i hate hookups because the post nut clarity makes me want to kill myself every single time and i barely enjoy the process because there's never any emotional connectioni'm 21 m with 4 bodies and i want to get a serious relationship at this point but my friends keep telling me i need more experience because i'm young and "you're supposed to have fun when you're young"should i listen to them and go fuck around a bit more or should i listen to my gut and try to find something a bit more meaningful
your friends are faggots, let them live their soulless lives how they want and you do what your gut tells you
>>28196628you're kind of wasting your emotional inertia, by that I mean it's going to get harder and harder to connect emotionally with a new partner everytime you hook up
>>28196657is this true or is it just bullshit because i haven't slept around enough yet to feel this, i still want something meaningful
>>28196667not that anon, but it is true. Read No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai to see it in depth. You're lucky you figured it out this early, don't listen to your friends, find something meaningful when you're young, those are the most likely to last a lifetime
>>28196628Having sex before marriage is terrible. I’m not talking about getting drunk and banging some chick. I’m talking about sleeping with a girlfriend. It feels like you’re being naughty or you feel guilty or that something is wrong - because it is wrong. Sex is completely enjoyable inside a marriage where you have committed your lives to each other and there is security and certainty. Simple as.
>>28197944>>28196985thank you guys i'll try to make the best decision here, gotta convince my friends to leave me alone though lol
>>28196628Listen to your gut, because it's emotional connection that you seek. And emotional connection makes the sex a thousand times better