I’m trying to avoid watching porn and jacking off and I always end up furiously jacking it a couple days later out of sheer frustration. I used to be able to go once a week and be fine, then became an everyday thing, it ridiculous how hard is it to stop jacking off/watching porn as much. Even with talking with girls all that’s at the front of my brain is eventually fucking her and just trying to get through the conversation and whatnot to have sex.
>>24355152Something I just started doing. I only let myself jack off without porn. I don't seem to feel as tempted, but I also don't get so horny that it becomes distracting. Give it a shot.
>>24355400I’m trying to avoid jacking off entirely for a period of time and I feel like I’m white knuckling it rn. Why does this gotta be so hard.
>>24355400This is good. It feels more natural, rather than being like a junkie desperately trying to get their next fix. I no porn jack off before bed as stress relief/sleep aid and that's enough. If porn is introduced I can lose an entire afternoon in a marathon, lol. Just keep going back to it over and over.I would also suggest fulfilling hobbies that keep you busy, and also getting out of the house as much as you can/not spending too much time bored and alone.
>>24355518Because you in2wolff'slaw too much bro.The more u use it, the more it grows leaning to that certain pressure.If you starve it, it shrinks. Don't get fucking distracted.
>>24355152>>24355400This. I mean every once in a while like every few weeks I'll have a cheeky look at what's on the front page of a porn site, see what all the cool kids are into but other than that I'm only jerking off once every three days probably.Long gone are the days of just jacking it for hours multiple times a day. Really it's just being bored at a computer.Go coom on some 7/10's fat tits instead.
>>24355551About that last statement, talking a girl and I’ve set up a coffee date for next week and all I can think about is the endgame of fucking her. Really trying my hardest to distract myself rn.
>>24355569>Really trying my hardest to distract myself rn.go play some video games or something, like I said just idling at a computer especially on 4chan that's how you end up accidentally cooming to some porn
>>24355152I can't stop cooming to attractive women in sandals/heels, wat do?
>>24355152>How do I stop having coombrain?You can't.The way you control your impulses is that - you control your impulses. You choose to stop getting horny by dumb shit. It's not a How question. If you can't do it, you can't do it.
>>24355152The easiest way to stop watching porn is just not to watch it. Break this cycle of pmo. Remember that porn doesn't fill the void, it creates one.
why do I never feel the guilt? I feel energised after a good wan, I feel slowed down when I have lizard brain horny
Don't think "I am trying to stop", think "I have stopped" and actually stop.
>>24355152I jack off 5 times a day or more. But I never watch porn. It doesn't seem to cause any issues. I think the issue is when people watch porn.
>>24355152https://easypeasymethod.org/I read it and I can't even get hard to porn anymore.