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Does having sex help with depression/ feelings of worthlessness?>t. 21 year old make virgin growing tired of waiting for the right person/ marriage amidst the growing desire to kill myself
Guys and gals: how do I tell the difference between having a crush on someone and wanting to fuck someone?Please specify gender by the by, I’m curious to see if there’s a difference between answers. I already got some useful responses, but my curiosity remains.
>>24921957Temporarily, yes. Long term it can kinda fuck you over if you turn it into a coping mechanism though
>>24921969>picthats actually a pretty genius ice breaker
>>24921957My ex was depressed and no amount of physical affection and intimacy from my part helped.Someone else won't change your life or heal you, you'll have to do that yourself.
Dating in person seems too intimidating to me. Is online-only dating feasible? How would I go about doing this?
>>24921969(Reposting my answer from last thread.)M. If you look at her face, you have a crush. If you look at her assets, you want to have sex with her. If both, you should ask her out, if you're single.
My gf wants me to film us having sex and me degrading her sexually. How do I do it right since this is a major fetish for her?
>>24922015It’s a decent answer.
>>24922009No because every girl from fat to old has dozens of guys clicking on them and they shallowly choose which ones to keep talking to without even knowing you in person.
>>24922028I see. Guess I quit.
My gf is such a negative person and I don't think she even realizes it. She takes everything personally and reads huge slights into small or innocuous things that other people do, like someone will say something perfectly normal to her but she'll take offence because it sounded rude when it clearly didn't.For me the worst part is she vents all of these things. I think to her she sees herself as just telling me about her day. But on my end it's long winded, unfocused stories about how someone did something that offended her during the course of the day. She will literally spend 10 minutes explaining some minor interaction that wasn't rude in any way, but she's built it up to be this major offense and is ready to explode over it. Every time I see her she unloads at least 20 minutes of negative emotions on me and it's wearing me down.It's not even that I can't handle it, because I mostly just tune her out and nod along, it's that I think she's nuts. She's only hurting herself by assuming all these other people are being rude to her and carrying that annoyance around all day.Is there anything I can do to address this with her? She needs to improve her attitude towards other people and she needs to stop unloading it all on me because I don't care and don't want to hear it.
>>24921987What if I don't have the will to change myself?
How long should I wait before texting again? My gf opened a message I sent like 30 minutes ago without responding, which is fine, since I didn't necessarily need a response, but I just remembered a question I wanted to ask, and was wondering how long I should wait before asking it? I can see that she just logged into the messaging app we use.
>>24922056What even is this? Just text her. She's your gf, you can double, triple, quadruple text. No one will give a fuck.
>>24922009>online-onlyAs in, you never meet and it's all via text and cam and whatnot?It's not real dating. There is NO substitute for in person time, contact, affection. Without those things your relationship will not grow or deepen.
Does vaginal penetration feel like a good massage? That's what all the articles tell me.
Is it true that women hate all men and want us all to die? Thats what articles tell me
>>24922039bite the bullet and tell her pretty much exactly what you've just told us. then brace for impact.
>>24922102I guess? Personally, I describe it as feeling a fullness that just feels right and natural.
>>24922096I'm fine with that. I don't really have the balls to date a woman irl because the entire act makes me feel too vulnerable. I'm terrified of rejection. With the distance of the internet I think I should be able to keep my cool and not feel awkward or embarrassed about it. Getting turned down wouldn't hurt that much either because they don't really know me.
Why are girls so impure and only think of s*x all the time??
How would you respond to this prompt? Second prompt was “best way to ask me out is being upfront with your intentions”
>>24922140Be upfront with your intentions lmao
>>24922147Lmao how tf do I do that? “Damn girl u fine” seems a bit too upfront
Is this a weird thing to desire?
>>24922105No stop listening to articles and start thinking critically. Any article could be written by any person for any reason. People lie on the internet all the time.
First, state your gender. Second, tell me under what circumstances if any you'd consider doing something like this if your partner asked. Would they have to be super rich? Would the sex have to be amazing? Maybe... this is just your thing so you don't need special circumstances?
>>24922175No. Also that’s a good show.
>>24921969MaleIf I don't like her but still feel my jaw tightening, I want to fuck them but don't have a crush on them. If I like her but still feel my jaw tightening, I want to fuck them and also have a crush on them.If I like her but don't feel my jaw tightening, I am hallucinating on my deathbed and can finally ascend to be with the universal energy and the Buddha.
>>24922187MaleWouldn't do it.
>>24922187MIn private, whatever so long as I can bear the cringeIn public, no chance, kids have enough weird fucked up bullshit to be exposed to without me contributing, and that's final.
>>24922191Is it actually, or just meme? I never read Kafka I just know art students mope around about him.
>>24921879I really like this format for the OP
>>24922215oh thx bb uwu also i'm stealing that one to use elsewhere
>>24922187f, not a chance
>>24922133Because they are very naughty girls.
>>24922221feel free>>24922222Checked, but also
>>24922133what does a guy have to do to get a girl to look at him like this....
>>24922185weirdly cozy read
Females would you like your bf to take you spear fishing at a nice reef then make sushi from the fish you catch, served with real wasabi and crisp onions sauce?
>>24922239I'm glad you liked it even though I don't understand why
>>24922395>Sweaty hand holdingLewd! Based music choice too.
>>24922175At least you're not me>actually unnerved by submissive women>submissive women are >90% subs
>>24922403From The Beatles' filthy censorship protesting period, always gets me in the mood for hand crimes
>>24922400I don't like fishing and not the biggest fan of sushi, but sure.
femanons, if you don't share any hobbies with a guy, can you still be in a relationship with him?
How do you compare?
>>24922416Well I could take you bow hunting for rabbit and make a stew over an open fire if you would prefer.
>>24922423Or a rabbit ragout with fresh bush pasta.
>>24922421She looks like she’s kissing Michael Myers in the first one
>>24922425Hello, if you're a woman I would like to propose a union between our Houses.
>>24922438Don't be silly anon, there's no women on the internet!
>>24921957Physical touch is greatly underrated as a need for a lot of people. But some people don't work that way. Only you can know by exploring and putting yourself out there.>>24922042Then there isn't really a point if you won't commit to getting better.>>24922039Stop allowing her to pour her mental illness on you.>>24922133Cause we be drippin, while you guys have to hold it in.>>24922419Yes, but it won't be very fun.
What's the most effective way to quickly get rejected by a girl with the least adverse impact on her? I've seen her a couple times at a weekly event on my uni campus, but not this week, and I realized today that I can't take the psychological impact of not trying to approach her and talk to her or ask her for her number or something. But as far as I can realistically see happening the best possible scenario is her saying no but not being too creeped out by me trying to talk to her. I just want to be cleanly rejected by her so I can avoid her for the rest of the time I go to this uni and never have to engage in the fantasy that if I had talked to her there might have been an outcome where she returned by one-sided interest.
>>24922421Kiss: 16Virginity: 17Relationship: 16Life satisfaction: hasn't peaked yet, and I'm 29No marriage and no kids
>>24922421So far I'm 14 years above average on my first kiss, 12 years above average on losing my virginity, 11 years above average on my first relationship, I wasn't happy as a kid either so I guess my peak of satisfaction is still ahead of me.Sort of pathetic people lose their virginity 11 years before getting married though, makes me feel like I did the right thing with my life.
>>24922462Sounds scary anon, how did that go?
>>24922421not done anything
>>24922466It was a close call, but I’m still here.
>>24922421If first kiss implies first romantic kiss, then none of those. But if it's any kind of kiss, 16.
When i was in primary school, a girl was dared to kiss me. They literally held me down and her lips just barely touched mine for less than a second. Do i consider that my first kiss or not?
>>24922480I didn't ask you
>>24921879State genderWhat would you do if you had stairs for ears?
>>24922477No. Events against your will never steal your firsts.
>>24922490>I got raped so I'm still a virgin
>>24922485She's a freshman (I only know because they handed out free shit to the freshmen) so she's 18
>>24922489F. That'd certainly step up my enjoyment of music, at least.
>>24922419Yes, sure. It's no biggie to be honest.
>>24922490Yeah, nahIf a girl is vaginally raped she's not a virgin and no amount of cope will change thatNot my opinion, fact
>>24922494I don't consider my rapist to have taken my virginity. Nothing you say can change that.
Why do girls always close their eyes when you first enter them?
>>24922423Would love that. Rabbit is my favourite meat.
>>24922510They’re imagining Chad
>>24922510Same reason you closed your eyes when you got vaxxed, it hurts
>>24922510Focusing on the sensation, it's slightly painful, embarrassment, overload of emotions, the ceiling light is too bright, etc. Could be a lot of things.
>>24922421First kiss 14First relationship 14First sex 17No marriage and kids yet (28) but working on it.I'll let you know about life satisfaction. 23 was the worst year of my life tho.
>>24922450Just make an excuse to talk to her while on campus and get to know her, anon. It's real easy to talk to people on the first few days of college, everyone is super lost.
>>24922187MaleOf course I'd do it. Like anon said, I wouldn't do anything too fetishy out where kids can see it. But that's nothing.
>>24922533I don't know how to make up an excuse, I'm legitimately autistic...
>>24922419He doesn't have to share my main interest since it's pretty obscure (never met anyone who liked it) and some of the other things I like are pretty feminine, but he has to at least like vidya because come on, that's not asking much
>>24922552What if he no longer enjoys anything and just sits in his room waiting to die in his free time?
How should a guy dress casually? I have two modes: work clothes & tshirts n’ boots.
State gender.Would you take your spouse's last name when you get married
>>24922542The most basic one would be to introduce yourself and ask her what classes she's taking.
>>24922421I had an e-relationship when I was 15, that's as much as I can say since the most I've done in real life is play scrabble with a classmateMaybe it's because I'm a virgin but I can't be the only one who thinks it's fucked up to have kisses and sex before being in a relationship?
>>24922563Female. I don't feel strongly aboug it either way, if my husband really wanted me to I would, if it was a non issue for him I wouldn't mostly because changing papers is pain.
femanons what do you think about males that perform prostate stimulation?
>>24922563M, no, especially since I'm my paternal grandfather's only grandson, and thus the only one who could carry the name in the family (assuming sister won't keep her maiden name). But I also feel weird about my wife, whenever I get married, giving up her family name. It feels wrong. Not sure what I'll do about that, probably depends on her opinion on the matter.
>>24922566That seems really weird since she definitely saw me at the events the last two weeks. If I were her my first reaction would be thinking "What does this guy want, why is he suddenly trying to talk to me?"
>>24922557he better fkn enjoy me! And that means he should at least enjoy doing fun things with me.
>>24922419no, i feel like i need to have some common interests we can bond over
>>24922552Out of curiosity what is your main interest?
>>24922563F, I've always thought it was cool to take a spouse's name and I'd hate to not get to do that.
>>24922563F, yes please. I want out of this shitty family lineage.>>24922572Whatever gets you there. Just do it cleanly and safely and idc what you have to stick up there to get off.
>>24922578So you wouldn't think it was weird if your bf was obsessed with you and you were the only person he cared about?
I will give you all my last name, just please be in my London.
>>24922588Really? What do you think is cool about it? This is >>24922576 who is somewhat anxious about this topic.
>>24922577It's entirely normal to make conversations like that with strangers first few days of college. Just trying to make friends and shit.I had at least 30-35 people introduce themselves the first 3 weeks of college.
>>24922586I don't want to be too specific since I might be identifiable by it, sorry I'm just paranoid like that. It is a part of mathematics, specifically geometry. Imagine if I said I had a specific passion for the quadratic formula, it's like that where it's well-known but you don't usually see people who love it in particular; most people are just learning about it as a means to an end. I feel pretty meh about most other mathematics.
Females, would you continue spending time with a guy after he told you he has a rape trauma?
>>24922613Sure. I can empathize.
>>24922421>31>Closest thing to a kiss was forced on me by a sexual predator>Never had a relationship or sex>Fear I probably already passed peak of life satisfaction and it's only going downhill from thereIn good news, I do have my first real friends I got this year. Gotta start somewhere.
>>24922608That is definitely obscure, and I get the paranoia. If you do feel like sharing, I'd love to know what part of geometry and why you're passionate about it, but if paranoia wins all good.
>>24922607That doesn't make any sense though. If she's not an idiot it's an obvious logical question to wonder why I'm walking up to her when I blatantly ignore everyone. I don't want her to think I'm a stalker or something.
>>24922421Male, here>first kissI think I was like, 24 or some shit>losing virginity 24-25. [spoiler]Still haven't done had penetrative sex yet though.[/spoiler]>first relationshipStill hasn't happened. I'm 29>marriage>first childlol For clarification, I hope to accomplish both one day but that's just not an option right now.
>>24922589Wife material here
>>24922641To clarify the trauma isn't from him being raped. He's a rapist. A CHILD rapist.
>>24922593That's okay to an extent since I can kind of be like that, but I'd like someone who is able to be functional and pursue a career (so we can actually, y'know, live) as well as having his own personal interests so he can teach me new stuff and not just be a mirror of myself. But it's fine if he doesn't really have other friends or huge goals besides being happy together.>>24922599I just think it's sweet because it symbolizes joining with the person I love into one family, like it establishes us as part of the same unit. I also think it's cute when a wife introduces herself as "Mrs. Husband's Name" since it shows her love as a part of her identity but that's kind of outdated now, I totally get why people might not like that but for me personally I'd want to showcase my love as an important part of my life. I have a really generic last name so I guess I don't have much attachment to it. Also my parents have different surnames and I've noticed it causes confusion often.
Femanons, I am planning to get plastic surgery next month, would it be a dealbreaker for you to date a guy whose had plastic surgery?
>>24922563F. I already changed it to a generic one that wasn't my familys, so yes. I have 0 attachments to it. I'd never want a guy to change to my last name, and would rather pick a completely new one if he didn't want his, either.
>>24922615>>24922617>>24922641So it wouldn't scare you away or making you fear mental damages?Would the guy have to tell you the whole story or would it be enough to know it happened?
>>24922637Just don't judge what I stick in me and we're the best newlyweds possible.
>>24922653Depends on how bad. If it's like serious injuries or deformation then I understand, if it's like "my nose is a little crooked and it drives me mad" then it'd be a big turn off
>>24922660He doesn't have to tell me the whole story. Tmi unless he really feels the need to vent.
>>24922563M, no. I don't experience many fantasies about weddings or marriage but I do desire my wife to take my name and for our kids to have my name.
Both genders Ideas for a second date? Is lunch/dinner good? Or something else?
>>24922650Thanks for answering, I had a hard time believing any women would hold that perspective on surnames. I can also definitely imagine that parents having different surnames would cause confusion.
>>24922671H-How did you get a second date?
>>24922613I already know one I talk to on Discord that I met through a support group for something else. Raped by a female classmate during a university party some 10 years ago. He's married now, and his wife isn't too fond of me, so can't spend all that much more time with him than I already do, but I would if I could. He's a nice and gentle guy who has a keen eye for borders.I'm sorry that happened to you, anon.
>>24922673I ask a girl out for coffee, we do that enjoy our time together. Now I’m planning out a second date to see if she really is into me:
>>24922563F, yes I can’t wait
>>24922675>who has a keen eye for borders.not that anon but what do you mean by this?
>>24922683Casual dinner worked for me
>>24922653You’re gonna get bogged
>>24922665I wouldn't enjoy talking about it, I never told anyone about it and I probably continue to do so. I just was curious about what females would think.
Women: how do I stop fearing rejection, which just leads me to ironically getting rejected, creating a self-fulfilling prophecy?
>>24922696I don't talk about my trauma either. There's a time and place to address it so that it doesn't mess you up down the line. After that, it's just superfluous to bring it up.
>>24922563No, change your name to mine. We're not even getting married.
>>24922689He is ridiculously good at spotting when himself or someone else in his presence is overstepping boundaries either physically or in what they are saying. It's kinda ridiculous, honestly, because he seems to be so on point even in a group with a lot of people he only really know superficially, yet he seems to almost immediately catch when you start to feel uncomfortable by something. He acts a bit autistic, which makes it even weirder, because he really shouldn't be this good at pinpointing it. I'm not surprised he is married despite his trauma. Would likely have tried to go for him had he been single.
>>24922711would you be mad if i would never tell you , but then decide to do so after marriage!
>>24922572hot >>24922613of course>>24922653yes>>24922710Get over your fears.
>>24922727>Get over your fears.I'm not sure how.
>>24922727Hey you, I've seen you on these threads several times and I'm wondering, what rules do you break/intend to break, specifically?
>>24922730The rule of not being a toxic shitty person
>>24922725I'm not sure I understand. Like you're saying you'd change your mind and tell me after we were married? Doesn't seem like a big deal.
This might be a retarded question but how do I get a permanent link of a 4chan thread? It's not in any archives that I'm looking in and archive.org refuses to do 4chan. I know this sounds newfag as fuck, I've just never really figured it out.
>>24922747If it's only a year or two old, you could use archive.wakarimasen.moe
>>2492242131 and 0/6
>>24922664I have a recessed chin and I’m going to get a sliding genioplasty to have it moved forward
>>24922748>>24922750/adv/, it's in the board's archive list right now but not on any third party archives that I'm seeing. In the past I wondered if maybe it'd show up in a third party archive if it expired from the archive list but then I lost the thread forever, so I want to see what I can do while I still have access to it.
>>24922710Not a woman, but I have some advice:Try a version of reverse chaining.Assume that when you talk to a girl, it will go okay, she'll reject you, you'll take it as well you can, hold it together, say goodbye, and leave.Now, your goal is just saying goodbye and leaving. That's it. All the rest we won't worry about getting right now. Greeting, talk, rejection, and shrugging it off might not go well. It doesn't matter. All you need to do is pleasantly say goodbye and leave at the end.Once you're good at that, focus on shrugging off the rejection as smoothly as possible. Remember, a lot of these girls will have bfs so rejection might be quick.Once you're good at that, focus on making the rejection easier for her. Never reject yourself for her, but if she's struggling, focus on being relaxed and casual so she doesn't feel like she's crushing your spirit.Now that you're relaxed, casual, and know how to shrug off the rejection, work on talking to her a smoothly and for as long as possible before getting rejected, while still clearly communicating your interest. Get good at just talking to women before they reject you. Once you've mastered that, move on to approaching and greeting women everywhere. You don't greet every woman, but any woman. Greet them everywhere and work from there.Chances are, you won't get halfway through this process before you accidentally don't get rejected. Practice works. Reverse chaining works. Talking works.
>>24922421>kiss>losing virginity>before first relationship, let alone marriageWhat the hell is wrong with kids these days?Anyway>implying>implying>17>never>still got 7 years>still got 7 years>>24922563M. Absolutely not.>>24922671Go somewhere fun and not formal. >>249227474plebs, fireden, yuki.la, or the other ones for more degenerate boards.
>>24922766bro yuki.la died a long time ago
My autism is too strongThe next time I see the girl who I think is cute and don't even know her name I'm going to try to introduce myself to her but I have absolutely no idea what to do after that so I'll probably say "Hi I'm anon" and she might respond with her name and then I'll say "Sorry, bye" and walk away very quickly
>>24922767What? When? I didn't use it often, but I didn't hear that.
>>24922719Oh hey, miss...tress? I wanted to apologize to you. I believe I was mistaken earlier and I hadn't written anything for you. As an apology, would you permit me to draw a surprise for you instead? I can't get it started without your permission.
>>24922763>>24922747Install 4chan XLook in settingsLook at the archive options for a given boardDon't expect to find working pictures
>>24922667>One can do those things without intending to, it's not so black and white when it's based on perception.It's okay if they made a regrettable misunderstanding. They happen, I'm just trying to answer your questions as best as I can.>You want someone to spend time with you without taking into consideration how that might make them feel.What makes you think that? If they don't want to spend time with me, that's fine. Ideally we would both be comfortable with declining talking or activities or whatnot.>So you want to waste time with someone without taking into consideration their life and what they're going through? Not trying to put words in your mouth, just trying to understand you.No worries. And no, of course not.>You said you want them to be sincere? >They can do that without doing activities with you. You want a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner without the emotional attachment? Because I think what you're describing is that.Why is that?>You're being vague, I think.?>Not too many people have everything in common, do you mean you want to indulge in their interests as well? If so, what if you don't like it, will you force yourself to do something you don't like for as long as you're friends? Yes, that is not unknown to me. Unless it makes me uncomfortable somehow.>Compromise is a big part of a 'friendship'. But not compromising your character/who you are.Right. I'm still not sure why you're describing this situation as something more than friendship.>When do you know you're close enough? When I'm comfortable and they seem comfortable.>When you're in love with them? Do you fall in love with your friends? I'm sure I will love my friends, but I'd share what I'm comfortable with sharing at the right times.>Do you think you don't have to be in love with them to disclose the information? I can't comprehend this question. I didn't mean to imply we'd be in love at any point.
>>24922771I don't remember exactly, but months ago at least. desu I only know because it was a great website for /gif/ coomer material and there was a thread about it going down on that very day on /gif/. It was a sad day for coomers.
>>24922563>State gender.None>Would you take your spouse's last name when you get marriedShe doesn't have a canon name.
>>24922763I use 4plebs
>>24922787also what the hell, I typed in t-b-h and it got changed to "desu"???
Ladies, would you wear outfits if your bf asked?(like bunnygirl, maid, etc.)If yes, what would you have him do in return?
>>24922613>Females, would you continue spending time with a guy after he told you he has a rape trauma?Yeah, as long as he tries to manage it and doesn't just feel sad forever.
>>24922794Try typing sóy sauce.
>>24922787Thanks for the info, newfag.
>>24922795Yes yes yes. I love outfits. I’d have him wear ones in return.
>>24922800You expect him to type onions properly?
>>24922766>4plebsThanks I found it here. Not sure why it was absent from the other ones I checked, but oh well
>>24922563MaleVery likely no. If my brother already had kids with our name, and she was *really* attached to hers, then I'd consider it. But if it's for some political statement, I wouldn't budge.What I REALLY hate are hyphenated abominations.
there is no hope if you have autism and are a manjust diei'm done
>>24922786>“Queerplatonic relationships,” a term coined by the aromantic and asexual community, refers to close relationships that aren't necessarily romantic or sexual. They're closer than an average friendshiphttps://www.healthline.com/health/aromantic-asexual#no-relationshipsThanks, but I don't identify this way. I'm not aromantic nor asexual, and the topic is more towards friendships.>When do you know you're close enough? >When you're in love with them? Do you think you don't have to be in love with them to disclose the information? You JUST said you don't want 'romantic' intimacy. Please understand the words you use. Platonic intimacy doesn't need you to be close to someone.I want deep romantic intimacy when I'm looking for a monogamous, committed partner. Not necessarily a platonic friend. It also depends on the information.
>>24922794>>24922800Are there others besides s-oyjak -> basedjak? Been wondering
>>24922671>Both genders >Ideas for a second date?Sex
>>24922800I'm scared to, what does it do?onions sauce>>24922801You're very welcome, my singular aim in life is to forcefully educate people who have been here since 2003 of all the website's basic features.
>>24922814baka desu senpai
>>24922808Oh fuck, I'm the newfag now. onions
>>24922812>Queerplatonic relationships,” a term coined by the aromantic and asexual communityWhat a load of self-important shit.>>24922815Bonk
>>24922821Fuck me, they patched it.
>>24922815Sex is for the first dateActually you shouldn't even be going on dates, just fuck her and dump her
>>24922447>Physical touch is greatly underrated as a need for a lot of people.Not the anon you were replying to but I feel like a lot of normies are really dismissive of this. It really is a genuine need but they can't relate because they get physical touch and sex all the time, plus there's just a general disdain for people who can't get sex. >>24922764What if I end up actually really wanting her while I'm doing this?
>>24922802>>24922803Just out of curiosity, what kinda outfits even look good on guys?
>>24922827It's an onion patch.
>>24922835bunnygirl (male), maid, etc.
>>24921879Guys, what would make a girl interesting to you? Boring?Other than stuff like "hot body" "big titties" "she says she will marry me and have my babies" etc., I mean in terms of interests/conversation, like a casual chat. What would she talk about to maintain your attention? What would she bring up to lose it?
>>24922835SS uniform, maid outfit, gas mask, mad scientist, cosplay.
>>24922835>ywn have an SS and partisan roleplay
>>24922847the more boring a girl is the more interesting she is to mei just want someone with no real interests, someone who is just alive but not really living, someone who can barely stand living, i don't want her to talk about anything, i just want to sit there while we look at each other i want someone as boring and empty as i am
>>24922835The guy I have a crush on is pretty androgynous, he basically has the twink body type without being gay, so he'd look good in any of the same stuff as girls I guess, except maybe stuff that's meant to showcase boobies. Our friends like to joke that he passes better than someone we know who's actually trans.I wouldn't say the same about most men, dunno what outfits would suit them. Oh, I guess a suit? I like suits, seems like nice ones shouldn't be used during sex though
>>24922832>What if I end up actually really wanting her while I'm doing this?Ideally you should be doing this as soon as you find a girl you kinda like that is comfortable with you. Waiting until you develop very strong feelings for a girl and only then revealing your interest in her is backwards. Show your interest and then see if the mild interest leads to stronger interest as you get to know her. That's what dates are for. To get to know each other.And if you do really like her before you ask, all that changes is how disappointed you'll be. What else is there? Just because you *really* like her, it doesn't change your options and putting more pressure on yourself is the opposite of what this is for. Just talk to her, be casual, and ask her out as if she'll say yes but expect to get rejected.
>>24921879Girls in 3rd grade I got a gf who I got annoyed with really quickly (she kept wanting to larp some show called totally spies or w/e) and I broke up with her.About a week or so after I saw her across the room and she did a little heart emote with her hands and I did the same but I split it apart and she started cryingDid I cause her emotional trauma and she'll never forget or did she get over it in your opinion?
>>24922847I wish I had the experience to answer this question properly, but I think pretty much the same stuff that would be interesting to talk about with guys, except with more emotion/personal discussion. If we had just met, if she told me about a place I'd never been to, especially a foreign culture, I'd probably find that cool. If she shared an interest in psychology, history, space exploration, or the enormous potential of AI technology, we could probably have a fun conversation. I'm becoming less picky as I get out more though. I guess the main thing is just being able to hold a conversation in general, topics of mutual interest will be found if you're able to converse. If a girl with a pretty face held a conversation with me for some minutes and moved the topics to more personal/emotional stuff she could probably induce attraction in me. Not sure if you want that kind of info or just the casual conversation part so here's both.
>>24922847>Boringgoing out clubbing or doing dumb reckless shit >interesting Banter, sass, class, can hang out with each other without feeling the need to talk and just enjoy each others company
>>24922874I think about how I got rejected in kiddle school a lot, actually. But it was a much more embarrassing and public rejection. What you did doesn't seem too awful.
>>24922874>I'm dating a girl in 3rd gradeTake a seat
>>24922847don't think it's okay to take other peoples' things/money or kill unborn childrendon't want to fuck other peopledon't make my life a living hellliterally all I care about anymore
>>24922847Conversation is like a game of catch. A girl isn't boring if after I say something she picks up on something I said responds and says something else herself that I can respond to. So that it's a back and forth of each of us sharing interesting things.Boring girls respond by just shutting down the conversation with terse responses until I'm doing a one man show. (Shy girls are cute and get extended privileges)Also, girls who constantly funnel everything back to one subject like social media, or stuff like that, are also boring because they have a one track mind that goes nowhere I want to be.
>>24922563>state genderohio>would you take your spouse's last nameno they'd be sad and wonder where it went :/
>>24922563MI don't care about my dad's last name so I changed it and if her father only had daughters I would be cool taking her name to continue it if it matters to him
>>24922896>no they'd be sad and wonder where it went :/Okay, that was actually funny.
Do guys realize how common mask fetishes are among women?
>>24922896>would you take your spouse's last name>no they'd be sad and wonder where it went :/kek
>24922904I'm guessing more now that le china coof memeIt's common among men tooWear a ball masque and let me prod your vaginagenuinely
>>24922904Not unexperienced guy here.....no? What's this then? What kind of masks?
>>24922896why was this so fucking funny
aaaaaaah my BENIS! :(
>>24922915All sorts of partial or full face coverings. You’ll find a lot of women attracted to outfits with masks or characters who wear masks. I thought I was alone until I started talking about it with other femanons on /cgl/ and from there discovered it’s super common.
>>24922944>/cgl/which fashion? always wondered how many gulls posted here
>>24922835No clue how well body paint sticks if you get sweaty, but unironically had a run-in with a guy nearly topless (just straps) with green coloured skin, looking like a hulking orc. I'm not normally into overly bulky guys, but Holy shit
>>24922915Myers and Jason are the hottest fictional characters ever created.
>>24922954Longtime lolita admirer but never owned any myself. I have cosplayed though and use it for that as well. I just like jfashion and cosplay all around. I haven’t used /cgl/ in a while though, sadly. I miss being able to talk about lolcows.
>>24921969When she sings a song from radio in cutesy voice, and she cant sing for shit and it still melts you inside, then you have a crush
Lets say you just went back to study because semester begun, and you are kind of busy, and a guy wants to ask you out.He says "hey lets go somewhere, are you free on thursday?"She says she is busy but doesnt suggest another time, thats just rejection isnt it
>>24922970>Longtime lolita admirer but never owned any myselfSame here. I do some nanchatte seifuku but threads for that are pretty dead so I mostly view the archives, other than that I guess I usually wear stuff that's generally j-fashion inspired but doesn't really match a specific style. Normies seem to think it's pretty outlandish though, everyone associates my clothing style with "anime!" even though I'm not actually that into anime.
>>24922832>Not the anon you were replying to but I feel like a lot of normies are really dismissive of this.Yeah, and it leads some people to claim they don't need it, when they ABSOLUTELY do. I was the type of person who genuinely believed I didn't need it. I was wrong. I didn't notice it, suppressed it, whatever. But forget sex, even something as simple as holding hands or hugging was an absolutely stunning experience. I did not expect the reaction I had.
>>24921879M or FWhy do people trust pharmaceutical companies all the sudden as if 2 years ago people highly distrusted them and J N J was on trial for putting Asbestos in baby powder?
>>24923012Shut up nazi
>>24923012FI have trusted them for as long as I can remember, because the medication I have used for years have helped me tremendously to stop my mental illnesses and migraines from messing me up too hard. Besides, who else should you trust but the experts? Facebook nobodies who googled a bit and considers themselves experts? No offense, but anyone who trusts those anti-vaxxers are actually retarded.
>>24923004Kek same here. I try to keep it toned down, especially since I am a pretty big weeb. But man is it pretty. I can only admire from afar. Maybe in another life if I was a rich spinster, I’d spend all my money on Mary Magdalene.
>>24923023>F>I suck the government's dickNoted
>>24922972I'm happy to learn that people agree itt. Validates my tastes.
>considering seeing a prostitute to get rid of my virginity/hopefully improve my mood/insecurities >don't want to give up my values (sex should be specialI think it's too late for me to be normal/happy, I'm in my last year of college with little to no social skills/experience/etc. and I know life just gets 100x harder from here. Despite this I still want to know what it's like, and maybe it'll help me feel better about myself and give me a reason to care about myself/try to improve rather than languishing like I am/drifting closer to suicide. It still feels wrong though, I don't believe sex is something that should be thrown around haphazardly and I know I'm not capable of getting a girlfriend/casual sex. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
>>24923012i dont trust them but there is large societal and familial pressure to get vaxxed>tfw didnt want to take the vax but had to to attend college, and then i ended up quitting college within 2 weeks anyway
>>24923034you like facebook. how embarrassing
>>24922795Not a bf, but sure thingI would have her do the same
>>24923026Mary Magdalene stuff is gorgeous, if I had a wardrobe of it (and didn't have to throw a ton of money and effort into it) I'd totally wear it.With nanchatte it's kind of funny since people either say "it's like anime cosplay" or "it's like harry potter cosplay" or "it's like private schools" and you can tell a bit about THEIR level of weeb from their description. I don't consider it a costume, I just always liked that type of clothes and have tried to dress that way (with gradually increasing success) since I was like 9.
>>24923034What government? I get medical treatments that keep me alive, and they aren't made by any governments. Go back to Facebook.
>>24923047No, don't do it.
>>24923114Would it be a red flag if your bf wanted you to dress in a randoseru
>>24923034>Bringing up a government unrelated to pharmaceutical companiesWhy are you strawmanning?
>>24921879What did my gf mean during sex when she said (can't remember the exact words but the effect was):>go harder, I want it to hurt??
>>24923114It’s such a beautiful style, I can definitely see why. Prim and put together while still looking feminine and comfortable. It’s a nostalgic look for many. Who doesn’t love plaid pleated skirts?
>>24923012MI don't. A pharmetceutical company literally keeps me alive with their one of a kind drug and it takes about 11 seconds of research to discover they are literally the hollywood stereotype of the "evil pharma company doing bad things for profits". It's not even hidden, it's blatant.
>>24923146Exactly what she said
>>24923146go harder, I want it to hurt
>>24923157>>24923158But wouldn't that hurt her? I don't get it.
>>24923146Try punching her stomach
>>24923169All women are masochist
>>24923161thats what she wantswomen get off to men they are attracted to hurting them
To both: do you think it's acceptable for women to go topless at non-nude beaches? What about at public water parks?
>>24923172MaleNo.I hate bikinis enough already, the last thing we need is more immodesty.
>>24923122I think many westerners do not realize randoseru is for small children since I've seen weeby women wearing them. But no that's fine, as long as it doesn't also involve saying "larp as a preschooler during sex"
>>24923163>Try punching her stomachwonder where he got this idea from...
>>24923172Assuming you're in the US, isn't that illegal or something?
>>24923176I always find it a bit odd how men are so afraid of being exposed to "immodesty". You are, statistically, the horny gender, yet women have no problem lapping it up when you guys chill around topless on the beach.
>>24923172MNo and HELL NO to the second oneUnless we're on a secluded part of the beach and no one is around sure
>>24923170I won’t deny it
>>24923188because your breast are meant for your boyfriend to see, not every other guy, this is why no guy wants to date a slut, yeah fucking an easy woman is nice but I don't want a relationship with her
>>24923172mat beaches, sureat water parks might be impractical, like when riding a waterslide
Why am I told this is "sexy clothing"? I thought it made me look like a lazy grandma, I just wear it because it's super comfy.
>>24923194>because your chest is meant for your girlfriend to see, not every other girl
>>24923201Honestly, it might be because it looks so comfy/casual. Also it looks like it shows off your legs.
>>24923206I couldn't find a good picture, but the one I got covers me down below my knees. It's like wearing a super soft and warm tent, it's amazing. I wear long skirts normally, so that can't be the only reason.
>>24923212Then my main guess is that it's because it looks so casual and soft. I don't know why, but women wearing casual, comfy clothes can be sexy.
>>24923172here in europe there are tons of women sunbathing toplessdont see anything wrong with it
>>24923188I'm not afraid of it, I don't like it. >>24923194You mean husband. You complain about sluts and yet encourage exactly that kind of looseness.>>24923202Men and women aren't the same.Even leaving aside that women's breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic, women are much less visual than men and are way less likely to pay attention to the average guy wandering around topless.If a guy is purposely showing off and/or his wife is uncomfortable with it, then it's a reasonable restriction. But the false appeal to equality has nothing to do with it.
>>24923219Man, I need to invest in more clothes like this, then.
>>24923236kek, get some other opinions first but that might not be a bad idea.
>>24923230Yeah, this is basically par for the course going to the beach here. It's quite a cultural gap to see someone legitimately claim this is super weird.And I thought I was a massive prude.
>>24923234>You mean husbandyou mean I can't even look at her titties before I marry her?
>>24923064UnluckyGuess ill hit on this qt girl insteadIm tired of her playing games with me, guess she just wanted attention and validation
>>24923246you guys also haven't had any power in over 100 years, so I'd say your opinion means nothing, the world wars destroyed Europe's culture
>>24922795Im a guy but i would surely buy cute dresses and stuff for my girlfriend if i had one
>>24923234>women are much less visual than men and are way less likely to pay attention to the average guy wandering around topless.>less likely to pay attentionTell me you haven't talked to women without telling me you haven't talked to women. I know exactly 0 girls who don't check out guys when they are topless, and I'm as far from a "slut" as you could possibly get. Queen prude of the sexless kingdoms. And if I see a topless guy sweaty while working out or doing heavy manual labour, I stare. >If a guy is purposely showing off and/or his wife is uncomfortable with it, then it's a reasonable restriction. Most people don't think it is, and only really react to it if it OBVIOUSLY bothers someone.
>>24923246I wasn't aware that that was normal for euros, is it considered something that's "acceptably scandalous" or is it 100% normal and not seen as sexual at all?I personally think bikinis are weird and too revealing
So i sat with the blonde qt with braces during break, we ended up chatting all break long, she is very talkative and energetic, i think we vibe well She also was kind of "showing off" describing her self in good lightThats a good sign for me right?
>>24923276Lmao thisThe moment i wear shirt without sleeves and shoulders pop girls instantly go SHOULDAjust like guys go BOOBAwe really arent that differentLooks are important stop pretending its not true
>>24923251Correct. While it's not a sexual act, strictly speaking (and thus not in direct opposition to the ideal of monogamy in marriage), it is sexually charged, and it introduces temptation and uncertainty which make the important standard of monogamy harder to uphold. This is the same reason why living together before marriage isn't a good idea. People can theoretically do it without anything sexual. But it is that much harder (not to mention less believable to others) for them.On the list of 'offenses', seeing booba outside of marriage is pretty far down the list when compared to people who fuck on the nth date with a dozen partners and call it 'commitment', people who think that anal and oral "don't count", and so on. But it's still pushing boundaries for no cause other than to push them as far as one thinks they can go.
>>24923255Says the only country first wolrd country whose AAA credit rating got reduced to an AA because your country had a economical collapse, and can barely keep your people out of poverty. >the world wars destroyed Europe's cultureFrom the pictures I have seen of former generations of my own family, people sure seemed to not mind having photos of topless people on beach vacations from as early as 1900, too.
>>24923277Most people are very calm about it, and most barely seem to care if people look at them. You are on the beach, you are running around in underwear, all pretense of being "modest" has been thrown out of the window long ago.
>>24923310There's literally a TV show in the UK where people date based on how much they like the look of someone's genitals
>>24921879State genderImagine you knew someone and they established themselves as a real asshole, unhinged, untrustworthy, stuff of the like. You encounter this person a while later and they have gotten therapy and appear better.Would you be cool with hanging out and becoming friends or even partners, or would their past be grounds to disqualify this person forever?
Girls, I've rossed paths with this chick a couple of times and each time she notices me she's got a nervous expression while she runs her hand through her hair. Today she did the exact same but she had seen me before she walked by.I'd like to talk to her but I'm not sure if this is a good sign to approach?
>>24923276>Tell me you haven't talked to women without telling me you haven't talked to womenI don't talk to women about these topics, no, but I don't need to. You are less visual than men; that's why male coomers watch porn and female coomers gravitate towards erotica, even if there's overlap.Maybe I should have said "less" instead of "way less", but the point was twofold, and both were just meant to show that men and women aren't the same, so applying the same standard to men isn't automatically reasonable.
>>24923012There's a lot of propaganda out there, I know. But there's a difference between "don't trust 'em" and "expect 'em to be actively malicious".
>>24923313>genitalsWe aren't talking about people being nude you dunce, you are talking about people being topless, and your breasts aren't genitals.
>>24923289are you married?
>>24923347>But there's a difference between "don't trust 'em" and "expect 'em to be actively malicious"its a multi-billion dollar industry I would be shocked if they haven't merc'd someone for money
>>24923364so you are saying you have been unsuccessful when it comes to having a family?
>>24923370I think it's hilarious that americans believe in capitalism but don't trust big business
>>24923377Not American but I see no oxymoron there. You believe in the right to trade in your own best interest, in which case it's natural to be wary that others are trading in their own best interest, which may be at your expense.
>>24922563MYes, I fucking hate my last name. I don't even bother trying to pronounce it anymore I just spell it out.Since I don't see myself getting married anymore I could just get it legally changed.
>>24923340You misunderstand the visual aspect completely. No, we don't want to watch some cringe sex video where two genitals gets mashed together. That is a terrible visual, and not at all what I want to look at, because our genitals in general are just straight up not appealing. But grab literally any seedy romance novel targeting women, and I guarantee it has a stereotypical topless guy on the cover. Because that's a visual we connect to what we are reading, and it's the image that helps stimulate our fantasies. We ARE visual, but we just don't find the same visuals appealing. That's why the usual porn videos does very little to most women, while the more story focused ones do much better. See how popular erotic mangas (Not hentai) are among girls, because half of them barely show anything other than the top half of the characters going at it, and usually never show the genitals. Visuals matter to girls, just not your genitals.
>>24922972>>24922967Okay, I'm pretty sure you two are who I wrote this for. One definitely has seen it. The other I never got confirmation on, so here it is again. Sorry for the format.Please let me know if you like it, 2nd anon.
#469Today when I got to work people were fighting. I think they were actually just playing around, but in the nigger horde way. Get Josh to work! So I got to work. I helped, I went on checking people in and such. I was polite, I gave a couple with a kid a good deal. I psychically channeled my boss and only did what he would approve of, so I turned some white people down the same discount. It's lind of funny, I'm a white supremacist working for the evil nigger horde part time. One day they'll be dead, and I'll be happy. I've besn calling the whore my dad was talking about at Sushi Don's Sushi Don. She's now Sushi Don in my head, that's her name. I'm going to ask her out if I see her. I jerked off to chicks fucking dogs and took a shower when I got home. I killed flies all day at work and when I got out of the shower they must have spread the word because I got bombed by one right in the neck immediately. Do they think they can win? You will all lose, and me and Sushi Don will be the root of the Earth, NIGGER
>>24923385Yet we elected one of the biggest champions of all of that
>>24923396>still no text version for easy mobile viewingIf I can have one thing for Christmas, that's it.
Ladies, how would you prefer a man act in this situation (I know I fucked up and am a piece of shit and I want to make amends).>been talking to girl (girl A) for a few weeks>no date yet, just talking>one night go out as big group of friends>lightly finger her over her clothes under the table cos she’s into that stuff but nothing else>get very very drunk>leaving time>agree to walk one of her friends (girl B) home as it’s on my way home>girl B invites me in, and then invites me into bed>no sex but again light fingering/petting>next morning girl B asks me not to tell girl A as she knows it will upset her>feel absolutely awful and want to tell girl A>think she’ll find out eventually because girl B gets chatty when she drinks
>>24923396I think I was that second anon lol I was there when you were saying you were going to write it
>>24923402And? Why wouldn't you want capitalism? It's an imperfect system but it's better than systems others have tried because it accounts for a certain amount of natural corruption that occurs in a society that espouses self serving attitudes. Socialism doesn't work be because corruption topples the system. Monarchy doesn't work because corruption topples the system. Democracy doesn't work because selfishness topples the system, but at least we knew it was going to happen.
>>24923406I absolutely cannot empathize with either of those women who are cool with letting a "friend" get to second base so freely, especially in public. But any guy who's willing to kiss and tell without permission is an asshole.
>>24923333Could be shes intimidated by you, could be shes into you and nervous, say hi and smile with strong, but relaxedneye contact next time and see how she reacts
>>24922944>All sorts of partial or full face coverings. You’ll find a lot of women attracted to outfits with masks or characters who wear masks.Okay, I was aware of the masquerade attraction, but was never aware it was that popular.
>>24923172Welk, yes. Except I live in America: Home of the Sinful Nipple.
>>24923288Ok nice dubs i feel like making my move now.She likes fitness(i do too and she asked me about it) and eats a ton of food, admitted she loves eating. Should i suggest her hang out at gym and maybe grabbing food after
>>24923201Comfy clothes are my biggest fetish.
>>24923374In the narrowest sense, sure, but what's your point? I'm a 23-year-old graduate student. My 'unsuccessful' (vacuously true since I'm not looking) state is hardly as damning as people who now make 1/4 to 1/3 of kids grow up without an intact family, thanks in no small part to their own impulsive behavior.>>24923387I was talking about sexual visuals in particular. I wasn't meaning to imply that women are blind.
>>24923433I’m not a gym person so idk if gym people like to go to dates there or how one would hang out there, but you know better than I do. Going out to eat is kind of foolproof.
>>24923317MaleI believe in second chances. But it would take a whole lot of slowly accepting the new person. Partner? Probably not.
>>24923406did you kiss them or grope them or just fingered them?
>>24923452Girl A I just lightly fingered and she was touching my dick under the table. Girl B I think I kissed once and groped while we were in bed.
Both genders, what's the best way to approach an extreme mistrust of women? It comes from bad experiences, not a political thing.
>>24923317MaleLike the other anon, I'd be very cautious around the person no matter what, and friendship would be unlikely. Being partners? Almost certainly not. If we had been partners and we separated, then it's just an absolute no.
>>24923408Excellent!Delivery complete!That makes me very happy.>>24923403I'll work on that.
>>24923406Tell us chad your secretsAlso how did you know there was no problem for her when you grabbed her bu the pussy
>>24923463Why do you need to approach it? Only a fool would trust a female creature these days.
>>24923481I’m as far away from a Chad as you could imagine kek. She just kept putting her hand on my knee while we were at the bar so I did the same, and slowly moved my hand up her thigh. Wish I’d not done it now though.
>>24923406I regard this as not my problem.You sound like a drunk that doesn't control his emotions and I'll let you be someone else's problem.
>>24923403Christmas came early, and so will you:Pastebin.comUser name: OddbitPassword: Atogaread1031>>24923408Text version
>>24923463>what's the best way to approach an extreme mistrust of women?Accept that women are untrustworthy and take your chances anyway.Don't over-react to shit that's only in your imagination. Don't attach more emotions to females than you are willing to lose. Invest a little emotion but not too much, and if it doesn't work out, no big deal.
>>24923558I love you.
>>24923564You're very welcome.Enjoy your stocking stuffer.
A girl I had a thing with and still like said this in reply to me asking if she wanted to do something today, the day I get back into the country:>uuu welcome back! >You will probably be tired after travelling don't you think?>I am busy tomorrow but I reckon later this weekIt's over, isn't it
>>24915221Nobody made a request or suggestion, so I improvised.https://voca.ro/16o94QXeN4Ju
>>24923396ha thats good
My girlfriend is so loving and obsessed with me. She's so sweet and i know i can seriously hurt her. But i want to fuck her friend so bad.
>>24923652Well, stop wanting to fuck her friend.
>>24923641Glad you liked it.
Whats the best game to play to meet girls in?
>>24923444Some time ago i was dating a crossfit chick and she went with me there "so i could explain her stuff" and we ended up full time dating lol
>>24923678World of Warcraft
>>24923683somehow i have a hard time believing that one....
>>24923684Women drop their panties for ORC BVLLS
>>24923615Is it dead enough for drunk atoga singing yet? Can't sleep and there's no good questions.
>>24923591Yeah, if a female gives you any other answer than "yes" she's not worth pursuing further.
>>24923684I’ve know way too many couples who have met over that game
>>24919726>Any reading material to suggest?https://www.healthgrades.com/right-care/sexual-health/depression-and-low-sex-drive-new-treatments-for-womenhttps://www.blueheart.io/post/antidepressants-and-sex-drivehttps://www.verywellmind.com/help-for-women-with-low-sex-drive-2300705https://theislandnow.com/blog-112/best-libido-boosters-for-women/https://www.talkspace.com/blog/low-sex-drive-libido-relationship/
There’s been a mosquito in my room for 3 days and I’m actually going to go insane
>>24923684NtaBut i met a 33yo very autistic girl who looked 25 and had double D titsSomehow we were from same country within 50km of eachotherWe met couple of times and she knew im khhv but we never fuggedShe was probably down to byt i was too autistic to make a move baka
>>24923606D'you mind elaborating?
>have boyfriend >love him to death, more than anything in this world >gets anxious and feels a horrible feeling in my stomach whenever i talk to any other guy, like it's wrong and i simply don't want to-- not even as friendsis this codependent and bad? guys, would you be freaked out if your gf was like this?
>>24923740No. It's a good thing and means she's less likely to cheat if she's scared of other guys.
Is it weird to think that every pregnant women or mom has had sex?
>>24923713That anon is lying to you. I already answered your question. Pursue her any further and she will ghost you or just use you for attention.
>>24923757I mean, it's true. So no?When I get introduced to a friend's significant other, I immediately think of them fucking.
>>24923763That’s so lewd
How do men mark a woman as theirs before any sexual contact?
>>24923772Use their blood to paint this symbol on them.
>>24923769Is it? Seems innocent enough to me, just curiosity and imagination.
im a normal feminine woman but im bisexual I have penis envy. I’m attracted to very thicc feminine shaped women and im so jealous of men that get to fuck them. I can’t fuck them bc i dont have a dick and it makes me sad idkA strap isn’t comparableAm i crazy?
>>24923695I look like an orc thohttps://streamable.com/tmnh55
>>24923781NoI love thicc asses and i understand youMaybe you can convince some girlfriend to sit onnyour face
>>24923781You're why I'm wary about my bi friends sometimes.
alright men/bi or lesbian womenwhat is your definition of "thicc'chubby with breasts/ass or skinny with ass
>>24923804>chubby with breasts/assThis, go hard or go home>>24923803>being wary of people in general because of one degenerate anon
>>24923807It's not only that one anon. She just justifies my slight worry that already exists when bi friends get handsy.
>>24923772>ownershipNo thanks, too much responsibility>>24923757No, it's true>>24923740That's just retarded, men are half the population, you're not going to talk to them because you have a bf? Get a grip
>>24923804Skinny or slightly chubby with assets, wide hips, fat ass
>>24923803But I’m not creeping on women. Honestly I rarely see women I’m attracted to irl and it’s not like im being perverted or anything I don’t creep on any friends of mine>>24923804Skinny cannot be thicc. A skinny person with a butt can be called curvy. You need to be at least average weight to be thicc.
>>24923652>But i want to fuck her friend so badKill yourself nigger>>24923602Based
>>24923811>>24923807glad you both have a brain, fuck this "100 lbs my thicc kween xD" bullshit just because she has an ass
>>24923811>I don’t creep on any friends of mineEven if they're thicc and often physical with you?
Skinny can be thiccIts all in hip waist ratio you niggus
>>24923591Sorry anon, it never fucking began>>24923523You are a chad you stupid cunt>Wish I’d not done it now thoughYou reap what you sow nigger>>24923485Based>>24923317M, be friends with a fucking normalfag? No thanks>>24923313This country is fucking scum>>24923172>acceptableWho gives a flying fuck about that, just do it, they're not going to arrest you>>24923012M, government brainwashing over the past couple of years, the entire pandemic is an elaborate hoax
>>24923804Skinny with ass. Chubby is just chubby.Proper thicc is predominately muscle in the ass and upper thighs + favourable body shape to accentuate it.
>>24923825I see my friends as sisters desu and none are sexually attractive to me. I see that they’re pretty but no. I’ve also don’t do casual sex so even if I was a thirsty creeper, I don’t have sex when not in a relationship. >>24923833Waist to hip ratio = curvyBeing thick requires having some weight on you + being curvy, but not fat. It’s so weird seeing men call bony women thicc lmao.
>>24923813Drooling over anorexic girls with an ass inflated like a balloon is niggerlicious, modern culture is cascading to primate degeneracy and insta thots must be eviscerated. It's another government scheme to save money on clothing materials and natural crops
>>24923188Congrats you managed to make me stop thinking women should be able to go topless with one post after thinking it all my life. I'm almost speechless, I never thought anything could make me care, but your post did it. A few more posts like this and I will be advocating beach burkas.>>24923186Not unless there's a city ordinance or something, we actually still have cultural precepts separate from our laws>>24923246Calling someone a prude today is as meaningless as calling them a nazi or a racist. Just an overused old mothball devoid of its original impact and purpose.>>24923291Governments were never meant to manage their people's money for them, that's far too autocratic to ever be practical, and all of our current economic instability was the direct result of importing retarded German economic policies.
My boyfriend wants me to be more dominant in bed. He said that I'm too submissive, even if I'm technically the one in control and he's tied up. I'm kind of timid and also not really experienced with this as I've never dated anyone who was interested in more than vanilla sex. I just feel worried about hurting him or doing something he doesn't like. What do guys normally want if they want their partner to be more dominant in bed?
>>24923808>when bi friends get handsyWhen people get handsy in general they need to gtfoToo many people use the bi label as an excuse for being a coomer
>>24923402The thing is, when you live without constant fear, envy, hatred, and inferiority complex towards corporations, and basically consider them less of a threat than the more rich and powerful federal government, it's not that you want them to "screw over the little guy". It's that you would much rather they tax evade than be subject to "progressive" taxation, and then their executives be subject to the same all over again, so some retard "anarchists" can get free rides while contributing and producing nothing.The whole "capitalism is exploitation" mental illness and cope really just mucks things up and makes it much easier for corruption to occur because the standard "activist" is a retard who just yells "they're all the same they don't care about us why won't they wipe my ass with their money" so no attention is ever widely broadcast or disseminated about actual corruption unless it happens to catch on as a "this is why people shouldn't be allowed to have money :(" thing.It's the slow death of culture, and you're still crying about muh big business not pay tax. Introduce a reasonable tax code, and we'll start caring. Until then, I applaud everyone rich or poor for tax evading, though I will not myself.
>>24923890You have to ask him about it. Every guy wants something different.
>>24923803I'm wary of girls like that, because I've been sexually assaulted by one. It's terrible, and I had trust issues for years around women showing the slightest bit of interest in other girls, even if they were actually completely straight.
>>24923710Fucking kill it>>24923678Animal CrossingNon-autistic girls all play the same games>>24923455>I just lightly fingered and she was touching my dick under the tableYou people are degenerate, if I was in that group of friends I'd pour hot coffee on your dick>>24923432Americans are the biggest hypocrites on the planet, they gasp at any nudity in media but whore themselves out the most IRL>>24922563M, I'd unironically kill myself before getting married>>24922675>Raped by a female classmate during a university party some 10 years ago.Is she not behind bars? He should go and kill her
>>24923885>our current economic instability was the direct result of importing retarded German economic policies.Yet Germany remains extremely stable, so clearly you just have no idea how to manage money. Which is pretty evident when you look at the private sector, where you pay 200 times the amount that any other first world country does for their healthcare services.
>>24922874>she kept wanting to larp some show called totally spies or w/e) and I broke up with herTotally Spies is based, that could've been your childhood sweetheart and you ruined it by not being a /co/fag, kill yourself
>>24923902>Is she not behind bars?6 months, reduced to 3 as per our usual half-time-for-good-behavior prison sentences (Which almost always happens, even with people who murder multiple people in cold blood on the open street), and a restraining order that never expires. >He should go and kill herI will refrain from giving my longwinded and psychotic take on this, but I agree.
>>24923904Germany remains "stable" in that workers are far poorer than people on government dole and can't afford to buy nice things and pay like half their fucking income, you actual ignorant bitch. Fuck you for ever suggesting my country doesn't absolutely screw over its workers in the name of "representing their interests" and then call anyone who notices a nazi.
>>24923396If this is you then it's good to see you.
>>24923904I don't care what other "first world" countries are doing, and I am not interested in socialized healthcare. Braindead ad nauseum peer pressure will not change this. You badly need to stop seething and move to one of these other countries that already embraces your generational brainwashing rather than forcing your bullshit down other people's throats.
>>249239113 months for rape, what a fucking joke. I hope her life is hell
>>24923890Ask him and watch some femdom videos>>24923333Quads died for this repeat braindead question
>>24923047>I know life just gets 100x harder from hereWhy do normalfags say this? If you just want to get your dick wet crazy college liberals aren't the way to go, hook up with a wagie from an app or party or something
>>24923923Unfortunately the norm here unless a minor was involved. We have a retarded mentality that it's "better to forgive and forget than punish", and too many people got brainwashed hard by that idea.
>>24923890Be feral and greedy. I act like a crazy person during sex desu. I’m shy too but you just have to let gooo…
>>24923933I don't think it's normalfags saying life gets harder
>>24922847Literally just don't be a basic bitch and you are already more interesting than 95% of women
>>24922812>Queerplatonic relationshipsSo just friendships? What an absolute meme. The LGBT community has become a laughing stock
>>249227474plebs permalinks>>24922673He was a normalfag
I’m making roasted butternut mac and cheese. What meat should I pair with it? I have shrimp, salmon and chicken thighs… maybe breasts, I have to check the freezer
>>24923938Nah it's always normalfags saying like "omg it's so easy to meet people in college and at work, you gotta make good social networks and stay in touch with people bro cause people settle down!!11", meanwhile the broken people just meet at bars and online and whatever
>>24923979>immediately assumes that it's about social circles and not life in general getting harder after collegealso>meanwhile the broken people just meet at bars and online and whatever>implying people with no social skills are capable of even this
>>24923987>life in general getting harder after collegeThat also applies to normalfags because they do well in the education system, and then have careers and growing family responsibilities etc. Autists and losers find school and being surrounded by young peers hell>implying people with no social skills are capable of even thisThere are people worse on the totem pole sure, but we're chatting online right now, and a lot of people are capable of going out, knocking back a few drinks and having a dumb conversation with someone. The bar is much higher for "good" people to give you the time of day via traditional circles
>>24923993>That also applies to normalfags because they do well in the education system, and then have careers and growing family responsibilities etc. Autists and losers find school and being surrounded by young peers hellWe seem to be looking at this from different lenses. Yeah, being around people my age sucks. I don't understand them, I can't socialize with them, and school in general is still boring. But I have a lovely place to live, I have a cafeteria always filled with food, little to no responsibility beyond studying, and everything is within a 5 minute walk. What do I have after all of this is over? Working 40 hours a week, going back to some shitty apartment, having all responsibility for everything I have/am, and trying to save up enough money to maybe have a comfy life? All while being crushed by crippling debt due to loans? I think "life gets worse after college" goes beyond normie. >but we're chatting online right nowI mean, technically? Feels like a pretty shit example.>and a lot of people are capable of going out, knocking back a few drinks and having a dumb conversation with someoneWhich I'm not. Tried, didn't work out. Too retarded. I really don't know what your point is.
>>24924019>I have a lovely place to live, I have a cafeteria always filled with food, little to no responsibility beyond studying, and everything is within a 5 minute walk.You got lucky; tons of people live in shitholes they can barely afford, have to work on the side, commute long distances and juggle other responsibilitiesMy point was that "meeting people is so much harder after college" is normalfag dogma
>>24924019I will admit burgerland seems shitter in some respects though, having actual student debt and having to work 5 days a week just to pay the bills
>>24921879Kek, I've already basically used this place as my journal. Suicidal ideation ad infitum.
>>24924033>You got lucky; tons of people live in shitholes they can barely afford, have to work on the side, commute long distances and juggle other responsibilitiesWhich just reinforces my point of "life gets harder after college"?>My point was that "meeting people is so much harder after college" is normalfag dogmaWhich wasn't the original point?>>24923047>life just gets 100x harder from hereLife. Not socializing, not talking with people, not even fucking. life gets harder. Living gets harder. You even quoted this directly. >>24923933>>I know life just gets 100x harder from hereI know reading comprehension isn't a strong point for most people, but god damn.
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>>24924045>Which just reinforces my pointNah, a lot of people struggle to make ends meet in college because you're paying for school, not getting paid. In burgerland it seems cushy if you have nice parents or financial aid, else hell>Which wasn't the original point?I said *my* point faggot (but then I talked in general)>life just gets 100x harder from hereYes, I refuted that too, the only way it might otherwise get "harder" is FOMO if you want things other people are achieving, else there is nothing more difficult about mindlessly wageslaving and doing whatever you want with your time (which you can do if you have no social connections)
Hello world of anons. What is your opinion of skinny girls dating chubby boys? What do you think when you see a couple like that on the street?
>>24924076I think good for him and he must have a great personality
>>24924076I assume he's probably funny and charming, that she likes chubby guys, that he got chubby after they got together, and I think those things in roughly that order.
>>24924076Same thing I think when I see any happy couple: I remember how happy I was with my ex, feel sad and wish I were dead.
>>24922729exposure therapy>>24922776Alright, draw me a surprise.>>24922795Make my cosplays and then I'll dress up.>>24922832When I establish my indinan style colony, My hut will be the biggest for cuddles. I will be chieftess cuddle slut.>>24923047Yes please use an escort before you hurt someone you like.>>24923172American men are closer to toddlers about boobs, so no.>>24923463Accept that every human is different. Those bad women were just bad women. And the future bad women will still just be singular individuals.>>24923772Doing that is actually retarded among male friend groups. Let them all fight for me to the death.
26M here, asking both genders.If I meet a girl briefly during some social meeting and have fun - how do I take it from that to dating? Do I just add her on instagram and tell her I had a good time?Im asking because telling her shes fun to talk to after talking to her for 10 minutes is cool and all but asking her on a date seems extremely awkward especially because both our friends are there with us.
>>24924126>please use an escort before you hurt someone you likeYou should do the same instead of pegging twinks you dumb bitch
>>24924162wear something comfortable that looks nice. no need to dress like youre going to a bar.you might want to wear something thats easy to undress as we all know whats gonna happen
>>24923713People are capable of actually being busy and I've known others who expect travel to wear you out. Sometimes "maybe later this week" means exactly that and not "no".If that's always her answer, it is over.
>>24923740>is this codependent and bad?Definitely>guys, would you be freaked out if your gf was like this?A little. I don't want you to feel bad innocently talking to strangers. I would want to help you be more reassured that I trust you and maybe see a therapist. But I would be flattered and wouldn't run.
>>24923772Before *any* sexual contact? Position in the room. You can't get to her except past me.
>>24923602Ew>>24922554Good luck out there, anon.>>24922470You will be missed.>>24922462Ugh same>>24922425In the end it doesn't even matter.>>24922395You're a woman.>>24922234Romantic.>>24922215Suspicious.>>24922185You need a wife.>>24922153Kawaii font selection>>24922132Shut up>>24922112Shut up uwu>>24922106Go on
>chatting with this blonde qt during break>We spent entire 15min talking>At the end she says something that she is easily recognized as polish (in germany) and joke "everyone knows polish girls are the cutest right"I didnt know how to respond to that, yeah shes cute af despite wearing braces, but was that a self roast, her boasting or whatI need to ask her outI like her smile
>>24924222you couldve said "actually yeah youre so cute that i would like to have coffee with you" or something along those linesnext time you talk to her, ask her out, dont wait.
>>24923781>Am i crazy?No.You know who you are. You what you want. You know some of it isn't possible. You know that doesn't feel great and that frustration fuels other emotions. That is not unhealthy.I'm a straight man and I am envious of an number of aspects of being a woman, especially the ability to increase your sexiness. I can think of 1001 ways a woman "be sexier". Men can play with small cute creatures and maybe stretch. If crossdressing turned all women on, I could do it in a second and be sexy or slutty but being "fashionable" for men doesn't mean sexy.
>>24923804>chubby with THIGHS/assThicc needs thighs and breasts are irrelevant.Breasts and skinny girls with asses are lovely, they just aren't thicc.
>>24923811>it’s not like im being perverted or anything>I don’t creep on any friends of mineStop ruining my fantasies by being decent.
>>24924222Polish are biggest sluts
>>24924076MaleThat she must love hugging and cuddling him
>>24924269>>24924228she called me "Big guy" last time, took everything i had in me to not reply "4u"
Hey people, what's eyefucking?
>>24924295LOLThat sounds really awkward in every direction.
>>24924033i think the point is meeting people isn't hard, but more than likely they most likely have never went or had less education than you have, even today there's still a bit of class associated with the college you go to. you go from easily being able to meet people in your field to a lot of welders and stuff that are still trying to figure out their life
>>24924298Leering or staring at in wanton desire. Like guys at a strip club, only in everyday life.
>>24924365>welders and stuff that are still trying to figure out their lifewtf welding is a good profession
sleepproblem anon here, today I drank just one coffee again at work and none at home. Ig my sleep was a little better than avg yesterday. I even allowed myself 6.5h this time. I constantly feel quite exhausted though, maybe thats a withdrawal symptom