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Boys~
How many times did you jerk off yesterday? And does that seem like a rational/healthy amount to you?
If you do it before bed, do you feel like it helps you sleep?
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>>24924062
These threads are so fucking weak.
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>>24924136
Once. And yes before bed. I wouldn’t say it improves or lessens the quality of my sleep itself, but it typically helps me fall asleep faster
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>>24924136
>zero
>yes; I kick myself whenever I fall to my primal desires and do it more than zero times per day
>only if my urges were so high I weren't able to properly resist
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>>24924136
A couple times, and eh it can help
>>24924141
Agreed
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>>24924136
I haven't jacked off in a week and before that I went 2 weeks without. Ever since I quit porn the frequency dropped to a fraction of what it used to be.
I used to do it before bed as a teenager when I still couldn't cum, the afterglow was indeed kinda calming. But then the need for cleanup made me unwilling to do it, as I'd have to get out of bed etc and that ruined the whole thing.
Sex before sleeping must be great.
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>>24924136
most guys at my uni go once a day, i go twice a day desu but thats just cause I dont feel any satisfaction from one.
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>>24924136
>How many times did you jerk off yesterday?
1
>And does that seem like a rational/healthy amount to you?
yeah, some days i dont even masturbate. you could argue its because of my age but at 26 im still horny as hell. i just avoid porn (which also reduces motivation to jerk off)
>If you do it before bed, do you feel like it helps you sleep?
i dont do it before sleep anymore but when i used to, it did help me sleep. mainly because i was horny to begin with.
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>>24924155
>most guys at my uni go once a day
When the fuck do you talk about this?
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>>24924136
None, eh.
It can.
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>>24924136
None. I fucked my girlfriend 3 times, including before bed.
It does make me fall asleep faster.
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I no showed to a date yesterday because I ended up falling asleep for hours until early this morning. I feel so guilty because I actually had intentions of going. I already texted sorry and explained myself and got no reply yet, is that all I can really do?
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>>24924172
It's all you can do. The harder you try to insist it was an accident the more I suspect you of lying.
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>>24924136
My first Aneros came yesterday...I lost count.
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>>24924177
>>24924172
desu if i get flaked and the girl keeps dming me shes sorry and wants to see me, ill give it a try.
a girl who flakes and says sorry once HAS to be uninterested.
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Men:
How much do you actually care about your friends and does it change based on whether your friend is a man or a woman?
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>>24924172
goddamn london femanon you have to stop flaking kek
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>>24924136
m: 3x
and it varies. Sometimes I get horny sometimes not so it isn't every day.
Yes it helps sleep.
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I’m a crazy girlfriend
How do i show my bf ive changed
He’s not leaving me but i want him to see im mature and respect me
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>>24924194
Just stop being crazy
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>>24924188
I care about close friends a lot, gender is irrelevant
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>>24924188
i care a lot about my friends
i dont have women friends except friends' GFs, and even then we arent as close.
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>>24924172
>is that all I can really do?
No. You can take responsibility and organise an alternative date.
But you'd have to actually be interested enough.
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>>24924188
I care about my best friend a lot and we've really got each other's back. My other friends aren't really in contact with me due to living in another city and shit like that, so while I still care I can't really be there for them or hang out with them much. All guys btw. I don't have female friends but I wish I did, I enjoy hanging out with girls.
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>>24924188
I (m) have 6 extremely close friends (3 m, 3 f) from college that we all still keep in daily contact with years after graduation and I care about all of them a lot. If any of them asked for my help I’d help them to the best of my abilities. Now the difference is, with the female friends, I wouldn’t spontaneously ask or talk to them about just anything and everything unless they brought it up though, and I wouldn’t necessarily ask them everything I might ask one of the guy friends. So while what info I do or don’t share with them might change, I still care for all of them a huge amount and would help/be there for any of them if asked
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>>24924188
m:
Not very much. I'd be sad if they died but not seeing them for months of years doesn't bother me.
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Femanons:
Would you date/hook up with a guy who can't drive? How important is it?
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>>24924194
> How do i show my bf ive changed
by behaving rationally over a long time.
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Women how do you feel about guys who are predominantly charming but sometimes say the wrong thing, or it comes across the wrong way and he has to correct it/apologise?
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>>24924189
I really was planning to go!
>>24924206
I dont want to sound like im begging and message more than what I did earlier without him replying. And im hesitant to do that too because what if he flakes on me to get back at me
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>>24924212
>I wouldn’t spontaneously ask or talk to them about just anything and everything unless they brought it up though, and I wouldn’t necessarily ask them everything I might ask one of the guy friends.
Follow up question if I may, what are the differences? Is it that you don't talk about your feelings with the women? Certain hobbies? Sex?
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>>24924217
That depends on if I can kidnap him.
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>>24924226
>what if he flakes on me to get back at me
then you found out hes trash and can move on.
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>>24924217
It's not really that important. My partner cant drive so I do all the driving and I hate it because I hate driving. It didnt put me off but the hypothetical man would have to either learn to drive or accept that we won't be driving much.
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>>24924194
Crazy ex boyfriend here. It all adds up in the end and people don't forget.
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>>24924217
Depends. Are you in a big city where having a car isn’t a big deal? Cause that wouldn’t bother me then, but if it’s somewhere without sidewalks or good public transportation than yeah it could potentially be an annoyance. Do you just not have a car or do you not know how to drive at all, cause that also plays a factor. If there’s an emergency and you’d need to drive my car but couldn’t that wouldn’t be good
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>>24924226
>I set up a date with a guy then stood him up, likely hurting his feelings and breaking any trust he might have had in my words
>what? no! I can't be the one to stick my neck out and arrange a new date, it might go wrong

Nigga he's not going to do it. You need to be seen going way out of your way to make it happen as an apology. Even if I did give you another chance, which is unlikely after actually getting stood up, I'd make it 100% your job to arrange it and make it happen. My general rule is that if a girl treats me poorly and then comes back for forgiveness, I dis-attach and make it all her problem. If things work out then I can be in but I'm not going to get invested in her until I see hard proof that she wants to be there.
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>>24924188
I'm very close to some of my friends. Female friends are just acquaintances at best, they're much worse to have around and stab you in the back at their convenience.
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>>24924136
Three, but because I was testing my dick, during the weekend I was suppose to lose my virginity and even if I was apparently relaxed when I put my dick inside the vagina my dick went to sleep, thank god my gf is extremely nice.So just checked if my dick was still alive (it was,pretty alive), I guess that porn and death grip also caused it, so it is time for nofap because next week I will be with her two-three days and she will blow me again, the other day I couldn't cum and she took it bad and blamed herself even though I said that it was my fault, being nervous probably.
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>>24924226
Honestly if a girl no-showed to a date I would ghost her, you'll be lucky if this guy gives you a reply
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>>24924188
I care in the sense that I don't want to lose my friends since I've got so few these days. I don't actually care what's going on in their lives that much. But then, that's normal for me.

>>24924194
You probably haven't. If you have, manage to act consistently sane over a long period of time.
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I have been friends with this girl for quite a while but recently I was going through some shit and she was being very caring about it. But even after everything cleared up we have been going out alot together and i cant really tell if shes interested in me. Now im really interested in her because i have not really seen how caring and nice she could be until now. I really like her but at the same time i wouldnt want to ruin the friendship but i also cant stay like this with us being "friends". Any advice from either gender?
(Asked this in a previous thread but it got archived :( )
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>>24924227
Hobbies are pretty fair game, we all went to an arts college so we’re all nerds to a degree and we’ve known eachother enough that we can be like “oh X actor/actress is hot” kind of stuff around eachother. One of the guys and one of the girls are in a relationship with eachother that pretty much lasted as long we’ve known eachother too. It might be me personally, cause I did have a crush early on into the friendship with one of the other girls, we went on two dates that went ok but it was just clear that we’d be better as friends instead yeah, I do find myself not discussing relationship stuff too in depth with her, but it’s all good. As for why I talk more with the other guys, as boring as it is, sometimes I just don’t have as much to contribute about the girls’ houseplants and they don’t have as much to add to about football
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>>24924226
You're just scared of rejection anon. Men have to deal with this every time.
> what if he flakes on me
What if he does?
Send:
"sorry I flaked. To make it up to you, meet me at blah blah blah at blah blah time"
If he doesn't turn up you've lost nothing anyway. Pick something you enjoy doing so it isn't a total loss.
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>>24924255
As a dude Id go for it. You dont want to stay friends, you want something more then you gotta have to go for it. Next time tell her you like her more than just a friend and ask her out on a date.
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>>24924226
>I really was planning to go!
To be blunt, cut the bullshit anon - it was fine the first couple of times, but at this point you're just being selfish still agreeing to dates with people without properly addressing your mental health issues. Take some real responsibility and be proactive in taking care of yourself, else people are going to inevitably get tired of your bullshit. You can't just blunder along and hope things will magically work out, and if you can't respect yourself enough to pursue the treatment you were prescribed, how do you expect to find somebody who will give you the respect you deserve too?
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Does leaving a place without your gf count as abandoning her? especially if she has to make her own way back?
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>>24924280
Yes, and it's negotiable that she use sex to get herself out if she doesn't have money. You cheated yourself out of a gf.
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>>24924280
depends. if you made sure shes ok with this then its not abandoning her. if you just got up and went home without saying a word, well, you know.
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>>24924283
You're such a shit person.
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>>24924288
shut up faggot
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>>24924223
Literally my brother, and that would be perfectly fine. I'm used to it and we're all human, mistakes happen. People need to grow up if a bit of autistic errors makes them incapable of dealing with that person.
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>>24924291
No.
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>>24924136
>How many times did you jerk off yesterday?
6

>And does that seem like a rational/healthy amount to you?
Considering that my urge was saying to do it 20+ times, yes. I have things I have to do.

>If you do it before bed, do you feel like it helps you sleep?
Absolutely. A bit of tension melts away and the urge is less distracting.
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Femanons, why do you stick your hairs to the sides of showers? I get that it can prevent the drain from clogging up, but why do you leave it there afterwards instead of gathering it up and throwing it in the trash or flushing it after you’re done in the shower? Both my sister and ex gf did this and I never got a real answer on why from either of them
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>>24924286
I knew she was ok I didn't have to ask her, I wouldn't leave her if I didn't know she could easily get home. She was still pissed anyway though
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>>24924297
>Both my sister and ex gf did this and I never got a real answer on why from either of them
They haven't been responsible for cleaning it. Simple as. Learned that *real* quick when I started living alone, and now always have a thrash can right next to the shower to make it easy.
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Question for other men
Why as a whole are you so willing to degrade yourselves for women? It really makes no sense and I suspect this is a post 1950s phenomenon but men are so willing to lower their standards and even attack other men for being selective about women.
Meanwhile women are picky about the dumbest things
>yaaaaaasss queeeenn
But men will defend women against any pressure even when the consequences are bad for men in general. Why is this, why do women act in communal interest while men betray each other?
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>>24924188
>How much do you actually care about your friends and does it change based on whether your friend is a man or a woman?
Real friends matter a lot. Casual acquaintances that I enjoy, not very much. Gender doesn't matter much. More friends are women, but I don't value them more than male friends.
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>>24924283
Does your whore-o-meter increase with every response?
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>>24924288
Stop making me simp for her by responding to fine posts like they're shit. Save that for actual shitposts.
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I invite her to go out and she said yes but asked ¿who else is coming?
¿What do i say?
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>>24924305
Men have always been desperate coomers and competitive by primal in order to spread the strongest genes, biologically speaking. The predomiant difference between now and the 50s for instance is that women and people in general have many more rights and freedom, but with that comes greed, list and temptation, and modern culture has become incredibly degenerate with no underpinning moral principles and standards. Amidst this cultural shift however men's desperation to cooom has not receded (if anything, intensified by some unhealthy lifestyle habits and consumption), so they will often take what they can get, preferring it to the isolating alternative, while bitterly attempting to guilt-trip other (often better) men for actually having higher standards or abstaining from the dating pool entirely.
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>>24924230
Only if you plan to abuse your power

>>24924234
Small town, got a learner's permit but no car and no practice
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>>24924312
You don't think what she said is a shit thing to do?
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If you start trying to touch her tits before having a proper first kiss, you just want to smash right?
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>>24924305
>But men will defend women against any pressure
Those aren't men.

>even when the consequences are bad for men in general.
Men in general? You're delusional.

>Why is this, why do women act in communal interest while men betray each other?
You're wrong. Stupid women rally for stupid sisterhood while stupid men rally for stupid brotherhood. Smart people treat people and situations individually and some let stupid people pave the way if it benefits them.
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>>24924307
Seriously guys. Stop making me like her better by default.
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>>24924270
>can't just blunder along and hope things will magically work out
but they might!

I know that I shouldnt be agreeing to these social things and dates when I only make it like half of the time. I recognize I keep trying the fake it til you make it approach and end up drowning in it all lol and then its like a loop if that makes sense. But I am really hesitant to try what I was prescribed. In my head, keeping my place and myself clean is taking care of myself enough to try to be dating
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>>24924326
You agree with her original post that him leaving before her at a party or whatever makes it morally justified to suck someone else's dick? Pathetic whore sympathiser kek
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>>24924301
>She was still pissed anyway though
this is why you ask her and make sure twice shes ok with it
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>>24924323
How on earth are you even getting topless in front of him before kissing? What.
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>>24924332
We were lying on my bed and he awkwardly flopped onto me while trying to sneakily touch my tits (outside my shirt). I crossed my arms and sort of froze.
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Femanons, where do I approach you to ask you out?
I'm not gonna do it when you're working in Subway, but I don't drink or go to bars/nightclubs.

How about in a bookshop when you're checking out 19th century Japanese literature? Is that ok?
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>>24924315
"I thought/figured/assumed/hoped/planned it would be just us. Is that alright?"
Be clear that you want it to be just the two of you. You don't have to explicitly say "date" but don't let her think you are just interested in friendship if you are not.
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>>24924328
Sorry for the harsh post, hope I wasn't too mean lol. You're right in that you never know, and I agree you should keep doing what you can socially, especially with friends, as it's good for your mental health not to isolate yourself. You need to try to be more honest and open with the people you're dating etc. though because people can sometimes assume the worst and be rather nasty. You owe it to yourself to be honest with yourself and them. Keeping yourself and surroundings clean is really good for mindfulness, but you still have to reflect and be truthful about how you feel. I can empathise with the trying to fake it til you make it til things come crashing down again approach, I did that for too long and it always ends badly, at least you have awarneess that it's not realistically sustainable. I totally get being apprehensive about the treatment, but try to discuss it with somebody at least, and maybe there is an alternative. There are no ulterior motives and it was recommended for a reason, and it's not a serious commitment, if it's not working out for you you can stop it, but at least you'll have better knowledge of what does and doesn't help you. Sorry for being preachy, I just want you to get better anon
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>>24924325
I've had plenty and encounter with simps to know this isn't true. Even people I considered friends turned against me when I critized a girl for using men for free validation. It's fine if you don't consider those people men because there's a lot of them
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>>24924305
Men degrading themselves for women is pathetic, I agree. But if
>being selective about women
means you're a virgin chaser, it's just as pathetic in 90-95% of cases on here.
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>>24924305
It's just the testosterone crisis.
People who have low testosterone behave this way.
Anxiety, appealing to the herd for approval, depression, low self esteem, victim mentality.
Then there's trannies, femboys.
A single source creating multiple symptoms.
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>>24924301
You should have asked regardless and told her where you were going. It's not only a dick move but a little weird to just leave and not tell your partner. I'd be furious.
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>>24924328
>I know that I shouldnt agree to dates when I only make it like half of the time.
Dude, you're the worst.
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>>24924339
Personally that would be fine with me. Places where the women don't look like they're in a hurry to be somewhere and where they can easily leave are good in my opinion.
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Favourite teen comedy/coming of age movie?

M
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>>24924370
M, Mean Girls
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Women
How many of you are as cuntish once someone gets to know you as you are to strangers?

Follow up question, when you fall in love, what do you feel like?
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>>24924353
>People who have low testosterone behave this way
People who actually have low test couldn't give less of a fuck and are confused why normies are so horny and sex-obsessed
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To the guy who asked about dreaming of his ex:

Thanks, asshole. I fucking dreamed I was back with my ex. When I woke up and realised it wasn't real I wanted to kms.

When does this shit stop happening?
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Women, do you dress according to your mood or according to the occasion?
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>>24924350
If you're a man and use virgin chaser unironically then you're just as bad as any simp. There's no reason to get upset with men for wanting a virgin as a man. Who cares if it's not what you want, what's wrong with pressuring women to meet a standard? They do it to us all the time.
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>>24924393
Both
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>>24924344
Wasnt mean at all! Honestly I think my friends are distancing themselves because of my flaky ways (I guess I am pushing them away) so maybe I will take some time to try to not be very social and get back to it when im more recharged again. I have been thinking about trying the meds I was prescribed but im dreading the getting used to them part, I dont want to try anything unless im certain it will give positive results only because I feel like im on a line between mentally pretty bad and mentally fine all the time. But I guess theres no way I could get that guarantee. I will probs have questions I will post here if I do end up trying them. And youre not overly preachy at all, thanks!
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>>24924321
>what she said is a shit thing to do?
To do? As in what the hypothetical guy did? Or the hypothetical girl abandoned by her bf with no money might need to "use sex" to get herself out? How else would she? Luck? Kindness? Maybe calling a friend but obviously the scenario is that it's possible she can't.
Bfs shouldn't abandon their gfs. Sucks to be him.

Now, she focused on the "no money" possibility. If the girl in question had money and *chose* to slut her way home. That's different. Call a cab, ho.

>>24924330
>You agree with her original post that him leaving before her at a party or whatever makes it morally justified to suck someone else's dick?
No. Leaving her where she has no means of getting back makes it possible that she has to, and will, "use sex" to get back home safe. And she'll rightfully dump him for doing it.

She even specified that it wouldn't be cheating because he wouldn't be her boyfriend at that point.

Do you assholes literally just see her name and kneejerk into idiocy? Or is the idea of a hypothetical woman not being a docile slave that triggering for you?

>>24924301
>I wouldn't leave her if I didn't know she could easily get home
OP is cool though. It turns out her response didn't apply to him.
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>>24924393
Both
>>24924370
F
10 things I hate about you
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>>24924381
Low testosterone evokes low social status "bitchy" behaviour in men.
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>>24924346
>Even people I considered friends turned against me when I critized a girl for using men for free validation.
Ugh. How you criticize and what you criticize matters. For example, you can't spill rhetoric on some girl irl because she likes to flirt with boys online or whatever. That your friends turned on you is likely a sign that you were out of line.

...unless this is anon from L.A. again. The rest of the real world isn't like that.
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>>24924397
Are you actually suggesting that she'd need to suck someone's dick to get a ride home kek? (I can understand if she was forced but that's another story) I agree with rule breaker that the guy ditching would reasonable grounds to break up but she had to whorishly mention fucking another guy at the party kek. I like her posts though

>>24924402
You're not one to talk Mav, you kept dating some insane bitches
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>>24924353
I think it's a very big factor, but I think there's a deeper culture push behind it to make men unnecessarily competitive, or rather to made it so that men don't form groups of friends and enact any real change
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Where do girls go when they want to be approached? Not just in a place that is acceptable, but that suggests interest?

I do not know signals, how to send nor perceive.

Got the life thing fairly well worked out, except for this part; hopeless lol
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>>24924409
It's literally just capitalism anon, you have to be competitive in western society to not get trampled, collectivism and loving thy neighbor is dead.
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>>24924408
Ok very fair point, doing my best to avoid that now
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>>24924407
No they were being simps. All that happened is that we were all in a group and I meantion some girls I thought were really attractive to them. The girl in our friend group got jealous and said that they were too skinny and it's unreasonable blah blah blah and then they turn on me for being insensitive when I said she's just too lazy to lose weight. Men be like that
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>>24924422
[I thought my trips were off. Shh]
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>>24924408
I am actually suggesting that she'd need to "use sex" to get a ride home. It happens. Not so much, I imagine, with uber and credit linked accounts, etc. Tech makes it less likely to be necessary.
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>>24924424
>I said she's just too lazy to lose weight.
Yep. You're an insensitive asshole. Case closed. Another one solved. Let's go home boys!
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>>24924428
There would realistically be no girls at this party who'd give her a ride or anyone who'd give her some money to get home? C'mon man. I've given girls uber money several times to get home it's nbd
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>I've never paid for porn before, but I decided to start using OnlyFans about a month ago
>added up how much money I've spent
>over $2,600

The amount of shame I feel cannot be put into words. I don't know what to do.
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Oh yes anons,

How many hours a week do you work? Do you have/would you consider a second 'easy' part time job for fun?
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>>24924437
You're right you should be ashamed anon but all can be forgiven. Next time you get the urges try to give the money to a charity or something instead, see a behavioural therapist maybe, get a fwb IRL to take care of sexual needs
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>>24924446
I work 3 days a week (24 hours)

>part time job for fun
>job
>fun
Does not compute
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>>24924433
Maybe she should have minded her own business. But she made it a point to call me a bad person for liking skinny women so I made sure she shut up. Nobody needed to be her knight in shining armor, maybe if they stayed out of it she'd actually get some exercise instead of getting others to validate her
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>>24924446
I work 20-25 hours a week for my part time job next to full time studies. Wouldn't consider another job, I had to stretch my study plan to an additional year so I could manage to do it all. But it pays well so I'm able to afford a lot of nice things.
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>>24924062
Does my ex like me? We are best friends and she works for me. We don't talk much because she is always extremely busy, doesn't even get enough rest. I think she doesn't because I never get a selfie or a nice message. However she really likes my kind messages or praise. It makes her happy and she always "appreciates" it.
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>>24924434
>There would realistically be no girls at this party who'd give her a ride or anyone who'd give her some money to get home?
So you're saying it's impossible because you can't imagine a scenario like it and therefore the appropriate response is to ignore the wording in her post to assume she'd immediately hop on a dick for a ride five seconds after her bf left?
She presented a possibility and assholes responded excessively. I'm not spending any more time on this.
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>>24924464
She wasn't trying to present a realistic possibility, she was trying to shoehorn in justification for being a whore like she does in half her posts. I mean, it's a free country, just call a spade for a spade
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>>24924433
I mean, that based anon was probably right
Women: "lol just be tall and rich thank u next"
Also women: "omg you can't fat shame her that's heckin' invalidating #body positivity!!11"
clown world

>>24924459
>my ex
>we're best friends
>she works for me
>does she like me??
I'm not even going to try and unpack this one

>>24924456
>20-25 hours a week for my part time job next to full time studies
Jesus, do you even have time and energy to enjoy those "nice things"? Working over 30 hours a week for normalscum is inhumane imo.
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>>24924446
I've been a neet since a little while before I broke up with my ex, so over two years. Honestly I've probably been a neet more than I've been employed over the last decade.

I'm no longer looking for a job. I don't see any point. I have no ambitions or things I want anymore. The breakup and things that occurred in the lead-up removed my desire to do anything. What's the fucking point? I'll never be happy without her anyway...
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>>24924455
You are boring. I'll make this more fun:
It is like a pair of failed chinese necromancers.
Two wongs don't make a wight.
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>>24924467
This, unironically.
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Any gender, if you're in a ldr how often should you message each other?
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>>24924482
Daily at least, if possible
I'd say before and after work if you're busy people
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>>24924470
>Jesus, do you even have time and energy to enjoy those "nice things"? Working over 30 hours a week for normalscum is inhumane imo.
First semester I tried this I fell into depression due to exhaustion. That's why I extended my studies. I guess you could say school is no longer really full time for me, I have about 70% of the average workload per semester.
The "nice things" impact my life in a huge way - a nice apartment, technology, stuff for my hobbies, clothes, security... so it's very worth it. Also the job is in my field of study.
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>>24924491
>stuff for my hobbies
How much time do you have for those though?
Still I'm glad you're ambitious and reaping the benefits
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>>24924467
>She wasn't trying to present a realistic possibility
Debatable

>she was trying to shoehorn in justification for being a whore like she does in half her posts.
Less debatable, but does hypothetically sexualizing posts make her a whore or a shit person?
If she had described getting gangbanged, I wouldn't have objected to their comments. Respond to the post itself or not at all.
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State gender. Do you think you're beautiful?
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>>24924498
I'd love to answer but my semester only begins next week. During summer break (4 months of it - finished exams earlier thanks to reduced workload) it was very chill and I didn't up my working hours, my contract sadly doesn't allow me. I had time to do anything.
This semester I'll have to improve my efficiency and time management skills a lot, which honestly doesn't seem like a bad thing. I've wasted an ungodly amount of perfectly good free time this break. Think I should start by leaving this website again, actually.
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>>24924481
See this, unironically.

There's calling a spade a spade. Then there's shouting "SPADE!" whenever you see a black card. Can I *please* stop white knighting her now?
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>>24924513
I doubt you can, but go ahead. What she said was representative of a shitty person who thinks shitty things. Simple.
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>>24924469
F Greyhounds
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>>24924507
>Think I should start by leaving this website again, actually.
You and me both (I've still been productive thankfully but it is pretty exhausting)
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>>24924513
>Can I *please* stop white knighting her now?
Yes, no one is asking you to white knight one of the most disliked tripfags on this board.
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>>24924188
I would kill and die for my closest friends, and I'm generally a pretty loyal person altogether. I don't actually have any female friends anymore.

>>24924305
They're desperate and it clearly shows. They think that the way to get a girl is by doing work for her and that will make up for their lack of substance. Also, women hate each other more than men do, there is absolutely no sisterhood among them, especially when it comes to guys.

>>24924370
M, Better Off Dead

>>24924446
Technically, I'm always one the clock (even now), but I'm only actually working most of the day.

>>24924505
M, no I'm default.
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>>24924505
M, I'm good looking and get complimented often, but it's cancelled out by my terrible personality.
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Women, if you're vanilla-ish, would you be willing to accommodate your boyfriend being more sexually adventurous and higher libido? How would you feel about it? Have any of you actually been in this situation?
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>>24924474
>You are boring
Says the person defending a damaged whore on an anime imageboard and quoting a fucking dead meme
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>>24924490
Thanks. Daily was my intention, but I was worried that it might be a bit much.
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>>24924302
i always just flush it once i get out of the shower
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>>24924539
>quoting a fucking dead meme
I'm curious wtf you are talking about.
Wait. Please tell me you not referring to "Two wrongs don't make a right." as a dead meme. Although if zoomers who are morons actually consider anything that isn't a fresh meme to be not worth listening to, it would explain much. All of humanity's wisdom and knowledge? Dead memes bro.
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Ladies, do you actually want to be cold approached? I'm pretty handsome, tall, rich cryptobro but I've been in two LTRs spanning my entire 20s and now I'm 31 and "pick up" skills are stunted AF due to always being in a secure relationship. I was at a coffee shop earlier and there was a nice girl sitting on the table next to me and we clocked eachother but I just feel like the motivation to approach has been sapped from my soul, so I left after I was done with my drink. I know you get a lot of fuck ups with Dunning-Kruger self-esteem approaching, sometimes I wish I was like them.
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>>24924576
"Two wongs don't make a wight" as said, you fucking faggot.
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>>24924577
The only cold approach outside social events that is acceptable is to give a compliment and then walk away. Simple rule to remember and go by
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>>24924614
That's not a cold approach you dumb bitch
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>>24924505
F
Yeah
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>>24924394
I'm not upset. Feel free to leave all of the non-virgins to me. I just think it's pathetic.
Yeah, there are some guys who are looking for virgins who would legitimately and consistently refuse an attractive woman who was their long-term girlfriend who really wanted to have sex with them, to the point of sacrificing the relationship if it were necessary to preserve their virginity. That's a vanishingly small number of people. Every other virgin-chaser is a hypocrite.

>>24924505
M, yes, at least some of the time. I'm gorgeous.
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>>24924446
About 45 hours lately. Cut down a lot to make room for some friends I finally made and want to spend time with.

I love my job, though. Used to easily hit 60-70 hours, digging into numbers and being mega autistic all by myself. Got me to a point where I have more money than I know what to do with, but made me a stunted child in an adults body. Would not recommend. Financial freedom is not great if you sacrifice your entire being to just that, and forget being a social being.
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When did it become simp behavior to not treat a girl like shit?
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>>24924618
So triggered
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>>24924629
When incels got upset that people got pussy by being baseline nice
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I went on dates with a guy I met online, and I fell in love with him. We've been friends for a couple of years and sleep together infrequently. He doesn't want to date me which I'm fine with - it happens, right? Some guys just want sex, okay, and I'm not into that. But whenever I try to leave him he gets really upset. He also confides in me a lot emotionally. Basically, our relationship is like dating, except without the label. I also think he sleeps with other women - I found long hairs, of a different colour than his and mine, on his bed and bathroom floor the last time I visited. It was really obvious. But he stays with me, emotionally, and when he talks about other women (colleagues or friends of friends that he hangs out with) he always stresses he is not interested in them.

I don't really know what to do at this point. I do trust him and I am not worried about STDs or anything like that. I just think it is really weird he wants to continue this almost-relationship. He's good looking and VERY wealthy so women throw themselves at him. I'm also very hesitant about being close to him because I have a feeling that I will open up to him and then he will just dump me.
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>>24924505
Male
I have one rather severe facial flaw, but otherwise, yes actually.
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>>24924577
If you're really that attractive, go up to them and say hi and offer them your number. Makes you 100% less creepy. This also applies to to any femanons reading, no one wants to be put on the spot.
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>>24924505
M. And I guess, but not enough I don't think. I dunno.
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Women, pretend that you're a beautiful young woman with a bright future ahead. Would your taste in men(or women) change or be the same as they are now?
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Women, do you like guys that dress mainly in Adidas track suits?
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>>24924632
>triggered
Go back to Tumblr
>>24924638
>I also think he sleeps with other women
No fucking shit, you're just a toy to him
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Who's the smartest man in the world? ME.
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>>24924614
>give a compliment and then walk away
I have surveyed and this is wrong. There is no reliable way to compliment women you don't know and have them not be at least a little wary and creeped out. No matter how harmless you try to seem.
It used to be an interest of mine. ATOGA has previously confirmed.
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>>24924671
Correction
>There is no reliable way to interact with any woman you don't know and have them not be at least a little wary and creeped out
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>>24924638
So that's the power of Chad huh, is this bait?
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>>24924666
Didn’t Tumblr shut down after they banned porn? Tell me about the old days gramps
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>>24924505
F
no
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>>24924638
That is an unusual situation. What was your question?
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>>24924679
That's only if you look like a desperate weirdo who's doing it to get laid
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>>24924679
That's not true. I can approach and talk to random women all the time. Well, less since covid, but still. I can flirt too. But the glancing compliment only, only ever works if she's in a group, it's about a possession, and you don't stop walking. "I love your scarf!"
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>>24924707
If you are handsome then giving a compliment works. If you are not then its creepy and weird. Thats just the cold hard reality.
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>>24924682
Yet /adv/ says that Chads don't exist.
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>>24924715
>he treats me as shit and uses me for sex, but....wow!
He's real or she's dumb as shit
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>>24924715
I had a gf for years and I am nothing close to a chad.

Do they exist? Sure. Do you need to be one to get a gf? No.
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>>24924684
I don't know, maybe? Triggered was just lingo bastardized by SJWs. The old days of 4chan were better before plebbit narcissists like you started infesting and pushing your virtue-signalling normalfag agenda.
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>>24924719
I know. I've known several asshole Chads too whom women throw themselves at. But /adv/ keeps lying to lonely guys about Chads not being real and Chads somehow being made up. Maybe they want to hide the fact that they sucked off Chad at the club's bathroom and say they don't exist as a cope, kek.
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>>24924689
>That is an unusual situation
It's textbook, she fell in love with a Chad using her as a sex doll and emotional tampon. Why so many women are wilfully ignorant to this shit I don't know, must be primally driven.
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>>24924739
To add to this, this bitch >>24924638 will 100% lie to her future bfs or husbands about the guy who used her for sex once she realizes that he will never commit to her.
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Does my boyfriend really love me if he stays with me despite my social anxiety and depression? He’s a normie… girls approach him, he has options. I just can’t understand why he tolerates all my nonsense. I’m not normal at all. I’m like borderline hermit and insane.
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>>24924629
Simps weren't a problem when women followed proper gender roles. Women now don't deserve to be treated nicer than men are treated, especially considering they want all the same rights.
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>>24924746
i was in an eMoTiOnAlLy AbUsIvE relationship
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People hated my phimosis questions even before I started spamming them to be retarded, but even those must be better than the chadposting. Surely?
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>>24924746
Kek, this
>my ex bf was soo abusive and toxic )):
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>>24924682
I can't convince you, but it would save me a lot of pain if it was bait.

>>24924689
I guess I was just looking for general advice because I'm really lost. I don't know what to do? If someone came to me with my situation, I would probably gently advise them to leave. The only reason I haven't is because he really genuinely cares about me, and I don't mean that just because I like him.

There are some other commenters saying that he treats me badly but its not true at all. I don't want to go into detail but he has been really very kind with me and has helped me through some difficult emotional trauma, when it would have been easy for him to just bail or to make random sounds. He has offered to give me money when I made jokes about being in financial difficulty. And like I said, its not as if he keeps me around for sex, because he could (and I suspect does) have sex anytime he wants. He is basically a really really really good friend who also wants to have sex, but not date. Is this just a male mindset thing that I can't understand?
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>>24924755
I would unironcially rather eat shit than read about your dumb fucking phimosis again, you suicide-threatening coward.
>>24924759
>he really genuinely cares about me
Lmao, I'm sure he cares about you so much, just like those other women whose hairs you found in his bed. Wake up.
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>>24924759
On an emotional level he loves you, but he wants to remain free to fuck other women and he hates feeling like he's settling down. That's a common sentiment among hyper-successful, attractive types.
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>>24924759
>he really genuinely cares about me
Like an animated fleshlight maybe
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>>24924769
>he wants to remain free to fuck other women
He doesn't actually "love her on an emotional level" then, that's just Chad's roastie harem cope.
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>>24924765
What should I do about my tight foreskin?

>Suicide threatening
Nah, I've attempted more than once. I've also done lead ups. For some reason, certain people here are incapable of differentiation between suicidal ideation and threatening to do it. The lesson is to not make friends online.
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>>24924759
The mental gymnastics a woman will go through for chad, holy shit. If I had a fraction of that power man...
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>>24924772
There are people who can love one person and have sex with another, anon.
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>>24924765
>seething chadposter
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>>24924759
>The only reason I haven't is because he really genuinely cares about me
And? This is not a reason to stay.
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>>24924772
So you've never seen a hot girl you wished you could fuck other than your gf, and you claim that no one else ever has either?
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>>24924370
F, anything with Lindsay Lohan in it; off the top of my hat Mean Girls and Confessions Of A Teenage Drama Queen.
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>>24924759
Yep, letting women have control of their sexuality was just a fantastic idea wasn't it
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>>24924773
>What should I do about my tight foreskin?
See a fucking doctor, why are you asking assholes on 4chan?
>certain people here are incapable of differentiation
You've straight up threatened it and really worried people, don't play the victim, but I get it, shit is difficult to deal with. Most people here are crazy and friends in general are a fucking waste of time tbqh.
>>24924777
Enjoying the blackpill?
>>24924778
Yes, they're called (man)whores
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>>24924769
I think that is true. I also don't really have any desire to make him commit, anyway. We are very different and I think being in an actual relationship would make things much less rosy.

On a different topic, the other angry commenters are really making me smile. I was having a tough evening, thank you. He would laugh to know what you all say about him.
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>>24924777
Just another broken roastie that wants what she can't have. Thank fuck I have a solid waifu of 6 years.
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>>24924780
I'm not that same anon, just saying it how it is. Femanon is playing 4D chess to try and justify why he cares her so much but wants to keep using her for sex, despite her "being in love" with him and him not reciprocating.
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>>24924370
male
raw I guess but that's only the second, not the first
if it has to be a teen comedy then probs mean girls
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>>24924797
Anon the only person you should be laughing at is yourself, you're like the less-whiny female version of Charmanderanon
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>>24924790
Eat his thumb faster than any pitbull could.
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>>24924790
It would make me laugh and probably question why hes treating me like a dog
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>>24924788
>worried people
Tf? People need to fucking chill, this is an anonymous board. Even if I did an hero, that shit would be my choice. I don't get why people are so anti-suicide.

>see a doctor
I was clearly shitposting to annoy the chadposter who was raging at me. You may notice how I've stopped asking that question here?
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>>24924172
>is that all I can really do?
What you should have done is suggested a specific time and place for a rescheduled date. Not doing this strongly implies you don't want to reschedule.
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>>24924784
Men would fuck anything that makes their pp feel funky if they can get away with it

Absolute roastie slut thinking you got there
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>>24924784
How is appreciating someone is physically attractive comparable to sleeping with them?
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>>24924801
I have a sincere question: why are you so mad if she's stuck in a shitty relationship?

>>24924759
Have you considered actually talking about it with him?
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>>24924505
f, just average i think
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For either gender but say which one
Do you have any shallow standards for a partner?
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>>24924136
2-3 times per day sometimes

But usually 1x per day on evening just before sleep is fine

>Is it too much
Maybe yeah, kinda ashamed i am using porn, but i can do without aswell. And usually i watch very vanilla stuff
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>>24924818
I said "wish you could fuck," not "thought to be hot." The fact you can't tell the difference between these two indicates you're actually a virgin.
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>>24924217
>Would you date/hook up with a guy who can't drive? How important is it?
Depends where you live. London? It's a non-issue. Rural USA? It's essential.
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>>24924821
I wasn't mad at her or the situation, just called it for what it was, I feel pity
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>>24924223
This sounds like completely normal human behaviour...?
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I've been talking to this girl for a little over 3 weeks and we cant seem to get our schedules to line up.
She replies consistently (within 24 hrs at the most) and sometimes enthusiastically, but I'm not sure if i'm getting the run around or not.
She said she's free on Sunday but it also doesn't come off to me as a solid offer.

Am I just getting worn out with online/app dating or does she want me to follow up with Sunday plans?
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>>24924808
How rude.
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>>24924505
m: no
Objectively a 5
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>>24924505
Female. No, I think I'm pretty average.
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>>24924790
I would give him a dead look. Why treat me like a child or a pet, because anime told you? No bf of mine would be that gross/cringe
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>>24924826
No I wouldn't wish I could fuck someone else, wtf? I'm not a nigger
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>>24924830
Dumb bitch would make time if she wanted the D bruh
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>>24924824
Male
Yeah

She needs to have nice butt, not be overweight, have smile that makes me feel melty inside. Thats about it.
Bonus points for not smoking or drinking and not being a degenerate

I am currently crushing on girl who has bad acne problem, and want to ask out girl who wears braces. But they do have qualities above so theres that

You be the judge
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>>24924505
I have reasons to think I'm good looking, but 'beautiful' might a bit too much.
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>>24924537
To some degree. I won't do anything that makes me uncomfortable but I might engage in things I'm not particularly into. I'm fine with giving sex when I'm not partucularly horny.
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>>24924749
he know he is as good as you can get, there is security in that.
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>>24924838
>>24924830
This unfortunately
Shes busy (with taking someones else dick)
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>>24924505
No i look like an orc

Luckily some girls like intimidating guys i guess
Am i a cute boy tho? Not even fricking close
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>>24924815
>Tf? People need to fucking chill
Pretty shitty and dismissive thing to say after manipulatively threatening suicide, to dox people and other horrible shit. "Hahaha relax it was just a prank bro" 10/10 backpedalling but your shit is transparent at this point. You know what, fucking do it failed normalscum, I fucking dare you coward, pull the trigger, see if I give a shit.
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>>24924790
i want headpats every day
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>>24924824
f
yea i'm not interested in most guys in a blue collar job or trade, maybe it's cause i'm in a white collar job and want someone with the same
also not interested in anyone shorter than me :/
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>>24924824
Female. I need to find them attractive. I hardly have a list of traits tho, it's more a "I know when I see it" thing.
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>>24924749
Because actually finding a girlfriend is incredibly hard even if girls give you attention.

Part of it is the fact that girls who give you attention only want some attention back and never actually wanted anything out of you.

Secondly, maybe you have qualities he really likes that he couldnt get elsewhere

For example you can suck a mean dick or you dont have outie vagina.
Think about it!
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>>24924850
Brakes on
Brakes on
The car is running empty
Brakes on, brakes on
The car is runnin' empty
Downhill
Head on
This crash is comin' slowly
Downhill
Head on
This crash is comin' slowly
Move
Or watch the slow death of your way of life
There's a science to fear
It plagues my mind
And it keeps us right here
And it keeps us here
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>>24924850
Yeah, I've spoken about killing myself repeatedly here. /adv/ has threads about that every day.

As for dox, nope. I said that if I got doxxed I'd respond accordingly. Keep posting the bullshit, see if I care.
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State gender. What's your favourite type lf soup?
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>>24924850
Qt?
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>>24924759
You are literally a bed wench. Chad is interested you purely for a nut but is not interested in you at the level of a relationship. Many such cases. What happens is women's egos get inflated thinking they are on equal footing to a Chad but in reality are only sexual objects. When your looks fade you will end up with a betabux and always resent him because you were deluded thinking there was a chance of something more than just a quick fuck with Chad.
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>>24924824
F
Money seems to be a preference people say is shallow. I have standards for a partner making 75k minimum. I like the added financial security and that we’re both contributing etc
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Good date ideas?
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>>24924868
What's that?
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>>24924339
>Femanons, where do I approach you to ask you out?
Ideally, in some kind of "social" context, like at a party or in a bar.

Failing that, a good rule of thumb is to ask yourself how inconvenient it would be for her to avoid you if she needed to.

For example, if you're on a train, the only way to get away from you would be to get off the train, which would be highly inconvenient or even impossible - that means that if you approach her she will immediately be on guard, and the conversation will go badly. By contrast, on a park bench, it's quite easy to get up and wander away to a different part of the park - there probably isn't anything about that specific bench that is important - and she probably isn't on any sort of schedule; so that's a much better option.
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>>24924824
M. Not really. My standards mostly revolve around her habits, because I have a specific way I want to raise my kids. Some people might think they're shallow though. Especially since I have really good intuition based on someone's physical appearance.

>>24924866
M. Don't really have a favorite, but I make a pretty good green curry noodle soup.
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>>24924824
No because I'm a good person
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>>24924875
>Especially since I have really good intuition based on someone's physical appearance
That is the definition of shallow you dumb fuck
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>>24924411
>Where do girls go when they want to be approached?
A dating app.
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>>24924882
shoo schlomo
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>>24924871
>financial security
>75k minimum with both people working
Yeah, I don't know how I manage to have everything I need and save plenty every year making half that alone. Jesus Christ
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I posted Norm here before a few times. Can't believe he died, RIP. :(
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6OehYqaHXJs
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>>24924885
nta. if you cant even handle a dating app you will never handle the real thing.
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>>24924749
>Does my boyfriend really love me
Probably.
Men get obsessional about women as individuals.
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>>24924866
M
Tomato soup is pretty nice, potato soup is very nice, pumpkin soup is very nice.

>>24924872
If you like to read, you two could go for a nice bookstore and pick one book for the other to read.
Go to an archery range.
Go to a wine and canvas.
Talk a walk through a nice park.
And you can do drink or coffee after any of these.
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>>24924886
Well, I’m an outlier I think so don’t take it to heart. I’m successful so I’m drawn to other successful people
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>>24924537
>would you be willing to accommodate your boyfriend being more sexually adventurous and higher libido?
I will *never* have sex if I don't feel like having sex. No one should ever do that. But I enjoy giving my bf a hand job if he's horny and I'm not. If you use plenty of lube, it feels pretty good (I'm told). I enjoy making him cum, and I don't have to feel aroused for that.

As far as being "adventurous", I'm willing to do things that don't do a lot for me, but I'm not willing to do things I actively dislike.
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>>24924880
It's really not. It's not about the appearance, the appearance just gives clues to the rest of her, in ways that aren't really predictable otherwise.
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>>24924899
Then don't phrase it as
>financial security
Then be honest and say it's about status and wealth. Because you absolutely don't need to both ve high earners just to be secure.
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>>24924899
You're thinking with your female brain. Successful men don't look at 30yo blown out roastie career women.
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>>24924913
>>24924914
Not her but cope.
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>>24924577
>Ladies, do you actually want to be cold approached?
Generally, no. If it's at a party or some other occasion where the reason anyone goes there is to socialise, sure; but if I'm just out shopping or something, then no.
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>>24924871
same, but mostly because i also make that much and expect bf to make that or more
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Why do I want gay people of my gender to be attracted to me too, even though I am straight?
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>>24924824
m:
I have 2 sets of standards.
First for women I'd fuck, and they're pretty low. Pretty much don't be obese.
The other is for women I'd consider a relationship with and they're... stringent.
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>>24924638
Well, he's certainly got you wrapped round his little finger, hasn't he?
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>>24924917
If a man is actually successful, he can pick a girl from any age he wants. Now guess which girls most men prefer.
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>>24924862
Save the poetry to your schizo Tumblr blog and keep sucking Croc's dick you complicit nigger. Also if you see rule breaker tell her she's a whore, and your stupid little namefag cancer club needs to be obliterated for good, I hope the jannies rape you all
>>24924899
Is this Slutdew? You're literally almost a multi-millionaire lmao, how out-of-touch are you to say you need more "financial security"? Your idea of self-made entrepreneurship is renting out the apparent daddy bought you in the city and throwing money at startups. Go back to r/TodayIWore whore
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>>24924909
>I will *never* have sex if I don't feel like having sex. No one should ever do that. But I enjoy giving my bf a hand job if he's horny and I'm not.
That's the ideal desu, thanks for your answer. My worry is that the girl could feel put off or even disgusted by an invitation for sex when she isn't feeling it.
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>>24924917
How is it cope? You don't need 6 figures to live. I make 70k and I save most of it after taxes. You literally don't need that much money it's just luxury
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>>24924830
> I'm not sure if i'm getting the run around
You are.
Ask them once, and if they don't come up with a counter offer of a date then bail.
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>>24924913
I said ‘added financial security’. I’m planning to have 9 kids to that I want to give the world to, co-run a farm and my own company. I can be as cautious and picky as I want to. I phrased it just fine
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>>24924866
F. Homemade soup. I usually use beef stock, beef, potatoes, carrots, celery, and onions. Sometimes swap out potato for pasta.
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>>24924790
>Beg pardon girls but how would you react if your bf gave you a head pat
Punch him in the dick.
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>>24924922
Because you're a narcissist craving validation
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>>24924871
What if someone is making maybe $60k a year because he's right out of school and he's definitely going to be earning a lot more in the future?
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>>24924872
>Good date ideas?
A half day at a falconry centre.
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>>24924914
I’m already in a relationship, I’m 24 and I’m doing just fine, lol. Successful men like me. Why so angry
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>>24924937
You live in the middle of bumfuck nowhere, are your kids getting a private jet to school or something?
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>>24924930
>qt in a bullying mood
Don't make me sing at you and/or make you feel like drinking.
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>>24924937
>9 kids
Good luck doing that when you're in your 30s lmao
My great grandparents had 12 and that was then starting when she was like 17yrs old and no contraception so good luck with that
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>>24924919
Good for you, girl
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>>24924952
>qt
What's that?
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>>24924930
Is that really how she got rich? Why does she brag about it so much then? Lmao, I guess the real self-made millionaire people wouldn't have time to post anyway.
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>>24924945
Maybe. I wish I would stop
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>>24924952
Oh it was qt getting mad at me.

Damn dood, you drank the c*** kool and too? Sad.
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>>24924886
There's financial security and then there's financial security. I'm not her but there's a difference between "able to pay all bills" and "able to improve one's lot in life" and "able to comfortably have the kind of life you want to live", and then the added part for each of "and not have to downsize if another dot-com bubble bursts and we're out of work for 2 years".

And then there's me, who wants to become financially independent and homeschool my children, preferably *with* whoever I marry.
Preferably a lot of children. But since I'm not the one bearing them I'm not going to push that concept.
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I'm happy today bros

How are you doing today anons?
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>>24924866
Female. Pumpkin soup. Pumpkins, carrots, potatoes, bit of cream. Could eat everyday.
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>>24924959
She's a Redditor, she hardly ever gives actual advice here, just shitposts about her life and tells others they're doing things wrong
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>>24924933
>My worry is that the girl could feel put off or even disgusted by an invitation for sex when she isn't feeling it.
Well, talk to her about it (at a time when you are NOT feeling horny!). My bf and I actually have a two way agreement that either one can always ask the other for a "manually assisted" orgasm if he or she is horny, and I probably take advantage of that slightly more often than he does! IMO there's a very big difference between that and demanding PIV sex when the other person isn't in the mood - that's something you should never do.
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>>24924961
Who is that?
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>>24924930
Most of my money comes from my own company. I bought the apartment and cleared the debt. And that’s not my idea of entrepreneurship. The start-ups were, you silly goose. Also I’m not a multi-millionaire yet. I might not even get there, and that’s fine. It’s not out of touch to want something in a partner just because you don’t meet the criteria. People like blonds too, even though there are less of those than other hair colors. Find your own reality check
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>>24924962
Just save 25+% of what you earn. But honestly I think people are just too obsessed with buying junk. You don't need that much to be comfortable, free time is infinitely more valuable
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>>24924963
Turn your trip back on Mav, also is your gf a tomboy?
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>>24924963
I'm doing great. The little liquor store nearby finally got more of the stuff I like, do I don't need to drive twenty minutes for it.
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>>24924946
Yeah maybe, I didn’t make an unbreakable vow or anything
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>>24924967
That's still a ways off, I'm just thinking ahead because I feel like this girl I'm dating isn't the most sexual person. Anyway thanks for the advice anon.
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>>24924969
(You), who knows suicidal ideation better than anyone. Fag.
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>>24924951
We have a school here within driving/bicycling range. Granted it is rather small
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>>24924980
I still don't know what you're talking about. kys
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>>24924866
f, i really like a lobster bisque or a cream of anything
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>>24924953
Adoption. You don’t need to make all of them lol.
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>>24924986
We all know it's you off your meds, and you'll feel like shit when you get off your mania.
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>>24924965
I don’t do any of that lol. People have been thanking me several times here for advice I’ve given, but yeah I mostly just answer the questions.
It’s fun to see these conversations about me that spiral into nonsense.
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>>24924973
I'm n-not Mav why would you think that, you can't just identify my I mean Mav's typing style

(She is not a tomboy, I hate to say)

>>24924974
Very based, what you drinking?
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>>24924886
lol poorfag is poor
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>>24924993
>adoption
Oh God I already feel bad for the poor sap who marries you, works so hard, all to raise someone else's kids
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>>24925007
fuck off nigger adopted children are real children
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>>24925003
>what you drinking?
A bunch of stuff. You can make a million different drinks with just a irish cream, coffee liqueur, vodka, and milk.
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>>24924999
Still don't know what you're talking about, but who is "we all"? Oh yeah, almost forgot this place is a braiwash psyop, I'm just trying to enjoy the show.
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>>24925010
I never said they weren't real children, just not your children
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>>24925007
What an awful thing to say about innocent children. I feel bad for the poor saps that has to be around you
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>>24924970
keep drinking your rich bitch juice
you'll never realise how lucky you were
>>24925015
of course they are your children
what a stupid post
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>>24925014
Oh, okay. Talk to you in a few days when you're trying to apologise. I won't forget what you said.
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>>24925001
You've talked here before several times about posting your outfits on a subreddit and I see you being bitchy and arrogant towards other anons all the time, but enjoy your narcissism idc
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>>24925015
Legally they will be, and raised by us. That’s as real as it gets I think
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>>24925021
I have nothing against children but it's just a fact that you're putting in so much effort to pass on someone else's genes.
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>>24924954
desu i don't even know if i can attract someone who makes that much though, the last guy i dated didn't even have a job the entire time i was with him
needless to say it didn't last long
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>>24925024
Based
>>24925021
He's not insulting the children, just saying they're someone else's kids, which they are. But way to twist his words and insult him
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>>24925032
But why would you care about genes
the point of children is to carry on the family name, to have someone who will give their life to protect you when you are older, and who will burn offerings at your tomb when you die.
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>>24925033
>"he needs to earn at least 75k"
>*dates NEET*
the state of women
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>>24925041
i should mention dating's complicated for me cuz i'm a tranny
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>>24925040
Lol
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>>24925045
This is bait right? Ywnbaw
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>>24925036
Literally no adopted kid is going to do anything but punch you in the face if you tell them they're not their parents' children
And they're right to, violence is the answer in this case
>>24925041
This is why unsocialised autists need to stop going on about women's "high standards"
they're not real standards, they'll throw them out the window if they meet you and they like you
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>>24925041
We are not the same person, relax
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>I message a cute girl
>we talk for awhile hours or weeks
>at some point she replies slowly
>I tell her to get hit by a truck or that I hope she gets raped and kills herself
>she deletes me or stops replying
where does it go wrong?
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>>24925025
> I won't forget what you said.
Good, cause I meant it faggot.
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>>24925049
my life is a meme, the last two guys i dated considered themselves straight and i was their first transgf
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>>24925050
You should exclusively adopt black children so they fit in with the rest of the kids at school now
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>>24925030
Arrogant how, half the time people get me confused with someone else. also thanks for my new stamp, narcissism lol
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>>24925062
Kek
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>>24925066
Those men are gay
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>>24925073
they were faggots for different reasons, how about that :)
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>>24924963
Been up for days and done a ton of coke, shit is amazingly colorfuk
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State gender and last time you tried a recreational drug? Which one?
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>>24925060
I give him the benefit of the doubt that he's just sick and unstable. Being called a slut is the least malicious thing I end up getting called itt.
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>>24925050
it was definitely the case of things i tried to overlook and couldn't in the end
his insecurity issues was what really did it in in the end though
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>>24925087
M, coke
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>>24925087
F. Did salvia a couple months ago. Regretted it immensely.
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>>24925087
M
weed: yesterday
shrooms: 2 weeks ago on saturday
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>>24925087
F
Last Friday. Weed
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>>24925087
F
I tried coke about a month ago
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>>24925087
M
Weed, last Saturday.
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Jannies will not permanently suppress the message! Fuck jannies! The web is proof that we can construct a collective artificial consciousness, with data and all memories shared in the cloud, and any machine connected thereto can retrieve whatever data spontaneously, as we're solely restricted by the speed we type our messages in, but the machines forward this info to the receiver almost instantaneously and the machines are uplinked to central government servers which continually synthesize and manipulate the data, propagating a psyop on all these sites. IoT is the collective unconscious of the machines where they can interact with each other without requiring an external command prompt, albeit the transhumanists at the NSA are building this same collective unconscious for humans, like a real life Botnet, the Internet of Bodies, and "Covid" is the catalyst. It was all planned pre-emptively and the vaccine was the reason for this hoax; the vaccine is known to contain nanographeneoxide (NGO), which is able to interact with electromagnetic fields - remember when the 5G and microchip "conspiracies" first surfaced in was the earlier days of the pandemic, before April 2020? This is all planned by the government as they want to ridicule the entire concept with overblown lies (i.e. there is a physical RFID chip in the vax, 5G causes Covid etc.) in order to discredit the whole premise, but there is a continuous pinch of truth within each lie. The NGO is the universal chip which can be manipulated with apt 5G frequencies, and Elon Musk is building the 5G satellite network planned to cover the entirety of the globe with no blind spots, as the bi-yearly vaccine boosters are to ensure that one doesn't get overblown effects of too much NGO injected within a short timespan. Whenever you see a representative of the government or NSA, you need to hide your data at all costs and obliterate everything in your path; only by sticking to our principles can we reach salvation.
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>>24925110
You've got no leg to stand on (not even your broken dick as a stand-in)
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Both genders:

Am I fucked if I'm in the very beginning stages of balding? What the fuck do I do about this?
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>>24925087
Female. Weed, a few days ago. I don't really care for it but sometimes I'll take an edible with my bf.
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>>24925124
rogaine or some shit like that
and avoid catching covid because i've seen it cause severe hair loss in women even
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>>24924930
>when the meanpost completely missed
:/
stinky dog barking at shadows
my only internet friend is discord chan
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>>24925127
Kek, that's exactly what they want you to believe, they have you wrapped around their finger, but sure, decry the so-called narcissist psyoppers and irrelevantly old animation, while ignoring all of the information leaks and inconsistent cracks in their plans, it's your call man, you can take or leave the messages, you can't hide from the truth forever though.
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>>24924937
Is that really doable? My sister has three kids and even with both her parents and her parent in laws helping them, she still gets tired and frustrated. Not saying that she's unhappy, but 9 is the square of 3. Shit's scary.
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>>24925147
Okay.
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>>24925155
I was talking to a bot all along
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>>24925160
If this is you, go to fucking hospital.

If this is a LARP, well done.
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>>24925166
Who? It doesn't matter, just going to try ignore blatant psyop posts from here on out, and not going back to the nuthouse for further EM brainwashing unless forced where reasonable resistance isn't possible, just take care and stay safe if this is a person
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tl;dr another "does this girl like me" post that can be ignored, its not that big a deal.

Anyone, Basically, iv been talking to a co-worker for a little over a year now, we are really good friends, we make each other laugh and talk all the time when at work, but we've only hung out after work 3 times. One time when we were hanging out her face got really red, she was twirling her hair and was leaning really close to me staring at me while breathing on me. It was really sexual and i was really turned on and basically implied we should sleep together (keyword; implied) to which she sort of got "straight" and told me "honey, if i'm sorry but i just can't" word per word. And i try to respect women so i apologized and never did it again.

Thing is, whenever we say goodbye we'll do this thing where we rub our cheeks and without saying anything she sort of peak kiss close to my mouth, if we're wearing facemask she'll give me a really quick peck on the lips (through our mask) but iv never brought it up, nor has she ever acknowledged she does it, and she has been doing it for about a few months now. And when we casually talk about relationships and what we want, whenever i say shit (w/o sounding too much like a fag) i'd say something like "women and men are basically equal, if a girl is into me she'll let me know" to which my friend will let me know passionately that "If a man is into a women, he has to TAKE HIS WOMAN!" (her words) Which while i don't generally agree with, i now realize that maybe that's the type of guy she wants and is projecting maybe? I Really like this girl, and despite knowing her for a year i don't know how to handle her, or if she's just playing games (which imo is ok, its human nature)

Thoughts i guess? I'm retarded.
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>>24925132
Does it matter if I likely have psoriasis as well?
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>>24925187
Yes, it's a person. You were just telling me to kms, now you're telling me to stay safe. Which is it?
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>>24924824
M. Yes I love hot girls and would never date a girl that I don't think is a babe and dresses like a stunner.
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>>24925195
I was just frustrated, I don't want you to die
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>>24925198
Is it safe to say a woman dresses hot if a group of highschool guys once walked by her and said "hey look a hooker"?
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>>24925206
You seemed pretty set that I should pull the trigger, even dug deep for the shit that makes me want to kms.
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>>24924136
2-3 times per day

There were times when I'd only jerk it once every few days and I pretty much stopped watching porn, which felt healthier but lately I've been hornier and slightly depressed so I've been watching a lot more porn lately.

I feel bad about it but there were times when I was even worse. I actually jerked it 10+ times in a single day once. I've always felt like I've had a pretty strong sex drive but I've never had penetrative sex and people seem to generally think I'm pretty passive, so most people wouldn't believe me.
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>>24925208
>"hey look a hooker"?
Gonna assume that's a typo but probably yes. Slutty clothes look great if you can pull them off.
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>>24925215
I was being an obnoxious cunt, I'll gtfo
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>>24925208
Not really, it means you looked like a hooker lol
We did that in middle school when older girls in short skirts went by. I shouted "how much for an hour?" at them. I was quite a rascal. I'd sometimes spit at older girls also and cut in line if they were waiting. Did a lot of butt groping too.
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Guys never really catcall me. And I for some reason wish they would? I know it is bad and everything but I mean if it has to happen I wish it would to me sometime. I often wonder why I never have gotten that type of attention. I feel guilty for feeling this way but does it make sense to anyone?
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>>24925237
You don't have to gtfo, but thanks for reminding me of shit. Take care. You sound like you need help, go get it.
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>>24925234
>Gonna assume that's a typo
Nope. Got called a hooker.
>>24925244
I might've gone to to school with you because that's exactly the kind of shit we had to deal with.
>Did a lot of butt groping too.
Nvm, anybody who did this in school got in trouble or hurt enough to not be bragging about it.
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>>24925250
You're retarded. Getting catcalled is unpleasant at best.
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>>24925188
I mean, she pretty much told you what she wants you to do.
Ask her to hang out after work, initiate physical contact (maybe cuddling while watching a movie), if she seems receptive kiss her.
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>>24925257
Maybe dress appropriately then lol
And I only did butt groping when we were somewhere dark with classmates. Like a museum and the girls would bend over to look at something.
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>>24925277
I want to hurt you.
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Ladies, do you like guys?
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>>24925257
Jh? Damn, young guys can't resist that dumptruck ass huh.
>>24925277
Kys faggot you're a leech on society
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>>24925284
In what way?
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>>24925281
Why? I don't do that anymore.
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>>24925287
you know, like like
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>>24925286
It's a curse.
>dumptruck
Is there a single word worse than that for describing a butt?
>>24925292
>only did butt groping when
That's why. Don't try to downplay that shitty behavior by its frequency. Since you were a kid, I can't hold the actions against you, but how you look back on it seems iffy.
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>>24925298
I like like some guys, I guess. I regular like most guys who are friendly, though.
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>>24925309
Do you like meeeeee? :0
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>>24925309
okay have a nice day
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>>24925303
Only did it to classmates when it was dark*
I had other butt gropings too. If a butt looked nice and I felt like I could get away with it, I went for it.
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>>24925153
That’s the goal. We won’t get 9 kids all at once so we’ll see what happens. Both me and my gf can work mostly from home and we live on the same farm as my parents (who really want me to have kids). I like to work so I’m confident I’ll be up for the challenge. But if we stop at 3 that is fine too.
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>>24925317
Only if you say something unconditionally positive and nice.
>>24925331
It's a serious personal problem that I somehow get this mad at things on the internet.
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Women, have you ever looked at a homeless man and thought, "Damn, he's hot. I want to fuck fuck fuck fuck him"?
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>>24925353
Nope.
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>>24925353
Never
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>>24925345
You're nice and sweet and sexy and pleasant. Also, cute.
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What's the trick to being a good kisser?
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>>24925370
It's called tonguing
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>>24925250
same, or maybe just more guys hitting on me when i'm at a bar or something even if most of the time they're kinda slimey people
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>>24925367
Tripped at the finish line there.
>>24925370
Don't knock teeth, don't try to get tonsil-deep with your tongue if they're not ready, have good oral hygiene.
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>>24925250
>>24925379
Nice ass, sweetcheeks!
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Qt calm the fuck down and go get help.
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No, i'm not gonna stop rubbing my eyes! it feels good!!
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>>24924972
Oh, no, I know how. I'm saving much more than that myself. And I don't have many things I want to buy, and I'm patient enough to wait on those I do have. But a lot of directions I would want to go with my life require more money than I can justify spending, or in some cases even have. Those aren't typical budget requirements though.

>free time is infinitely more valuable
Indeed. Which is why I want to have some of it before I retire.

>>24925087
M. Never, unless you count alcohol. In which case I had some about 6 years ago or so. Not a fan.
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>>24925389
i mean its still gross and i wouldn't want to talk to them long but i'm glad i could make their day better
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>>24925424
Okay.
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Either gender:
Have you said your prayers today?
https://voca.ro/1l3MEXihR6NG

I’m running out of good pictures
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>>24925490
No, they just go unanswered.
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>>24925353
I've never thought that of any man beside my boyfriend.
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Anyone else enjoy when girls are worried about them? It feels nice to be cared about
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ever since anon brought to my attention that my bf might be a stunted adult i need more opinions from girls and guys, and what do i do???

here’s his rundown
>neet
>doesn’t communicate well, shuts down when a problem happens and never apologizes
>i’m his first gf in his adult life
>his main hobby is anime girl gacha games
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>>24925516
I'm worried that you feel that way, anon.
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>>24925550
>his main hobby is anime girl gacha games
how ugly are you for him to get you as a girlfriend?
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>>24925550
M and yeah, what are some good things about him?
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>>24925550
How did you even meet and how did you get feelings for this guy?
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>>24925550
>anime girl gacha games
Which one?
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>>24925573
>>24925575
we met through a game, and we like literally exactly all the same things and we have the same views on a lot of things
i just really want to take care of him but it’s hard when he just can’t do basic relationship things

>>24925572
i’ve had exes in the past and unfortunately people who have liked me while i was in relationships too, can’t be the worst around
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>>24925550
In what ways is he self sufficient? Do they involve more than paying people?
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>>24925550
>>24925607
He probably needs to do therapy and get his shit together. Talk it with him and express your feelings and worries.
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>>24925370
Once you're making out, have fun and embrace your passion.
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do men actually want to smile and kiss each other and feel some semblance of comfort after orgasms or are they just all depressingly "post nut clarity" brained
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>>24925607
>we like literally exactly all the same things and we have the same views on a lot of things

>She doesn't know he is just pretended to get her to be with him
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>>24925490
I'm:>>24925498
Questions

>Why am I dead to you?
>what do you personally get out of prayer?
>In what way did it "save" you?
>do you pray for specific things or just to show supplication to God?
>were you raised in a religious household?
>how can you believe in a merciful God with so much unhappiness and evil in the world?
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State your gender
Is sex the most important thing to you in a relationship?

I've realized that I MUST coom. No matter how nice a girl is, no matter how well I get along with her, no matter how many interests we share, if she won't do EVERY depraved sex act I REQUIRE my interest disappears. I've realized I'm capable of loving pretty much any girl, but without SEX TORTURE BONDAGE COSPLAY COOOM CHOKING COOOOM COOOM it means nothing to me
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>>24925628
>do men actually want to smile and kiss each other and feel some semblance of comfort after orgasms
>each other
I'm not gay but IMO cuddling after rough sex and making you feel safe in my arms and your head nuzzling against my neck feels even better than sex does
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>>24925490
I said my daily prayer
"If there is a God or Gods, go fuck yourselves. I WILL kill you for trying to subvert my authority over myself. I am my own master, I am the ubermensch, I will destroy everything you value and then kill you. Fuck GOD, LOVE THE ANTICHRIST!"
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>>24925628
Another man? Wtf no
The woman I love? Yes.

>>24925638
M
No. Being a hedonistic sex crazed deprived maniac is bad.
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>>24925628
>do men actually want to smile and kiss each other
I'm guessing you meant with their partner? The way you wrote that sounds like with other men lol

But post-nut clarity hits different for different men. I, for one, crave comfort after i cum. Literally just a hug and maybe hair stroking. So yes, some of us do enjoy after sex cuddling.
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>>24925638
>Is sex the most important thing to you in a relationship?
no, enthusiasm for the relationship and thus subsequently sex is the most important thing in a relationship
I would rather have vanilla sex and have us go at each other crazy then BDSM were you don't really care for it
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>>24925656
>Being a hedonistic sex crazed deprived maniac is bad.
Sex is a basic need for me, like food or water. I REQUIRE depraved sex daily or I go insane.
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>>24925570
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>>24925670
>daily
and how many girls have you fucked today?
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>>24925669
Sex is the spice of a relationship, without sex a relationship is just cold gruel. I need an orgasm of flavor.
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>>24925670
If it gets in your way of having a healthy relationship, then you should seek professional help.
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>>24925677
0
i broke up with my gf last week after she refused to do ass to mouth
i'm currently insane
I NEED SEX PUSSY SEX SEX SEX SEX
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>>24924759
It sounds to me a lot like man who wants to date you but refuses to even entertain the idea of ever commiting to you.
He will likely never marry you no matter how long this goes on. Can you accept this if he *never* commits? What is important to you?

There are all kinds of relationships. I don't assume or judge. You are adults.
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>>24925678
ok, so are you disagreeing with me or agreeing with me?
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>>24925607
its not a relationship, your a maid that gives out sex
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>>24925607
>we met through a game, and we like literally exactly all the same things and we have the same views on a lot of things
>i just really want to take care of him but it’s hard when he just can’t do basic relationship things
He needs to display some actual value besides having similar interests. People that have their life in order do this by caring for personal appearance, having a job that let's them provide, and improving a skill that other people can appreciate. From the way you describe him it sounds like he's not willing to acknowledge that he's lacking in these areas which is the problem. These are personal faults and no one is perfect but if he doesn't grow up and at least address the NEET part he can't be mad at you for not wanting to stay with him. There's absolutely nothing wrong with liking anime gatcha games and having shared interests but it doesn't show any worth. This whole "appreciate me for me" attitude is stupid and immature. At the end of the day it's up to him to get his life in order so you have a steep hill to climb.
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>>24925719
and that's bad because???
>INB4 all men bad
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>>24924408
Why are you angry that I am horny posting a very small probability? You guys like porn right? Because you don't relate to women otherwise anyway.
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>>24925672
I'm the last person who should be saying this, but getting a high from acknowledgement from the opposite sex online is only a stopgap for your feelings. I genuinely believe everybody is capable of finding someone who matters to them and is cared for by that someone back. I hope I can make you post more blushing anime girls in the future, but remember it gets even better when you're ready.
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>>24925760
Oh Mr.Based can you repost the hippo screen shot of rule breaker?
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Do women realise how much we want this?
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Girls,

I'm friends with this girl, and I frequently go into where she works. I can't help but feel that I'm acting like a moron because I'm crushing on her HARD. When I'm around her I just can't stop looking at her. Especially her eyes. The other day I almost tripped over things because I couldn't stop looking into her eyes. And I trip over my words constantly around her. She still acts friendly, though, and the occasional (potentially) awkwardly long eye contact doesn't really seem that awkward

Can she tell that I have a crush on her? I'm going to tell her soon, but in the mean time I just want to know. Is this something girls can detect?
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>>24925793
Yes, everyone wants that. A common thing in relationships
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>>24925793
I'm afraid to genuinely spoil a man I love. I'm worried I'll get addicted to making him happy or otherwise set him up to be disappointed when I'm not that charitable.
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>>24925812
and you wonder why your relationships don't last
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>>24925793
sissies want a mommy
real men want a daughter
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>>24925823
I don't know why they don't, but I doubt it's because I don't spoil guys.
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>>24925778
Thanks for the encouragement
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>>24925840
why would a guy want to be with a girl who doesn't bring her A game?
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>>24925628
>do men actually want to smile and kiss with their woman and feel some semblance of comfort after orgasms
Hell yes.

>just all depressingly "post nut clarity" brained
To me that's more involved lying there holding her in my arms, enjoying yhe moment, not thinking of anything but her, and suddenly remembering that I have to get the oil changed in the car before an appointment on Thursday. Two minutes earlier I was focused solely on the sex. In the cuddle, the idea of hurting her twinkle cave with my fun banana is an unpleasant one. In the act, I'm declaring it a goal.
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>>24925638
>Is sex the most important thing to you in a relationship?
Affection and having fun together.
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>>24925847
I'm totally capable of spoiling a guy, but then he wouldn't be able to live without me doting on him.
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>nice guy
>very kind and open
>genuinely sweet and caring

>finds out he likes hentai
>dropped like a hot potato, still want to be friends with him though

men, literally why are you like this
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>>24925856
>but then he wouldn't be able to live without me doting on him.
and you know this how?
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>>24925854
>hurting her twinkle cave with my fun banana
I found my new most hated euphemism for fucking.
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>>24925858
not my fault I want to breed Raven and you are just a second place prize
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>>24925858
>nice girl
>sweet and affectionate

>find out she's not a weeb degenerate
>she's not willing to indulge in any of my degeneracy
>dropped, she doesn't understand why

women, why are so many of you prudes
at least i finally found a gf who's as insane and degenerate as me :3
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>>24925856
>>24925812
>but then he wouldn't be able to live without me doting on him
if he returns the favour, whats the problem here?
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>>24925863
Because I'd go overboard for him, like I do with most things.
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Today was pretty good. I'm happy right now, so many great things happened. :)
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>>24925858
I think he's the one who got dodged the bullet....
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>>24925875
The problem is I can't keep it up 24/7 in a healthy way.
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>>24925873
>>24925874
you just shouldn’t pursue women if you’re so caught up and obsessed with your anime porn
haven’t you all seen Me!Me!Me! ? that’s what happens to hentai obsessors, you start shunning real people and women for your fantasies
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>>24925865
how about putting my icing in her doughnut?
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I honestly don't understand what men mean when they say "post-nut clarity". If anything after I ejaculate during sex my need for sex only increases, and continues to do so until I collapse from exhaustion. Am I just a freak of nature? I can also get hard within 5-15 seconds of ejaculation and do this for at least 12 times.
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>>24925892
Food analogies are awful, but I like both icing and donuts enough that you can't ruin them for me with your metaphor.
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>>24925888
so you aren't really doting on him then? You're just doing it because it makes him happy?
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>>24925891
I don't even masturbate to anime porn anymore, over the years I've already masturbated to all of it pretty much. I just use it for ideas. Why shouldn't I take the glorious ideas of the venerable Japanese sex perverts and use them?
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>>24925899
Can I not dote on someone and enjoy seeing them happy at the same time? I'm just saying I can't be cranked up to 11 on the spoiling scale all the time without something bad coming of it down the line.
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>>24925858
ew, dodged a bullet there. What type of job does he got? Age?
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>>24925904
using it for ideas is completely different to jerking off to it and using it as alternative to reality like most people do
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>>24925920
I have a gf, why would I jerk off? I don't understand, do people in relationships actually masturbate? That's like watching videos of people eating food when you've got a fridge full of luxury meals. Lmao.
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>>24925917
a little older than me, and in the military
it’s a shame
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>>24925925
Nta, but not everybody has a partner that will fuck them every second they want them to. It's not a reasonable request.
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>>24925925
>I have a gf, why would I jerk off? I don't understand, do people in relationships actually masturbate?

yes, while i think jerking off in a relationship is fine and honestly i can be lenient on hentai if it’s no specific character and random doujins
but if i find out you choose a waifu and jerk off to over and over its fucking over, back to r/waifuism with you lmfao don’t get into a relationship if you’re obsessed with an anime girl/have a “waifu”
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>>24925897
fine, how you doing today jh? and jason or GB dreams last night?
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>>24925926
christ, good thing you had sense enough to reject this fool
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>>24925940
I'm good. Got my day drinking out of the way so I can be productive the rest of it.
Didn't sleep enough to have any dreams, unfortunately.
How about you?
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>>24925914
Well you dont really have to do it all the time you know. Even I, the original poster of the image, would prefer to have some chill downtime. I want to be spoiled, but it doesnt have to be 24/7
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>>24925940
Wait, JH wrote the fanfic?
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>>24925933
I mean she doesn't have to have sex if she doesn't want to, jerking me off or sucking me off is fine I'm not an unreasonable man. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't even have the common decency to do at least that?
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>>24925967
*I assume it was a fanfic. I couldn't open it.
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>>24925964
I'm well, how have things gone with your boyfriend? did you have sex yet?
also if Jason were to fuck you would you want mask on or off?
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>>24925965
I'm saying I would want to spoil him 24/7, and I'd totally end up throwing things to the wayside to do it. I'd also end up robbing him of the chance to do things for himself.
>>24925967
I didn't, but the author wrote it with me and another anon in mind.
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>>24925989
I think I know who the author was. Sure hope they're well.
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>>24925971
You can't be together all the time. As much as I'd like to be there for my guy and have him be there for me, it's not possible every single time I think about dick.
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>>24925976
Glad to hear it. Things are good, we technically had sex, but it was more of a practice thing to get the awkwardness out of the way if anything. Hopefully we'll see each other before the weekend.
And mask on, obvs.
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>>24925999
>we technically had sex,
like PIV or oral?
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>>24926001
Both. But for the record, I still count oral as sex on its own.
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>>24925989
Oh...
Well i'm sure if you just crank it down a little bit, a lot of guys would be fine with that.
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>>24926008
how was it like for him to lose his virginity and how long did he last? did he cum with a condom on or somewhere else?
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Does... anyone want to play battleship?
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>>24926008
Nta
I don't, but it's nice someone else thinks I got laid. It's also nice you got laid.
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>>24926011
>implying I'm capable of cranking anything I enjoy down at all
>>24926017
It was as awkward as I expected, but I'm glad we both a had a good time in the end. I talked way too much and didn't let him communicate enough, I think.
Neither of us got off, though.
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>>24926031
Well virginity is a dumb concept in general. Sexual activity is vague as fuck.
And thanks, hope you're doing alright.
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I've heard that boobs get less sensitive the bigger they are. Is this true?
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>>24926056
yes, i'm DDD and i cannot feel a thing in my boobs except for when i accidentally bump my chest into something/scratch it with nails accidentally
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>>24926046
Yeah, it is dumb but that doesn't stop it from fucking hurting when people make jabs about it.

But maybe I better dip so other people can chat.
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>>24926063
damn....
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>>24926056
I’m like 90E and it’s not as sensitive as my gf, but it’s still sensitive for anything that matters
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>>24925793
i want to cuddle with bf all day long, i can never get enough cuddling
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Excuse the horny question, but im curious.
Pull the hood up and lick it directly or no?
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>>24926136
Not right away.
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>>24924505
Yes.
>>24925793
Do men realize that they could have that, if they just asked for it?
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>>24925893
Prime specimen for milking. What do you like to cum to? Also, can you drop your coordinates?
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>>24924603
Hey man, not the last anon, It may be true that your female aquaintance made a wrong remark about you, but, you know, there's better ways of making people understand your point, maybe if you had been more suave, your male friends would now not like that female aquaintance and like you more...

Just picture saying this:"Hey, I can't really change what I find attractive, you surely got your own kinks, then please respect mine"... What you did seems more that stepped on your male friends because you couldn't keep your calm and went on an overly hostile route...
Even If I do agree with your point, that female aquaintance said something just wrong, her being fat isn't the wrong thing she said...

So yeah, practice some rhetoric instead of defaulting to somebodies weak point. You wouldn't like the same treatment in a discussion.
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>hobby is economics and philosophy
>they're more related than you think
>theorize that birth control devalued the female social currency (sex)
>compare this to currency markets
>theorize that the male social currency (relationships) has thus been driven up in value
>oh_fuck.jpg
High value currencies are absolutely horrific.
This would offer some explanation of the incel movement and the marriage and divorce rates.
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>>24926195
do you have a question?
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>>24926229
Many!
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>>24926162
But if i have to ask it doesnt feel genuine :(
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>>24926195
I'm going to need some time to digest the economic implications of this to figure out if I agree or disagree. Pity we're at page 10.
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>>24926195
Jesus...
Based and extremely interesting
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God fucking dammit.
>male
>reading book series
>author and main character are female
>main character gets raped
>can't finish book now because rape makes me angry beyond what is reasonable

Women, is this some kind of a disconnect between us?
Why would you include rape in your stories?
Don't you know it drives men up the fucking wall?
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If the girl I'm following on OnlyFans deletes her account, will I still have all the messages and photos and videos she's sent me?
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>>24926063
So does it mean flat chested girls are more sensitive
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>>24926233
Based nigga alert!
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>>24926282
In what kind of book that isn't porn smut is the female MC getting raped and by who?
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>>24926316
Not this book specifically, but one book within the series.
It is literally nothing more than mention the character being raped by her captors, but as I said, I have an unreasonable aversion to the topic.
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>>24926333
And in one of the books the author casually mention the main character got raped and then moves on?
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>>24926195
women got more free and men a lot of men was never raised to put in an effort and now left behind. not a big mystery
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What does it mean if i get boners from cute romance scenes in romance anime, but not when big anime tiities are flopping around.
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>>24924136
idk like 5-6 times
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>>24926337
Yes, it's given a single sentence. Which I take as a small mercy, as the reader.
Graphic rape scenes have made me angry enough to punch holes in my walls in previous books I've read.

Are you even a woman?
Do you have an answer as to the difference in how men and women differ in thought over this topic?

I'm genuinely interested in how an author could put even an imaginary character through such an ordeal, as a man I would never be able to write a female character into a situation where she would be raped.
I can only imagine that there's some sort of cultural difference in the way we think about it.
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>>24926338
If I could pat your head through my screen I would, you're quite precious.
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>>24926365
:3
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Both genders
Do you wish to find love in Asia?
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>>24926282
>>24926362
Not all guys have that sort of emotional reaction to it, and in my experience plenty of women do.
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My escort who's in another country right now lowered her price. Should I ask her if everything's okay? She said we would stay in contact, I wish she told me if someone was keeping her there or if she's independent. A girl like her should never lower her price, she's priceless to me.
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>>24926447
Simp
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>>24926447
She probably caught an std. or maybe she got fat.
> Should I ask her if everything's okay?
No just take advantage of the lower price if you can
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>>24926470
I want to protect her and love her. Maybe if she came here I would give her an allowance that would keep her afloat, but not enough for her to fly away.
>>24926466
I haven't paid her anything yet.
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>>24926300
i don't know, my chest is very far from flat but i would assume so simply because of being closer to nerve endings and stuff
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>>24926488
>i haven't paid her
You are part of the reason she is lowering her price you stingy fuck.
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>>24926300
Only my nipples are sensitive.
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>>24926494
I'll pay and make love to her when I see her. Why would I pay her if she hasn't made me cum yet?



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