479How is my virgin ass supposed to answer this
>>28576415minus the swearing/insulting because i don't, i swear to god that's me but most people said this is annoying when it was posted before
women would you date a guy that likes to sit on the floor?
does a man lose his attractiveness if you noticed he is insecure always try to conceal shit but they end up getting surfaced
>>28576497chairs are overrated https://youtu.be/qqW6Dfct6jQ
>>28576383What type of stuff should I talk about here in order to socialize?
>>28576495Its an acquired taste probably. Teasing girls are the best, especially when you know its not malicious and from a place of love. No i have not watched nagatoro
>>28576494"Do you need sexual fulfilment in order to be happy?"
>>28576497I'm currently sitting on the floor between my bf's legs, so ye.
>>28576501>beep boop musicbased
>>28576505Maybe you should talk about your genitals Or your favourite anime Or what kinks you haveJust kidding I suck at socializingDon't take my advice
>>28576402they're really really funny, i love when they're possessive/clingy the absolute most and i love when they just bring masculine energy into my life. i also like how they're bigger than me. but i also i love when they're possessive. i love when they own me. did i mention i love it when a man is possessive and protective?
>>28576514good taste https://youtu.be/eU-UsvYbIV0
>>28576479M no because I don’t really have sex at all.I have in the past, I wasn’t very happy then, I’m more happy now.
>>28576479F Not when it was meaningless one night flings.
Women, what would you think if you found out your main-sequence star bf has recently started fusing heavy elements in his core?
>>28576505Well... how was your day?
how can i become desirable to women?
>>28576527Kick him to the curb and start orbiting a blue super-giant
>>28576513Tell him a loser on 4chan says hi!
>>28576530I'm a natty guard dude at drill rn. Day's about to end and it was pretty uneventful. I'm probably gonna fuck around with more AI art generation once I'm released
Straight guys, what do you like about women?
>>28576543Appearance wise, they make my dick hard. Everything else, some of them are nice human beings.
>>28576403thank you femanon!
>>28576543When they cosplay as my waifu
>>28576513How can you relax like that? Isn’t he… poking you? Not with his hands.
>>28576541If we were doing this face to face, you'd probably want to ask me the same so there wasn't an awkward silence.What does that entail?
>>28576543when their pretty lips move
>>28576543Tits and ass, very VERY few have tolerable personalities. All their behaviours are relatively the same.
>>28576543I love how kind and caring most of them are. I like when they offer hugs if i seem stressed. I like when they rest their head on my shoulder. I like when they laugh at my stupid jokes. I like how hypnotizing their bodies and faces are
>>28576543Most I know IRL are really sweet and helpful, they can be funny and just a laugh to hang out with, they can be very smart and good at multitasking, and ofc boobs
>be me>gets close to a girl at work>we exchange numbers>she gets fired>usually I don't shit where I eat at, so this is a good opportunity for me to move to phase 2>text her if she would like to hang out sometime this week>she says sure, but during the middle of the week she cancels>okay, never asks why, moves on to the next girl>FFW to today, at the mall>sees same girl shopping around, she's happy to see me>ask her why she had to cancel, she said she didn't want me to pay and she found a new job, blah blah blah>ask her again when she wants to hang out, says this coming Tuesday>I say okayI'm kinda skeptical of this girl guys. If she truly wanted to hang out, why didn't she call me and ask first? I like her by the way and I'm sure she likes me too. This is our first time hanging out so where should I take her? Ideally something not too expensive, like the movies? I got a car so distance isn't a issue.>TL;DR Taking a girl out, need a place to bring her to by Tuesday
>>28576543I'm gonna get some shit for this probably but how comparatively weak they are.
>>28576543I can't even put it into words, they just have a beautiful aura around them
>>28576543I love how they smell, I love how they laugh when I talk to them, I love their beautiful hair, I love how dainty they are, I love how beautiful their faces are, how elegant their bodies are, I love how perfect their skin is, I love how they walk, I love how they love to be picked up by the man they love, I love how much they appreciate Romantic gestures, I love how they get dressed up and their make up done the best they can and come out looking stunningly beautiful, I love how I get to teach them about my traditionally male hobbies like shooting guns and guide how they do it and they are genuinely interested in the hobby and learning how to do it because I am, I love their maternal instincts to comfort me when I am sad, I love how they come up with names for our future children when they are still children themselves and they hold onto them for so many years.I really love women so much.
>>28576564>>28576565Literally how and where, most women I have met were cold hearted bitches
>Option 1: Extend my degree by a year, and likely get a great gpa>Option 2: Don't extend my degree and finish faster, but risk failing courses due to the stressWhat do you think? I'm 24 so i'd like to finish this degree fast and start a career. But if i extend by a year, i'll likely get much better grades.
>>28576564>>I like when they offer hugs if i seem stressed.We do that cause we know you guys like boobs. Or at least I do.
>>28576575>Literally how and whereAt work, in school when I used to be at school, and when I had a social life... most girls are super nice to me. Guys on the other hand...>>28576580Extend, slow and steady wins the race>t. 24yo dropout
>>28576575Idk man, i've never had a a gf, but i never seem to have trouble making platonic female friends. They're all really nice to me
>>28576580I'd take the extra year. What's the hurry?
>>28576556No, why would he? Lol
>>28576587They see you as a dickless man.
>>28576580Most jobs don't ask for grades. All the software jobs I did interviews with I was only asked for my grades from Dreamworks (yes the one that made Shrek) and some random survey company in Santa Monica.
>>28576581>They know we can feel their boobs during hugsoh god oh fuck
>>28576581Thank you for your service.
>>28576558How about you?There, was that good? Let that other guy said, talking online isn't quite the same as socializing in person. You don't follow the same social etiquette.
>>28576599I... Well, yeh, I just assumed that's why you like it. Is that bad?
>>28576525embrace single life for nowtry to resolve those insecurities and try again simple as
>>28576592Nah, i know thats not true lol. They seem to have a lot of faith in me for some weird reason. I don't think any of them realise im a KHHV yet desu
>>28576584>>28576587OK, i have to be more precise, as long as you are ok with just staying platonic friends, they can be okBut as soon as you they you want to have a gf they become cold hearted bitches Just from my experience: ghosting, visually making out with other dudes and so on
>>28576611If they liked you, they would have fucked you, retard.
>>28576606Well i mean, hugs from skinny flat girls are nice too. But id be lying if i said boobs aren't a plus. The softness is absolutely heavenly. I wouldn't say thats the only reason i like it though
>>28576505One fucked up thing I enjoy watching but I know is fucked up is fast food drive thru 'fire in the hole'. Its where you order a small drink then someone in the car yells 'Fire in the hole!' and the driver throws the drink back at the server and drives off. It triggers a great conversation and you get to immediately have an idea what the person is like with morals and humor.
Remember men, she'll never love you more than she loves her 10 inch black piece of silicone
>>28576609I've been embracing single life for the majority of my lifeGotta admit I am not sure I even want a relationshipFirst thing I think about is the toxic shit, breaking up and all this bs drama Maybe I should talk to my therapist about it, but my therapist is female and sometimes I feel like she doesn't take my concerns seriously
>>28576619I don't really want to fuck them either, honestly. None of them are my type. But friends are cool bro
>>28576619Yeah, because women always make the first move, sure buddy, sure
Is it so wrong to use makeup? I'm a woman who naturally has a long-ish face and close-set eyes (heavily male features), I kinda need to wear mascara at least if I want to look feminine.Also, I'm not really interested to date so it's not like I'll "fool" anyone with makeup, I just want to feel feminine. I can't feel that way without makeup bc I'll just look manly without any.
>>28576581Then why do you hug your female friends?
>>28576628Dildos don't hug you after orgasm
>>28576639No it’s fine.
>>28576620tfw very dense breasts that aren't very soft
>>28576639There's nothing wrong with wearing make up. If you like yourself better that way, go ahead.
>>28576637Haha, you laugh but I might actually have to. I'm not prepared.
>>28576639For me I just hate when its taking so long to get ready. But I appreciate the end result.
>>28576628I've never even had a dildo, that's what my bf is for.
>>28576639Nope. Ignore the incels screaming about how makeup is "fraud in a bottle" lmao
Girls, what are the reasons for deleting all of you IG pics and not posting face on any platform? My gf doesn't even respond to my snaps with her face
>>28576641I don't actually have any female friends.
>>28576584>>28576588>What's the hurry?I just feel so behind in life. People i went to highschool with graduated the year i started. I'll be pushing 30 by the time i'm done, and i'll have barely done anything with my life
>>28576642Men don't give orgasms
>>28576661Insecurity, privacy concerns.
Home remedies for stomach ache?
>>28576654You probably shouldn't because it will ruin your relationship with your bf
>>28576663I graduated from uni at 28. I'm doing a-ok right now.
I'm probably going to be late for a date, what do I do?
>>28576645>that aren't very softDoubt. There's no way un-soft boobs exist lol
>>28576670Why would it? My bf makes me come more than any piece of plastic could.
>>28576682Not trying to convince you just saying there does exist dildos that feel exactly like the texture of a dick
>>28576663As more time passes, that difference will matter less.
Women, would you put on black, red or purple lipstick and then cover your bf's body in lipstick marks?
>>28576691Why would I get a knock off dick when I can have the real thing? Lol
>>28576662Hmm. Maybe they can tell you give sexual hugs and they're weirded out.
>>28576663Your high school years were turbofucked by Covid, nobody will blame you for taking a little extra time
>>28576699When he's not in the mood and you are
>>28576695If he asks me to, sure. Seems innocent enough.
>>28576414Thankyou thankyou I appreciate your resonse.I actually haven't done kegels in a few years so I will get back it!
>>28576679Well they don't feel soft to me. They don't jiggle like liquid like other girls
Do women fantasize about sex with men? or just lesbian porn?
>>28576587I'm the same way lmao, think they see me as the gay friend desu
>>28576700I was just gonna say... Giving out hugs freely, especially if you have big boobies, could seem slutty.
>>28576703>implying he's ever not in the moodCute.
>>28576611Relatable >>28576639No I love makeup>>28576663>People i went to highschool withLiterally who gives a shit about them lool just live your own life Also way more to life than school (I don't intend to get a degree myself)
>>28576591Because he has your cute ass in his lap? It's not like it's voluntary, haha
Asked a girl for drinks, although didn't insist that it would be a date -- practically I said nothing, just invited. She brought up a female friend, who was fine and somewhat chill, we spoke up a bit, I felt that the attention was switched to the friend instead. What I found funny is that friend made several hints and remarks like "why don't you come to his place", and so on. To me, it sounded a bit like a mockery -- clear sign she's not interested. I said nothing and pretended to ignore.Am I reading this right that that was just a waste of time?
>>28576714>>28576700Can confirm, my friend group seethed at girls who hugged a lot, since it seemed like "cheating" to just squish your boobs against guys.>>28576711Both.
>>28576711A lot. I don't find the idea of sex with women appealing at all.
>>28576631yeah i also get attached , and have abandonment fears , always expect the worst , as if my instinct telling me to not trust , so i basically leave at first phases or just avoid so I've been doing the same too anon woman actually don't want that , they in substance , seek a sense of safety , something that an insecure man cant provide
>>28576708I'm sure they're fine, anon. A little firmness isn't a bad thing either>>28576685bolted on boobs don't count lol
>>28576720nta but are you 12?No, seriously.
>>28576720He doesn't, I'm on the floor and he's on the couch. He also coomed twice in the last 10 hours so unlikely.
>>28576717I'm a 39 dude and I still have a high sex drive but there are days I'm just not in the mood. We're human too, we have limits.
>>28576708Probably won't get saggy as quickly.
>>28576735Sucks for your SO, I guess.
>>28576735>we have limitsIdk oxford's bf seems like gigachad
women is it annoying if your bf grabs your boob/ass all the time?
>>28576748No, it's cute.
Wait in America do you not get foxes running about the roads and pillaging rubbish bins at night?
>>28576727>only a 12 year old gets hard from direct contact with female asswhat?
>>28576748Boob grabs all the time can get annoying and expected, yeh.
>>28576730Ahh okay. Yeah, that's a good position for hanging out together without being consumed by lewd thoughts.
>>28576748No, unless I'm trying to focus on something>>28576751Some areas have foxes, others have raccoons or bears
>>28576727Yeah I'm 1212 inches deep in your mom
>>28576751Foxes like to stay away from people. It's more raccoons.
>>28576751>rubbish binsYou're delightful, anon.
>>28576762>others have raccoons or bearsThat sounds wicked, don't think I've ever seen a wild one IRL(I've seen cougars tho if you get me)>>28576765>Foxes like to stay away from peoplerelatable
>>28576771What do you bloody call them then? "Garbage cans" lol? Cute
>>28576748>BoobsYes, they're sensitive and don't feel good unless I'm already turned on>AssI have a big ass so I can barely feel it, go ahead lmao
>>28576724YikesMaybe I should tell her thatI never felt like talking about my misogynistic thoughts I have from time to time with her
I've given up not only on women, but people in general.No one wants to be my friend, no one wants to have sex with me, and you know what? Thats fine. I dont want to hurt anyone nor do I want to make a fool of myself trying to be someone I'm not.Right now I just want to finish writing the book I always wanted to write so that I can kill myself later this year without the regret of never writing it (it is not a manifesto or anything, just a fantasy tale I came up with when I was a child).I actively avoid women irl now because I know they dont want me, but I still have this primal desire to talk to them which I'm trying to repress at all costs.I just wonder what you femanons think of my case.
>>28576543physically : everything basically mentally : decency and some fucking IQ , the more smart the more i like
>>28576788Relatable but don't kms, take the Salingerpill if you must and write more books
>>28576788maybe more people will want to ha e sex with you n be your friend once your book comes outyou can use ai illustrations~
>>28576788Are you an extreme extrovert or something? You kill yourself just because of a lack of social contacts? I can't relate, sorry.
>>28576793>and write more booksfor what? Making money which I dont need (assuming anyone will buy my shitty book)?
>>28576543They're really pretty and sexyThey can be so vulnerable and yet so fierceThey're (usually) nice and kind.They're fascinating, with such a different thought process and way of looking at the world around them.
>>28576788Also moid here but this definitely sounds like anxious avoidance. I don't know your story ofc but I would wager people don't universally dislike you as much as you think, and that you have potential, you're just reclusive as a defence mechanism. You can give yourself enough time and healing to move through or at least make peace with this>>28576799It's not about money it's about expression and contribution, at least for me with my work
Fall for a socially retarded and autistic girl. Anyone here who knows how to deal with them or fits the category and know how she would like to be approached?
Would doggy (or prone) with an upward curved pp feel good?
>>28576798>extreme extroverthell no. I wish I was able to have conversations.
I met a group of girls, girl A, girl B and girl C.Girl A was really hot, but Girl B had a more interesting and fun personality + she looked good too. Girl C was not my type, they were all architect students.I ask Girl A if Girl B had a boyfriend, which she did. Now I botched my chances with Girl A since she will think she was the second choice.Is it still possible to get girl A, I got their Instagram and girl C was a spinning instructor I will join their session next week (as friends)
>>28576786>I have a big ass so I can barely feel itAnd this is why ass is inferior to boobs. It's just fat and nothing more.
What is the proper way to adjust a bra in public? Mine shifts around sometimes and then I think everyone's looking at me.
>>28576811>tldr I'm a fucking faggot and want to have anal sex with BBC
>>28576787its not misogyny for me i like women , well, good quality ones anyways. you probably should , never cared to talk to therapist desu , dont want any college libtardfag to tell me how to live , but i think sense she is a female maybe she can give you some insight , could help you have better thoughts or should i say accurate ones rather then your own head
What is a fetish you would never ever participate in?
>>28576823F. Many, but anything that involves other people is a huge no in my book.
State genderThoughts on scat fetish?
who else just started their period #periodgang #syncedup
>>28576823M things related with shit (piss sounds good and hot)
>>28576816You should be wearing a proper fitting bra that doesn't need adjustment in the first place. Otherwise, all you can do is try and adjust it quickly to minimize the awkwardness. Do as much as you can by just tugging on the strap instead of reaching your entire hand down your top.
>>28576828nta but what about roleplaying where you tell your bf shit like "your dick is so pathetic. Thats why I'm BBC only"?
>>28576830Yo! #periodgang #syncedup
My wife knows I write milf erotica. I just haven't released any of it online because I'm afraid it will push her to read it.I do send her what I write I just think we are so busy she never reads it. I'm just like uhhh... Afraid the push to make it public for will entice her to actually look at it. I'm just super self conscious what she thinks bro. Should I just keep it all to myself?
>>28576816Jump up and down until your bra jostles into a more comfortable position
>>28576833any brands you would recommend? uniqlo cut their mame kurogouchi line before i could buy the plunging bra in black and i hate what skims does to my armpits
Women, thoughts on handjobs?
>>28576816It sounds like you need a better fit, your bandsize is probably wrong.
>>28576843can you pls elaborate why?
>>28576841no, creativity is the only escape from the zero sum gamemake and share content no matter what
>>28576823>>28576823Cuckolding. I think its perfectly fine to be selfish and horde your lovers sex life to yourself. Especially if that was set early on in the relationship.It my eyes it would be the same as cheating and I would end the relationship. Of course it goes both ways.
>>28576844For me, it's Panache.
>>28576838hell yeah i knew orbiting these threads would kickstart my cycle #suffertogether #swingingbetweendisgustedandhorny
>>28576845I love them, even more than blowjobs. My hands are tiny, so dicks look monstrously huge when I hold them. I'm salivating just thinking about it.
>>28576830No but Osaka is a mood>>28576829>BADABADABA BEEEEE BA BA DADUPDUP-
Girls, do you ever just absentmindedly start playing with a boob or two like a stress ball?
>>28576853>Panache.the side support plunging is beautiful, it looks just like my favorite dream angels bra (which also was discontinued years ago)
is it rude to pretend you don't hear questions you don't want to think about
>>28576864Discontinued bras are a tragedy ;_;But yeah, I've gotten a loooot of good ones from that brand.
>>28576862no but i'll grab my pussy at night
>>28576858>I'm salivating just thinking about it.Does this have something to do with the /atoga/ being on their periods again?
>>28576853>>28576864>bras for D+ womenOk tittymonsters, no need to rub it in
>>28576850>Make and share content no matter whatOk i'll try releasing my current story after i'm done with its re-write maybe.Kinda on a different line of thought but I dunno sometimes when I write this milf stuff I feel guilty. Nothing out of it is ever bad or morally bankrupt it just feels disrespectful to the woman that loves me but I also know she is fine with it.I dunno mang.
>>28576628ive never had a dildo i think those are really weird + i'm a virgin
>>28576862>like a stress ballAt home, yeah. I also like to press a finger into them until it disappears, or move my hands up and down on my tummy to hit the undersides of my boobs and make them dance.
>Gender>Do you consider LA to be a shithole or not
>>28576872What? D+ isn't THAT big.
>>28576858>My hands are tiny, so dicks look monstrously huge when I hold them.As a man, we like this too
>>28576882MI'm not American so I don't give a monkey's uncleSeem to be a lot of wannabe-influencer twats there though
>>28576878Dr. Perky, faggot.
>>28576882LA is beautiful, it is just the people living there that suck.
>>28576882F. Yeah, I visited a few times and really disliked it.
>>28576865kek>>28576868ikr, plus clothing quality has gone down so much dramatically in the past 3 years it's insane. i'm a shallow d so i hope the smaller sizes will still fit, i love that they cover the entire boob instead of letting it all spill out (makes my armpits look fat as fuck)
>>28576882MNever been there but sounds cool
>>28576882Same as the other anon. Not American, but California in general is mega cringe
>>28576862When I'm at home and just watching TV with no bra, yeah.
>>28576883Tell that to all the chestlets that post ITT.
Oh no. I sent a selfie to my gf but my lips are chapped in it and look gross. She called me handsome and didn't say anything. Do you think she noticed? Is she going to dump me now?
Women, do you like skinny forearms too?
>>28576250>>28576352I had one bpd girl in my life, had crazy sex when I was just 17, she was moaning like a porn starbut the rest was just unbearableI didnt even know what bpd was back then, but I wrote her a letter and blocked her everywhere
>>28576869Like the squishy mound?
>>28576878Mountain lion for dat sigma enduranceDr. Perky for a sexy Saturday night
>>28576882yes and it's kind of unfair because i have never been or even investigated, i don't have a single fact or figure or reference i just make disgust micro expressions when i am reminded of the place for no reason but gossipinshallah i will take better care of my prejudices>>28576873i thinki think earnestly written milf erotica is a higher good to society than whatever neuroticism that is you're wrestling with
>>28576862I like to snap my top and watch them jiggle, I guess
>>28576901simple, increase hormone intake
Why are women almost always bed wenches to the types of men that anger them the most?
>>28576882MYes and I live here
>>28576869would you cosplay as asuka ?
>>28576883They're handful-sized. To many of us, that's way bigger than we'll ever get.>>28576904Yes, I can see the muscles flex more easily.
>>28576908yeah, i have a fat mons pubis and on cold nights it's perfect for warming up my ghastly low circulation witch fingers. either that or ill make prayer hands and stick them through my thighs like a fetus praying to god
>>28576921I'm too self conscious to cosplay anything tight.
i broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months yesterday. i broke his heart, we talked for 4 hours agreed to cut all contact and then said goodbye.This morning he sent me a long message where he said sorry for small things that he really shouldnt say sorry for. He let me off way too easy, i'm the bad guy but he doesnt see it. Do i answer his message? if so, do i just accept his apologies?
>>28576821idkmaybeshe is quite young, thougharound 30, and at least 8 / 10 on the attractiveness scale
>>28576882MYes. Full of drug addicts, pedos, homelessness, whores, vapid wasteful hollywood parasites. Most degenerate place on earth.
>>28576924Hot I love fat mons pubis.Wish I could squeeze it with you.
>>28576930You agreed, then he chickened out. Don't reward his behavior. Don't reply. Stay broken up.
>>28576901Are there any left? I thought our flatties were all bullied into submission?
Do you think its cringe that i speak kindly/politely to chatgpt? My brother made fun of me for it
women, if your bf was talking shit about you to his friends, would you like to know or would you rather live in ignorance?
Are boobs weapons?
>>28576930You should respond and say it's fine but it's best to cut all contact.
>>28576930>>cut off all contact.He's probably just trying to make you feel guilty. It's what I would do.
>>28576946No, I'm very nice to robots and always thank them for doing things for me.
>>28576938Hungry hungry skeleton>Stomach bulgeThat's usually caused by bad posture or genetics in skinny people.
>>28576946i think you are doing the right thing
>>28576844What do bras have to do with your armpits?
>>28576951well, back when I still had a porn folder on my hard drive i had a porn movie where the actress used her plastic tits as weapons to beat up a dudeshit was hilarious
>>28576862yeah. but only under my sweater. I dont know if anyone notices, i tend to do it without thinking.
>>28576946He'll stop laughing when skynet takes over and kills him first for abusing AIs
>>28576958>bad posture or geneticsboth kek currently curled up in my bubblegum pink gaming racer chair XR(also growing up fat with a slouch)
>>28576930decide on what you want and hold boundaries there?idk if you keep talking you'll probably end up in bed w/him
>>28576869heh same. i have to wear pyjamas every night to make myself stop.
>>28576963I will if I ever do that one, anon.
>>28576967shitty fitting bras will push boob fat up into the armpits, which is why when shopping for bras make sure to recognize the sites where all of the fucking models have their arms up/away from the body.
>>28576938You think you're too fat, really? I see hip bones.
>>28576938Wowies, you'd look great with black hands around your tummy.
>>28576988Stop simping for that landwhale.
>>28576985case in point (yes i own several skims bras yes they all make my armpits look fat, yes they are super comfortable)who the fuck poses like this when theyre wearing a bra
>>28576967Think of it as the opposite of cleavage. If boobs squish towards your arms, they get stuck in your armpits, which feels horribly awkward.
>>28576983very much appreciateduhm, how do people stay in contact on 4chan, anyway ?
I still need help with >>28576675
>>28576988people can be fat and bony it's called skinnyfat>>28576993exactly, thank you anon
Men, what job does your dream woman have?
>>28577006send them a notice
>>28577006just communicate with her realistically, don't make up an excuse or lie about it. women hate cowards. own your mistakes.
>>28577006just tell them and apologize?
>>28576901as a titcow can we stop with the boob fighting already holy FUCK stop pitting women against each other
>>28576985>>28576998Lmao I never noticed this before, but you're totally right... ok, they fit like this, but what about when my arms get tired??
>>28577009Preschool teacher that makes her go baby crazy, and wants to quit to be a full time stay at home mom.
>>28577022>as a millionaire, can we stop fighting over money?
Men do you want your wife to stay at home?Women, do you want to be a stay at home mom?
>>28577009the woman i'm looking for is a dj/promoter and fortune teller i think
>>28577009My dream woman is a customer service rep at a paper company.
I just dumped this girl I was seeing for three months. Ex is in college and mentioned a weird interaction with her professod and asked if she could borrow a textbook. Professor said he'd have to think about it, then emailed her later and said she'd have to come his office around 6:30 to talk about the book. Ex said that she felt that he was eyeballing her constantly and felt like he was sexually attracted to her. Then she said "There's also a non-zero chance of me doing that to get an A".We got into this argument on Wednesday and then we got into it again today. I focused on the "non-zero" part and felt like she said "My professor and I could fuck if I wanted us to" which didn't feel good to hear?? My Ex was upset that I was focused on that part and not the part about her professor wanting to sleep with her. Am I focusing on the wrong thing here? Am I overreacting to what she said about sleeping with her professor?
>>28577032stop this, we all know that men would prefer skinny women over a fat girl with big tits any day of the week
>>28577033When we have children, yes. I'd rather she stayed at home. I can afford to support her.
>>28577033>Men do you want your wife to stay at home?Yes once she is pregnant until all our kids are either 18 or late teens not sure exactly.
>>28576823M, in addition to the usual poop/blood/fur I would never do orgasm control. No wench decides when I cum.
>>28577022this. boobs are boobs.
>>28577042What about a skinny woman with big tits?
>>28577033>Women, do you want to be a stay at home mom?If it's an option, sure. I love my job still.
>>28577055those rarely exist unless it's fake
>>28577033i want my wife to run a home schooling pod with my children and my best friends' children learning and making money togethersome kind of child business school
>>28577033>Women, do you want to be a stay at home mom?yes but society would never allow it due to dual income being necessary in the shitty modern era. thanks feminists for making corporations realize that they can double the workforce and halve the pay under the guise of equality
>>28577055I kinda sorta fit that. I get ashamed of the bra coming off cause they're kinda saggy.
>>28577048what do you expect her to do after that?
>>28577075>a woman that gets itAre you single?Also if you live frugally you can still do it with a good paying job that isn’t impossible to get.
>>28577063Wise words again, Buddha.
>>28577042>brings up this point>dead fucking silence, crickets each time
State genitals.State what the best pizza chain is.
>>28577088Well I wouldn’t expect her to do anything is she doesn’t want to, but if she wants to start her own business I would support her, or if she was interested in starting a company with me that would be great, I do have a dream about opening up a mom and pop Electrical company with my future wife owning it while I work under her and help her run it.It would also be more successful than if I owned it because it would be a minority owned business since it is a woman owned business, and we’d get priority bids and other benefits.
men, would you marry an aspiring artist/painter?
I was hanging out with a hot zoomer girl last night (we weren't dating, she was just with some mutual friends) and it blackpilled the fuck out of me. Literally just on tinder and texts the whole night juggling which guy she was gonna go back and fuck >One guy says something that even remotely puts her off>"Lol, he could have gotten his dick sucked tonight">swipes on 5 guys on tinder, 4 matches, just trolls most of them and joking about how they're losers, like TO THEM, not just to us behind the scenesabsolutely soulless.
>>28576234Should I go right for a kiss the next time I see the girl that I kissed at the end of our third date earlier this week? She was clearly into it because she kissed me a second time right after. Or should I give her a peck on the cheek with a hug?
would you buy a wide collection of toys for your sexual pleasure?
>>28576910thankyou, I appreciate that
>>28577135No, seems wasteful.
>>28577115Yeah definitely. I like creative women. Artist gf is only second to musician gf
Mdo you like spiritual artsy women?Fdo you like spiritual artsy men?
we all know about eating pineapple and drinking fruit juice to make your cum taste better. But is that safe, health wise? Like if i make it a habit eating and drinking sweet stuff, would i get diabetes or some shit?
>>28577115Only if you make porn
WomenHow does having the ability to cause boners make you feel?
>>28577158powerful. but still only second to the feeling of creating life!
>>28577042women will never understand men lol
>>28577150I love bohemian women!!!
Why am I so incompatible with women?
>>28577115Yes, I love when a woman has dreams like that.>>28577150>do you like spiritual artsy women?I like “artsy” women who aren’t childish and pretentious, but I’m very analytical and skeptical with religion. I definitely believe in God and higher spiritual planes, but most the shit that is taught is deception.
women do you like horny men?
would you marry an aspiring pornstar?
>>28577026Whoever designs those adverts is a based armpit fetishist
>>28577167nono, we get it clearly. men hate thick/chubby/fat women, we know, we're told this 24/7, even if the fat women have the qualities men beg for (big tits) it won't matter
>>28577038I have to assume she was kidding. That stuff just doesn’t happen anymore.
>>28577078Yeah but you can do the “titty drop” thing where you slowly lift up your shirt while braless
>>28577191this must be bait
>>28577124>a peck on the cheek with a hugThis at the absolute minimum, but go for a real kiss if you’re feeling it.
>>28577158Powerful and threatened.
>>28577078As long as they are plump and not like deflated like pancakes I don’t care at all.It can even be extremely hot.
>>28577196have you never seen how much men here absolutely shit on fat women or? fat women are always seen as a men's last option/he has to settle out of desperation
>>28577156I can assure you that adding more fruit to your diet is never a bad idea
>>28577183No. I don’t like yapping dogs either.
>>28577200Thick/chubby != fat
>>28577115I would if I enjoyed her art. I imagine she'd be putting her blood sweat and tears into it so I'd have to appreciate what she makes.
>>28577177Are you using the correct cables?
>>28577150>do you like spiritual artsy men?No. I'm not very artsy myself and I tend to prefer guys similar to me.
>>28577183yes, horny men make me horny. the porn i like i only like because men like it .
>>28577078What's your bra size?
>>28577183yes. i love hornyposters!
>>28577203>Men = dogs
>>28577150F. I don’t know, since I’ve never encountered a man who’s genuinely spiritual or artsy. It’s always for monetary gain, or just faked to impress me.
>>28577221No, dogs follow orders.
>>28577239Just search Titty drop
>>28577200I can assure you, I, as a handsome and successful guy, would not only fuck a woman who looks like sexycreolyta4u. I’d marry her too. It’s all about proportions. If you’re a woman who’s 50% bodyfat, you can make me drool.
>>28577239>Wait, what?I think it’s fairly self-explanatory? While wearing a loose shirt and no bra, slowly lift the shirt until your boobs fall out the bottom. There’s an entire genre of porn around that moment.
>>28577235>when you have impostor syndrome so bad that you doubt the motivations of others
>>28577239Crap. Do you get backaches?
>>28577141Based coomer, have funMeanwhile it's only 10pm here and I'm exhausted and going to sleep. I feel like an old man ffs. What a life lol. Goodnight faggots~
>>28577239>she’s here again
>>28577252All the time. I'm trying to get a reduction but it's expensive.
>>28577253Goodnight euros. We’ll take it from here.
>>28577262NTA, but swimming every day pretty much fixed it for me.
>>28577262Pls don’t do that, :( you can do back exercises to get a muscular back and get rid of the pain, by doing different types of row lifts.You’d never be able to breastfeed if you got a reduction.
>>28577270>>28577271Thanks, guys, I'll consider just exercising more. Didn't know that about the breastfeeding.
men, how early in a relationship would you like to have kids?
>>28577271Breastfeeding is possible depending on how the surgery was performed.
m or fhow many kids would you like?
>>28577297I'm selfish and i want to keep my wife to myself for as long as possible
>>28577297If I am financially ready to when we get married maybe 2 years in, enough time to enjoy just being partners without having being parents take up our time together.
>>28577302F. As someone who had to share with 5 siblings, I’d just want one kid to spoil rotten.
>>28577302M4 maybe even more if she wants to.
>>28577310No one's gonna like that kid as they get older.
>>28577302F. 2 or 3 sounds lovely. My bf had a lot of siblings, I was an only child.
>>28577302M Ideally 1 boy, 1 girl.
>>28577310do you think it's wrong to have that many kids? could your parents have done anything differently in raising you?
>>28577332Are you guys Catholics or something?
>>28577322Maybe. >>28577339Depends on how much resources you have. My parents were stretched too thin to really care for us all.
>>28577358Some religions don't like birth control.
>>28577381We count on fucking more than a handful of times, 2-3 kids isn't much lol
>be me>30M>have several female friends>All of them are horrified by our age and are starting to drink more and moreHow do I make them chill out about it? Some of them are in relationships, some of them arent, but any time anything age-related is mentioned they get super anxious.
>>28577387To be honest, it's because they're female and starting to realize that physical beauty is fleeting.
How are these threads so dead? Did the last 4 women leave 4chan?
>>28577387Embrace it. Let them feel it, let them fear it. Soon we will be nothing forever, they should be anxious
>>28577412Jannies and incel posting killed it
>>28577412It's about as active as it has always been. It gets more visits at time but this feels fairly standard.
>>28577414I have no other community, man, I need to shitpost here, its my last tether to other humans
>>28577412I can’t explain why, it’s against the rules
>>28576263Literally none. Even if she's doing it to conceal a scar.
>>28577302Female. At least 3 and up to 5. I come from a small family of small families. I think having a bigger family would be nice.
>>28577434I don't want to shitpost, I want to talk.
>>28576263The moment I see cool tattoos I know this girl is probably way too confident and cool for me so I steer away.
>>28577302M, as many as God gives us. Hopefully that's a large number.
>>28577444Natural birth? Five times?
>>28577452Hopefully natural, yes. Why not?
>>28577412There was an exodus of regulars to /soc/, and a crackdown on the early thread shenanigans that dominated atoga last year.
>>28577033>Women, do you want to be a stay at home mom?I don't want to be a mother but I stay at home and do whatever I want. My husband has a masculine mindset so he likes to provide and take care of me without being gay about it.
>>28577456Seems uncomfortable. The whole pregnancy thing, I mean.
Ladies, what do you think of polo shirts on men
>>28577302MZero, I am not creating additional resource leeches for my hard-earned money lmao
>>28577457>exodusYou can post in two threads at once, you know?>>28577462They’re very good, especially with the sleeves rolled up and one button unbuttoned.
>>28577462Good if you are attractive bad if you are unattractive :^)
>>28577467>sleeves rolled upWdym?Like long sleeve polos rolled up or short sleeve polo sleeves rolled up?
>>28577472Either, as long as I get to see your forearms.
>>28577474You mean my biceps?You can see my forearms with shirt sleeve polos 100% of the time.
>>28577302F, atleast 1, otherwise however many we can comfortably support financially
>>28577462My bf wears them a ton and I think he looks great in them, but they fit his style.
whyyy? whyy am i almost 25 and never had a girl interested in me (since elementary school)??? Why did i fail?
Women, do you like hypermasculine men?
>>28577467>You can post in two threads at once, you know?A lot of them are over there bitching about this thread and not wanting to come back.
All my girlfriend wears is long dresses with very small flower patterns. It looks like something the Wolf would wear when pretending to be Red Ridinghood's grandma. How do I tell her that I want her to dress in a cuter way? Not necessarily trendy, but just like. idk. cute tshirt tucked into belt. very slight crop top? she's beautiful in anything but i dunno man.i also wish she'd wear a tshirt with undies for bed, but that's very wisfhul thinking i guess
>>28577486Maybe there have been girls interested in you and you just didn't notice.
Any other horny poster worried that you'll eventually slip up and ask or say something weird outside of this thread?
>>28577495If that's what she likes and feels comfortable in, don't stress her about it. Maybe tell her once or twice "I think you'd look great in (outfit)" if you see something you like while shopping, but keep it simple.
>>28577514I do, I send her pics too, and every time she tells me I have horrible taste.
>>28577486If you're saying you never had a gf at 25, I think you're trolling.
>>28577512Not really. I don't do unprompted hornyposting and replying to other makes it easy to keep track of what thread you're in.
>>28577498I'd love to believe that, but i sincerely doubt>>28577521Yes
>>28577486Because you are either too lazy to ask enough girls out or are completely repulsive in appearance, personality or both.
>>28577528As someone who has had gfs there have been many many women who I only realized years later that they were interested in me.It isn’t that easy to tell.
>>28577487Probably not. Sounds like incel on steroids
>>28577412incels literally killed the general, people saying "its the weekend" are stupid because this place has been dead for a good bit now but unironically it was the incels.why do they even come here if they're just going to shut down women that don't agree with the pinion they tried to force on us or call us trans or fat?the moderation here is poor, because incels here can ruin the general but sure let's ban the people using anime reaction pics instead, let's keep the people that post rulebreaker's face every thread
>>28577302Male. Three would be ideal, all within 5 years.
>>28577545>Sounds like incel on steroidsWhat? Why? Do you think a guy like Rocky Marciano or Travis Kelce are incels on steroids? I’m talking irrespective of personality here, but, fuck, your mind goes straight to the worst lol
>>28577519Then let her be. If you asked and she says no, then it is what it is.
State gender. Are you a virgin?
State gender How hard do you fish for angles for dating profile images?
>>28577561I agree but there is also a feminist that comes around to instigate it too.
>>28577615F. I don't have dating apps but I always try to look my best in pics.
>>28577461That's life though. Pain and discomfort are signals we've got something important to tend to. >>28577609Female. No
It's flirting if a girl sends a selfie with a towel wrapped around her after a shower, right?
>>28577615That's not just angles, it's lighting and she probably used a filter to smooth her thighs in the left pic.
>>28577615MNot at all. I think its basically lying. Just post the first picture you take without trying to use lighting, angles, posing and w/e the fuck else to make your body look better. Just be honest.
>>28576263None. They're cringe and lower class. They look horrible on everyone.
>your gender>you're at an open bar; what's your drink order?
>>28577662F. Gin and tonic.
>>28577641obviously.(warning: some girls flirt for validation and not necessarily because they want to date/fuck you, and other girls flirt with multiple men at once)
>>28576386M, I don't watch cartoons, but since someone else already said a Homestuck character I liked Rose and Roxy best.
What are your thoughts on refrigerator bodies? Would a girl like this look better with small, teardrop breast implants?
>>28577662MHighball with a nice single malt scotch but I’m not picky.
>>28577495You can just ask her "what do you think about [clothing]? I bet you'd look great". It's honest and low-pressure.
>>28577671It’s completely fine I still find them attractive if they have a pretty face and brighten my day.I don’t like breast implants.
>>28577671Absolutely not. I love that kind of girl and it breaks my heart when they wreck their bodies with plastic shit and tats.
>>28577492That's probably because when you get banned here, that's the only place you can post, so naturally it attracts weirdos who can't follow the rules.
>>28577671I literally do not give a fuck about a girl's body past the prerequisites that she is not fat or missing body parts.
>>28577662FZero-sugar Sprite please.>>28577671That's exactly my type. Maybe it doesn't look great in pictures, but it's mesmerizing in motion.
>>28576479MNo. I was depressed as heck when I was with my last girlfriends, and now I'm happier and alone. But it's not negatively correlated either- I'm not happier *because* I'm alone, I'm happier because I made changes to my life and grew up a bit. Partially caused by the breakup, but unrelated.
Men, how far would you compromise with girls you would seriously date in terms of their bodies? Would you date pic related (burns)?
Question for FIf you walk by your male neighbors window and he glances at you for half a second before getting back to his business, is that "creepy?"
>>28577696That's gross but if I loved her and she talk off her clothes to reveal it, I would still love her. It'd be a deal breaker if I knew right away, though.
>>28577696If I met her and fell in love with her, then yes I’d absolutely date her.
>>28576543Their appearance, their hair and how long it (usually) is and that I can braid it (I can braid mine too but it's nice to braid someone else's hair), their softness (personality-wise, but also physically), their emotionalism (although the lack thereof is also attractive sometimes too), their clothing choices, their personalities, their submissiveness, their physical weakness, their protectability...
>>28577706Over here on the other side of the border we call it "water"
>>28577683is that why i haven't seen jh itt lately?about time.
>>28577696I am so lonely I dont even care anymore, I just need a sweet and loving girl so we can spend time and confide in one-another. I am starting to not even care about sex, I just dont want to go to my cold apartment all on my own day after day
>>28577696That'd probably be a deal breaker for me, I'm sorry to say.As to more generic stuff... my type is slim, tall, olive complexion, dark hair. I'd go for a healthy, average height, pale, light-haired girl. And I've seriously dated a fat girl before.I think that's the key to understanding it too. We all have types we're weirdly drawn to. But the heart can override the coomer within. Really sometimes it can be bad for you to get with a girl you're TOO hot for. Makes you do silly things.
>>28577678But she always tells me my taste is horrible
>>28576639I just find it unappealing in 99%+ of cases. Mascara has no value to me whatsoever. Although at least it's not that noticeable, unlike lipstick or nail polish or whatever you call it that makes your face look all pockmarked, which have no redeeming value whatsoever.I don't think I'd want to date someone who intentionally takes time out of their schedule in order to make themselves look worse, personally.
>>28577698No, not at all.
>>28577727Nta but she’s right if your suggestions are a t shirt tucked in with a belt and a crop top.Maye try suggesting a more sexy dress.
>>28576882MNever been there, but I don't hear good reviews of it.
>>28577698No, in fact I'd feel creepy walking by someone's window like that
>>28577727Well, does she have any clothing suggestions for you? Relationships are about give and take, you know!
>>28577009Actuary, I think. It's a good work-life balance (unless you're in consulting), a good pay, and you're basically guaranteed to be pretty smart.Unfortunately, that also means it's a harder sell for both of us when we have kids.Alternatively, bartender or waitress at a vegan bar or restaurant.
>>28577738I don't want her to dress sexy sexy.Just like... cute casual.It's really hard to find an image
>>28577679>>28577680>>28577685>>28577688Thank you. I wish I was more curvy but implants always seem to be universally reviled
>>28577033M here.I have pretty much 0 desire to interact with babies in any significant capacity, but I have a strong desire to be part of homeschooling my kids.I guess my actual answer is yes, but I also don't want her to specifically want to be a SAHM as opposed to just being okay with the concept, due to childhood programming to not respect SAHMs. I don't *like* that programming since a child should spend time with his parents and at a young age especially his mother, but I still have it so it's hard to respect someone who specifically wants that lifestyle.
>>28577746Not her fault, I live on the first floor. Still, good to know it's objectively not creepy.
>>28577710Nope, I shitpost here every day. Lately I've been seeing a woman, and even today I had a great date with her, so I don't have much to actually ask the opposite gender, though. I answer questions when I'm around, though.
>>28576479MSometimes it does drag me down, it feels like the work I'm putting into my life is not being reciprocated in any meaningful way
>>28577767Yep, as long as you keep it to just a glance. Smiling or waving would make it weird
>>28577069Me too.>>28577108Male ones.I like anything that has vegan pizza, and bonus points if they have vegan cheese and toppings. But I usually make my own pizza so idk what places have it. Unos does but I haven't been there yet.
State gender:Have you ever hooked up with a long lost friend?
>>28577775Is this the endgame for all /atoga/ posters? To eventually be driven away from the opposite sex entirely? I'm happy for you, but it kinda makes me sad.
>>28577787MSue but we had hooked up before so it is kinda cheating.
>>28577115I'm not that interested in marrying a NEET or a poor person. If she's just doing it as a side hobby that's fine I guess, although I have no strong attraction to it.But maybe if I did she'd spur me to do more art and get better at it myself. Especially if she's extraverted and wants to chat while arting.
>>28577763Don't worry anon, we all want what we don't have. There's probably curvy anons ITT who would kill to be slender like you.
>>28577787F. I ended up dating a guy I went to highschool with years later, when we re-met at a job. I actually bullied him a bit back then so it gave me a chance to apologize, but of course the moment I raised him up to his full potential by teaching him how to dress and make friends and all that shit he cheated on me.
>>28577135M, no, and I wouldn't date someone who did.>>28577150Not really, because that's usually not my type. Despite being vaguely that myself.
>>28577790I still love men, they're great and hot. I just happen to have found someone I mesh well with who isn't a guy this time.
>>28577790being bisexual isn't "driven away" anon. NTA but I love both genders. dick good, titties good.
>>28577135F, yes, and I already have.
>>28577184If she hadn't done any yet (or much of any?) and didn't want to do it as a job, maybe. I'd be good with being a couple who did porn together. I know there are a couple of those. But I wouldn't want her career to be having sex with other guys or interacting with incels.
>>28577763I mean, there are actually good implants now, the days of bolt-on basketball boobs are far gone...
>>28577297I'm not urgently looking for them and I'm not financially where I want to be yet. I'd wanted to wait until I was 35 or so but I'm thinking earlier would be better now, so maybe 32-33. If she's older than me it could be earlier though. It's not like I can't afford them.>>28577302M. 3 or 12. (but a minimum of 1 girl and ideally more than 1)...depending on the situation, other numbers might be possible.
>>28577775lol, lmaohow pathetic
Men What would you do if something happened and you permanently lost your penis?
>>28577787how can I hook up with a friend if he's lost?
>>28577806>I love men, buthttps://i.4cdn.org/wsg/1678420808977808.webm
Men, what would you do if you woke up and your penis was replaced by a screwdriver (hex)
>>28577696Wouldn't be a dealbreaker, but it's not ideal.
>>28577302F. 1-2 depending if the first kid gets my disorders then I would adopt a second. Plus if/when I get pregnant I have meds that can give baby cleft lip
>>28577775Hahaaa, yes! Welcome to the dark side. Men are just inferior in every way and one by one all girls here will learn it
>>28577827You find him years later.>>28577833Capitalize off it by making viral videos about it.
>>28577826Jeez, I dunno. Not something I think about. Become a tranny?
>>28577790Not JH, but atoga just made me love my bf more.
>>28577826I would feel liberated
>>28577796Thanks anon, I guess the grass is always greener >>28577811Yeah, tear drop gummy implants are supposed to look and feel more natural.
>>28577831>Yes>>28577839>in every wayIdk about that. There are lots of things I sort of miss about men that have been highlighted now that I'm seeing a woman.
>>28577833Female and I thought you said what would you do if your penis was a corkscrew. You know like ducksI’ll leave
>>28577775"Great" in a lewd way, or in a "feeling butterflies like a horny teenager even though we barely touched each other" way?
>>28577852Those things are scary looking!
>>28577851Dont worry it wont last long. I was talking about the important things. Like having good sex, being emotionally stable, making more money and being less likely to kill you.
>>28577847Same here, but if I was single while reading these threads, I can easily see myself getting pushed in the opposite direction...>>28577852Duck dicks are proof that God does not exist
Got judged for being single by my family this weekend feeling really grand.
>>28577869wh y u single bub
>>28577864imagine fucking thinking any of that is true about lesbianseven the killing part is bullshit. y'all are even worse with domestic violence than even the lowest class men.
>>28577869Don't worry, by 30 they stop asking.
>>28577866>>28577859You guys I have the impulse to look up bird mating habits again.
>>28577826I'd find the best F2M surgeon out there and have a fake made.
>>28577884All that work just to commit suicide?
Everyone is fine to reply. I want to write a letter to my ex that I have not seen in the past two years. I hurt her a lot and made her went through a lot of pain and recently I had a near death experience that has made me turn my life around. I have contacted old classmates and friends and told them that I was sorry for hurting them and being an immature asshole. Patching things up with them was usually well received and they were okay with it, though at the beginning they were quite confused. Anyways, I want to send a letter to my ex girlfriend who now lives in the other side of the pond. But I'm wondering if this would freak her out too much or if it's just me being insane. I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable.
>>28577876Idk boys don like me >>28577880Awesome only a little less than decade left of weird looks and awkward questions
>>28577880No they don't.
>>28577886I mean I'm actually a dude? At least I have a right to try.
>>28577890do u wanna talk to me about why u think boys don't like you? i am non judgmental and not asking out of sexual interest
>>28577895You should google it.
>>28577887Just leave her alone, anon. I got a letter from an ex and it was so awkward.
>>28577858Mostly the latter. We went to an all you can eat sushi place then went to her place and watched tv while complaining that we ate too much. It was fun and relaxing and we got to talk a lot. Also I learned the difference between katsu and tempura.>>28577864Idk about the sex or stability parts, but she certainly does make more than my last few exes.
>>28577891After constant questions every week they stopped before I was 28.
>>28577887>I want to write a letter to my exnopeNOPEjust fucking NOPEDO NOT DO IT
Here's an answer to all your relationship questions:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FTS2tdmyYM
>>28577826Become a castrato. https://youtu.be/KLjvfqnD0ws
>>28577882>tfw ATOGA once made me want to look up how dog dicks worked because I was convinced that it's called a "knot" because it's an actual knot of vasculature all messed up in there
>>28577904>she certainly does make more than my last few exes.that sounds more like a you problemmaybe you should've gone for higher-class men
>>28577878Lesbian women earn more than men on average.There are no studies confirming that lesbians commit more domestic violence, because none of the studies confirm that the partner who commited the violence was a same-sex partner, just that women currently in a lesbian relationship are more likely to have experienced partner violence in the past. However there are studies confirming males kill their partner far far more.In short - cope and seethe.>>28577904Thats super sweet to hear, I hope you two find a happy future together away from moids
>>28577912Maybe. Idc how much someone makes as long as they have a healthy and sustainable life.
>>28577903I was almost glad to read this. I don't know why. I think I would have felt just as glad if someone else wrote the opposite. I have stopped writing it into an actual piece of paper but still saved the document in my computer. >>28577907Okay, sounds like you have done it or received one. How did it go?
>>28577916>someone>theycan you please not?
>>28577913Thanks. It's hard to wrap my head around the possibilities when it comes to the future, though. Like idk how I'd even approach escalating it from where we are now.
>>28577917>Okay, sounds like you have done it or received one. How did it go?It went right into the trash, and got me talking shit to my friends about her for the first time in awhile.
>>28577921Typing out "he or she" takes too much effort.
>>28577928The gender neutral third person singular pronoun in English is "he".
>>28577923maybe you should just cut out the middleman and jump headlong into eternal hellfire
>>28577909Interesting and creepy, I didn't realize there were recordings of a castrato. He sounds terrible. Now I gotta go google to see if he was actually castrated for singing...
>>28577827I fucking love that question mark picture. I think it's the pic that made me love that genre of reaction images.
girls, would you think it's weird if a guy listened to classical music? i got bullied a lot in high school for it
I went out with my friends, and some of their friends last night for st. patricks day, and I realized just how over it was. I'll never be as fun to around as literally any other normal person.
>>28577947It's a little weird, but I'm jot at an age where I'd hold that against you.Don't judge me for still listening to Kesha in my 30's and I won't judge you for listening to classical shit.
>>28577933They is also a valid pronoun to describe a neutral third person.
>>28577925Ah, yeah. I suppose I would be pretty hurt if someone did that to something I've made but I can understand why have you done it. On a side note, me being possibly hurt about that makes me realize that I might just be doing all this for my own selfishness. I'm still unable to put myself on the place of others.
>>28577965According to whom? Who is the master of the English Language that decides this?https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/singular-nonbinary-they
>>28577968>I might just be doing all this for my own selfishnessyep. every time i've thought about reaching out to someone "for her benefit" i've realized the only reason I wanted to do it was to reestablish contact or to get some licks in at someone who I'm still pissed at.
>>28577973>whines about muh prescriptivism>cites an example of prescriptivists forcing language change from the top down
>>28577975Well yeah, I do want to contact her again. Maybe remain as friends but I think that is too naive. Whatever, you guys convinced me. I'm going to fuck off back to my homeboard.
Young single virgin men, how do you feel about the fact girls increasingly would rather go out and date other girls rather than deal with you?
>>28577985Maybe the article I linked was dumb, but they has been used colloquially to describe a singular person for centuries and even many language experts now agree that it is perfectly fine to use they in a singular sense.Also, of all the comments in this thread why did you decide to start getting autistic about the "they" pronoun when used to describe an unknown person of unknown gender? It's like you want to start a fight for no reason.
>>28577994come back when you feel the urge return, i'll be happy to talk you out of it again
>>28577995Just geomax and go to SEA. It's that easy. I'm an ugly incel in the west. Bitches love me across the sea.
>>28577995Cringe agenda pushing.It is very obvious that after Covid started many more young women started dating older men for financial security.
State genderThoughts on miscegenation?
>>28578011FIts based, love is love and it creates more genetic diversity and stronger babies
>>28578011It’s wrong.Wish women of my own race were more attracted to me though.
>>28578011Male. My gf is Thai so I'm in favor of it obviously.
>>28577947Not at all, it's something I'd want in a guy
>>28577904>"Netflix and chill" for women is actually watching TV and chillingInterestingGlad to hear you had a good time though
>>28577911Same, but because of Supernatural slashfiction
>>28578032Do you ever feel like you invent things to be mad about?
>>28577999>they has been used colloquially to describe a singular person for centuriesNo, it has not. There was some niche usage attested in Shakespeare. So most likely in the 16th century. The Shakespearean usage never entered common English except when foppish college freshmen started doing stupid shit like speaking in iambic pentameter.>many language experts now agreeThis is exactly my argument why it's bullshit. Nobody gives a fuck what "language experts" think. They don't define language. The people who speak it do, and those experts have been jamming singular they down our throats for something like 25 years.You literally sound like the French government.>Mais oui! The word is 'télécharger,' not 'downloader'! That is an English word that is corrupting our beautiful French language, as defined by our illustrious Académie Français!How fucking embarrassing that the leftoids have become the bootlickers with this garbage. I bet you say "Kyiv" too.
>>28578026Who are your favorite composers? Do you care if a guy listens to other genres? I listen to classical, vidya music, and some metal/rock
Question for women. Why do you suppose this girl I've been dating keeps playing this ridiculous "hot and cold" game with me? It's really starting to drive me up the wall and I can't figure out why she is doing it, context below.We have been dating for a few months now. We already do a lot of kissing, cuddling, etc. So naturally I'm really into her, and anytime we are together its fantastic. But over the phone, she will frequently and I mean frequently take forever to respond to things and will sometimes straight up dodge questions. A while back (a month and a half ago) I wanted to make things officially exclusive and had asked her where she thought the relationship was going and she told me she needed to think about it. I havent directly brought this up again but I'm starting to feel like I should because I'm getting confused about her behavior. Is it possible she is messing with me or just using me for entertainment? From what I know of her she doesnt seem like the type but now I'm unsure. I'm in love with her and I don't want to lose her, but I need to have a base level of self respect too. Any advice on what I should do?
>>28578011Female. Never been attracted to a male from another race before but if you want to do it go ahead.
>>28577933No it's not lol>>28577999>It's like you want to start a fight for no reasonYou've discovered the truth anon. Just use the words you want and let others melt down.
>>28578014>it creates more genetic diversity and stronger babiesLmao>White-Asian children are twice as likely as Asians to have mental illness. Source: http://news.ucdavis.edu/search/news_detail.lasso?id=8732>White/Black babies are less healthy than White babies. Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2867623/>Mixed race couples are more likely to have stillborn babies than same-race couples. Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15994621
>>28578047>No it's notwow you sure showed me Frenchie
>>28577995It makes my penis happy and sad at the same time. I'm very conflicted.
>>28576234What the fuck is going on in Paris?
>>28578038>Nobody gives a fuck what "language experts" think. They don't define language. The people who speak it doOkay, and "they" is colloquially used to describe a single person by many many people. I know more people that use "they" to describe a third party gender neutral person than "he". Way more, in fact I think "he" is actually quite antiquated at this point.
>>28578049Shut the fuck up you race-baiting cringelord
>>28576250You deserve to be spat on for asking such a retarded question. I hope she gives you STDs.
>>28578055I’m not race baiting the person who asked the question is.
>>28577923>Like idk how I'd even approach escalating it from where we are now.Don't worry, if you just keep hanging out and kissing, good ideas will pop into your head, I guarantee it.
>>28578014>more genetic diversityIt actually creates less because everyone gets turned into mutts
>>28578034We were literally painfully full, no sexy shit could've possibly happened with two food babies between us.
>>28578054... and all that nonsense usage you claim to have seen was forced upon people, without their consent, from the top down. As I said, you probably say "Kyiv." Cope and seethe.
>>28578053Unfortunately white of the North American variety.
>>28578053>AsianNope I’m White, but where I live it’s mostly Latinas and Asians who are into me.
>>28578064>unfortunatelyWhy is that unfortunate? That's what I am too and I think we're pretty cool
>>28578061And she was still hot even stuffed with food and (presumably) in casual clothes at home? That's cool, it's good to see people in different environments like that
>>28578014>love is loveyou are a MAP, JH
>>28578065White women have a lot higher standards for white guys than other races. White girls all like Chad but non-white girls like normie white guys,
>>28578069shut the fuck up you namedropping cringelord
>>28578062Forced by whom and for what agenda? To promote transgenderism? See >>28577956If language rules are defined by the people that use it, then "they" is perfectly grammatically correct because people use it, regardless of why they use it. THe only person trying to force any sort of language rules is you, because apparently in the good old days you used to call a gender-neutral person "he".Also, "he" means cunt in Thai. Not that it's relevant, I just think it's funny that we go around saying cunt all the time.
>>28578073>he's just spewing "all women do X" /r9k/ bullshit nowWrong board.
>>28577995Suicidal, is this what you wanted to hear? I feel like I have no future and all of society is going to shit with every single one of its pillars disintegrating.I cant get anywhere and I did everything “right”, but I am sitting in my apartment alone on a Saturday night, reading atoga and finding even more desperation rather than advice. Guess the modern man is supposed to be a corporate drone while boss bitches (who got boosted by all of media, social programs and corporate diversity officers but now that lesbians outearn men it doesnt matter anymore lol) earn the big bucks and date other girls. Just fucking end me bro, fuck this.
>>28578077That was kind of in jest, but it's very true that non-white girls have lower standards for white guys lol.
>>28578073Yeah, it would be easier if there were more White people here but at most there it is 25% White I think the new census said 18% but I can’t remember if that is accurate.
>>28576234Can one of you please talk to me? I have no real frenz :(
>>28578083Where are you?
>>28578087Southern California but those statistics are for my city.
>>28577995At the current moment, indifferent. It doesn't bother me and it shouldn't bother most guys. We only care about relationships and companionship because we are biologically wired to do so and pressured by society to wife some random girl up by our mid-20s or earlier, Even though with every passing day that is becoming less and less economically feasible (and that's ignoring the fact that a lot of women are demanding bitches). Half the reason people are so unhappy for being single it's because loser normal fags put girls and sex on such a high pedestal. Stop doing that and suddenly you won't feel like a failure for not being a generic fuck boy.
>>28578008What's up with SEA women and having insanely low standards and being dtf? Same thing with middle american/Mexican women.
>>28578059We still haven't kissed more than normal hi and bye stuff, but I'll take your word for it.>>28578068She didn't change, just took off a layer. She really likes her scoop necks.Also her apartment is cozy as fuck even if it's a bit cramped. She has good taste in scented candles, too.
>>28578100I don't know what that is.
>>28578039Baroque is my favourite, Lully, Purcell, Monteverdi, Handel, etc. Mozart, Wagner. Chopin. I'd never expect someone to listen only to classical, but I'd love to have a bf/husband who enjoyed it and would like to go to concerts and operas.
>>28578090That's unfortunate. My college is like 35% white but a lot of that's Jewish. It used to be like 90% white. I'll probably just move to Maine or something when I'm older
>>28578096Because the men in SEA are so shitty. They're abusive, lazy, and they cheat. White men are loyal, hard working, and also very rich compared to them.
>>28578067Something something white guilt. It’s just the feeling of being ordinary. When in high school I did do family history research and learned my mom’s side immigrated in the 1800s from Ireland and my dad’s is mainly English. Anything foreign has been diluted by now.
>>28577900Sure! I'm pretty lanky and shy, Im also annoying and picky. Not super outgoing or confident, and Im not on social media so I basically don't exist
>>28578011M.WM_F are fine, (!W)MWF and (!AW)MAF not okay.Some mixed people are really attractive. Others aren't.
>>28578105If you actually go to SEA, many do not want to come to the US. They still want a white bf though because lighter complexion is considered attractive, and they want attractive babies. Also if you can somehow keep a western job and live somewhere like Thailand or the Philippines you're basically upper class.
>>28578113where'd you find this image
>>28577954What makes you think that?
>>28578107I'm a lazy nerdy dude living off of Neetbux and I still got some mexican girls into me on Tinder. Only reason I'm still a virgin is because i don't have the money to meet them and neither do they.
>>28578080See >>28578094>>28578010You imply covid started that phenomenon. Gold diggers are nothing new. You guys swear up and down that COVID is the source of half of our problems. *Eye-roll*>>28578051Use your hand, buy an escort, or incest in a pocket pussy, faggot. >>28578080What do you mean you did everything right? This is such a vague and stupid statement I hear a lot of you say. There's no perfect equation to lending a girl. The world as a chaotic mass and no one method is going to guarantee you a partner. Do you not have any goddamn hobbies because it sounds like you don't. Women should not be on your mind to rent free.
>>28578103How old are you and how did you get into it? I only got into it last year and mostly listen to Romantic stuff, I like some of Mahler and Tchaikovsky's symphonies.>operaI wish I could like it but it just kinda bounces off me when I try to listen to any opera.
>>28578109You sound perfect but you need to find a way to make yourself visible. Could easily snatch a 200k/yr software dev husbando who is looking for a shy gf
>>28578111Bro he's talking about mixed couple not chemistry formulas
>>28578121It's a stereotype, it's not always true. They're dating you for the stereotype.
>>28578126can you link? this is important
How do I not be ignored?
>>28578011F. Don't really care. I'm white and only ever liked white dudes.
>>28578098>scoop necksNice.>scented candles in a small space with an attractive womanNiiice.If I was in that scenario, being super full is the only thing that would stop me from making a move, honestly. Still, sounds like a great atmosphere to soak up together.
>>28578131I don't actually have a link, sorryI was browsing on my phone and it just recommended me the cat category
It hurts me that my girlfriends first time was when she was 18 with an asshole from college who pretended they were in a relationship for months and then bad sex and ghosted her.It just makes me feel uncomfortable. She was taken advantage of. I don't like it.
>>28578106Maine is nice right now, but there are ideologues in power trying to destroy it, WV is better in that sense.
>>28578082Fair enough, I just couldn’t tell you apart from the anons who say that stuff unironically, kek
>>28578108What's wrong with being ordinary? I like that I can sort of be part of a greater people, but even that's being lost now and being white is now not ordinary. I like being around my people, I feel like I fit in and I like that
>>28578075>Forced by whomThe academy initially, then it expanded to the news media after about 15 years of it.>for what agenda? To promote transgenderism?No. It goes back to second- and early-third-wave feminism, and reeks of early- to mid-20th-century nonsense about psycholinguistics. It all comes from the (disproven) idea that linguistic structure determines thought structure, so by manipulating the language it's possible to manipulate patterns of thought.It's the same people who wanted to start calling it a "personhole" instead of a "manhole", or "police officer" instead of "policeman." Same people who caused the Brits to start calling women who act "actors" instead of "actresses."And really, transgenderism isn't the cause or the agenda. It's not even directly related to it. It's the unintended consequence of Marxism-corrupted third-wave feminism seeking to break down and deconstruct the structures of society. A lot of the seeds were planted in the 90s but only began to bear fruit in the last decade. But of course, with long-tail effects like these, they start to interact and blend. Singular they gets latched onto by the transgender and queer movement as some necessity, some idea the absence of which is directly destructive to transgenderism. It's a very uneducated, anglo-centric thought process given the sheer number of people who speak romance languages and never needed to jettison their highly productive, robust, rich noun gendering system to satisfy a few whiny people.I genuinely think the genesis of it all comes from the transhumanist movement, which itself goes back to the worst excesses of Weimar Germany, and undergirded both the nascent transgender movement (Magnus Hirschfeld) and Nazi eugenics (which spread to the US and created Planned Parenthood). And transhumanism itself is just the rediscovery of the heresy of gnosticism, really.So yes. By using singular they, you are contributing to the destruction of mankind.
>>28578123Look at the 2019 2021 comparison it obviously did bump it up by like 12%
>>28578142Why do you think white was ever 'ordinary'?
>>28578080>I feel like I have no futureThis is normal>all of society is going to shit with every single one of its pillars disintegratingThis is not normalTry to “zoom in” and just focus on your own problems, anon. I’m not saying you’re wrong, just that it’s unproductive to feel paralyzed by all the injustices in the world.
>>28578098sounds like you aren't really clicking
pls recommend me good comedy anime/showi need to laugh
>>28578085Sorry, I asked my boyfriend and he said I shouldn’t talk to you
>>28578145Those damn 1375 mudpeasant liberal academies destroying western civilization.
>>28578113Do NOT post my yearbook photo without my consent
Asking other girls mostlyDoes laser leave behind little baby hairs? I can't seem to get a straight answer online.
>>28578135It was def a great atmosphere. And now I hope she'll just invite me over more often in general just to hang out. Lots of chances to see where things go when we're not comatose in the future.
>>28578129Sorry, didn't realize you were illiterate.
>>28578096Don't take what I say as fact but I think it's a combination of men being kind of shitty over there, The dudes who can afford to become "passport bros" have enough money to support them and their extended family (which means they tried to gold diggers and green card chasers), and that not only are they generally not seen as the apex of beauty according to "le westoid beauty standards", but lighter skinned Asians like Koreans and japs you them as inferior purely because of their darker skin tone. Especially filipinas. Rich Chinese people practically use them as modern-day slaves in some areas because they get tricked into being underpaid servants because they know they're desperate for better lives away from there shit hole nations (think of it as modern day indentured servitude but also your employers are racist as hell to you). Their environment treats their women like trash which means they often are very humble. A lot of dudes desire and lust after them because of this but I think a lot of them do it for the right reasons. Not because they actually love them or anything like that but because the deuce that are willing to fly to another goddamn nation just to find a "traditional partner" we're very likely trash people themselves. There's something wrong with you if you have to become a pasortt bro to land a decent girl. I get that a lot of Western women are unbearable but I refuse to believe it's impossible for you to find a decent partner if you can afford to fly to Thailand on a regular basis and live there for a while AND support a SEA family. TLDR: some of them are genuinely good people but I think a lot of them are just desperate, as fucked up as that sounds
>>28578123>what do you mean you did everything rightI studied hard and took school seriously, I never got into drugs or drinking, I stayed in shape and groomed/dressed well, I got a college degree, I got a nice job, I got my own place, I never did anyone dirty or did something retarded. I am not saying that I should automatically get a girl but. I would have hoped at least someone would be interested in what I have to offer. Being lonely sucks.
>>28578127Thanks, Im trying!
>>28578135>being super full is the only thing that would stop me from making a move, honestly.Other moids, is this common? If you stuffed yourself with food and feel tired and lethargic as a result, is your dick effectively “closed for business”? Can you even get hard in this state?
>>28578152I like being around her, at least. Whether that ends up being romantic or otherwise in the future, I still appreciate spending time with her.
>>28578145>English language becomes less gendered>This is bad because... feminism is scary!!Honestly what's funny is you say this>It all comes from the (disproven) idea that linguistic structure determines thought structure, so by manipulating the language it's possible to manipulate patterns of thought.Then say this>So yes. By using singular they, you are contributing to the destruction of mankind.You don't think you're being a hypocrite?
>>28578137Does it make you feel better to know this scenario is very common?
>>28578161>wow there was a pre-modern english manuscript that experimented with different language usage! it means that i'm smart for doing the same thing!try again
>>28578163Just embrace your natural hair
>>28578163I take a variety of medications, so I'm not a great example for a baseline. For me it made my hair way thinner and slower to grow. I can easily go 6-7 weeks without shaving, while I had to shave every 3-4 days before.
To guys, would you date a girl who's comfortable with you talking about cocks and other crass stuff with your friends?
>>28578139The whole country is going down if you're going by that. I don't really want to run away but my family has been moving around for centuries, I don't really know where to go to be safe
>>28578145Please say this is a copypasta. Nobody gets this triggered over pronouns
>>2857812424, I grew up with classical music. Trained as a ballet dancer so it's pretty much always been a big part of my life. I'm very familiar with Tchaikovsky, a little less so with Mahler. And hey, not everyone's into opera and that's okay.
Is it true that girls will hate you just for being a shy, introverted virgin?
>>28578169My country has a lot of filipino immigrants so I could land a filipina without being a green card sugar daddy, at least theoretically.
>>28578176>You don't think you're being a hypocrite?Do you not know what the word hypocrite means?
>>28578163The first few times yes, so you just have to keep lasering until the growth is completely stopped
>>28578150Because 90% of America was white in the 60s?
>>28578173I wouldn’t be up for sex, but I can definitely still get turned on and hard.
>>28578179Ah yes, the singular 'they' that was used once in 1375 and was mysteriously absent from all English literature before they were unearthed like a pharaoh's mummy in 2016.Mhm.
>>28578174You are literally turning into a dude lmao.That is dude-level cope when they get told the girl isn't into them.>noooo I don't just want to fuck, I like her for her mind, I just like hanging out together and whatever happens is fine...mmhmm
>>28578184Personally no, that kind of vulgar talk is a turnoff for me
>>28578203nta but it’s okay to have hot friendsOnly dudes go insane if they’re not fucking on night 1
>>28578200>was mysteriously absent from all English literatureWhat the fuck do I care what literary usage might have existed at various periods? And in what way is any of that related to the modern era push to eliminate any other usage?
>>28578196That statistic is 130% bullshit.
>>28578203That's dumb and you're dumb.
>>28578194Hypocrisy: the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conformYou are quite literally saying it's bad that "feminists" tried to change the language (and succeeded apparently) but now you are trying to change it back for the exact same reasons.> It all comes from the (disproven) idea that linguistic structure determines thought structure, so by manipulating the language it's possible to manipulate patterns of thought.If linguistic structure doesn't determine thought structure, why is it bad to use "they" in a singular context?
>>28578184With my friends?No lol, I would want you to be somewhat conservative in talking with my friends, nothing that could come off as flirting with them lol.
>>28578211>something I don’t like gets popular>it’s a “push” to advance “their” “agenda”!!!Conspiratards are so boring
>>28578196Why are you basing what's normal to a specific arbitrary point in time in a specific geolocation? You weren't even alive in the 60s. If we want to be pedantic, 0% of America was white in the 900s.
>>28578203You sound mad that she is dating a cutie lmao
>>28578180No I hate the look and feel of it.>>28578181It's just a toss up between laser and continuing to wax is all. I don't know if I want to spend the money if I am going to have to shave off little baby hairs>>28578195So your skin is perfectly smooth? Obviously until you have to touch it up I mean
>>28578148Not saying it didn't, but I want to make it clear that COVID did not spawn that phenomenon>>28578170You ought to retard. You sweet summer child. You sound like a good guy and have your head screwed on but that doesn't really mean shit when it comes to dating. What do I mean by that? You sound lame as hell, and this is coming from someone who knows for a fact he's lame as hell. You have no "game" or "rizz". You sound like a well put together guy but it's also generic as hell. You haven't actually told us any good compelling reason as to why a girl or anyone in general would want to hang out with you. (I feel like I'm heading in your direction but I've accepted that to some degree). You are boring. I'm not saying that I don't spite because so am I. As soon as you realize that the better. Maybe you'll be better than me and actually figure out how to fix that
>>28578192yeshonestly you could've stopped at " girls will hate..."
>>28578184I mean I don't do that, so I'm not sure why it matters?
>>28578217>the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conformOkay. In what way does my statement conform to this definition?
>>28577869Welcome to the club. Don't feel too bad about it. They're all just dried up coping fags that just want you to suffer with them.
>>28578224>So your skin is perfectly smooth? Obviously until you have to touch it up I meanYep, it took multiple sessions for it to really “take”, but it’s nice and smooth now. I have to shave, like… every 3-4 months? And that’s only because hair is just starting to be visible.
>>28578224Why do you hate the look of it
>>28578211They is used both as a plural and as a singular when you don't know the gender of the specified subject. That has always been the usage of 'they', and any arguement against it is cope. Everyone uses it that way.You're not going to find anyone who uses the fucking genderless 'he' to refer to a person they don't know the gender of. It's delusional to think otherwise.
>>28578192Are you attractive?
>>28578148We can agree that covid fucked shit up and accelerated existing trends, yes.
>>28578156>Needs his boyfriend's permission to talk to anyoneAre you five or are you a lazy deadbeat who leeches off of him?
>>28578219Wait nvm I read it wrong, yeah I’m fine with thought you were asking if I was fine with you talking to my friends about cocks.
>>28578237Did you stop reading my post after that? Because I literally just told you.
>>28578244>That has always been the usage of 'they'Ah yes. We have always been at war with Eastasia.
>>28578193>CouldWhy haven't you then?
>>28578222Well my high school was also 80% white and the place I live is 90% white>>28578212It's not
>>28578142I grew up in a racially diverse community and right before wokeness toke off. I do appreciate being part of my family but know that they can be old-fashioned and casually racist. Yeah even after they gained a new son in law. So I’m always thinking about “x looks cool” vs what is probably going to come out if they learn about this new weeb shit.
>>28578211>why should I care if I’ve been wrong for 700 years?? you’re only allowed to pay attention to my handpicked twitter threads!Go to bed, you outrage addict.
>>28578240I'm not going to argue with you. I just don't like it. I don't care if that's an ingrained societal expectation or whatever. I think the look and feel of smooth skin on women is so much preferable.
>>28578251No you didn't. The fact that Sapir-Whorf is bullshit has nothing to do with moral standards or beliefs.
>>28578224my girlfriends is completely smooth she had laser
>>28578258Sounds like you've just developed an irrational hatred of your own people.
Either gender:Have you tried to make friends on /soc/? How did it go? I kind of want to try to find people to play games with since my friends are too busy to hang out with me.
>>28578251>communicates poorly>gets incredibly angry when misunderstoodLol
>>28578252>LITCHERALLY NINETEENINETYFOURTH!!!Opinion discarded
>>28578191That's cool. Hope you find a cool guy
>>28578264At the very least admit you're being contradictory, because you are. Forcing people to use "he" instead of "they" is no different than forcing people to use "they" instead of "he".
>>28578261I'm genuinely laughing that you think pointing to a few examples of academic or literary usage is not only proof of widespread popular usage, but proof of consistent, uninterrupted usage for that period.
>>28578113Based kot poster improving the quality of the thread
>>28578155Dual! Parallel Trouble Adventure
>>28578269If he disagreed with my reasoning he should have quoted that instead of just ignoring what I said.
>>28578275>At the very least admit you're being contradictoryWhy should I do that? You accused me of being a hypocrite, not contradictory. Make your own arguments.>Forcing people to use "he" instead of "they"I'm not forcing anybody. I'm pointing out the incorrectness of singular they, and demonstrating that the sudden adoption of its usage was forced down from above. Again, just like "Kyiv," which I'm sure you use.
>>28578277are you the same type of person that thinks pronouns were invented five years ago.
>>28578258>even after they gained a new son in lawWhat do you mean? A non-white son in law?> So I’m always thinking about “x looks cool” vs what is probably going to come out if they learn about this new weeb shit.What?What's wrong with your family being racist? My whole family is white but none are racist, my great grandmother was but I never met her. I wish my family was racist. Maybe I'll try to redpill my cousins or something kek
>>28578263>on womenThats where you lost me. You think it looks ugly on you, that's your problem. Don't worry about everyone else. But clearly you care a lot what other people think
womendo you prefer a boyfriend who is outgoing and wants to do things outside all the time or an introverted guy who always wants to do stuff at home?
>>28578178No.I know it's very common, it's happened to a lot of people I know.It fucking hurts me to know that my girlfriend was yet another stupid 18 year old who got taken advantage of by a fuckboy.
>>28578238<3 Yea probably. Still embarrassing that they think Im a failure or something even though Im doing well in all the other normie things
>>28578305A middle ground would be best. But an outdoorsy type would be better overall since he'd be up to do more in general.
>>28578256Then yes. They'll find it cute if you're good looking though
>>28578293>Why should I do that? You accused me of being a hypocrite, not contradictoryI accused you of both actually.>Again, just like "Kyiv," which I'm sure you use.This is a non-sequitur. Also, Kyiv and Kiev have both been used in the past, seeing as the city is actually called Київ. The people of Ukraine that live there prefer Kyiv, and only Russian dick suckers make a stink about it.
>>28578308If that makes you think less about your girlfriend then you're unironically a bad person.
>>28578308Like I so badly wanted a storybook romance where we are one another's firsts and this fucking guy preys on 18 year olds and took that
>>28578267No. Probably what happened is I developed anti-conservative, not white mindset, because of their helicopter parenting.
>>28578305Introverted. I'm introverted myself and I prefer being with someone who is more like me. Obviously we should sometimes leave the house, but I'm happier with an introverted dude.
>>28578163I haven't gotten laser treatment, but it's my understanding that's normal. You won't necessarily be completely hair free.
>>28578303I meant that I like body hair on men. I hate it on women. I go both ways so it's obviously relevant to me
>>28578309Why do you still bother hanging out with them? They sell lame as hell as people in general. If they place such high importance on marriage and kids, they are not worth hanging around. They don't have any lies. They're just miserable and sit on their ass all day whenever they don't have to work or do basic shit like doing grocerie shopping. That's why a lot of old people want their kids to give them grandchildren. They think they are owed it and they want to feel like parents again without their added responsibility. They refuse to get a life and hobbies and want you to fill that void for them. Having kids or getting married in journal as the most overrated shit ever
>>28578137If he used escorts he would be blacklisted from being relationship material by all women. small price to pay
>>28578300the usage of the word "pronoun" there shorthand for the practice of "conforming usage of grammatical gender to an individual's self-centered demands". And yes, that practice was invented pretty recently. More than five years, though it only really became highly prevalent in the last 10 years or so.
>>28578293>don’t forget about my /pol/ bait! Lmao
>>28578308>he’s not mad at the guy who actually wronged herThanks for elaborating. Fuck you.
How does one lose their virginity at mid 20s?
>>28578315It doesn't make me think less of her.It makes me angry that predators exist and one of them got to my girlfriend.It's something that really is hard to cope with, because all my life I had an idea about being one another's first time with some romantic partner of mine. And it wasn't because of some ex she really liked or anything, it was because of someone who decided to take a shy girl and trick her for sex.>>28578336?? I'm furious at him, he's doing horrible things and she suffered for it.
>>28578313>Also, Kyiv and Kiev have both been used in the past, seeing as the city is actually called Київ. The people of Ukraine that live there prefer Kyiv, and only Russian dick suckers make a stink about it.Yep. I knew it. You're just spouting the talking points you've been spoon-fed by the academy and media.The English name for the city is Kiev. Just as the English name of the country is Germany, not Deutschland. And Germans certainly do not prefer to call their nation "Germany" or "Allemagne" or "Alemania" or any of those other terms.
>>28578272Thanks anon. Hope you find a cool girl.
man I've been using singular they all my life, since before "nonbinary" was even a thing>>28578342have sex
>>28578348Lol, I hope I do too
>>28578342His. Not their.And you lose it by not abandoning your masculinity.
>>28578330But that dumb bitch didn't say 'transgenderism' or 'gender studies' or 'wokeness', she just said 'pronouns'. The grammatical rule.Again, we've already proven that singular use 'they' predates any 'academy' and 'media' you're pissing your pants about. The question is settled, nobody is going to stop using singular they because you bitch and moan about it.
>>28578350>b-b-b-but i've been doing this for 14 years!I already said the academy has been ramming this down our throats since the 90s. Why would your personal usage mean a damn thing to me?
>>28578308Women do this too.My first gf ghosted me after had sex the first time and I never saw her or heard from her again.
who else lonely on this saturday night?
>>28578342too late, by that time women won't even give you a chance once they learn you're a virgin
>>28578354>she just said 'pronouns'. The grammatical rule.Okay and? Your side of the coin also said "defund the police" and started backpedaling by saying "noooo it refers to reduction in funds to units of police groups which are directly involved in interactions with the communities we think they're harming!"
>>28578356Why would your personal usage mean a damn thing to anyone here? I mean if that's the hill you wanna die on go right ahead. I've seen people die on dumber hills.
>>28578325I do love them and usually they don't bring it up but i guess they got extra drunkI don't want them to dictate my life decisions and generally dont let them
>>28578359Yup still heartbroken over my last relationship, sitting alone shit posting here.
>>28578357Yeah.I mean, it nearly happened to me.My first kiss was a girl in college who invited me over, kissed me without asking and tried to have sex with me. I was just too stupid to realize and so we cuddled instead.I remember calling her the day after, after I went home, and having an awkward convo like "So, what happens now?" and she was confused. Anyway. It actually does make it a bit better for me to stomach this way. Makes it feel like a normal part of growing up I guess? It still sucks obviously. Fuck, I just wanted my storybook romance. blegh
>>28578345Bro I don't even understand what you're mad about. That I use words that other people use? Kyiv is a bad word? Why is Kyiv bad? Because it used to be called Kiev? The pronunciation is nearly identical and it's a city on the opposite side of the world that I don't think about at all.If people in Ukraine want me to spell it Kyiv, I will because it's so irrelevant to me. Bangkok is actually called Krungtepmahanakon by Thai people. So what? Why are you so autistic about things that don't matter?
>>28578359Not just today.
>>28578344Oh ok, calling her a “stupid 18 year old” made it sound like you blamed her for it. She probably already blames herself, so there’s no need to heap more negativity on top.
>>28578354>we've already proven that singular use 'they' predates any 'academy' and 'media'Who cares that you can find some attestation to a niche use from hundreds of years ago?Does Shakespeare's usage of "wherefore" to mean "why" mean that it's improper to use that word in English to mean "because of which"? No.The academy, and after some time, the media, went searching for some justification for this project that began in Weimar Germany, and they found it after poring over manuscripts that nobody cared about for centuries. I literally do not care what some centuries-dead man who probably had lice scratched out with a quill.
>>28578363>you remind me of this other, unrelated thing that makes me mad!!Just fuck off lmao, you’re triggering yourself
>>28578373OF course, I'm nothing but supportive to her and don't vocalize this. And yes, I see how it could come off that way. I just heard of this happening so many times.I already feel all my life that I am inferior to other man. To know that some fuckboy 'chad' (chad isn't an actual thing, but a preppy rich guy that sleeps around a lot) took my precious shy girlfriend and yoinked her virginity. It fucking upsets me.And I can tell it still hurts her inside too :(
>>28578369>w-w-w-w-why does it matter? it's just a wordSo let me ask you this: Did you support calling it "freedom fries"? Because that's what you're doing by saying "Kyiv." It's literally the same thing.
>>28578382It would be romantic if you tracked down that guy and did something terrible to him in minecraft
>>28578356look I get that you're esl but seriously?
>>28578385I didn't call them freedom fries, but I also never called them french fries. I just say fries.
>>28578386I'd frankly rather never think about him again, and I'm sure that's what she'd like too. But my stupid brain won't let me stop thinking about it and being upset and grossed out. Don't know what to do. Therapy maybe.
>>28578378>>28578388>>28578390>>28578394So no arguments. Thank you for surrendering. You may stop using singular they at any time, no need to thank me.
>>28578377So to you the traditional usage don't matter, the modern academic usage don't matter, the contemporary and classic literature usage of the word don't matter, and the common parlance usage don't matter.In the end you only care about your only little personal autistic definition and are throwing a tantrum trying to get everyone to follow you. You're actually mentally handicapped.
>>28578397I don't even know what you're arguing. You seem to be arguing everything in the world and history that has ever happened all at once.
Is it bad that I have a vicious burning hatred for white women who sleep with non-white men?
>>28578406You need to stop being angry about things that don't affect you. You'll probably be happier.
>>28578404The truth is he believes in nothing.
>>28578402>traditional usageAgain, you're confusing attestation with tradition. By your same argument we should be saying "Hwæt" and not "What".>modern academic usageYes, by definition that is not common usage.>contemporary and classic literature usageAgain, you're confusing attestation with tradition.>common parlance usageWhen that usage is in the process of being corrupted by manipulation from the academy? Yes, the usage you claim is common parlance does not matter.
>>28578406Allowing them to live rent free in your head is pretty bad, yeah.Just do what I do, I haven't thought about women for nearly a month now, until I entered this thread that is.
>>28578406MNo that is pretty common
Can you fuckers talk about anything interesting from once? How did your day go? Did you learn anything new? Stop bickering. Your problems don't really matter in the grand scheme of things
>>28578411So I should only care about myself, that'll surely make me happy
>>28578406It depends on whether you're a man or a woman.If you're a man, cope and seethe.If you're a woman, just go for white men.
>>28578418How do I stop seething at them then?
>>28578425Just give up hope, lmao.There's a certain tranquility in the void.
>>28578420my girlfiend and i watched catfish.the guy was a really ugly fat black guy that was catfishing a handsome young fit veteran black guy. Was using sexy model pictures to lure the vet in. Was really sad.
>>28578413How is it being corrupted if it was used before we even had the concept of academics? Just sounds like a return to tradition to me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
>>28578413Basically your whole argument this entire thread is>Leftists are badWhich all stemmed from a comment when someone said "they". You have serious problems man. You're hyperpoliticized, can't you see that? You've been brainwashed by this cite and are a radical now. Not everything is political. Go outside and smell the damn flowers. Smile at cute girls walking around. Eat some candy. Do something other than focus on politics.
>>28578430>How is it being corrupted if it was used before we even had the concept of academics?Once again, you are confusing attestation with tradition. I will remind you again the next time you get this mixed up.