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Does anyone get grandiose fantasies like I do? Come on I can't be the only one, right?

>fantasize about starting my own country
>fantasize about starting a pirate ship and becoming a pirate lord
>fantasize about building a personal army
>fantasize about having like 10 sons, train them to fight, and building a warrior clan legacy
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>>28571122
When you say you fantasize about this stuff, how does that work, exactly? Like, how long do you spend fantasizing in one sitting? You just sit there doing nothing else but thinking about starting your own warrior clan? .. did you give names to your 10 sons?
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>>28571122
At some point it is dangerous. None of it is going to be viable in any way.
Leave them, anon. Even if you know you're only joking, it seeps to your subconscience and makes you angry or stressed when it does not correspond to reality. Either that or it distracts you from things that do matter irl.
Keep your feet on solid ground.
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>>28571137
I mean like, I'll be washing my dishes or showering and just have these passing thoughts. So maybe like 30 minutes.

Or I'll be reading a book and start thinking about how cool it would be to adopt like 10 orphans from Ukraine or something and teach them all how to fight, build a reputation as a family
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>>28571165
Ehh that sounds normal enough to me, what the fuck else are you going to think about while doing the dishes? "Scrub scrub, rinse, ow that water is hot as fuck, damn this shit is stuck on there bad.." Sounds boring as fuck

The grandiose part of all your stuff is a little weird sounding, yeah, but doesn't really mean shit necessarily I don't guess. I've just never wanted to be the big strong leader guy, or the famous guy, the one in the limelight, all that gay shit, personally. To each their own though
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>>28571165

When I’m washing up and going to sleep too

>smartest man in the world who invents quantum computer, fusion reactor, single stage orbit etc.
>multiple weight boxing champ who moves to UFC and becomes multiple weight champ
>Great general like Napoleon but without the getting defeated by the Brits endings
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>>28571271
>by the Brits
Hah they would have gotten btfo if Blucher and the Prussians didn't show up in the middle and even then it was close
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>>28571271
>Great general like Napoleon but without the getting defeated by the Brits endings
Napoleon was defeated by basically all of Europe + Russia, not just the fucking Brits

I dunno, I used to think about being a Dragon Ball Z character sometimes at night if I couldn't fall asleep lol. Course I was like 8-10ish but what difference does it make? I guess it depends if this is how you are in real life too?
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>>28571323
>I guess it depends if this is how you are in real life too?

I mean who the fuck wants to live a boring life?
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>>28571122
>grandiose fantasies
I'm so depressed I don't even dare to fantasize anymore.
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>>28571531
Might cheer you up a bit, don't you think? Need a little positivity in your life, you depressed fuck
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>>28571531
maybe OP fantasizes to cope with depression
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>>28571122
Idk op you sound cute. That's what those civilization and video games are for, even grown ass adults want their fantasy worlds. If you come up with something interesting enough, write it down and share it with the world.
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>>28571122
maladaptive daydreamingmaxxed and escapism-pilled
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>>28571122
>grandiose fantasies
It's just autism, some roleplaying you wont act on so it is fine.
Now if you were to inform your surroundings that you are a genious or a god that reads everyone's mind, that would be a problem.
.t, had a family member acting like that
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>>28571137
>did you give names to your 10 sons?

What should I name my 10 sons?
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>>28572260
>civilization and video games are for, even grown ass adults want their fantasy worlds

good point
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If anyone doesn't do this, I don't trust that they're human
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>>28571122
I used to fantasize about having superpowers often, or a system that I could do quests on to gather points to level up and shit, or having a machine that would answer any question I had.
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When I was in highschool I used to write short epics featuring me and my highschool friends going on adventures and doing retarded shit. Good times. I haven't written any of those in a long while and my friends stopped giving a shit about my stories after a few years. They were cringey as fuck but for a short while, i was the happiest fucker ever. I think it's the human condition to want to go outside and explore the world.
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>>28573144
>a machine that would answer any question I had.

sounds like google
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>>28573209
nah I mean like with magic, so it could answer questions as well like "does my ex sometimes miss me too" (the answer is obviously no)
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>>28573222
>"does my ex sometimes miss me too" (the answer is obviously no)

kek
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>>28571122
i fantasize about sexual activity with underage boys
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>>28571122
Anon, I do it everyday. I think about a new fantasy every day.
Yesterday, I was making a fantasy about becoming the new South American drug lord, using only dialogue and ditching violence.
Making this fantasies is the only thing keeping me alive, mind to share some of yours?
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I fantasize and daydream all the time in particular while listening to music and walking in circles, I do this all day basically every day. I have a lot of ongoing storylines in my head, all of which are better than reality.
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>>28571122
I sometimes dream about killing putin naming myself the zar of russia be celebrated by russians and the west alike, then doing a coup in america killing all politicians and naming myself the dictator of America. Kind of a /pol/ thing to do. I spend most of my time on pol. And imdomthat for an hour at a time and walk around in my house.
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>>28573612
Tsar*
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>>28573365
Same lol
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>>28571122
You are the only person to have ever done anything like that.
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>>28571122
back when I was younger I was porr and had no pc/video games and was a social outcast, so I to cope with my shitty life would spend an entire day when not watching tv walking in circles around the house daydreaming about a very good life of being popular/rich.
This went for so long I started to daydream in public to the point I now have complete dissociation with my life, no friends and trying to get myself together because I wasted my youth
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>>28573987
>This went for so long I started to daydream in public to the point I now have complete dissociation with my life, no friends and trying to get myself together because I wasted my youth

I think this is what happen to me. I disassociate and daydream regularly now, and I think it's the result of a traumatic childhood with no escape so I had to escape somehow
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kino
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>>28571122
Write a novel. Might as well make stories that teach you moral lessons.
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>>28571165
This is normal but lol don’t do child soldiers those are child soldiers anon
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>>28573158
Keep writing please, for your sake. I’ve been doing retarded little drawings and they’ve been great for my happiness.
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>>28575915
idk man it looked pretty cool in Kengan Ashura when that fighter guy adopted a bunch of orphans to teach them his secret martial arts style. At least I won't be giving them all the same name.
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>>28571122
>fantasize about starting my own country
Yep, every now and then.
I also have an embarrassing amount of time in city building simulators games.
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>>28571122
Put these fantasies to use and become a writefag, create lore and archive it.
You can turn this into a valuable skill and potential revenue.
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>>28576248
I am actually a writefag trying to come up with my own book

but often too depressed to write
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>>28571122
I don't see a problem with any of these fantasies, so long as you're white or east asian.
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I understand. Real life is incredibly painful
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