Previously on ATOGA>>28194403Virgin Captive Edition
Anons, would you love a woman into fiery, endless surrender?
>>28196578These books were weird to read, I got starred at funny for checking these types of books.
>>28196589As you should. Now i want to try getting one and reading it in public to harvest weird looks.
What would you do if your job goes against all of your beliefs and morals, makes you miserable and you can’t quit
>>28196593>can‘t quit? Why not? There‘s only one thing in life that‘s inevitably. And that‘s dying.
>>28196585Who surrenders?Or are we surrendering to our desires?Either way, yes.
>>28196593Quit, get another better job or one that doesn't make you feel like shit
>>28196597You to me and i to you and we to us, yes.
>>28196593are you a fed
>>28196493Ty anon, u as well for your ambitions>>28196486Its nice to be wanted and to have people show it so I understand>>28196576Actually an ADC main at heart, I just got tired of having no control over the outcome of games so I made the switch
Girls, thoughts on being ravished by horny teenage boys in the throes of lust?
>>28196591Why do you want to get starred at? For attention? Don't you get enough attention from guys on here?
>>28196614I like snubbing stuck up bores. I do; but i‘m insatiable.
>>28196605I am a zogbot I can’t quit. The government owns me for 3 more years. Even after that I will probably reenlist because I don’t have any other way to pay for food and housing
>>28196623Stop complaining that you‘re treated like a worm when you behave like one.
>>28196606>ADC main at heart, I just got tired of having no control over the outcome of gamesI understand.
>>28196623just fight for not getting killed and quit later
>>28196620A teenager needs a role model,if they saw a teacher throwing tantrums theyd get the rather silly idea that this is how adults ought behave
>>28196625What do you mean behave like a worm
Post gender.Do you think what happened with Jessie Slaughter was unfair?
>>28196635Yes because the goal is to learn that as an adult you have to keep your composure no matter what, suppress your authentic emotions at all costs, so you can keep up the image. Let nobody see your true self because that might be cringe or weak. Just smile and wave boys, smile and wave. Bite your tongue, grind your teeth, let nobody see the pain, let nobody catch you with your guard down. This is exactly what i‘d want my sons to learn. To become soulless robots that just function no matter how much you pile on top of them. So fucking glorious i can‘t wait.
>>28196636Force yourself to succumb to stuff that makes you lose respect for yourself and love for humanity.
Both gendersWould you have sex or get a blowjob from pic related for $80?
>>28196645I‘d rather buy her a bottle of absinthe for that money. She looks like she could need some.
>>28196645If I payed for sex, then yeah sure. inb4>Lol, it's a tranny! You couldn't tell from this completely blown out image which means your gay!
>>28196645Id pull her by the earlobe
>>28196645No, I'm a real miser, I'm not paying when I'm happy enough with my left hand
>>28196649Ofc it‘s a tranny. That anon is obsessed.
>>28196640FI barely know the case. 4chan harassed a person that had been raped by a band guy? And later 20 other people came out saying they’ve been raped by the same guy, many of them underage
>>28196645Come on babe, why do you have be either or? Can‘t you just be you?
>>28196649It’s not a tranny I’ve coomed in her pussy before>>28196646She doesn’t need absinthe all she needs is dope. >>28196651She gives excellent throatjobs anon
>>28196661Oh, good for you. Skinny girls only.
>>28196661Why are you so obsessed with her?
>>28196666I’m not she’s just a prostitute that I see occasionally. I wouldn’t even say she’s my favorite but she is good with her mouth
What would you do if your adult child seriously crossed a line you have through some decision they've made in their life or something they've done to you or family?What is that line for you?
>all the older/middle aged ladies I work with keep trying to convince me to ask out specific coworker >all the dudes keep encouraging me to make a move on same coworker Why is everyone "shipping" me and this woman? Is she telling everyone she's into me, or does everyone just genuinely think we'd be fucking awesome together? I don't get it
>>28196635I meant it's stupid to say that teens shouldn't talk about taxes or bills
>>28196640literally who cares about her in current year, she's fine>>28196645noM
>>28196642>suppress your authentic emotions at all costs, so you can keep up the image. Let nobody see your true self because that might be cringe or weak. No one should tolerate childish behaviour in a serious environment/institution. Its insolent,pathetic and sets off a bad example. >Just smile and wave boys, smile and wave. Bite your tongue, grind your teeth, let nobody see the pain, let nobody catch you with your guard downA stranger isnt a friend,its a stranger.>This is exactly what i‘d want my sons to learn. To become soulless robots that just function no matter how much you pile on top of them. So fucking glorious i can‘t wait.Would you rather your sons cry in front of a crowd full of boys and girls when something bad happens to them? If youre sad and need help you dont HAVE to show it to others,unless its an exceptional situation,and even then being weak before others allow ones enemies to see our weakness,which is awful.
GenderJobIQAgeNumber of sexual partnersMPastry chef145320
>>28196680report them all to hr. you're not even supposed to consider your coworkers to begin with
>>28196692FNetwork engineerI dunno, average210
>>28196692MMeme creator 139230
M or FDo you think Lex Fridman is a CIA asset or plant? His rise to fame seems way too inorganic, especially for the guest he has on.
>>28196692>GenderMale>JobPlane mechanic>IQI don’t know >Age24>Number of sexual partners40-50 idk
>>28196692M / systems programmer / [REDACTED] / 26 / take a wild guess
>>28196692FSoulcollectorNot applicableImmortal All of them
>>28196705>Plane mechanicWait, I thought you were in black ops or some zog shit?Didn't you have a top secret mission for a few months?
>>28196705>40-50Holy fuck that‘s nasty
>>28196704There's certainly some foul play there, the man is literally the worst interviewer I've ever seen, but I have no idea what the fuck it could be. Maybe he just pays them obscene amounts of money? I don't know if you can turn a profit out of that...
To women,I have 5 days off work starting tomorrow. No particular plans. Should I get in my car and do an impromptu road trip to find a nice beach up north? I've never been north. Could toss a tent in the boot and spend a couple of days just tooling around, reading books, sun bathing and swimming. Am ausfag so this is ideal beach weather.
>>28196692FInvestor/entrepreneur Above 140264
>>28196711Top secret? Yeah I guess? I have a secret clearance but it’s not like I know anything important. Didnt have phone service where I was, that’s why I didn’t post. Im not in special forces or anything. I just fix fighter jets lol
>>28196714>Maybe he just pays them obscene amounts of moneyHe's had Elon Musk on 3 times.The former CEO of fucking Google was on his 8th episode.No shot he can afford their time.
>>28196716Which part of immortal is hard for you to understand?
>>28196717Sounds perfect. Do it.
>GenderFemale>JobHighschool dropout>IQIdk around 130>Age18>Number of sexual partners6
>>28196705>40-50 idkList each race and how many.Approximately obv.>>28196721Guy on the left looks like Jim Carrey.
>>28196713It’s not that gross I just like to coom
>>28196721>I just fix fighter jetsWho is the ghost of Kyiv?
>>28196716*comes back to life and haunts you forever*
>>28196723*puts you in cement shoes and throws you over the mariana trench*
>>28196729Mostly white, maybe 10 Asian. One Guatemalan jew
>>28196737*becomes demon and possesses you and makes you do degenerate shit against your will*
>>28196692>F>Lab tech>no idea, probs middling>31>7
>>28196733>Who is the ghost of Kyiv?Some fake and gay jewish psyop, just like everything else
>>281967411>power gap>3>4>power gap>21 mogs them to smithereens
>>28196723>F>ImmortalU better not be lest i hear you complain for the rest of eternity
>>28196749You‘re the one i hear complaining all the time.
>>28196744How hot are you?
>>28196745I really want to fuck an amputee, idk why.
>>28196692MCurrently NEET130? They had me tested when I was a child, all I remember is that it was well above average, like everyone they test260
>>28196750I do it on an anonymous forum for weebs i bet you 5$ you do it irl to all oyour family members
>>28196753Novelty and power play
>>28196756When have you ever seen me complaining?
>>28196610Very sexy, if not slightly pedophilic
>>28196752I think I'm pretty hot with my clothes on, at least.
>>28196610Those sorts of things are only hot on paper.
M or F Post how old you were when you had thoughts about banging your teacher?
>>28196768FThat has never happened.
>>2819676813. I still want to fuck you, ms. G
>>28196761I bet that you do
>>28196768F, never. I had thoughts about banging other teachers when I was a teacher myself, though.
>>28196768f, my science teacher at 14 was a very fun, good looking, young guy.
>>28196765What are you interested in besides your job? What kind of tech are you working with?>With my clothes onWell duh,what other type of hotness is there
>>28196772Do you base all your hate on asooooomtions?
>>28196774Librarian mommy is that you?
>>28196768I never wanted to bang my teachers,not even the sexy looking ones but i was always into the IDEA of fucking a hot teacher as a middle schooler but only on the condition that she initiates it
Do men really use any object to masturbate?
>>28196783That‘s a sin
>>28196781Well I do have an ass so i can assume as much as i want.
>>28196786Im only human after all,dont put the blame on meeee
Girls is it a turn off if guy has low tolerance for alcohol?
>>28196787Watch out or i‘ll consooom your asss
>>28196792Nope, I do too and pretty much never drink
>>28196780I have homebody hobbies like gardening, baking, knitting/crocheting, shitposting, etc.I work at a college now, so I really don't get my hands on with anything advanced anymore. Centrifuges mostly.>what other type of hotness is thereThe good kind.>>28196782I doubt it. I was never a librarian and I never let anyone call me "mommy".
>>28196791Don't ask me to lieThen beg for forgivenessFor making you cry
>>28196792No. It's only a turnoff if he's against drinking overall, to the point that he judges me for drinking.
Girls is it a turn off if a guy needs a GPS to get around his own city?
>>28196798No. He shouldn‘t use his pretty little head for shit he has technology for anyways.
>>28196798I'm going to be mean and reductive and say yes. In my experience, a guy with no spatial awareness is always bad at sex.
LA anon here, in the middle of an Earthquake, it's pretty big.
>>281968095seconds of rapid shaking and then about a minute of tremors.
>>28196809Just googled it. 4.3
>>28196812Yeah it‘s spoopy when that happens.
>>28196793Make sure to brush your teeth
>>28196797He would judge you only if you went for a kiss after puking or if you kept drinking while pregnant.
>>28196817That won‘t be enough
I have question about a relationship I'm not involved in.I have this girl in my discord server who had a 3 months relationship back in summer and since the guy went abroad for his career and thus broke up with her, it's all she talk aboutLiterally everyday, "I miss him", "I wasn't good enough" and so on and so forth.It's honestly getting kinda annoying cause it's been going on since I think september or something, though she did date some other guys in between.Any tips on how to help her to let go, I find it unlikely they're going to get back up together at some point.
>>28196813That was a pathetic quake my LA brother
>>28196820Obviously she needs to remember her own value. Idk if you can help her do that. Can you?
>>28196795> have homebody hobbies like gardening, baking, knitting/crocheting, shitposting, etc.I work at a college now, so I really don't get my hands on with anything advanced anymore.you got demoted because you got caught doing shady stuff and got sent to a boring college?>The good kindPervert
Do I really need uni to have that late teens/early 20s style social life? I don't even want to join a frat or hookup like crazy, I just want to have a circle of good friends, constantly be meeting new people and date cute girls
>>28196796I wouldnt have to ask you to lie to me if i didnt know you had stuff to hyde,you understand me,doc?
>>28196819Youre saying my ass is dirtier than your mouth? How dare you
>>28196826If i had anything to hide, i‘d just lie and you wouldn‘t have to ask me to do so. It‘s you that thinks i should hide things i don‘t feel like hiding.
HOW DO I GET ONE OF YOU AS A GF ALREADY JUST TELL ME REEEEEEEE
Girls what if your bf wanted to introduce a second girl in your relationship?
Why women get offended so fast?>hook up with a girl in tinder>about to have sex>wait that's big! It will hurt!>tell her she's a big girl>gets upset, starts dressing up>while she leaves I try to explain she reminded me of a big guy from a movie>doesn't listen
>>28196818I could maybe see myself doing the former. The latter, definitely not.>>28196824>you got demoted because you got caught doing shady stuff and got sent to a boring college?No, I just stopped pursuing clinical work in favor of something both in the field of biological sciences AND in my area of expertise of education. But I don't have the right piece of paper to teach college courses yet, so I'm just working in the lab and assisting professors for now.>PervertI've been called worse.
>>28196825It's not the 10's anymore bro college kids are asocial as fuck now.
>>28196834>Baneposters are socially stunted they can't even get laidPottery.
>>28196834>she‘s lying to you to make you feel masculine>you‘re doing your best to make her not feel feminine Geeee i wonder anon
>>28196833Depends, how involved is she? Like full on 2nd girlfriend?
>>28196833Off the table, unless she's a marriage officiator and he wants us to tie the knot.
>>28196842Liar.>>28196841Finally an honest female.
>>28196832IDK I FEEL LIKE I CAN‘T MAKE IT ANY EASIER FOR YOU
>>28196840Will guys really feel masculine if I recoil in disappointment that their dicks won't comfortably fit in me?
>>28196833Sure, if we get along
>>28196830You dont feel like hiding some things but maybe you should,lest you look less like a lady before me
>>28196846I think you'd reject me if you met me in real life, assuming you're skinny and younger than 30.
>>28196845I don't share my guy. Which is pretty hypocritical of me since I have gangbang fantasies.
>>28196848Yes absolutely. Secretly the all want to feel like they are impaling you on their cocks, rearrange your guts and split you in two.
>girl is getting into a hobby>I am already deeply involved in that hobby>she talks to me about it today, shares a bit about her learning experience and progress>offer some tips and encouragement in returnW-was I supposed to invite her to go with me for a lesson or something?
>>28196836>No, I just stopped pursuing clinical work in favor of something both in the field of biological sciences AND in my area of expertise of education. But I don't have the right piece of paper to teach college courses yet, so I'm just working in the lab and assisting professors for now.Is it an interesting job? I feel like i could get used to teaching college students myself one day>Called worseI bet they had no reason to do so
>>28196851>lady before meOh no no no no ahahahah That‘s exactly what i meant.
>>28196852Oh ok then move along
>>28196698Hey I'm 21 M and I think I passed up on the opportunity to do network engineering. May I ask you some questions about it? It's mostly to see what I'm missing out on.How much do you use algorithms? Do you use logistics problems like network flows? What do you usually do in your job and what knowledge have you aquired because of it? Thanks
>>28196859What‘s the hobby? And yes ofc you idiot.
>>28196837>It's not the 10's anymoreNever thought I'd get so unironically nostalgic for 10-15 years ago, late 2000s was unironically where it was at, all the upsides of today without the worst of the negatives
>>28196870>everything used to be so much betterOk boomer
>>28196868Well it's skating. She is learning to roller skate and I have been rollerblading and ice skating since I was a miniature human.Also she is single and has been dating in the past few weeks so I'm worried I might have missed my chance.
>>28196856That's retarded. The best physical aspect of having sex with a guy is that it feels good to let him control certain aspects of penetration. But I can't enjoy something too big unless I literally control everything going on.
>>28196873I'm 22 kekAlthough by TikTok standards that's p old
>>28196878Whatever floats your boat
>>28196823Probably not meThe server has very varied member and everyone tried their own way to cheer her upI'm not sure what to say personally, hence this post
>>28196861It's interesting enough. It's part-time, so I pretty much go in as early as possible, use my great time management skills to get all the urgent work done ASAP, get ahead of professors' requests by a week, then either enjoy the downtime or just go home. It's super flexible and is building my relationships with the hiring staff there, couldn't ask for a better transitional job.
>>28196880>you'll never play MW2 with the boys screaming the N word at 40 year old men again
>>28196880You just made me realize that those stuck in the past are the people who are miserable cunts who‘s life became progressively worse the older they got. So respectfully, speak for yourself.
>>28196890>gamers in a nutshell
>>28196883Sounds like the most insufferable server ever
I've been doing more reading about BPD and another thing I do a lot and have done is "splitting" I used to look at the world very much as there are Evil people and not Evil people. Now I don't think quite like that, but I still view people in a lens of I like them or I hate them.Friend does something for me? Best person in the world, I love them.They don't message me back? I fucking hate them, piece of shit person who doesn't give a damn about me or how I feel. I don't act on these thoughts but they cloud my mind, I've been talking to myself asking them (the them in my head) why they hate me and saying I fucking hate them over and over all day just as I am going about my day.
>>28196862I want to see my woman as a lady not as a younger,dumber,less mature sister
Ok second questionGirls would you be the second girl in a relationship?
>>28196896Good luck with that.
>>28196585No, not again.
>>28196825>Do I really need uni to have that late teens/early 20s style social life?No>>28196808Damn, hope u alright>>28196785No but I've fapped to some questionable things >>28196768Idk 12 lol>>28196771Based, I had a Stacy chemistry teacher called Mrs. G too
>>28196890damn>>28196892That's literally me though
>>28196902>NoCould you elaborate?
>>28196692MReceptionist Idk I'm quite stupid 240
>>28196898Relationships are such an idiotic concept. I wonder who came up with it.
>>28196886Interesting. Has it ever happened to you to actually be told to do something that you didnt know how to do? Or to have superiors who hardly do their jobs then expect you to do yours as well as a part of theirs and if you didnt do an exceptional job,be blamed for it?
>>28196676Crossed a line in what sense? I don't think anything could make me stop loving or disown a child, but might have to distance ourselves for safety if they're a violent psychopath or something
>>28196864Well, every girl says that. How do I stop it from happening?
>>28196914Not that shit again. Stop feeling sorry for yourself 24/7. if you want to be treated with respect, start being someone worth treating with respect.
>>28196893This was like 2009 it was different then. It was a term of endearment.
>>28196593if you can't quit it's slavery, not a job
>>28196645No but I'd take her to a punk gig>>28196640Who?>>28196593>and you can’t quitTry to cope and do good things in my free time to compensate
>>28196919That explains why it‘s so retarded.
>>28196922I get internal validation
>>28196921Maybe by not treating others like objects to fit into your predetermined mould but instead as actual beings worth getting to know before judging them based on arbitrary measurements.
>>28196832an atoga femanon or a girl in general
>>28196914No, most of what is asked of me is simple enough to google or ask about if I'm not sure about it. And I always make sure to help out when I can, but the head of the department, my boss, has pretty much told me to tell any professor who asks me to do something without a week's notice or explicit instructions to do it themselves.
>>28196585I'd firey-ly surrender to her>>28196895>They don't message me back? I fucking hate them, piece of shit person who doesn't give a damn about me or how I feelThat does sound like a BPD (or bipolar) moment
>>28196645Is that a guy? If yes then it would be impossible for me to get hard naturally.If a woman, then I don't know. Is she a nice person? Will I see her again?Don't care about $80 though.
>>28196935>women>actual beings worth getting to knowlol
>>28196848I'd feel terrible because I'd think it was an excuse and there was some other reason you were put off
>>28196925I had extensive experience with the word in the late 2000's, I'm sure I was called it more than anyone else ITT, and most of the time it was not a term of endearment.
>>28196909Uni makes it a bit easier because you're forced to interact with peers more and there are lots of clubs and events, but that doesn't mean you can't get involved with similar things and go on nights out etc. even if you're not a student Some of the most sociable people involved in lots of groups and trips and partying etc. I knew in my uni days were not students themselves
>>28196933If that was true you wouldn‘t hate your own guts so much.
>>28196935Nothing is arbitrary based on what I've seen, and women know this. If a woman is just barely attractive, I might as well be invisible to her. But if she's fat/ugly, she's friendly and flirts with me.Seems to me like these are rules women came up with.
>>28196938Sounds like an amazing job and life. Wanna take me in there too? Youd be like a cool aunt who would save me from this nasty place
>>28196944How could your gf reassure you that it really is her only complaint?
>>28196945Well I was 10, sue me.
>>28196954What part of "part-time" did you miss? I can barely afford to take care of myself and my dad. Another mouth to feed would be impossible. Good luck, though.
>>28196953So how has that attitude worked out for you so far?
>>28196958God I'm old. I'm glad my little brother around your age at the same time was a good boy and didn't use those words, at least.
>>28196961Oh rip. Sounds like you need a husband
>>28196971Working on it. At this point I'm also considering a wife.
>>28196945>I'm sure I was called it more than anyone else ITTidk anon I'd take you up on that challenge
>>28196973>WifeI wouldnt do that if i were you. Nothing beats a man-woman couple,except maybe jesus
>>28196961Nta but honestly (unless you are dedicating that free time to dating more) why not look for a secondary part-time job or something full-time?Not that there's anything wrong with only working part-time ofc but you do seem to worry about monies a lot
>>28196967>I'm glad my little brother around your age at the same time was a good boy and didn't use those words, at least....He was, trust me, that's just how it was back in the day.He was also throwing out every other slur from his mouth.
>>28196977Are you dark-skinned and posted pictures of yourself often on /b/ around that time, too?
Women do you consider it a green flag when a man has enough disposable income that he never seems to be worried about things like paying bills or affording a treat (e.g. a dinner date at a nice restaurant)?
>>28196955by not recoiling before she even tries it? By seeing the discomfort rather than her recoiling and letting me try to avoid it?Assuming the guy doesn't have a monster cock (I'm an inch over average) I don't see a reason to instantly recoil. I would legitimately think there's something wrong with it or you somehow have sexual trauma and seeing a dick, any dick, is an issue
>>28196984Moid here but yes obviously having enough money to be comfortable in your lifestyle is a positive kek
>>28196978I'm open to finding whatever sort of happiness is out there for me.>>28196980>unless you are dedicating that free time to dating moreI am. Dating more plus being the sole housekeeper and caretaker for my elderly father. I really don't think I could fit in another job right now, unless it was from home or something like that.
>>28196940>That does sound like a BPD (or bipolar) momentMaybe, after talking to bipolar friend I have noticed some things she tells me about it when I ask her I really resonate with. BUT, my "cycles" if they are that are more like I am unhappy most of the time, and then get bursts of being very happy or energetic or irritated for a few hours. I started keeping a diary to track myself mentally over months and it lines up as well. Hell my pasts posts about her are saying how amazing she is and blah blah blah, and while I do think highly of her she is still human with flaws and all that. I am pretty annoyed at her right now because I have not heard from her in what, 12 days now? I've posted about it here already, but what I didn't say was the plans we had for this weekend are my late birthday celebration with her. I'm not going to say anything about it, but if she conveniently doesn't mention that while she has been being around other people I am going to be pissed and I am going to let her know why I am unhappy, not that I feel like she would fucking give a damn (and even as I write that I realize it probably isn't accurate but its what my brain is saying)Tangent aside, I feel like my mood changing isn't long enough to count as bipolar, but who knows maybe it is.>>28196970I was talking to friends about it yesterday, but I just isolate when I am feeling like this. They have noticed I have been more distant recently (past few months) and not like I used to be, they are supportive of me and I know that but my brain still tells me they fucking hate me and that I fucking hate them in return, even though neither of those things are real.
>>28196989>Dating more plus being the sole housekeeper and caretaker for my elderly father Oh OK, that's totally fair enough then, ignore my comment lolWell the right guy will value your caretaker skillz more than pennies
>>28196981Don't you dare besmirch him.
>>28196982I concede...You were asking for it tho lets be real
>>28196988Idn man I went out to lunch with coworkers and the place refused to the split the bill. One of the younger girls immediately joked that she wouldn't be putting the bill on her card but I said I'd do it since I didn't want anyone else to feel obliged (because I know I have more than enough money to cover lunch, especially since they'd all pay me back right away). And a couple of the girls at the table reacted like it was this huge surprise that anyone would just be able to do that.
Girls how would you motivate your bf to go make that phone app required to pass a course in uni that will probably be a huge mess of boilerplate code and copying and pasting from ready apps to avoid rewritting boilerplate?
>I have to log into a reddit account to view porn Who made this stupid decision?I just want some OC sluts with anonymity
>>28196987I thought we were talking about unreasonably big dicks here, not slightly larger ones. Maybe I lost the context of the reply chain somewhere.
Is this the ideal woman body?
>>28196998You don't, change the url to old.reddit.com and you can see porn
>>28196995I was asking for attention and I got it, unfortunately it wasn't always the good kind.
>>28196994It's just the way things were back thenI have NOT A SINGLE TIME during those years hear someone go "hey you shouldn't use that word, that's a bad word". I bet N word & F word were used more frequently than "the" in those chats. Sometimes they were even combined into the almighty NFwordBut honestly, it had so little impact in those days that it's not really besmirching him.
>>28196996>the place refused to the split the billWtf, bruhAnyway a while ago when I ate with old friends one person paid and we just transferred him our shareI think those girls were mostly just surprised at your generosity. Most people are not lol. But especially if you're quite young, a lot of people our age are broke (I overextended myself just paying for myself on that day seeing friends as they all have well-paying jobs kek, but it's a rare occasion so fuck it)
>>28196989>unless it was from home or something like that.time to start up that mic again>>28197004just keep in mind that anyone searching for attention on /b/ got bad attention. They grab the most easy insult at a glance and toss it at you, since you're black the choice becomes very easy.
>>28196997Won‘t let him cum until he‘s finishes.
>>28196998>going to REDDIT for pr0n>>28196996I just read your post more carefully, I imagine most people would have enough in their account to pay for a few meals but idk maybe those girls really are living paycheck to paycheck, do you know what they do for work?
>>28196989Itd be so fucking hilarious if we had this conversation irl. I want a 31 yr old woman to tell me something like that to my face lol. Itd be something...new
>>28197018reddit is surprisingly good if you want porn of a specific typesimilar to how tumblr used to be good for it & nothing else
>>28197006Don't ruin my unrealistic memories with logic.
>>28196989What does jh even stand for?
>>28197016What if he masturbates instead?
Having an exam rn. Wish me luck losers
>>28197027I‘d cut his balls off for being disobedient.
>>28196964No attitude works. Doesn't matter what I do or think.
>>28197024Another liberal destroyed>>28197030ruh roh
>>28197028Good luck and congrats on making me not have fun shitposting anymore.
>>28197018>>28197009Well I'm late 20s and most of my coworkers are between 25 and 32ish. I have a fair idea of what most people in the company make and no one should be literally struggling. I'm continually surprised by how many grown adults have very little money to their name.
>>28197015>time to start up that mic againif I couldn't make money off it years ago, I'm def too old now.>anyone searching for attention on /b/ got bad attentionI got some compliments, too. If I didn't, I wouldn't have kept doing it. It wasn't until the cons outweighed the pros that I realized it was shitty in the grander scheme of things.>>28197026Jazz Hater. I hate jazz.
>>28197031Oh yeah, have you tried not being a miserable cunt?
>>28197002>ass that fat with small titsno thanks, looks very out of balance
>>28196940>>28196992>Not reading all thatTLDR>My only wonder is if my mood changing is too frequent to be "episodes", I used to think I was just insecure but I think its more than that now its like my brain tries to override reality with thinking people hate me and I hate them.Thats at least how I would look at myself if I was someone else trying to analyze my situation, and while I feel it is accurate I worry my own self bias is possibly changing that, I just need to see a therapist and get a professionals opinion. In my diary I called it the "grey man" and its just constantly whispering in my ear so to speak about how this person hates you and that thing they did was directed at you with the intention of hurting you.Ranting over but yea
>>28197035Understandable, it‘s basically chaotic 3deep5u noise.
>>28197032Exactly. Now bend over.
>>28197030What if he secretly would kinda like it if you cut off his balls?
>>28197037NTA, but thanks for confirming my insecurities.
Would you prefer a tall woman, say 5'10+, to have smaller or bigger breasts?
>>28197039It also smells, tastes, feels, and looks gross.
>>28197036Yes.Still nothing.Now what?
>>28197035>I'm def too old now.GentleWhispering is 36, anon, and she's one of the best. Gibi is 28 as wellOnly coomers care about some pretty young thing and I doubt they'll be the ones listening in>I got some compliments, too.I mean, things were different for girls because even the shitposters were incentivized to keep you posting. No such reason with dudes.Obviously you still got plenty of bad attention as well though because nothing /b/ likes more than ruining a good thing
>>28197034>no one should be literally strugglingThey're probably not then they're either not as generous as you/trusting as others or just have shitty expensive habits lol>>28197049Prefer? Bigger, but it doesn't matter. Tall girls with small boobs are cuuute.
Women, can you explain this to me? I don't get it.Any of you scared to eat alone?
>>28197048I refuse to believe you have an ass that fat. That shit is literally ridiculous, I've never seen any ass remotely that fat before IRL.If you truly do have an ass that fat, there'll be plenty of ass guys out there that will love you so you have nothing to worry about. I'm just not one of them>>28197049Both have their unique appeal. If you're sporty, I think small is definitely better though, if you're chubby both work great.
>>28197049Tall women are generally hot, I think I'd prefer the one with smaller breasts but take the one with bigger breasts if I had to choose irl for fairness.
Women, how do I, as a man, become more spontaneous?
>>28196640Most shit that happened in that era was kinda fucked. Remember that kid who killed himself, and everyone memed his parents that he did it over an iPod? Thank god for zoomers and 'unalived' so I don't have to hear 'an hero' anymore.
>>28197058I'm not a femoid but I was always told it's weird to go out for food alone. When I was in rome on a school trip I just sat down at a restaurant and people acted like it was some unbelievable thing.I don't wanna eat some fucking slice from a hole in the wall, I want to have a pizza from a real place.
>>28197061>but take the one with bigger breasts if I had to choose irl for fairness.What does this mean lol
>>28197058You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.
>>28197062Do what you want to do instead of always thinking about what you should do every now and then.
>>28197059I don't have those exact proportions, no. But flat plus big butt is still a less than great combination, like you said.
>>28197066The only way my brain can comprehend it is that he thinks everyone wants tall girls with small tits so to even it out he'd go for the one with big tits so they get some love too?IDK it's fucking weird
>>28197064Well, yeah, eating alone in a restaurant looks sad. I'm still not sure what she meant by this.
>>28197068And is that an attractive trait in a male partner?
>>28197058This obviously means that individuals who understand their self worth and appreciate the things they do for themselves shouldn't feel obligated to share themselves with anyone else if they don't want to. Which is dumb, but whatever.
>>28197069It's not, it's THAT fat when it becomes an issue.My ex had a pretty fat ass and was pretty flat up front. She was still attractive in all the right ways. It's only when things go to the extreme that it gets weird and that thing is, as the kids call it, "a huge dumpy"And like I said, I'm not even an ass guy, you'll probably get an even better response from themImagine a short skinny girl that has no ass with a J cup. It's just weirdThat doesn't mean that a short skinny girl that has no ass with an E cup can't be cute
>>28197077No it means that if you know your own worth you don‘t have to bend over backwards for others to validate it for you.
>>28197076In that sense, does "do what you want [instead of what you should do]" apply to things like just kissing the girl?
>>28197053>>28197036Any response yet? Your strawman is dying. Just admit modern women are insanely picky.
>>28197084Yes. But you have to be able to read the room to pull that off.
>>28197084I mean it's definitely spontaneous and if it's appreciated girls will like it, however if it's not appreciated you can end up in trouble. So you'll need to be able to read the room and it's also very important you will be able to deal with it if she pulls away or whatever. If you react negatively to the "rejection" in even a slight way it'll be weird
>>28197085My response is that it doesn‘t work if you only pretend to not be a miserable cunt.
If I go back to uni at 23-25 can I get the normal uni experience that 18 year olds get?
Guys and girls, would you enter a relationship with someone from another religion?
>>28197097Why not? If I don't look older I don't see what the problem is, I'm autistic/developmentally stunted so it's not like I'm any more mature than them
>>28197096M. I'm an atheist but I'd consider it. It really depends on how devoted she is because I refuse to raise our kids in any religion, so she'd have to be okay with that.
>>28197096Yes I am Orthodox and my gf is Catholic. It's insane how opressive catholicism is
>>28197096f, nah, im sure it can work but it probably wont, its just not in the interest of time
>>28197094College is goyslop
>>28197077>>28197081If she has self worth and wouldn't care about society, wouldn't she have no tattoos? If not for others to look at you and think "wow, how unique and interesting" then what for tattoos are?She would feel self worth with her own natural body with no need to "improve" it for the others. Same about make up.
>>28196676A child of mine? I feel like they'd basically have to rape or murder someone - and even then, it'd be a tough pill for me to say "they're the government's problem now" rather than assume responsibility for how they turned out (by which I mean committing to still visit them in prison and doing what I can to ensure their harm is contained and their life as peaceful as can reasonably expected, after justly selling them down the river and ensuring they're quarantined from society).But I don't have kids so idk.
>>28197090Well that sounds like an unprovable theory by you.What's your null hypothesis here? As in what proof would you need to see in order to admit that a guy's mentality has little effect on his dating success?
>>28197104What about Hindu or muslim?
>>28197107Tattoos aren‘t just for decoration, they are simply a form of communication or self expression sometimes. Maybe it‘s to remind herself of a lesson she learned.
>>28197094I switched courses at 21 & it felt identical. Just reach out at the very start of the semester because the further it goes the harder it is to make friends
>>28197096No. People that consider themselves >>28197112religious are always bat shit insane.
>>28196768FNever, gross. I did have paranoia about my teachers trying to bang me though, from around 16 (never transpired, pure paranoia). 10 if you count an eccentric (but harmless) karate teacher.
>>28197096if it doesn't have extreme restrictions, yesI wouldn't be able to date someone who didn't want sex before marriage, most likely. I'd likely also struggle with a devout muslim because of the whole no pork & haram meat thing
>>28197112My hypothesis is that you should stop thinking about what applies to everyone and instead focus on what works for you. Apparently none of what you have been doing so far has been working for you. Idk you even remotely enough to be able to say what the reason for that would be so i guess you‘d have to either give me more context or figure it out on your own.
>>28196768Only the like college girls that show up to teach a few classes for experience or whatever
>>28197119Didn't ask atheists, you amoral shit.
>>28196834if she didn't say 'for you' it was never meant to be
Women, is it unattractive if a man swears?
>>28197113Well I would date muslim girls if it meant I would have 30 wives
>>28197123Well I've tried a lot of things until now and nothing works. What do I do.
>>28197128No i don‘t like people that always filter themselves.
>>28197130As i said, i‘d need more context. What have you tried?
>>28196859YES PLEASE INVITE HER OH MY GOD>t. that girl a few weeks ago, desperately yakking on about this hobby in front of my equivalent of you until he finally fucking offered an invitation
>>28197134Everything.Might be better if you ask what I tried and I'll tell you if I haven't. And no I'm not fat, I shower regularly, I do my hair, etc.
Ladies, would you still date a guy who killed himself?
>>28197058I think most people are at least a little self-conscious about getting a full course meal at a restaurant alone kek When I waited tables they were the best customers tho and I'd flirt with them more
>>28197137Sure, let‘s go haunt people together.
>>28197135She's a coworker who has recently gone on a couple of dates with someone else from an app.
>>28196984Inconclusive. I'd have to see his bank statements to assess whether he's loaded enough to not worry, or if he's just irresponsible with money and too stupid to realise it. And even if he can afford it, flaunting wealth personally turns me off, but that's very specific to me.That said, while it's not quite a red flag, it's idk, an orange flag? if a guy is making purchases that he seems worried about. Like, just don't make the purchase if it's a concern. But being visibly worried just means you're poor AND a bitch, and saddles me with the responsibility of managing your decisions and feeling bad for you.
>>28197137Yes, I admire the ambition
>>28197094Yes you can kek, it's really not that different. However you might not want the exact same thing anyway, I had a slightly older friend who often hung out more with slightly older students vs. partying with freshers every night (but he was still in a main group with us younger guys). Also I was later roommates with a guy who'd gone to school in his late-30s (I assumed he was like late-20s when we met) and he was still partying it up and banging younger girls kek (just don't be a creeper)
>>28197136Have you tried focusing on the good in you?
>>28197139So you're saying I should eat alone in restaurants to get pity flirts from waitresses?
Ladies, would you date a guy who is a virgin?
>>28197096M, sure, why not>>28197106Based>>28197148Sorry I'm a guy who would flirt with femcels for tips
>>28197141OMG SHE'S LITERALLY ME FROM THE FUTURE PLS ANON I'M BEGGING YOU
>>28197150How did you do that?
>>28197154You're going to go on dates with someone else instead of asking out the guy you're actually interested in?
I had a bad sleep and now my vision is blury.(Have to squint while reading ATOGA)How to solve this?
Guys and girls, would you date someone with a bodycount of 100+?
>>28197156I put myself in a really good and tried to focus on my strengths when socialising.
>>28197087>>28197088>read the roomSo basically he should think about what he should do
>>28197159Depends on what his reasons are for this.
>>28197159Does she has nice personality?
>>28197141>>28197154(I'm clearly over identifying with this lol, take my words with a grain of salt. But just invite her to the hobby. Even if she doesn't want to, the worst case scenario is that you offered a polite gesture).>>28197157No, that much I exaggerated lol, but I'm presently very torn between asking this guy out myself or just sparing my pride and going on the apps instead, because he still hasn't asked me out and I'm a massive wuss.But I'm also not a normie, I feel like normies would be actively dating regardless. Certainly my normie friends are. App dates don't mean a whole lot, don't take it too seriously - but do take it as an indication of a time crunch. If you're gonna shoot your shot, shoot it now!
>>28197162*really good mood
>>28197154Okay since I missed this window do I just bring it up next time I see her and invite her to come along if she engages with it? Can I get away with making a very general invitation, like "hey if you ever want a lesson I'd be happy to take you skating" Since she's gone out with someone else and is on apps I don't want to put my foot in my mouth if I'm just misreading it, especially since we work together.
>>28197162What about when not socializing? Do you think deep down you‘re a good person? Are there parts of you you‘d rather hide or repress? Idk, like the porn you watch for example?
>>28196768M, I had the biggest crush on one of my teachers when I was in the first or second grade. 8 years later the latent urge to bang her manifested in the form of an /ss/ fetish that I still have until now.
>>28197164Segs>>28197166She has a very special and unique personality, even when it's shaded by the tragic circumstances of her lifestyle, and she will love you.
>>28197158Drink a cold glass of water and wakeup. If that persists through the day i think you might be ill
>>28197178Sure but is it about „hue hue i‘m using others as my sex toys“ or is it „wow hedonism let‘s surrender to the pleasure together“?
>I grew up poor and my bf didn't>i tend to store food for long times (especially good foods, up to a week), sometimes it will go bad before i eat it>He eats freely, and if we buy snacks or good food, he eats it within a day. Ex: we get a bag of cookies, he'll eat most of it and leave me 3 to 0 cookies>We moved in together and share groceries, (our pantry usually has ~1week of stock, we aren't starving) >He often eats food I'm keeping or planning to use later, this triggers that food insecurity and I feel like he stole food from me, and I get really angry.>He thinks food is there to be eaten and not kept, and he needs more food than me so it's fair>I think food should be shared 60/40 no questions asked, and if I notice i have something I'll not end up eating, he can eat it allWho's right? Any solutions?
>>28197158Put in some moisturizing eye drops. Drink more water today.
>>28197181She doesn't like talking about her past, but the second one.
>>28197174>Do you think deep down you‘re a good person?Yeah?Are there parts of you you‘d rather hide or repress?Uh... what? I guess to the extent everyone else does? Are you talking about anything specific here?>Idk, like the porn you watch for example?WHATI mean I like creampie porn but it's mostly pretty vanilla creampie porn.
>>28197184There‘s none that‘s right or wrong. You just have different approaches. Since he seem to be able to afford it, why not just get more food ao you never feel like you‘re being cheated out of your share of it?
>>28197158Go for a run, take a cold shower, eat something, watch CCS, go to an optician's>>28197159I might do (tfw no Panty Anarchy gf) BUT if she was clean, had been casual-sex free for a while, and convinced me she loved me. Else there would just be the worry I'll be bedpost notch #101 and she'll get bored. But I think people can change and look for different things at different points in life.An ol friend of mine banged like 10+ guys but is now engaged to someone she's been committed to for a year (he seems like a turbovirgin desu, also inb4 "beta buxx" he's younger than her and she's the more educated so it's def not for the money kek), I hope they can make it work.
Is there a bigger power move than marrying as a virgin and having your first sex in your honeymoon?
>>28197187In that case it‘s all good.
>>28197178>and she will love youOne more question, did she ever cheated on her 100+ boyfriends? Because if not, then I'm fine!>shows me all cool tricks in bed she learned from her previous boyfriends
>>28197184It's not fair of him to take your food without asking and not respect your difficulties with this. He should leave your stashing section at least, and just get more food himself if he's hungry/needs more. Hope you can work it out. I also had issues like this dating rich girls
>>28197191Oh well, i tried. You seem to try and make this way harder than it would have to be. Godspeed.
>>28197195How is that a power move?
>>28197197Most weren't her boyfriends but when she commit she commit
>>28197195Yes, not thinking your power/worth is tied to the numbers of sex partners you had or didn‘t have.
>>28197195>your first sex in your honeymoonHaving sex in a honeymoon sounds pretty dope desu
>>28197171Yeah, 100% just say something like that. With the guy I'm into, I talked to him about his hobby a few times and eventually was basically like "hey fun fact, I'm gonna be (hobbying) at this time and location" hoping he'd finally take the hint to come along, and he did. And the rest* was history.*('the rest' being us regularly hobbying together with me perpetually friendzoning myself and being too inept to extricate myself from it, but one step at a time. Two steps forward, three steps back - that's progress, right?).All that's to say, I'm 50/50 on whether this guy is intentionally or obliviously friendzoning me, so him inviting himself to join me was in no way taken as any sort of conclusive evidence despite my desire for it to be so. So I think you're totally safe to at least make the offer, in the event that she's not actually interested.
>>28197193>go to opticianI don't need to. I know my (one) eye is shit.>>28197185>>28197180OK, I'll drink more water than usually. Thanks!
>>28197199What are you talking about, I answered every single one of your questions.
>>28197208>I know my (one) eye is shit.Do you have glasses/contacts?Anyway just give it some time and don't stress
>>28197202Then I see no issues. She must have nice personality though.
>>28197202sure, because that's how it works
OK guys what do you text the girl on the day of the date, girls what do guys text you and what do you like to be texted? Is it shit like>excited to see you todayor some shit?
First date advice, what sort of things should I do, should I go for light touching or just keep it friendly or whatever, how to avoid ending up like pic rel in >>28197138
>>28197214I have a line I used every time: It would have been really nice if you did come. Then ghost and no replies.
>>28197214I don't text anything, the less you text before date (especially first for example) the better in my experience, because the more you want to know each other
>>28197184>>He thinks food is there to be eaten and not kept, and he needs more food than me so it's fairHas he expressed this in response to you communicating your needs? Or is this just his philosophy, and you haven't explained your own?>I think food should be shared 60/40 no questions askedThis seems fair (if communicated clearly), you're even accounting for his needs as a man, while not going overboard into self-sacrifice.>and if I notice i have something I'll not end up eating, he can eat it allI'm confused by this, and whether/how it's communicated. Is he just supposed to guess after a certain period of time? If you sometimes let things go off, how is he to know whether it's a case of "this is about to go off and she hasn't eaten it, therefore it's fair game" or "she hasn't directly communicated that she doesn't want it, therefore I have to let it go off or she'll get mad at me"?
>>28197202nta but honestly I would (other factors withstanding too). I think some people are able to separate casual sex from relationships. If the fucking around was purely hedonistic pleasure but she wants something serious now I'd give it a shotThe main worry would just be other mental health issues and problems etc.You could argue having a lot of bodies suggests higher likelihood of mental health issues, but then turbovirgins can also be nutters, so alone it's not a very good or fair metric
>>28197214M. I'd usually just confirm some detail we already sorted out to give her a chance to let me know whether or not she's coming. Like>hey I'll meet you around 7 tonight, it might be busy so phone me if you can't find me there
>>28197215Maybe some sidecuddle if it comes from the situation but otherwise stay friendly imo
>>28197220How much in advance?
>>28197209No you took them all literal instead of giving them any actual thought. Those aren‘t „yes or no“ questions that should be easy to answer, they are open ended as an attempt to get you to explore your self more so you can find out where the issue lies. Granted, it might be that you truly don‘t feel like you have to hide parts of yourself and that would be great, but i‘m a bit unsure if that‘s really true since most people do that, especially people that struggles to form meaningful connections with others. That usually is a very good indicator of them playing a role instead of being authentic, which is usually the case in those who fear that them being authentic would only lead to rejection. Yet you also have mentioned many things you‘ve done in an attempt to improve yourself, which again would indicate that you think you just as you are isn‘t good enough. Which might not be on you but truly on the people surrounding you always making you feel like you‘d have to be more than you am to be considered worth their time. Is there ppl in your life that you feel like they value you just as you are? Even if you wouldn‘t go to the gym or have a successful career?
>>28197207If you're a woman just make an obvious move. Like look him in the eyes intensely, get up close and ask him out directly to *obvious date place*. No beating around the bush or waiting for him to notice, you know it hasn't gotten you nowhere so far.
>>281972233 or 4 hours? Don't think too hard about it.
>>28197210I don't. Eye doctor said I need surgery.I have pic related. Pretty gross, isn't it?Surgery wouldn't fix my eyesight, but stop from getting worse.
Long hair in a guy, yes or no?
>>28197224Oh I see.I have close friends like that yeah but I would never date any of them.
>>28197228Anon please at this point your body is begging you to put it out of it‘s misery.
>>28197232I seen it anon, excuse my bad ingligsh.
Is >>28181922 true? Like what is the difference between hanging out and a date if you've not friends with that person?>>28197222Is this from a girl's perspective?
>>28197230You have to keep it well groomed which takes more effort than you'd think and have to experience have your hair works. Aside that women love long hair usually but men don't and because of this it may give you a low social status vibe which affects women. So you have to work yourself a lot if you don't want to come off as some hippie or something with a long hair. Also this weekend some girl refused to even speak to me because "I don't like long haired men" so it's vary.
>>28197239Because they're mostly guys, and the girls are ugly or taken.
>>28197225Yeah, I've finally come to accept that that's gotta be my next move, because I can't continue like this, and despite my best (terrible) efforts he seems none the wiser about my feelings since we started hanging out lol (can't blame him).I genuinely wanna be friends if he's not interested, which is why I've been so cagey about it all. But at this point, my being preoccupied with wondering if something more could happen is hampering my ability to even be friends with him. So it's really a case of "something or nothing," where even if he says no it'll be something of a relief to at least be able to focus on being friends. But fucking hell, I hope he says yes.>look him in the eyes intensely, get up closeEep. I'm thinking less intense and more just an honest "hey, I hope this isn't weird to say but I'd be keen to go out some time if you're interested" and take the conversation from there.
>>28197233Only after a year or few after getting blind.Would learn to walk with a stick in a city as a blind guy, probably buy groceries, get a gf who pitys me and try to have sex with her as a blind guy.Then would probably "accidentally" die because of boredome.Also, my eyes look normal, I don't know why that pic looks so weird.
Girls how upset would you be if, when you first started seeing each other, your boyfriend described you to one of his friends as "average looking" but with an "amazing body"??Also, in that same conversation, he (a 30yo), described you (a 27yo) as "a little old" for his tastes?
>>28197232Apt pepe.Have you ever swallowed a long hair and later taken a dangling shit? It's not pleasant.
>>28197251Did your boyfriend do this to you or did you do this you autist?
>>28197251Blocked for life
>>28197244No not hippie like rather barbarian like. I just haven't been to the hairdresser for half a year, it's still surprisingly short on the sides (~2 inches) but unusually long on the top, so idk what to do.
>>28197237>>28197222 (You)Well I'm a guy but girls seemed to like it. Also I'm pretty distant with not well-known people so it's for me as well, when a girl gets too intimate too quickly, I don't like that.
Girls, how would you react if a guy offered you 13000 in cash for free?
>>28197255How am I an autist for discussing my dating life with a very close friend and being honest about it? A private conversation you were never supposed to hear about.
>>28197262Nothing is free
>>28197262I‘d ask him if we want to go online shopping together.
>>28197257What do you mean by barbarian style? Show some pic. Also you still have to cut the ends about every 3 months.
Girls do you dream of dating a guy who's big and strong enough to pick you up and hold you against a wall for the entirety of the sex?
>>28197266how would that work? sitting on someone's lap while both of your hands are on the mouse?
>>28197268You don't really have to be extraordinarily strong for that (except you want to do it with some landwhale)
>>28197262Oh my bad i didn‘t register you said in cash. I guess i‘d ask him if he wants to go on a city trip together then.
Do you like monkeys?
>>28197270No like lighting the fireplace, cuddling on the coach, browsing stuff and showing it to each other and getting excited for all the cool stuff we found and ordered.
>>28197274yes, I like them very much
>>28197274f, love em and all their variations
>>28197237F. Yeah, she's right. If she's asking to bring a friend, or asking if anyone else is coming, she's probably trying to feel out whether it's a date or not. If you allow/encourage it to be a group thing, you're probably confirming that and friendzoning yourself, so unless you trust your ability to flirt and lock a proper date down once you've got her in person, I'd be wary of going down that rout.I'd just tell her "it's just gonna be us two" and see how that lands. If she's not interested and calls you on it, you can always spare your pride with a little "oh I didn't mean you COULDN'T invite anyone else, just that I HAND'T yet lolol." She'll see through it, but plausible deniability is a male superpower, it's all you need.Disclaimer, I don't think you NEED to go the pride-sparing rout, you certainly don't need to do it for anyone else's benefit. But if having that safety net is what it takes for you to make the move in the first place, then keep it in your pocket.
>>28197274Yes they are very cute
>>28197281how is this different from hippie style
Okay, so, if I can see that I'm having an effect on a girl (who is single), what am I supposed to do?Just the way she acts around me and reacts to me is clear she's at least a little attracted.
>>28197251>"average looking" but with an "amazing body">"a little old"this describes me, and the fact that it's true only makes it more hurtful even despite the complement lol.sorry anon, but you might be fucked. how'd she hear/find out about this?
>>28197135FUCK YOU, YOU ONLY HAD TO SAY "YOU SHOULD TAKE ME WITH YOU NEXT TIME" YOU THINK I READ MINDS OR SOME SHIT?
>>28197251"too old for me" and 3 years younger? Does he want 10yrs younger? 15? For shame.I could argue Devil's advocate and say he was bantering with his bros and putting you down to elevate his own station by saying "she's not that bad but i could still totally get a better one if i wanted to". But this doesn't sound any better at all.>this happened when you first started seeing each otherIf we had just met, I'd get out of there asap. If it's after a year or two, I'd be really angry and demand kinder comments that befit our relationship status, and if it's repeated behavior, I'd re-evaluate if it's worth it to stay with a scumbag who makes libertine comments to his bros about my privates.>inb4 the "age is just a number" "teen girls are the juiciest" anons answer: you know the site you're in, watch the circus
>>28197274fthey're too close to people and in the uncanny valley, it's creepy
>>28197288Are you interested?Ask her to hang out or something. Try and match her energy. If she's giving you plausibly deniable signs, give her some right back and let the escalation begin.
>>28197291they can also have beards, and dress him up in viking clothes then will look the same
>>28197283NTA but what‘s the issue with it being hippie style?
If you meet a couple of girls at a work party and the uglier of the 2 is very clearly making a move on you, does that mean the hotter of the 2 is definitely not interested in you?
>>28197301You'll look like some low social status guy with no plans for the future>>28197294But doesn't being close makes them so cute?
>>28197290>YOU THINK I READ MINDS OR SOME SHIT?It'd certainly solve a lot of problems if you did!!!
>>28197304Best you can do is make them feel compete for you
>>28197296I'm kinda interested yeah. I'm a bit difficult for flirting though because I flirt very freely and have very dry humour that takes getting used to. She seems to understand my jokes properly now and it seems like she's got her eye on me a bit.
>>28197305Sounds exactly like the vibe i‘d go for.
>>28197292Too old in the sense that 24 or 25 would have been better in terms of matching life goals (kids and marriage timeline).The conversation where these comments were made happened after your second date, but you don't find out until years into the relationship, and he's never repeated those remarks since.
Threesomes, yes or no? Guys and girls. What about foursomes?
>>28197311If you are very attractive, or in the first years of uni then you can go for, otherwise it's not a good thing.
>>28197312Lmao drop the fucker. What are you? His breeding machine/arm candy?
>>28197317Idk, I had a 50 something teacher with very long hair tied with a knot and it looked very chad on him.
>>28197313F, yes. FFM is hot, but I don't think I'd like MMF. Foursomes are probably too much
>>28197304No. Hot girls know their ugly friends are ugly, and will generally step aside from any man the ugly girl has 'dibs' on to avoid being 'mean.' They both know the hot one could have him, so hottie lets uggo shoot her shot first.If hottie DOESN'T step aside, she's likely a crazy bitch who feels the need to make a show of putting uggo in her place, which shows she's both mean and insecure, so watch out for that (that's if they're GOOD friends and uggo is clearly upset. Sometimes uggo is just a hanger-on and hottie has to live her damn life. It can be hard to tell the difference).
>>28197313Best i can do so far is one ffm threesome but if the vibe is right then i‘d be down for whatever.
>>28197313F. In real life, no, I'd never do group stuff. In my fantasies, it's way more people than a threesome or foursome.
>>28197318Okay so after the first two dates you tell your friends that he's perfect and that nothing would make you happier than marrying him? You never mentioned a single hesitation/downside to your best friend about someone you'd only just started seeing?
>>28197320>chad>teacherHow old are you?
>>28197326FMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM or FFFFFFFFFFFFM or FMFMFMFMFMFMFM?
>>28197330The first option.
>>28197329Not just a teacher.
>>28197332the least subconsciously slut woman
>>28197327Ofc i talk to my friends about stuff that is on my mind but it‘s never stupid crap like that that doesn‘t have any weight at all. It would be more stuff like talking about wether he‘s mature enough to lead a functional relationship, what he‘s struggling with or issues we‘ve ran into in trying to get closer.
>>28197335What do guys get out of that, though? It feels like a selfish fantasy to have.>>28197336Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
Would you date a porn actress?
>>28197337Okay, but those things that you consider important are equivalent to the things you just dismissed as having no weight. Guys and girls have different priorities. What's important to me in a partner is not the same as what's important to you, but they have an equal impact on the outcome.
>>28197310If you don't think your flirt style is a clear enough signal, I'd just make an effort to pay her special attention. Find excuses to talk to her, pay her more eye contact than you would a regular person you talk to, etc. Find ways to acknowledge her and make her feel like you notice/appreciate her in particular (eg, compliments - ideally on things she does in the moment, like saying she's funny after she says something funny, like you're learning new things about her all the time and really taking in the information. Compliments on constants aren't as good, eg 'hey, your hair looks nice today, even though it's exactly how it's been the last 10 times I've seen you').If/when you feel like you're on more solid ground (which could honestly be right now, just depends how bold you feel) just tell her something like "we should hang out some time" and see how she responds. It signals interest enough to embolden her to reciprocate, but is noncommittal enough that it's 'no harm, no foul' if she's either not interested or needs more time to feel comfortable.
>>28197338>selfish fantasyas opposed to selfless noble fantasies
>>28197338>Is that a good thing or a bad thing?It's just a thing nor good or bad. Just shows that women are not some sexless and pure idealistic creatures but animals filled with a lot of lust and urge to constantly fuck (just like men)
>>28197343You know what I mean. It's a dehumanizing fantasy. Like in it the guys would all be wearing masks or something anyway.>>28197344Don't get philosophical on me.
>>28197349My fantasy is fucking my mother-in-law during a honeymoon with my wife. What do you think?
>>28197349NTA but most fantasies are dehumanizing. That‘s the point. They are fantasies, they are supposed to be all about your own pleasure, regardless of how others involved would feel about it.
>>28197312>24 or 25 would have been better in terms of matching life goals (kids and marriage timeline). That's bullshit. How does this make sense? Explain.>until years into the relationshipDamn that only makes it worse. How do I know then that he hasn't aired out even more private things over time? I'd be asking myself: have his friends seen my nudes? What do they know about my sex life? Do they see me as his partner or as a vehicle/path to sex and children?>>28197327>You never mentioned a single hesitation/downside to your best friend about someone you'd only just started seeing?So you do admit you see her being "too old" and "average but fuckable" as a downside/reason for hesitation. Things are only getting better omfg
Give me your best tips/tricks to easily study/memorize this for an exam you have in less than 48h, please?
>>28197340The difference is that one is about wether that person is a good enough object for you to consider dating them and the other is talking about things that naturally come up when people connect. You can‘t tell me that it‘s the same thing to tell your friends her nose is too big for you to find her beautiful is the same as telling them she‘s struggling with grieving her dad atm and it‘s hard on your relationship because she‘s in a very dark place.
>>28197361>memorizeThat comes easy to me sorry pal.
>>28197360>explain>>man wants kids and marriage in 3-5 years>>girl who is 27 wants kids and married in 2-3 years>>a slightly younger girl will want kids and marriage on roughly that same 3-5 year timescale, making them a better match for life goals>I'd be asking myself:Seriously? Some comment from years ago makes you think he's shared every detail about your life? Why would you not have considered earlier that he may talk to his friends about your relationship?>So you do admitWhere did I say those weren't downsides? Of course physical attractiveness matters in a relationship. Once serious feelings are involved your looks don't matter. Or, more accurately, you automatically seem much more attractive due to feelings.
>>28197361Write a cheat note. This way you have to condense the informations, filter what‘s most important/the essence, break it down in easy and short pieces and then actually write it out. Works every time. It also helps actually taking it with you. You won‘t need it but it feels like a safety blanke and keeps you from going full anxiety. Good luck.
>>28197339Sure, if she was clean (though I'm not a fan of the industry and would hope it wasn't taking a toll)>>28197361CrammmJust go over the important points several times and quiz yourself
>>28197365I'm saying that men and women value different things. You're right, your example isn't equivalent.What IS equivalent is me telling MY friends that you're average looking, and you telling YOUR friends that I'm struggling with my dad's death. The value you place on those emotional connection items is approximately the same as the value that men place on physical connection items.
>>28197377Aaand this is exactly why i am going to stay single forever. No thank you eww vomits.
Ladies, your bf leaves you for a year because he has to go to the military. Do you cheat on him or do you stay loyal?
>>28197372I already have that with pictures since it's for pathological anatomy/describing organ lesions both in macro and micro.The problem is that it's an obscene amount of stuff
>>28197381Guys on this site are not representative of real life lol
>>28197382I wouldn't date a guy leaving for the military
>>28197383>obscene amountGuess go pop some pills and pull a few all-nighters then
>>28197386Oh so you don't care about how a girl looks?
>>28197388You've been dating 1+ years before that.
>>28197386I wish but my experience taught me otherwise
>>28197391I do care but I'm not gonna go telling friends that someone I'm dating is "average looking" kek
>>28197353>My fantasy is fucking my mother-in-law during a honeymoon with my wifeSame
>>28197353It must be interpersonally motivated by something I can't understand, so it's hard to judge. Fantasies with specific individuals are like that.>>28197357Well I still feel bad about some of them.
>>28197382I wouldn‘t date in the first place. Pointless af. This way we‘re both free to live our life and not be on hold for each other.
>>28197392I wouldn't date a guy who would ever leave for the military lol, but even if I did, it would have to be broken off before he left, no point leading both of us on
>>28197397What if his country forces him to go to the military and he has no choice? He won't go to war, just run around and learn shooting.
>>28197396>Well I still feel bad about some of them.Like what?
>>28197137Yeah, but only if his body was still mostly intact so I could preserve it properly and make a sex doll out of him. I guess it's not that different from having a waifu/husbando.
>>28197400We have mandatory military service here and it only lasts 4 weeks at a time. Well ok, you‘re right, you‘d have the option to so it all at once and go for a year but who in their right mind would do that when they are in a relationship? It also greatly depends on wether you‘d be gone for a full year or would be able to go home on the weekend every now and then. But just basically no contact for a full year? No fuck that.
>>28197406Ok but what if he's the love of your life?
>>28197409If he was, why would he even consider wanting to spend that much time apart?
>>28197382I'd either stay loyal or break up before he leaves. Or break up while he's gone if it's both necessary and appropriate - but I don't really see that scenario happening, I'm very responsible and would either make sure to lay out very clear expectations before you left or break up prior due to a failure to lay out those expectations.
>>28197128No, but it's always interesting to see people who don't swear a lot let it slip, I guess.>>28197096I want to say no, but in all likelihood I would, and i would change myself to fit into my partner's ideals while telling myself that I've always thought that way even though I know what I'm doing because I have stupid bitch disease. Thinking about it separately though, it's not a problem unless there's a serious mismatch of ideals and lifestyle. I wouldn't be willing to unless I liked the person despite this.
>>28197410Because I have to? Because I'll come back with lots of money?
>meet virgin guy>surprisingly good looking and fit for a virgin>know each other for 2 weeks>bring up past relationships to know him better>told him I lost viriginity at 15 with a friend but 0 sexual activity after that>cuts contact with me because he's looking for another virginis it my fault
>>28197415Lol, they know they would cheat but they don't want to say so
Would you date a m/f who likes oranges? What about bananas?
>>28197417Well you decided to fuck your friend when you were 15, I don't see how that can be his fault
>>28197422the more fruits a mf likes the better imo
>>28197422Both, but never mixed. That's a sin
>>28197401Using people like posable sex toys, taking advantage of inexperience or embarrassment, questionable ability of them to consent, etc. Just general sketchy stuff even in the context of fictional smut.
>>28197417TO THE STREETS YOU BELONG!Also poor guy will never find a virgin lmao.
>>28197417he was some christian freak, you'll live
>>28197422Sure. I can do a cool trick with a banana that I'll take any excuse to show off.
>>28197435I can also do that trick. How do you react?
>>28197438Desperate trooncel detected.
>>28197417You didn't do anything wrong luv
Why do females say sex work is le work but then they wont date guys who fuck prostitutes
>>28197415Well if you HAD to, and you were the love of my life, then i‘d accept that and deal with it.
>>28197447Same reason working at McDonald’s is a job but a lot of people won’t date you if you eat there
Guys, if a female friend/acquaintance asked you out, how much spaghetti would she have to spill before it became weird? I'm a bit of a blusher/stutterer under stress. I think he and I have hung out enough that he knows me to be a sane human being, but I have concerns for how well I'm gonna handle this one interaction. I'm so chill like 99% of the time, but the actual moment of confrontation is my achilles heel.
>>28197417It’s no one’s fault
>>28197438It's been a while since you called me that, thanks.>>28197440I'd be mad you're trying to one up me when I'm trying to show off for you. Read the room and just say "wow cool but you wasted fruit" if you're not impressed.
>>28197453I hate it when I go on a date with a girl and she obviously seems passive and shy. It either makes me think she just wanted a free meal (if she has issue with splitting) or she's just boring. Be yourself and if it doesn't work out he wasn't for you.
Silence i‘m trying to masturbate here.
Am I being a simp here?Today at the gym a female friend of mine knocked over my phone (I have the bad habit of leaving it in the barbell rest so it's easy to drop, and in fact I have dropped it a few times already). Usually that's no biggie but today by pure bad luck it actually fucked the screen and I need to replace it.She's super ashamed about it and has offered to pay for the repair. I told her to not worry about it, the phone is honestly kinda old and I was looking to replace it this year and it's not really her fault honestly.Am I being a simp here? Honestly if it were a male friend I'd probably say the same. Also I make a lot more money than her as well.
>>28197458always here for ya babe <3
>>28197455>tfw no Ferengi gfWhy live?
>>28197382I would break up, he belongs to the country now.
>>28197464I had a wicked period shit this morning, just wanted to let you know.
>>28197465No that‘s just being a decent human being
>>28196578Which app is the best for finding women to hookup with?
>>28197469>girls are insecure about their periodand grass is green
>>28197473reality, thank me later
>>28197458I proceed to suck off a guy who was sitting next to our table. He enjoys it. How do you react?
>>28197469Good for you i hope your tummy feels better now for it.
>>28197361Write as if you are doing an exam. Look up exam questions and do them. Correct your mistakes and repeat
>>28197465>barbell restHow did she even knock it over?
>>28197469I know. I was there. I was your porcelain throne.
Is my bf gay because he eats me out after rubbing his dick on my pussy? I feel like he is seasoning my pussy with dick
Men, what are things you do to intentionally make you look more intelligent than you are?
>>28197478I'd just hookup with that guy's gf and leave you two fags alone, I guess.
>>28197473All of them. It’s a numbers game with bad ratio in your favor. Set your standards real low and the distance as far as you can go
>>28197486Yes block the faggot.
>>28197471Honestly it just feels kinda bad to make her pay for it.>>28197483Eh I meant the safeties. I have this habit of leaving the phone there and she just brushed it with her leg and it fell.
>>28197339Sure. I like the idea of worshipping a woman even more broken than I am.She'd have to quit the porn though, unless she was making bank. If it's anything other than a private solo onlyfans or something though it's probably not worth it.
>>28197491Imagine being this desperate and pathetic.
>>28197033Why would you congratulate me for a seemingly bad thing?
>>28197465It’s your fault for leaving your phone there, has nothing to do with simping
>>28197499>I meant the safetiesyeah that's on you pal.
>>28197487NAG, but I'm retarded as fuck and am continuously regarded as smart irl. Just act like me.
>>28197499Yeah i mean that‘s kind of on you to put it in a stoopid place like that to begin with. It would be a real ass move to make her pay for it.
>>28197505>>28197506>>28197509That's what I thought honestly, I'll just tell her to not worry about it. Ty lads and lasses.
>>28197501You'd make millions on onlyfans if you recorded your hardcore stuff.Name one other bitch lighting herself on fire?
>>28197503And? You got some triggering insecurities you want to talk about?
>>28197504I‘d imagine you‘d feel a sense of accomplishment for it.
>>28197501> I like the idea of worshipping a woman even more broken than I am.Thatd make YOU more broken
>>28197508What do guys do on the first date that's good?
>>28197508>Just act like meAnd how would that be?
>>28197514An accomplishment is a good thing,generally speaking
>>28197465>I have the bad habit of leaving it in the barbell rest so it's easy to drop, and in fact I have dropped it a few times already>pure bad luck>I was looking to replace it this year and it's not really her fault>Honestly if it were a male friend I'd probably say the sameNah, you're good. Stop being so concerned about being a simp, it's only simp behaviour if she was genuinely in the wrong (which she wasn't) and you wouldn't do it for a man (which you would) and you hope it wins you 'points' somehow (which you don't, and it doesn't).
>>28197513No but thanks for asking
>>28197520So you WANT me to enjoy shitposting?
>>28197313FYes. Not sure about foursomes, feel like someone is going to be left out or it’s just a swingers thing
>>28197512Imagine simping this hard for a troon
>>28197465>woman is offering to pay you for something>don't take itnot a simp but probably retarded
>>28197529>simpingShe's given me content that I couldn't get anywhere else I'll simp for this bitch.
>>28197529Imagine being stuck in the le epic there are no grills on the internet may may phase
>>28197530>exploit others as much as you canAnd then you wonder why you‘re single
>>28197524Why so bitchy then? Did you want to be edgy kek
>>28197534Nta but >>28197508 shows that they're clearly male?
Gender and ageHave you dabbed in real life?Why?
>>28197192>why not just get more foodWe don't have an infinite budget for food and he knows it. The stock we have is "flour, rice, frozen veggies, etc.", but fresh veggies, meats, snacks etc are more in demand. >>28197198We cook the day's meals at once and I sometimes store my share of the leftovers (average 2 generous extra meals/week), and he eats his entire share for lunch and afternoon snack.>take your food without askingIn the beginning he assumed the leftovers were for both of us, but over time I've made it clear that he had already eaten all of his share and I was packing my share.>and just get more food himself Do you mean he cooks an extra dish for himself, along with the meal I make? He has started doing this, but his meals look so sad that I feel bad for hoarding well-seasoned gulasch while he makes himself nutella-oatmeal or pasta with ketchup (He can cook well, but doesn't put in effort in his dishes. I feel sad just looking at the bland food but he likes it)>>28197218>Has he expressed this in response to you communicating your needs?Yes. We've openly communicated about this and he said that in response to what I said>whether/how it's communicated.The "free food" notice is badly communicated from my side (as I sometimes ignore the food that is there in favor of fresher/more enticing food). 70% of the time he's the one who keeps an eye on that food and openly asks "hey this is from 1-3 days ago. Can I eat it?" I often say yes and he takes it to lunch for example. But 30% of the time I also say "hey, I'll not eat xyz, you can have it." I don't get angry when he asks because he is asking, not just taking it. Some things have gone bad though. When he doesn't keep an eye on it or we have more enticing food, it goes bad over time and we just end up throwing it out.
what should I do if my cock doesn't taste good?
>>28197545cultivate more cheese
>>28197542male, 32what's dab? Do you mean dabble?
>>28197538No i‘m just sick and tired of guys telling other guys to try that stupid shit it never works it‘s just demoralizing. >>28197540Uhm she even said NGA as in Not A Guy.
>>28197465Lol I'm reading this in full but only after reading the replies to it.You did nothing wrong, non issue.
>>28197542Hahahaha the dab. Hundreds of times, in Middle School, when it was fashion.
>>28197518Look at people blankly when they try and joke around with you, always look busy even if you're not doing jack shit, avoid people, only speak when you have something important to add. I don't really do anything special but people see me as smart, idfk.People just assume that because I keep to myself that I must be smart or something.
>>28197542F, 28Yes. I worked with teens and it was funny.
>>28197542I yabba dabba doo.
>>28197280But like what's the difference between a hangout and a date, would you go on a hangout with someone you wouldn't go on a date with that you barely know? What if you like them isn't it the same thing? Seems like a meaningless distinction.
>>28197552Oh, I thought NAG was just a capitalization of nag. As in one of the things a guy would do to look intelligent.>Captcha: MP000Y
>>28197556Ah i see then people probably think i‘m a genius. Good to know.
>>28197313Wish I have 2 cocks to penetrate 2 girls at the same time
>>28197552its a numbers game bro, just be a man. you can take 1 billion rejections and still not crumble. you move on to the next
>>28197540I'll be the sexiest male once my breasts are removed, just you watch
GirlsHow bad is it if a guy's cum tastes horrendous due to life-saving medicine? Would you still blow him or swallow? (considering it's life-saving, he can't not take it)
Ms and Fs, how many times daily do you think about sex?
>>28197542MYes, as a joke. I might have done it as a football scoring celebration too>>28197568Uhhh what does that say about your looks as a female if that's all it takes to be a sexy male?
>>28197569>>28197545hmm....you guys are fuckingdisgusting
>>28197477The places where it's ez to meet women are the places where the competition is the fiercest, like bars. Remember your days of working in a library, what were some effective ways guys approached you to get a date?
>>28197570F. 15 times? More if I'm pent up
>>28197570M, every time I see young women, milf or good looking similar age female.
>>28197552Your failures as a man is not his or mine. Christ anon you are desperate and pathetic.
>>28197572it says that I'm an average female and can only be a little bitch boy as a male but will accept my role and know my audience
>>28197570MHard to enumerate but maybe 8 times. Baby fever going in over here for some reason and I'm only 25.
>>28197552Good example of being a beta male. Women fucking hate this weak shit
>>28197535Why the change of heart? >>28197562It happens>>28197566But that‘s the thing. You treat them like just the next number, so that‘s how they will treat you too since only those girls who are ok with just being the next notch on your bed frame are even on those apps because all they are seeking is the next name in their notes app. If that‘s what you‘re looking for go ahead but don‘t tell guys looking for something with any substance to it to do what you‘re doing. It‘s hollow and pointless.
>>28197573I'm not disgusting, it's the meds! I'm not to blame if another guy refuses to wash his penis! I wash myself daily!
>>28197323How did it happen? How do you get girls to do this, I want as much details as you can spare and remember.
>>28197534>girls and trannies can't both exist at the same time
>>28197564Probably. Honestly as long as you have some basic competence with what you do and aren't making an ass of yourself constantly, people think you're smart
Do you wish to marry one day?
>>28197581You'd be a bitch boy because you'd still be feminine even as a male? Tops will run a train on you. You gotta be more assertive.
>>28197579>>28197583You guys do realize i‘m a girl, right?
>>28197591Yes, now you're getting it
>>28197463>has issue with splittingHow does this happen?
>>28197537She's willing to pay for his phone so she probably wants to fuck him but he's too much of an idiot to do anything bout it. If she wasn't attracted she would never take responsibility.
>>28197590MYes and have a family with her. A big one if it can be helped.
>>28197588They can but you just scream tranny whenever someone lets trough that they are not male. It‘s cringe.
>>28197590Why only one day? I'd like to be married for the rest of my life.
>>28197544>The "free food" notice is badly communicated from my side (as I sometimes ignore the food that is there in favor of fresher/more enticing food).>70% of the time he's the one who keeps an eye on that food and openly asks "hey this is from 1-3 days ago. Can I eat it?" I often say yes and he takes it to lunch for example. But 30% of the time I also say "hey, I'll not eat xyz, you can have it.">I don't get angry when he asks because he is asking, not just taking it. Some things have gone bad though. When he doesn't keep an eye on it or we have more enticing food, it goes bad over time and we just end up throwing it out.How often does he take it without asking, vs with asking? Because from what you're saying here, it sounds like a bit of a non-issue, and that if anything he's just preventing things from going bad and being thrown out.It's a tough call, because I sympathise with both of you. I grew up neither rich nor poor, but I was very much the runt of the family. So any nice treat that was available to eat was rare, and I had to get in quick or miss out. But at the same time, anything nice that I was entitled to keep for only myself (eg birthday chocolate), I had to hide and then felt a need to 'save' for as long as I could (often until it either got stolen or went bad). And neither option worked out particularly well lol.
>>28197584even if youre looking for something more than hookups, its still a numbers game. you think any girl will ask you out, if you lay still and mope around like a bitch?
>>28197596If i break something, i obviously offer to pay for it. It‘s called having basic human decency. It doesn‘t mean i want any of his dick in any capacity.
Ladies, what's your ideal bf? Guys, what's your ideal gf? Be detailed.
>>28197592I am one too. I really don’t care about any or this.
>>28197584>Why the change of heartI always wanted you to have fun and i enjoy doing it myself,i like the fact that you shitpost cuz it gives me someone to play with
>>28197593Have you thought of what your name will be once you transition?>>28197595When the cheque comes in and I say we should split and she looks offended.
>>28197570F. If I'm not thinking about work or housework, I'm thinking about sex to some degree.
>>28197561It's a matter of potential. A date is for seeing if it could lead to something more (whether that's a hook up or a relationship or anything in between). Just hanging out is just hanging out, the implication being that there's nothing more than friendship in your future.
>>28197590F, not really. I may consider legal marriage for the tax benefits, but if I want to throw a party (religious marriage ig?) To commemorate a relationship milestone, what's keeping me from doing that?
>>28197603Every guy i‘ve ever been with has been meeting in organic ways not this forced crap. But i guess that doesn‘t count because what? Don‘t ask a fish how to fish? Lol
>>28197601> Why only one day?
I think the word cunny is way too fun. What do you think about cunny, women?
>>28197605Masculine mountain man with a heart of gold. Healthy of body and mind. Successful and wealthy.
Girls, how do you feel if your long term partner goes soft during sex twice in a row? I'm worried my gf is judging me hard and is gonna leave me or cheat on me because of this. It's fucking ego shattering. Do women care or am I hyperbolizing?
>>28197569I don't swallow regardless.
>>28197587I set it up with my bf and my friend. Was pretty easy but you obviously need the right people for this to work.
>>28197614I love it too, it's the hottest word you can use for it imo
>>28197568Sexy as a puddle of cold diarrhea
>>28197614I like it when my guy says that. But he’s decades older than me so it hits different
>>28197605F. Pic related, but he loves me and doesn't want to actually go so far as to kill me.
>>28197616When women do care, at least 80% of the time it's gonna be borne from their own insecurities, a la "omg he thinks I'm an uggo/is cheating on me" etc rather than any version of what you're worried about ("he's not a real man/etc").
>>28197604So you admit it is her fault?
>>28197616It would make me think we should break up because we clearly aren‘t helping each other become healthier physically, emotionally, mentally or sexually. Basically, we‘re not doing well by being with each other so let‘s just move on and not cling to destructive shit.
>>28197612i thought i was replying to a guy. its not the same for women, you can meet organically or whatever. but a guys gotta apply themselves more, its a numbers game
>>28197622thanks, I try
>>28197630If it was then yes ofc. Wtf kind of question is that?
>>28197624Pretty normal wanting nice people or you do something different lol
>>28197605Someone whos not me
>>28197630My bad i misread. No it was NOT her fault. What‘s your problem? You sound bitter.
I have a small dick. What now? I feel unlovable and unable to get a woman and even if I get one, she won't stay
>>28197632In this scenario it's a long term partner. You would really cut it off? >>28197629I get this feeling, she was asking me if it was BC she gained weight or something but I've just been so fucking stressed lately and couldn't clear my mind.
>>28197639Better luck next time
>>28197639Nothing you can do about that
Guys (preferably older)I'll possibly develop a limp by the time I'm 50, (wheelchair if unlucky) (accident scar). How fucked am I in dating? What are the odds a guy will want to date me, (maybe marry, have kids), knowing he'll be together with a hobbling hag and her cane one day?
>>28197633It takes two to meet organically. There obviously is enough women that don‘t rely on meeting someone organically or there wouldn‘t be any on dating apps. The rest is glad the shallow notch seekers are all contained on their stupid swiping apps. It‘s your choice which side you want to belong to.
>>28197639Vaginismus Dating App
>>28197639You probably don't. The average size is lower than you think.
>>28197641>You would really cut it off? I mean obviously it would have to be something to be talked trough, but generally, yes. I think things like that are a clear sign that something’s off and not just slightly. And if that happens when you are with someone since a long time, chances are huge that the relationship is part of what made your partner get to a point of being physically, mentally, emotionally or sexually unwell. So why drag it out?
>>28197650Wheelchair would be difficult, cane and limp wouldn't bother me at all.
>>28197616Basically >>28197629Most people are going to be retarded and let insecurity run rampant, so you have to be proactive in describing what it is that's actually going on and fixing the issue.>>28197641If it's actually stress, then try to cut out the source of stress if possible. Easier said than done, so in the case that you can't try and ease it as much as possible. Try and show your attraction and appreciation in other ways in the meantime.
>>28197463I'm talking exclusively about the actual interaction of asking him out, I'm not worried about the (potential) date itself. I'm absolutely fine once I have reassurance that someone's at least willing to see if they're interested in me. It's just crossing that invisible platonic boundary that has me getting the spaghet's.
>>28197639>I feel unlovable>What now?Stop doing that. That's the answer
>>28197650>(preferably older)what do you consider older?I think there's a big difference between a limp and wheelchair and I think that difference would make or break it for me. I want to remain somewhat active as I get older and still be able to travel for exampleWhile this still seems very doable with a limp/cane a wheelchair would seem as though it's rather debilitatingActually scratch that, I think it wouldn't be an issue for me personally because it would give me a great reason to remain in shape so I am still able to do in life what I want even if you're in a wheelchairI'd also really appreciate it that you were honest about it and shared this with me
Feman6ons, theres a girl I do martial arts with. I don't really see her often. When shes in there she always comes up to me and talks to me, if I act a little uninterested she keeps trying too. Our encounters seem friendly but also a little more to it. She definitely has a little thing for me, even one of my female coaches noticed it. But it seems more in person and I don't see her very often in person so idk.Anyways I have her snapchat, and we don't talk a ton but i'll snap her sometimes and she ALWAYS responds with a cute selfie. I'll sometimes reply back with one. I've dropped hints im not exactly trying to hide it, I'm just not extremely out there with it.My question is, sometimes she lets them linger on UNopened for a day or two, then she'll randomly snap a selfie back at like 11pm. I haven't seen her in person so I havent asked her out, but I was thinking of just shooting my short over message at this point because its been too long.I'm just curious, I get her delayed replies are not the best sign. But if she genuinely didn't care, she wouldn't reply at all. Is it not a little weird she randomly snaps me like a day or two later sometimes? Does it show shes thinking about me or something idk?
>>28197662Can i ride you
>>28197639the average size is surprisingly smallI swear porn has brainwashed guys into thinking every dude is below average, judging by the time dick sizes were askedSome femanons have also shared that penetration doesn't do that much for them and some even state they dislike above average dicks because it hurts them (but those are obviously outliers)How big/small is it?
>>28197667Sure, what brand of strap on do you prefer. I only use 8 inch minimum
>>28197616>I'm worried my gf is judging me hard and is gonna leave me or cheat on me because of this.That's all in your mind. Doesn't happen in the real world.>how do you feel if your long term partner goes soft during sex twice in a row? I don't care, it's not like I'm wet 100% of the time either (the equivalent of being hard for a guy), and you'll be hard pressed to find a woman who is consistently vaginally aroused. I'd ask if he needs a break, or we switch to something that doesn't use his penis. It's not a big deal.
>>28197668>Some femanons have also shared that penetration doesn't do that much for them Theyre lying yo make u feel better
>>28197641>I get this feeling, she was asking me if it was BC she gained weight or something but I've just been so fucking stressed lately and couldn't clear my mind.I guarantee you she's too busy with her own insecurities to possibly be judging you. Take a breath and relax. If anything, reassure her that she's not the problem and be honest about what's going on with you, be a little vulnerable and let her step up and reassure you right back. Let this be something that brings you closer instead of driving you apart.
>>28197669Not that way. This way
>>28197672yeah I bet the girls talking about how dildos don't get them off and they stopped using them is because... they want me to feel better about my dick?All makes sense now
>>28197666I mean you‘ve been teasing her with stoopid delayed reaction yourself and even in person which is the worst. You‘re lucky she hasn‘t just taken the hint and left. Means she‘s really into you. Either make a move or let her off the hook finally. Stop playing with her.
>>28197672>anonymous women will lie to comfort the feelings of an anonymous man even if they have no incentive to do so
>>28197674Why in heaven would you use that pic for this context?
>>28197673>>28197670Thanks, i really appreciate the help and advice. I'll make sure to talk to her about it today so she doesn't blame herself. I was too embarrassed to discuss it so we kind of didn't talk about it, which I can see might have left her alone with her own thoughts.
>>28197670>I'd ask if he needs a break, or we switch to something that doesn't use his penis.Need other dudes to chime in, would you find this weird? Cause I'm pretty sure I would.
>>28197674sure if you're small and cutethe plastic penis is non negotiable, ass or throat, pick one. My ride my rules
>>28197683How is it weird?
>>28197679>left her alone with her own thoughtsYep whoch most likely have led her to believe the worst case scenario which is that you find her appalling. Honestly, the fact you both also couldn‘t just talk it out further cements my notion that this relationship is fucked beyond repair.
>>28197660Maybe think of a more platonic, less romantic date than say a restaurant or a picnic. Like a hike, cinema, coffee, etc. I think it can reduce the pressure of asking him. Maybe the setting in which you ask him out can help you too. Maybe it's better if you two are alone in public, or in private, or with friends, whichever that's most comfortable for you.Preparing yourself mentally before asking out, make sure you're comfortable and confident in yourself prior to asking out. I'm a guy but that's what I do and it helps.
>>28197678cause it's what he wants to do?
>>28197650Not a guy, but when you say wheelchair, do you mean "paralysed, can't use the toilet without help"-tier wheelchair, or just "can't walk around all willy nilly and need an adult stroller for my tired lil legs"-tier wheelchair? Because the latter is way more common than people realise, and is much more manageable on a lifestyle level.Picrel, a grey area of disability that dumb normies don't comprehend.
>>28197605Ideal gf, huh?>has a job and earns more than me but doesn't care about it>supports me>understands me>wakes me up with a slap, kiss, hj or a bj (I would never know what will be this time)>gets angry at me for not doing my best at all times>praises me for doing>cooks me something I like>enjoys cooking together>likes going for a walk>wants children with me and get old together>don't smoke but gets terminal cancer in her late 20s anyway>dies with grace and tells me in her death bed she never been this happy like she was with me
>>28197678you know exactly why
>>28197668about the sized of a middle finger
>>28197666She's probably just waiting because she thinks you're not interested and is self conscious about coming off as desperate (or is overwhelmed trying to think of how to respond and procrastinates).
>>28197685IDK in my head it feels... denigrating? disparaging? Don't know exactly how to put it.I would already feel bad about going soft and bringing attention to it, especially in the form of "oh do you need a break" or "do you want to try something else" would feel make it even worse
>>28197689He could have used one that only has adults in it like a normal human being.
>>28197684>ass or throat, pick one.>8 inches down throatisn't that attempted murder?
>>28197610But the potential is still there, like if you go to just hang out and then you like the person you don't go ohhh wait I can't feel this way that's only allowed on a date.
>>28197678Pedos simping for troons. Tale as old as time.
>>28197694Stick your middle finger into your mouth. There's the answer.
>>28197679The other anon seems to be a tad dramatic from my pov lol, having a bit of a delay in openly discussing this kind of thing is well within the normal range of human imperfection. But yeah, just talk it through with her, it should be fine.
>>28197639Same broI have 7 cm dick
>>28197675Even lesbians use dildos dude
>>28197676>>28197697Im not teasing her with delayed reaction intentionally nor am i really in the first place. Its her thats delaying reaction if anyone.Like at martial arts if i see her ill respond to her when she comes up and talk and stuff and joke a little and tease, but sometimes im so exhausted from training i can barely follow the conversation.But over messages she doesnt seem to really like talking much. I mean ive tried to drop hints, and ill send a message but she isnt extremely reactive to it.Ive been trying to make a move but like i said she isnt always responsive so idk how tf to work with that. I dont think ill see her in person for a while so i think ill just shoot and ask her out this Saturday over messages. Idk.I think right now im just kinda "there" in her life. She remembers i messaged her, she likes me enough to respond, but she has a lot of friends so im not high priority.Ive really been waiting to see her in person, but idk she hasnt been in a while and she was out of state for all of december so that didnt help.I shot her a monday night saying i was at martial arts, and she responded last night tuesday at like 11 with a cute selfie didnt say anything. I just sent her a cute selfie this morning back and messaged her hey. Shes been online but hasnt opened, shes at class though too so idk.Weird situation.
>>28197618Details baby, how did you ask your friend, did they like your bf before hand, how did it go down day of?
>>28197694okay yeah that is pretty small. You'll need to master the art of lovemaking without relying on your penis anon
>>28197706.........yes?>>28197701It's only attempted if I don't succeed.
>>28197710asian, turkish or indian?>>28197705what's that supposed to do?
>>28197677Cuz theyre good people deep down and dont want to tell him the truth,namely that hes small and inadequate and that theres nothing he can do about it cuz he cant do shit other than kys
>>28197700idk anon this seems weirder and less fun
>>28197706Also slight correction, I believe you meant "Uuuuohh"
>>28197676>>28197697I sent her a message 2 hours ago saying hey. She hasnt opened.Im debating just sending one more and saying "you want to go out saturday night?"At least it gets the cat out of the bag. But double texting feels a bit much idk.
>>28197702>you don't go ohhh wait I can't feel this way that's only allowed on a date.I mean, yeah, you kinda should. If you feel like that suddenly, you need to either do some test-the-waters flirting, or ask them out, or sleep on it. It's not suddenly a date just because you decided, they have to be on the same page. If they're not, that's where it gets weird.
>>28197727careful, you're flying close to the sun here
>>28197678Lol?why not?>>28197684What do i get out if it?>>28197700Its harder to find a pix of an adult man riding the back of an adult woman than it is to find a kid doing it
Is it normal to want A reverse gangbang where i sit on my knees in the middle of 4-5 girls and get to finger 2 while licking one of their pussies and then get to change whose labias i am kissing?
>>28197721Did you do it? All the way in, no excuses.
>>28197733the only thing I'm flying close to is that sweet full moon>>28197734You're the one who asked, find your own meaning
>>28197741No, but I've had that exact fantasy but in mine I'm being pimped out by an alpha bitch and they're all making fun of me
>>28197639It's true. Anything less than 7'' is just might as well use a dildo tier.
>>28197610>Just hanging out is just hanging out, the implication being that there's nothing more than friendship in your future.I disagree, I think it's perfectly fine to go for more casual hangouts with the person you're interested in if it's what you're more comfortable with. Obviously it's less clear, but you can still get closer and learn about eachother
What do the ladies of /atoga/ suggest I should masturbate to?
>>28197751Pony and bestiality. Scat if you're a bad boy.
>>28197751they probably want you to read the smut they wrote>>28197746>switching from hard dom to hard subwtf is going on here
>>2819765034 yo guy hereWouldn't care. Unless you're very sensitive about this and instead of accepting reality you'd seek comfort from me. Because I can't fix your legs and this would make me angry and sad. Eventually I would start drinking and tell you to leave me alone. Not because I don't like you, but because I still love you, but it breaks my heart watching you struggle with it physically and mentally and there is nothing I can do to fix you.Probably would commit suicide one day or get into a bar fight and get in prison for brutally beating someone. Which would be a way I expressed my depression and frustration.I hope this helps.
>>28197761Baby, the only monster in my life is you.
>>28197714K. >meet up with some friends>get bit tipsy>banter all evening>they have to go pick up some stuff st their place>bf and i offer to go with them>we sit on their bed whilst they gather their stuff>we start making out>they get on the bed too and start making out with each other>we kind of start to undress>me and other girl star kissing>bf stops and says he‘s not comfortable with taking things further/doesn‘t want me to undress in front of other guy/making out with him>we go back to the other friends>go home>talk about it>decide it was fun but want to respect his boundaries>talk to the girl, ask how she/they feel about it>she talks to her bf>he‘s down with her coming over and us having a threesome>we make plans for movie night at our place, no pressure>we cuddle together on the sofa>her and i start kissing>bf joins in>we start making out>end up fucking >she sleep over>repeat the next morning>she goes home>we do that a few more times>her bf says he‘s not comfortable with the arrangement anymore so we stopWas nice ngl
>>28197760Bad suggestion>>28197761Good suggestion>>28197763They should post it then
>>28197743I asked to ride you like youd ride a pony,letting you peg me would be something done for YOUR pleasure so you should at least thank me
>>28197763real niggaz know how to do bothas long as someone's getting it, it's all guccithougn you probably shouldn't take me seriously I'm in the middle of conundrum right now
>>28197766This better be a compliment
>>28197751Cum slut hypnosis
>>28197713>but sometimes im so exhausted from training i can barely follow the conversation.She doesn't know that. If she likes you, she's gonna be hyper-vigilant for any signs that you're not into her until there's concrete evidence that you are (eg, when the two of you have agreed on a date).>But over messages she doesnt seem to really like talking much>Ive been trying to make a move but like i said she isnt always responsive so idk how tf to work with that.You're trying to work moves via a medium that's a weakness for her. If she doesn't give great responses when it's low stakes, she's not gonna give great responses when you're dropping hints.>I dont think ill see her in person for a while so i think ill just shoot and ask her out this Saturday over messages. Idk.Yeah if that's what's comfortable for you, go for it. If she already likes you (and it sounds like she does), then you're already in no matter how you approach it. It's only if you think you'll be totally blindsiding her that you should take a moment to think about your delivery.>I think right now im just kinda "there" in her life. She remembers i messaged her, she likes me enough to respond, but she has a lot of friends so im not high priority.That's ok honestly. You can become a priority. If she's a busy girl, there's no reason to expect to be a priority just yet. She might be on the other end thinking "I can't get so hung up on this guy who might not even like me, I'll message him when I have time but right now I'm busy being in the moment with my friends.">Ive really been waiting to see her in person>I shot her a monday night saying i was at martial arts, and she responded last night tuesday at like 11 with a cute selfie didnt say anythingYeah, that's tough. Maybe be more direct, just say something along the lines of "Miss having you in class, you coming back any time soon?"
>>28197771*Pulls you by the earlobe*
>>28197766God i wish someone said that to me.
>>28197742nah, that's gay. I'm not here to entertain your weird fetishes.
>>28197779Tldr ur a slut we get it
>>28197749I mean, sure, if you're still trying to figure out whether you're into them. But you still have to appreciate that it's a one-way assessment, and they're in all odds just hanging out thinking it's a friend thing.
>>28197783You're the one who asked wether your dick is too small.
>>28197770bold of you to assume I'd derive any pleasure from it.I get neither pleasure nor disgust, I simply act.>I asked to ride you like youd ride a ponyAnd I said I'd give you 8 inch dick. Where's the mismatch?
>>28197767I have a perfect video to describe my emotions after reading this.
>>28197734It took me exactly two seconds
>>28197788and then you started some weird shit that has nothing to do with anything
>>28197790I love you too anon
>>28197772You're the only woman I want hiding under my bed and grabbing my legs when I get up to pee in the middle of the night.>>28197782Just be as monstrous as you can, and you'll find someone who appreciates it someday.
>>28197313No, too high of a risk for too low of a payoff. I feel like this is just some juvenile fantasy where "girl is good, so TWO girl even better!!". If I have someone I love and we're being intimate, what does adding another person into the mix help?
>>28197791> t. you'll never have a snakerina gf
>>28197790the state of amerifats
>>28197792NTA but you whining about your sick size can be drastically improved by asking you to see how far down one‘s throat it still would go because fucking try it.
>>28197792Just test it if you want to be sure. Mine touched the tip of my throat, it's for science.
>>28197779Thanks anon, this helped.Can you clarify what you mean by this?>It's only if you think you'll be totally blindsiding her that you should take a moment to think about your deliveryWdym totally blindsiding her?Also, do you personally think at this point in time, it's better for me to say the Miss having you in class line, or just shoot straight and ask her out this saturday?I am a little concerned i'm running out on time. Last we talked this year was her last year in college, and I THINK she lives far away so if this chance closes up i know ill regret it for the rest of my life. Especially when spring break is coming too.. idk.When she was on vacation in december, I had messaged her asking when shell be back for martial arts and she just responded "i'm in X state"I feel like i already kinda used that line up even though the circumstance was different than rn.Do you think ill fuck it up by just saying "do you want to go out saturday night?" Or word it differently maybe?Thanks so much anon, ik im overthinking it but yeah. My game is amazing in person, over messages i always fuck shit up lol
>>28197787Obviously at some point, you have to take it further. The possibility is there however that the other person starts feeling something as well and if they make this clear it can make it easier for both sides to take the leap. If not, you can still enjoy the time you spend together & get closer as you work up the courage to take that leap yourself rather than taking it from the start
>>28197775That shit never does anything for me.
>>28197789If you dont let me ride you like a pony ill get mad at you
>>28197810do people really type this much stuff here? how lonely are you virgins really jesus
>>28197775what the fuck is that
>>28197813I wouldn‘t know i‘ve never actually listened to it. Maybe some harem hentai?
>>28197767Pretty sure the girls boyfriend didn't want her to participate since the start
>>28197791Ok ok i wanna imagine myself as being a kid riding mommy while i actually ride a woman whos maybe a couple of years older
>>28197826Yeah, so not my problem. He‘s an adult.If he doesn‘t want that he can just say it like my bf did. Np. I‘m not his babysitter.
>>28197789>bold of you to assume I'd derive any pleasure from it.>I get neither pleasure nor disgust, I simply act.I know this is all a shitpost, but this sounds like some kind of weird supervillain shit. Going around fucking random guys in the ass with giant strapons "just because", not even getting any pleasure out of it, no reason to do it.
My index finger is shorter than my pointer finger. Is it over? Women, would you date a man with such a mutation?
>>28197830I agree with you, I'm just saying
>>28197829Uhm, so mommy dommy?
>>28197832it would be an absolute dealbreaker for mesame goes for people whose dick is smaller than their penis
>>28197832Your index finger is shorter than your index finger?
>>28197834Yes, i think you‘re right. I felt bad for that for a while but then i realized it wasn‘t my responsibility. If they can‘t be honest with each other in their relationship, then that‘s on them to work it out, not on us to read minds.
>>28197832RED FLAG. I'd immediately break up.
Are fat girls more horny than skinny/average girls? I only had sex with one girl, who was fat and she was always horny, up for sex. Just read about this online and wonder if it's bullshit or not.
>>28197832you being retarded and unfunny is a dealbreaker.
>>28197825>I wouldn‘t know i‘ve never actually listened to it. I wonder if this type of "hypnosis" can turn women on, the issue is that nearly all of them have a gay subtext so you would have to make ones specifically straight oriented.>Maybe some harem hentai?I haven't read hentai in a while, one of the last ones I remember was a straight shota harem.
>>28197840>I felt bad for that for a while but then i realized it wasn‘t my responsibility.yeah it's kinda weird because it is clear that you (and your bf) brought him discomfort, but it's also clear that you had no way of knowing or consciously preventing it.
>>28197835In a way but only a little bit,like i separate the affectionate kinks from the sexual ones. Wanting to ride a girl like that is less about sex and more about intimacy just like i also want this girl to act like shes my younger dumber sister so i could headpat her and hug her while she says she hates it while loving it
>>28197840stunning and brave decision.
>>28197846i'm a dealbreaker and your face is a deal
>>28197835Where do I find a girl who isn't dommy, but does have some dommy tendencies, and isn't mommy, but does have some mommy tendencies? Personality traits without the fetish business.
>>28197848Idk, i do like switching on cum slut mode, but i don‘t need hypnosis for that. Maybe i should try it for science.I didn‘t mean read it, watch it. Idk. What would turn you on?
>>28197859I feel like what you're describing is more common than the actual dommy mommy meme
>>28197860>Idk, i do like switching on cum slut mode, but i don‘t need hypnosis for that. Maybe i should try it for science.but what's the fun if you turn it on. Isn't it kind of just your suppressed nature at that point?
Women,do you get viscerally repulsed by the idea of your boyfriend telling you one day he has a cuckold fetish?
>>28197850>>28197859So basically you‘d want someone you feel comfy and loved, cared for and relaxed with but then also do horny stuff? Sounds like any functional and healthy relationship desu.
>>28197854Them, charlatans: "Your personality is FATED BY DESTINY to be JUST LIKE THIS!"Me, a groundbreaking revolutionary intellectual genius: "Just be yourself."
>>28197859>without fetish businessbro if you want a girl that's dominant, I'm pretty sure that's dominantas for "mommy tendencies" it sounds like you just want someone who's physical & affectionate and there's plenty like that. Was a femanon in here yesterday complaining because she couldn't disassociate her desire to be affectionate & physical from the expectation that this would make her dominant in the relationship
>>28197864Well yes, that‘s why i don‘t need the hypnosis. It‘s basically me switching between non horny to horny me. Which is both not an act, but definitely different sides of me.
>>28197793Ewww...I don't love you and never will.
>>28197810>Wdym totally blindsiding her?Like, if there's a chance she both isn't into you AND has no clue that you might be into her. But I seriously doubt that's the case, the mere fact that you're even texting each other sort of disqualifies it, let alone sending one another selfies.So best case scenario, you can say literally anything to ask her out and she'll be into it because she's into you. Or worst case scenario, you can say literally anything to ask her out and she'll let you down gently because she likes you as a person (as evidenced by your texting one another) but just isn't interested (and even in this unlikely scenario, she's probably a little relieved to be able to deal with the elephant in the room and get it out of the way).>Also, do you personally think at this point in time, it's better for me to say the Miss having you in class line, or just shoot straight and ask her out this saturday?It's hard to say. My suggestion was based in the hope of forcing a more meaningful response out of her, but considering this:>When she was on vacation in december, I had messaged her asking when shell be back for martial arts and she just responded "i'm in X state"it might leave you with the same lack of clarity you already have lol. I see what you mean about having 'used up' that line.If you just wanna get the lingering question over and done with, I don't think you have much to lose by just shooting your shot now. She'll probably just send back another selfie, kek. But even in that scenario, you'll at least have addressed it by the time you see each other in person again.>Thanks so much anon, ik im overthinking itI don't blame you lol, it drives me mad when people give non-answers to direct questions, I wish I could give you more insight into what such a person is thinking.
>>28197831I mean, it's truthful in that if I had to fuck someone like him, that's how I'd do it.
>>28197836In retrospect I meant to say that my ring finger is shorter than my index finger, although I probably wouldn't have gotten as many (you)s so maybe this isn't so bad
>>28197867100% agreed this is the only power move
>>28197865No. Too unlikely
>>28197876</3>mfw anon is mean for no reason
>>28197812>The possibility is there however that the other person starts feeling something as well and if they make this clearThis is a MASSIVE 'if.' But yeah, sure.
>>28197664>what do you consider older? 28, 30, older (though probably not in this site). Guys who aren't young or who heavily consider it that their partner will age and can surmise if they have the capacity to share a life with an older disabled woman.>I think that difference would make or break it for me.This is what I most often hear. I used to have a place that was very important in a relationship to an ex. It was a foresty rough farm field. I know such a place would be very challenging and not fun to get to if I were in a wheelchair.>>28197691>"can't walk around all willy nilly and need an adult stroller for my tired lil legs"This, not paralyzed (though who knows? Strokes happen). I'll most likely need a cane though (then slowly progress to a walker and to a wheelchair in my 60s), so even less than that. Just my legs/hips tiring quickly and not being very capable.>>28197765Oh wow. Okay. Is it normal that men internalize things like this? Or is this more of a personal issue?
>>28197882Same for other pseudodisciplines. I can respect you if you think astrology is cool. I can't respect you if you think astrology is reliable.
>>28197878Thanks, its nice to get another view on things you really helped.Ill just shoot my shot over message rn and hope for the best. At worst nothing happens and i meet someone else. At least i tried and can't regret it.Thanks!
>>28197843Idk i‘ve never been skeleton skinny and i‘ve always been very horny. It kind of does seem like the curvy girls have more life in them somehow. Only to a certain point though. Fat girls aren‘t it.
>>28197843It's somewhat bullshit, but girls with lower self esteem are generally more up for it as a consequence of thinking sex is a way to keep a man happy and to prove her own attractiveness (thereby worth). Happens with men too, of course.
>>28197889What if it was to happen?
>>28197865I‘m confused. You mean, he‘d get off on me fucking other men?
>>28197865It would be hypocritical for me to be repulsed, since I have a cuckqueen fetish.
>>28197866Do normal girls actually lock up their boyfriends into chastity cages and tease them ceaselessly?
>>28197698From my view, saying that is acknowledging and accepting what happened with no judging, then providing a smooth segue into what's next. I think a silent awkwardness would be even worse bc then it would be super obvious she dislikes it and is mad/upset about the lost boner.
>>28197866My first priority is a relationship where she and I meet each other's emotional needs and make each other feel comfortable and relaxed and content. Sexual stuff is an entirely different world that I don't know anything about.
>>28197860>Maybe i should try it for science.Why not, could even try it now.>I didn‘t mean read it, watch it. Idk. What would turn you on?Ah I don't like animated hentai usually. I don't know, there is a lot that turns me on, that's why I was looking for suggestions to begin with. Only thing that is a must for me is that she has to be very into it, I hate all the forced sex crap.
>>28197914I never have and i‘m not very fond of sex toys but i guess if he wanted to try that i‘d be down. >teasingAs in bantering? Yes. As in degrading/humiliating? No.
girls, you are in a relation with a guy and he reveals he is a cuck. your reaction?
>>28197894>is it normal that men internalize things like this?I'm the anon who posted it. I like to think that I'm only one coming up with scenarios while bored.
>>28197878>>28197897Did it. Just said "i'm free saturday night, do you want to go out?"So that's that. Thanks again.
>>28197919I wouldn‘t even know where to look for that. Do you? Ah in that case i‘d recommend watching some intense female orgasm comp.
>>28197913Now I'm imagining a cuck and a cuckqueen taking turns to cuck each others, it's pretty funny and wholesome in a way.
>>28197926I‘d never want to admit that but i‘d want to try. Sounds risky. I like that.
>>28197894>28, 30, olderaite then I apply since I'm 28.>I know such a place would be very challenging and not fun to get to if I were in a wheelchair.yeah this would be difficult. I would definitely want to be somewhere where you're not fully reliant on others because that's not the life I would want for you.As I later corrected, I think I would be okay with it either way because it would give me the motivation to work on myself to remain in shape so I can be there with you to do things like travel and explore new places.>Okay. Is it normal that men internalize things like this? Or is this more of a personal issue?I think it is very normal for men to struggle with seeing someone else in pain. It's why (as far as I've seen) one of the things men hate most about girls is when they're overly self conscious.It is devastating to have to listen to someone who thinks they don't deserve you or that they're not good enough for you or whatever. Having someone negatively affected in a way that you are technically responsible for but can't do anything about is heartwrenching. I think if you had an expectation I could fix you, it would be much in the same vein because that unfulfilled hope will cause a struggle within you. Because men are always told not to talk about their feelings or "just man up" a lot of them cope with drugs like alcohol to numb the pain.Of course this only applies in that specific scenario where you think I would fix your legs. If you know it's going to happen and know what that will mean for your life and are accepting of it it's totally different.
>>28197930Round of applause for anon!
>>28197897Good attitude, hope it goes well for you one way or the other! Even if you don't get the answer you want, I'm sure it'll all blow over soon enough that you'll be relieved to have it over with.I'm in this uncertain zone with someone myself, it always feels a lot scarier when you're in the thick of it, so it's nice to be on the other side of the struggle and remember that it's not a huge deal lol.Like, I'm sitting here thinking "pretty much anyone I've spoken to for more than 10 seconds straight could ask me out and it'd be no big deal, no matter my answer." But when you're on the side that's doing the asking, it feels like you're about to launch the nukes or something lol.
>>28197925UhmYesGet down - kneelOr something idk
>>28197921As in making fun of the guy in a playful way by saying she has the key of the cage and is not letting him out of it
>>28197930Hell yeah, good job!
>>28197952Ah, so tease and edge him? Yes sure, i‘d do that.
Is pussy acquired taste or did she just taste bad?
>>28197917yes an awkward silence would be even worse. Personally, I think the way to handle it is to ignore it and go around it. Lean in for a kiss, hold me close, etc. To me it highlights it's okay and that it's not a problem without bringing attention to it. At a later point we can discuss it but in that moment I would already feel vulnerableIt's hard for me to find an equivalent flipside, but perhaps closest thing I can think of is if we're going at it and I notice some blood or whatever on my dick. Instead of going "oh are you on your period? Do you want me to stop? Should we try something other than penetration?" I'd maybe put on a condom and ignore it, just continue.
>>28197843It is not bullshit. Fat people on average are lower IQ and lower IQ people on average have higher libido.Pretty much: fat = dumb = wants sex