ITT: Ask the Opposite Sex AnythingOld thread >>27051519
First for Eli, EE blonde, and airbenders
State your gender. How rough is too rough for you during sex?
>>27053058Who genuinely dislikes high school uniforms?I made me ex keep her old high school uniforms and her swim team one-pieces.
>>27053076F. Causing permanent physical injury.
>>27053076M, never had secks but I imagine it depends on the mood. Anything that overstepped the line into genuinely painful and unfun I guess. So beyond light chocking /slapping / biting etc. I also don't think I could bring myself to be too rough with a girl, to the point where I risked actual injury
>>27053078Do you also have school uniform in Aussieland? We do here in bongland for public and private schools (some sixth forms allow casual though)
>>27053061I'm a 43 year old male virgin. Can the opposite gender ridicule me and laugh at me and call me a creep and a weirdo?
>>27053076MI basically have no limits provided it doesn't permanently or extremely severely impact her ability to live in a normal life. I'd be okay with breaking bones if she really wanted it.As for things done to me, I am a delicate flower. I'm okay with being cut and some light slapping, some very light choking (maybe). But I much prefer gentle femdom.>>27053089Yeah all schools have uniforms.
>>27053076The enumclaw horse sex case is too rough imo.
How did you meet your significant other?Where do I go to meet mine? I like art, films and I could be interested in discovering new subjects. I just need to start going out in places where I can find someone cute and like minded.Being socially awkward, introverted, and maybe on the spectrum doesn’t help when people think you’re a bit odd, and too many people overwhelmed your brain…
What is the ideal thing a girl could wear to a dinner date?
>>27053076F. I like sex to be passionate, but anything beyond that is too much for me. I can't comprehend how people can cause pain to someone they love, or humiliate them in any capacity.
>>27053096>I'd be okay with breaking bones>As for things done to me, I am a delicate flowerKek I feel like I'm the opposite, don't think I could bring myself to actually hurt someone, but she could beat the shit out of me>all schools have uniformsNice, what are they like?I have more of a thing for office wear/suits, though they're kind of similar here
>>27053111Depends on the location. But I prefer anything that leans towards cutesy. Pleated skirt, stockings or thigh high socks, a cute white blouse and a cute ribbon in her hair 10/10
>>27053076FOne of my exes cut me once during sex and that was pushing my limits but i do like things rough. I wish guys who liked to dish it out also were the type to want it given back to them
>>27053112Because you see pain as a black and white negative thing, when it's just another sensation. You've never had a massage that hurts so good?
>>27053076FAnything that causes pain or scares me
>>27053116>Nice, what are they like?Depends on the school but the school I went to the boys uniforms was grey pants, blue button up, dark blue blazer. Girls were a blue skirt, white blouse and a dark blue blazer.
>>27053076FAny kind of slapping, choking or biting. restraints, pinning or holding down. Basically anything more than vanilla
>>27053126Based Mika enjoyer>>27053111Realistically speaking... hm, a black/red dress is the perfect mix of smart casual and sexy
>>27053122I honestly just don't think most girls with sadistic tendencies if any would enjoy hurting me during sex. I have basically no reaction to pain.
>comment on a girls tiktok>she immediately likes my commentdoes this mean shes into me?
>>27053109>I like art, filmsMaybe see if there are any galleries near you and keep an eye out for clubs/events.I know several people who do a bit of work on the side at film festivals (just ticket taking, organisation, etc) and have a whole other social circle through that.
>>27053112The idea for me is that she loves me so much that she would put herself through that for me makes me feel like the most special person on earth.
>>27053128Interesting, pretty much the same as bongland>>27053122Yeah it seems most people definitely lean more one way or the other. Though I'd like to think I could be a pretty hard switch>>27053135Press x to doubt
>>27053139You're very egotistical aren't you Satou-kun?
>>27053122What would you want to do to the guy?
>>27053123It's not just another sensation, pain is my body telling me I'm hurting it. Or someone else is hurting it, in this case.>>27053139But you don't love her enough to not put her through that? Don't you feel absolutely disgusting causing her pain? Doesn't it break your heart to see someone you love suffering?
>like a girls tiktok>that night she sends me a long string if messages declaring her undying loveChris Hansen stepping his game up frfr
How do you not lose hope with dating? What keeps you motivated to keep trying even if you aren’t very successful?
>>27053126If a girl showed up like this in real life to your date would you actually find it attractive?
GuysHow do you get over the fact that your gf may have had better sex with someone other than you? My current boyfriend is my 3rd bf I’ve had (no hook ups). I love him a lot and I think he will be my life partner. But honestly the sex with him is not nearly as good as my 2nd boyfriend. That is something I’m prepared to live with. But that part is a bit disappointing
>>27053109We met online through an IRL friend of his.>Where do I go to meet mine?Do you have a movie club near you? My local movie theater hosts one, it's pretty neat. You watch movies and then discuss them. They also have one in foreign language one, I used to attend those.Group visits at museums or cultural events in your area, art classes could work too.
>>27053152Me personally unlike Satou, I enjoy making girls suffer because I'm a masochist. When I hurt girls I self insert as them while I hurt them.
>>27053152So no, you've never enjoyed a deep tissue massage? Because that decidedly hurts, but it's both good for your body and pleasant before, during, and after.It's okay to be a massive pussy and only like vanilla shit, but don't pretend like it's unfathomable that other people aren't as one-dimensional and inexperienced as you.
>>27053160YesI would show up like this>but people would stare at youGOOD
>>27053158I need to have a kid, that's a non-negotiable requirement for my happiness. Dating is working towards that goal, and work is rarely easy.
>>27053162Is he not able to git gud and try to do the stuff your ex did etc.? Or is it more of an intrinsic difference you don't think can be overcome?If I was in your bf's shoes and found out, obviously I'd be upset and feel like I wasn't good enough etc., but I don't think it'd be the end of the world, there's more to a relationship than sex.
>>27053171What do you even do with one though? I'm not a cannibal or a pedophile so I've never sen the point of children.
>>27053151I don't know specifically. I once got to tie up an ex to a chair which was a different experience and I know whenever I am on top I have the urge to choke them too, but I never do
>>27053158Honestly I've never been motivated or hopeful so I've never tried. And it never worked out with anyone I dated. If the stars align and I happen to meet someone nice someday, that's dope. If not I'm happy to be the crazy cat uncle>>27053178Hot>I never doWhy not?
>>27053174I think some people just aren’t good at sex. I’ve tried to explain what I like, and he does try, but it’s just not the same. My 2nd boyfriend was a natural and every time we had sex I had full body orgasms and couldn’t control myself. It’s like I was a different person during sex. With my current boyfriend, I don’t experience that at all during sex.
okay, so the best way to talk to girls is to treat them like actual human beings with interests and a real life and talk accordingly. we all know this by now. HOWEVER, when you see a girl that is more beautiful than anything you've ever seen, all of this goes out the window and it's like you're talking to a goddess in person. how can i talk to her like a normal human when he surpasses humanity with her beauty?
>>27053176I want to raise a happy, healthy son. That's all, I don't have a more specific reason behind it.
>>27053167>you've never enjoyed a deep tissue massage?I've enjoyed the effects of it, but no, the pain was never pleasant. The pain was painful. I do it because if I stomach the pain for 30 minutes then my head stops hurting.I personally don't understand why anyone would want to be hurt by their partner or to hurt their partner. To me love is sheltering each other from pain and taking care of each other, hurting someone you love is awful to me.You're not deep and mature just because you need to get fucked up or to fuck someone up to feel something.
>>27053148I think it's the opposite honestly. My self-esteem is total garbage and the validation I feel from hurting them is better than drugs.>>27053152It's a very fine line. If she doesn't want to do it, like she gets absolutely nothing out of it and hates me for it, I can't do that. That breaks my heart. However, if she gets pleasure from the pain or pleasure from pleasing me, then it's honestly the best feeling.
>>27053184For me personally it's getting drunk
>>27053183Shit, how long have you been together? You really don't think he can improve?Eh I guess it's a bit like dancing or something, some people just have more of a knack. Do you think you and your bf could actually be happy together 4ever though in this situation?
>>27053191but even then i would be talking to her with the viewpoint of admiration rather than as an equal human. also i can't expect to be drunk every time i see someone I find beautiful that I want to talk to
>>27053190>My self-esteem is total garbageWell yeah, that much is apparent too, but it's still a function of the ego>>27053191Nta but getting drunk just makes me more antisocial lol
>>27053158The funny stories people will tell when I fuck up is enough to motivate me.
>>27053201Admiration? Nah it's just like you think she's pretty and sexy and would fuck her. You a troon son?
>>27053076Once a girl started to suck on my balls so much that it really hurt, but she insisted to continue, it felt like getting blue balls but 1000 times worse
>>27053188You're right, I'm deeper and more mature because I don't post about how I find other people's opinions on pleasurable sexual acts "incomprehensible". Because I understand that other people have preferences and all brains are wired differently. Again, just because yours is wired one way doesn't mean others' are plainly good or bad relative to yours.You could just say "I don't get it and it's not for me" rather than "how can you enjoy being bad and causing pain to someone you love (who is consenting so they clearly enjoy it and want to do it with the person they love)?".
>>27053076MaleI can only have sex in the missionary position. Anything other than that causes me too much physical pain. I have a defect with my balls and I get a lot of pain from sex
>>27053202>Nta but getting drunk just makes me more antisocial lolAre you getting "drunk" or full on drunk? Like how much experience with alcohol do you have? There's a big big difference between drank a few shots and full on stumbling around giddy laughing telling girls you'd fuck them.
>>27053179>Why not?Because what if I ask to and then he says no, I would feel embarrassed
>>27053171>>27053179Yeah dating is so fucking hard and everyone has ridiculous standards now I just want someone to stick around dude
>>27053196I don’t think he can desu. Like you said, I just don’t think he has the knack for sex. Everyone thinks that sex is so natural. But it’s really not. Some people can’t do it.>can you pull through this situationWell, I think it would be stupid to break up over sex. Eventually as I age, my sex drive will drop anyways. Just like for every other human. So I can’t justify breaking up with a good boyfriend over something which is just temporary. Although I do LOVE sex and I miss good sex. I know eventually my body won’t want it anymore
>>27053214>how much experience with alcohol do you have?A lot kek (though I'm trying to cut down on drinking)I'm just naturally very introverted, and alcohol lowers my inhibitions, so when I get wasted I just think "this party sucks I just want to go home and enjoy my own company">>27053217>everyone has ridiculous standards nowI don't think so, I just have nothing going for myself lol
>>27053158Just keep swimming. I always figured I would eventually run into someone I like if I keep doing it
>>27053217I've never experience girls having high standards. Either they have low standards or I'm God.
>>27053111If it's casual, just some jeans or shorts that show off her ass a bit and a top she's comfortable in. For something a bit fancier, a skirt with hose or socks and a blouse or nicer top, or a summer dress without the hose/socks, either one is hot.
>>27053158I haven't even started dating. I lost hope before it ever began.
>>27053223I guess I'm not naturally introverted, I'm just antisocial. When I get drunk I just go full balls to the wall and people either love me or hate me.
>>27053061Would you date a guy that didn't have a car or licence and didn't have any plan on getting one?
>>27053231Yeah maybe lol. If I still have enough social energy then I can be perfectly amicable and everything while drunk and people tend to like me, I was pretty "popular" at college etc. Though there's always that part of me that looks forward to going home. I don't know how people can spend all day socialising and not get bored or tired
>>27053242If we lived somewhere with decent public transportation, sure.
>>27053226yes thats why youre an anime dweeb 4chan dwelling incel
>>27053242I’m Canadian. No I wouldn’t. Because a car is required here and I’m not going to be his chauffeur
>>27053243Well when I'm drunk what I do can't be called socializing by any means. More like antagonizing people. I just tall to people and if anyone disagrees with ANYTHING I say I try to tear them down with insults and hold no punches.
>>27053251>if anyone disagrees with ANYTHING I say I try to tear them down with insults and hold no punches.Not gonna lie dude that just sounds like autism lol
>>27053247I may be friendless but I'm no incelPutting up with girls is much easier for me than putting up with guys
>>27053242No I live too far away from public transport
>>27053252Autists don't realize why they are antagonistic though. I've been formally diagnosed by 3 separate psychiatrists and they all agreed I have ASPD. I had the records sealed.
>>27053248What if had no intentions of making you his chauffeur? Like what if he caught public transport or walked everywhere he needed to be?
Women, do you like when guys leave hickeys or would you prefer they didn't?
>>27053257Ah right fair, maybe you just get a kick out of it Meanwhile one psych suggested I have AvPD (avoidant personality disorder) which would explain a lot lol. I was at a party last night and when I got drunk I just snuck home
>>27053260Love it, but only when it's somewhere I can hide when I'm at work or otherwise in public.
>>27053260No hickeys for me. Don’t care if other people have them
>>27053261Your lack of empathy is probably why you're an incel. People calling you incel bothers you so you assume it bothers other people. You probably have BPD.
>>27053258>Like what if he caught public transport or walked everywhere he needed to be?You can’t do either of those things in Canada
>>27053264Aw, but the neck is the best place to leave them though. I guess I could leave them on your chest, or maybe on your thighs.
. .did you ever get over your ex ? how long did it take
Hickeys are things women leaveMen leave choke marks
>>27053211> I don't post about how I find other people's opinions on pleasurable sexual acts "incomprehensible".And what's wrong with saying you can't understand something? There wasn't even any particular moral judgement, you just got really defensive over my post and started insulting me. >>27053190I don't know, I can't really relate. The idea of my boyfriend putting up with pain to make me happy just saddens me, even if he gets enjoyment out of pleasing me I'd just feel terrible about making him go through that. The best feeling ever is him having a good time.
>>27053289>he doesn't know girls wear Chokers to hide the bruises
>>27053276Yes, but honestly I was over him before I broke up with him.>>27053260I do, but please do it somewhere where I can hide them. It's inappropriate for me to go to work branded.>>27053242No, I live in the middle of nowhere and you can't do anything without a car. When I lived in the city, sure.
>>27053293>The idea of my boyfriend putting up with pain to make me happy just saddens me, even if he gets enjoyment out of pleasing me I'd just feel terrible about making him go through that.What if his brain is rotten and he interprets pain as pleasure.I'd prefer having bamboo under my fingernails to getting my dick sucked
>>27053295Girls who wear chokers are degenerates to begin with.t girl
>>27053293You said, and I quote, "But you don't love her enough to not put her through that? Don't you feel absolutely disgusting causing her pain?". Do you claim this is not a moral judgement on causing consensual sexual pain? And do you honestly think saying someone should apparently feel "absolutely disgusting" for doing something consensual like that isn't an insult?You're trying really hard to have your cake and eat it, too.
>>27053306Every girl I've dated who wore Chokers was a virgin when I met them. They were all between 16 and 19 though
>>27053308They do it because they want to appear sexual. It’s degenerate behavior. It literally objectifies them and they like that
>>27053260I don't like them personally, but I could tolerate them occasionally in some discreet areas if he's super into it.
>>27053311Pretty much every girl wants to be objectififed But only by guys like me (good looking)If anything that's always a massive turn on to meThey're hypersexual but waited to put out for me, damn I'm sexy I'm so fucking great I'd fuck me
>>27053311No it's GREAT behaviour femanon, stop acting uptight and with the slut shaming please.We slut appreciate in /atoga/
>>27053322Virgin slut>>>>>>normie>>>>>>pig>>>>trad larping bitch who isn't even a virgin
>>27053322>We slut appreciate in /atoga/Only if the slutty behavior is in a committed long term relationship.
>>27053322Slut behavior is bad and that makes the rest of us girls get treated poorly. Every guy I date expects me to suck his cock on the first date. You know why? Because so many sluts do this
>>27053329You're not a girl you're an old decrepit woman
>>27053329I agree with this as a guy but unfortunately no one group is responsible. Although women could shame each other for leading with sex and instead usually choose to simply do the same. Conversely men are seen poorly if they lead with their wallet for example
>>27053343If she's not a virgin who gives a fuck, she's just a loose whole who should be used by any man who can stick his dick in her. She's nothing to me.
>>27053329How do you get to the point on a first date where a guy just expects you to suck his cock though?I thought first dates just ended with him walking you to the doorstep or your car, not the ideal place for him to proposition you sucking on his chodet. 22 khhv
>>27053346Agreed, women are either mothers or whores. It’s prospective mothers who should protect their virginity for their husband. Whores are different
>>27053299I couldn't bring myself to do it, I'd rather just break up.>>27053307I said that replying to Sato's post saying:>she loves me so much that she would put herself through that for me makes me feel like the most special person on earthThose two questions were replying directly to his statements. She loves him enough that he would put herself through anything for him, but doesn't he love her enough to not put her through that? He feels like the most special person on earth, but doesn't it make him feel disgusting to put someone he loves through pain?I don't know if Sato felt insulted by my questions, but he didn't seem to be. You decided to feel insulted by my conversation with someone else and started insulting me.
>>27053353>t. 22 khhvAre you trolling? I had girls try to pull my dick out in public since I was 16.
M or FThoughts on men who marry single mothers and raise another man's kid?
>>27053311): i wear chokers bc they're pretty and go w/ my outfit. . .
>>27053353I take it slow too, usually only kiss on the 2nd or 3rd date. If I find out she’s that kind of slut I just ghost
>>27053362F. Whatever makes them happy. I think being someone's step parent is often an thankless job and I'm happy the kids at least have someone to look up to if their dad isn't present.
>>27053362Why would i care about anyone other than myself and my gf
>>27053362MaleVery cucked or psychos who intend to abuse the kids. No sane person dedicates their life to someone else’s mistakes. They also encourage bad behavior by rewarding it
>>27053242yes bc im hella anti car. public transport ftw letsgoooooo>>27053362f, and who cares? it's nice they're helping out. every kid deserves a dad. you never know what the woman had to go through, and its a true testament to love if he's willing to raise another man's kid. good on them both (:
>>27053362Male.My dad did that with me, but he also had two kids of his own with my mom. And I see him as my father, while on the rare occasion I think about my biological dad it's somewhere between ambivalence and disappointment.
>>27053371I don't even see why you'd care about your girlfriend. Wow a girl that occasionally sucks your dick, occasionally lets you fuck them and is just nice enough to where you can't complain but not nice enough for you to brag. They also take up all your free time and make you feel like you need to spend money on them because they have a vagina and long hair.
women, are these post larp or have you heard of female friends or yourself having these thoughts?>>27053222>>27053183>>27053162
>>27053389It's a pretty consistent larp if it is, has been posted a lot lately.I can understand what she's supposedly experiencing with her bf, feels like they just don't have any chemistry in the bedroom.
>>27053297do you think you loved your ex or were you just with him because it was something you were supposed to have?
To either sex,Just a month ago nobody seemed to noticed. Now, out of nowhere, my Dam's are full and I'm receiving a lot of attention. Does anyone knows whats up with this phenomenon? Not sure what could have changed and I'm not complaining but I'm wondering what happened
>>27053162If I felt that was the case I would communicate with her about it and figure out how I can improve. I honestly kind of expect this if I ever end up in a relationship since I have no experience whatsoever.
Femanons, would wanna be in a relationship with a guy where you did everything sexual (oral, fingering, making out) except penetration with a penis? I have physical shit with my dick that doesn't allow me to penetrate a girl with it, but I still wanna be in a relationship.
>>27053362M. I have a friend in a similar situation (they're not married) and frankly I think he's retarded. The relationship has fucked up all his other relationships, he's now broke, and he has no time for anything else. He's got all the bullshit of having a toddler and he didn't even get to nut in someone to make her.
>>27053389it's true, but i would absolutely break up over terrible sex. but the main cause of terrible sex is an uncaring guy, and those don't ever get to the sex stage with me anyway.
>>27053162>It's disappointing he's not exactly what my last boyfriend was like in bed, he provided better sex than my loving boyfriend whom I want a stable relationship. I want both, or I'm unhappy.You can't have your cake and eat it. You can either settle, or level up and leave him. The latter will leave you miserable, as most women throw away great options in hope of winning the sexual lottery. But if you want to chase thrills, it's your life, but no man will want to keep you if all you care about is yourself and being validated by good sex. That is the mark of a slut, and you'll be rightfully called out as one if you live that way.
What kind of sex do women like?
>>27053377you ever hear her get railed by him?
>>27053420mostly male, some like female
>>27053422No, but I walked in on it once when I was about five.
>>27053402I loved him very much for the first few years of our relationship. Then I found out he cheated on me. We broke up, I took him back, we both had a lot of shit going on in our personal life, I changed a lot. I wasn't in love with him by then. I think he loved me, which is why it took me so much time to convince me to break up. I cared for him a lot and thought he was a really good person, I didn't want to hurt his feelings and I felt responsible for him.
>>27053288Only an idiot would choke a woman today. That shit is a jail sentence waiting to happen.
>>27053389I only hear two things about this1. I love him so sex is the best 2. I can’t love someone who are not compatible in bed
>>27053186>>27053411>>27053419I feel dirty now. I'm gonna go take a long, hot shower.
Should I just end it since I'm still a virgin at 24?
>>27053355Insulted is a strong term. I see people making dumb generalizations about what people should and shouldn't get out of a relationship and feel the need to call them out on it.You said you don't understand this shit, and that's fine. But you have to understand how seeing someone who admits as much publicly airing their opinions makes others want to inform them, right?
What does it mean when a girl starts saying "I'm going to take a shit" instead of "I'm going to toilet"?
>>27053439It depends. If she swears a lot, it just means she's more comfortable being around you. If she's no the type to swear, she might be ticked off.
>>27053439She's trying to be funny and succeeding spectacularly.
>>27053439She's comfortable around you.
>>27053427>Then I found out he cheated on me. We broke up, I took him back,oh shit, you're the girl that had the bf that kissed the other girl?I thought that was someone else since I figured your tiny village would have spread that aroundWere you having sex when he kissed the other girl?>I changed a lotI think you said once that you thought you were going to die by like 30 or something as a teenager, did getting "cured" or w/e make you change your perspective?
>>27053434why the fuck would you even read that??
>>27053436No, you dingus. Live for yourself, and don't value yourself based on virginity, pick up a hobby and stop complaining.
>>27053456I'm the one who posted it. I don't think JH is here right now.
>>27053361I’m 29 and I’ve literally never had that happen
>>27053362M all depends My step dad fucked my mom when I was a kid and she was married to my bio dad. Then they got divorced and my step dad got lost, but he ended up coming back and marrying my mom out of wedlock. He treated me like shit going up and still to this day makes it clear that he resents me in one way or another A good friend of mine is 29m and is about to marry 38f with a child. He pays for all their bills and she won’t even suck his dick because of “past trauma” and she’s also a starfish apparently. He says he loves her to death, but I think he has very low self esteem. He could do so much better. Very funny, good looking guy. I could never, personally. I’d rather just be single.
>>27053457I don't want a hobby, I want to be adored and loved
>>27053452>I figured your tiny village would have spread that aroundI live fairly close to a larger city, we both went to school there in high school and he lived there.>Were you having sex when he kissed the other girl?No, it was very early on.>did getting "cured" or w/e make you change your perspective?Yes, but also a lot of other shit going on in my late teens and early 20s. A close friend of mine killed himself, my dad had cancer, 2/3 of my living grandparents passed away after a lot of suffering, I had a severe depressive episode. .
>>27053417Why would you dump a good guy over sex? Sex is just temporary anyways. Eventually you won’t want sex anymore
>>2705336124khv here, just don't be attractive. No need to be ugly
Would I scare off girls from tinder if I'll be honest in my profile?>33 yo loser who disappointed manyIn pictures I'm fit and at least not ugly.I feel awkward using that app... or maybe awkward trying to date again? Fuck... do I have to date them? I just want someone to have a walk with and talk about random stuff. I don't even care about sex that much.What do?
>>27053472I'm curious about something since said your bf was cheated onDo you think the pain you felt was equivalent to his? even though it was just a drunk make out years earlier? Or is it just dependent on how much you love someone and that betrayal only hurts because you love them, even if it's something "insignificant"?
>>27053437I have no problem with people wanting to inform me, Sato did so just fine. What you did was calling me a massive pussy because I don't enjoy being hurt in the bedroom and told me you're better than me because you enjoy pain. I wouldn't say it's particularly informative.
Asking guysI know mens hands with visible veins or bones and stuff are attractive but what about on girls? Is it a bad look? I was looking at a picture I took and realized my hands look like they belong to a man
>>27053482Stupid. Girls want a confident chad to fuck then
>>27053389I've only had sex with one person so I could be wrong, but I don't see how it's possible to be consistently bad at it if you both>give a shit about your partner>have basic communication skills>don't have some sort of motor skills disorderand two of those are vital components of a relationship with staying in.I haven't heard these sort of complaints from female friends, but we don't really go into detail.
>>27053361your porn fantasy doesnt count niggr
MenWhere would you like to coom outside of pussy?
>>27053494>two>post 3women moment (I Jest)
>>27053493But I don't want to fuck them. I just want to take them into woods.
>>27053162This is the ultimate blackpill
>>27053492are those your hands?why the fuck are your fingers so long?
>>27053492Is that your hand? It looks alright. Not ideal but not unattractive. What's important is that they're soft and smaller than mine (not hard since mine are fairly large) and you take care of them, especially the nails.
>>27053501"Two of those," not "those two," because people with motor skills disorders need love too.
How do you get over repeated rejection? For whatever reason the powers that be just won’t let me win. It wasn’t always like this. I’ve been on a huge losing streak and I just want to feel loved again
>>27053494Not everyone is good at sex. Not everyone has rhythm. My ex could not get me off. He cared about me and he really did put in effort and he tried his best. But he couldn’t do it. He couldn’t keep a pace when fucking me, and when he’d try to finger me he couldn’t figure it out. I tried to guide him but he just couldn’t do it
>>27053496Depends what she's into/OK with. If she's into it face and/or mouth would be nice, especially if she swallows, and so would tits. Cooming on her belly right after pulling out would be hot too.
>>27053508They aren't that long in real life but they do look it there
Ladies, what do you think of a man who bathes in sound every day?https://youtu.be/GPmQnpsZaFs
>>27053516I avoid the rejection in the first place by not even trying. I don't recommend it at all.
>>27053162I just don't have a gf and don't have to think about it
>>27053517do you think if your bf was a virgin like your ex was he would be a worse lover?
>>27053490Sorry, I didn't mean to make it so hard to parse through the shittalk. But it's 4chan, it can't be unexpected. After everything, you understand the core message of trying to reserve judgement when you can't empathize, though, I hope.
>>27053517>finger meI thought you didn't like fingers or tongue going down there?
>>27053525probably. My ex only had 1 partner before me. So when I started dating him he was still inexperienced. Initially I was very happy about this because I thought I could help him learn and explore. But it ended up making sex feel like a chore because I was always having to lead and give him guidance and I didn’t even orgasm. I don’t want to date inexperienced guys ever again. I want to date a man who knows what he’s doing
There is literally no reason to get a gf if you're not Chad because you'll never be able to satisfy her financially, emotionally, and especially sexually
>>27053496Either>your nicest physical feature>the part where you like it the mostI like to coom anywhere, if you have a nice looking tummy or back or titties I'll go crazy for spraying it but I'll also go crazy for whatever you like (what is it anyway?) because ultimately it's largely indifferent to me.
>>27053538A friend of mine is a poor, out of shape loser who you wouldn’t think would have a gf. But he has a gf who is obsessed with him. I seriously don’t understand what she loves about him. But she’s literally addicted to him.
Girls: Would you rather be with a guy who's in to boobs or butts? Assuming that either way he loves your assets.
>>27053535>I don’t want to date inexperienced guys ever again. I want to date a man who knows what he’s doingthanks for the blackpill what exactly did he need to improve that he wouldn't do?asking for a friend obviously
Met a girl I went to HS with and barely knew at a party. She added me on instagram a few days later. I don't use instagram and have no pictures posted. What is the proper way of Dming her?
>>27053549Butts. He's more likely to like me.
M or FHave you ever felt you were overwhelmed by someone's love?Like their genuine care for you and your wellbeing is so foreign to you that you don't know how to respond to it?
>>27053553>Assuming that either way he loves your assets.
>>27053555Male.No. I've never even been on a date, and only one woman has ever expressed attraction to me in any capacity.
>>27053554That's why you get no pussy
>>27053486I'm going to long post, soz.It's hard to say. My ex cheated, and that hurts no matter what. I still remember the pain I felt in my chest and the emptiness I had inside me for months after I found out. I also felt really hurt because he lied to me for so long. Honestly I knew he cheated on me right away and the fact that he promised me he didn't for years just made me feel so hurt. He made me feel crazy, made me feel bad about myself for doubting him and at the end he just lied to me. I felt really betrayed in a fundamental way.Even when I told him, he got mad at her because she told me the truth instead of, you know, apologizing to me.He was the man I thought I'd marry, my first and only at the time, the man I envisioned myself raising my children with. I felt like all the things I did, all the things I gave to him were just meaningless. And I understand he was 16 when he committed to this lie and not much older when it came out, I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt me the way he did, but it really broke something in me.I know my boyfriend felt a lot of pain over his ex cheating on him, and it was a very humiliating experience for him. Beside all those feelings of emptiness and the pain of the betrayal itself, it crippled his self esteem for quite a while and he had a lot of trust issues when we got together. He has a lot of resentment for her even today, which he doesn't have for earlier gfs or flings.He's much better now, but it really was a huge blow. He's an extremely loyal and loving man, and he had a crush on her for quite a while before they dated, so I'm sure it fucked him up real good.We don't talk about it much for obvious reasons, so this is my understanding of it.
>>27053517>and when he’d try to finger me he couldn’t figure it outWhat's there to figure out?
MenWould you like a girl to lick your eyeballs?
>>27053565No, that would be painful and I'd be worried about an infection.
>>27053549Boobs. Boob guys are awesome.
How do I stop thinking about women? I feel like I'm always reacting to them either directly or indirectly (e.g. looking at an attractive woman provides a boost of motivation to not cheat on my diet).
>>27053550He couldn’t keep rythme when fucking me. He would thrust for a bit and stop, thrust for a bit and stop. He couldn’t consistently fuck me in rythme. And when he would finger me, he couldn’t hit my stop and would end up just poking around the inside of my vagina which hurt. He would also cum really fast so I would still want to be fucked but he would be completely drained. It was just not enjoyable at all. I need a guy who can really fuck me and not have me always take the lead
>>27053556I should've been more clear. I mean I would be more confident from the get-go that he liked me after hearing he's an ass guy. I'd have lingering insecurities that I'm not enough for him at the beginning otherwise.
>>27053538>if you're not Chad because you'll never be able to satisfy her financially, emotionally, and especially sexuallySo what's the definition of Chad at this point? Rich, great talker who has a lot of empathy and emotional intelligence, and great in bed? That does sound like a pretty good combination, not gonna lie, but money is just about picking a good career and being smart with it, empathy just takes caring about people, and I admittedly have no idea what it takes to be good in bed. But this doesn't seem that unachieveable to most people.
>>27053570>Boob guys are awesome.I see this sentiment a lot from women here, why is that? Does it apply to guys who love smaller breasts specifically too?
>>27053555F. No. I felt overwhelmed by my love and care for someone, and in complete awe for their love for me. But I love being loved.
>>27053570>>27053580Do girls really think this for the most part?I love boobs so much
>>27053162I'm in this situation too lol except it's not just sex, he's not passionate or affectionate at all and it makes me cry almost daily because I've been so touch and love starved for years.
>>27053538Being bare minimum of regular is now chad?
>>27053076MI like the idea of rough sex but having never done it I have no idea whether I would actually like it or not.
>>27053571you're a simp. it's just natural for men, nothing can be done about it.
>>27053555MNo. But I overwhelm girls with my love. Always am first to say>I love you Usually after two weeks or a month.
>>27053112>I can't comprehend how people can cause pain to someone they love, or humiliate them in any capacity.I get so truned on usually by the idea of women been humiliated but whenever I have a crush on a girl I find it impossible to imagine her as the subject.
>>27053565Go ahead. But one condition, you let me lick your back.
>>27053122>I wish guys who liked to dish it out also were the type to want it given back to themI like the idea of both giving and receiving. I haven't actually tried either though.
>>27053561if he didn't cheat would you have still broken up with him?Did him cheating make it easier to break up with him finally?How long did you take a break for?How long were you together after you got back together?Also, if he didn't cheat and you stayed together and you still ended up going to London, would you have met your now bf? Do you think your bf would "steal you" away from him?I only ask because Butterfly Effect moments are really interesting to me and it's one that really changes your whole life
>>27053572Is there anyway I can practice with myself to see how long I can keep a pace for?
>>27053580>>27053583Pretty sure it's just me every time kek I feel like there's a lot more room for tenderness and romance with a guy who loves your booba. When we're in a position where he can play my boobs we can look at each other, kiss. He can sleep with his head on my boobs and I can cuddle him. Him playing with and kissing my boobs feels sensual and passionate, instead most things with butt are more coomery. Also my nipples actually feel good, unlike my butt cheeks.I feel like being with a butt guy just takes away a lot of what I enjoy about intimacy.Not that I don't enjoy having my butt appreciated, but there's just something better about boob guys.
>>27053599Nag, but not without being the kind of degenerate who owns a life size sex doll or one of those water filled life sized ass/pussy combo toys.
Do femanons like it when men act like shy lovestruck idiots when they see them, or is that just too pathetic?
>>27053604HotFor girls in general, how good do you think it is if a guy loves sucking/kissing a girl's boobs? Do you think most girls feel the same as you?
>>27053606I mean he could just hump his bed. Are longer strokes better than shorter strokes?
Girls: how do you feel about casual nudity at home? Would you mind if your partner was nude most of the time? Would you be OK with being nude most of the time?
>>27053616>hasn't seen the seinfeld episode on itheh
>>27053613There's no bed humping for pronebone or missionary.
>>27053408Female, forgot to mention it sorry
Male here.Is it natural for a guy to become really shaky when he gets really excited about a girl?For example, back in high school I asked this girl I liked to the dance. When she accepted, I was shaking for the rest of the day.
have you ever checked up on an ex’s social media a good bit after breaking up and saw that they seem miserable as fuck?tufffff shit, @ my ex-bf that dumped me
>>27053598>if he didn't cheat would you have still broken up with him?It's hard to say. I went through a lot in my early 20s and I don't know if the change that resulted from that alone would have been enough.>Did him cheating make it easier to break up with him finally?Yes, because I stopped being in love with him after I found out he cheated on me. Broke my heart.>How long did you take a break for?Less than a year, I don't remember exactly. Everything that happened from age 18 to 23 is messy in my head. I could tell you the day my boyfriend first texted me in 2017 and what he said exactly but I don't remember shit of my early 20s.>How long were you together after you got back together?About 3 years I want to say?>Also, if he didn't cheat and you stayed together and you still ended up going to London, would you have met your now bf? Probably. I was more liberal about having male friends back then.>Do you think your bf would "steal you" away from him?I don't know. I always hated cheating, whenever I had a crush on someone else I just distanced myself from them and stayed loyal to my ex. I feel like meeting my boyfriend would have pushed me over the edge if I was already doubting our relationship, tho. I never experienced anything quite like him in my life. >Butterfly Effect moments are really interesting to me To me as well. I've thought about this very often. Do you have any butterfly effect moment of your own?
>>27053619what? just lie on your belly you retard
>>27053604>He can sleep with his head on my boobsthat sounds incredibly painful
>>27053621It's normal to get shakey in situations where you're stressed.
>>27053621happened to me too bro.Also how was the dance did you know how to dance?
>>27053629No? It's really nice, I love when he falls asleep like that.
>>27053621I do that, yeah.
>>27053621Yes, and it's very cute every time.
>>27053620Well it's pretty normal for a girl to get attention on social media.Did you post a pic of yourself or did a previous pic suddenly get a lot of traffic?
>>27053589There must be something I can do short of castration. I want to master myself.
>>27053616I'm nude at home all the time when it's hot outside. Sometimes it's fun, for instance last time when a delivery guy knocked on my door I shouted>could you wait a minute? I'm nude right nowI guess he was quite shocked lol
>>27053612nta, but I like it best when it's 50/50. it's nice when your boobs are rubbed gently, but I don't have any strong opinion on boob kissing/sucking, it just is.
>>27053577Well look at my case>Poor and in debt>As emotionally available as a brick wall>Slightly below average dick that can barely stay hardLet's face itI would be divine punishment as a boyfriend/husbandAnd maybe I can improve those this with getting in shape, making better financial choices, and going to therapyBut the majority of guys are already better than me at most of these thingsI'll never match up
>>27053627I'm speaking from experience. Laying on your stomach and humping your mattress is different from actually fucking someone. It's not effective practice
>>27053586Well doesn't matter because I fail everywhere>>27053544Good for himI'll never have that
>>27053641have more women friends and get used to the fact that they are indeed just people. usually men who have more women friends and spend time platonically around women have an easier time controlling their urges and not idealizing women.
>>27053632the dance went alright.>did you know how to dance?I dunno I slow danced with her, was that enough?either way, I ended up getting friend-zoned later.
>>27053624no actually i think i am the source of misery>>27053621sometimes :):(>>27053565what's the contextlike cowgirl and we're kissing and you hold my eye open and lick my eyeballare you a demonis your father the sleep paralysis demon because bitch what the fuck
Men, do you have this?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pearly_penile_papules
Is it normal to get occasional crushes while in a relationship? and is it bad that the type of guys I get these small crushes on tend to be the opposite type from my boyfriend? he's very talkative, and I tend to get crushes on the silent types, which is strange to me since it's not like I'm not attracted to him.
>>27053662>like cowgirl and we're kissing and you hold my eye open and lick my eyeballYES
>>27053667Yeah but way smaller than the wiki pic, more like a texture than bumps
>>27053616I'm into it.
>>27053671Makes me feel very much in control
Girls, would you like a date where we watch Andrew Tate videos? You could learn something too.
>>27053655I pretty much only have female friends, though. I can mentally separate attraction from platonics
Femanons, why don't you look like this?I swear I fall in love with every woman who has this haircut
>>27053651I mean you could just get a pillow or roll up your duvet
>>27053683I looked like that when I first met my bf, grew my hair out now.
>>27053683Short hair are WAY more tiresome than long. Sorry.
>>27053682seems like your simp gene is too strong then, I'm sorry.
>>27053669>Is it normal to get occasional crushes while in a relationship?Normies say it is normal but I've been with my boyfriend for over 7 years and never crushed on anyone else. Other men bore the fuck out of me and just the idea that I would entertain them in my fantasy as a crush disgusts me. Literally makes me skin crawl in guilt. My question is: Would you think it is normal or fine if your boyfriend had a crush on a cute redhead at work or some sweet girl he is talking to while playing a video game? I wouldn't.
>>27053683I don't have straight hair.
>>27053096>I'd be okay with breaking bones if she really wanted it.Do you get a signed up consent or something for shit like this?
I've never had a female friend and maybe talked 30 senteces to women of mt age, tops, during my whole life
>>27053696I would say 99% of men other than him bore me out too, but during 4 years I've had like 5 crushes. and it kinda does make me feel guilty.
>>27053626>About 3 years3 years of no love in a relationship?Jesus that sucks, no wonder you were obsessed with your boyfriendDid your ex feel the absence of your love?Was the sex worse after? I know passion is a big thing for you>I was more liberal about having male friends back then.Would your friend still introduce you to him if he knew you had a boyfriend though? >I never experienced anything quite like him in my life.That's the power of the USA baby Do you think he would have seduced you if you were dating your bf or would that make him feel bad since he was cheated on himself?>Do you have any butterfly effect moment of your own?Uh I've almost died multiple times on my skateboard from cars nearly hitting me, idk if that's a butterfly effect moment though(this might make you upset since your friend killed herself)My friend told me recently that the only reason he didn't off himself a few years back was because on the day he decided to do it I told him I loved him more than my brother and he was the brother I choose and he didn't go through with it because I said that.
>>27053702So is it normal? By 30 senteces max I mean 30 sentences max
>>27053633does he fall asleep on a titty or in-between the titties?
>>27053162Just break up with himThis is clearly an issue that's bothering you and it ain't gonna get betterEither you'll be miserable and never have sex again or you'll sleep with Lothario and not know who the father of your children are
>>27053703How would you feel if he had a crush on a girl? In his head, that he would think fondly of another woman he knows or has met either in person or online? Especially if she was the opposite of you. Most people will tell you this is normal and healthy, that you shouldn't guilt-trip yourself. Maybe they are right and this is the most sane approach. However I believe in true romance and think this is not appropriate and should not be induldged.
I see beautiful women with their babies and I’m just glad they are populating the earth with more beautiful people, but damn what a lucky man.
>>27053669This girl here is a future cheater
>>27053667yeah>>27053669i think sono>>27053678frightening >>27053679another common tate w>>27053696i want to say awe
>>27053713I'm pretty sure he's had a crush on a girl who is our mutual friend, and it made me quite insecure, but I got over it afterwards since we aren't really active friends with her anymore.>>27053721why? I've never shown interest or done anything romantic/sexual with crushes, usually I try hard to ignore them lol.
MenWhat's more hot - letting you coom wherever you prefer outside of pussy or telling you specifically where do I want your coom?
(asking again)How do I stop feeling lesser and/or envious of those who find a partner without looking for one, while I have a strong urge for one and am actively trying?
>>27053730You're recognizing that you want something else from your relationship and your bf doesn't do it for you
>>27053739>tellingNo>beggingYes. Especially when it's on the face or in the mouth
>>27053739That's a tough one.On one hand, I like the former because it makes me feel dominant, like in a "I can use you as I want" kind of way.On the latter's side, I like when women express their wants in sex.Let's reach a middle ground and say the latter, but only in begging tone.
>>27053739Where do you want it?I've never had sex but I would probably just prefer the pussy all the timeJizz is gross
>>27053740what are your plans for tonight anon
>>27053706>Did your ex feel the absence of your love?I don't think so, or at least he never said anything about it. I was trying really hard to be in love with him.>Was the sex worse after?I briefly thought it was getting better, probably because he felt like he had to make it up to me, but honestly it went back to being as bad as always pretty fast.>Would your friend still introduce you to him if he knew you had a boyfriend though? Probably, yeah. I don't think us dating was his plan all along, but maybe I'm wrong.>That's the power of the USA baby The second I read this my boyfriend texted me, made me laugh IRL>Do you think he would have seduced you if you were dating your bf I want to say no, but he was obsessed with me and crazy in love with me, so I don't know for sure.>because on the day he decided to do it I told him I loved him more than my brother That's incredibly sweet anon. He's very lucky to have you. How is he doing now? Do you still skate?
>>27053710On the titty. It's squishy.
>>27053211>all brains are wired differently.but very few that would eat shit and then you wouldn't defend it as some sort of preference
Ladies and gentlemen would you be willing to dance for(not with) your Partner Inside your home while wearing a bikini/speedo? How long would you be willing to dance for them continuously? Would you be willing to do whatever dance(s) they wanted? Would you mind them just sitting down with feet up/watching tv/relaxing/lying down/eating+drinking/reading while mostly ignoring you(other than watching/glancing obviously) while you continuously dance for them? Would you enjoy watching them and commanding their moves or would you enjoy being their art piece or both or neither? Would you let your partner restrain you say by chaining one of your ankles to a pole in the house 10 feet or so away? Would you be willing to wear a shock collar your partner had the remote to incase you stopped dancing/talked back? Everything with specific enthusiastic and revocable consent.
Me and my friend are going to have sex after work just we both have had sex in while. I texted her and she said she's down and told me to text her later about 7 hours from now. The problem is that i didn't expect this to happened and jerked off last night and this morning and i dont want to under preform, also we both live with family but have access to cars but i live in CA and its kind of packed and i wouldn't know where to go to even have sex. Lastly iv only had sex 4 times, at 14 and the rest was with a couple that just wanted a kid and i looked like the father. Both times were really direct and i dont even know how to do oral sex.Really dont want to disappoint my friend, was even thinking about getting dick pills although i think i can get hard. plz help!
>>27053604>I feel like there's a lot more room for tenderness and romance with a guy who loves your booba. When we're in a position where he can play my boobs we can look at each other, kissThis is why I love booba personally. They're just more intimate.>He can sleep with his head on my boobs and I can cuddle him.Need.
>>27053769Doing pic related? While wearing this?
>>27053753>Where do you want it?On my boobs probably.>I've never had sex but I would probably just prefer the pussy all the timeMe too but I don't want to get knocked up>>27053750>>27053751Do you really like being begged so much?
>>27053772Normals disgust me.
>>27053747maybe. personally I think that crushes are just my way of coping with the fact that our relationship doesn't have that mystery anymore which new relationships have. but then again I also wouldn't want to leave him since I like having someone I can truly trust and be 100% comfortable with.
>>27053307>for doing something consensual like that isn't an insult?you fell disgusted with hurting something else it's a normal human behavior you would understand if you hadn't been abused or traumatized. Like how do you know animals don't enjoy you hurting them?
>>27053769>>27053776And also this?Here’s a video of a girl being shocked if curioshttps://sys.4channel.org/derefer?url=https%3A%2F%2Fyewtu.be%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DtA7FdQjU4ksOrhttps://sys.4channel.org/derefer?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DtA7FdQjU4ksPlenty of girls like dancing, being dominated in the bedroom, being slapped or choked and told what to do in the bedroom. You work your way up to a “forced”(safe word obviously she/he is t your literal slave it’s okay) dancing session with a chain and shock collar.
>>27053777>Do you really like being begged so much?Uh yeah. Like I said in the second reply, it lets me both feel dominant and know what you want.
>>27053785100% a future cheater.
>>27053766I wouldn't defend it as a safe preference, but I wouldn't pretend it's something that needs to be understood. Fetishes are all called that because of their abnormality. All you can do is remember that people somewhere out there like every single thing you can think of.
>>27053731>Idk, all thet psychology stuff seems to be a stretch at best.It explains why you get sexual pleasure from compliments, why you're so concerned about raising a child and loving him so much, the self loathing and neuroticism, etc.>I grew up and got over it.Hm. Well, I'm glad. I still think something like that is going to have a lasting impact on someone.>No, I felt that the chainsaw sound implied that Leatherface was coming over for a threesome.OOHHH. Fuck. I read that really, really wrong, then. That makes the story way hotter to me. >This compliment alone is way more impactful than any negative impact from that roast. Pretty much invalidated itGood. I didn't want to cause anything lasting or permanent.>since positive feelings are stronger than negative ones.I think this depends on your personality and outlook on life. Although, if that's the way you feel, maybe I was wrong about some of that stuff. You just come across way more negative and self loathing most of the time.
>>27053061>facebook and Instagram are set to privateIs that a sign she already has a bf?
can we just ban this shock collar spammer please
>>27053792Would you beg me for begging you?
>>27053785>MysteryYeah that's the sign of a cheater
>>27053794that is so rude to say you can like someone without having sex with them
>>27053800We could. Should we?
>>27053739Begging for a creampie is seriously the hottest thing a woman can do during sex, especially if she's not on birth control. But begging for it in general wherever you want it is extremely hot.
>>27053646That sounds a bit bad, sure, but poor and debt can be fixed with him and dedication, and just trying to be more emotionally open is something that will help in the long run. >I would be divine punishment as a boyfriend/husbandWhy though? It's not like it would come as a surprise. If someone picks you and wants to marry you, your selfdepreciating mentality is just that, your own self-inflicted punishment for things you think should be better. If someone thinks you are good enough despite no money and everything else, you have some kind of quality. How you get there is a great question I don't have the answer to, but if you do, don't put yourself down for no reason. If someone proves to you that you are worth it for them, you are. Fuck whatever the consensus is, it wont matter to you.
>>27053758>I don't think us dating was his plan all along, but maybe I'm wrong.Wingman has to wingman>The second I read this my boyfriend texted me*eagle wings intensify*He's doing better, he went to college and has a better social life now>Do you still skate?I did for a decade but I haven't in the past 3 years
>>27053801please please PLEASE beg me during sex! I just want both of us satisfied PLEASE!!!
>>27053804It's better to be rude than to be a cheater.
>>27053777>Do you really like being begged so much?Yes, it's an expression of how much you want me and love me.
>>27053804Can you help me find out if you are a cheater or not? I could also find out if you are a cheater if you posted a time stamped picture in this thread of you in a bikini.
>>27053801I would beg you outside of sex to do it during sex. Begging you in the moment just seems like too much back and forth.
>>27053813>He's doing better, he went to college and has a better social life nowThat's great, I'm really happy for him. You were a good fren.>I did for a decade but I haven't in the past 3 yearsHow come? I attempted to skate once, I hurt myself so much I was too much of a pussyfaggot to try again.
>>27053786A consensual act between two adults is above your assumptions and straw man arguments. If you love someone and you both agree to do something, then it's not causing unwelcomed pain. You should be careful to handle things safely and appropriately so you don't accidentally cause unintended pain, though. It's a fine line.
>>27053803I think you're just baiting bc you're not even answering to my replies>>27053794agree with >>27053804
>>27053788>this is the kind of girl that likes BDSMI think I'll stick to vanilla chicks
>>27053669It's not uncommon, but personally I never had crushes for other people when I felt fulfilled in my relationship. So I'd take it as a warning sign at least.
>>27053549Butts. But I have bigger boobs than booty so this type of guy would not end up with me
>>27053827>A consensual act between two adults is above your assumptions and straw man arguments.You can get people to consent to lots of things lol the consent argument is for retards who try to ignore how humans work
>>27053549Boobs. I like it when my boobs are touched, so I'd want him to touch them lots.
>>27053739just saying, i will ALWAYS prefer to cum inside a pussy or close second down a woman's throat (not her mouth, her throat) but thinking about it, personally i rather her tell me where to cum vs having to guess. i personally try to be considerate with women i'm intimate with, and i rather cum where she would get turned on the most (besides inside her vagina or throat) vs having to guess because turn a woman on is hot af
>>27053815you're not your thoughts>>27053818i am not a girl wtf
>>27053831not even addressing the actual point>you can like someone without having sex with them
>>27053772>i live in CA and its kind of packed and i wouldn't know where to go to even have sex.Dude just rent a room at a holiday inn or a motel 6 if you're cheap enough
>>27053808>>27053843not being on birth control is the exact reason why I need him to coom somewhere else lol. I agree that etting coomed inside feels way better though
>>27053827And again that's not even my point, why can't I just assume cats like to be tortured and go torture cats and you'd have to be happy with it cause I'm making it feel good or some shit, like whether or not the other person enjoys it doesn't make a difference in how you feel about it, right. Like someone fucked up in the head, like maybe you, enjoys causing hard to others and it doesn't matter if they don't enjoy it, but normal people don't go around slapping children for fun.
>>27053840Humans feel pain from lots of things. It doesn't mean every single source of pain is negative, or that people will never want to do anything painful. If it's worth doing or having done to you in some way, the pain is only one factor of the act.
>>27053851It feels better but that's not why it's so good. It's the fact that she'll probably end up pregnant that's hot. That means if a woman is begging me to creampie her it's because she wants to have my babies, which the greatest, most validating thing a woman could ever tell me.
>>27053801Begging to beg doesn't really work, I would order you to beg, something along the lines of "beg for my cum, slut!". Tone of the dialogue can be adjusted of course.
>>27053859my man how many women are you knocking up?
How does pussy feel like? Someone said it feels like the roof of the mouth.
>>27053858Retards don't understand that not all pain is the same. Like getting cut and working out are both kinda painful but there's a clear distinction, and you like to pretend like it's all the same thing so you can have something to argue that pain is actually good haha look at this dumb example.
>>27053836there might be something indeed, but thanks for replying.
>>27053852Weird of you to bring up cats and children in this discussion about sexual preferences. I certainly didn't mention them anywhere, so I'm not sure why you keep bringing this up when the conversation is about having sex with an adult who wants to have sex with you.You don't like pain during sex and have never been with anyone who does, that's cool. But pretending that everyone who does is objectively bad is crazy.
>>27053859We already have 3 children though and can't really afford more. Even though I'd like to have one or two more
>>27053788Nice.I always liked the idea of having like a cattle prod calibrated for humans.
I got a new bf and sometimes while we're screwing, my vision pseudo blacks out and I start seeing stars, similar to standing up too fast. My face will feel numb too like pins and needles. It kinda spooked me, I've never had that happen before. Is that concerning?
>>27053872>>>>/diy/2441875seems like a great way to kill someone by accident
>>27053882If pregnancy is out of the question begging for it somewhere else is also hot. Especially if you're begging for it in your mouth or on your face.
>>27053825>That's great, I'm really happy for him. You were a good fren.thanks>How come?When covid started my friends and I stopped skating and I haven't really skated sinceAlso we all have jobs like normies now and we can't just go skating at 1am anymore Yeah skateboarding makes you learn how to fall effetely with stylemaybe try a longboard? the wheels are a lot bigger so it's easier imo
>>27053887sounds like cutting off blood flowis that boy folding you like an accordion or choking you like you owe him moneyif neither did you get the vaccine
>>27053887Not particularly. Are you physically active? Exercising could help anon.
>>27053762you must have a giant titty then if he can use it as a pillow
>>27053881>so I'm not sure why you keep bringing this up when the conversation is about having sex with an adult who wants to have sex with you.Maybe work on your reading comprehension and reasoning skills.>>27053881>But pretending that everyone who does is objectively bad is crazy.never said that and i i wouldn't call it bad cause it's a dumb word for dumb people.on top of all of this there are people who self harm and i guess you would call it self pleasure or some dumb shit cause you're retarded lol
>>27053876You really need to calm down. You keep using completely unrelated examples in this conversation about sexual preferences, which really isn't going to add anything to the conversation. I can't tell where your subjective line between causing pain and not during sex is, for example. If your gf asks you to go a bit harder during sex, are you going on diatribes in her face for liking a bit more pain? You're inconsistent and not arguing in good faith at all.
>>27053887are you anemic
>>27053887>my vision pseudo blacks out and I start seeing stars, similar to standing up too fastAnon, that shouldn't happen when you stand up either.
>>27053910Wtf nta but it shouldn't?
>>27053905>Maybe work on your reading comprehension and reasoning skills.Explain to me why you needed to being up harming kittens and touching children in this conversation about consenting adults having sex. If you're so articulate and comprehensive, you can do this.>on top of all of this there are people who self harmAgain, you're bringing up something unrelated to our topic about liking some pain during sex. You're really not interested in actually getting into it, are you?
>See nipple of girl in public down her dress by accidentIts sad how exciting that was for me
>>27053894>Also we all have jobs like normies now and we can't just go skating at 1am anymoreThat kinda sucks. You should try doing it on your own or maybe with them on the weekend.Do you have any other hobbies you enjoy or are you just a boring normie now?>maybe try a longboard? I've considered trying it. I started rollerblading again recently because I made a fool of myself when I went ice skating with my bf, I want to git good to mog him next year. After I lose my drive with the skates like I do with everything else, maybe I'll try a longboard.
>>27053895NoHe has a huge cock, I saw somebody in a forum in my google search say that thrusting a particular spot could cut off blood flow? I didn't understand how that could be though. I definitely haven't been eating enough lately which could I suppose could make me anemic. I have been bruising easily lately >>27053896Yes, I'm very fit>>27053910It doesn't, but it's something that's happened to everyone at least a couple times in their life
>>27053917Orthostatic hypotension is a form of low blood pressure that occurs when standing, since the change in gravity causes blood to pool in your legs for a short period of time.For most, this shift goes unnoticed. For some, though, this quick drop in blood pressure feels...weird.The full range of orthostatic hypotension symptoms include:Dizziness and lightheadedness when standing upWeaknessBlurry visionFaintingMost of the time, feeling dizzy when you stand up is just a temporary nuisance, caused by something that's fairly easy to correct. However, it can lead to a dangerous fall if severe and can also be a sign of an underlying health condition so it's important to tell your doctor if it's happening frequently.
>>27053924>I definitely haven't been eating enough lately which could I suppose could make me anemicMaybe your blood sugar is low? If its a low blood pressure thing, are you getting enough sodium?
>>27053924>He has a huge cockyou might just be forgetting to breathe
>>27053917>>27053887yall need to see a doctor
>>27053917It shouldn't, no, but it's very common. It's called orthostatic hypotension or postural hypotension. Basically low blood pressure determined by your posture.If it happens all the time it could be concerning and you should see a doctor.>>27053924Pretty sure it's just physical activity in the heat and low glucose. Eat moar.His dick doesn't cut off your blood flow.
>>27053611Shyness is unattractive
>>27053930I'm not eating enough but I'm not starving myself either, I don't think I'd have anything wrong with blood sugar/sodium, but I don't actually know the answer to that>>27053932Maybe, I can't recall. I'll pay attention for that if it happens again
>>27053683styling your hair is time consuming and annoying
>>27053928yeah but the collar is metal and if your neck starts to swell you're going to start cutting blood flow and it's going to get hard to take off>it inside a collar/case to keep the slave from messing with the shocking module unless they have the key.why would they mess with it if they're consenting?
i wish i cared about something like shock collar anon cares about shock collarsthat's how you become a millionaire i think
>>27053941>I'm not eating enough but I'm not starving myself eitherIt honestly depends on your health in general, hormones like estrogen can effect blood sugar. Are you on the pill?
>>27053924I think the dick could be messing with some nerves or something or it could be the heat or you not eating enough and you should probably do something about the bruising. how big is the cock in question?
>>27053851its bullshit that birth control fucks with hormones and behavior and iv witness the change women go through with birth control first hand. it sucks
Do pussies feel good when you do this? Is there a possibility they didn't feel anything? Do both of them feel the same?Yes, I am an incel
>>27053951he's probably just a down on his luck shock collar manufacturer trying to do guerrilla marketing so he can pivot into a new demographic
shock collar anon has to be a bot
>>27053956big estrogen is lying to women about their hormones and their health
>>27053963is this a joke?
>>27053777Checked. Begging is the hottest thing a woman can do during sex, full stop.
>>27053972lol i still don't know why way you mean since you do say big estrogen, imma just assume you're serious about the detrimental health effects
>>27053967i'm stealing your daily affirmationthis is /our/ life now
>>27053921>You should try doing it on your ownI did for a bit but it's just not the same>with them on the weekendWe were 20 before covid startedNow we're all old enough to drink legally and they like to get hammered at clubs on weekends and I'm not exactly into that, and all my friends who are sober guys like me don't skate.>Do you have any other hobbies you enjoy or are you just a boring normie now?I just go to the gym, walk around a lot, and go to the beach on the weekends to practice my frogidk if those are hobbies though>I started rollerblading again recentlywell you'll get balance from that!When it comes to skate/longboarding foot placement is different for everyoneI myself skate like someone who would have their right foot on the board but instead use my left foot
>>27053951Care about caring until you care enough to care!Awareness begets all of this.
>>27053972literally every f*male knows the risks of BC and they are like :) cummies
>>27053976estrogen isn't the "female hormone" like it has been marketed as and is quite detrimental to health when chronically elevated.
>>27053987oopsie hehe don't have to worry about babies!until they hit 35 and want a baby and can't conceive
Do women have breeding kinks too, or is that more of a male thing?
Guys, I like to do BDSM things with my gf but I lose a lot of respect for her, is this normal?
>>27053971not an incel, i just personally notice my gf's act differently when on birth control, and when i say that, its more that disagreement and nitpickings are more extreme but otherwise she's 90% normal most of the time. but those extremes really stand out and linger
>>27054001Most kinks is a male thing
>be me>be at supermarket>walk>qt3.14 smiles at me>asks me to help her get something high and in the back, because she can't reach it>help her out and go awaySmell ya later virgins ;-)[spoiler]Then I felt bad for not at least asking her if there is something else she needs[/spoiler][spoiler]Then I saw her with her bf ( ora at least a taller guy than me) and didn't felt bad anymore[/spoiler]First time this happened to me honestly.
>>27053971Why shill for big pill? As a man, I would rather wrap up than make a woman ingest that shit.
Girls how would you feel about your boyfriend lassoing and hogtying you as a game? Say in your backyard?
Ok since you guys brought it up, begging a guy to cum inside or telling him you want to have his babies is actually hot? What about if he's younger than you? Is this only in a relationship or hookup?
>>27053959It’s just humping/grinding so feels a little good. It’s also possible to not feel much depends on the person. Both may or may not feel the same.
>>27053811Okay but I'm so far back why would even bother?The only type of woman who would possibly even consider me is someone just desperate for a kidI mean look at the difference between me and satoHe's fun to talk to and would make you smile and giggle and special. You would be so charmed that you wouldn't care about how badly his relationship with his ex wentMeanwhile go back to the last thread and see how awkwardly my conversation with the that girl poster went. I would fail the turing test. And that's the best I can doSo who the fuck would choose me?
>>27054012No. The closest I'd enjoy is wrestling in general.
>>27054012Femanons have your ever had your wrists and or ankles tied? How was it? How would you feel about your boyfriend tying your wrists and or ankles when you next saw him home alone together?
>>27054013I don’t think there’s a hotter thing a woman could say to a man during sex than “cum inside me”. Only in a loving relationship.
>>27053828Female cheating stories usually start with"I didn't think I would do it... He's usually not my type... He's so different from my bf...he makes me feel so special"You're at step 2
>>27053460That wasn't me biatch
>>27054019So if you and your boyfriend were play wrestling and he was winning could he tie your wrists together behind your back? Could he tie your ankles together? Could he leave you like that for say 30 mins while he had fun with you?
my asshole hurt
>>27054029Eat moar fiber
Femanons, how do I get you to wrestle me or tie my ankles and wrists up? I'm so tired of being in control all the time.
fetish loopers need to be beaten to death
>>27054026>virgin>24>post weeb shitare you sure about that?
>>27054035But that’s my fetish..
>>27054034Get drunk first? Women are weaker than men so give her a taser or baton and some rope you showed her how to use.
>>27054013I would only have sex in a committed relationship with marriage and kids as the goal. It's not just hot, it's the hottest thing you could possibly say during sex.
>>27054034tell me that's what you want but make it hot like I'm overpowering you and doing what I want, not that you're a submissive sissy or else that is a huge turnoff
>>27054043How him about wrestling with you in the home and then tying you up?
>>27054034You dont. Find someone who want to do this
i love women so much bros
>>27054034Can you have her use zip ties on you instead? They can be too tight but they are easier to use. Handcuffs and leg cuffs are best though.
>>27054050Me too. I love women!
I love (You)
>>27053953No, I'm not on pills or any kind of medication.>>270539557.5" and thick. I'm short too>>27053939That makes sense. I've been <100 pounds for a couple weeks lately, I keep hitting 100 and then losing my momentum and starting over. I've been recommended to eat high calorie nuts and even dirty bulking just bc that's healthier than being underweight
>>27054049That’s what he’s asking how to find her?>>27054047Yeah resist. Make her tackle you and tie you up. Then you can’t resist but can complain while she whatever’s you while you are restrained.
>>27054007how tall are you?
>>27053061How do I cope with having to live with a mom who has BPD?
>>27054063He did not ask that
>>27054010lol why do i care what she does going raw feels good and cumming inside feels even better
>>27054069Ok then he should ask his current gf to tie him up and have her way with him. It’s not complicated or a big ask.
>>27054061Jesus, I wonder if he's hitting arteries or something and causing issues with blood flow.
>>27054007I get asked to reach things too, quite often actually, but only ever by old ladies not qt girls :[
anyone (male or female) who got over being a friendless loser in highschool?I had 0 friends, only talked to my sister, and even the nerdy guys didn't talk to me or show interest in me. I'm more "normie" now, but I still feel like that same undesirable loser who everyone ignores and no guy paid attention to.
Post gender; Would you date someone, say a crush, that was in a very causal friends with benefits situation before said crush was even aware you liked them and was willing to end it on the spot and express interest in you? Im in this spot personally and have even personally cut off the fwb temporarily since i just barely found out my crush was into me.and i dont think its rude to say, if i am rejected, i will straight up go back with my fwb.
>>27054013> begging a guy to cum insideThat's hot as fuck on a primal level, basically a cheat code for the male brain.> telling him you want to have his babiesUse with a bit more caution. A girl I'd dated for a week suddenly presented me with a list of boys' and girls' names that we would give our first five children together. That scared me off, because it was too soon, and because we were both in grad school and not yet positioned to support a family financially. Shortly afterward she told me to stop buying condoms because she would start birth control, and I couldn't shake the feeling that she was in fact not going to use birth control but attempt to get pregnant instead, and I was not ready for that.Many years later now, I look back on that as hot, and if a woman were to do that now that I'm stable and ready to start a family, I'd be very turned on. But it was imprudent at the point in our lives when she actually did this.
>>27054080I want a gf.
>>270540661.8m (I guess 5'11) so nothing special.>>27054076well it took me 28 years to get to this point. Just wait anon
>>27054024Even one of our morally upstanding thread girl is a cheater despite all their virtue signaling, you hate to see it.
>>27054071If you love her, then you should care about her body as well. Otherwise I agree with you.
>>27054073Why are you telling me this
>>27054080Yeah sure why not
>>27054061>7.5" and thick. I'm short toodid you measure it?>high calorie nuts so nuts. you can also try seeds
>>27054080Male.I would at least give it a shot. I would be a little concerned at the casual attitude toward sex, but overall as long as I knew she was committed to me I don't see why it would be a problem.
>>27054077> being a friendless loser in highschoolM. That was I. Then I went to college and got friends, and the same at work and in my neighborhood later on in life after college. You already know you need friends, so act on that knowledge and meet people.
Why wouldn't I feel insecure?There's so many men better than me
>>27054088I’m really tall, and it happens so much it’s kind of annoying, but that’s the price I pay for my genetic gifts.
>>27054112Tbh maybe I just need to put in more effort. I have aspergers so maintaining friendships is hard for me, and I often just feel like not contacting anyone for several weeks.
>>27054021I had my wrists tied behind my back once when apple bobbing. It was tight and I lost so they didn’t want to take the ties off but they eventually did. I pretended to hate the ties and want them off asap but I actually enjoyed them and would like to be tied up again.
>>27054106He measured it but I believe it, I can stack both my fists on him and there's still plenty of "slack" lolSeeds, good idea. I used to have chia seeds in my diet, I forgot about them
Is it normal to reflexively pull back from human contact? I feel like I've been a hikk for too long.
>>27054114Because that's true for everyone.
>>27054121>5’11” really tallYeah ok
>>27054130I'm behind more men than most
>>27054081well did you stop using condoms?
>>27054136So? That just means you have a lot of room to improve. People who don't realize / accept how much they need to improve are a lot worse off than you.
Women, if your bf wanted to stick his head up your shirt/hoodie and just keep it there for a while, would you let him? Smol titty femanons are definitely included.
>>27054134That was not me anon, I am 5'11. Not sure how tall the guy is you answered to. But reading comprehension. Btw. I would still say to every american I am 6 feet, because who the fuck will know if I am 1-2 cm smaller than that.
>>27054129It's easy when no one wants to talk with you
>>27054088>1.8m (I guess 5'11) so nothing special.when will manlets learnt. manlet
>>27054036We out here
>>27054134Lmao I can’t win. If I constantly say how tall I am in here, people say it’s my entire personality, but if I just say I’m really tall, you think I’m coping on the internet. I guarantee you that I’m taller than your dad.
>>27054144No they aren't because their natural level is still better than anything I can achieve
>>27054080M. I've done this, and it was a good decision foe me. It didn't last, but it was good while it lasted.She was living with one very tall, athletic ex-bf when I met her, and she was cucking him with an athletic guy. I am short and average physically, no hot athlete, but I was smart and interested her, and she interested me. So, we started spending time together. One night I kissed her when she left, and she dumped her bf the next day. Most attractive women seem to be in a relationship at any given time, but it's often a holding pattern because nobody better has come along. As a guy, you don't come across a lot of attractive women who aren't already with someone. You have to find some angle to interest her and win her.
>>27054127Do you have a bf now? Ask him to tie you up. Have any other femanons ever had there wrists and/or ankles tied before? Why? And how was it?Have any other femanons ever had there wrists and/or there ankles tied? Why? How was it?
>>27054127>I pretended to hate the ties and want them off asap but I actually enjoyedwhy did you pretend?
>>27053439It means she doesn't care about impressing you. That or she's autistic.
>>27054149When I was younger I always thought 1.8m is good, it's still big but not too big. Who would have thought that in this age of non masculinity, woman would start to tend see height as some sort of muh strong. Every tall guy I know were (and mostly are) beanstalks. While I have broad shoulders ( and fat) that doubles their horizontal size.
>>27053981That kinda sucks. Are there any groups where you can meet people to skate with? It'd be a shame to lose a hobby you clearly enjoy. >idk if those are hobbies thoughThey definitely are hobbies. Not the best ones to meet new friends, but pretty fun hobbies. Beside the gym, I hate going to the gym.I was an emo girl in middle school (very much not like other girls) so most of my friends were into skating. They attempted to teach me but I'm just kinda bad at it.I promise I'll try.
>>27054021Tying looks so lame compared to handcuffs.
>>27054154you need to speak with more entitlement in your voice
>>27054146Yeah, he loves doing it and I'm pretty sure it's 90% of the reason why he lets me steal his clothes. Much easier to stick his head into XXL t-shirts that fit me like dresses than my tank tops.
>>27054128>He measured it but I believe it,try measuring it yourself>seedsyou can also get sunflower seeds since they have a lot of vit e
women is 5'11 ok for you?
>>27054125> I have aspergers soStop diagnosing yourself. It's basically self-sabotage: "I'm X I can't Y." Maybe Y is harder for you, but concentrate on doing Y rather than being X, and you'll accomplish Y.
>>27053555Yes. When I feel like someone genuinely loves me it actually makes me sick and I feel like vomiting. I get a panic reaction and it makes me incapacitated for a short while. I still get it from a certain person from time to time. Not sure if natural or just trauma. Wasn't always like this so I've either not felt real love before now or I'm just fucked.
>>27054154another common tate w
>>27054160Because what am I supposed to say? I like these so much? I was embarrassed I liked the way they felt so I just pretended I didn’t like them because I thought that was more normal. I also lost and felt bad like it was a punishment even though I tried my best to win.
>>27054169Definitely, but also because it's hot when a girl wears your clothes.
>>27054080F. No, I don't date people who have casual sex, I'd lose interest immediately. We have different feelings about sex and intimacy.
>>27054144This is such a massive cope lol no bro everything that you improve besides maybe your personality is something that isn't as good as the things you can't improve
>>27054166I liked having my wrists tied. No complaints. I was struggling hard trying to get them off but I could not. They had to untie them after I had them on for like 20 minutes total only 5 of those while I was grabbing apples the other 15 was for losing.
>>27054156Senseless negativity will produce no positive results, anon. Nor will me coddling you. The only one who can change anything is you.>>27054190On the contrary, that is your "cope" to gain an excuse for stagnating.
>>27054140No. I didn't trust her after she'd presented me with a list of names for our future kids just before talking about going on birth control. I wasn't ready for the responsibility of fatherhood then, and I suspected that she might try to trap me by not taking birth control if I stopped wearing condoms.The relationship didn't last much longer. Sadly, she was also the best sex I ever had. We had a chemistry I've never found since then. I wish I had the job, house, money, and life I do now back when I met her: I'd have married her and started a very large family with her.
>>27054003Yes she is not wife material.
>>27054194I am tryingBut goddammit I'm 5 miles back in a 3 mile raceI fail to measure up even in the most basic things
>>27054148I mean physically pull back like move away from someone that is too close
>>27054196So what if I like >>27054192 I’m not wife material? I can’t help it was fun.
>>27054172I've been diagnosed though. and I try, but I get frustrated since this seems like an aspect of me that I can't change.
Where in the USA am I most likely to meet an 18-21yo woman with traditional values who wants to start a family?
>>27054208Outside of the US.
>>27054202Well I believe in you. And I hope you can come to believe in yourself, because that's all you need.
>>27054208Outside of large cities, in churches.
>>27054112Nta but I tried hard and still couldn't connect with anyoneI joined like 6 different clubs in college and still felt like the outcast too much
>>27054211>>27054208>>27054206No actually go to a apple bobbing competition.
>>27054214You have a 7 inch dick It's easy to believe you can get out of your situation
>>27054206Don't listen to himWife material just means you'll do anything for your husbandAre you a virgin by any chance?
>>27054165>Are there any groups where you can meet people to skate with?>Not the best ones to meet new friendsI'm shy :(My friend is getting into dueling with blunt swords and shields and wants me to try it with him, I'm on the fence currently, though it seems funI eventually want to get into archery and woodcarving/woodworking I think its neat>I hate going to the gymI just like feeling and getting stronk>They attempted to teach me but I'm just kinda bad at it.well you've gotten a lot better at using your hips actively so I think you'll get the hang of it
>>27054226You are a clown if ypu respect women like her
>>27054210>>27054211>>27054215>>27054218>tfw I live in a big city surrounded by heathensShould I move back home? I would probably have to find a new job, but I think now is the time to look for a wife and start a family.
>>27054210>Outside of the US.tru>>27054215"born again sluts" you mean?
>>27054229Then perfectMake sure you only do that with your husbandDo you have any other fantasies that have developed or is it just the tying?
>>27054232If you're religious and you find the right church you might be able to find someone, but it's more likely outside the cities.
>>27054227"a common tate w"as in it is so common to see a great take by Andrew Tate (pbuh)
>>27054232are you the guy from Idaho who moved to Seattle?
>>27054192I’m curious How many anons here could tie a girls wrists behind her back so about 20 minutes of her seriously struggling trying to escape the ties she could not get out of them? This is assuming no tools of course say you tied my wrists to something so I was stuck there.
>>27054207> this seems like an aspect of me that I can't changeThis is exactly why it's self-sabotage. Psych diagnoses, by the way, are very much fads: if you look at the cumulative incidence of any popular diagnosis, like bpd or aspergers or did, you'll see it explode in more recent years. That's in fact why multiple personality disorder was renamed dissociative identity disorder: after years of being extremely rare, it became a popular diagnosis (and sometimes key symptoms only presented after a therapist made the diagnosis, raising causality questions). When the apa renamed it to did, suddenly diagnoses decreased.Don't let a diagnosis define who you are or what you believe you can or cannot do. Don't let it limit you or sabotage your success.
>>27054232Don'tI live in the country and there's absolutely no girls in church out here who aren't already married
>>27054151just say it bro. also it is your entire personality>>27054158>smartwhat does that mean, tell me some smart big brained things you guys were talking about also how short?
>>27054242I was in scouts, I can tie a knot.
>>27054238Fantasies? Like having a family and stuff like that sure lol. But like fetishes no. Im not Sure if that was a fetish or not but I certainly liked it and would like to try it again.
>>27054232>>27054245This pretty much. When I used to go to church, most of the young girls were being forced to be there just like I was and they hated it.If they weren't, they were taken by someone else already. Churches are very much a community thing.
>>27054227say:I'd rather have sex with a man than a woman because pleasuring a woman at all is gay
>>27054164>Who would have thought that in this age of non masculinity, woman would start to tend see height as some sort of muh strongI mean it's just programmed into their genes bro it's not going away with light brainwashing
>>27054208Church. Not worship service, but at events or classes. Churches are made of families, not individuals, and they know it, so churches hold lots of events that are low-key singles mixers.It is in the church's interest to see young people meet, marry (in the church), and raise kids (who will attend the church).
>>27054252I would hope so. But that doesn’t exactly answer my question? Is that just a yes to everything then?
>she's too hot for me>she's too successful for me>she probably already has a bfthere were times i think girls were interested in me but i had intrusive thoughts that hindered me from taking action. how do i stop overthinking and finally get a gf?
>>27054262Ask her out to dinner. Not hard.
>>27054261If you wanted to get out you'd have to tear the rope, because it would give before the knot would.
>>27054242All else fails I could just hold your wrists together
>>27054174>I still get it from a certain person from time to timefrom MGK?That scuffed firebender?
>>27054262Are you sure you're overthinking? It sounds more like you get worried that you can't perform well enough to capture and hold her attention so you come up with an excuse to escape her attention because that causes you less worry.
>>27054255HotWish I could do that for youYour husband will be lucky
>>27054230Aw, I'm sorry. You sound really nice here.That all sounds like so much fun! You should absolutely try it with him, having your friend there will make you more confident too.I support anyone getting into woodworking, more people need to know how to build furniture for their gfs. Woodworking workshops also sound like a neat place to meet people.
>>27054266I wasn’t able to tear any rope last time lol. I’m guessing it wouldn’t be different this time? Or does it depend on the rope?
>>27054269Yes. He makes me want to vomit everywhere, ghost him, ruin his life, and kill myself.
>at the store>see the most beautiful woman>5'10>beautiful blonde hair and blue eyes>pulls out her passport when showing IDoh of course, she's European
>>27054276Obviously it depends on the rope, but unless you're fairly strong you'll have a hard time tearing anything like that. You don't have a lot of leverage in that situation.
Women, if you had bad sex with a man you were into, would you drop him if say he made an effort but didn't know what he was doing.
>>27054194>On the contrary, that is your "cope" to gain an excuse for stagnating.lol i do try to improve but I also realize that it's not as good as the real thing, it would be better to have both.
>>27054280Were you able to see where in Europe? Eastern? She might have a burger husband if she's in the US then. Ygmi anon
>>27054278How do you vacillate wildly between actually cute and sorta wholesome in one thread to off the rails shit like this in another the next day? Not just how did it happen this time, but how does it keep happening? You're gonna give us all whiplash.
>>27054272Thanks. I actually have a bf now he showed me 4 Chan he’s great. I should probably ask him to tie my wrists and kiss me or something today or tomorrow since I’m telling anons On 4 Chan. He was there at the apple bobbing too.>>27054268That’s not the same silly
>>27054242This will seem flippant, but it's a serious question. Would you still be struggling after twenty minutes? If I had a woman tied up, I'd focus my attention on trying to bring her to orgasms, with the hope that I'd break her resistance so that she stopped struggling.
>>27054195What ended it?>>27054206Just being ties isn't the same as the other more degrading BDSM stuff.
>>27054282I’m definitely not strong so I guess i would be completely stuck then
>>270542515'9" and we were in grad school together in a very abstruse subject.
>>27054251It’s certainly a part of who I am. Imagine being a 4chin spergy schizo who also literally stands out from the crowd, I literally don’t fit in. Height is a big topic of discussion here, but usually complaining about things I’ve never experienced, so it’s nice to share some common ground when I can. I’m 6’5
>>27054206>I can’t help it was fun.What part of it would you say what the fun part?
>>27054021I have and it's really nice. I really enjoy teasing and being teased, it's a lot more fun when one of us is tied up.
>>27054270so i self sabotage because i don't want to disappoint her/fail to meet her expectations? true. and i also disappoint the girl if i don't take action because she might be waiting for me. so maybe its better that i try anyways because i'll disappoint her either way huh. god why am i so bad at this. also i'm shy and haven't dated in over a decade.i should just accept my fate
>>27054293I don’t know I don’t watch porn but I’ve heard of bdsm but I don’t care enough to look it up.>>27054292I don’t know about orgasm I’m a virgin >>27054229 idk sorry. I was struggling for all 15 or so minutes after I lost apple bobbing both to pretend to dislike it and also to see if I could get out.
>>27054288it's called mental illness
>>27054308Is she bleeding from her pussy? damn cuz
How many white women have fetishes?
>>27054308Fair, lol. Well, at the very least, the more I see you around the more I like you, so take that for whatever it's worth.
>>27054300My boyfriend and some others I knew were there and were teasing me as I struggled and eventually started begging for then to untie me I guess I sort of liked that they found it funny. I also just liked having my wrists be tied and my boyfriend there teasing me knowing he could untie me but I couldn’t untie myself. Everyone was cool though I’m surprised no one took a picture of me like that.
>>27054312Me maybe? Idk if this counts. I’m not dying to be tied up again but would like my bf to do it to me.
fuck got rejected again
>>27054275>Aw, I'm sorry. You sound really nice here.ThanksWhen it comes to talking to strangers IRL I'm a lot more "formal" since I don't know anything about them or what they find funny, and because I don't want to give off a bad impression I'm just quiet and listeningI also don't really know what to talk to people about.Another thing I'm self conscious about is rambling or that I'm talking about something they find boring.>more people need to know how to build furniture for their gfkek part of the reason was so I could make anniversary and birthday gifts myself instead of buying them>You should absolutely try it with him, having your friend there will make you more confident too.Alright I'll give it a whirl
>>27054325>>27054312Oh I’m white too
I don't even get how guys approach girlsWhy wo I ld a girl want to be approached by a stupid ugly idiot like me
>>27054278>He makes me want to vomit everywherehe sent you a face pic?>>27054315>yesnow we know when your period is
>>27054305Instead of worrying about how she perceives you, maybe focus on how you feel about her. Notice and appreciate the things she says and does. Think about how happy she makes you, and consciously let her know the feelings that she gives you.> I like your hair today.> I love it when you bring me cookies.Focus on your feelings and communicating them to distract you from your anxiety about her feelings.
Where can I find 18-20 years old virgins? I really don't want to get someone elses leftovers.
>>27054283probably not, I see sex more like a favor from me to a man. so I don't mind if I don't get as much enjoyment from it. but if he doesn't bring me enjoyment in alternative ways, like taking me on dates, then it's a dealbreaker.
>>27054267How did you see that post it was from a few threads back? Are you using 4chanx or something?
>>27054334Everywhere. Half of the girls that age are virgins.
>>27054337Would you ever teach a man how to please you?
>>27054345>18-20Don't think so buddy
>>27054345https://flowingdata.com/2017/03/17/when-americans-lost-their-virginity/I live in a degenerate white country
>>27054127>>27054242Can I post these two again in the new atoga thread or is that spam? I kinda want more answers
Where do I find a 24-28 year old virgin girl?
>>27054359I could tie someone up if they wantedI still remember my knots from the scouts kek
>>27054348>>27054356According to your own study 40% of 18 year olds are virgins and 25% of 20 year olds are?Literally talk to 4 people.
>>27053470You already are if you accept and love yourself. You don't need women or pussy to do that.
>>27054337Do think that's a problematic mindset or you're just not that interested in sex?Is your current bf bad at it?
>>27054367>According to your own study 40% of 18 year olds are virgins and 25% of 20 year olds are?Almost all males
>>27054290Report back on how it went.
>>27054367And where can I find girls of this age?
>>27054372Proof? There is a slight difference but it's not significant.>>27054374In college or near colleges I'd suppose.
>>27054364Like I said before I have a bf who I’ll ask soon to tie me up again like when I apple bobbed. I’d be lying if I said I want to apple bob again I really want him to tie my wrists and tease me again. But he was in Boy Scouts too he didn’t finish it lol but he was the one who tied me up and the others I was playing apple bobbing with. Would you do it for your gf? I’m not 100% sure how he will react to me asking.
>>27054330>>27054330>>27054330OP is not linking the thread again because he is g*y
>>27054328You're a very good listener and ask very thoughtful questions.>Another thing I'm self conscious about is rambling or that I'm talking about something they find boring.Don't worry too much about that, it's really nice to listen to someone talk about things they're passionate about. Obviously if someone is giving you zero signs of interest you should stahp, but otherwise go ahead and talk about things that you're passionate about.I always thought it was very cute.What kind of stuff do you enjoy talking about?>kek part of the reason was so I could make anniversary and birthday gifts myself instead of buying themGood, keep it up. My boyfriend bought me very nice things but there are few things I treasure like the ones he made by himself. Even if it's just a frankly ugly card.
>>27054388He's double gay for making it while this one is on page 5.
>>27054381But what do you want him to do once he's tied you up? What's the next step?
>>27054299>usually complaining about things I’ve never experiencedlike?
>>27054394>*hugs you too*
>>27054321How would you feel if your boyfriend just sat there staring at you struggling and failing to untie yourself.>pictureDid you want to have a picture of yourself like that?
>>27054400>>27054394>>27054390>>27054385>>27054059I love all of you anons.
>>27054350>https://voca.ro/17HdodILuZ5hI mean honestly it's probably just mental illness. I can rationally see I'm 0robably above average looking and whatever but I just hate myself and distrust anyone who shows interest in me or is nice to me.
>>27054391>ask very thoughtful questions.Well it's easier when you can think about it and type it out rather than be on the spot in real life but I try!>What kind of stuff do you enjoy talking about?mainly just different beaches or stories I have with my friends or my momHypothetical/future traveling plansI have to go eat dinner with my mom but I'll be back in a few hours so I'll check your reply if you have oneWas fun talking!
>>27054396I don’t know same things we usually do to make love when I’m not tied up lol. Kiss me a lot and him put his hands on my waist and stuff like that. I’m sure he will also tease me again like last time and keep me wrists tied for who knows how long. I’ll probably be begging him for actually real this time to let me out. I’ll call him now and just tell him he told me about 4 Chan and how to use it what not to do(he said no pics ever and no personal details of anybody) I’ll just text him this thread and ask if I can visit him at his apartment today.
>>27054306>I don’t know about orgasm I’m a virgin >>27054229 idk sorryWait so you want to ask your boyfriend to tie you up and have a make out session? How long have you been with him?
State gender and ageWhen buying a girl a drink, how do you determine what to buy?What should you order if you are at an average bar/club?What should you order if you are at a nicer bar/club?
>>27054432If I am drinking, I order fruity stuff so I can share a sip with the ladies.
>>27054432Male, 28I have no idea, I've never drank myself and I know very little about alcoholic drinks.I wouldn't be buying a girl a drink in a bar anyways, because I don't go to bars for any reason and I'd prefer a girl who doesn't drink or go to bars anyway.
>>27054326Come on bro you have to tell the story what are you doing
>>27054403Bad and good at the same time but mostly good though a week is too long maybe a couple of hours is just right as long as he is with me. Yes to the picture too. It would be kinda funny to look back at and in the moment make me feel better by making me feel worse like I liked the teasing because it was bad you know? He definitely won’t be taking any pictures in the apartment though that’s more intimate it’s not a joke in public with friends. I was about to call and text him then I saw this be right back.
>>27054440anything specific? success stories?>>27054443kill yourself
>>27054407Dw, I'm the same way, but ygmi
>>27054337>I see sex more like a favor from me to a man.Do you do hookups, how do you see that?
>>27054447Piña colada if they have it, I love pineapple. Long Island iced tea is usually available everywhere and is also a good choice. I have success and horror stories of being drunk with women, the devil water is indeed very sweet.
>>27054420>Hypothetical/future traveling plansYou should tell me about these when you come back!Have a great rest of the day, I also enjoyed talking to you.
>>27054350>4plebsI mean you went back to check your posts? Do you just remember which they are cause I forget all the ones I make and don't want to waste my time reading through the whole thread.
>>27054432F, 29. The best option is asking her or ordering another of whatever she's drinking. I usually drink gin and tonic. Beside that, I like most drinks, I'm pretty easy going. I agree Long Island iced tea is a fine choice.
>>27054486I remember what the guy said, yeah
>>27054473nice, thanks.so you buy them a fruity drink and share it a little?I assume you buy your own drink too right? and just take a few sips of hers in a playful/flirty way
>>27054267I'm so thankful that my parents don't speak English.
>>27054489ok thanks, thats simple enough.do you agree with the other anon that the guy taking a few sips in an appropriate and flirty way is a good idea?
>>27054500Yeah, just ask if you can have a sip. I actually started drinking gin and tonic because I never finish my drinks and it's my bf's favourite.>>27054502Still love your voice.
>>27054337I should mind my own business but this is wrong. Sex outside marriage is immoral and you might end up murdering your baby in a “unplanned pregnancy” and then going to hell. Please do better.>>27054426Won’t say exactly but over 2 years. And yes and yes. I just called him and text him this thread link he says yes! He will pick me up in about 20 mins and we’ll go to his apartment together. He said I can post about it later in a atoga thread just to keep on leaving out specific revealing details(like names or addresses) and to keep posting from mobile not wifi in my phone which I have been and will continue to. He said I could post this post itself. I can’t wait :)
>>27054508awesome, thanks a lot!
>>27054346sure if he asked me to.>>27054371not necessarily, as long as the relationship is making my life better. my current bf is not bad, I just can't have piv orgasms and don't care enough to take 20 mins solo during sex to get an orgasm.>>27054468no, never. I'm just used to it snce I've never had an orgasm during sex.
>>27054524For your knowledge, I was a virgin for really long, but not anymore, so I don't see the point in being sad about not being one anymore. plus, I'm not religious, and 100% of non-religious men want regular sex in a long-term relationship/before marriage. So as someone who likes men and wants a relationship, I have no choice.
>>27054432m30whatever they are already having>>27054443lol>>27054506stahp anon b sweet
>>27054551Be Christian and be with a christian man.
>>27054592>>27054509Alright he is outside. I got to go. I’ll post later about it..
>>27054446>Bad and good at the same time but mostly good though a week is too long maybe a couple of hours is just right as long as he is with me.Man you're really excited like I'm talking about a few minutes not a week and this post is barely comprehensible.>>27054473>I have success and horror stories of being drunk with womenTell some then.
i want creepy guys to feel me up, treat me like an object, use me for my body, put me in my place, and only use me for sexbut i have a boyfriend so i can't experience it
>>27056253forgot to post the rest but what do i do ?