ATOGA Ask the Opposite Gender AnythinkCute cat Edition.Prev >>25091138
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Should I let my friend know that me and his girlfriend used to be fuck buddies in college or just let it rest?
>>25093607Fourth for qt anon
Fifth for a thousand thighs
>>25093612Sixth for based schizo Terry <3The hardest question in programming...
Ladies how long would you want to talk to someone on a dating app before going on an actual date with them?
LIPS LIPS LIPS
>>25093610Nothing to be gained by volunteering the info. Don't hide it.
>>25093602Why are women so fucking difficult and why are they never truly happy? I just want a woman who is content with who I am. I don't have a huge social circle but I work a good job and am intelligent. Where I lack is keeping women entertained enough in a long term relationship. I never feel adequate because they have so many options now
>>25093610I mean, hopefully his gf would be open and honest with him. I would tell your friend tbqh, personally I'd feel bad hiding that from a friend, hopefully he's calm about it.>>25093620Post lips and code in LISP
Girls would you consider it acceptable for a late 20s guy to move back home temporarily (6-12 months) if it was solely to help his parents prepare their house for sale so they could downsize before they retire?The house is kind of big and has a lot of gardens. Needs paint and cleaning up, maybe a few smaller renovation jobs.
these threads are ridiculous in size. 85 IPs and thousands of replies? wtf are you guys doing. i thought you made a discoooord for this shit
Feeling exhausted but I know for a fact I'm going to probably end up staying until 2am somehow
I treat everyone like they have malevolent intentions for me and that they want to use me for their own personal amusementIs there a way to stop this? Or am I right and most people aren’t trustworthy?
>>25093625I know this is kind of a non-answer but you have to just keep trying until you meet the right sweet girl you click with. You're right you shouldn't have to juggle balls and entertain a girl, they should like you as you are
>>25093610I'd tell his girlfriend to let him know because you're uncomfortable with the situation if he's not aware.At least, that's usually how I handle the "I know something my friend should know but it's their partner who should tell them and not me" situation.
>>25093636unironically I was like that and committing myself to Christ brought peace to my heart and mind.
>>25093631Not only would I accept it, I'd respect it. There's nothing wrong with helping out family, in fact it's laudable. I would even offer to help out with the work, since I've done the same for my relatives' houses.
Sup ATOGA.If you could choose to be a vampire would you? You live forever and have classic dracula powers. But you must drink blood at least monthly or your thirst will overcome you.
>>25093644The only thought that gives me peace is ripping apart the people that have abused me in the past
>>25093651F. Duh. I want to live forever.
>>25093632>i thought you made a discoooord for this shitThey deleted it and came back. Threads are shit again.
>>25093651Yes that would be sick, I'm already an edgelord who sleeps in the daytime
>>25093651>hate my life and almost every waking moment>want to live foreverWhy...
>>25093631Definitely, that proves that you're a caring person whose family is important to himPlus physical labour like that is sexy>>25093651>at least monthlyCan I drink my own blood?
>>25093651Can I turn my wife into a vampire and we can cuddle for all eternity?
>>25093631Yes. In general moving back home from a short amount of time wouldn't be a big deal, and helping your family out is always a plus.
How bad it is that pretty much my only proper social interaction is with gf? I'm very introverted and she's very extroverted with lots of friends so I feel like via them I get more than enough.
>>25093661The server actually got deleted?
>>25093651Does sunlight kill me if I accept? Immortality sounds nice, and the superpowers as well, but I'm not sure how to get a steady, monthly supply of blood within the month. And sunlight=death is a bit :/, but perhaps there are ways to manage.
>>25093651And I am going to answer my own question and say. Probably not. But it would be hella cool and I would rock it>>25093667>Can I drink my own blood?Uh no! Human blood will call to you. Probably the blood of virgins most of all or something. Animal blood will also do but is not appetizing.
>>25093682Worse: it split into twoThe new one is an attempt at a femanon harem
haha has anyone ever stalked an Instagram page before and check every highlight they have and forgot that you can check who viewed your highlights so now that person knows you stalked the fuck out of themasking for a friend
>>25093691>virginsI have virgin sensing abilities? I’ll sign up for that alone
>>25093692Fuck, that's tragic, what are these incels hoping to achieve? I'm bored of flooding it with hentai, I made my point, but seriously guys don't get into that discordfagging shit.>>25093695That goes for you too emoji movie nigga.>>25093697>highlightWhat the fuck is this? Social media is for women and niggers.
>>25093698>you can no longer visit 4chan without your virgin radar going haywire
>>25093697I'd just assume you were sitting on the toilet bored.
>>25093708>I'm bored of flooding it with hentaiKek based
>>25093708>social is for womenthats why im here ;___;>>25093713i dont use hightlights of my own, is this a thing? do others just stalk?
Ive heard ppl say that women DO date younger men but that seems to be a minority. There have been a few women who lost interest in bc I was just a few years younger than her. How do I meet these supposed women that date younger or get women older than myself to not lose intrest bc im younger than her
>>25093709Guys can’t actually be virgins, it’s just a social construct for them, only women can be virgins
Yo do damaged girls seek emotional guys or what?I've been close to several couples where the woman grew up without a dad or had mental issues and her guy acted opposite to what either redpillers or any other person for that matter would tell you to do.>they sulk or go into tantrums when something doesn't go their way, which is pretty often>they cry in front of their women>they're needy>they get mad at petty shit>they take things personal>they can't control their emotionsThe result is usually he keeps his woman walking on eggshells bc she doesn't wanna upset him, but the way they express dissatisfaction is childish and petty af and comes across as insecure to me.I thought you had to be a cool calm collected man to keep a girl interested and shit but these guys are all over the place.The fuck is that? Any of yous seen similar?
>>25093721I'm just playing, I doubt that person will think much of you going through all the highlights or whatever, don't stalk too much in future tho.>>25093716Don't get me wrong, I want to patch things up with rule breaka, though I will treat her like a whore when she acts as such.
I really want to try Squirt because I love citrus flavored sodas but I've been putting it off for years because what if it's the cute girl cashier at my grocery store that day and she thinks I'm doing a harassment or correctly realizes I am thinking about her peeing but using the Squirt as an incidental, mistaken cue.What if I spilled my spaghetti and couldn't stop swallowing and clearing my throat and started sweating and there was nowhere to turn to hide my bulge.Can't do it, can't even just order it casually thrown in with other sodas in case she snickers or gives me a funny look and I blush and overreact, it's hard enough just pretending to be normal and disinterested when buying normal groceries from her without stuttering.I don't want the glowies and warehouse people and maybe fedex people to know I specifically ordered Squirt delivered to me either. Maybe I could try and find a variety pack of soda to order online? But can I find one that includes Squirt?Either gender, how should I go about getting my Squirt without being exposed as a cad to my local community?
>>25093730I mean yeah, damaged people will put up with a lot more shit because they don't know any better. Doesn't mean you should exploit it like he who shall not be named
>>25093721Yeah. I also have never really look attentively at who watches my stories.
>>25093730>Yo do damaged girls seek emotional guys or what?YesDamaged women and unstable men go together like peanut butter and jelly
>>25093735buy a grapefruit instead, i think they taste the same.
>>25093732Some things remain constant. Sometimes the only way to fight fire is not with fire, but by letting it burn out.
Either gender:Out of nowhere, someone of the opposite sex likes a photo of you in skimpy beachwear from 5+ years ago.How do you react?
>>25093682No I was just there. >>25093688Mhm. Sunlight will ignite you in a few moments. Garlic is like... Allergic but not lethal? Silver stings. Crucifixes are hard to approach I guess. ALL the classic stuff. But also. Shape shifting and transformation and hypnotism and so on
>>25093749M, damn I must've looked good then at least
>>25093651MaleAs long as my mind/soul was intact, yes.Also, what did one lesbian vampire say to the other lesbian vampire?
>>25093749happened to me a million times. I just ignore and move on
>>25093749I wonder where they found it since I don't have any photos of myself on social media. But probably block them.
>>25093746Grapefruit just tastes very strongly bitter to me, I can barely taste anything but astringency.Is Squirt bitter?
>>25093749FIt's a little strange they're looking up underaged pics of me
Dear womenIf your man's love language is physical touch, are you capable of putting up with it when he wants to grab you from behind and stick his hands in your waistband every time you're in the kitchen?
>>25093747Being bipolar is like a magnet for BPD thots I will admit>>25093750>I was just thereGet the fuck our nigger before they brainwash you into a discordfaggot, don't say I didn't warn you
>>25093749MWhere the fuck did this picture come from?
ladies why do you call your men 'daddy' in the sackand my fellow men why does it make me hard as diamonds? ddlg shit makes me sick but being called it peps me up like nothing else
>>25093762Am I capable? Yes, but I won't, because I have self-respect and personal boundaries.
>>25093753>what did one lesbian vampire say to the other lesbian vampire?Hmm... What?>>25093763Oh no I can already feel my brain slipping away ;_;
Dear women,If your man's love language is sexual contact would you like to making fuck all the time>>25093772How long, in months, was your longest relationship?
>>25093732>don't stalk too much in future tho.lmao yeah I learnt my lesson did i
Women, how cringy is this hoodie I impulsively bought last night?
>>25093772>self-respect>no boyfriend, do not touch me because I have more self-respect than to accept physical affection from you
>>25093602>gender>favorite pizza toppinggo
>>25093750>Allergic to garlicFuck food just got a bit more boring. I don't deal with silver or crucifixes on the daily, so I'm alright there, though. Although there'd be a bunch of places I'd have trouble walking into.Well damn. Sunlight is a deadly laser again. Can shape shifting work as a loophole for the sunburn or nah? And if I wear spf 500 sunscreen will I be alright?Hm, I'm leaning more on the decline than the accept.>>25093763Kek so long as you keep your bearing you'll be alright. Don't fall down a slippery slope, my dude.
>>25093762I generally don't mind him being touchy as long as I can function. If he pushes me so I burn myself, or tickles me so I cut myself, or touches me while I'm taking things off the oven, it's not going to work. If he can use common sense, he's welcome in the kitchen while I cook.
I think my supervisor who is a girl is simping for meWtf
>>25093778Er... 50 months.>>25093785>sticking hands down my pants when I'm trying to cook is romanticWhat if I'm cooking something hot, and he makes me jump?
>>25093651Never. If vampires were real, I'd kill them.
>>25093786FI am a cheese pizza basic bitch, no toppings needed
>>25093786MushroomsSecond place is sausage, either type, actually just ground beef is good too.Mushrooms go best with chicken thoughAll meats go good with all other meats except fish basically, the more the better within structural reasonMale
>>25093786MFucken uuuuhhhhhhhhhhhh margherita? Provolone and mushrooms? Brie and prosciutto? I can't choose.
>>25093790Damn nice, I had something a little similar with a previous supervisorThe best bet is probably just to ask her out once the project is done tbqh
>>25093730Yep. It's one of the most pathetic situations you can find yourself in, since the man cannot lead the woman in any capacity. It showed me a lot about my self esteem putting up with a man like that
>>25093682God please let it die. I bailed after a few days of realizing how awful it was and how it wouldn't ever get better.
Ladies going wild in the old thread
>>25093792That's a theoretical situational concern you made up assuming he's a fucking retard, nothing to do with personal boundaries which exclude the person you're in an assumedly physical relationship with
>>25093735Bro just buy the soda
>>25093786fcheese or sausage
>>25093786Extra sauce is the only thing I ask since most pizza places skim out on it, other than that fuck toppings
>>25093786F. Pineapple and ham.
>any gender>what would you do if you looked behind you and there waS A SWAMP MONSTER LOOK BEHIND YOU THERE'S A SWAMP MONSTER
>>25093786M, all of them, texas BBQ or some shit>>25093805I'm just being a cunt rn as usual, if people want to have a server and chat as friends that's cool man. I just worry, sweet and birdiy already got doxxed and there's inevitably going to be more drama and flaming. Just make friends IRL guys
>>25093809But then what would I post humorously about?I genuinely can't bring myself to do it though.
>>25093801>the man cannot lead the woman in any capacityThe thing is he gets to keep her. It blows my mind honestly
>>25093749>in skimpy beachwear from 5+ years agoHmm, I'd be 14 or younger in that, so that would be problematic since those pictures wouldn't exist.
>>25093730>I thought you had to be X to keep a girl interested and shit but these guys are all over the place.Every time.Guys have to stop creating illusionary achievements they need in order to get a woman. Meet a girl you like and that likes you. Treat her well. Communicate. That's it.
>>25093807The question asked if I'd allow it "every time I'm in the kitchen". Sometimes I'm in the kitchen to cook.So, no, I wouldn't allow it every time.
>>25093813>the degeneracy. Pizza is traditionally leaning towards cheese bread with sauce. Seek medical attention
>>25093786M, got to go with the classic of pepperoni, but banana peppers are a close second.
>>25093773>Hmm... What?See you next month!
>>25093827what the fuck is wrong with you. you've been screaming liar at people for months
>>25093821Ok but the first step is that a woman has to be attracted to you first
>>25093792Don't be a no fun gf
>>25093817Server was trash and not showing any signs of changing, I only liked maybe 4 people there, and the whole thing made me uncomfortable. I regret not leaving with a bang.
>>25093819People delude themselves into believing they "must" be a good wife and stay with him because "he'll be a wreck without her" (spoiler alert he's a wreck either way), and so the guy stays enabled. The guy I'm thinking about is a massive faggot and it makes me mad he impacted my life at all. But I'll never allow it to happen again.
>>25093831Funny joke, but I must autistically point out that period blood is actually only 36% blood, the rest is miscellaneous discharge including uterine lining and mucus.
>>25093826>traditionallyNigga margarita pizza is the only true pizza I don’t care what you American hillbillies say
>>25093835Ok, I hope you enjoy sneaking up and squeezing my ass when it makes me scream and hit you with a hot frying pan.
>>25093821This so much honestly. I think guys spread this stuff amongst themselves and I used to have a stupid perfectionist mentality thinking I needed to be some buff rich chad (really just my personality was lacking) to get a gf at all, so kept to myself and probably a lot of incels have a similarly perfectionist and defeatist mentality. Now with a hottie and I don't have muscles or money or any of that shit I thought I needed lol
hi again atoga how are youi took a shower and did a little bit of skincare
>>25093844Well yeah, but what kind of backwoods mountaineer gets extra sauce?
>>25093788I like to think that if you are an elder vampire you could like develop a sort of resistance to sunlight and garlic and stuff? Like if you have been around for a thousand years or something. >>25093831GROSS. Lol
>>25093844>margarita pizzaAt least spell it correctly before insulting others, fuckface.You drink margaritas, you eat margherita pizzas.
>>25093837>I regret not leaving with a bang.The link's still up, you could always rejoin and cause a little chaos
>>25093821>Meet a girl you like and that likes you Treat her well. Communicate. That's it.Yea I tried that and just got to fuck her a few times and then she ghosted. Either you're incredibly lucky, you're a girl or you're naive af.Also, every couple I've seen where they're so proud of "communication" it just means the guy is free to say "hey I don't think it's too cash money of you to flirt with other guys in my face perhaps? idk tell me what you think" and the girl is free to scold the guy for hours and play victim bc he looked at the waitress funny.
>>25093843Now I want to drink it even more.
>>25093602>>25093605Why do girls stops their bf from watching porn?My gf forbid me to watch porn, I need to understand why.
>>25093860Nah, that's too much effort at this point. I was there, caught a few pokemon, and was done with it.
>>25093857I’m phone posting nigga half the shit I type out gets auto corrected >>25093855I grew up eating authentic Italian cuisine, your opinion means nothing
>>25093842Do you have daddy issuesI just want a qt bratty girl with that I can guide and be sweet to and spoil like a little niece mayne
>>25093868>why would someone have a problem with their partner getting off to othersNot to mention that plenty of women have been burned by coomer bfs in the past.
>>25093863Nta, but that doesn't sound like communicating. There's also much more to communicating, I am sure there are stages to it similar to grief. You can't just sit there for hours in a mentally or physically unwell state and force the both of you to le communicate.
>any genderSo what's the most pressing problem in your life right now? Mending intense anxiety personally.
>>25093853You're guilting me into doing skincare of my own. Time to break out the lotion.
>>25093863I got effectively pumped and dumped a few times too as a dude but met an amazing girl eventually. I hope you have some success man, you don't have to put out early to keep someone's interest, don't throw in the towel altogether though
>>25093843God that's brutal. Having to do that 12 times a year for ~50 years of your life. i'm surprised the vag isn't just this massive cavern by the end of it all
>>25093853I should be paying attention in class but my brain is poopy because I had an exam right before and it's late.What about you my dude? Skin care is important, I started taking a bit more care of mine after watching American Psycho of all things, kek.>>25093856Hm I see. Then, were I to accept the deal, I'd have to find a way to get a steady supply of blood per month. Probably steal a blood bank with my abilities for the first couple of months, then use my magic to get super rich and make my own blood bank. I'd probably have to make a bunch of thralls for their help, and maybe convince some people to become vampires with me.Yeah i foresee a shadow world government in about ten to twenty years.Although no sunlight is a bit bruh.
>>25093883FMost pressing? I have to piss really bad.
>>25093879>burned by coomer bfsHowI don't see what's wrong with masturbating in relationships
What if you were a guy and hypothetically speaking a girl at gym who is decade younger than you tried to seduce youAsking for a friend
>>25093883M, and probably anxiety too desu. I have so much opportunity and good fortune pushing through the irrational anxiety just sucks and drains so much of my energy and time psyching myself up to do things
>>25093834...which doesn't require illusionary achievements to do
>>25093749that was long before I developed any booba, so I would think it's really weird
>>25093877You missed the part where I was talking about bad men
>>25093886>pumped and dumped a few times too as a dudeYou make that sound like a bad thingIf women whore themselves out why shouldn’t we? Do you really want to be the guy who has fucked less people than your wife?
>>25093895It's what you're masturbating TO that's the issue, retard
>>25093897I'd fuck her. With consent, of course.
>>25093883>Pressing problemUh that would be definetly weak triceps for me. Limits my presses hard.On serious noteI am late twenties kissless virginOther than that in comfy
>>25093853Good for you! Skin care is important. I am going to shower soon I need to exfoliate>>25093883Inability to sleep. Also noise rage.
>>25093902Yea you missed the part where I was asking whether girls with daddy issues flock towards that type of guys
>>25093806Literally the first time I've seen actual evidence of real women in atoga.
>>25093904I mean it's subjective, to me it's bad, or rather meaningless, casual sex is nothing compared to a relationship, maybe I'm just a hopeless romantic, but I wish I hadn't been a wbore
>>25093904Morality isn't a zero sum game. Don't marry a whore or be a manwhore under any circumstances.
>>25093883MMy dad was diagnosed with the early stages of Alzheimer's and the slow decline in his cognitive abilities is utterly terrifying for me. I don't want to lose him.The other day I clicked on this random vid on YouTube which was Seth Rogan in Congress. I thought it was funny and unexpected, but when he began talking about Alzheimer's it hit me out of nowhere and fucked me up a bit.How's that anxiety going mate?
>>25093883my skin is burning
>>25093883MaleI ran out of medication a week ago and I'm too nervous to make a phone call to schedule a refill
>>25093897Is fuck her, with iffy consent
>>25093892You should see how long you can hold it, while gently, you know, having a solo adventureIt increases sensitivity
>>25093892milady, may I be so bold as to offer a solution to that problem? it involves my mouth.
>>25093915>Don't marry a whoreThat is literally impossible
>>25093607First for You Watanabe>>25093610Let him know>>25093631Of course, nothing wrong with that. I think this is a question more so aimed at American women though.>>25093632People are interested in the opposite gender>>25093730I don't want a guy that is easy to anger but a guy who is quite needy and clingy just for me and me alone is cute, a guy who gets overwhelmed by affection>>25093749With confusion because I've never worn that type of shit>>25093783Looks fine to me>>25093786Me topping a cute boyOh pizza uhhhhhh pizza hmmmm fuck>>25093816Ask him if he's okay>>25093868Because I get fucking jealousThere must be something wrong with his attraction to me if my nudes and our sex isn't enough for him that he has to stare at other nude womenI want a cute yandere boy only, don't care what anyone else says, all other men lack in comparison
>>25093904>fucked less people than your wife?I would be proud of her being my only and am ashamed of fucking around, though it was meaningless
If a girl won’t do something sexual for you that she has done in the past it means she doesn’t actually like you and the relationship is over right?
>>25093916I'm so sorry about your dad, he's lucky to have you and the rest of your family to provide care. Do the best you can, it's a reality that others have gone through too but you still have your father and he's alive alongside you.And in terms of the anxiety I had a horrible time at school, small group of friends but could never fit in even with them and was mocked for being the quiet kid. A lot of built up trauma, slowly climbing out of it.
Why do women just make me want to kill myself I can't help but just relate them to negative emotions It's all I've experienced
I want a chippie whose confident in her sexuality, you know what i mean? Like, me and the bruvs can joke about how we're getting some bangers and mash here and there and how big Arnie's cock is and this and that. I wanna bird that can laugh about it too you know? Not a girl that's all coy and shy about it.
>>25093897I'd rather you just flirted and asked me out instead of jumping right to seduction.
>>25093934No retard, we've been through this, people realise through experience and overtime what they're cool and not cool with doing
>>25093883MI'm touch starved and frustrated i'm a virgin. These thoughts are consuming my mind to the point of suicide.
>>25093934Depends on what those things areMaybe she tried them and found out she didn't like doing them and doesn't want to do them again
>>25093934yes and other reply is seethe and copeshe doesn't care about you
>>25093883Idk if I should make mudslides or just keep drinking something less fattening like straight vodka.
>>25093941oi bruv chippie girls are an unpredictable thing youdunknow she could be blowing the likkle manager round the back while you're waiting for your mushy peas ahh dodge a slag smoke a fag
>>25093884it's just like last thread and lip balmtime is a flat circle>>25093890focusing is hard sometimes, you'll make iti was getting ready for bed but i got hungry so now im in search of snacks to quickly get it over withyeah i generally try to keep my hygiene up, im definitely not the cleanest person in the world but im not too bad yet lol>>25093910have a nice shower anon!
Girls, what would you say to turn on your bf? Guys, what would you like your gf to say to get you in the mood?
>>25093883FemaleI have a raid in WoW tonight and everyone but me is so fucking bad that we're not going to make any progress at all
>>25093661there is discord for this? how is it?
>>25093968>Girls, what would you say to turn on your bf?I'd whisper the current price of bitcoin into his ear
>>25093961Very. Funs over though.
>>25093973It's containment for the absolute worst namefags and attention whores. Half of them are banned.
>>25093971This is why I haven’t raided since night hold. I just get my AOTC mount and fuck off for 2 yearsWhat’s your prog?
>>25093968I'd just tell him the truth of how I'm feeling being around him. The same from him would also turn me on, the more graphic the better.
>>25093939I'd ask the same thing, but about men
>>25093975based if true>>25093980based if true>>25093968I don't know I have never been loved
>>25093968>Guys, what would you like your gf to say to get you in the mood?I love you and it’s not your fault
>>25093979Currently 5/9H in the current raidI just don't know if I can take another night of wiping on the same boss... might unsub until 9.2, whenever the hell that might beNighthold was the last raid I enjoyed, really
>>25093935Aye, it's about making the most of the time we have left, and being there for anything I can help with, but currently I'm the only one of my siblings here and all my other responsibilities keep piling up. And I think the world is playing a bit of a prankz on me cause first the Seth Rogen vid and then Still Alice was playing on the tv in my gym. But eh, keep moving forward. I'm usually not this concerned about it but I'm tired cause I had a long day kek.Hey mate keep that up. Really respectable that you're working on your anxiety, don't let the misfortunes of your life define who you are now. Are you doing therapy or something to work on it?>>25093965Aye ayeWhat's a good pre-bedtime snack? I never know what to get at those times.I've also been shaving more often recently, which is pretty nice. And coupled with moisturizing hopefully my skin will remain clear. Although stress tends to give me zits, which sucks.
>>25093971Women play WoW? I assume you're a healer?
either gender,have you ever been pumped and dumped?
>>25093912wait, what was it??
>>25093911Well then you're probably right. You can't be balanced and stay with someone like thatAlso checked
>>25093968>Guys, what would you like your gf to say to get you in the mood?Nothing. Take my hand, put it on your ass, let me feel that thong.
What if I don't want to have a wife and kids?Is it wrong to be single in life?
>>25093999No, it's not wrong. And Yume Nikki is based.
>>25093992MYes, she took my virginity and ghosted me after
>>25093989>Currently 5/9H in the current raidHeroic????? Jesus Christ I would lose my mind doing heroic progress after a month let alone only half way done. Why don’t you just find a new guild? I quit in February but I’ll prob be back for legion time walking and mage tower
>>25093990hard question, i usually just grab a couple of fruits or something lighti dont actually pay much attention to my diet, which i should; not that it's a big problem, my metabolism is fine enough so i look just ok no matter how much i eatohh yeah those suck, i still sometimes get them but they go away quicklymy skin has always been pretty good so im lucky in that regard
>>25093973Pretty comfy. Especially since c*** left.
>>25093625Society made us mentally ill and most of us go full crazy one way or the other. Just play the game and hope you find your particular brand of crazy.
>>25093968>Guys, what would you like your gf to say to get you in the mood?Oi mate, fancy a shag?
>>25093991Har har. Right now I'm maining Prot Warrior.>>25094003My realm is nearly dead and I'm >Alliance so there's really not much choice. At this point, I might as well just reroll Horde on a full server.I'm hyped for mage tower too, should be fun.
>>25094011Velvet did you use to play wow?
>>25094014>My realm is nearly dead and I'm >AllianceAre you EU? Luckily for me I’m on one of the largest alliance realms in NA and I can also play with Aussies and they all play alliance Take all the main tank loot and gquit EZ
>>25094007Ah fruits are pretty nice.I've started watching my diet more since I began going to the gym regularly; mainly decreasing my saturated fats intake and upping my unsaturated fats and protein. I also have a pretty good metabolism but I'm thinking a bit more long term.My skin fluctuates. Again, it's the stress that fucks me up, so when times are chill I'm alright. Although when stress hits it's not that bad, I'm just comparing.
>>25093968>Guys, what would you like your gf to say to get you in the mood?>>25093938
>>25093968>Guys, what would you like your gf to say to get you in the mood?"Give me sex"Yes
>>25094001Heh, I went no contact with a guy before. Different from ghosting. Probably because of the relentless conversational conflict that put me in a perpetual state of distress, even though I asked him to stop.
>>25093968>Guys, what would you like your gf to say to get you in the mood?Sneed
>>25093968Something that makes me feel desired or something dirty>take me away>i want you now>you make me feel so good>breed me, daddy>let me fuck you tonightbut i also don't have a girlfriend
>>25094013Fuck's sake lmao
>>25093992FemaleNo>>25093999No, trips confirm>>25094000Agreed, trips confirm again!
>>25094030No, I'm NA too.>Take all the main tank loot and gquit EZI'm honestly on the verge of doing just that.
>>25094085Com un luv, shake out the ol' willy nilly
>>25093999Not wrong at all imo, live how you see fit. Was completely my plan too until I incidentally met a girl I hit it off with. If it doesn't work out with her though I'll probably be back in your shoes.
>>25094031exercise is nice but i've never been quite the active person, i do it to stay more or less fit thoughmaybe in the future i'll pick something new up, like a martial artyeah stress is usually the number one culprit for all kinds of skin problems, i get those too from time to timeate a couple of snacks and now finally ready to sleep so im gonna go, good night
>>25094083Feel desired? It's a given that women are going to desire me, every woman. Period. What's important is how enthusiastic she is to receive the immense pleasure of being fucked by me. I'm not into playing games, if she's not honest that she wants me to fuck her it's over.
>>25094093*pop bubblegum* H-heyyy
Are girls who use cannabis products unattractive?
>>25094090oi nahh come off it ya cheeky cunt needta get back to me mam can't be avin this on a fackin wednesday morn bevvy just get fucked laddy(Irl I unironically just ordered a chicken burger n chippy from local shop)
>>25094092I exercise, not only because of the obvious benefits, but also because it slows down neural degradation, and that's very appealing to me.Martial arts are pretty based. Never really got into them, but they are quite nice.Have a nice rest my dude, I'll see you around~
>>25094013remember when wilbur was kind of a funny guy and not a weird ass fake progressive child grooming "artist"
>>25094088Do it, dubs commands itAlso do you like protein warrior? I can’t stand it since they added ignore pain, just feels completely different
>>25094098No, my gf had a weed phase but now only does it recreational with friends cause she felt it killed her ambition, but idc what people do so long as they're sensible about it and it's not negatively affecting their life
>>25094098Smoking anything is unattractive because>it makes you smell like shit>it ages you fast as fuck>bitch it doesn't make you look cool, get realUsing drugs is always attractive. Drugs are fun. Girls who refuse to use any type of drugs are boring as fuck, but once you get them on drugs they can be fun.
What's a good dating app where interactions are pretty good? I'm an average looking guy and I do pretty good for myself in real life. But I fail harddd at dating apps. I think its mainly because I have tried the super popular ones like tinder, bumble, etc. Where there's a whole octoberfest level sausage party. Any apps out there that women use where they don't get flooded with likes?
>>25094104Oi bruv don't talk like that about me mum, I'll deck yaKek nice late night snack my dude. Enjoy it mate>>25094107I don't know about any child or any grooming, but I think Lovejoy has some nice bangers.Although I don't care much for Wilbur other than that.
>>25094110>protein warriorkekWell this is the first time I've played it, so I don't know how it used to be. I actually like Ignore Pain since I like the feel of absorbing damage. Fury is a ton of fun too, so Warrior might be my new favorite class.
>>25093994Cute lips and cute words from lips
>>25094115You sound like you have a solid stick up your ass. I bet the sex you have (assuming you have any bro) is boring as fuck. Oh noooo drugs are bad! Yeah, fuck right off. I can smell the pussies drying up in a mile radius of your basement.
>>25093992M, sort of but it was my own doing really being a stupid manwhore and struggling with dating so I thought maybe I could hook someone if the sex was good. But now I'm past that and realise it's not the answer
>>25093651I could find so many simps.>>25093661Not deleted.>>25093762no>>25093968Take off your clothes, now.
I just got a strong sense of deja vu, like I've read all these exact same posts before, in the same order.Are you people messing with me?
>>25093651>But you must drink blood at least monthly or your thirst will overcome you.I already have to do that. Where is the downside?
>>25094137First time getting glowed on, I see.
>>25094129Eh, we both fucked around a bit in the past and are not proud of it but also don't think its a big deal
this guy posting gigachad is so fucking embarrassing Bet you he'll respond with a gigachad image
>>25094132You literally said smoking is bad in your previous post wtf are you talking about?????
>>25094123oi ye mam's orright so come off it prick, 1v1 ya down the pub on pool I'll fuckin bash ya(Yeah thanks lol I hope it arrives soon I'm pretty hyped)
AnyoneI don't really text or use social media. Is it normal for people who know each other in real life to just randomly text one another for fun?
>>25094098Very. Potheads are scum.
>>25094149Yes it's pretty normal, some are chattier than others and texting is a convenient medium, gf would text me a lot til we spent more time irl (though we still do)
>>25094146I don't smoke. I either eat drugs, snort them, or inject them. Nothing wrong with a little bit of heroin or meth injected recreationally bro, or a little snort of coke every now and then. Smoking is for losers.
>>25094098Anyone who abuses mind altering substances more than VERY occasionally is automatically a dropkick who's not worth my time.A glass of wine with dinner? Cool. A bottle of wine on a Tuesday because you're lonely? Not cool. That goes triple for weed, and if you ever smell of it then we're done.
>>25094151I agree. Cocaine and heroin are the gentleman's choice of drugs. Marijuana is okay in moderation, but it's just not that great.
>>25094148Aye bruv lemme show ya why they call me the ol' 8 ball Captn down in this hole(Ey nicee. I finally got started with your piano piece, I'll probably work more on it tomorrow. This and one more and the jazz cumpilation will be finished)
>>25094163I thought this might be lyd haha, I'll check in to see what you make of it x
Girls be honest, what do you think of my raging foot fetish?
>>25094167Who cares what girls think about it? Once you're fucking a bitch she'll do whatever the fuck you want. Stop caring what girls think, it's going to make their pussies dry.
I'm 28 and a guy, and at this point in my life I'm not that keen on a relationship. Is it really all downhill from here? Is dating outside of your 20s as bad as everyone says it is?
>>25093968>I've been holding it all day
>>25094166Ye mate, I'll let you know once I'm done with it. Working on this took me way longer than I expected kek
>>25094170But I want to be wanted, and not seen as a weirdo.
>>25094167It makes my job easier, since I can make you happy just by taking off my shoes.
>>25094098It's only unattractive if they're obsessed with it. Same thing with girls who love alcohol/breweries.
>>25093602>watching sappy anime>character was lonely all her life>while she's lonely her little brother says some shit like "One day you'll find someone who cherishes you more than anyone else in this world">was one of those lines where it was half said to the character and half said to the audienceI don't get why it's legal to spread such blatant lies like that, it's just cruel
>>25094098I hate addicts of any kind.
>>25094171It’s not worse, just different, because people are less stupid after leaving college
>>25094177>I want to be wantedOkay you need to work on this before you even consider the idea of interacting with women in any kind of setting where you're trying to get sex. There's nothing that makes a girl's pussy drier than this way of thinking. She wants to be wanted by YOU, she doesn't want to be your mommy, she wants you to be her daddy. First step, man the fuck up son!
>>25094178TRANNY DETECTED! TRANNY DETECTED!TRANNY DETECTED!
>>25094167Based. I ask you to massage my feet, you enjoy it, what a win-win. Makes you easier to please since it takes no effort for me to take my socks/shoes off and dangle them in front of you like a bone to a dog. Also means you're more likely to be submissive.
>>25094171Unfortunately yes. You can go after younger girls but be ready for lots of daddy issues.
You know, my quality of life actually decreased when the fucking futafags abandoned their eastern art only thing and started shitting up /aco/It was so damn good beforeThey're so obnoxiousI'm just so tired of trannies and the disgusting people who obsess about them
>>25094196>more likely to be submissiveBut I have a foot fetish and I'm a sadistic sex freak. I want to take a straight razor to your feet and draw lines in them.
>>25094202Then it's cringe Vanilla is king
>>25094199Two different posters broI guarantee you, you cannot tell which posts are mine unless you're jannyMy posting style is way too schizophrenic and randomBitch!
>>25094190>man the fuck up and be in charge by forgetting about what you want and being whatever milady wishes!Keep on hearing this from all sides just said in different ways. I think I will work out and play videogames instead.
>>25094191Because I like making my boyfriend happy…?>>25094196kek, this is what I was thinking, but I decided to be nicer.
>>25094205Cringe posters*>>25094207Based poster
Why are there so many girls larping as dominant in these threads I know you bitches are fucking lying and just want to be choked
>>25094167I’m not really sure what it involves, but I’m not immediately disgusted. I would sit down and ask you for details, and if I can do anything that you’d really like. I consider it pretty vanilla.
>>25094207I'm not saying forget about what you want. I'm saying stop wanting something that's pathetic. I get it, mommy didn't give you snuggles, oh so sad. You want someone to be your mommy? Just go gay, get a daddy, faggot.
I hope she just likes me and nobody else.
>>25094215>I know you bitches are fucking lying and just want to be chokedYou dropped this, king.
>>25094215The same reason so many men are larping as alpha tough guys, probably
>>25094223>You dropped this, king.Don't fucking talk to me you embarrassing fuck I'm saying it as a bad thing>>25094224So these women are losers?
To women that have posted sexy pics on /soc/: What kind of pics did you post (bare tits, bare ass, wearing panties, wearing leg wear, etc.) and did you enjoy the experience? Also, did you give contact info or was it more of a one-time, anonymous thing?
>>25094231>Don't fucking talk to me you embarrassing fuck I'm saying it as a bad thingOh, it's the local incel. I forget what your name is, penguin dude? I would feel pity for you, but you're not worth it. Just go gay.
>>25094215Choke me daddy
For the first time I actually have a match on tinder who is talking to me. She's really into zodiac signs and that sort of thing. I don't know anything about it, but I've been asking her about it and it's been going alright. The conversation is starting to die though, because I really don't know what to talk about . Help!!!
>>25094218Shut up you trashy incestnigger, love is based
Me: Male, possibly autistic but too lazy to go for a diagnosis. Love staying up late, reading Lord Dunsany and Shakespeare, living in a fantasy world and walking 10-12 hours through nature. Love small/1-on-1 interactions, hate and fear crowds. Make cocktails on weekends. So do I have a chance of meeting a femanon?
>>25094235you've already gone gay with all the muscular men you keep posting>>25094236No
>>25094237Change subjects. Ask her about her totem animal, I'm sure she likes that too. Tell her which one is yours, it depends on your month of birth.
>>25094238Too bad you'll never be loved. What kind of pathetic woman could love you? I doubt your own mother loves you. At the most people might feel a vague sense of empathy for you, "oh this guy is so pathetic, i feel bad for him", but love? Get real, read your posts. Fucking hell.
>>25094171I don't think so desu, you'll have some catching up to do but you're still in your 20s, no reason you can't date a few years younger if you want and find a nice girl>>25094182Eh, it's just encouragement but anime is wishful thinking. But honestly you never know and just changing up your situation can help a lot. Sometimes people do find someone when they least expect it
>>25094246would you like me to choke you instead?
>>25094237"I'm also interested in the Zodiac, he's way cooler than Ted Bundy since he never got caught. Who's your favorite serial killer?"
>>25094248Read yours, seriously.If you're not just shitposting, read yours and get your shit sorted.
>>25094239Sure, have you seen Love on the Spectrum?
>>25094167I think you should pay me to care.
>>25094215I dunno why it's so hard to believe some girls do lean/switch more dominant, or are less keen on more dominant guys. Yeah it's a minority but they exist, my gf is the more dominant one.A lot of people ITT and just online in general think of things in too black and white terms desu. Y'all need to chill and accept people aren't a hivemind and have very nuanced tastes and interests.
>>25094249Well since I don't expect to ever find someone so I guess it's in the bag
>>25094255Yeah, uh okay. Sure thing pal. But here's the thing. I don't have any issues, I'm not bitching about my life being oh so horrible, or women being horrible, or whatever the fuck your incel ass is trying to say. I don't have any problems getting sex, don't have problems with relationships. I don't have any dissatisfaction at all. I like myself, fuck it, I LOVE myself. And people I interact with irl love me. You can't say the same. All you can do is go online and complain. Me, I'm here high as fuck and shitposting cause I can barely move so it's hard to do much else.
>>25094215Because 4chan is domspace and CC is subspace.
>>25094258Sorry, I'm a poorfag.
>>25094215because we can say our secret inner thoughts here that would scare off boys irl
>>25094271$200 a day, and I will shut up.
>>25094234I just posted feet pics since I was too shy to do anything actually lewd… and to my surprise, they were pretty well received. I even bought fishnets to wear. All anonymous of course.Now the only feet threads you see on /soc/ are femboy ones. I have no idea what changed.
>>25094262I honestly find it hard to believe ANYONE prefers to be dominantLike I see zero appeal in it. You're going to tell me there's people out there who'd rather be on the top doing ALL the work? Like they actually prefer going animalistic on their lover as opposed to their lover doing it to them? There's people who'd be the wanter rather than the wanted?
>>25094263I didn't either, I genuinely thought I'd become a reclusive khv wizard, but things just happened especially when I moved away from home. Maybe it was fluke and I was just lucky, idk. You can take steps to change your situation, but even if you don't, just don't write things off entirely man, that's all. Be open to whatever the future holds.
>>25094274What's this button right here. Oh yeah, it's the filter button. Bye!
>>25094234posted ass a few times, got a few panties from my Amazon wishlist and wore those for pics, before that practice was cracked down onI would never post contact info bc why would I want to talk to these people?
>>25094282>not wanting to use girls as living sex toys and just do whatever the fuck you want to them, whenever you want, any way you want itStart testosterone injections right now.
>>25094283Yeah I'll try to go out and be social, maybe even get a girlfriend but I don't think I'll find someone actually special or anything
>>25094247Ok but I don't really know anything about that either, so I wouldn't be able to talk about it that much. Idk how guys do this
>>25094278You're a femboy, so not much changed evidently.
>>25094284Lolz what a bum
femanons, help me out on this one>Be me>Move to a city thousands of miles away from home>I don't know anybody here except one person>She's the best friend of my best friend's wife (with whom I'm also good friends) >I'd only met her twice prior to moving to the city>She invites me to crash on her couch until I can find a place of my own.>It's pretty simple, I try to stay out of her way mostly, she works from home atm because of COVID, hang out a few times though. >Fast forward>Couple of weeks out I'm all moved in to my own place and we hang out again, I show her the new place.>We had sexIt seemed to go very well, we still haven't discussed it. She just left this morning and we said our goodbyes and we'd like to hang out again and stuff. I just want to know like... What do I do now? What's an appropriate amount of time to call after this? And should I bring it up that it was a good time or nah?Normally this wouldn't be an issue, but she's also the closest thing I have to a friend in this whole city. I'd like to express that whether she wants to do that again or it was a one off is cool either way with me, but regardless I hope we can still just hang out too. I'm basically just confused about, when to call and what impression I'd give off.
>>25094287>not wanting to be so sexy that your woman just can't keep herself off of you and pushes you down on the bed and straddle fucks you I think you're the one with the loose screw anon
>>25094286What kind of panties?
>>25094292>>25094293No and no. I never got any kind of nickname and I didn’t care for one. It was just for ez confidence boosts honestly.
>>25094282You're a dumbass who's gotten it all wrongThe subs appeal to the doms. The doms are the ones who get spoilt.
>>25094297>not wanting to be so sexy that your woman just can't keep herself off of you and pushes you down on the bed and straddle fucks youOf course that's fun sometimes, but all the time? If you want to get fucked, get a man.
>>25094266maybe you are only paying attention to the doms around these parts~>>25094271there is nothing new under the sun>>25094237work together to manifest something>>25094219probably she has for like a twenty minute block of timemaybe a couple hours if you made her cum>>25094205this is me btw but jokerposting is not always me>>25094159yeah whatever
>>25094282I mean, it's still a 2-way street, I still put in effort, do work and take a more dominant role sometimes, I'm very protective of her, but overall she likes to be more in control and drive things and decide what to do etc. It's good to have some balance and evenness and for either person to be able to step up to the plate, but just depends on the individuals' personalities.
Not a horny post do bi girls / lesbians get turned on touching their own boob
>>25094262When did SJWs start doing the "y'all" thing to try and "blend in with the hicks"
>>25094305The boob itself? No. The nipples? Sure, some girls have really sensitive nipples. It's like the shaft of your dick, it feels like nothing compared to the head.
>>25094286>/soc/ used to allow wishlistswtf, I missed out on a gold rush
>>25094306y'all slang rubbed off damnit
>>25094306y'all is southernamerican ebonics is southernwoke culture gently appropriates ebonics to be inclusive
>>25094298real nice purple frilly ones. expensive ones. I was so shocked that anonymous people on the internet would buy me stuff. I think it changed the course of my life honestly. now I stream on Twitch with a new wishlist, lol. and no I’m not linking it here.>>25094311you really did, sister or brother. a coomer is easily parted from his money.
>>25094306y'all has been used by the negronic community in rap since at least the 80's, rap is popularbeing used by whiteys is purely coincidental, americans have a negro fetish
To those that have had sex with people they met on 4chan: How did it happen and what was it like?
>>25094305Nah, the boob is just non-sensitive fat, and touching the nipple is just part of regular masturbation that any girl can do, dyke or not. We just picture different things while doing it.
I’m fucked in the head. This is not acceptable behavior but I do t know how to change itI was playing video games with someone I’m really digging, we play a lot, but she had randomly invited someone to watch, which shouldn’t be a big deal but it was like this weird shock of“Oh this person is popular and I’m just another drop in the bucket”And,”oh they don’t give this their full attention like it do” and it really bummed me out for some reasonHow am I supposed to handle having such high maintenance issues. I don’t want to be like thisI also know they’re not interested so it seems like a waste of both of our time for me to be their friend
>>25094329coins of baggy milk
>>25094329Nobody with any standards would have sex with any of the absolute human garbage on this site. They're all pathetic disgusting people. They're so disgusting I wouldn't even want to kill them, I'd have to get close to them.
>>25094332What do you mean?
>>25094331Don’t know how to change it*
I’m currently fighting off the urge to masturbate cause I wanted to challenge myself but I feel it taking over meWhat do I do lol
>>25094333The question was for people that had done this, not if you would.
>>25094333like every girl here would fuck me if i accidentally looked at them for more than three seconds
>>25094336Meditate, read, go to sleep.
>>25094331Sounds like perfectly normal jealousy, nobody likes being so casually pushed out of the spotlight like that. If you think it’s a waste of time, then it’s a waste of time.
>>25094262Because dom girls are so rare they might as well not exist. And most switches are subs 90% of the time. Good on ya for bagging a unicorn but understand the reality.
>>25094322one: you’re a sluttwo: nice hustle
>>25094341I wouldn't even take off my sunglasses to make eye contact with the types of trash women who use this board. Maybe some of the girls on /a/ or /co/ (the young ones).
>>25094331Anon I honestly don't think you're mentally ill for this. I would feel the same way. I'm sorry.
>>25094336Take a cold showerPunch yourself in the dick (assuming you’re male)
>>25094333You want to fuck me so bad
>>25094364You're projecting. Have fun being alone another night, you're getting none of this.
>>25094336If you don't, I will.
>>25094366You want me so bad
how many dates or amount of time should it take for me to ask her to be my gf?
>>25094373Why are women like this? Whenever they want me to fuck them they project and say I want to fuck them. Get a grip.
>avatarfag as a pedophile
>>25094352True, guess I am lucky, she sometimes bemoans how all her friends get wet for more dominant guys and she just doesn't see the appeal. I can't think it's thaat rare though on a spectrum, and am a bit of a switch myself; you might enjoy the whole dominant thing if you get more into it with the right person in practice, idk. best of luck anon
FemalesHow touchy should i get? I had never kissed anyone before but this girl even encouraged me touch her butt and breastsI feel like i might be disrespectful if i get too touchy but i also don't want to act too autistically
>>25093440Thank You, Mr. SI won't flatter myself, but I appreciate it.I will say, I am not sure why you have taken the time to try and guide me, but it's not wasted.
I have a question for whoever wants to helpSo this guy ive been seeing was asking me about a bit of my mental health struggles ive had and asked if I would talk to his little sister who is having a pretty hard time and try to give her some advice or something. I was touched he asked and I agreed to because I would really like to help her but I now realized I have no valuable advice to give since im not even the best at managing my own mental health and I feel like no young teenager is going to listen to any mental health advice I try to give her anyways. Idk what to do here should I still go over and try to help her a little or tell this guy I dont think I can now?
>>25094391Niggato cum ay duh
>>25094391Please don’t post my boyfriend here
To women: Post your age, sexual orientation, race, nationality, your favorite ice cream, your favorite sexual position, and your favorite country.
>>25094377All these (you)s yet he claims he doesn't want me
>>25094357damn you stone cold for thatpost quality so high can't even hate
Some people make up stories here about relationships and wild sex and breakups and how they were treated badlyFor me it's making up stories about how I met a pretty woman and got nervous and didn't know how to act.In reality I rarely go anywhere and treat everyone around me with a shallow display of friendliness or complete apathy if I can get away with not interacting with them.I like to LARP as someone nervous around women because it would mean I could still feel something from meeting them.
>>25094403If you could justify why you're asking, sure.
>>25094443I chuckled. Also, nice trips.
Asking other FHow do you feel when you can tell a guy is nervous talking to you?
>>25094444want to knowalso last 4 of your social plsgets me in the mood
M here. Asking women. Is it okay to feel jealousy or resentment that women seem to find it easier to get laid or find relationships even when they're either incredibly average-looking or even a little ugly? Shit feels much harder to do as a man for me, even as someone who's pretty decent-looking.
>>25094403Want to know my mother’s maiden name and my first car’s model, too?
>>25094357All women are trash.
>>25093968Lewd. Maybe lift my dress and little. And say like "Wow honey you had a really rough day. Would being rough with me make it better?">>25094403Ageless omnisexual vampiric global shadow-ruler. Vanilla ice cream please
>>25094444I wanted to ask a bunch of random, unrelated questions to force people to think about different things at the same time. Just curious as to what they’d come up with.
>>25094387Okay so not a girl but here's the scoop: on average, it will be your job as the dude to keep things moving forward. This girl did you a huge favour by indicating she wanted more, and it's a hint you need to take.The answer to "how touchy" is not finite. You touch until she backs down or until you don't want to go any further.This is done primarily by feeling your way through the dark carefully, telegraphing your intent, and giving her the chance to slow you down or stop you.So, for example, you're making out. You want to touch her ass. Put your hands on her waist and linger there, run them slowly across her body and head towards her ass cheeks. It should take you 3-5 seconds to get between waist and ass so she has enough warning to stop you.You want to feel her tits. Start at the waist again, lift her shirt slightly as you slide your hand up her body towards the tits, pause before you touch them properly, casually stroking a thumb across the underboob before going the whole 9 years.You want her to take her pants/shirt/socks off. Begin to fiddle with her pants or shirt hem around the waist. If shirt, lift slowly and gently. She'll either lean back and put her arms up so you can take it off or she'll stop you. Same goes for pants. Put your hands on her waist, use your fingers to make gently explorations into the waistband, then begin to fiddle with whatever button or ties or zip is holding them on, if she doesn't object, unbutton/zip/tie. Slide your hands around a bit more, explore further, gently begin to pull her pants down (leaving the underwear in tact).It goes on like that, escalating until you're ready to stop or she is.
>>25094459Not really. Those questions aren’t weird enough.
>>25094451I think that is a little bit charming. And I want to make him more relaxed but that is probably not something I can do. >>25094456It is okay to feel those things and yes we do have more social power in that way. But both sexes have unique advantages and disadvantages. Do not curse your strength and presence and manhood. Because many women would enjoy to have those things.
>>25094456It's easy to feel resentful yeah, but that's a reactive emotion. Logically, there's no good reason. If you were a woman, you'd probably also find plenty of downsides you didn't have being a man.
>>25094456Yes, I think it’s okay. Your reading of the situation is correct, and that’s just how society has ended up. Just don’t let it consume you and shoot up a women’s yoga class or something.
>>25094461Yeah, I'm not interested in women. I love girls though.
>>25094305Sort of. I turn my self on in the mirror sometimes. Especially if I have just gotten out of the shower and something about my look just hits me the right way. That is probably some extreme vanity.>>25094167I think it is funny.
>>25094481I... don't know what that means. You a pedo? Kys preemptively.
What does it mean when the quite girl keeps talking to me? I never talk about myself and keep myself to myself.
Girls is this legit I just do whatever until you say no more? >>25094465
>>25094481are you also traumatized by what happened to chloe moretzi was expecting my generation's jennifer anniston
>>25094451I either think it's cute or I get worriedCute because it may mean he cares what I think of him, worried because it may mean he'll ghost me
>>25094456You're asking if it's "okay". What does that mean to you? Nobody can tell you what you can or can't feel.Am I going to sit here and validate your feelings? No. But you're perfectly within your rights to feel as you do.
>>25094472>>25094476I'm not really sure what I have that women don't when I'm not a "high-status man". Maybe not having to be concerned about being sexually harassed and assaulted all the time? Even then, I do get afraid sometimes whenever I walk around anywhere at night alone. >>25094478Just so long as I'm validated and people act like I don't know what I'm talking about.Also forgot, this also includes women who are naturally very shy and quiet too. As a someone who used to be a very shy, quiet dude, I wasn't exactly getting any pussy back then. Still not even now when I'm much more outgoing, confident, and comfortable in my skin when meeting people.
>>25094478I imagine someone has actually "shot up" a woman's yoga class before but not in the way you're thinkingSeems like a prime target for coom and dash criminals
>>25094456It's understandable, but what's the point?I understand not everyone can be pragmatic all the time but it's worthless to think on this too much
>>25094442I used to LARP a lot too and be a reclusive doomer until I actually met an amazing girlFunny and ironic how that shit worksI want to be the best guy for her and kick my bad habits, I don't want to fuck it up
>>25094489Sometimes questions men ask here are too generalised. It depends on the woman you're with you dingus.
>>25094489The other anon is mostly right. That being said, you also don't want to jump over several steps-- for example, don't just randomly grab a girl's boob while you're hanging out and talking (even if you're sitting next to each other). That's something you do while in the act of escalating intimacy (see: kissing). If it comes out of nowhere, she's liable to push you off and leave (as I've done before).And if she says no, respect it. The bonus is that if you respect it, she's a lot more likely to want to go further with you later, because you've shown you respect her no.
>valid validated you're so valid validate my emotions xdFuck Tumblr for infecting every retard with this credit card armchair psychiatry babysitting bullshit in place of discussing things like adults
>>25094500I bet she approached you, though.
>>25094502The whole scenario is you're making out. I would never advocate just randomly grabbing her tits while you're sitting there.
>>25094507they say things like that so you will expose your weaknesses to prey uponsnakes talk like that
>>25094494>Maybe not having to be concerned about being sexually harassed and assaulted all the time?I mean that's not a small thing. If someone decides to attack you and you don't have a man to help you, you're basically fucked.
>>25094511I mean yeah, she did, though I still tried to put in as much effort as I could when we were talking and hanging out. I still don't really understand it though and what the hell she sees in me but I want to make the most of the opportunity and be the best I can for her
>>25094512what if you are sitting next to her showing her some bauble and the side of your arm drifts across some side boob
>>25094521>I mean that's not a small thing. If someone decides to attack you and you don't have a man to help you, you're basically fucked.I'm basically fucked if someone decides to attack me. lolI'm short and not exactly Chad, nor do I carry any weapons on me.
>>25094488Maybe she recognizes you as a fellow quiet person, so ironically, you’re easier to talk to
>>25094524Learn to punch. Unless someone has a projectile weapon you'll probably be alright in a fight.t. 5'7 manlet with scoliosis
>>25094489Very generally, yes. That’s a good post. You don’t have to verbally ask for consent, since that just kills the mood, but go slow and give her plenty of time to react. If she says no, stop. If she says nothing, keep going.
>>25094522That sounds nice, but I have wanted to kill myself every day for the last decade and the only way I survived was by continual mild overeating until I have now become obese but still have to run a small calorie surplus daily unless it's a day I don't have to go to work or go anywhere so I can just suffer in the dark.So it won't happen to me because no one in their right minds wants to approach and start a relationship with an avoidant fatass who has to fake facial expressions to cover a thousand yard stare.It is a nice story though and I'm happy for you.
>>25094507My inept ass parents always invalidated my emotions, were often unfair and made me feel inadequate. Now that I'm an adult I have internalized mountains upon mountains of impotent rage, and though I try and try to control myself, it's so intense that I lash out, sometimes overreacting and hurting people. I'm kind of an ugly person because of that.
>>25094507Which word would you prefer?The word is used a lot because it’s useful.
Anyone else think bananas are gross?
>>25094524Bitch, you have testosterone. You can still fight. That will deter most assholes, except yeah, someone with a weapon.
>>25094538>invalidated inept internalized impotent le le le le le le le le le le le sense of selfWork, exercise, and maintain hobbies.Hobbies like reading so you have actual things to think about rather than ruminating on your childhood hurt feelings.>>25094540The word is used incessantly because hs/college girls are easily indoctrinated and never shut up.
>>25094543I agree. They get soft after like three minutes of using them, and by that point they're not even worth making into a spread for bread.
>>25094507Yeah being an adult means we don't examine our feelings nor gain any self-awareness/insight about ourselves. Being an adult means we have to be stupid and unhappy.
>>25094538samebut>impotent rage, and though I try and try to control myself, it's so intense that I lash out, sometimes overreacting and hurting peopleyour emotions are still not validembrace this core divorce of your self from your emotions and find a freedom few have the capability to enjoy
>>25094523Yeah, I had a guy try that on the first day of meeting. Did not go well. Do not recommend with a girl who isn't down to fuck immediately.
>>25094543They are when not at the right ripeness. I'm partially colorblind and somewhat impatient so I get an underripe banana sometimes. They're just awful when too far gone. I hate how they get mushy spots. Every other bunch brings fucking fruit flies into my apartment I guess the eggs must be laid in the overly thick skins. Peanut butter doesn't even spread on them that much better than on apples (so terribly on both). They're not even the tastiest variety, because those went extinct or near enough due to banana AIDS. Hell, that potassium marketing tactic is irrelevant because potatoes have 5x as much potassium in them.A perfectly ripe banana is still just too good to pass up, though.
>>25094543would rather not be seen eating onehate banana stringshate black spotsgood smoothie filler though>>25094530why wouldn't you carry a weapon?>>25094556talking about solutions really does feel more mature than talking about emotions
>>25094556>Being an adult means we have to be stupid and unhappy.This is exactly what this shit does to you, though. You learn fucking nothing and spend all your time questioning if you should be offended or are being treated with the respect you deserve and all of this retarded narcissistic bullshit. While still having inferiority complexes you never correctly address.I think about my emotions all the time. When I identify the root causes of those that seem out of place, I improve myself so I no longer feel that way, rather than demanding the world at large "validate" me.Because I am not a fucking narcissist and the world is not my personal fucking asylum.
>>25094561how close were you sittingif your legs were touching you deserved it don't be such a tease
>>25094551>childhood hurt feelings.I'm almost 30 and I still deal with this often, my family is a catastrophe in general. Other than that, I've tried these things in the past, they can be good, it's just been awful since the pandemic started.
>>25094570It's illegal to carry anything that the authorities deem as being weapon-like in my country. Now a bloke that got done for having a fork in his glove box.
>>25094581My family was a source of constant pain for me, then the third of it I liked died all within a few years of each other, one without any warning just out of the blue.Oh well.The pandemic didn't affect my mood or "mental health" at all because I am already aware of things much worse than it, and I actually care about things that don't personally affect me, as part of that whole being an adult thing.
>>25094559>your emotions are still not validNo, I know lashing out is not valid, I just said I can't control it because the same shit keeps happening with my family. I know it's not right though, I'm just holding out until I can be on my own, I just wanna be alone, that's the only thing that'll give me some peace of mind and maybe actually get along with my mother at least, my father is a lost cause.
>>25094507>>25094578You are literally autistic
>>25094591You are literally histrionic, bipolar, BPD, NPD, Aspergers, Downs, and gay.
>>25094595That wasn't cleverYou come off as being very anti-psychology. Even if it's a soft science, it's very useful for understanding how people think and how our minds and brains work
>>25094580So, are you new here or just an attentionwhore who finally got a trip?
>>25094303Pay attention to doms? No, they can fuck off because idgas about them.>>25094305No, but they are certainly soft.>>25094341No, after that, you could be chris pine or chris evans, and I would have zero attraction to you.>>25094456Yes, ya'll built this game. Curse your grandpappy's stupid fetish.>>25094543I only like them green.
>>25094595like an /adv/ kamehameha>>25094590yes independence is incrediblei encourage every one to pursue freedom above most else
>>25094599I am specifically anti the selective things you have been taught to snip from postmodernist psychology to continue behaving in narcissistic ways and distancing yourself from personal growth or understanding of the world around you, except in how it immediately relates to you. Couching a trained deficiency of human empathy in clinical or feel-good terms doesn't make it right. Training yourselves to be more and more vulnerable to any non-conformant stimuli is just passive-aggressive fascism.
>>25094609>t. retard who doesn't actually know what fascism is
>>25094613What an unbelievably nuanced take. How dare you invalidate me like that.
>>25094608>yes independence is incredible>i encourage every one to pursue freedom above most elseIt's long overdue for me. You can't really buy a house in my country, after we move out of here I'm gonna stride out sooner than later on my own. I just feel miserable all the time stuck where I am.
>>25094397If you don't think you can help, then you don't need to do anything. You can just tell your guy "sorry, I thought about it some more, and I really don't know what I'd say to her". I think he'll understand.
>>25094490Wait what happened to her? I love her because she made girls doing butterfly knife tricks cool and that is kind of my thing. One of my things>>25094341Are you literally the divine personification of the concept of love?
>>25094609This reads like a bunch of autistic jargon lol Bro, EVERYONE on this planet needs to be validated by someone, in some way. At some point, you're going to need something you believe in, your lifestyle, an emotion, whatever, to validated. Sometimes you don't need someone or something to constantly challenge you and "put you in your place." Sometimes you want someone to just nod their head, agree, and tell you that they genuinely know what you're talking about.Also, you acting as if validation is entirely mutually exclusive from personal growth is laughable. You can desire someone to understand, empathize, or even agree with you and still want to do better.
>>25094606i'm gonna fucking cumi got 2 (you)'s from her y'allin the same post>>25094603i'm discord chan
>>25094537Hey man, everyone has their vices, I also have bad habits like drinking and smoking (and 4chan kek) I'm still trying to kick completely. Don't shy away from getting help if you need to, and just take things one day at a time. You can work on losing weight, but you don't need to have the perfect physique or anything to find somebody.And thanks anon, I really appreciate it, I just...really wasn't expecting this, I had basically cut everybody off and was ready to go full recluse. But I'm just going to try for her and see what happens. I mean we have so much fun hanging out together I don't want to lose that. She must see something in me so I'm going to try. All the best anon with your goals and managing stuff x
>>25094609>muh fascismYou retards always get steamrolled in politics and society because you're incapable of phrasing yourselves independently of leftist dogma. It's just a "no u" tantrum.
>>25094624i'm a catchy song from jetset radio future
>>25094628>conflate "being validated by someone" with somehow being a prerequisite for beliefs, lifestyles, emotions>appeal to vagueness and grandness>uh bro why the autistic jargon xd>anything you don't understand is just meaningless jargon and your repetitive unthinking internet-wide-spammed jargon of choice is ultimately meaningful>false narrative and goalpost slide to "you're saying you can't x if you y" to deflect from your group obsession to the point of personal stagnationYep, looks like a complete suppression of any empathy or morality beyond immediate emotional responses, classic trained narcissist behavior.
GirlsWhat do you think of a man who sends emojis when he texts?
>>25094403Oh, what the hell.>Age30>Sexual orientationBisexual>RaceGerman/White>NationalityBurger>Favorite ice creamMint Oreo>Favorite Sexual PositionUh... default? I don't know what any are called...>Favorite CountryUSA USA USA
>>25094543Yes, they're too squishy. Ugh.
>>25094641I chose it specifically because it's a trigger word for both tumblrites and /pol/.That's the whole point. It's meaningless babble in almost every case, like nearly every mention of "validation" anywhere online.Fuck, it wasn't even subtle. Stop being so dense Anonymous.It's not the only one I put in either, read the posts more closely.
Tell me Atoga. That is it. Just tell me.
>>25094647Best when used sparingly. I don't want a string of :100: :100: :100: :crying while laughing: :fire:
I have become sexually frustrated to the point I looked up posts on dirty r4r, but once I got my rational thoughts back I became repulsed by the odiousness of it all. I'm sure the exact same thing would happen if I went to a strip club.I'm confident in both my looks and social skills but I really don't know the first thing about getting past talking casually with a woman and to the point of physically touching. I'm burdened by the idea that I could just take a shortcut but I'm too scared to actually go through with it because what I really want is something wholesome.
>>25094628What you're saying is obviously the truth, I can't imagine being as retarded as the original commenter that they can't see it >_>
>>25094648>Uh... default? I don't know what any are called...Missionary, I think you mean. Face to face, one person on top, etc.Kudos for actually answering the questions, anon. You’re pretty damn cool.
>>25094654No. I know you can see that there is still potential for you, I know you know it's not all over.
>>25094654Why is he so retarded? (You who I'm talking about)
>>25094654Tell you? I respect you too much to give you the answer for free.No, you'll have to rip the truth from my cold, dead body.
>>25094462>vampiric global shadow-rulerHey, I said that was my plan, don't steal my thunder.
>>25094648Is this Elsanna anon who gave me advice on bringing up the suit fetish thing to someone? I agree you're pretty damn cool. x
>>25094661Oh yes, that's probably what it's called, haha.>>25094668Yup, and it seems like it worked out for you, so congrats!
>good women are mostly passive/submissive/shy people so you don't hear them speak up much>having suffered through the greatest excesses of feminist bullshit and degeneracy, I'm likely to live long enough to have to suffer through a social movement of retarded screechy men trying to prop up an entirely fake concept of manliness made from bullshit feminist stereotypes and a few old cliches, but unironic>they're going to be retard communists too because hair of the dog is how you get the people to vote for you and listen to you and tread on themselves some more and blame someone else for their laziness and stupidity>meanwhile won't be able to find a good woman because they're hiding in deeper cover than I am alreadyI can't handle it /atoga/ when will it end
How do I stop tripping up my words or stuttering when talking to a guy I think is hot or anyone who makes me nervous? New thing that started in the last year and it's so embarrassing and just makes me more nervous.
>>25094647they're necessary imo, or else you sound too robotic and detached
>>25094675Sounds cute, I wouldn't worry about it too much unless it impacts your professional life.
Why does overuse of the crying laughing emoji correlate so strongly with having daddy issues?
>>25094654She was so big she put out the sun in a few seconds and just kept peeing but because it was a daydream there was no solar system ending cataclysm from her gravity well, and the light didn't go away with the sun. There was just a quiet hiss and it was gone. She was so huge her pee turned into new sparkling stars.Then she incarnated herself lying there facing me and got the mattress wet, too. Her thighs were warm and slick. I didn't want to stop daydreaming.
Is it true that when boys hit puberty their balls really do drop?Like, your balls used to be higher up as a kid and they fell?
>>25094684Emojis are for literal retards hence their use among Asian women who are hypersocial and pretend to be 12yos and know literally nothing in every context because they want to appear "cute" to 40yo pedophiles.
>>25094692Yes, they actually, physically, get lowerThe medical term is "descended"
>>25094672Thanks, yeah we had a nice time~ >>25094675I wouldn't worry too much tbqh. Practice and anti-anxiety techniques can help but it's not the end of the world. I still trip over my words and repeat myself occasionally and it's whatever, just own it.>>25094689*laughing crying emoji*Honestly I use it quite a lot
>>25094692They start inside the pelvis. They then descend into the sack, which grows proportionate to you more or less, and yeah then elongates some during puberty.Mine must have dropped when I was really young though because I can't remember them ever not being there. Not that I touched my ballsack that much as a very young kid.
>>25094697Also, it happens to animals like dogs as well once they reach sexual maturity. Dogs reach it an a span of months though.
>>25094692I don't remember that far back clearly kek but yeah I think they definitely do hang lower than before
Why do women always just parrot the beliefs and views of their bf with zero thought of their own?
>>25094708They don't, sometimes it's some dyke who poorly imitates what women think masculinity is who they emulate, and then get dumped.
>>25094708Did you really need to ask this? Women tend to follow more than men, especially their partner.
>>25094663Were you really able to recognize me from just that?!>>25094664*Insert politician here* >>25094666>No, you'll have to rip the truth from my cold, dead body.TELL ME *proceeds to rip and tear*
>>25094708Men do this too doe. Also it's not like all women or all men do it.
>>25094667Too late. My ghoulish familiars will escort you out of the building. >>25094708Hey I parrot my brother and uncle thank you very much
>>25094708womeme operate on terms of personal and familial securityright and wrong are outside of their wheelhousethis changes in refined societies, we were starting to be in one in the developed world but then the russians fucked it all up and now it's dead because western academics are also retardedso it's back to pre-morality for people who aren't white males, tribal ooga booga
>>25094684is it okay if I use it ironically?
>>25094724Uh, based department?Unless your uncle is a gay.
>>25094725Sounds like a bad deal for white males. They're burdened with all this heavy moral stuff, and nobody listens to them.
>>25094708i fucking wish
>>25094720>*Insert politician here*K yeah that's how that sounds. I was talking about the thread but the moment has passed kek.
>>25094727Yeah that's totally cool, the side effect is never having sex though kek>>25094732rly makes u think...
>>25094734If no one else in the thread knows who the retard you're referring to is, it means it's you.
>>25094720Kek yeah. I think it was pretty clear what you meant, and given that it was easy to recognize you.>>25094724You will never take me alive! Or... Well... Undead.
>>25094734Don't worry anon, I know what you meant
>>25094734this sort of extended tantrum over not being validated about being validated sort of...validates his point though, you get that right?
>>25094742Kek nice try, I almost fell for it ha ha. Yeah right, me a retard, ha ha, like that could ever happen.
>>25094745Thank you fren.
I'm starting to think that if I really crank my brain into high gear and spend less time sleeping for a month or two I might be able to emulate a realistically complex woman in my own head to suit my tastes and just talk to her instead of meeting actual women.
>>25093602what did i do for you to hate me why dont girls like me
>>25094757/x/ is thataway, pal.
>>25094765I don't mean a "tulpa", I just mean really good daydreaming
>>25094757I just write fiction for myself.
>>25094769I hope you have silver bullets. Or something? I don't remember how you kill a tulpa.
>>25094778You kill tulpas with Schizophrenia medication
>>25094778You kill a tulpa by taking meds or just ceasing to LARP, but I'm talking about imagination.>>25094771Me too only I barely ever bother to write it down because I can usually remember it near perfectly until I get bored and forget it exists for a while. I have whole universes, stories for movies and games, etc, in my head, besides lewd things. Also entire lives lived with various families, or at least the interesting bits.I want to draw illustrations for things I write to make them worthwhile but I'll never be able to make it look or feel like in my head, and I'm too overworked and lazy and melancholy to actually practice drawing and git gudI got a tablet though>>25094785based and hivemind pilled
>>25094757Sleep deprivation impairs thought, fyi.
>>25094802In certain ways, yes, but I'm sharper on four hours than six in lots of ways, I just can't keep it up forever. Anyways, I meant to have more time to think between each sleep to solidify more complex behaviors.
>>25094731No he is based. >>25094743>I think it was pretty clear what you meantAh well. I hate to disappoint but that did not have any meaning! Except maybe meaning I did not intend.
>>25094692I remember being in the Middle School locker room and there was this weird kid in there a year younger than myself and my friend. We called him Tiny Tim. This man looked us dead in the fucking eyes and he asked "are you gonna make my balls drop?" We didn't say anything at the time and just walked away but I still wonder what he was trying to get us to do for him that could possibly drop his balls.
Girls how soi would you assume a guy is if he ferments his own kombucha?
>>25094791>I want to draw illustrations for things I write to make them worthwhile but I'll never be able to make it look or feel like in my headIt's kinda not worth it, fantasy is generally better. I do have ideas for specific stuff I mess around with in certain games and mods for games tho, take screenshots and shit like that, it's fun.
>>25094725>womeme operate on terms of personal and familial securityIt is always really interesting to hear ATOGA talk about women. >>25094821Not especially. I think doing anything your self is a masculine quality.
Sexually active girlsHow common is for guys to occasionally not be able to get it up
>>25094821That sounds like my dream guy. Kombucha is too expensive
>>25094814Oh wtfI thought you were someone else then kek, so I didn't actually recognize you.Until now.Hope you're doing well, sweet.
>>25094814Too bad ur gay lol.
Preferring tits over ass isn't wrong, it's just unrefined. Like an elementary schooler who wants to be a fireman who then grows up and forsakes any new ideas in order to remain fixated on being a fireman.
>>25094824>Not especially. I think doing anything your self is a masculine quality.>tfw suffer from an extreme case of I Could Do That Better Myself and refuse to buy pretty much everything if I can make it myself instead
>>25094830Hah. Got me. And I hope you are doing well. Person who could be one of several people all of which I like. >>25094833Ur fugging ghey
>>25094830>sweet gets recognized doomer posting itt
>>25094834Normalizing ass worship is pro-homo anti-white propaganda.
>>25094821Isn't that, like... mushroom booze? Seems more like hippy shit than soi
>>25094834Um I am thinking based?>>25094840Oh Lord I have a whole family of those types. I am one of those too. I only made home made curry recently because I heard someone talk about making it with the pre made packets and I was like "no I must learn the Indian secrets"
>tfw no gf you can make food and drinks for
>>25094845KekStarts with L and rhymes with meridian.I haven't seen you in some time, but I haven't been active at all lately. I'll see you around.
>>25094834Ding dong you are wrong. >>25094845You admitted you’ve made out with a real girl, that’s super gay.
>>25094856It's fermented tea, usually carbonated (by fermentation) and flavoured with fruit juices or other things. So basically tea with fruit but a bit tangy and fizzy. If your kombucha tastes like vinegar then it fermented too long.
>>25094847Oh no I have not been a doomer. Not tonight at least I did not mean to be. I feel pretty peppy>>25094865HEYYYY. I have also been busy. It is really great to see you are here. I think you are like the most beloved Atogan
>>25094860Someday you'll have it anon. I'm so hype to cook for gf when she visits again next week. I'm gonna try practice all her favorites this week
>>25094869If kissing a girl is gay then every boy here is gay. I am not following your logic at all. >>25094762I like you. Welcome.
>>25094877I'm not gay, I've never kissed a girl.
>>25094834Preferring a woman's ass over her breasts is niggerlicious
>>25094877I remain entirely heterosexual.
>>25094877But that’s just the thing ur a girl kissing another girl, like I said super gay. Also I have never kissed and probably never will so I can’t be gay.
>>25094872KEK jesus christ my heart. Thank you.I have to go now, but maybe we'll cross paths again one of these days. Best of luck with your stuff
>>25093620Lips as promised.
>>25094860>tfw no gf to appreciate my homemade kombucha, hand canned tomatoes, collection of fresh herbs, flawless meal prep and wide selection of pots and pans to cook in
how do i find a girl that doesnt want to travel? i want a girl that has a hobby
How important is face? I am not in great shape but can go to bars and meet women without much issue. I get told I look like someone from a tv show, but different people that all look better than me. I'm in my mid 30s and don't understand. I have nothing going for outside of the willingness to talk.
>>25094860You will. And being able to really cook will make getting that girl easier I promise. >>25094891We will! Pop in again Lyd. Love you.
>>25094879>>25094882>>25094883;_;>>25093620ATOGA has long seen my lips.
>>25094912>ATOGA has long seen my lips.Needed snakebite piercings to satisfy my 2006 nostalgia.
>>25094896That is all really cool and I want you to know I am appreciating >>25094919Hah. I have thought about so many piercings especially in my goth phase. But my body hates them. No matter what I do my piercings stay red and angry and refuse to really heal.
>>25094834Legs and bare shoulders are the best.
>>25094929Give me NAPE or give me death.
>>25094871Ohh… I was just confused because someone I knew said they were making kombucha, and held up a jar with literal dirt and mushrooms growing in it…?
>>25094892Thank you anon, it was worth the wait.Damn that lower lip looks tasty.
>>25094925based body rejecting degeneracy
>>25094645It's gonna be okay, honey. Put down the word narcissist and let's go get a snack.
>>25094947It's fermented by natural yeast that grows a slimy looking disc on top called a scoby. Probably what you thought was a mushroom. You pour the liquid off to drink and the scoby can be saved to use to make another batch.It's like sourdough starter where you never use it all, you just keep the starter alive by feeding it and using it again and again.
>>25094925>no sweet gf to reject bras and get her nipples piercedThe disappointment is overwhelming.
If a bloke is into gardening and cleaning does that make him less attractive?
>>25094962Girls are suitably impressed when I pick fresh herbs to put in the food I'm making, and no bitch has ever complained about having a clean place.
>>25094892What poster is this?
I have lip piercings but I’m fat
If a guy is over 6' is that unattractive because he has a higher risk of hitting his head on the tops of doors?
>>25094955i usually make fun of narcsniffer kun but i think you didn't make a genuine effort to digest their point which appeared to me that validate rarely seems to mean challenge and mostly means accommodate
>>25094975because a strong and functional premise is it's own validation and people who crave/lack validation generally want to be heard and accepted rather than get checked and tested
>>25094974Yup. You know how many brain cells you lose per hit?
>>25094974Are you really? I thought most doors were 7 feet or higher
>>25094975>>25094986I'm not any of the repliers, but I agree with both sides. >validate rarely seems to mean challenge and mostly means accommodateHonestly I have no idea what you mean here. Neither of those words would I associated with validation.>because a strong and functional premise is it's own validation and people who crave/lack validation generally want to be heard and accepted rather than get checked and testedI agree with this.
>>25094997if you give me your connotation of validation i bet i could bridge the gap
>>25094955Put down the narcissism and focus on something greater than yourself.
>>25095010Stop being a mental midget.
>>25094892Another fine addition to my collection.
>>25095006Validation is acceptance and understanding something as true. If person A is thinking, feeling, or experiencing something, you validate their experience to help bring them a sense of safety. When you validate someone, you aren't accepting everything they say as a fundamentally true fact. You're understanding that person A is experiencing something, whether that experience (thought, feeling, etc.) is reality. This is because a lot of thoughts and feelings are irrational, and need the filter of logic. Sometimes the emotions of person A are too large to associate with a logical thought, OR they aren't yet equipped with the right tools/information to process the logic of those emotions. So what you're doing is bringing them doen to Earth. That's essentially what validating someone is. If you have a manic person, it brings lucidity, for example.So, validation is acceptance, understanding, compassion.
>>25095029No. This time you won't escape.
>>25095038Validation seems to change definition broadly depending on how it benefits its advocate. Almost as if it were a placebo for actually thinking.
>>25095046Why do you say that?
>>25095046Stop being a mental midget.
>>25095046>heh... did u notice that words have different meanings? almost as if... i'm gay?
I just realized I don't think I've ever heard a woman discuss a philosopher's ideas. Repeat them sure, say she agrees or disagrees absolutely, but never why, never the particulars, never separating one thing from another within the worldview set forth.Is it just my area or do women just not really bother with that?
>>25095038The way I understand it there's a limit where validation ends and enabling begins. If someone is feeling something it's harmful to dismiss it because you don't understand it or don't feel the same. But not every feeling is valid. Sometimes people feel a certain way but they're trampling you and what you or someone else feels without logically realizing it (or maliciously, or unable to stop). And that's not ok. I think figuring out where the limit is in every situation is the way you go about validating other people.
>>25094901Travelling isn't a hobby?>>25094903Looking like a celebrity seems like a good thing to me
>>25095067Women are more logical thinkers, so they don't bother so much with it.
>>25095029This is the only one I need
I have a mysterious bruise on the back of my hand, and I don't know how it got there
>>25095067Do you mean to say... You're gay?
>>25095067Most philosophers are just obnoxious, self-important morons.t. minored in philosophy
>>25095067When was the last time you personally discussed that? It's not really a casual conversation topic.
>>25095071They don't bother with philosophers because they're logical thinkers?I'm not sure I quite catch your drift here, run it by me in greater detail?>>25095089Agreed, but why is an emotional response to long-dead people's personalities more important than evaluating the ideas that most shaped history for better or for worse?
>>25095094Nothing's really a casual conversational topic other than the weather and dumb stuff on television, eventually that gets old so you talk about less repetitive stuff with people you know or just strangers you meet.
I posted this in another thread but immediately realized I think it would be better posted here >>25095044I have to write a paper about a topic that people have different perspectives on. I chose sexualization and objectification, and I’ll be discussing why some women sexualize/objectify themselves (for the reason of empowerment), and why some women say believe it is not empowering at all. I am mostly worried that people will take it the wrong way. I do not want my male classmates to think I am being offensive or for my female classmates to think I am being sexist to other women. I am curious what other people think before I go forward with it.
>>25095097Emotions can be reacted to immediately, and tell you more about a person.What's the use in "evaluating" things that happened ages ago and have already been discussed to death?
>>25095068>The way I understand it there's a limit where validation ends and enabling begins. This is 100% correct>If someone is feeling something it's harmful to dismiss it because you don't understand it or don't feel the same.Yes, I agree>But not every feeling is valid.Every feeling needs to be validated as you're recognizing it's happening to them in their worldview. Like I said, something may not be fundamentally true, but people need to be mentally brought into the moment by it. It's crucial to letting them know you're listening and trying to understand them.>Sometimes people feel a certain way but they're trampling you and what you or someone else feels without logically realizing it (or maliciously, or unable to stop). And that's not ok. I think figuring out where the limit is in every situation is the way you go about validating other people.Validation isn't the entire course. It's like the introduction. You recognize how someone is feeling, then once they feel heard, then you can help them logically understand their emotions where they're incapable of doing so — which is 9 times out of 10 why they're opening up to you in the first place. It's dangerous to validate people without bringing them into logical reality, and that's where enabling begins. If you simply choose not to validate someone, you're just avoiding or dismissing them (which isn't always bad, but it can be very harmful to those who are emotionally vulnerable). If you just ignore, sidestep, or even outright say they're wrong, you're doing infinitely more damage. That's why and how and when people fall deeper into a pit of social isolation and a cycle of self-rejection.
>>25095099I mean people study meteorology so even the weather has a lot of complexity, but like with the weather, a lot of things CAN be boiled down to something casual. Maybe not philosophy though, unless you ignore the great philosophers and just go straight to Facebook captions.
>>25095107I think that no matter your position, that's a very hot-button issue that will make a lot of people upset. It's just another polarised topic that's no longer "safe" to discuss.
>>25095107You have to present this paper to the class? That's kinda awkwardI would stick strictly to historical views, to avoid sounding like you're criticizing the Females Today
>>25095107It's for university/college, yes? Don't write something like that. Write about how black people are oppressed and that """nazis""" control the government. You will get good marks for that because you presented the correct opinion.
>>25095099I don't think I have ever gotten bored enough that I try to talk about deep philosophical concepts with strangers
>>25095038yeah, would you not agree that acceptance understanding and compassion seed accomodation?is the expectation of accommodation not a little bit narcissistic?when is a time you felt like you gave someone validation without enabling them?>>25095062lmao fucking WREKT
Guys,What makes a guy date a woman almost 30 years his senior?
>>25095128That's weird.Also most philosophical concepts aren't really that deep to begin with.>>25095110It's about the person's ideas, not the person.>Those who do not learn from history will be condemned to repeat it.We're in a big repeating period right now, as a matter of fact.I don't think this conversation will be fruitful though, so let's "agree to disagree".
>>25095113I agree with what you explained in your response, thank you for typing that.
>>25095133>>25094965Are you on the wrong site or something? They're just anonymous posters. I can't tell you who it is or link you their profiles, because 4chan is a site where people post anonymously.
>>25095140Thinking that porn is like real life.
>>25095067I think it's a very specialized, obscure topic that most people, male or female, know little about. You might as well ask why women don't bother talking about quantum mechanics with you.
>>25095140Could be a variety of things. Maybe he just legitimately doesn't mind, maybe he has mommy issues, or maybe he gets off to it or a mix of any number of variables.
>>25094968Did you think that getting piercings would make you thinner?
>>25095121I don’t have to present it but it’ll be read by another classmate and they have to criticize it. Classmates are very friendly with their feedback so I guess I shouldn’t be too concerned.>I would stick strictly to historical views, to avoid sounding like you're criticizing the Females TodayThat’s probably my safest bet, thanks for the idea.
>>25095149Would make sense if said girlfriend didn't look like she's about to die>>25095153Makes sense. Thank you
>>25095140She has got to be extraordinary
>>25095140I like older women. I just think they're attractive in general. Could be a maturity thing, could be a femininity thing (because although young, thin girls are super feminine and all that, older women whose bodies have changed shape over the years embody a different but equally appealing form of femininity).I admit 30 years would be too much of a gap for me on a conceptual level but the principle applies.Plus, I think there's something super hot to be said about older women putting effort into their appearance and into being sexually available.
>>25095164Oh god, I hated those "critique a classmate" papers. Good luck anon.
>>25095140Perhaps she's the last survivor of an expedition to the dark heart of Africa, and she's the only one left who knows where her ship sunk, taking an entire cargo hold full of jewels with it?
Girls would you cosplay as 02 to turn your boyf on?
>>25095107If you mention a topic that people have strong opinions about, you have to deal with the near-certainty that you will make some people very upset. Unless you are a total sperg in your presentation, you probably won't have to directly confront anyone over it (aside from some snarky questions by liberal arts faggots), but you'll still be silently judged.The only reason to choose a controversial or inflammatory topic is if you are personally invested in the issue--especially if you're arguing for the minority viewpoint. Many people let themselves get demoralized over holding beliefs that they feel isolate them, so seeing others expressing those beliefs (proving that they're not alone) are often welcome emotional support.Your assignment sounds like it's supposed to be descriptive more than anything. Inviting controversy for that seems totally pointless. Not to mention that there's the risk of the professor having an axe to grind on the issue, which could make them harshly critical of your paper. Partisans to a cause tend to perceive neutral reporting as hostile.
>>25095171Holy shit they do that? Wtf is wrong with society kek
>>25095172I feel lime this is a Heart of Darkness reference. Is it? Goddammit if I had read that book when I meant too I'd have a funny thing to say now. Just... Wait, ok? I'll get back to you with a witty comeback, just give me a few days.
>>25095179I googled her and the design seems cute, and not too complicated. Sure, it would be a fun project.
>>25095190NTA but it's a damn good book. Deffos worth a read.
>>25095131>yeah, would you not agree that acceptance understanding and compassion seed accomodation?Not at all. You can recognize someone's pain (or other emotions/experiences) without associating with them.>is the expectation of accommodation not a little bit narcissistic?It shouldn't be. No one should feel self-centered for wanting to be heard.>when is a time you felt like you gave someone validation without enabling them?I do it often. I know someone who has made very many continuous mistakes, and I will admit they were very lazy in all aspects while growing up. So, I recognize they're still immature, but that doesn't make what they're experiencing not real. For example, they open up about an issue they have where they feel justified, but they're being insensitive about the actions they made to their close friend. I am aware that they're wrong, but I won't flat out reject how they're feeling. So I say something like, "Okay, yeah, I see why you think or feel that. You feel like because X happened, that you don't need to do Y, right?" And then they respond with a yes, no, or I don't know. However it goes, I respond with, "Although, if you cared about your relationship with person B, I think you should recognize that you hurt their feelings and apologize. Even though you don't feel like you hurt them, they are hurt, and you should try to acknowledge that. I understand you feel justified, but I don't agree."
>>25095190I kind of combined Heart of Darkness with Titanic. But it's still a good book and you should read it anyway.
>>25094951>Damn that lower lip looks tasty.It seems to be considered quite chewable.>>25094965It's me. I'm a regular with a name that nobody uses and nobody cares about.>>25095029Make sure to display it next to my other one.
>>25095146You're welcome. Thank you for the response!
WomenWhat number does a guy have to be 1-10 for you to take into consideration a cold approach? Where's the line between creepy and you'd actually be interested?
>>25095179I would cosplay as anyone if my guy paid for the costume and I got to dress him up in return.
>>25095192>>25095196Thanks, will do.
Women,How do you feel about guns?Sincerely,/k/
>>25095199I am not lying, I saw these lips in a dream.
>>25095210Not a fan of them. I hate hunting and I'd rather defend myself with something simpler. Could be cool to work them into something kinky, I guess.
>>25095191She's the character in the OP picture.
>>25095210Never seen one in my life, not in person anyway. They make me nervous, but if a guy showed me he knew how to handle them safely, I'd feel very reassured.
>>25095213They point a gun in your face will you eat their ass. Save. I'm gonna make some femdom writeup with this shit.
>>25095140Maybe he's a gold digger? He could also be into milfs or gilfs. Could be a power thing too. Or maybe just unresolved mommy issues
>>25095218Ohhh. Well that's not the costume Google showed me, kek. That would be even easier to cosplay as, since it looks like little more than a wig.
>>25095231The stubby little horns are the real key.
>>25095140Thirst.Don't underestimate how thirsty some men can get. There are men who will go thousands of dollars into debt, and even dip into their family's savings, just to coom to their very particular fetish. That some men are grannyfuckers who don't seem to care about the future isn't surprising in the slightest.
>>25095222I'd prefer the reverse, but the threat of death would be a great excuse to finally try eating a guy's butt. I was thinking more like using one as a toy.
>>25095211I'm not lying either. They're my lips.
>>25095179>>25095218Do people ever cosplay characters that don't match their body type and skin color? If not, I can't pull that off at all.
>>25095222>>25095236Please, for the love of God, don't use real guns for this. Literally an accident waiting to happen.t. /k/
>>25095211>>25095239So now what? What was the dream about?
>>25095242What if I don't put any bullets in it? Or like at least superglue the safety?
>>25095240Different skin color? All the time.Different body type? More uncommon, but it happens.Nothing can stop a dedicated cosplayer, least of all what they look like.
>>25095240They do but they shouldn't.
>>25095243I'm half asleep but I'll check next thread if I fall asleep.
bump lets keep this thread going faggots
>>25095240Yes. Whether it looks good or not depends on the amount of effort put into the cosplay and whether you can adapt it slightly to work better with your appearance.
>>25095242Chillax man, I'm talking about some written erotica I don't engage with actual human sex, it's slimy.
>>25095252You do realise we've got more posts than double the bump limit on page nine, right?
>>25095259I didn't know that. i had seen this near the bottom of the catalog and thought it wasnt being used.
>>25095246Just get a realistic-looking airsoft gun or a non-functioning replica, it might even be cheaper. Rule #1 of firearm safety is you don't point the gun at anything you aren't willing to destroy. Rule #2 is to treat all firearms like they're loaded. Breaking those two rules are the leading cause of accidental deaths involving firearms.
>>25095263We avoid shitting up the board by using threads until they're page 10ish and someone makes a new one.
>>25095249>>25095250>>25095254Never cosplayed, and I doubt I have the motivation or expertise to cosplay some tall white anime girl I've never seen before in a way that'd do it justice for the people who like the character. So I guess I'd say no, I wouldn't cosplay her.
>>25095264That's extremely reasonable and I appreciate the seriousness with which the information was delivered. You make k seem like a nice place.
>>25095268Then I guess tall white girls win again...
>>25095210not a fan.
>>25095274What else is new?
>>25095274>tfw no tall pillow-tier gf to spoon me and play with my hair
Alright I'm gonna be hanging out with this girl I've gotten close to at a couples place that we're both friends with. She'll probably spent the evening in my arms and then I'll drive her home. Should I say something like "lets walk for a while" and park the car a little bit away from her home so I can take her to the door? Is that weird?
>>2509514030 years is a bit much, but I have two friends who dated women 10-20 years older than them (my friends and I are in our mid 20s). They never really opened up and shared with me. But if I had to guess I would just they were horny and took what they could get, neither of them are exactly Romeos/Chads (they've both been friends since childhood, love 'em to death, so I'm not throwing shade just being frank). I don't think it was a porn induced milf fetish or mommy issues or anything like that. I think there's just a market for older divorcee women out there who want to feel young and attractive again so they pounce on younger dudes, and the guys who want pussy enough take the bait and aren't choosy.>>25095234this. this really sums up my answer. I think when it boils down to it it's thirst, I don't think it's a fetish though. But guys by their nature are horny and not very picky. Hell I'm pretty desperate too, I'd shag a milf too if she looked decent. No way I'd start a relationship with one though.
>>25095274They always do nowadays. Feels like the any time darker skinned women get mentioned is for fetishy shit.
>>25095287Don't fish for short flat brown girl simping, it's unbecoming.
>>25095283I would ask "how about we walk the rest of the way?" to give her a chance to say no if she doesn't want to.Otherwise it's just "I know we're not to your place yet, but get out of the car". Which is a bit odd.
>>25095274And that’s a bad thing because?
>>25095283Just drive to her place and sit in the car and talk shit for another half hour. That's usually how it goes anyway. And if you can't work up to a kiss in that time then walk her to the door and do it then.
>>25095294Because they deserve to be crushed under my tiny black heel
>>25095280I'd spoon you right now if I could, anon.
>>25095191since when do we have cosplay femanons?
>>25095289Speak for yourself. I'd love a mini cappuccino gf.
>>25095309>haven't dated in a few years and this post gave me a little pang of hurtOh boy. Looks like it's time to stop being lazy about meeting girls.
>>25095319>miniShe may be small but she’s a wide girl
>>25095326It ain't really bout niggas not tryin enough, moreso bout hoes havin high standards n shit. I ain't been start gettin attention only after I been workin out constantly.
>>25095337I'll have you know I spent an hour on the treadmill yesterday. Doesn't make me less wide, but at least I'm losing weight.Also fishing for compliments at 1 AM is my substitute for snacking.
>>25095313I just got here recently, but I’m sure there’s more.
>>25095347Christ, don't ever reply to me again if that's how you're going to write.
>>25095354Dats just how real niggas talk.
>>25095352Have you ever banged a guy who was also cosplaying and fucking in character?
>>25095359Just a bit of kissing. I imagine it would be hard to stay in character while fucking, lol.
>>25095360Ok, have you ever banged any other cosplayers at events?
>>25095367Nope, I haven’t, sorry. That’s really not my motivation for going to cons anyway, and after a day of being out and about in costume, I need time alone to recharge.
>>25095369>I need time alone to recharge.What about pussy discharge?
>>25095369I always heard that con events had massive amounts of sex parties so I was just curious if you had first hand experience Just curious
New thread >>25095381
>>25095378That can wait until I get home. I’m not too comfortable in hotel rooms, because other people might have had the idea before me, and I don’t know how well they clean the sheets. Plus there could be a camera hidden in the detector, pointing at the bed or something. I don’t trust hotels.>>25095383Yeah, I’ve heard those stories too, but I’ve never participated. Sorry to disappoint.
>>25095351Snack on something healthier than chips and internet pleasantries and you'll be fine.Keep up the good work.