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some men have issues with premature ejaculation, and some men have issues with not being able to ejaculate at all. am I wrong in thinking that this is highly correlated with them being uncut / cut ?
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>>25096029
>am I wrong
Yes.
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>>25096029
I can cum with a condom on but takes a lot of effort. I guess that's good for her if she likes it rough.
I've never been able to get a girl off with just my dick. Not sure how that even works. I have become proficient at oral and can lick a clit with several steady tempos.
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>>25096029
Yeah I do think being circumicsed is a big part of it, you lose sensitivity. But another huge factor is porn addiction, if you're addicted to porn it can make it hard to get it up when you're with an actual girl. And when you watch porn you usually do it quickly so you wire your brain to not last a long time, so if you do get it up you wont last long. This guy explains this in this video about porn addiction really well.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rxl3XRmvrPk&t=884s&ab
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>25096042
Ive had first hand experience with this, its whole heartedly not true, u have a micro penis itf it takes forever
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>>25096029
Condoms are legit uncomfortable and I have no idea how anyone uses them. As soon as I put one on I get soft
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>>25096083
>Condoms are legit uncomfortable
They’re uncomfortable for both sides, most girls I dated wanted it raw. Luckily my pull out game was the fastest in the west.
Girls can bitch and moan all they want, but the only time when condoms don’t feel good during sex, if her pussy too loose, and there’s no death grip pussy lock.
If you’re not gonna help me feel good then you wasted both our time.
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>>25096029
>Manipulating and violating her while exposing her to [...]
She could avoid all this by, yknow, saying 'no'.
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>>25096029
Used to have the second problem now I have the first.
I really wish I knew how to be in better control.
I have been uncut the entire time, but have stretched my skin a lot over the past couple of years, so maybe that plays a part.
I think the fastest my gf can make me cum is in a couple of minutes, so it isn't that bad, but I get that it can be disappointing that I have to get her off with my hands and tongue.
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>>25096036
FPBP
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>>25096036
FPBP

>>25096083
>>25096099
I only don't like condoms because if you start to go down at any point they bunch up and make the situation worse until you're pushing rope. Not so much a problem if you're keeping things quick but if you want to fuck for long periods of time your dick isn't going to be diamonds the whole time.
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>>25096083
>>25096099
>>25096241
We didn't evolve to shoot sperm into latex bags wrapped around our dicks; it's hardly surprising that they're so unenjoyable.
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>>25096029
>am I wrong in thinking that this is highly correlated with an issue that a variety of studies have already performed, and found little-to-no correlation to support this assumption?
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>>25096029
I've actually had condoms where I couldn't even feel my own hands and fingers touching my dick. I usually have to stick to certain brands or types of condoms if I want to feel anything.
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>>25096160
>She could avoid all this by, yknow, saying 'no'
Why do men still believe this?
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>>25096412
Low quality bait; are you even trying?
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>>25096422
>Low quality bait; are you even trying?
The pot calling the kettle black, lol.
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>>25096424
How is what I said bait?
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>>25096426
>low quality
>meant to incur a response
>little-to-no effort put into it
The pot said to the kettle.
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>>25096410
What's your top brands? For me, it's magnum and skyn. If you can't cum with those you have mental problems
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>>25096430
Are you going to actually answer the question, or are we done here?
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>>25096433
>Are you going to actually answer the question
You were given it >>25096430.
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>>25096432
Trojan Bareskins are my go-tos, and kind of been my only brand for the last half-decade.
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>>25096437
So in other words no then. If you feel like giving an actual explanation then I'll be happy to come back and resume the conversation, but until then, we're done here.
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>>25096443
>So in other words no then.
It wasn't a yes-or-no question, it was a how. And it was given an explanation for said how.

>If you feel like giving an actual explanation
And there was: >>25096430.

>then I'll be happy to come back
I don't think you're able to come back with anything if asking a question, and having it answered confuses you so much. That's something I expect out of Americans.

>and resume the conversation
You don't know what a conversation is.

>but until then, we're done here
A cop-out of a concession.
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Nah. It has nothing to do with that. It's about masturbation. Technically americans practiced circumcision to prevent masturbation so cut men in theory should have a leg up.

It's masturbation. Death Grip Syndrome is very real. That's why I bough a fleshlight.
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>>25096029
>am I wrong
yes
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>>25096412
Explain, hole.
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>>25096029
If she’s not going going to cum then why is she having sex? The guy is doing it to cum so it’s completely pointless for him to have sex and not cum.

Why do ALL women lack the ability to think before they speak?
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>>25096405
source: witty quip on Cambodian folklore forum board
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I’m not cut so idk but I do jerk off a lot
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>>25096451
Bitch lasagna response
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>>25096495
This. I get better control when I don't fap all the time.
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>>25098826
Samefag that likes to accuse kettles of the same colour.
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>>25096029
Has nothing to do with that. Circumcision is not an effective treatment for premature ejaculation
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>>25096029
My boyfriend is cut and he doesn't take long to finish. His looks like the rabbi went too low so it's miraculous he feels anything at all. For us it's about doing it often enough to dull his sensitivity. It's like eating your favourite food rarely vs ALL the time, it feels better when it's a treat.

Wouldn't premature ejaculation just be a lack of experience with sex?
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>>25096029
Sorry, I only go raw. In my defense, I do get tested regularly. If you don't wanna fuck you don't gotta fuck, but I ain't spending more time with you.
>here's a condom
>here's a balloon banana
>hahahahaha, you're so silly...now put it on
>nah
>I don't have sex with guys if they don't wear a condom
>alright, you wanna learn how to play gin rummy instead?
>...sure
And two hours later I'm balls deep. Works every single time.
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>>25100243
And it should be able to feel otherworldly without losing control.

Premature ejaculation can be a matter of experience. Ie. you can learn to control it. But to do it often enough to blunt the experience is the least attractive solution
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>>25096441
These break all the time. The first of the few times I used them, I came loads inside of a random Tinder girl. She was thankfully on birth control, but I didn’t know beforehand, and it scared the shit out of me.
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>>25096029
Not really, being cut often fucks it up, but a lot of other things can too, and so can phimosis or whatever else.
I can coom fast because I fap too much and am good with hand, I don't death grip and only touch the glans, but it's possible this might make me have a hard time cumming in actual sex from relative lack of stimulation, but I'm touching it through foreskin so it might actually have just preserved or even enhanced my ability to be a long lasting chad in bed.
If I ever do have sex though, it will be with the one woman I decide to love for the rest of my life right after having made that commitment and talked things through, so I will very likely coom almost immediately the first time.
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>>25100514
I've never had Bareskins break on me, but it's not the first time I've heard of them breaking.
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>>25096029
>some have issues with premature ejaculation, and some men are not able to ejaculate at all
i think i have both. When sober i'm always too fast and when drunk i cannot finish off no matter what we do or how long we're at it. It sucks. I got circumcised when adult and using condom or not doesn't really matter that much.
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>>25096029
im circumcised and cum quite quickly.
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>>25096029
I have death grip and I can't cum with a condom but I honestly think I could fix that if I went a month of no fap or edging without cumming.

I don't see the point though cause I'm not actively pursuing relationships/sex anymore.

If I ever get a gf again, I'll try it out
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Women's inability to climax during sex is somehow the men's problem.
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>>25102333
well if you don't give a shit about your partner then it isn't your problem...
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>>25096038
>I've never been able to get a girl off with just my dick. Not sure how that even works.

It's entirely mental, you need to degrade her and be physically aggressive with her. Tell her she's your slut and that you own her while choking her, etc. It's not something you have to think about, it should come entirely natural. You either have it or you don't
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>>25102334
they have a free hand during sex, right? they masturbate by rubbing their clit right? what is the fucking holdup? i never understood. Can they not masturbate?
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>>25102337
>Can they not masturbate?
when you go get your car fixed at the shop, you also expect the shop to handle it instead of hanging around and helping to tighten the bolts, etc. Because if you did that, then you might as well fix the whole thing alone at home...
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>>25102347
i get what youre saying, and agree it is respectful and shows concern to help a woman orgasm. but its just LAME that they require assistance during the course of sex. what happened to girl power. women's liberation.



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