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Your boy Tyler Durden here, I will give advice for free, but only for today
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How get abs
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>>25356380
work out with an abs focused program. also diet will help in getting rid of belly fat
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>>25356364
Get sterilezed you monkey!
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>>25356413
that's not a question
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>>25356389
Already doing diet, but any exercise ? Larwdy doin planks
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>>25356364
I'm stuck at a job where I'm under paid and unhappy most of the time. I want to leave but won't be able to move on to anything better for at least another year when I'm out of school. What should I do?
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>>25356430
ask your local trainer, and trust his or her judge. they can get you to get you want easier than you on your own. stick to the programme and you'll see results

>>25356434
get yourself some tehcnical knowledge in whatever that you feel you can manage. if it 's computer science related, lean react and specialize on web development, really not that hard if you follow through. otherwise, just spewcialize in whatever you already have tehcnical knowledge and go further down that road. it does pay off in the end
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Should I smoke weed tonight?
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>>25356443
probably not. it will just fuck up your rewards mechanisms even further.
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>>25356448
Why would it do that?
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>>25356460
weed fucks over your dopanime rewards system in the brain. not really a thing to do if not for medical reasons. you'll probably end up worse than you started
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>>25356463
How so?
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>>25356463
How does weed fuck up your reward circuitry? I don't really buy shit like that. Sounds like some boomer insecurity based fear.
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>>25356473
it segregates dopanime in your brain in a way your brain wouldn't normally, so you start associating nothing but smoking weed to get an actual dopamine reward. give it ewnough time and you won't feel like doing anything except of weed. that's one good way to get proper depression. quit if you can, moderate it if you can't
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>>25356481
>you start associating nothing but smoking weed to get an actual dopamine reward
No, I don't do that.
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>>25356486
in fact however, it does
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>>25356489
No, I can't say that I've ever experienced such a phenomena. I associate smoking weed with being stoned.
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>>25356496
and being stoned will most of the times lead to your brain knowing that the most rewarding action you can perfoirm in your life is to smoke weed. kiss your hobbies goodbye, interaction with your friends and loved ones are not as strong for dopamine productioin, and, eventually, will lead you and anyone really, to depression
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>>25356504
>the most rewarding action you can perfoirm in your life is to smoke weed
But this is untrue.
>kiss your hobbies goodbye, interaction with your friends and loved ones are not as strong for dopamine productioin
I still enjoy all of those things.
>eventually, will lead you and anyone really, to depression
When does this usually set in, cause I've been smoking weed for years and feel happy most days even when sober?
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>>25356416
...yet you gave an answer. I win.
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>>25356515
>But this is untrue
it is very much true indeed
>I still enjoy all of those things.
so far. smoke pot enough, and things start to lose meaning
>When does this usually set in, cause I've been smoking weed for years and feel happy most days even when sober?
Happy, or compliant?
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>>25356536
>it is very much true indeed
Not in my experience.
>smoke pot enough, and things start to lose meaning
When?
>Happy, or compliant?
Happy.
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>>25356553
>Not in my experience.
Yet
>When?
give it enough of your precius valuable time, it will kick in in a couple of years, maybe after
>Happy.
reflect on that and be honest with yourself
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How to stop the voice in my hear telling me blackpills and calling me a worthless incel all the time?
Also every time an attractive female accidentaly enters my vision (I usually avoid looking at them) it's an immediate 'she's only for Chad, not worthless incels like you'.
Every time I see a couple it's 'this will never be you incel'.
I'm tired of this.
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>>25356591
if you actually have a problem controlling thoughts, seek psychiatric help. that could be the beginning of something hard to trat.
the second statement steems from a lack of self confidence. you cna't tell what's going on on people's minds. it's usually anything not related to you.
again, self esteem issues. we are all human and desirable by a good bunch. don't demean yourself.
we are all tired, but truth helps
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>>25356573
listen tyler, i enjoyed your movie, but it seems like you're talking out of ass.
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>>25356611
substances don't often grant true, real, veridic happiness
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>>25356608
I'm almost 30 and it has been like this since my teens, way before the term 'incel' was so popular. Foreveralone was the all-encompassing buzzword for lonely losers back then.
I've been on and off therapy and meds, currently on it with the best therapist I've had so far.
I've heard the confidence and self-esteem memes countless times, where the fuck is the store that sells them so I can go buy some?
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Am I wrong in believing that being self-centered is a virtue?
In my experience, if you fall down all the people who were so quick to rag on you for being self-centered suddenly love to put you down for being a loser. If I don't look after myself, no one else will.
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>>25356620
you have to build something for yourslef. let it be something physical or achieve something you never thought possible, but come on man, you can achieve a lot of stuff on your own with what 30 years of experience have taught you.

build something, draw something, code something or achieve a skill you don't even have yet. we are all the rotting, dancing crap of the world, and stilll we a re acapable of much more than the general zombified population
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>>25356627
look after yourself, that's a virtue
don't underestimate other's self accomplishments, they are trying in their own way too
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tyler out, see you next week
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>>25356614
sure. but that's not what they're for.
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>>25356364
How I stop being a lonely doomer and fer friends or a girl?
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>>25356364
How do I stop consooming media and entertainment like porn, video games and netflix
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>>25356573
I remember being 13.
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>>25357733
>how do i stop eating
>continuing to eat doesn’t work
Just don’t do it? What are you an NPC? You don’t have to give in to every whim just like you don’t have to stuff you fat fucking face just because you’re hungry. If you want to stop try growing the fuck up and acting like an adult.
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Fun fact: weed makes you look older faster, still gives you tarred lungs, contains carcinogenic chemicals when smoked which can lead to cancer.
And last of all, it makes you a loser
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>>25356364
How do I put myself out there as a highly agreeable, neurotic introverted, anxious, acne-ridden male in his late 20s?
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>>25356430
Sit-ups and hanging leg raises, but 99% of getting abs comes from having low body fat perventage
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>>25356620
same and already hit it
its been like this forever
everytime its the same
time is flat circle
maybe
some of us are just cursed?

i wont stop believing tho
its the only thing that keeps me going
aaaaaaarrghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
how do I find peace?



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