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>>25080734
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it's over
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>>25094999
don't you have anything better to do
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>>25094994
It's over
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>>25095002
it's over
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It's over
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I’m going to kill myself by November! shits gonna be great from here on out.
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I’m going to participate with people at a minimum from now on. We aren’t what we are told we are. No one person did this to me.
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>>25095000
not really
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>>25095023
how pitiful
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>>25095034
thanks
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I have to write a paper about differing perspectives on a topic.

I decided to write a paper about sexualization and objectification because I feel like it’s relevant online especially with OnlyFans and shit. The perspective I agree with most is that women who “reclaim” their sexualization aren’t really reclaiming their sexuality, it’s not really “ethical” pornography and it’s not “empowering” to women on a large scale.

Frankly I’m too nervous to write about the topic because I think people will take it the wrong way and think I’m sexist towards men or sexist towards women. We have to peer review papers and give feedback and I’m nervous if another male reads my paper and they take it the wrong way or that a woman will read my paper and think I’m odd and hate other women. Help.
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>>25095043
It's over
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Can't believe I used to be friends with people who ridiculed me for getting sick
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>>25095047
rent-free, seethe, cope, obsessed
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>>25094994

Trent Reznor and Tori Amos were practically married until they both decided that they were too much like each other to be able to make it work.

#relationshipgoals
#theywerebothright
#betterforallofus
#truefactlookitup
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I wish every poster in this thread was no longer alive. It would make life so much better for everyone.
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A female friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago. She hasn't talked to me as much as she used to for some reason. I called her and she told me she's been dating a guy she met at a gas station and exchanged snapchats with.

I want to feel happy for her but I feel kinda hurt. Betrayed. I don't know. Maybe I'm an asshole.
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I've realized that my ex treated me poorly by blame shifting the break up on to me instead of long distance.

I realize she's too immature for me.

I realize I still miss her. Hopefully soon i'll move on.
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>>25095053
Wanna talk about it?
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>>25095044

You're overthinking it.

If you identify as a woman, and other people tend to see you as a woman, then you've already invalidated your opinion about sexuality, and you're just volunteering information about the specific experience of a cis-het female.

I'm sure people would like to read it, though, even if it sounds boring and puritanical to me personally.

Do it, though. Fuck what other people think, including me.
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>>25095044
Just turn it in. Pour your heart into if you want. The teacher grading it doesn't actually give a Fuck and unless if s/he has it out fir you you won't get in trouble for having a "based" opinion. Just make sure it hits all parameters of an essay so you get full credit.
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>>25095074

If it makes you feel any better, I identify with the dead more than I do with the living at this point, so yay?
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I must find a smart woman worthy of my seed. Hoes these days are too stupid.
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>>25095090
Thank you, but no, I'm okay.
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Bastard..
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is speed healthy??? lol? i need it for a project i would like to complete for a duration of 4-5 months. i want to be high and focused. what do
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>>25095212

No.

If it's something that takes 4-5 months, it's not a question of what drug to take, but a question of what perspective to have.

Using drugs as a solution to your problems doesn't have a very good track record, though. They're great at helping you cope with your problems, but solving them?

That's on you, dude.
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>>25095227
i should've worded it better. i don't know how often i would feel the need to take it, but the intent is to be alone for a bit and focus mostly on said project. so at night when i come home from work and i'm ready to create, i want to wind down and go into this mode by this method. i think it will make what i am trying to do a lot better. from a creative perspective.
also i thought about acid but that's too extreme. and micro dosing doesn't really help with my focus i've found.
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>>25095262

I mean, it's a question of personal neurochemistry.

I smoke pot and drink because that's what has helped me "wind down and go into this mode" (of creativity).

But when I drink too much caffeine, I find it hard to focus.

And meth was *amazing* (no; you don't understand), but it's nothing that ever made me not regret doing it, because the physical toll wasn't worth the high (as extreme as it may have been).

I feel like you're still asking drugs to give you some magical power, though... and that's just not how it works.

The only magic that's out there is already within you, and if there were any drug capable of tapping into it, it would already be available.

Drugs that make you lie to yourself aren't the ones you want to take, though.

I guess maybe your meth is my pot, though... like, again, it's a question of intrinsic neurochemical specificity that quickly approaches absurdity in terms of asking other people what drug you should take to get what you want.

The real question is what you want, OP.
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>mariel and akira oda knows richard cooper and they fuck
Yes and I know these people, totally;
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>walks in thread; pisses off like 10 people immediately
Lmao
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I hope she reads them. I don’t want it to continue the same
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>>25095330
Reads what?
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Idk who the fuck mariel kinuko cartwright is but hol e fuck does she seem like a fucking massive clown.
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>>25095356
I thinks it's a meme people troll on here
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Lol it was ethan fawks Keeng who hired him, also yeah mariel would show up to you guys at whitby n shit, these were a long time ago but who cares it didnt happen :3
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>>25095350
Messages. What were you thinking of?
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Shut the fuck up 34 year old shitter just shut the fuck up, lmaooo fucking get murderd holy tuck
>>25095376
Nigga idgaf i just want to do heroin and be gangraped
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>>25095380
something..
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>>25095376
There was that one time both of them went to ur fucking college fair in hs and you were like;
>whoOOotf FUUUCkkkk are yooOoOOuu
Honestly that was you every single time hahahah
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>>25095398
At mary ward? Of course! Ur just like; >waddafuuuuUUUUUUUcccckkkk
Its really bad, this shouldnt be a thing at all, but its funny
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>>25095394
That’s a little suspicious but I won’t press you further.
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I think I'm falling out of love with my gf.

I'm starting to think I made a big mistake with the way we met. We talked for a month anonymously on discord and became a couple. It's been 7 months. I thought we were a lot alike based on superficial shit. I feel we have nothing much in common and our personalities will clash and this relationship will fall apart

I'm a non-religious Christian that studies the bible and actually likes to participate in the conversation of spirituality. She's a catholic that honestly doesn't care much for god and spirituality, she only cares about marrying in the catholic church because "it would be pretty" which I don't want at all because I'm anti-religion.

We both want kids but we want to raise them differently.

She doesnt really care at all for my interests unless they are her interests, which are less than a handful.

I believe she expects me to pay for everything and even her expensive ass hobbies in the future if we ever get married. I like to save money but and she likes to waste it, and honestly I have spent a lot of fucking money being with her.

I'm not that interested in her anymore, at least not as much as I used to be. Today I thought more about other girls than her. Just right now she was babbling about herself and she couldn't even bother trying to hear about myself.

FUCK. This is the first relationship I have been in and I don't want to break up because I know it will hurt her feelings badly and I will probably be ridiculed by my own family, letting me know that they were right, that the relationship wouldn't last and they'll just get under my skin.

I hate how I feel right now.
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>>25095385
>thee tyson hesse and mariel cartwright literally drove all the way to your school and just assumed you knew them personally
I cant, no....... no..... omfg nooooooo
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>>25095430
You should communicate with her about how you no longer see the relationship work...it's fucked up but best to end the relationship then continue it. Don't lead her on. Maybe she's young
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Is it normal to feel guilty after masturbating to a friend you also have a crush on?
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>>25095466
Sure
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>>25095466
Kind of. It’s nice that you’re just focusing on them but you don’t have “consent.” Keep it to yourself and you’ll be fine, try asking them out at some point
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>>25095466
I don't jack to normal pics of other people I know, so I wouldn't know.

I still jack to porn and don't feel guilty, I guess you can ponder on that.
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Yeah he treeww a water bottle and hysterically laughed for 45 mins
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>>25095312
This is not good, someone like that shouldnt be stalking you and coercing gossip drama or whatever, she seems insane.
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>>25095413
Same person.
>>25095361
I really wish they'd gtfo, I'm getting pissed off at them
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>>25095498
Thanks. That's pretty reassuring.
>>25095501
I don't jack off to pictures. I've been exclusively using my imagination. On a somewhat related note I actually have been focused on them so much I haven't even looked at pornography in months and I think that's actually doing a wonder for my confidence and helping me deal with my own insecurities a lot better.
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>>25095536
We’re not the same silly.
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>>25095527
Nigga you kept on fucking crying of laughter on halo 3 desu, public chat lol,
lol ethan king cried of alot on there lmao,
Yeah paul benjamin was there also, um the joke is that shes fucking insane and this isnt some vow of silence shit lmaoo
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>>25095527
>me expecting to believe all this shit
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Why did you do that, S? Now I can't stop thinking about what you said.
I think maybe you're onto something.
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Can’t sleep mind won’t stop thinking
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Sometimes it feels like I can’t fix my life but I have to. I have to stop being the person okay with not having what they want.
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>>25095783
Right there with you.
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Friend poked at my shell. Friendship strengthened over the past 5 weeks. Over that time I slowly opened up my heart, got too attached and attracted, am now convinced that they're after a newer mutual friend. Been wanting to lose attraction because it was driving my heart nuts and the pain stung a lot. I fabricated an excuse to believe in to let my feelings go. Feeling much less pain now.

Hope to feel normal again soon. I am way too reserved and shut-in to commit to anything.
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why are you sad )-:
i can't sleep either...
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>>25095906
>I am way too reserved and shut-in to commit to anything
This except focused on success as well as sad
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Can’t speak for them but I’ve been single quite a while. Never could go after someone unless I liked them a lot to begin with. I’ve actually pursued and been rejected very few times. I’m built stupid or something, it would be better if I was a girl then maybe people would ask me out. Lel. Fucked up social norms, girls should try it more. Other than that though I want to move somewhere else but it will take a lot of work and I’m not sure if I can even search for a partner in that time since it might mean I just end up with them somewhere I don’t want to be. I could do that no problem for love but it’s not ideal and I’m used to the single long haul anyway. My passions don’t seem lucrative and I’m feeling rather isolated. Things haven’t really gone my way for.. idk how long. I have to do better and ain’t nobody gonna help me.
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It sucks being young, poor and not having a career. The worst part is that when you get older, you have money and a career but you miss your youth.
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I miss having people in my life.
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>tfw we'd probably both be less sad if we could communicate
>all we can do is keep wasting time cause you wanna be apart
>i suffer w the way things are now but you don't seem to want to change so i don't want to try anymore

fuck me for caring and trying in the past though ahahaah
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Should I email them
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Hate you
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Yeah when the one you love stops communicating altogether.. they have unreads what more can I do
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sorry if i was supposed to start as a "friend" and go from there...
i didn't want to accept that bc i think about giving u kisses too much
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>>25096061
I know.. I can get some popcorn and watch the X Files until I can’t keep my head up anymore
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Just finished "My friend Dahmer" and i never thought I would relate to someone so heinous.
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ur an emo boy so yea u must come here,,,,,
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What if I check my email and there's nothing there? I'm nervous
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Holy FUCK u were at mcdonalds inspiring me to refund the one punch man game
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Anyone else have those nostalgic memories that invoke strange emotions? I visited Tokyo when I was young, still brings back memories. Now I live in a British council estate wishing I could go back and live there.
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I am 30 and I have everything in life I could have ever hoped for EXCEPT a relationship.
I think about this nearly 24/7 for years now. I can't escape it. I'm terrified of intimacy.
Thinking about just going to an escort to lose my virginity becasuse I am also horny as fuck all the time.
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Most men over-value women... especially their bodies. If most men weren't thirsty idiots, society would be all the better for it.
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>>25096187
Why would I build a society if it wasn't in an effort to impress women, and also to protect my wife and children?
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>that weeaboo streamer girl is in DRAKES HOUSE NIGGA
https://youtu.be/nn8n4g8c-AA
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I’m only successful today because of a break up 6 years ago.

>love of my life cheats on me, and leaves me to die at the hospital alone
>go through a 50/50 chance surgery and live
>dedicated all these years proving her wrong
>got in shape and ripped
>got a high paying job
>buy a house and own my own car
>now dating a girl who’s 10 times hotter then my ex
>somehow still miss my miserable cunt of an ex

Years later, she got fat and ugly, became a single mom, and last of her of her trying to contact me on Facebook. I immediately blocked her.
As much as I want to rub my success in her face, she doesn’t deserve to get any attention from me after putting me through hell. I simply pretend she doesn’t Exist.

A tiny part of me want to talk to her like the good old days, before she back stab me. I’m better off talking to myself then ever seeing her again.
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>>25096200
Yes mariel is fucked and her fake cartel is screwed the jig is up
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I don't like NIN or Trent Reznor and I ignore it every time it's posted. There. I said it. Bad vibey vibes if you know what I mean.
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>Get headaches because everything is disorganized
Fucking hate it
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I do resent you and myself a little for that small abandonment you did
It was a major blow to my self esteem and touched my deepest fear that I'm too uninteresting for a relationship
But in the end you can't fake attraction
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>>25096198
I said they're over-valued, not worthless. Attracting a partner, having kids, whatever you want is fine. What I said was in regard to the ridiculous lengths some men will go to because they think they might have a chance, or the money they will spend on things like hookers, thots, etc.
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Been thinking about this. I was always bad at math in school. Like bad grades, didn't know what was going on, day dreamed too much. But then I was able to understand and memorize the document, draw it from memory, and use it in other applications. Hard maths. I don't know what it means, but I think it means teaching is about the setting and delivery. Or in my case, if the context doesn't exist or has no meaning it's less interesting and therefore more difficult to focus on.
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Being lonely sucks so much. I hate it here.
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>>25096200
Lol imagine meeting people that are onliners and not knowing them, then still keeping it that way, i am so ashamed of that honestly
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I've never known what it felt like to have to friendzone someone you're attracted to until recently.
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>>25096357
Know that feel. I love my solitude, but I hate my loneliness.
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Hey, do you miss me?
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>>25096396
I wish I didn’t and hated you instead.
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LOL, that's really cute.
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>>25096434

Why do you want to hate me?
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I have a lot of shit to do and it's stressing me out. I have to get my garden all taken care of while it's still such nice weather- freezing and drying my herbs, making pesto and freezing it in cubes, harvesting and taking down the 8ft tall tomato plant cuz I'm sick of all the APHIDS. Then I want to make and can some spicy relish and do some koolaid pickles. I also need to do dishes, finish trimming my dogs' nails, put a bunch of clutter away like a plant stand cooler and carpet cleaner, get a shoe rack because I keep tripping on them, do laundry, sort through a laundry basket of unsorted mail, clean and rebuild my hamster's fucked up detolf that keeps shedding litter everywhere. All while meal planning and making sure my shit doesn't rot before I eat it. And taking care of my three pets and also daily self-care and ALSO applying for jobs and ALSO drinking every single day because I am an alcoholic stoner loser neet. Also I hate my boyfriend he's fat and ugly. I'm going to break up with him and start anew soon
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>had a bunch of /adv/ tabs open last night
>firefox updated and restarted
>lost all the tabs and don't remember what they were

cool
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It never ceases to amaze me how breathtakingly stupid so many of you are on here.
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>>25096440
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Yeah, I'll clean the shed today. Can you not be so naggy though? It's only almost 8.
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>>25096455
Can't you just check through your history?
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>>25096455
>using firefox
>not using 4chan x
Whoops
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122221
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You're my friend and i love you, but you have to stop calling me about your problems all the time. You have to learn how to have a casual conversation and stop trying to talk about your issues when i'm trying to arrange something.
You're coming to stay with me this weekend and i'm scared that it's just going to be a 3 day therapy session that i am not ready for.
You have a long term partner of 5+ years and yet you keep coming to me with all of your problems, is he not giving you enough attention? what is going on there?
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>>25096481
He's probably shallow as a shower like most scrotes so she's using you as her emotional tampon. She sounds suffocating
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>>25096481
Are you a guy and she a girl? Why is she coming away with you for the weekend if she has a partner? If your both girls then it just seems to be natural that she would talk to you about her problems. I dunno.
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I just can't fucking get it together.

I'm the guy who posts about hitting his ex.

I can't find a way out of the darkness. Every day I miss her. Recently I just spend all day and all night in bed. I feel myself going fucking insane every day.

I know I should be out making myself into a better person. But I'm stuck. Whenever I'm awake I am considering killing myself.

I did a bad thing. I can never fix it, or the repercussions.
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i have never been happy in my entire life and i can't think of a single way out. i want to drink but that doesn't even help, i'm just drunk and unhappy. there's no escape
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gonna tell the girl I love that I'm getting her out of my life in a few hours lets fucking gooooooooooo
she doesnt give a shit about me anyway let alone love me back but I need to get some closure. then I'm looking forward to a good old fashioned breakdown session later tonight.
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I'm jealous as fuck over people who have friends, since I never had anyone in my life I could've ever called a friend. I can't even make any friends online, let alone irl
Worst part is, I'm not even that introverted. I just have disgustingly shit social skills and borderline autism. I go up to a group of people, try to talk to them. They get pissed-off, and tell me to fuck off. Rinse and repeat
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>>25096532
What about when you try really hard to pay attention to them and ask them about themselves and connect with their interests? Is it because you are judgmental or have strong opinions? I have similar struggles I am just curious
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>>25096511
I need fucking help with this and it will never arrive.
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>>25096187
I'm perpetually single but I absolutely agree with this. The dating game sucks for men because men are always so fucking thirsty for women. If we backed off and let them approach us, we'd have a much more even playing field.
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>>25096570
>If we backed off and let them approach us, we'd have a much more even playing field.
way ahead of you, been doing that for 27 years. youre welcome world.
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I give my buddy way too much access to my inner thoughts and it makes me feel vulnerable and exposed. I should stop that, but it feels good to have someone who will listen. I try not to abuse it.
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>>25096570
>let them approach us
Tough shit, men are the beggars women are the selectors
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Normally I ask this thread to tell me to die for hitting my ex.

Today I'm asking for help.

Help me. Please.
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The older I get the less empathy I have for the adults that were cruel to me in my childhood. I am a kind person and even when a kid is annoying to me I can control myself. I fucking hate kids, too, I think their laughter is annoying. But I am nice to them, they are just young people and they barely know what's what can you fucking blame them? Meanwhile as a kid I was constantly treated like a retard and teased and mistreated by the adults I was supposed to trust. Then they wonder why I don't give a fuck about them when I'm almost 30. Maybe if you could have extended some empathy for 1 millisecond we could have shared a bond but too bad.
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>>25096546
I don't even try to act judgemental, or anything. I stay on-topic, and try to talk about whatever they talk about
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>>25096581
Take a break. During the break, accept what you are feeling. Accept that it is tough or challenging. Then ask yourself how you can take care of yourself right then.

Ask yourself how you’d treat a friend experiencing the same struggle. What would you say to that friend? Try using those same words for yourself.

Write a letter or journal entry to yourself, offering acceptance, love, and compassion.

Reframe negative self-talk. Instead of reminding yourself about your mistake and how bad it was, simply agree that you messed up and tell yourself you’ll do better next time.

Remind yourself about what you’ve learned or how you’ve grown as a result of the choice you made. If your choice had any positive effects, it might help to remind yourself of those, too. Remember that guilt isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

https://www.goodtherapy.org/learn-about-therapy/issues/guilt/overcome
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>>25096604
I honestly feel myself going insane. I don't leave the house anymore. I barely leave my bed.
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I emailed about my mother
I really hope it reaches your eyes and I love you even now
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>>25096610
Open your windows, let light and fresh air in
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>>25096610
Notice how this anon doesn't respond to any of the advice given and just repeats himself like he didn't get a reply at all. This is why I don't try to give advice to people on here. Nobody wants help, even when they say they want help. They just want to be told what they want to hear. In his case, he is a butthurt scrote on aself-pity streak because his bangmaid got fed up with getting hit and nowshe's fucking gone. I don't pity him but I don't want him dead. I want him to stew in anguish until his natural death in his 80's
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I finally emailed you, god, I hope you see it
I love you, and only you
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>>25096629
I probably need more sun.

>>25096638
Go out, experience love.
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>>25096493
yeah the few times i've met him he doesn't really seem to have much of a personality, she always tells me about how all he does is work.
He's basically her cash cow because she doesn't work yet lives with her, and i think he stays with her because he doesn't know any other way.
>>25096497
I'm a guy (but a fag) and she's a girl, so maybe it's natural in that sense then? But I don't want it to be.
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>>25096700
did you send or receive this anon?
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>>25095044
Honestly there is no way you can express thoughts about controversial topics without pissing some people off, even people that are angry at you becasue they are retards that think you said something you didn't actually say.
Just go for it.
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What do you think about deathbed confessions? Should one take painful secrets to his grave?
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Fuck it, posted this over on ATOGA but I might as well put it here too.

Feeling like shit. Someone brought up the topic of sexual assualt recently and I remembered the one kind of fucked up thing I have done and now I feel bad about it. One time I was drunk stood waiting in a pizza shop and there was a girl standing next to me so I decided to stick my pinky finger out while my arms were by my side and make contact with the girls leg with the tip of the finger. I don't think she even noticed, but what if she did and why did I think that was a good idea? I have never done anything before or since but I still feel bad about that one thing.
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>>25096710

Why do you ask?
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>>25096715
are you joking or serious?
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>>25096582
Sometimes I think back to adults that would get ridiculously angry at us over small things when I was a kid. I hated those people when I was a kid but looking back at them now as an adult I am even more pissed off at them and wonder what the fuck was wrong with them.
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>>25096661
>experience love
I have a bf
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>>25096382
you didn't have to, you chose to. anyways, why'd you do it? that can really fuck up people you know.
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>>25096726
these two arent the same thing
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>>25096719
I am serious. Also I'm a little confused by the question, which do you think I am been? I can;t tell whether you think I might be joking about something serious or you think I might be making a big deal over something trivial.
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>>25096715
this is literally inconsequential. don’t ruminate.
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>>25096731
We've been together almost a decade
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>>25096739
you think thats what love is about? lmao.
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>>25096532
>I just have disgustingly shit social skills and borderline autism
I don't mean this as a joke or insult but if your entire life you have never had a single friend despite trying, is it possible that autism isn;t as "borderline" as you think it is?
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Time to pick my life up.
I work m-w like 11 hours a day.
Thursday’s are my off day, and the depression hangover and work hangover and anxiety about “getting it all done”….

Today i will clean my sadness pit, hella fucking errands, and hopefully try to socialize.
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>>25096733
the latter. what you did wasnt anywhere near a thing worth remembering let alone sexual assault.
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>>25096741
In my opinion, love is devotion and having the grace to show forgiveness sometimes. How else do you think we've lived together for almost 5 years
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I just realized the guy i’m seeing started texting me over discord a month after he moved away from his ex wife?. The red flags are fucking waving y’all. help


I have a huge fat crush on this dutch resident at work who’s like 6’8” and beautiful but he won’t even give me the time of day DAMN YOU DOCTOR H.
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>>25096746
damn. you know I'm not the guy who originally said you dont know what love is but with your last few posts you convinced me he was right.
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>>25096726
Then why are you here being hateful? When I was with my ex ("bangmaid", as you call her) I had no time for this shithole.
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>>25096757
Whatever you say, I'm the person that gets sex whenever I want
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>>25096742
I don't reall ycare to find out, either way. Being diagnosed with autism won't do shit to help me
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>>25096763
there you go.
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>>25096760
>hateful
I'm just calling it like I see it. You have a big ego and you want it coddled. You don't want advice, you want us to stroke your cock and tell you that you are a blameless little boy. Well, tough shit. Take ownership of your issues and actually respond to anons trying to help you instead of being so self pitying
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People told me that feeling like no-one understands me and like I'm so much different to everyone else was just an angsty teenage phase that I would get over. I'm 27 and I still feel this way.
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am I still the cutest to you? please answer in an email
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>>25096771
No, you're just mad and looking for a place to let it out. You give no advice.
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>>25096779
It's not an angsty teenage phase. It's loneliness. You only feel different fro. everyone else because you have no one to relate to.
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>go from meet to a job doing hard labor
>go from having endless free time to virtually none
>have a pocket full of money and no time to spend it
>make several friends in a relatively short amount of time
>suddenly old girls I used to talk to come back around
Feels good but not as good as I imagined it would
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>>25096794
I gave you advice in a previous thread and you ignored me just like you ignored that guy's advice above me. You are a black hole of want
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I’m getting a new cat soon and I’m pretty excited to have a smart new buddy to totter around with

I’m also hungry right now, I have to wait until I get double vaccinated to eat at my favourite restaurant and adopt the cat
All in a week
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>>25096716
because whoever sent it sounds very desperate and the sender sounds very self centred
cancer > mental health.
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>>25096729
>anyways, why'd you do it? that can really fuck up people you know.
Yeah I know.. I've been on the other side of this more times than I can count. Here's the thing. I'm attracted to her sexually but I'm not into casual relationships and neither one of us want to date each other seriously. She's just out of a serious relationship that she's obviously not over and looking for casual comfort and living her best life yas and I'm just enjoying tf out of being single and not responsible for keeping a woman happy right now. I do enjoy her company and we were friends before any of these kind of feelings developed so I feel it's a safe place to stay. It isn't like she's pining after me (afaik). She just would, and so would I but other than that I feel we are incompatible right now. Maybe in the future things might change I'm not counting it out forever
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>>25096836

It's actually a reply to the original person having a panic and often assumung that the sender won't want to help them with everything going on, but the sender is saying that despite that they want to. I don't think that's desperate at all somehow.
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>>25096830
What was it? Because it sounds like you just want to be mad.
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Yes!

Watch

https://youtu.be/lS9X19BAoJQ
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>>25096841
You wouldn't read it anyways. I'm not mad I'm just commenting on you factually you are here all the time. People will form opinions on you. You sound like the mad one
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>>25096850
I'm not mad, I'm tired of life.

Sounds like you didn't actually give me any advice desu.
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I love you people of /adv/. Words don't fully express how much you guys improve my mood and my life, even if you don't interact with me. This is my safe space, the comfiest little place on the internet, and you're all my little pillows.

Thank you all for being here <3
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>>25094994
It's been 7 years already, we broke up badly, then a few years later we ended uo making amends, and we are in good terms. Why? Why do I keep dreaming about you and possible "happy what ifs"? I'm engaged with another woman and I have a bright future up ahead, when I was with the one I pinned for I had a miserable future, so I ask... WHY? Every year I dream about her, different situations, but always a happy life with her...
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>>25096854
You aren't receptive to advice you just respond with moaning about your circumstances. You never respond or acknowledge the advice you get or heed it in any way. You are a black hole of want. You are an overgrown baby
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>>25096866
Either post your advice or fuck off. Until then I will assume you're just some baiting ass.

One day you'll be in pain and you'll understand.
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>2 years as a neet now
>been applying for jobs past month
>got a hit, and had an interview on monday
>the interview was incredibly informal, i was the only person wearing a shirt, one guy had bare feet
>the job was nothing like the job that they listed
>they seem nice though
>they sent me an updated job description with things that weren't in the original
>was told that i would just be "helping with whatever comes up"
>the job would only last 6 months
should i take the job, even though it's not something that i really want to do? i've never had a paying job before and have no working experience in everything.
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>>25096870
Sure, here is the proof
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>>25096883
And I responded. I took therapy. It's also too fucking late for that to make a difference, and specific "anger management" therapy isn't an actual thing.
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>>25096882
What kind of job is it? Normally I would say do it until you can get something else but if a man showing up barefoot can be qualified then maybe not
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>>25096892
Then kill yourself. Fuck you're annoying. Im not even the anon you're talking to but shut the fuck up
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i want to reach out maybe tomorrow but i am afraid of you bringing me down yet again. getting my hopes up. not getting let in.
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home alone waiting for the result
home alone waiting for the result
finding out tonight if they're terminal
I want to hug
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>>25096904
Hope I can soon. I'm slowly losing my mind.
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>>25096905

i won't bring you down, i'd just hug you a lot
i miss you and i still love you too
come home soon, it's scary for us both being apart rn, can we just huddle up and chat gently? i dont mind about what, it's just lonely
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>>25096894
it was originaly an IT support role (with training) but the revised job desc says it's an admin role
i applied through a scheme called kickstart, which is basically where the government pays companies to take 18-25 year olds on for 6 months and let them get experience
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>>25096892
>anger management therapy isn't a fucking thing
Yes? It is?
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>>25096924
I couldn't find any. And I'm a neet, I had to just go to a regular dbt therapist.
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>>25094994
FUCKING SHIT FUCKING SHIT FUCK THIS SHIT FUCKING LIFE FUCKING BADTARDS FUCK THIS FUCKING SHIT I HATE EVRYTHING I HATE PEOPLE I HATE LIFE WHY ME WHY IS LIFE SHIT FOR ME FUCK ALL OF THIS FUCKING SHIT FUCK IT ALL
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> two bipolar people trying a relationship
What could possibly go wrong.

I know ur off the rails af and ifs scaring me a bif cuz i was just kind of going along with it

What do?????????
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I don't know if i love you. But I've had this crush since the first met you 4 months ago and it's only gotten stronger the more i get to know you.
Even the other day with your red face and dry flakey skin, you said you looked like a monster, but i think you are still the cutest girl in this valley.
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I don't know what's going to happen tonight and what the hospital are going to have said but I'd do anything to be in touch with you and neither of us to be alone in our heads
i just want to cuddle up
i dont want to die and nor does she
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>>25096920
Seems like a good opportunity until you see
>cold and warm call email marketing
Yes though, you should take the job. Being a NEET is fucking embarrassing. Not having any experience isn't going to help you and its only 6 months. If you can't handle a desk job for 6 months then you have bigger problems my friend. You can do it. Take the job, build experience, and keep looking for something better as well. You never know what kind of opportunities may be out there and the hiring process can be long.
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>>25096713
It's up to them, it was their life after all.
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I just wish you would fucking respond. Soon you won’t be able to and I don’t want things to end like this. I thought we were both better than this I thought what we had was special and different and more. Just fucking respond tell me to fuck off something
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>>25096941
You're right anon, i have a few other applications that i sent off this week which I'm gonna wait on till next week. If i hear nothing I'll go for it. I can always go back to being a neet after I guess
Thank you
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I wish I had stage 4 cancer
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>>25096969
Good for you. I've seen hundreds actually thousands of people on this god forsaken website over the years just resign to neetdom and not give a shit if they ever even tried to improve. At least you will try. Id say dont think of neetdom as a backup plan or a safety net but as something you want to avoid. If you're a normal man in other ways then you'd likely want to find a partner eventually and perhaps a decent car and another place to live, those things generally come with be self reliant and established, which takes a job. You'll be surprised how much your life can improve when you take responsibility for it. Good luck, leave yourself no excuses and you will fucking make it
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Jack is actually C.J., you can't fool me!
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i nutted and it felt good
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>>25096998
>don't think of neetdom as a backup plan or a safety net but as something you want to avoid.
>you'd likely want to find a partner eventually and perhaps a decent car and another place to live
i'm going to become a normalfag, just like my younger brother hahaha
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>>25096991
A quick cycle of death is only good if you’ve been already living in it. You don’t want that.

>>25096952
You should say something then if they don’t, unless they’re ignoring your messages.
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>>25097023
They are obviously ignoring my messages. I just want them to stop being a childish cunt and just reply. Good or bad. Unresolved issues suck and I just want some resemblance of closure. Just be an adult and either way let me know something.
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>>25097022
Thats the goal. Find you a nice girl, or a guy if you're gay thats fine. But get that job and focus hard and the rest can come too. Good luck man you can do it
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is fren here
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>>25097055
Fren is dead
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>>25095330
She probably read them. She wants you to stop playing victim and apologize for all the hurtful things you’ve been saying and doing. And commit to being good to her, putting your ego aside, and not villainizing her nor trying to prove her “wrong” about anything because that’s immature. You probably went about it personally attacking her. Immature. You probably never have looked up “how to communicate to partner” or other ways to try to repair the relationship from your end and she’s contemplating just blocking you everywhere because that’s all she’s been doing for years, because the smart side of you is smarter than anyone else she’s been with, but that just means the dark side is darker and she can’t afford to be around that. She may be scared for her life.

Or maybe she just doesn’t want your dick pics anymore.
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I think I just lived through a 72 hour day and I'm literally hearing voices every now and then from sleep dep

Will make sure to sleep next time.
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>>25097055
>>25097090
fren is always here
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is my programmer bf here? i would like to have a word with you at some point. you're worrying me
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>>25097041
Maybe they’re tired of being called childish cunt or things like that. You sound insufferable. Not all people are stupid, the good ones can pick up on being hated you know. She probably knows you hate her even if you say otherwise based on your attitude and coldness. Have you apologized for whatever stupid thing you said and the meaningless fight you started?
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Sometimes I feel like shit when something reminds me that having relationships and sex is normal and I'm unusual for never having experienced it.
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>>25097165
Take your fucking meds schizo
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the next grimes but different

i'll take it
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>>25097172
I have apologized more times than necessary. You have it backwards I’m not the insufferable one. They are. If you act like a cunt then you will be called a cunt. They know what they did they hurt me worse than an enemy ever could. They bailed they abandoned me. I just want closure I almost had it and they fucked with my head again. Now I’m back to square one and I hate it I just want a response as to why?
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>>25097172
Not him, but I said something cold and I’m not apologizing for it even if we do message each other again. The closures been there a long time I was just deluding myself and so have they.
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>>25096511
Get therapy. And never date again. Retard.
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>>25097248
I got therapy.

I don't think dating is ever going to be a problem i need to deal with again
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>>25097234
>They bailed they abandoned me.
Sounds like the matters closed, fuckwit. You just wanna yell at them some more
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>>25096760
Any man that abuses or hits women EVER. Should never date again, or just rope
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Why do some people believe they will automatically be happy if they lose their virginity? It's all just a rub on your genitals.
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>>25097274
Obviously. You're telling me shit I already know.
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>>25096476
everyday faggot?
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>>25097289
I think it depends on the person they lose their virginity too and the type of relationships they have with that person.
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>>25096726
>imagine dating a girl that uses 4chan
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>>25097241
How do you know they feel the closure is there? Why would you not apologize for something you said that hurt them?
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>>25097266
No yelling has ever been involved. Contact has not ended but been delayed and again I just want a final answer
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>>25097177
Every always acts like it's so natural to have been in relationships but it's never felt all that natural to me.

>>25097289
A feeling that you're sexually desirable, also societal norms that say that if you're still a virgin at whatever age, you're a loser.
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>>25097335
They fucked you over. Your final answer is that you're not important enough for them to adjust their actions, its time to move on
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>>25097329
Cuz they hurt me DUH where’s my apology? If they reach out k, but Im not doing that.
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>>25097352
Yea I guess you’re right. Thanks for the advice
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we obviously hurt each other. you can stop being so immature and close minded about it, that'd be great.
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>>25097366
Sorry people suck sometimes dude. The good news is some people don't and now you get to go and try and meet them. The best way to do that is to be a good dude yourself. Good luck
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>date girl by email online while schizophrenically thinking ur talking to them on gioyc and then have an affair on your imaginary girlfriend as you vent about it here when your gf is actually a fat 40yo man who actually is having multiple affairs on you because he has six other boyfriends online as he also talks to them here
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>>25097368
Right back at you sister
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I held in you in my arms. I could feel your warmth and see your smile. Dreams with you in them are painful reminders to appreciate each person that brings me a fraction of the joy you gave me and ensure they feel cherished. Wherever you are, I hope the people you are with value you and that beautiful smile.
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>>25097402
imagine rejecting someone and then being all sappy that they didn't reciprocate or try hard enough. like ok, i just can't win i guess lmfao
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>>25097289
I don't think it would make me automatically happy, but I do think it would make me feel like more of a normal person knowing that I am capable of having sex.
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i don't even understand your thought process on intentionally making an anxious girl considerably more anxious about you and having general interactions. just remember she only needed reassurance because of your constant negligence
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>>25097165
Well, my person would absolutely never write such a long paragraph, so I'm good.

You remind me of a.. How do I say it without getting banned... Certain alligator dude who had 3 wives.. Except you actually seem to have emotions. Carry on.
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>>25097353
So really you were the immature one and want to stay immature. Apologizing for wrongdoing is healing for both the hurt and the attacker. Do it just for your growth if nothing else. It opens the door to reconnection as well, if you want that route.
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>>25097435
Oh man lol sorry to hear that
If they reject the first time, they go to you the next time not the other way. You don’t want to put them on a pedestal because a relationship doesn’t work like that.

Sometimes they’re too much up their own ass to ever have themselves follow through on something they can’t even imagine doing. Eventually will have to let go of that hope of denial. I’m in a similar place bb it sucks but we will get through this. Today’s pain will not the next years pain and thank god I still look 17
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I'd love if you emailed back
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>>25097234
Why? Why did you make a move on them and not mind your business, knowing full well that you’re addicted to an anonymous misogynist website and absorbing the misogynist ideals portrayed here that contribute to hurting and objectifying women?
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I think my vibes are somewhat right, aren't they. I wish they weren't
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>>25097234
>more times than necessary
Healthy people don’t keep count and have loving lasting relationships. You’re an addict. Get off this website forever.
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Feels like shit seeing so many people I know het their PhDs when I fucked up my undergraduate.
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>>25096858
Based
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>>25096849
You posted this the other day
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>>25097474
Wahh wahh wahh
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>>25097512
Don't look it as a bad thing look it as a way to improve your situation
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>middle of benching
>spotify new release
>this fucking song comes on
[YouTube] Story of the year - Until The day i die- Aol Sessions (embed)
>reminds me of my 2nd gf, longest relationship, i loved her in every sense

God damn you Spotify its been 13 years
Why do i STILL get those feels, i had 2 other girls, none i loved like her
Fuckkkk
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>>25097512
Bruh ima be in my 30s when I finish it, that’s like a decade from now.

Research does not mean big bucks (okay it does make a huge difference in salary, but you gotta spend a lot of money getting one).
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>>25097474
Reassurance for what exactly?

Smooth talking you like an idiot for sex? Because I already know you’re the type of idiot to go for that shit and be okay with it.
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>>25097489
lmao relatable. sucks that i have the looks but can't seem to have interest elsewhere/in anyone else because i like this one human too much. hoping they'll come to terms with reality soon and realize that people can't just sit around waiting forever. it truly does take 2 to tango. it bothers me though that they have the audacity to talk about being lonely when love was handed right to them, yet they were too blind to see what could be. think their ego got in the way of things big time.
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>>25097533
>Research does not mean big bucks
Its more that I'm jealous of these people for successfully managing to pursue something they are passionate about. I fucked up the thing I was interested in and now don't even seem to enjoy it much anymore.
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>25097554
>anxious girl that need reassurance
>prefers quiet vicious sex

Girl, you have problems
And I meant just talking, not bed talk jfc
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>>25097502
What are your vibes?

>>25097512
I kinda want to get my PhD but I'm almost 30 and haven't even gotten my bachelor's yet.

Most likely I'm going to get my Master's but I'm going to be 32+ by the time that's the case.
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>>25097568
holy fuck you clearly don't understand my situation so i would rather not entertain you. but yes i deleted my response since i read your post wrong, lol. and haven't you heard? quiet girls are typically the best in bed, lol. i don't get anxious about sex at all.
interactions with one that i see as a potential lifelong commitment? now that's a big difference..
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The only thing that hurts more than chronic pain is the fact that nobody cares or understands. I wish I had cancer or some other trendy illness. I would take cancer over occipital neuralgia any time. I feel as if people become either avoidant or outright malicious if I ever tell them, even if it's in the proper context. Some of them think you're a sick broken person that needs to be avoided and the other think you're a bitch for complaining over what they think is just a headache.
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>>25097590
trendy illness? jesus christ you need assistance
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>>25097589
>quiet girls are typically the best in bed, lol. i don't get anxious about sex at all.
Jesus is this really true? I most likely just fucked up with a very quiet girl and now I'm really upset.
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>>25097589
That’s a fear you have to overcome by yourself. Imagine all the bitches that have to give birth to babies counting days until they water breaks.
Things that actually matter never come easy. You either toughen up, or don’t chase what you say you want.
I’m telling ya this society is raising weak ass bitches that gets everything handed to them with spoon in their mouth.
And yes, it’s a quite known stereotype that the quietest of girls are also the biggest sluts.
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>>25097608
yes it is 100% true
we go crazy..
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>>25097590
I have a chronic illness and I think you’re a faggot.
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>>25097618
oh trust me, i am no weakling. i already had my tries with this person but they didn't seem to want to put the same effort in as i. so this is really just me debating myself on whether i will succumb to them and their tactics again. or i just need to keep things they way they are and let them figure out being miserable on their own.
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>>25097572
That I'm being led on
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I’m ready to find someone to settle down with. Why does this shit have to be so hard? All the women are so wrapped up in social media and pop culture and it’s like they all expect to land some 10/10 hunk with loads of money and charisma even tho they ain’t really shit


Why is it so fucking hard to find people I’m compatible with
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>>25097650
You’re probably not their type ngl
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I'm nearly 34 and I have no friends, I'm sick of being alone. I'm too strange and its too late to undo the lack of life experience
I can't even make friends, no woman my age is going to want some poor idiot who spent most of his life avoiding people because he can't trust any one and used to hate people touching or being close to him
I hate this feeling I wish I was like one of those people who have zero desire for any social or romantic interaction
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>>25097590
as someone on the other side my friend has chronic fatigue syndrome and she seems fine. As long as you're not a bitch about and don't make it your life you will be fine socially.
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i keep getting triggered at not being able to go back in time and not be with my ex. it is what it is tho
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>>25097666
they talked about me being their type, so i'm really not concerned on how they feel for me. just about if they care to try or not.
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>>25097683
mang just ask her out again isn't she single?
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God, I hope she forgives me and we go back to being friends and hopefully more.
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>>25097683
Taking living in the past on whole new level
Hopeless
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>>25097691
tf? he is single because i broke up with him and i would simply like to go back and just never had to have been with him. he was that sucky
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>>25097688
Type in body? Or you as a person?
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>>25097704
issa joke
mostly...
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> Little to no interest in girls I have seen my entire life.
> This year there is this perfect girl in school that makes me go crazy.
> No fucking clue how to talk to people and have intimate relations because I never practiced before.
> Will probably never see this girl in some months and will never meet another equivalent girl in my entire life.
Fuck I want to die.
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>>25097712
person
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>>25097705
O okay damn im sorry
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>>25097721
If it counts for anything this happened with me, except after a shitty ton of events that happened to me I just straight up asked her out and she immediately said I have a boyfriend. I’m pretty sure she did, but a few months later she cold approached me for lunch after my class/was waiting outside the door. We talked and I realized she was just some Instagram thot and told her I don’t think we should date, never talked again.
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I'm just abstupid childish man
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>>25097683
Yeah, I consider suicide over that every day.
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>>25097730
Well then the only thing I can think of is relationship troubles in past or isn’t over someone.
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>>25097670
Any one who says it gets better is lying
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fuck aging.
48 yo, currently dealing w: tinnitus, some stupid hip muscle sprain above left leg (likely bc i tried getting back into lifting and overdid it) & the lingering effects of a groin injury (dog rammed my nuts about a year ago). and to top it all off, my stomach hasn't felt right for the past 4 days since i had some pasta for the first time in a month. my ass shotgun blasted the toilet 3 times within a 2 hour period after that meal.

i don't remember having these problems at 23. fuck aging. enjoy your youth while you can.
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>>25097772
or their ego is just big and they were under the impression i would deal with it and still stick around? cause that's 100% what it felt like. rip me
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>>25097782
enjoy it with whom? i have no one to share it with
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>>25097390
Send script to Hollywood
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>>25097390
relationship goals af
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>>25097633
you have chronic bitch syndrome
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>>25097862
>sigh I wish my chronic illness was more trendy not because I don’t want to be ill but because I want more sympathy from strangers sighhhhh

You’re calling me the bitch? Take a look in the mirror faggot
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>>25094994
How do you deal with a friend that's always busy, even when I help out and just wanna talk at some point. All I get is silence.

I hate feeling lonely
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I still wish I had stage 4 cancer
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>>25097904
i feel like there are other easier and less painful ways to die. also less time consuming. take that into some consideration, fren.
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I really hope you see the little email
today we got the results and I want to hug you so tightly
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>>25097893
yes, chronic bitchtititis
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>>25094994
It's really fucking hard for you isn't it. Taking 5 minutes out of your day just to test me to ask how I'm doing or responding when I ask if your free to chat
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>>25097967
Imagine saying that kinda sht except the dude is just some random guy you fucked in a ons
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>>25097165
If this is how you think about me please literally never see me again. What the fuck
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I’m an only child. I’m the heir of the family. No one knows how severely depressed i’ve been for years. I cant tell them. I feel suffocated because i’m expected to be neurotypical but i struggle with my mental health every day and i just want to be normal. i have this absurd chaotic hope that i can dig myself out of this when i get away soon, it propels me forward to survive
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>>25098039
It was for me, faggot
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Imagine just dying while you sleep. Wouldn't it be beautiful? All the shit in your mind, all the desperation, all the loneliness, all the anxiety, all the derange things, all the frustration, all the depression, all the wanting to die every day... all the suffering, everything, gone, ended, forever. Just eternal rest.

Such a beautiful thought.

Death is not a curse, death is a liberation, a blessing.
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I’m taking a vacation from GIOYC. Let’s hope it’s permanent
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>>25098220
Good luck. I wish I had the strength to improve my life and leave forever. But I deserve the suffering
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>>25098231
If you really don’t like it here leave, literally any video game general or hobby board is better. There are a lot of websites and discords and ircs and everything. I only stayed because I enjoyed helping others in my lowest time in life
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>>25098260
I have no other life. I come here to self flagellate about the bad I did and how awful my existence is.
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you get one life don’t spend it with people that don’t love you
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Why does zoloft make you shit so much? I've been running back and forth to the bathroom. Aside from feeling better, I'm fucking nuking the toilet.
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>>25098335
good point. i should stop harassing him or however the fuck he interprets my love and appreciation for him. i guess i am not enough and he would rather have a "baddie" that works in retail..just smdh lmfao
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>>25098362
Gimmie that Z O L O F T, give me a grip, make me love me, suckin' 'em down, I'm happy man, I can feel it inside, making me smile

REALIZE THAT THE SKY IS NOT MADE OF GOLD
DON'T DISGUISE THE NATURE OF YOUR SOUL
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I’m not even sure that’s it. They don’t seem the type to hate me for anything. If you’re having a hard time anyone please consider treatment, or accepting something new in your life. It’s a painful life but I always make it back to points where it becomes clear it’s worth it.
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i'm used to not being enough..

so thanks for proving it i guess. i hope you got your fill.
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>>25098404
Likewise
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>>25098533
i don't want an idiot that works in retail but yea likewise hurrr durrr
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>>25098335
Ditto
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>>25098537
Oh no I meant I'm in your same situation hurr durr
Guess I was being led on this whole time
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I got upset with my girlfriend because she did something I've asked her not to do a zillion times. As usual, she stared at me until I asked her for some space. She came back to me with a gift as an apology, but she just handed it to me and went on with her business while the issue was still there. I'm not really sure how to guage the situation.
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>>25098545
yea i wondered if you meant otherwise haha.
why do you feel you're being led on?
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you always get all different when i'm in the mood to reach out again
i dunno anymore.
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>>25098532
You are enough for someone. I just don’t think I’m the person you’ve been trying to reach. I’ve been trying to reach mine too. I definitely think they’re enough.

Ah screw it, I don’t know if anyone even recognizes my writing style but I’ll put this here if it gets used or not coyote2332@protonmail.com
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This is gonna sound retarded and pathetic as fuck. Believe me I know. But I feel like maybe one of the reasons I’ve never tried to pursue dating someone is because I’m scared of being accused by them.

I’ve never dated before but I hear stories of people who have been falsely accused and how it practically ruined their entire life and it’s honestly pretty terrifying.
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>>25098628
this is highly unlikely unless you're a complete abusive asshole during the relationship. or you cheat on her. if you don't get with a crazy woman you'll be fine.
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>>25098649
Yeah that’s a good point. I just overthink a lot and I can’t help but think of the worst possible scenario. And just seeing how peoples lives were ruined by false accusations just adds to that.
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>>25098532
If you can’t communicate when they were it’s all on you anyways. Half of these schmucks are here bc their person can’t communicate and the other half don’t at all.
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>>25098672
they never were
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I feel crazy today. I guess in a fun and aggressive way but I know people don’t always hear me the way I hear myself. Anyway, sorry I shelled ya last minute lol
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>>25098664
>>25098628
What the fuck is wrong with you
Just find someone who is relatively normal and kind, maybe a bit autistic, and don't be an asshole to them
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>>25098672
I'd say 90% of the relationship issues I see on here could be solved by communication
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>>25098597
What's the initals/description of your person? Maybe put that rather than an email so you don't get mopped up by the jannies
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>>25098838
Everyone preaches about communication, but never really learned how to listen attentively or practice co flict resolution.
You can le communicate all you want, but if it's not effective, it means nothing.
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>>25098845
>sorry I beat you
>sorry I dont text you
>sorry I cheated on you
>sorry I’m addicted to heroin again
>sorry I’m not actually interested in you, you’re just in denial
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i tried to communicate how i felt and how i wanted to go forward with you. but i could no longer continue that once you seemed so disinterested and "busy" with all those pointless games.
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J, I'm sorry I didn't look at my emails right away but I did today and I left you love back and of course I still want to be with you

I know you read these and maybe you need to hear this but honestly, there isn't anything we can't get through and the challenges have always made us stronger in the end

What you emailed me has not hurt me or changed my love for you whatsoever, I AM still your ***** (name) and I love you more than anyone I ever have before I can't wait to meet you and be snuggled together glad to have what we do

Something as special and as precious as this is never worth giving up on and you are my light no matter what challenges we face

I ADORE you, you are perfect to and for me, no matter where your head or assumptions might be at

You're human and I've spent all of my time here binging a stupid love reality TV show with my mother to know that everyone does genuinely face obstacles but the ones in your head will never make me abandon you

I let you know what was happening at hospital today in my email and if you'll still have me I'd fucking love to chat to you more and I'm not angry

You're my alien and I am not giving up
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>>25098852
I quite literally don't understand what you're trying to convey.
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>>25098843
I’ve posted here about them more than enough, they should know where they can find me. I put the email for any you. I accomplished what I set out to here and processed how I was feeling about a lot.
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>>25098852
Well that escalated quickly
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>>25098859
Communication is main problem with people here they’re just really retarded
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>>25098868
Half the people on here sound the same. but if you know your person comes here, you may have a chance. I hope you find them.
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>>25098878
Ya
>>25098845
Well then you are shit at communication
>>25098854
I rest my case
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>>25098887
while your point is definitely valid, it is the case that some are unwilling and uncooperative. these people likely haven't been open or honest, and that's why they've got people here looking for them. wishing and hoping that this might send a message their way. idk. it's definitely a coping mechanism for most.
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>>25098903
Communication goes both ways. Listening is part of communication. Ability to hold a conversation is communication.
If you are trying to find your person here, on an anonymous site, then you're an idiot
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>>25097090
What happened to fren
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The stupidest thing you can imagine is that you could win them back.
When it's dead it's dead.
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>>25098854
I appreciate that you speak to me so kindly. It's a nice reminder of how dumb I was. You've taught me more than I could have ever asked for. I hope things are well for you.
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>>25098973
The relationship?
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i love girls but i'm scared of them and they confuse me. so i never get a chance to make love with them.
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>>25098926
once again it's a coping mechanism
i think people are more concerned about getting shit off their chests than actually having their person be here
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>>25098926
I was with you on that but there have been a few times when something didn’t seem quite right. It’s not so out there to think that people going through hard times that also use this site might end up here. To take anything said here as gospel instead of going to them would be foolish even then though.
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>>25098979
they aren't really
but thank you for the empty words
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>>25098981
Yes, it's gone
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>>25099000
But is fren still here
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>>25099000
Doubt it was ever even there
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>>25098995
I see.
If my words mean nothing to you, I understand. Thanks for listening one last time.
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>>25099027
it's not like you intended to talk directly, so yea, it's pretty meaningless and empty on here. but you are welcome.
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>>25099024
Maybe it wasn't
That's what makes me pathetic
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how repent
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>>25099041
Except I have and my person wasn't interested in an extended dialogue. I've come to terms with the consequences and improved since.
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>>25099063
Well if nothing ever happend yet then you're able to make the proper changes.
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>>25099107
Other who?
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It was studied that having anxiety is bad for relationships.
.t watching a video on making relationships work
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>>25097028
We get it.
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>>25099130
>tfw 2 anxious people would probably work very well as they'd be able to understand one another so well
>tfw they don't even know where to begin though

i want to off myself ngl
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>>25099137
you specifically do not actually, kek
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I just want a cute girl to lay me down, straddle me, grind against me and kiss my neck sensually.
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Happy wife, happy life?
Did you even consider saying no to such a ridiculous request? She isn't the one spending that much, no skin of her back. She has you by the balls.
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>>25099148
What happens on that day
Gonna meet ldr?
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New
>>25099437
>>25099437
>>25099437
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>>25099359
nope!
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Halloween costumes are lame. If it's just for the joke, I guess that's fine. A bit of self derision can't do harm. But going full dress-up when you're 40 years old means one thing : even if your Twitter followers like it, someone like me will think you're a manchild.
Unfortunately, I'm not a follower, nor a hardcore fan, nor a naive 16 years old (anymore). I'm going to pass on this Halloween. And I'm also going to stop posting online about my life. I just decided it's inconsistent and disgusting. After all, I'm happy I didn't die last Monday. But hey, being a clown in also cool, ironically.
I'm going to cover my eyes now, the bullshit on this little screen has burnt me blind for too many years and the degradation is too painful.

PS : criticizing my generation only show how much if a shitshow you're putting up. You're trashy.
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>>25099458
Are they supposed to know then?
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>>25099141
>>tfw 2 anxious people would probably work very well as they'd be able to understand one another so well
No, this is only if you both happen to develop it during your relationships in small incremental doses. If you date people with hysterical anxiety, and you don't get an episode in the dating phase, you're going to have a bad time.
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I'M SO FUCKING TIRED OF EVERYTHING, WHEN WILL THIS HELL ON EARTH END?



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